Let's say your lady's watching you bang someone, she decides your doing a little too much of a good job...*pic snap. ...or she finds a little bit better of a dick than you , you show your ass...*pic snap (she's not in it but YOU are....) ...You better think. and you think..well I'll just find someone better. ..well, you can. But its tough getting someone when you're in legal hot water. Its like if I deal drugs...I'm not going to want to sell to someone who has a lengthy arrest record.
Religious or not , marriage is not rainbows and bunnies. IF you have morals and "God" in you...then why challenge the relationship with infidelity? IF you have no morals, no "God" , no "rainbows and bunny" image in your head , then, fine...but it still stands...that marriage license is a legal contract.So you think, well I'll just be real good to my spouse and all will be okay. Then one day they have no further use for you and you're sitting in a court room explaining lewd pics to your lawyer.
It is in fact very stupid no matter how you cut it up. If you are MARRIED...then that is a legal contract with your signed name on it. If you're spouse decided to film you or take pics and knew well that you hadn't done the same,....It can cause you legal troubles; especially if you have children. They don't even need a reason other than to be an asshole. Why spend the money on a marriage license to begin with? If you have no morals , then why have a "marriage" ?
slutty wives convincing their horny husbands to fuck other women, just so she can suck some one else and fuck someone else bcz the sheer thought gets her panties wet, and the opportunistic husband thinks that his wife is an angel, a god sent, for giving him such a slack.... that is swinging.
@Paradigmparadox007 ...Or men convincing their wives to do it (even though they obviously don't want to ) , just because they fear with paranoia of their wives potentially cheating on them one day. So, they have to "arrange" it to kill the image in their minds. They watch their wives doing something they don't want to do, and hate it, but are comforted by having control over it at the woman's expense.or maybe woman gets into it...then man is killed inside and both at fault.
PLEASE tell me why I can no longer find the vedio that explains polyamour relationships...better yet send me the link to this vedio at nicky1760@eastlink.ca
swingers should be ashamed of their selves. The trust between the couple is destroyed for good. Its like driving a car without a seat belt on. Sooner or later your gonna get hurt.
@vrz07 firstly.... depends on the couple themselves... secondly depends on who they swing with... thirdly you are being too judgemental... but hey.. i assume that was just ur opinion..
@vrz07 That's because you can't separate the sex from other things. Man, there are a bunch of sexually frustrated men in this world. Do you prefer to masturbate, looking at a porn movie or you prefer something real? Sex is just a physiological need, and all the animals prefer to have more sexual partners.
Wow this describes my wife and i to a tee she says she wants to suck two coccks but then she doesnt. weird! hey im still working on it i wanna watch her suck some different cock
You have to learn to let go of the emotional bond you have with your spouse when swinging, you must understand that it is strictly physical.......once you come to this conclusion, it is very enjoyable, because you are focused on the act of achieving orgasm(s).
Prepare yourself for good and bad times.....you'll encounter both.....but be open with your feelings and make sure you are heard by all involved.....its when you don't get it off your chest that the problems arise.
Your wife is perplexed because you aren't showing the normal, healthy male possessiveness. She's trying to give you a hint. There's something wrong with you. You probably will lose her, because you clearly don't want her.
you all are stuck in reagen era, god help you fk bags, hate to be in your marriage remember the 70s the best era ever. course i bet 70% who bashes me doesn't do swing and thump the bible or are content with goin to bed with granny panties
Marriage isn't just about sex. It's about emotional and financial security. To swingers, the only thing open about the relationship is the sex. So you get all the benefits of marriage as well as the freedom of singlehood. But that situation doesn't appeal to everyone so if you'd rather be a bachelor for your whole life, then power to you.
Depending on someone else emotionally or financially is a bad idea. However, in order to have sex, it takes 2 to tango. Thus, I see no benefit for anyone anywhere to ever get married. Given that the extracurricular activities of swinging are the SAME (sexual) available to someone who is single, it ultimately makes no sense TO get married. But yes, to each his own.
