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  • Very true. A lot of black women are non co-operative and can be very selfish and disrespectful. Especially the ones who believe that they are financially independent - until reality hit them. If other women from other races or nationality want to work together with their man and build a future together then why wait on a black woman? There are some good black woman out there but in the minority..Sad...

  • I'm a second year college student and I see the same shit at school. All the black dudes say the same thing. We're not pretty enough. We talk too much. We do this and that. That's fine. I'm 20 and I don't see myself waiting around for some IBM. It's not realistic. There's plenty of other men that would be willing to date me and a lot of other black girls. Open yourself up ladies. No one wants to hear what they're NOT all the time. Find someone that will make you feel special (of any color).

  • @kamiiya92 Girl to be honest with you it's not even worth it being in a relationship these days with any man because i guarentee that relationship will not surpass 2 years. It won't last. Take a look at the marrigae rate it's taking a nose dive. You are better off getting your degree making your money and doing you because these men are just going to break your heart in the long run. I'm telling you from experience. And these are college educated men I'm talking about!

  • @EricaKane2013 It's obvious that you've been looking in the wrong places for a good Brotha. Me and my girl(Black queen) have been together for 7 years now. I provide for her and educate her on history, science, politics, dietary laws and how to conduct herself like a woman. if you sistas want to keep a good man, learn how to submit to your men, like the women from other nationalities do. get rid of that (stink) attitude and shut that big mouth then you'll be able to keep a man.

  • @EricaKane2013 You are emotionally unavailable, because you are carrying a lot of emotional baggage from past relationships and taking it out on the next man. You more than likely made poor choices in men, and by reading your comments, you are on this independent i don't need a man bullshit, rebelling against your role as a woman. You probably ran good men off because of your negative attitude, your emotional baggage, and your refusal to play your role as a woman. You will be single forever.

  • @4life1deep emotionally unavailable,independent i don't need a man bullshit,negative attitude,refusal to play role as a woman...You must know my girl cuz you just described her 100% accurate..

  • @RICOG71 Damn bro, i think you need to dump your girl and find someone else that have her mind right LOL.

  • Well, I'm so sick of this debate. It's all over youtube and its just getting old. I'd rather date a white boy.

  • @timamerica1000 I would say the SAME about black men. Hmm.

  • They should have articulate blackmen like you on CNN so brothers like the rest of us voice can be heard in mainstream media.

  • There is this sermon by T.D. Jakes that I think ALL Black Women need to watch, hell ALL women period. It shook me to my core... it's basically about raising your children/children (esp boys) and being in relationships. I know when I'm ready to have kids or get into a relationship, I'll be listening to that sermon over and over again. The title of the sermon is called "C Your Way Clear" - I love all his sermons... he's changed my life in just a few weeks.

  • These sistas know a good brotha when they see one, they just don't want a good man now. They put the good man on the back shelves and come back to them in their late 20s and early 30s with multiple kids she had out of wedlock and alot emotional baggage she had accumulated messing with the losers she was with in her early 20s. That plan fails all the time,no man will not deal with that. Now don't get mad at this if you don't do these things, and don't defend the black women that do these things.

  • @4life1deep so true man.Why cant black woman see that?

  • @robertjosephgreen They do, they just don't want to admit its their fault. A lot of black women know deep down inside that they missed out on opportunities to get with a good brotha. Too many of them was fooling around fucking with the thugs and players, and having kids out of wedlock by irresponsible men, too many of the sleeping around with different men in their early 20s. Too many of them are picky and on this independent BS.They will always blame black men instead of looking at theirselves.

  • @4life1deep Yeah and when they are in their 30s and have multiple kids,are lonely,and used up with diseases they want a good brother.By then the black men have sexy foreign woman and reject them.I just laugh and hope no desperate man ever falls for her.

  • The problem is alot black women want a good black man when its too late. After whoring out in their 20s laying up with different men,or having kids out of wedlock by the thugs,drugdealers, jailbirds,and the lazy bums thats when they want a good man. Black women feel like they can come back to the good brothas in any kind of condition and expect us to accept their baggage and wife them up.No man will not accept a woman that have multiple kids out of wedlock or some woman with a promiscuous past.

  • @VintageLove1100 I never said or indicated that they were relegated to a specific group. Most of the sistas have some real psychological issues that they need to deal with. Why is it that when a Brother gives a BW the greeting of the day, she rolls her eyes, suck her teeth and transform into an angry pit bull? but when a white man does it, she becomes happy and animated. The BW's disrespect for the BM is a direct cause of the destruction of the Black family. check it out!!!

