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  • Very Very inspiring, concisering i am a freshman it is time thanks for all the help! <3

  • Well I came out to my FRIENDS. But I'm worried about my parents. ._. All my friends accepted me so yay :D

  • Do u live in America? And I rsaly like ur vidio it's helped me make my disision ( I'm a horrible speller ).

  • I....have a crush on you ...but I'm a girl :/

    lol

    but gawsh you are fricken cute!!!

  • ohmygod the moment this vid started my jaw dropped thats how cute you are!!!!

  • gay!FAKE AND GAY!

  • @sogamob999 wtf ?

  • @sogamob999 stfu homophobe

  • I'm only 12 and I've already started coming out with no negativity so far.

  • @thesecretmii Believe me, bud. You're going to have a lot of negativity. I came out at your age, I'm 13 now, and I wish you the best.

  • @thesecretmii Lol me too but only to my two best friends .

  • hott

  • Your such a handsome guy =)

  • YOUR EYES!!!

  • what song was that?

  • @508819 Slide by the goo goo dolls .. (my fav song *__*)

  • @508819 Hey! The song at the beginning is "slide" by the goo goo dolls.

    Cheers!

  • your eyes <3

    

  • I completely agree with everything he said. I came out to my religious parents when I was still in high school, and they didnt kick me out, but it was a close thing. They were very disrespectful of my opinions and were rude to me. I definitely wish I had waited to tell them until I was on my own.

  • I am older than you. I think coming out is not very important because what is important is that you accept yourself. Young people can still go off and live on their own it is better than living in a fake or hostile world. Remember older generations many people like the idea of having a secret world. Non gays never really accept you and never want to hear about us. You are really a very mature and articulate young man, I admire you and what you are doing is fantastic.

  • I am older than you. I think coming out is not very important because what is important is that you accept yourself. Young people can still go off and live on their own it is better than living in a fake or hostile world. Remember older generations many people like the idea of having a secret world. Non gays never really accept you and never want to hear about us. You are really a very mature and articulate your man, I admire you and what you are doing is fantastic.

  • Omg You are so cute!:3

    

  • it's a joy to watch you talk xD

  • @Mazequax WOULD U TOSS HIS ASS

  • @NoFatChix4me most probably! what ever toss means xD

  • @Mazequax it means i stick my tongue so far up your keister ill know what u had for dinner..Im so dtf rite now..I got a banana up my ass thinkin of this cuity ! i bet he takes a fat cock like a champ..i bet he has ah tasty asshole..Im tryin ta munch on his tasty butthole ..

  • Hey, Thanks so much this vid totally helped my brother to come out because he was scared so he told me and I showed him this vid and he came out to all our friends and family. So I just really wanna say thank you so much for helping my brother come out.

  • hey man

    I love you. I will pick sth like this up also but in Poland. there is more dark land :p

    you are my idol!

  • I think its SO cool helping others to come out.. :) <3

  • First five seconds I was like: "What?! They audioswapped this!?"

  • This video REALLY helped me. I am not completly lesbian, but I am bisexual. This really helped, so thank you for posting <3

  • I forgot to mention in my last comment gay guys rock I totally want a gay bff lol no joke

  • @bellakylie1 gay or straight doesn't make a diffrence for friend that like when i'd say wow you straight guys are so cool i wan't one a bff just be friends with poeple you like for their personality not sexuality

  • @thedudsonette first of all im a girl second i now that peoples personality is more important then there sexuality but my point was i always wanted a gay best friend i have one too i dont know why i wanted one i just do and what do u want me to do make fun of gays cuz im not like that im straght tho but i think gay people are kool

  • @bellakylie1 but that's my point being gay doesn't make you cool or not doesn't make you diffrent from who you are it doesn't make you purple!

  • @thedudsonette k but my point is that i think gay ppl are kool because they are themselves straght ppl are kool too since im straght and im im not going to call myself lame but my point is that i dont know alot of gay ppl and i think their kool because their not afrid to be differnt and really does it really matter if i think gay ppl are kool 

  • @thedudsonette and it's my oppion and some really annoying stranger's not going to make me change my mind and im allowed to think what i want so stop comenting all thing shit to me kthank

  • @bellakylie1 yeah okay but then if it's insulting you can keep it in your mind because of you someone could be really depressed right now do you want that on your concience? does a 13 year old girl have to tell you that?!