I'm not talking about dependency. A family with children in particular is more stable if there are two incomes and two loving parents. It's like a small community. I'd rather live in a community than have to survive on my own. Humans are social creatures. As long as you have a close emotional relationship to someone, you have an adequate outlet and it doesn't have to be within the context of marriage. So I definitely don't think that marriage is the be all and end all of human existence.
Well, that I can't disagree with. I believe in co-habitation much more than I believe in "marriage." And you're right, a family is more stable with 2 incomes...which is probably why the 21st century is also one of the worst periods of human kind to actually have a family. Emotional relationships actually don't last a lifetime, so the outlet is in fact, inadequate.
But since this video is about swinging, and the desire to sleep with someone else eventually does happen, an "eternally defined" relationship is still self defeating....regardless of whether its common law, marriage, or just a long term commitment. And the price one must pay in the long term, for a physical, emotional or financial stability that is rarely achievable, still makes the whole concept fall flat on its face.
@Germanicus666 I can see how judgmental asshattery would appeal to narrow-minded people who've made up their minds about things they don't bother to understand.
the negative comments are from those who have no idea what swinging is... the idiots forum... If momogomy were the natural state for humans, then we would not even ave words in our vocabulary like adultry, cheating or divorce. Only 3% of mamals are monogomous and none of them are primates. We are no different. The only reason we see swinging as wrong is because of the flawed teachings of men in organized religion. These same men have no idea what God is or what God wants.
@dh3st3r You're absolutely right, but I think most men do not oppose because of their religion, but also because the animal instinct, to defend their female. Oops, mammals are hypocritical.
We swing but my lady just likes to pick up other ladies for us to play with. Yeah us guys are dickheads when we get pissed we totally stop having sex altogether. Or we want it in a way that just shouldn't be had. Luckily my women loves to have sex as much as I do and love heals. Fortunately she's a closet freak so I thank god and when i c em I'll say to god " Wow man you are great, I love you Jesus thx for influencing my life so fabulously. Remember Religion = OLD. Sex = Birth of Mankind.
Ehe..."not...black jack"..."busy"?? Come on, say the word/words: "Fuck" and "Fucking"! At least say "sex"...or "hot steaming sex"! THAT it is what it is all about! Don't try to make sound "finer"...
And plese get me right on this; I have no problem with how other people have sex. Not at all!!
Anything which adds complexity to relationships is bad. Swingers will always claim that their relationships are strong, yet monogomy is too boring for them. If it weren't for swinging, they would be screwing around with others and sabotaging things. So they are not one man/woman material. Another thing is that they are sex addicts.
I didn't say they were. I was commenting on the complexity swinging adds to relationships. We perhaps are polygomous (particularly the male) by nature, but with the way society is structured, polygomy, swinging and the like are not healthy emotionally. Swinging may work for some but it's important to realize that if and when things fall apart, it will be profoundly devastating emotionally for both parties. Isn't life complicated enough already?
Being in the lifestyle is like riding a Harley... for those who know, no explanation is needed. For those who don't, no explanation is possible.
Is it for everyone? Hell no! You have to have a stronger, more honest relationship than most other people or it becomes a blueprint for disaster. Luckily, most of those who aren't cut out for the lifestyle often figure out pretty quickly that some things a best left to the realm of fantasy.
@mrmoofle "most of those who aren't cut out for the lifestyle often figure out pretty quickly that some things a best left to the realm of fantasy"... well.. depends on how ur first few experiences go... it takes a looong time to find that perfect dream couple..how bout you?? i assume ur a swinger
Swinging is not for everyone, but to say that people who do it are not "normal" or that there "must be something wrong with them" is a sign of someone talking out of their ass, who probably claims to have expert knowledge on lots of subjects about which they have no clue...
Wow, put a Ph.D. behind your name and you justify and rationalize the Holocaust. Why not bring the kids to the party or is that, dare I say, immoral? I guess you're just making way too much money to give it up. And after all, nothing is immoral -- it's all relative. You can justify 'anything' -- the question is, 'Should you?' You're in business because people pay you to take away their guilt.
Look, I don't necessarily support this stuff, but maybe what makes you happy isn't what makes others happy. And don't blow it out of proportion - Immoral Sex isn't anything even remotely correlated to the Holocaust.