  • nothing more unattractive then a black man who doesnt like his own mother. Coming from a white women.

  • Women from foreign countries have nothing good to say about Black women. They say that you sistas are loud and disrespectful towards your men and that your attitude stinks. I've dated a few of them who just stepped foot on american soil. their comments were based on their up close and personal observation of BW. I've been with my wife(a sista) for quite some time now, shes fine ass hell, submissive and doesn't talk back.

  • If you're a BM just go to jail for 4 years instead of college. You will have more BW then you know what to do with. BW love hard luck stories. they go for the under dog BM over the BM with his life together. BW pick men, like teenages pick food. Black females go for the junk food type of men, and when get they sick they complain.

    BM did not start behaving violently to impress black women. But if more BW denounced those men who behave like that, the violence would slowly evaporate. JMO

  • HOW CAN SOMEONE SO CLUELESS MAKE OUT HE KNOWS ANYTHING ABOUT US? THEY ARE INADEQUATE AND HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA...ALTHOUGH THEY LIKE TO THINK THEY DO...

  • LOL DURING THE LONDON RIOTS ONE OF THE MEN ARRESTED WAS BLACK AND A TEACHER...KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING, DON'T BE DUPED OR DECEIVED SISTERS...JUST DO YOUR THING...ELSEWHERE.

  • MOST BM ARE TOO INSECURE HENCE THE REASON WHY THEY CAN'T HANDLE A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN....THEY WOULD LOVE TO BELIEVE WE ARE SINGLE BECAUSE WE HAVE TO BE...WE ARE SINGLE BECAUSE OF PRESSURE FROM THEM. TRUST ME, YOU WON'T HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THIS MESS DATING OTHER RACES. HE IS RIGHT WE ARE MAKING BAD CHOICES THE BM.

  • @happier2012 Sometimes I think the insecurity of black men come from a lack of having a male role model in their life. Men are just as vulnerable as women, if anything they're more vulnerable. Most of the men in jail, regardless of race, grew up in broken homes, parents strung out on drugs, single mother homes.

  • @happier2012 cont'd - and didn't get the love and attention they deserved when they were younger so they often lash out and tend find comfort or a sense of family with the wrong crowd and connection with the wrong crowd is better than no connection at all. I put some of the blame on BW too, BW need to stop having babies out of wedlock and wait until marriage to have kids. Asian women do it, Indian women do it, and for the most part, most white women do it too, no kids until he put a ring on it..

  • BOBBY BROWN & CHRIS BROWN...NEED I SAY MORE. STAY SINGLE UNTIL YOU FIND WHAT YOU DESERVE SISTERS...DON'T LISTEN TO THIS TWAT! THE BLACK MANS EGO IS OUT OF CONTROL AND HUGE...LOOK ELSEWHERE AND QUICK!!

  • True they like a certain look of guy or think that certain brothers are players. When truth is most cats are single.

  • why ppl keep saying black women are single there are alot of women single periiod and the divorce rate has risen ppl these days ppl dnt want to get married so that makes alot of ppl single but black men and women do marry and stay married

  • I'm an educated black man with two degrees. Completely feeling you. The media does not give us brothas a good media outlet. I agree I dont even tolarate black women in the U.S. I've started expanding my horizons over seas. black women overseas gives a whole other vibe.

  • Black men got no time to wait on these stuck up Black Women. Hey I got this erection now. I need a woman NOW ! I will go out and get a woman regardless of her skin color...Period ! Ok years later I see youre still single...Ok my light skinned son will be 17 soon. His potential wife is probably only 9 years now....So you can Teach him tricks in bed till he's ready to get a young thang !..Me and him had that talk...kept it real Like father..like son. We will get ours.

  • Why the music?

  • I am not black but throwing race aside for a moment I will say that no man regardless of race wants to marry and live with a woman who is loud, nasty, aggressive and always on his case the way so many black women seem to be. I have been witness to the nasty behavior of black women. On my job as a repairman I have gone into many homes of black families and seen the wife screaming and hollering at her husband the whole time I am working there. Now who wants to live with that ? Think about it.

  • I know way too many black women who date down both professional and unprofessional. It's to the point of lunacy if you ask me. Also I know too many guys who date up on looks but down on self esteem. They talk badly about a "chicken head" as a reason for why they won't marry her but they sleep with her none the less. Cheap and crappy all around.