  • @thedudsonette ok so it's insulting that i think gays are kool and btw im 13 too so you dont need to tell me that and a gay persons going to be depressed cuz i think there kool? ya that makes so much sense and if your thinking about my last comment about your annoying well you are idc if your the one being depressed your the one who started this and umm well your really pissin me off. like really? i have my oppions you have your now stop talking to me kthankz

  • @thedudsonette ow sorry this is the wrong comment no your totally right i was talking to the guy that thought gay people are disgustin monsters

  • K i have never actually watch this guys videos before but if this guy is gay the guy who would date him is so lucky cuz he is smoking hot and he seems really sweet it no far I got no chance well I'd probably have no chance in the first place

  • First 5 seconds on this video, adorable.

  • what called the song?

  • I dont know what to do im exploring my sexuality and its confusing how do you really know if your bi or not cause im afraid my parents would disown me cause my sis always tells she doesnt think i am and all this stuff and its pushing me farther and farther from my family and im always depressed plz plz plz help me!!!!!!

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  • yeah I agree with this video. I came out to my mom about a year and a half ago and she just was disapointed. Now its awkward around her, and even though she never brings it up or anything, i can see that she sees me different. which im not. basically something i would suggest, just in case something happens after you tell family, be prepared for if you cant live there or anything. lik have a place to go where its safe. thats my advice

  • Sorry the rest of the text got cut off.

  • Just be yourself. Don't listen to other people. I'm gay and I'm very PROUD even though I'm 17. I love being myself. My family loves me for who I am too. ( Came out when I was 14 ) Do not listen to others who denounce that we are abnormal. We are not.

    It even exists in the natural world. Some people are just plain ignorant because they like to be in control, or the idea is that they think their way is god's path so they claim being straight is right, and being gay is wrong. Who cares, Homosexua

  • i came out when i was 13/14 in 7th grade. :) and im so glad i did.

  • hey i´m gay too yeah it´s cool really

    

  • This totally helped!!!! Gracias =)

  • i hope you gay and not a BI POLYGAMISTS

  • im lesbian,

    but i havent come out yet.

    and my dad tells me gays are nothing but scum on the earth.

    this video makes me feel better when i cry :/

  • @abetterjudgement im not sure the bible condems lesbians, only gay men

  • @MamaMario13 probably because men played a much more important role in those days than women, even in the bible. Another sign that the laws God gives Christians aren´t from God, but human ideas (as I don´t think God would be sexist).

  • @eretrece cmon, if god exists why did he appear to some crazy people in the middle east and not to people in china? that way he would have stopped the spread of buddhism (which is obviously a fake religion if christianity is true)

  • @MamaMario13 I agree with you. I mean, you can never know with things like Gods or religions, it´s a lot of guessing, believing and interpreting things, but the existence of the Christian God is pretty unlikely.

  • @MamaMario13 You are wrong...men was a term used for all human beings...like Men and WoMEN! soo the bible frowns on both.

    Now about Condemn....its not that God hates them bc they are homosexual its the Sin of having homosexual intercourse. When you are having homosexual sex you are not producing life but only pleasure when God made sex w/ the intent of creating life. Just thought i'll say...btw im Catholic :) I'll pray for you all oh and if you believe in GOD pray for an end to abortion :D +

  • @magic800 so u think I will burn forever because I am agnostic and gay? I know the pope said that but I always thought that was a rather crazy belief for anyone to have

  • @MamaMario13 Well the thing is, how can my family accept me, when i can't even accept myself? how could i love anyone, when i cant even love myself for who i am. i just feel out of place in my life. im so messed up, my own father doesn't even want me. i have an elephant sitting on my chest,and its not leaving anytime soon.

  • @abetterjudgement try to find a friend that will listen to you and try to figure it out how you should tell your family and other friends but take your time there is no hurry you are just as normal as other people around you and your parents will love you anyway good luck

  • Many faggots shoot poop when they sneeze, as their cornholes are so fucking deformed.