You've completely missed the point and as a result haven't countered anything I've said. I agree with everything you've said. And, by the way, the Holocaust reference is hyperbole.
Hi im a single male and i would like to be able to hook up with a couple of swingers. Id like to be able to get with someones wife and have the husband watch if he wants or wait in the other room. Ive heard of couples where the man gets excited when the wife has sex with another man. Point is how can i become one of those men who gets to enjoy someones wife. Im young, in shape, and would like some advice on how to meet a couple
Yeah, and u can swing together 2 the end of time and never marry out of love which YOU, like every woman, want so much. And u never be truly loved by ur swinging partner which u, as a woman, so much want.
I don't want the men I swing with to love me. The only person that loves me and that I care that loves me is my husband. I married out of love (there wasn't a dry eye in the house at my wedding). Its so easy for you to sit back and judge something that you don't undderstand. Don't knock it till you have tried it.
Ok, i know u will never admit it even 2 urself that such a swinging relationship is not normal by any standards and getting presents from ur husband doesnt prove he loves u cuz if he did he wouldnt swing. Im a man so i should know but im a normal man. Ok, i hope it's not that late 2 wish u every luck and happiness on ur b-day.
That's so naive. If a guy gives a gift then it means that he loves the woman? Or does it mean that he's guilty? That he's trying to hide something? Or take her mind off of something? If it's not normal, then it's often a sign of a significant change in behaviour (i.e. cheating).
What woman agrees 2 swinignig? And what couple agrees 2 swingning? Answer: Couples with problems and big problems in that. NO NORMAL woman would ever agree 2 that. Swinging, hahaha! What r u talking about people? Here in Silesia such things r not accepted at all and would never be. No couple, but especially no woman, would ever want or agree 2 that. But then we r NORMAL people.
I am a woman and I agreed and love swinging.The truth is that humans have desires and as opposed to cheating or having a sexless marriage we have a fullfilling marriage. I am not saying that it is for everyone but if you have that level of trust (which is higher than normal) and your relationship is solid then there is nothing wrong with it.
I know this and u know ths that swinging couples r not normal couples and that something must b terribly wrong with them or at least with one of them. Come on, let's not cheat ourselves. There's absolutelly no love between them. It can b ok with a nonloving man, as every healthy man is a sex machine but not with a woman who always wants love first of all.
I am a prefectly normal individual. I work, i have a lot of friends. To say my husband and I have no love between us is not your place to judge. I love my husband more than life itself. Today is my b-day and he took me to dinner, bought me flowers, chocolate, a necklace and just spent time with me. We are very much in love, but we also swing.
ha my name is nita jackson and i am a counselor. i love your video its all different type of relationship out there and am happy that we can talk about them
The Women in the LS are with out a doubt are in controlled of the LS...Men are just aloud in because they have a female with them...Single males have too crawl to prove themselves worthy of being excepted into the LS...Those who own the PUSSY make the rules..
I completely agree with swinging,humans are animals weather they choose to agree with this statement or not,we become bored of staring at one vagina or penis for the rest of our lives-thats why divorce and cheating rate is so high-thats reality
Also your chance of getting terrible sexual related desieses rises exponentially as your number of "parters" increases. Mindlessly gratifying yourself is the most shallow kind of emotion and will never bring you any kind of meaningful happiness to your life.
Swinging is very very wrong and heres why. Imagine a man has children with two different women. When these children grow up they will only have HALF A FATHER best. Infact sometimes they will have no father at all since their father will abandon them for their other family.