  • 'Tooken??"

  • @guysparks He's a teacher at that.

  • The other thing is the higher your financial status the less you see blacks. I know there are some blacks who know that alot of times when a black lands a good job or starts getting paid we do not see alot of us there in those positions and sisters have to be realistic. I do not mean settle for anything but realize we are usually out numbered in those good jobs when we do land them. Blacks need to emphasize education too in their families.

  • black man wakeup! media instigating hatred between us. The Willie lynch manual is still being used in this nation. the Music industry (rap) and movies have and still are working hard to promote disrepect for your mothers, your sisters,your children; present and yet to be born. the government police departments, rich businessmen are dropping crack in our communities to destroy what love we have for each other. Family was our only support. the black woman is now under attack.

  • Once you cite something you hear or see on television as your basis of knowledge on how a certain group of people think or act, or what they believe, then your entire argument is invalid. You say reason number 2 black women are single is because of the way black men are getting dogged in the media and assume that's how all black women feel and think. There was no caucus to send those black women you saw on television to represent all of us. Media should NEVER influence your perception, real takk

  • @mesocookie media shouldnt influence your perception, it takes a critical thinker to relize that but the majority of people in America believe what they see on tv as the truth. People who see threw the media bs represent a very very very small percentage of the population.

  • @MegaSlaze Lmao so right.

  • @javante2010 Oh plus nice guys finish last.

  • @javante2010 Nice guys don't finish last they get pick last and finish first. Its a difference between nice guys. Its 2 types. U have ur punks and u have ur guy who is nice and have an aggressive side when it is needed. I'ma nice guy but when it time to protect my family or laying the pipe to my girl, I'm not nice, I got hard in the paint.

  • @voneinemkindgefict Not all black men are in jail. Psssh I'm not.

  • Black women want that thug, That gangsta, The jail bird. They never want a guy like me a guy know what he wants in life a guy that goose and explore the world. And plus Black women don't like cause who Im different nice classy a gentleman. :)

  • @javante2010 Women in general, don't want what they say they want. "Where the nice guys?" Um, OVER HERE BLIND BITCH.

  • Black women are single cuz black men are in jail. Fact, question of economics. Thats why black men can use them like whores. Less black men to go around. They don't need to commit to black women, they can fuck a group of them and make mulattoes on the weekends with cornfed white girls.

  • Men: Stop gaming women. Be real. Get to know them. If yall are going to be just fuckin, THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT, then they can make the decision to accept that or leave ya ass alone because they found someone who want to be they man. Women: Like I said previously, STOP FALLING FOR MEN YOU KNOW DONT LOVE U. Yall love the guy who just wan'ts to fuck, constantly. Yall lead on the men that are interested in you for real and try to use them. Hindsight is 20/20. The dude that was up ya ass got a beyonce

  • Women don't meet these men on grounds of pure interest and respect. Nobody takes their time to get to know each other anymore. Everyone fucks and expects that to be enough to say they are in a relationship.ALOT of Black men and women are materialistic, shallow, selfish fucks, and both of the sexes need to look at each other.Men: If you don't want a committed relationship, make sure the gurl/gurls your dealing with know that. Women:Stop falling in love with men that don't love u, get what u give

  • Black women don't look in the right places. Ask a where she met her boyfriend: shes not going to say the library, shes not going to say church/masjid/temple etc. shes not going to say "He came up real respectful and just was being himself", but what USUALLY happens is any nigga thats fly, that they find attractive sweeps them from the rip, and they fall in love with a fling. Everybody is sexually minded first. Not good grounds for a long term relationship. Looking for one at the club/bar sux too

  • Never co-sign with a woman, educate other men about Tom Leykis, women will change after marriage/no marriage, avoid long distance relationships, avoid high drama miss piggy types, avoid single women with kids at home/it's a package deal, never date or marry an illegal immigrant/google marriage fraud, pass the check & use coupons when eating out, use condoms always/no kids, never lend money to women, google Buster B don't get married, no dinner & movies for first time meet up/only bookstores.

  • @nevercosigndude Tom Leykis is the truth. Men will survive in relationships a lot longer by following the advice of such wise men. Advice from women will get you in big trouble because many of them want to design a man like a "girlfriend" or something. Fuck that. Be your own man. Stand on your own two. If she decides to leave, help her pack. A man's first commitment is his personal mission. He must reach his own potential, first. If a man knows himself, the woman will follow. Tom Leykis knows.