  • What song is playing at the beginning?!

  • @angelaissmart I THINK its be my escape by reliant k.

  • @angelaissmart Naaah it's Slide by The Goo Goo Dolls ;)

  • He is HOT!  -- *Lick!*

  • my mom really doesnt care same with my friends but its just my school that im afraid of

  • All you need is some hot pussy. One that doesn't smell like tuna. And suck some nice girl tits. There is really no need to be a fudgepacking faggot.

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  • @jamaljamal85 Oh yes there is:)

  • @ajpianoman1 I find it strange to look at another guy's hairy poohshoot and find true love. EEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW­WWW!

  • @Dmmhelperspirit1of1 okay, first of all, learn how to fucking spell. Second, who are you to call someone out on their beliefs? You have NO right to that whatsoever. So shut the fuck up. Thanks.

  • Wow, it's so good.

    I mean, make a video to help other people who want to come out.

    No, that's defendly not idiot. That's really good.

    I like it ^.^

  • @DMMhelperspirit1of1 .OMG!!! your a FUCKING idiot...

  • @09darkworld i somme way i can be

    or you coud call it stubbed

    hm whatever pic youre word

  • @DMMhelperspirit1of1 ...noo thnks i'll stick wit idiot...

  • @09darkworld youre choise :)

  • @DMMhelperspirit1of1 What the hell does "stubbed mean?"

  • @ajpianoman1 stubborn i mean

    never mind just ignore my crap

    it was all nice and stuff but now i have better ideas

  • How can someone that is straight give advice on coming out to a gay teen? How does that work? That's pretty lame. Would a gay guy tell a straight guy how to EAT PUSSY? Wow what a screw up mixed up world, please let me off i'll catch the next one. OMG. How boring !

  • If my parents found out I was gay they would KILL me!!!! Which is why I was Ms.Sharon was my mom because Lane is gay and she accepts him. BTW HE IS SOOOOOO HOT... HE JUST TOLD ME HE WAS GAY FRIDAY, AND TS SOOOOOO HOT THAT HE'S GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • It don't matter if your gay:)

  • You're so cute! What? Yes, I'm gay...

  • @thestopgayhatelist kid, i thought you woud do somethign about me for already an long time

    and seriously, it scares me more to see how manny views the its get better shit vids get then 1000 of youre comments on every replie

  • @thestopgayhatelist btw, i still get 20 mesages every day here, no joke

  • @DMMMhelper1of3 stupide straght ! kill you too ! or open you r bottom iiii

  • @ThePhilippefrparis only gays are useless pieces of shit

    straight people like me have an use you idiot

  • @HeadstrongKulTiras make me

  • @thestopgayhatelist 20,20,20 and 20 and an other 20

    dude wtf you and i almost coud end this whole shit

    just give me 2 weeks and it was ended

    now i must post an other 100 mails

  • dontmakememad1990 = a registered violent hater on you tube, pls don't react on any of his comments, For more info contact thestopgayhatelist's channel.

  • @thestopgayhatelist hay there

    strange

    i meat you like everywhere lol

  • gay is not the way btw

  • seriously gays are wrong

    i mean, they always saying they cant control it and yet they not want to be called mentaly ill

    doesnt make sence if you ask me

    ateast closet gays control theire feelings enough to have an good life

    they have my respect

    be normal, make new life and die late instead of die early, and have no use

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  • @dontmakemeMAD1990

    Haven't you heard? The connotation that being homosexual is a mental illness has been removed by the American Psychiatric Association in 1974?

    Those closet cases end up committing suicide..because they're so depressed, or because somebody outed them.

    It seems that you don't, else you wouldn't make those statements.

    What is normal? That's very subjective.

    What does being gay have anything to do with dying early?

    Have no use? Huh? What do you mean by that?