Let's say your lady's watching you bang someone, she decides your doing a little too much of a good job...*pic snap. ...or she finds a little bit better of a dick than you , you show your ass...*pic snap (she's not in it but YOU are....) ...You better think. and you think..well I'll just find someone better. ..well, you can. But its tough getting someone when you're in legal hot water. Its like if I deal drugs...I'm not going to want to sell to someone who has a lengthy arrest record.
sydonabike 1 month ago
Religious or not , marriage is not rainbows and bunnies. IF you have morals and "God" in you...then why challenge the relationship with infidelity? IF you have no morals, no "God" , no "rainbows and bunny" image in your head , then, fine...but it still stands...that marriage license is a legal contract.So you think, well I'll just be real good to my spouse and all will be okay. Then one day they have no further use for you and you're sitting in a court room explaining lewd pics to your lawyer.
sydonabike 1 month ago
It is in fact very stupid no matter how you cut it up. If you are MARRIED...then that is a legal contract with your signed name on it. If you're spouse decided to film you or take pics and knew well that you hadn't done the same,....It can cause you legal troubles; especially if you have children. They don't even need a reason other than to be an asshole. Why spend the money on a marriage license to begin with? If you have no morals , then why have a "marriage" ?
sydonabike 1 month ago
slutty wives convincing their horny husbands to fuck other women, just so she can suck some one else and fuck someone else bcz the sheer thought gets her panties wet, and the opportunistic husband thinks that his wife is an angel, a god sent, for giving him such a slack.... that is swinging.
Paradigmparadox007 3 months ago
@Paradigmparadox007 ...Or men convincing their wives to do it (even though they obviously don't want to ) , just because they fear with paranoia of their wives potentially cheating on them one day. So, they have to "arrange" it to kill the image in their minds. They watch their wives doing something they don't want to do, and hate it, but are comforted by having control over it at the woman's expense.or maybe woman gets into it...then man is killed inside and both at fault.
sydonabike 1 month ago
PLEASE tell me why I can no longer find the vedio that explains polyamour relationships...better yet send me the link to this vedio at nicky1760@eastlink.ca
Nicky1760jenevi 4 months ago
@Nicky1760jenevi For the polyamory relationships video, go to the loveandhealth.info website.
loveandhealth 4 months ago
Swinging can improve or even save a marriage....yes it can!!! Spice it up!!!
coupleslust 6 months ago
OMG!!! Eeeeeeeeeeeeee Dam it this is good ! What an IDEA !!!
cindy161128 1 year ago
Thank you. I'm not crazy, not that I thought I was, but I feel better now. Thanks Doc!
fireandhammer 1 year ago
swingers should be ashamed of their selves. The trust between the couple is destroyed for good. Its like driving a car without a seat belt on. Sooner or later your gonna get hurt.
vrz07 1 year ago
@vrz07 That's funny how come there is a 10% divorce rate in the swinging. I understand your point but you are incorrect.
Huggins293 1 year ago
@Huggins293 I figure the divorce rate is considerably higher. Cheating is probably worse. Cheers!
DJRoxi 7 months ago
@vrz07 firstly.... depends on the couple themselves... secondly depends on who they swing with... thirdly you are being too judgemental... but hey.. i assume that was just ur opinion..
NeoQuello 1 year ago
@vrz07 Don't judge that which you do not understand.
enwinor 1 year ago 3
@vrz07
HAHAHAHA.
The trust was made better actually. Why are watching a video on swingers if you are against it? Someone wishes they could.
CodisOmodis 1 year ago 2
@vrz07 That's because you can't separate the sex from other things. Man, there are a bunch of sexually frustrated men in this world. Do you prefer to masturbate, looking at a porn movie or you prefer something real? Sex is just a physiological need, and all the animals prefer to have more sexual partners.
cornel10 11 months ago
I like your fantasy dude. i wana share my wife too
gman213702atyahoocom 2 years ago
Wow this describes my wife and i to a tee she says she wants to suck two coccks but then she doesnt. weird! hey im still working on it i wanna watch her suck some different cock
gman213702atyahoocom 2 years ago
that is crazy
EVELINA1989 2 years ago
You have to learn to let go of the emotional bond you have with your spouse when swinging, you must understand that it is strictly physical.......once you come to this conclusion, it is very enjoyable, because you are focused on the act of achieving orgasm(s).
Prepare yourself for good and bad times.....you'll encounter both.....but be open with your feelings and make sure you are heard by all involved.....its when you don't get it off your chest that the problems arise.
teslaresearch 2 years ago 4
If your wife would even think of leaving you afterward then she doesn't really love you dude.
megamanamillion 2 years ago
Your wife is perplexed because you aren't showing the normal, healthy male possessiveness. She's trying to give you a hint. There's something wrong with you. You probably will lose her, because you clearly don't want her.