  • what i have found out in recent years is that black girls dont really pay attention or even want us black guys that actually want long term relationships until we are taken by girls of other races. anyways i wish my sisters luck on the decisions they make.

  • With all due respect, this brother doing this commentary, has little knowledge on how attraction works for women. money + looks + smooth talk game = attractiveness to all races of women

  • If you have 3 or more children by 3 or more baby daddies ur a garbage chick . Thats why your single.

  • "The Most dangerous situation for a woman is not an unknown man in the street, or even the enemy in wartime. but a husband or love in the isolation of their own home" (Gloria Steinem. Revolution From Within p261) Keep in mind folks this lady is the founder of feminism

  • "most of our social pathologies--crime,imprisonmen­­t,wefare,educational underachievement,alcohol and drur abuse,suicide,depression,sexua­­lly transmitted diseases--are manifestations,direct and indirect of the crack up of the modern american family"(William Bennett "The Braken Hearth" p.4)

  • Gods Creative Force enters humanity through a mans love for his wife and desire to raise his family in a secure and wholesome environment. It is reciprocated by a woman receiving her husband's seed(which symbolizes his spirit) and nurturing it.Thus, the Cabalist Central Bankers are keen to neutralize the male-female(activepassive) dynamo by making women usurp the male role. The bankers ultimately aaume the initaiting male or "God" role themselves. ILLUMINATI:The Cult That Hijacked The World

  • Feminism is a grotesque fraud perpetuated on society by its governing elite. It is desighned to weaken the American social and cultural fabric in order to Introduce a friendly fascist New World Order, Its advocates are sanctimonious charlatans who have grown rich and powerful from it. They include a huge class of opportunists, liars and moral cripples who work for the elite in various capacities:government, education and the media.

  • or looking for excuses to walk out on themselves"

  • FATHERLESS WOMEN---Secunda says women whose fathers were emotionally or physically absent during childhood often have trouble achieving orgasm, Understandably, a woman needs to trust in order to "let go". Women with absent fathers feel rootless and aren't sure they belong anywhere. They close up emotionally and tend to have rocky relationships. "Most of these daughters tend to test the men in their lives by starting fights, finding flaws, expecting to be abandoned.-

  • Denied Their fathers, Women become more masculine.This is a way of bringing daddy back. They become the thing they are missing. In other words a good father affirms his daughters innate femininity by telling her how beautiful and smart she is. But if this is absent, she compensates by becoming masculine. This of course undermines her future relationships with men.CRUEL HOAX:Feminism And The New World Order

  • A healthy father daughter relationship in a nuclear family is essential to a woman's psychological development and future happiness. Despite its pretensions, feminism undermines women by depriving them of this.CRUEL HOAX:Feminism And The New World Order

  • dysfunctional people is strewn everywhere.CRUEL HOAX.Feminism And The New World Order

  • Acording to Blyth, The Illuminatti-owned women's magazines undermined women's natural loving instincts with the following mantras 1) Men can no longer be trusted. 2) Women are victims by virtue of their sex. 3) Women should be selfish. 4) Sex is not reserved for love and marriage.5) Self fulfillment lies in in career, not family, thus millions of women became schizophrenic as they attempted to reconcile these messages with their natural instincts and desires. The Wrecker-- broken families and

  • have supported and guided their families for millennia. Feminist advance the idea that our inherent male and female characteristics, crucial to our development as human beings, are mere "stereotypes". This is a vicious calumny on heterosexuals

  • Feminism has done the most damage.There is no more fundamental yet delicate relationship in society than male and female.On it depends the family, the red blood cell of society. Nobody with the interest of society would try to divide men and women. Yet the lie that men have exploited women has become the official orthodoxy. Man loves woman. His first instinct is to ("husband") and see her thrive. When a woman is happy, she is beautiful. Sure some men are abusive, but the vast majority have

  • Marriage is the basic building block of society. If men and women are not faithful, then there is no basis for social stability. There is no foundation for the family. Break up marriage and you break up society, rendering it vulnerable to political control.CRUEL HOAX:Feminism And The New World Order

  • Bizarre as it nay sound, our world is the product of a multi generational satanic conspiracy. When we compare this disturbing conclusion with the comforting picture purveyed by illuminati controlled-mass media and education, we experience "cognitive dissonance" or psychological stress. This is usually resolved by evading reality, dismissing it as "conspiracy theory"

  • Its obvious that this program has succeeded in affecting black people but do not be fooled, white and others are catching up. They too are frustrated but they do not understand the root causes of whats going on