  • @midnull yep, but still it is recently prooved, that they are more depressive and shit

    because they are depressed ?

    depression is why they are mantaly ill and why they are commiting suicide

    still, you dont gived the reason why they are depressed

    and for the rest:

    -nothing is normal, but in my opinion shit what gays do is just sick and wrong

    -there was somme report in 2007 or something like that, gays have more aid then hetrosexual people(generally of course, but still...°

    -no childeren

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990 Often the depression in these cases is caused by people like you who find homosexuality to be vile, unnatural or otherwise offensive. Whether they are family, friends, schoolmates or just people out and about on the streets, every harsh comment takes a toll on a persons wealth of joy in life. Normality is based solely on perception. And please, for the sake of those who are actually seeking help through this video and others like it, keep your opinion to yourself.

  • @ItovaSythr i woud like to, but some fag maked it like that, they removed my vid

    now untill my 6 months limit is expired, this is the only safe way to be heard

    thanks for the understanding of the situation :D

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990 I assume you meant to say AIDS, not aid. As with every STI, if the proper precautions are taken, infection may be avoided. No one, no matter their sexual preference, need die early from such illnesses. As to procreation being the only use for mankind, I am sorry that you feel that way. Other possible uses of mankind, to spread joy, to carry out any of thousands of medial jobs, to grant life to others through blood and organ donation, to name a few.

  • @ItovaSythr depression because of people like me again

    jich seriously, like i have that power to make people depressed and commiting suicide

    avoid avoid....coud be coud not be

    it is an fact they have more hiv and shit so my point is prooven

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990 In reference to your earlier post, the lack of control over desires does not equate to mental illness. If someone could not stop themselves from doing an action, however, it would likely be categorized under mental illness or disorder such as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

  • @ItovaSythr well gay people can not stop there sexual gayness desires isnt it ?

    if so, why the hell did they risk theire life in the midleages for getting sex ?

    havinbg sex is an action no then ?

    obsesive compulsive disorders dont have annything to do with people that cant control theire sexual desires wth ?

    its just like trueley comparing psychopaths with scitzofrenic people

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990 why do the rest of the animals on this world risk their lives to have sex? why do fugly straight guys and cave trolls risk their life in the ghetto to score a hooker? Sexual desire is an instinct that every living creature on this planet has.

  • @aapku yea, but gaysexual crap isnt usefull

    for all sanity of the world, i already know since i was 10, seed is meant to make a kid, and a penis is made to pee and get the seed into the RIGHT spot

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990 In regards to closeted homosexual individuals "control[ling] theire feelings enough to have an good life," not acting on one's feelings often leads to mental deres. Although it may seem like a good life to others, and it may comfort those such as yourself to know that they are not acting upon their supposedly sick desires, inside there will always be a void that they cannot fill with any measure of success so long as they deny themselves those whom they love and desire.

  • @ItovaSythr maybe there wil be an void, maybe not

    did you ever heard of those rare cases where gays do turn, straight, unintended ?

    those shit realy prooves sexuality can totaly change after somme decades

    so you cant garanty they will feel that void you know

    thats realy not an point

    what you say is more like: it will be a bit bad so give it up and let things go and forget to take control of youre own life, because you will never have total control over youre life annyhow

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990 And no matter who you are, what you believe, or who you like, "It is better to die happy than live an eternity in shame."

  • @ItovaSythr they dont seem to be realy happy eh ?

    o iam discriminated, oh people hate me, even after there 'big' vcceptance, they still comit fucking suicide no ?

    it depends when you live in shame and when not

    woudnt you be fucking embarased all youre firends leave you and youre parents kick you out when youre 18 ?

    btw, somme people will never experience true happyness, weither you and i like the idea or not

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990

    No one's going to take you seriously until you learn how to spell. Also, you're probably about 20, right? Dude, get a life. You say some people will never experience true happiness, and it's true, but it's often the consequence of their own faults. I think you're an unhappy person. You sure sound like it. You're getting all vindictive and hateful over some kid on the internet who's trying to find the happiness you seem to be lacking.

  • @paintbalesf i dont even want that people take me seriously if they dont relize somme people never learned english in this world

    i will not give you my true age but, well i give you an hint

    between 17 and 21

    of course i coud type what i want, so there is no reason to take me seriously

    but i can garanty you iam not somme dumb child :D

    depends on what you mean

    i always wonder why people comit crimes and stuff because they like it ?

    i dont think so

    and if it is, then why ?