Germanicus666 2 years ago
you all are stuck in reagen era, god help you fk bags, hate to be in your marriage remember the 70s the best era ever. course i bet 70% who bashes me doesn't do swing and thump the bible or are content with goin to bed with granny panties
labloomfie 2 years ago 3
Whats the point of being in a relationship and f*cking other people? Why not just be single and still f*ck whoever you want? Works for me!
SeeDzNutts 2 years ago
Marriage isn't just about sex. It's about emotional and financial security. To swingers, the only thing open about the relationship is the sex. So you get all the benefits of marriage as well as the freedom of singlehood. But that situation doesn't appeal to everyone so if you'd rather be a bachelor for your whole life, then power to you.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago 2
Depending on someone else emotionally or financially is a bad idea. However, in order to have sex, it takes 2 to tango. Thus, I see no benefit for anyone anywhere to ever get married. Given that the extracurricular activities of swinging are the SAME (sexual) available to someone who is single, it ultimately makes no sense TO get married. But yes, to each his own.
SeeDzNutts 2 years ago
I'm not talking about dependency. A family with children in particular is more stable if there are two incomes and two loving parents. It's like a small community. I'd rather live in a community than have to survive on my own. Humans are social creatures. As long as you have a close emotional relationship to someone, you have an adequate outlet and it doesn't have to be within the context of marriage. So I definitely don't think that marriage is the be all and end all of human existence.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
Well, that I can't disagree with. I believe in co-habitation much more than I believe in "marriage." And you're right, a family is more stable with 2 incomes...which is probably why the 21st century is also one of the worst periods of human kind to actually have a family. Emotional relationships actually don't last a lifetime, so the outlet is in fact, inadequate.
SeeDzNutts 2 years ago
But since this video is about swinging, and the desire to sleep with someone else eventually does happen, an "eternally defined" relationship is still self defeating....regardless of whether its common law, marriage, or just a long term commitment. And the price one must pay in the long term, for a physical, emotional or financial stability that is rarely achievable, still makes the whole concept fall flat on its face.
SeeDzNutts 2 years ago
I'm not sure what you mean by that.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
I can see how this would appeal to people that married for money or other reasons that have nothing to do with love.
Germanicus666 2 years ago
Hm, that sounds like a total stereotype to me.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
Stereotypes usually have a substantial basis in reality.
Germanicus666 2 years ago
They do, but their flaw is that they are often applied to people who don't fit the stereotype.
ncfwhitetigress 2 years ago
@Germanicus666
Are you're saying that people who married for love, and are best friends woiuld not be interested in the Lifestyle?
If you are saying that, you would be dead wrong.
jarden69 2 years ago
@Germanicus666 I can see how judgmental asshattery would appeal to narrow-minded people who've made up their minds about things they don't bother to understand.
enwinor 1 year ago 2
nnnnnnn
theGr8Germans 3 years ago
To me all women at swing parties are prostitutes and men are their customers.
Zamantahir 3 years ago
the negative comments are from those who have no idea what swinging is... the idiots forum... If momogomy were the natural state for humans, then we would not even ave words in our vocabulary like adultry, cheating or divorce. Only 3% of mamals are monogomous and none of them are primates. We are no different. The only reason we see swinging as wrong is because of the flawed teachings of men in organized religion. These same men have no idea what God is or what God wants.
My two cents
dh3st3r 3 years ago 24
@dh3st3r You're absolutely right, but I think most men do not oppose because of their religion, but also because the animal instinct, to defend their female. Oops, mammals are hypocritical.
cornel10 11 months ago
My very cramped inside that tiny Mind of yours.
Makemyday0126 3 years ago
You have no idea WHAT you're talking about. Swinging & divorce have nothing to do with each other, unless one is coercing the other.
deb1919 3 years ago
We swing but my lady just likes to pick up other ladies for us to play with. Yeah us guys are dickheads when we get pissed we totally stop having sex altogether. Or we want it in a way that just shouldn't be had. Luckily my women loves to have sex as much as I do and love heals. Fortunately she's a closet freak so I thank god and when i c em I'll say to god " Wow man you are great, I love you Jesus thx for influencing my life so fabulously. Remember Religion = OLD. Sex = Birth of Mankind.