  • As i began to read into the origins of feminism i also began to realize the sources of my frustration and wrong thinking about sex and relationships. It all began to make more sense. I am tired of hooking up and pursuing those related activities. In the end they only lead to unhappiness and misery. Now i understand American women. Its important not to blame them. They as well as us are being socially engineered to be controlled

  • Families give purpose, Identity and sense of belonging. They provide values and a measure of social. spiritual and financial independence. The goal of communism and The New World Order always has been the destruction of the family. This forces people to get their sense of belonging from the Elite Run media

  • to form permanent marriages. Taught that they could "have it all",they are now frustrated and bitter

  • The nuclear family is the primary institution of heterosexuality. Before the "sexual revolution" women insisted on marriage and a family. Which is heterosexual behavior. This satisfied the profoundest psychological needs of both sexes and provided a safe context for raising healthy children. After the sexual revolution, men and women engaged in promiscuous sex which had been more typical of homosexuals. Women increasingly independent and self righteous were unable

  • and power in the personal sphere

  • Masculinity is defined by power. Male power is the ultimate aphrodisiac for women. Men naturally seek power.Women want love. Thus, thew heterosexual contract(marriage) is the exchange of female(worldly) power for male power expressed as love. Women empower men by entrusting their power to them in exchange for love. Marriage channels male power into a socially constructive path: raising and supporting a family. Women cannot have it all. They must choose between love

  • Continued-- They extolled "sexual liberation" because promiscuous women are less dedicated to family, and less suitable as wives and mothers. Furthermore, if sex is freely available, men have much less incentive to marry or be faithful

  • ILLUMINATI SUVERVERSION Throughout modern history illuminati bankers have used "sexual liberation" to subvert society and establish their tyranny. As Masonic revolutionary Giuseppe Mazzini said"We corrupt in order to rule." The illuminati bankers need to introduce their unjust monopoly over credit into total world control. They realized that they couldn't take control until they destroyed the family. This was a central plank of The Communist Manifesto in 1848

  • Feminism is Communist both in origin and spirit. It pretends to champion women but in fact it neuters both sexes and destroys the basic social unit. the family. The promotion of homosexuality as a "lifestyle Choice" for heterosexuals is also part of the brazen elitist fraud designed to "create new types of human beings who would conform.

  • Feminism is a grotesque fraud perpetuated on society by its governing elite. It is desighned to weaken the American social and cultural fabric in order to Introduce a friendly fascist New World Order, Its advocates are sanctimonious charlatans who have grown rich and powerful from it. They include a huge class of opportunists, liars and moral cripples who work for the elite in various capacities:government, eduction and the media

  • career instead of the timeless love of her husband and children. Many women women have become temporarily unfit to be wives and mothers. People who are isolated and alone, stunted and love-starved are easy to fool and manipulate. Without the healthy influence of two loving parents so are their children.CRUEL HOAX: Feminism And The New World Order

  • Feminist advance the idea that our inherent male and femal characteristics crucial to our development as human beings are mere "stereotypes." This is a vicious calumny on heterosexuals. All of this is calculated to create confusion and sow chaos among heterosexuals. As a result millions of American males are emasculated and divorced from their relationship to family, the world and the future. The American woman has been hoodwinked into investing herself in a mundane

  • Fredrich Engels said "The first condition of the liberation of the wife is to bring the whole female sex back into the public industry and this in turn demands the abolition of the monogamous family as the economic unit of society."{The Origins Of The Family, Private Property And The State(New York. International Publishers.1942 p.67)

  • continued--only be indulging their desire for personal admiration."(James Wardner. UNHOLY ALLIANCES 1996. p35)CRUEL HOAX:Feminism And The New World Orde

  • In 1786, defectors exposed the Illuminati Order. Many of their secrets were published. On the subject of women. One Illuminati document stated"There is no way of influencing men so powerfully as by means of women. These should therefore be our chief study: we should insinuate ourselves into their good opinion, give them hints of emancipation...of standing up for themselves.. it will cause them to work for us with zeal, without knowing that they do so: for they will

  • Sex roles represent cultural recognition of biological and psychological differences. When sex roles are denied, confusion results. We cant bond with the opposite sex. Our natural instincts are frustrated and arrested development and dysfunction follow. CRUEL HOAX: Feminism And The New World Order, Henry Makow

  • i could never give up on black women, but most of the black women I dated before I got married were extremely defensive and take every thing personal. my wife is too, but i figure, wth i need brown skin in my life. date who you love.

