How to Talk to girls: EP2 You've got to Build Rapport

[rafesongs]

These vids are great. 

[ontopofmyfinger]

Go out just to practice and make mistake

forget dlv dhv and push and pull all bullshit

be the creepy guy for one day and make nice guy out of you

[pgrmoja]

where is Neal Patrick Harris

[KingofZona]

Guys, she can't do something like that, she can't. She isn't capable of going on a date with a guy that is hitting on her. It's not right, it's not nomal to her. It's not safe to her. This is the same bullshit I've gotten my whole life its like WOMEN WANT YOU TO FEEL GUILTY FOR HITTING ON THEM and if you TEXT THEM too man times YOU'RE A FREAKING STALKER. I honestly quit dating I don't even know how to do it anymore and I'm in my 20's lol.

[flashpeter91]

ah, great help! (way better than cocky Kezia O.o)

[EveryNameIsUsedDamnF]

This ones is the exception...I'm gladly surprised

[EveryNameIsUsedDamnF]

And everybody talking to white girls...

[AfterThePickUp]

@AFCAdamLondon are u doing break rapport next?

[AFCAdamLondon]

@AfterThePickUp Depends what videos I get sent :D

[RJnuique]

Adam you're so awesome! Thank you so much, your videos helped me get a life! Even do you are already married to me you are still the best pick up artist in the entire universe!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@RJnuique Thanks so much!! happy to have helped!

[MiichaelsChannel]

Omfg LMAO @ the girls face when he opens lmaooo

[CleverDjembe]

@MiichaelsChannel

Hehehe, she looks angry xD

[KamRobTv]

Lol So very True...! check out my video response i got other ish to say to this and add on

[simplyalif]

Michael Jackshuns lol

[simplyalif]

Good

[hershtolani]

This is brilliant.. More of such videos please

[shabeerinc]

OMG this was my sticky point, I faced the same situation!!! Thanks for this video man! Now I know what to do! :D

[dawgindave]

Haha you could tell the body language the girl was somewhat creeped out by the guy. He definitely needs more confidence, and you could tell he was trying was too hard.

[LuyZOnE]

Awesome! I have no clue why I never came over your youtube channel before. But your videos are just great. After talking to you (man, I´d never thought I´d meet AFC Adam @ H&M xD) I´m even more interested in your work! Maybe oneday I´ll be able to effort one of your seminars ;)

Keep on the great work!!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@LuyZOnE Awesome man! Yeah it was good seeing you there too!

[DarcProjekt]

The value's priceless!

Thanks for putting real content. The community needs to turn to ones like you who put out things of substance.

[AFCAdamLondon]

@DarcProjekt Thanks man, that's a really nice compliment to get! :D

[AFCAdamLondon]

@DarcProjekt Thanks man, that's a really nice compliment to get! :D

[seductioncoach]

Spot on bro. Like your style. For all your german guys check out my channel as well. Say hi to dharam for me .

[DrewAlberse]

I like the use of "This is when you are suppose to compliment back." line.

[XPabloXLiangX]

dude im from panama and let me tell you that your vids have helped me so much, your awesome dude!!!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@XPabloXLiangX Thanks loads!



[heymynameismark]

Great videos Mr. Lyons! Very informative and enjoyable to watch no doubt!!!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@heymynameismark Appreciate it man!

[Metalhead5141]

Thanks adam! I'm only 16 and I've been trying your techniques and so far so good! keep up the GREAT work!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@Metalhead5141 Appreciate it :D

[AFCAdamLondon]

@Metalhead5141 :D

[romero1armando]

Good Good Good;)



[vision6961]

Once again ADAM.......... You are always bring a ton of VALUE to your YOUTUBE post. Keep up the GREAT WORK....... I can't wait for NEXT MONDAYS POST.

[AFCAdamLondon]

@vision6961 Thanks again man!

