There is a thing that U should be very gratefull for, U had the time to spend with UR father, mine died before I was born, I never knew him, Just give him the comphort and support he needs, and in the end when he draws his final breath, you will have been there, and he will know it, I wish I could have been there.
Curious, even today i thought about it while i was working, people my generation and younger are completely aware of that i believe, creation and productivity is no longer important for the most part of them unfortunately and when it comes to live life like that and with positivism it's even worst! Don't want to sound perfect on that sense, but i'm so aware of it that i go sad in certain situations some people get me exposed to, sad, very sad! Sorry about your father! Good to see you Scott! Hug!
No hug yet, lol! It's incredible i don't get satisfied with the things i accomplish even though i should, only a few of my friends tried so many things, conquered so many battles but still i always want more and i get obsessed with the next step. I got myself in a situation that makes me crazy, i got stuck financially, not being able to study, i got en-loved in a way so hard to support, but still i smile. I definitely don't like when people don't enjoy life when they should! Now a big hug! ;)
By the time we become 'more aware' of how short life is, it appears to be moving much faster than it should. Doesn't seem fair does it? Many things to ponder here, but more important is that you care enough to be there for him. And that is all that really matters at this point in his life.
My Father and i were very close i was his little girl , his little miss independant , but i lost him 9 months ago . My thoughts and prayers are with you Mr Bodine HUGS ..
Words cannot alone express how sorry I am to hear this news, Scott. Peace to you and the rest of the family. I am an only child and I fear the day I have to take care of my mom.
Hi Scott. I've already commented on this video elsewhere, but I wanted to say it's good to see you here. :) It's somehow comforting to know that someone I know is going through something similar, though my mothers is highly accelerated yet graceful. I'm not sure if that makes it any easier or not. Mine definitely hasn't got long. Weeks at most. Please contact me if you wish, at any point. Mutual support. I may make a response to this, maybe.
The day before my dad died, last year, he said to a nurse "My son, he didn't come." Imagine if those had been his last words. You have been with your dad, which is most important. Fortunately, my dad's words were said in some confusion. The following day, with him again, his last words were to me "Good, someone that I know." My thoughts are with you all now. Tears sanctify.
Thanks for this. You touched on a lot of things that have come up for me and my partner (we were both watching). My own father died when he was 58 (I was 28). Whenever father's day comes around, I remind my friends that they are lucky to be able to call or visit their fathers. I feel empathy for you.
Time IS short. I feel for you, Scott. I lost my dad a few years ago. When he died he was just a shadow of the man he had been. He was 82, and much older than his father had been. But it's always a surprise, even when you expect it.
Very true, my father died when i was 15 and mom just over a year ago and my grandmother died in my arms in 96. at least they had a long life and i enjoy time with them. it is a hard thing to deal with but as a Buddhist i would say they never fully leave, there energy is always with you. Keep Strong Brother
life is tough man, sorry to hear about your dad. mine died a while back, of mysterious causes. my grandparents are still alive, but very old. we all talk about death alot, but growing old..thats a whole other issue. Hopefully science will make getting old easier before we get there.
Sorry you are going through a hard time, I can see you love your Dad a lot. It's hard to see people get old and weak...time does fly. I'm glad you can see your Dad.
Life is cruel. Mom got to watch herself die of cancer for six months. Too sick to live and too tough to die.
MerlynSchutterle 3 years ago
There is a thing that U should be very gratefull for, U had the time to spend with UR father, mine died before I was born, I never knew him, Just give him the comphort and support he needs, and in the end when he draws his final breath, you will have been there, and he will know it, I wish I could have been there.
dubiousgansta 3 years ago
Curious, even today i thought about it while i was working, people my generation and younger are completely aware of that i believe, creation and productivity is no longer important for the most part of them unfortunately and when it comes to live life like that and with positivism it's even worst! Don't want to sound perfect on that sense, but i'm so aware of it that i go sad in certain situations some people get me exposed to, sad, very sad! Sorry about your father! Good to see you Scott! Hug!
f3xpgm 3 years ago
No hug yet, lol! It's incredible i don't get satisfied with the things i accomplish even though i should, only a few of my friends tried so many things, conquered so many battles but still i always want more and i get obsessed with the next step. I got myself in a situation that makes me crazy, i got stuck financially, not being able to study, i got en-loved in a way so hard to support, but still i smile. I definitely don't like when people don't enjoy life when they should! Now a big hug! ;)
f3xpgm 3 years ago
By the time we become 'more aware' of how short life is, it appears to be moving much faster than it should. Doesn't seem fair does it? Many things to ponder here, but more important is that you care enough to be there for him. And that is all that really matters at this point in his life.