  • and the FIFHT reason is they're a bunch of unfaithfull whores.

  • the women i meet dont like 2 date in their own datin lane....i know my lane man ...im sicc of these niccels lookin 4 dimes

  • Somebody had to expose her. I appreciate your response.

  • There should only be 1 reason.

    Your so damn ugly.

  • Is there a video with '5 reasons why white women are single'?

  • Over the years, Oprah has made a living out of bashing Black men, Lickin Gayle king between her legs and catering to the needs of her predominately white female audience. 60 Minutes correspondent (Mike wallace) once asked oprah, "How Black are you"? also, (Barbara walters) asked oprah," Do you ever wish that you were white"? These questions clearly indicates, how much self-hatred that's instilled in her. oprah is a white woman trapped in a Black womans' body. she has no real love for her Race.

  • @Gadite1967 Well said., i couldn't make abetter statement than that.

  • Oprah ain't nothing but a sell out and a modern day "Aunt Jemima" for white corporate amerikkka. she has never embraced the Black struggle or took up a position to fight police brutality or racism here in amerikkka. Furthermore, oprah has some serious issues with Black men. may her kind disappear from off the face of this Earth.

  • @Gadite1967, Oprah never embraced the black struggle? She is the black struggle. Do you think the fat black girl from rural Mississippi was born rich? Do you think she had a father? No, she was born to a poor teenage girl with no father in Mississippi and later lived in inner-city Milwaukee. She was repeatedly raped at 9 years old and had a baby at 14 that died. She single-handedly reinvented the talk show genre & put everyone else out of business except for slags like "Maury" and "Springer".

  • When are people going to realize that they're not addressing why black women are choosing to remain single, by insulting or attacking these very same black women. A woman who is (supposedly) loud and obnoxious, bullheaded etc would not be a successful professional in today's corporate world. Thus faulty stereotypes. My personal view is that every black women should find love in whatever colored package it comes in, and those who would restrict her options based on HER skin color, are racists.

  • @LucisFerre1 Well your self esteem(might b arrogance) is strong. Now if you could get your comprehension skills to match that--we could talk. You couldn't be smarter than me if you were injected with knowledge. Keep ranting...one day you'll wise up..I'm gone!!

  • @bigjbzzl said [[ Keep ranting...one day you'll wise up..I'm gone!!]]

    I accept your surrender.

  • @LucisFerre1 --Surrender?--Well excuse me General Jack-Me-Off!!! But you haven't won a damn thing. First you are an incomplete being, thus you can't even finish your own home page. Just like when you where in grade school. Outcast loner, but you never had the balls to speak to people, but you are on this page, gaurding this subject like your the author. Than rantin about racism--you most likely never experienced. The experience gives you clarity--something you obviously lack.

  • @bigjbzzl, Clarity? I think you mean subjective bias.

  • "you know what i'm sayin" , "you know what i'm sayin", "you know what i'm sayin", "you know what i'm saying" You know". "You know", "and all that stuff", "you know". "So". "So", "So",

    Drive me absolutely crazy. how do people put up with listening to this all day?

  • To be honest with you I am single and I love it. There is nothing wrong with being single. Like Whitney Houston sang in her "It's not right but it's ok" song, I'd rather be alone than unhappy. Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend a few years ago I have been so happy. I come home alone with no stress and no complaints. I do whatever the hell I want to do and feel good about doing it.

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  • @LucisFerre1 I wouldn't date a black man anyway even if I was looking for a relationship. Black men are just no damn good for the most part which is one of the main reasons why I'd rather just stay single and stay to my self and not deal with any man, Being alone is so much easier than being with someone.

  • love has nothing to do with money or what material you have, deep down it has to do with the soul,thats why there is there is so much confusion, if you look at the out ward you are carnal,it will come to nothing,

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  • "...educational level is too high..."

    WTF?

    "...a good man either tooken..."

    Tooken? A good man either tooken? And you say that you're a teacher and it's a "noble profession". Shit.

    Dismissed.

  • 67% of women are not having children out of wedlock, about 67% of Black children are born with out a father figure in the home. Hell, if you're a teacher, you should be able to understand the difference. And all your reasons makes no sense since women of other races face these same situations and 70% of their professional women are not single. You need to take a logic class, bro. 