[JML689]

this is such a cool and great idea, keep it on adam! - Champion

[AFCAdamLondon]

@JML689 Cheers dude!

[fuzkforyou]

Well dude i dont laught when they laught so they laught into my approval. Im sure that you know that material from DavidD..he said that laugher is this tribing shit and low value people laught at high value people jokes. I dont mirror girls at all. Do you know why ? I am the man and i should lead. And when i am trying to mirror her eyes, laughers, footsteps..who is leading then ?

You see man, this material is cool. But lets try to make girls build rapport with you while you chill back.

[AFCAdamLondon]

@fuzkforyou You don't have to laugh, but you should encourage their laughter, or else you're punishing them for sharing emotions with you. If they laugh into your approval you should still encourage it and not cut it off. You don't have to mirror either, but you should engage them with conversation topics that are brought up rather than ignoring them. Also you're aware most mirroring is done as a leading technique right? As in NLP. Girls don't tend to build rapport with people who ignore them.

[osborl12]

Thanks for making regular videos Adam. It's so awesome of you!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@osborl12 Thanks man :D

[Tindel10]

Lady gaga is a living legend

[CleverDjembe]

@Tindel10

yeah..... no.

[lightbeing80]

Wicked video's mate.. you made some really good points there!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@lightbeing80 Thanks so much!

[urbanistgame]

thanks dude. more connection, ill get on it from today by showing more interest in their response. ur so right so much of the interaction is about how u respond to their responses. Very useful process, get in on it guys!

[AFCAdamLondon]

@urbanistgame Yeah man, just make an effort to build a response to what she says. Good luck with it. Stay in touch. lets see some new ones once you've got the hang of using this.

[TheMalikTwins]

You make a great point, Adam, when you said "You need to smile when they smile and laugh when they laugh." Not only is this going to bring their emotion back around to them, but "mirroring" is an incredibly powerful rapport-building technique by itself. Even mirroring their posture or blinking right after they blink.. Little unconscious things like that can naturally build rapport just by doing what they do.

[AFCAdamLondon]

@TheMalikTwins Exactly dude!

[MeliLovesYou100]

how to talk to boys por favor :)

[AFCAdamLondon]

@MeliLovesYou100 Not a bad idea....would you be interested in sending in a video of you trying it?

[MeliLovesYou100]

@AFCAdamLondon mhmm i wil try to see if it comes out good lol

[AFCAdamLondon]

@MeliLovesYou100 Awesome! Can't wait to see it.

[hottieEJ]

You just made yourself my new favorite instructor. Not everybody is willing to put out a video once a week for free. I tip my hat to you my friend.

[AFCAdamLondon]

@hottieEJ Thank you sir! *nods head*

[Kemper12986]

I'm definitely liking this series. Its so true, i catch myself being dismissive of women all the time, I cant help but sort of abandon ship as soon as i get that awkward feeling. definitely need to work on that.

One thing I would love to see added would be a sort of vh1 pop-up video type of component with little graphics relevant to whats going on. like this is an ioi or that was a statement of intent. You know what I mean?

[AFCAdamLondon]

@Kemper12986 Yeah i do for sure...I may do some special ones with that...or maybe it's just something i analyze int he future. :D

[zman4hbo]

Great great stuff. This is someone I definitely have to work on.

[KowboyCa]

Great to see someone so enthusiastic about helping guys.

[2ez4EagleEye]

Another quality video! Honestly, at 2:27, I thought he was already f***ed , lol. Thanks for the useful tips!

[RyanWillHelpU]

Great video Adam, really appreciate you taking the time to make these.

[AFCAdamLondon]

@RyanWillHelpU Thanks man! Glad you're liking them. Feel free to send in a video! These are super fun to do!

[RyanWillHelpU]

@AFCAdamLondon I will have to do that, I've been following the game for a few years but haven't really put it into action. I've decided I need a change in my life, so I'm going to start forcing myself to approach and hope for the best.