  • @paintbalesf about happyness, i get an happy feeling when i see my money my boss gives me you know :D

    btw, this kid isnt an kid annymore you know

  • luv this video ^^ your awesome

  • @WoahAmbIsFtw  it just sounded different lol thanks tho.

  • man,,,,,das really truth,,and ur really cute,,,,more advices ..Juan_2553@yahoo.com

  • Hehe thanks Carlkr that helped ^^ Watched allmost 75% of your video gonna finish by today

  • for a double bagger your sort of cute ..

  • what was that song in the beginning?

  • ur hott, i'm bi

  • @Airsoftattack123 i know right?

  • @TheTeenking13 haha yeah dude

  • @Airsoftattack123 he got all his hair cut off

  • Der junge ist süss:)

    Vielen Dank:)

  • Der junge ist süss:)

  • omg

    hot :D:D:D

  • What a fine and caring young man.

  • i love how u said 14 and 15. thanks this does help a lot. really it does.

  • Hi, i think its great you do this for others. You have a big heart.

    Wish when i had my coming out some 15 yrs ago.

    Now i happily live with my bf.

    Hope you also are happy with a nice friend !

    Cheers from Holland

    Willem

  • Quite cute :D

    Although I dont' really care about this coming out crap ;)

  • Carl... You rock man! Carl being gay has always taken a back seat to Carls love for his fellow man. You keep sharing your love Carl... Thank you Carl :)

  • YOU ARE A كمخه

  • R u gay bc u r HOT <3

  • "It's right here"

    I'm sorry, it's not ;)

  • I actually came out as a sophmore...im not a senior. My step mom was fine with it my mom is fine with it but my dad says he is but acts like isnt. I think its great that you came out to your parents and everything :) We need more people to go out and show that they are not alone...we need to show people we are all equal wether gay straight or whatever they are...we need to show that there is power in being honest with others about this and power in your sexuality

  • @GayForTheRainbow

    You Are Completely Right I Have Yet To Come Out So ive Got No Stories To Tell Here.

  • Thanks. This helped me.

  • well life is not necessarily easy for hetero sexuals either, it's just that gay folks have another hurdle in life to overcome ... still a nice video and great from you to see your courage to do it in order to help guys in your age ...!

  • kannst du auch i.wie deutsch reden? :D

  • so sweet 

  • You are the cutest boy that i have ever seen on youtube :)

  • you're cute! and my english is very bad^^

    i'm from dresden/germany

    liebe grüße =P

  • What song was that at the begining?

  • Coming out..?? Better "Coming out" in a girl friend.*gg*

  • im 20 and gay...

    and my parents are so fucking slow...

    they dont even know im gay.

    and i cant tell them that i am...

  • I am kind of at the point where I came out to my parents first. (Who are very conservative. Ironically, my dad understood and my mom is in denial). I just came out today to a friend of mine who I have a ridiculous crush on, who live away from me now. It is actually YouTube that helped me with this. Seeing other guys who were able to do this made it much easier for me. Basically how I feel at this point is that I will come out to my closest friends and if other people find out, such is life.

  • @838287 You should check out p-flag. They have a website you can find through google.com. They will let you know that many people love and accept you despite that many others don't. P-Flag helps a lot of gay teens and others sort out their feelings.

  • @838287 I can't tell you to come out or not to come out. That is up to you. No one can make that choice for you. I'm an openly gay man, but my grandparents don't know about it. Everyone else does though aside from very few family members. Do not commit suicide. Being gay is not something you should kill yourself over. I was about to do that before and I'm glad i did not because I have accepted that i'm a gay man. I am also very happy and proud to be gay. Learn to love who you are.

  • ****ok so i ALL of your help. i need help coming out of the closet. on one hand i live in a VERY conservative christian home, in the most republican county in texas so im surrounded by red necks. on the other hand, i have gotten to the point of suicide because i knew i was living a lie. please guys i need your help. reply to this comment "yes" to come out and "no" to stay in until i move away. peace and <3!!!

  • sweettyyyy