  • @LucisFerre1 Don't get caught up in that %0game. It's the raw numbers that tell the real story. Blacks are only 47.5mil of the U.S. population. So there are 180mil whites most of which are uneducated, racist, biased, a product of incest, and so many more subhuman lifestyles. Everything they know came from Africa..they just put a white face on it & ran forward. Without welfare & other programs many whites would be in dire straights.

  • @bigjbzzl, Here's something that you're probably not smart enough to figure out for yourself. According to the US Census Bureau, 12.6% of the population is black and 63.7% are white non-hispanic. There is almost exactly 5x as many whites as blacks. Now, if 5% of whites were racist against blacks, and 20% of blacks were racist against whites, (that is, blacks were 4x more racist) then when intermingled randomly, blacks as a whole would STILL experience more racism than whites at a ratio of 5:4.

  • @LucisFerre1 --what part about using the '% game' did you not understand? You are so typical with your trend of thought. My intelligence cannot be put into question by a pale-face with a lack of comprehension skills. Quick to make a comment about my comment you purely don't understand. So lil devil--do a lot more reading on the subject you are clearly lost(clouded by race factor)....

  • @bigjbzzl, as I predicted, you aren't smart enough to understand that to blame a group, or members of that group simply because they outnumber you, is, well, stupid. As explained, **EVEN IF*** blacks in America were four times as racist against whites as whites against blacks, blacks would STILL experience 25% more racism than whites simply because a majority group can be less racist (by %) and still have more racists because the group as a whole is larger. DUH.

  • MrParnell, 43-45% of Black American women are single, not 70%. 70% of PROFESSIONAL women who have earned a degree and are working in a profession are single.

  • When I view videos like this, It makes me thank God for my wife of 22 years! I feel sorry for the new jacks coming up, women were a WHOLE lot better back in the days! Good luck brothers & sisters!

  • What it all comes down to is choices and Black Women need to make better choices for themselves when it comes to men.

  • Thumbs up. Thanks Mr.P for uploading this video and sharing your honest thoughts. I agree that this is a controversial topic, but these issues can't be fixed until we can open up, listen, and work on fixing the problem. A lot of wounds need mending on both ends.

  • This video could be boiled down to 1 minute, if you were white.

  • because those black men aint shit they cheat leave their children they not take care of their responsibilities

  • My dick and brain doesnt discriminate, i judge a woman by the content of her character rather than the color of her skin, there are bitches in all races. There are respectable ladies in all races. Only ignorant people generalize.

  • THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A GOOD BLACK MAN...BUT YAL ARE ALL INNOCENT..BLACK WOMEN HAVE ISSUES AND YALL ARE PERFECT...CTFUPPPPP YEA RIGHHHHHHT

  • @LovinHimIzEasy Black women have issues, and there are good black men, just as the white and latina women that married them

  • @InterracialLoveX you sound stupid..all races of women have issues

  • @LovinHimIzEasy Not really, i dont see white women running to the weave shop

  • If a brother is a teacher and passionate about education...? I'm gonna ride with the educator. A brother with a positive grind is a diamond. Love ya!

  • It's apart of racial engineering. Elevate the black woman immobilize the Black man. To keep use separated and the family broken by making it so she doesn't need us.

  • look,some of us were meant to be single,not everyone's gonna find someone,get used to it,thats all!!

  • The Good Black Man has options too. You don't have to wait on some chick who has dropped 2-3 kids by two baby daddies, and have her call you a sale-out, because you are not trying to be voted Step Daddy of the year. If you mess with a chick with kids--you will eventually have some drama with the BD. Either he will be jealous of you guys being succesfull together, or she will be jealous of him & his new piece. Hard for all those egos to be purely focused on the well being of the shared children.

  • @bigjbzzl I agree. Allow me to present another angle. In the scenario you have given, it's, also, unfair to the "Good Black Man" because he will always be second, at best, to the children which are not his. In addition, many of these "Good Black Man" get taken for a ride as well with additional pregnancy, infidelity, and hypergamy.

  • @MystyreNiggma --Respect--there is nothing wrong with being a step-dad, I am a product of one. My SD-has been around since I was 10. I got lucky, The women of today are less submissive to a man coming into their/childrens lives because of the many hazards that are out there. So your best bet is to be patient & look for a woman with none. I tried it, it was rewarding but ultimately I ended up on the ugly side. Every man should experience a 'him first' lifestyle, befor you go there

  • Keep waiting on a sista, & you'll be as old as me. I got this Latin Lady who has been keeping a candle in the window for me for 7 years. While I was tryig to keep it real and represent the Black Family. I almost wish she was white...because on MLK Day I'm gonna take her to my favorite Soul Food spot and tongue kiss her in the mouth so all the sista's who only wanted me when I was on a date with another sista can choke on their beans n rice. lol...