Sicj 3 years ago
Ehe..."not...black jack"..."busy"?? Come on, say the word/words: "Fuck" and "Fucking"! At least say "sex"...or "hot steaming sex"! THAT it is what it is all about! Don't try to make sound "finer"...
And plese get me right on this; I have no problem with how other people have sex. Not at all!!
MauriceFlower 3 years ago
Anything which adds complexity to relationships is bad. Swingers will always claim that their relationships are strong, yet monogomy is too boring for them. If it weren't for swinging, they would be screwing around with others and sabotaging things. So they are not one man/woman material. Another thing is that they are sex addicts.
Haseeb2 3 years ago
Human are not monogamous by nature. It's in our DNA.
deb1919 3 years ago
I didn't say they were. I was commenting on the complexity swinging adds to relationships. We perhaps are polygomous (particularly the male) by nature, but with the way society is structured, polygomy, swinging and the like are not healthy emotionally. Swinging may work for some but it's important to realize that if and when things fall apart, it will be profoundly devastating emotionally for both parties. Isn't life complicated enough already?
Haseeb2 3 years ago
Dr Daidson no doubt you are the most beautiful woman i ever seen.
Zamantahir 3 years ago
Sodom and Gomorrah, here I come.... NOT!
53531640 4 years ago
I like the approach, straight forward discussion on a common question
lookiemeup 4 years ago
Being in the lifestyle is like riding a Harley... for those who know, no explanation is needed. For those who don't, no explanation is possible.
Is it for everyone? Hell no! You have to have a stronger, more honest relationship than most other people or it becomes a blueprint for disaster. Luckily, most of those who aren't cut out for the lifestyle often figure out pretty quickly that some things a best left to the realm of fantasy.
mrmoofle 4 years ago 15
@mrmoofle "most of those who aren't cut out for the lifestyle often figure out pretty quickly that some things a best left to the realm of fantasy"... well.. depends on how ur first few experiences go... it takes a looong time to find that perfect dream couple..how bout you?? i assume ur a swinger
NeoQuello 1 year ago
Swinging is not for everyone, but to say that people who do it are not "normal" or that there "must be something wrong with them" is a sign of someone talking out of their ass, who probably claims to have expert knowledge on lots of subjects about which they have no clue...
mrmoofle 4 years ago 4
Wow, put a Ph.D. behind your name and you justify and rationalize the Holocaust. Why not bring the kids to the party or is that, dare I say, immoral? I guess you're just making way too much money to give it up. And after all, nothing is immoral -- it's all relative. You can justify 'anything' -- the question is, 'Should you?' You're in business because people pay you to take away their guilt.
fergusof 4 years ago
Look, I don't necessarily support this stuff, but maybe what makes you happy isn't what makes others happy. And don't blow it out of proportion - Immoral Sex isn't anything even remotely correlated to the Holocaust.
scarease 4 years ago
You've completely missed the point and as a result haven't countered anything I've said. I agree with everything you've said. And, by the way, the Holocaust reference is hyperbole.
fergusof 4 years ago
My take on religion and morality:
People inclined to good will do good; people inclined to evil will do evil. But to make a good person do evil? For that you need religion.
fileboy2002 4 years ago 5
Hi im a single male and i would like to be able to hook up with a couple of swingers. Id like to be able to get with someones wife and have the husband watch if he wants or wait in the other room. Ive heard of couples where the man gets excited when the wife has sex with another man. Point is how can i become one of those men who gets to enjoy someones wife. Im young, in shape, and would like some advice on how to meet a couple
Honest2theextreme 4 years ago
that is called "cuckold", not swinging..
Sodomatriarch 3 years ago
Yeah, and u can swing together 2 the end of time and never marry out of love which YOU, like every woman, want so much. And u never be truly loved by ur swinging partner which u, as a woman, so much want.