SqwishTV 3 years ago
My Father and i were very close i was his little girl , his little miss independant , but i lost him 9 months ago . My thoughts and prayers are with you Mr Bodine HUGS ..
HuggableAngel 3 years ago
my brother has rheumatoid arthritis too he is 50 ..
Its hard for kids watching a parent go from being healthy to basically a vegetable ,, my kids are going through it now HUGS Terri
HuggableAngel 3 years ago
Yep, sounds like rheumatoid arthritis. A very debilitating disease. Hang in there, Scott. Eventually age catches up to us all.
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CDmagz 3 years ago
Very sorry about your father.
Rhonda9 3 years ago
Words cannot alone express how sorry I am to hear this news, Scott. Peace to you and the rest of the family. I am an only child and I fear the day I have to take care of my mom.
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GlimpseAfterGlimpse 3 years ago
Bless you and your dad.
Nigelcf 3 years ago
Sorry to hear about your father's condition.
CousinoMacul 3 years ago
Chin up old boy.
useryug 3 years ago
So sorry to hear this Scott. I recently lost my Mum. I'm hurting with you man! Your right, Life is short! Hang in there mate!
EdMuirton 3 years ago
Tell him you love him, while you can. Don't wait! I lost mine 4 years ago...
FinnishKnife 3 years ago
Hi Scott. I've already commented on this video elsewhere, but I wanted to say it's good to see you here. :) It's somehow comforting to know that someone I know is going through something similar, though my mothers is highly accelerated yet graceful. I'm not sure if that makes it any easier or not. Mine definitely hasn't got long. Weeks at most. Please contact me if you wish, at any point. Mutual support. I may make a response to this, maybe.
Loreleila 3 years ago
The day before my dad died, last year, he said to a nurse "My son, he didn't come." Imagine if those had been his last words. You have been with your dad, which is most important. Fortunately, my dad's words were said in some confusion. The following day, with him again, his last words were to me "Good, someone that I know." My thoughts are with you all now. Tears sanctify.
dashpoet 3 years ago
I would give you a hug if I could Scott. Pm me if you want my cell number and we can chat on the phone if you need.
Doublebug1 3 years ago
Thanks for this. You touched on a lot of things that have come up for me and my partner (we were both watching). My own father died when he was 58 (I was 28). Whenever father's day comes around, I remind my friends that they are lucky to be able to call or visit their fathers. I feel empathy for you.
SFChristo 3 years ago
Time IS short. I feel for you, Scott. I lost my dad a few years ago. When he died he was just a shadow of the man he had been. He was 82, and much older than his father had been. But it's always a surprise, even when you expect it.
Largo64 3 years ago
Very true, my father died when i was 15 and mom just over a year ago and my grandmother died in my arms in 96. at least they had a long life and i enjoy time with them. it is a hard thing to deal with but as a Buddhist i would say they never fully leave, there energy is always with you. Keep Strong Brother
czarwright 3 years ago
life is tough man, sorry to hear about your dad. mine died a while back, of mysterious causes. my grandparents are still alive, but very old. we all talk about death alot, but growing old..thats a whole other issue. Hopefully science will make getting old easier before we get there.
cozmikzen 3 years ago
I'm very sorry... a very moving video...
DavidRandallCurtis 3 years ago
Sorry you are going through a hard time, I can see you love your Dad a lot. It's hard to see people get old and weak...time does fly. I'm glad you can see your Dad.
sablechicken 3 years ago
It's tough watching our parents grow Old and weaken... Just let him know you love him...
Wundermuyy 3 years ago