  • @bigjbzzl That was some hilarious shit bro. Take her to the soul food spot and kiss her in the mouth??? Those black women gon whoop both of yall asses in there. LMAO

  • @414Tario24 --You're right. But I/m gonna do it anyway. Might as well live on the edge.

  • @bigjbzzl SHUT UP OLD FART.YOULL be dead in a year

  • @LovinHimIzEasy --You put the T in typical..your mouth is so big you even yell in capitals in typing. Keep runninin' your mouth wit yo bland ass. That recurring yeast infection is not a coincidence. Keep raw dawggin' them ballers, you lil' snagga-tooth-hefa!!! If std's where a circus act, you'd be a juggler, because I don't know how you manage all them sores, on your chocha!!!! B*(&^%!!!!...Now if you want to have some civil discorse, try and send a more decent message.

  • @bigjbzzl Lmfao calm. down retard. You're old as shit. Typical old black man still thinking he's young. Your old ass needs to calm down might have a heart attack

  • @LovinHimIzEasy --You want some attention from Daddy baby?---Why don't you get a nice dress from your sz18-20 selection, and I'll come through & take you for dinner & drinks. Then you can cry on my shoulder, how you wish you had a triple-og like myself. poor baby!!!

  • @bigjbzzl I hope you followed through on that, brah! Black women need to realize that they are ugly, beastly, and loud. Real men don't want them!

  • @DevinDCEG said [[Black women need to realize that they are ugly, beastly, and loud. Real men don't want them!]]

    According to the 2010 census, over the past 10 years the divorce rate between white men and black women was 42% lower than with white couples, while with black men & white women, it was DOUBLE the rate with white couples. The problem isn't black women, it's black men. I hope you brought an umbrella because it's raining some cold hard facts in here bro.

  • @LucisFerre1 I got another census statistic for you, "bro". It's called "BLACK WOMEN ARE THE UGLIEST WOMEN ON EARTH" quote Psychology Today, backed by scientific research, thorough studies, and yes HARD FACTS by professionals. You were saying?

  • @DevinDCEG, Online Psychology Today pulled the "study" from their site and apologized for publishing pseudo-scientific garbage issued to them by a racist Japanese economist who knows nothing of social sciences. You should see his other papers he tried to publish. The guy's a space cadet. And even if it were true that "black women are ugly"...what would be your point in context? And if you think Gabriel Union is ugly, you need a cornea transplant.

  • @LucisFerre1 U MADE DAT SHIT UP

  • @munkymane said [[U MADE DAT SHIT UP]]

    I'm using U.S. government published statistics and mathematics. Do you even know what you're talking about?

  • @DevinDCEG, I clicked on your name and looked at your videos and the comments you left on other people's videos. Cheetah print handbags, bro, really? Two things jump out at me. 1. You seem to be in denial about your obvious homosexuality and blackness, and 2. You go around writing hateful racist comments against black women on innumerable videos. I recommend seeing a psychiatrist "brah". You seem more fucked up than Michael Jackson. "It puts the lotion on it's skin", eh?

  • @DevinDCEG woooaahh!! D-Not gonna sign on to that. Sista's are the finest women on the planet. Some can have some real fonky attitudes, but nothing of the female species is more captivating than a black woman. You forget that even in slavery--white man would make black female slaves breast feed their milk to their white children. Even in such a horrible time, the black woman was of more value. Don't get it twisted.

  • They just dont last after a certain age, their body breaks apart...short time investment?

  • If I sell out I want to sell out to Latinas...damn their sexy, I mean DAMN

  • @TheLectureKing That's right, that was the worse thing that could of ever happened to "Black" people......Intergration. The Most High never wanted us to intermingle with the other nations , we broke his Laws and Commandments that's why we're suffering now. Let us turn back to the Most High. He said He would hide Himself until we admit our offences and repent.

  • Black women annoy the fuck out of me, constant BS, loud etc. I sold out a long time ago, got me some beckies

  • @InterracialLoveX

    Loud is exactly right!

    I live in a poor area of the city, and I see a lot of black people. There is one common thing among all of them, they are always so freakin loud!!!

    Especially the women, its almost funny, if it wasnt so damn annoying. What are they being so loud about, you guessed it, just about everything. I have never heard any human being complain soooo much, as the black female.