GeneNowok 4 years ago
I don't want the men I swing with to love me. The only person that loves me and that I care that loves me is my husband. I married out of love (there wasn't a dry eye in the house at my wedding). Its so easy for you to sit back and judge something that you don't undderstand. Don't knock it till you have tried it.
thelemalove93 4 years ago 7
Ok, i know u will never admit it even 2 urself that such a swinging relationship is not normal by any standards and getting presents from ur husband doesnt prove he loves u cuz if he did he wouldnt swing. Im a man so i should know but im a normal man. Ok, i hope it's not that late 2 wish u every luck and happiness on ur b-day.
GeneNowok 4 years ago
That's so naive. If a guy gives a gift then it means that he loves the woman? Or does it mean that he's guilty? That he's trying to hide something? Or take her mind off of something? If it's not normal, then it's often a sign of a significant change in behaviour (i.e. cheating).
biglmac 4 years ago
What woman agrees 2 swinignig? And what couple agrees 2 swingning? Answer: Couples with problems and big problems in that. NO NORMAL woman would ever agree 2 that. Swinging, hahaha! What r u talking about people? Here in Silesia such things r not accepted at all and would never be. No couple, but especially no woman, would ever want or agree 2 that. But then we r NORMAL people.
GeneNowok 4 years ago
I am a woman and I agreed and love swinging.The truth is that humans have desires and as opposed to cheating or having a sexless marriage we have a fullfilling marriage. I am not saying that it is for everyone but if you have that level of trust (which is higher than normal) and your relationship is solid then there is nothing wrong with it.
thelemalove93 4 years ago 3
I know this and u know ths that swinging couples r not normal couples and that something must b terribly wrong with them or at least with one of them. Come on, let's not cheat ourselves. There's absolutelly no love between them. It can b ok with a nonloving man, as every healthy man is a sex machine but not with a woman who always wants love first of all.
GeneNowok 4 years ago
I am a prefectly normal individual. I work, i have a lot of friends. To say my husband and I have no love between us is not your place to judge. I love my husband more than life itself. Today is my b-day and he took me to dinner, bought me flowers, chocolate, a necklace and just spent time with me. We are very much in love, but we also swing.
thelemalove93 4 years ago 7
This is a recipe for disaster. Complicating a relationship isn't going to make it more sound.
dsxmachina77 4 years ago
ha my name is nita jackson and i am a counselor. i love your video its all different type of relationship out there and am happy that we can talk about them
Foreverlens 4 years ago 2
sound is too low
ablesch 4 years ago
The funny thing is that i'd never share this baby!
CamiloSanchez1979 4 years ago
The Women in the LS are with out a doubt are in controlled of the LS...Men are just aloud in because they have a female with them...Single males have too crawl to prove themselves worthy of being excepted into the LS...Those who own the PUSSY make the rules..
scorpionkings 4 years ago
I completely agree with swinging,humans are animals weather they choose to agree with this statement or not,we become bored of staring at one vagina or penis for the rest of our lives-thats why divorce and cheating rate is so high-thats reality
shellcass 4 years ago 2
Whether? Anyway, I guess, but it shouldn't be about what organs you stare at, or sex at all...
tyciol 4 years ago
Also your chance of getting terrible sexual related desieses rises exponentially as your number of "parters" increases. Mindlessly gratifying yourself is the most shallow kind of emotion and will never bring you any kind of meaningful happiness to your life.
bushslayer 4 years ago
Swinging is very very wrong and heres why. Imagine a man has children with two different women. When these children grow up they will only have HALF A FATHER best. Infact sometimes they will have no father at all since their father will abandon them for their other family.
bushslayer 4 years ago
Unless the families combine, like polygamy...
tyciol 4 years ago 2
very mature look at this lifestyle. Thanks for posting...
TLMcutie622 4 years ago 3
thank you for these informative videos. I hope that people really appreciate your time and thought and research!
gossamerwindweb 5 years ago
Is there any research on sex in prehistory? I mean to ask, when did monogamy become the dominant form of precieved sexual relations in human society?
aicheyearaem 5 years ago
since humans adopted a sedentry lifestyle (devison of property)
losthart 4 years ago