@TickleMehNancy: I agree with you 100%, but it's not about "eliminating" risk (that's impossible), it's about "minimizing" the risk. But you are absolutely right.
Justin, I have been following your vids for quite some time now. I have a friend a very close friend who is positive and that's all he does is bareback. I told him the same thing you said about barebacking and reinfection, but he's not listening. I love you, I have followed all of your vids. Keep it up...and for those that watch this...REAL TALK RAP IT UP...
Depends. You can always catch HIV when there's not a latex or polyurethane condom involvded. It's just always safer to stay in a relationship and both get tested for everything before you engage in sexual acts. And remember, even in relationships, it's better to wear condoms because HIV tests can take up to 6 months before they show someone is positive.
Also, 1 in 4 people have genital herpes or warts (which are spread by touch alone - condom or not). Just be safe.
Also, just because you can't see a disease doesn't mean it isn't there. They just may not show the symptoms.
Trust yourself and yourself only. Never let someone "convince" you they don't have anything or that they're ok because only a doctor can do that. Good luck!
Barebacking, barebacking barebacking…Ahhh, tis but a distant memory.
Advice to all – strap it on and even so, don’t come inside, period. I came up during the age of AIDS (53), and I must admit that I miss barebacking, but nothing’s a more sobering cure for denial than going to 2, 3, 4 funerals a month and noticing that before long all of your friends are gone (mostly in their 30’s). Take it from someone who was lucky and knows. Oh, and y'all self-righteous bible-thumpers, y’all be damned!
@TheRocky031 Rocky....someone wrote, google retard, but they are a retard for putting that up there. Anybody that doesn't ask questions is a retard. Barebacking is having sex with no condom. Which do you chose...risking getting infected or spending a few dollars to save your own life. Does that make sense?
I 40years old and a transsexual and believe it or not, I have dodge the bullet of HIV. I have done a LOT of things in my past and by the Grace of God; I don't have HIV. A lot of my close friends do and a lot that I have lost did. I haven't had any sexual contact with anyone in a couple of years because I am terrified of letting HIV be my last will and testament. Instead, I buy luxury cars and nice things to fill the void of a man in my life. At least my cars can't give me AIDS.
You are not the face or the "story" of hiv sweetie. Not everyone goes through what you go through. I have listened to some of your videos and found that you are ignorant as FUCK in soooo many areas. I wish you would just shut the fuck up about topics you really know nothing about.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEOS, VERY EDUCATIONAL INDEED, BUT CAN YOU PLEASE USE A MICROPHONE SO THAT YOUR VOICE CAN GET A BIT LOUDER, I ALSO FEE IT WILL BE GOOD IF YOU CAN WRITE A BOOK ABOUT YOUR LIFE PRE-HIV AND POST HIVS
Leviticus 11:7 also says it's an abomination to eat Swine. So you do me a favor you take the sausage out of your mouth and I'll take the sausage out of mine. Don't you dare quote the Bible to me. For someone with the name RevdCuntyman should really keep his mouth shut when it comes to sexuality.
@jsmithco98 As an atheist I have to say, and as a fellow LGBT, it DOES say that "god" considers homosexuals worthy of death, and that their blood shall be upon them. Don't say well it also says this about the dietary restrictions because that does NOTHING to remove what it says about gays. THROW off your chains from this savage religion and say yes I love my fellow man because I JUST DO. The bible is not a source of morality. Period. HUMANS are.
An absolutely beautiful, blunt and upfront video post that should be stamped on the forehead of every single gay man in the world. I may sound somewhat brutal but i have no sympathy with men who know the facts about the HIV virus and yet who still knowingly engage in bareback sex. To do so and knowing the dangers of becoming positive is just drop dead dumb and stupid.
Thank you for posting this because so many people do this and its not a good thing to do sex without a condom is not the route to go. protect yourselves always ppl. Listen to Justin. there is now aids found in our youth kids under the age of 13 out having sex its not cool again Listen to Justin. thank You Justin
It's a hard decision if your a horn dog, but Its worth the effort to wear condoms. Less mental stress, and worrying about wha u might have or wha tu might have given your partner. We gay men, ESPECIALLY black gay men need to evovle. Suck it up ad wrap it up!
A friend and I were talking about this recently. I remember we were at Black Pride in Atlanta last year and noticed about a dozen barebacking parties ON ONE PAGE of a website.
Sheryl Lee Ralph even spoke on it at her keynote address. "A lot of ppl are going home with more than they got here" (badly paraphrasing).
Keep up your good work man. Just gotta keep the word out there.
In porn its supposedly different because the actors are tested but its still dangerous because the virus can be in your system a long time before it shows up on tests.
Don't worry about not being able to pronounce my name(its me Dele Alade from Facebook).
I whole heartedly agree with everything you said & thanks for the response.
I feel because individuals are living longer 26yrs people are willing to take risks. SO MANY GAY MEN ONLY COCK THE EARS & EYES OPEN WHEN THEIR LOOKS START FADING BECAUSE OF THIS DISEASE.
I know guys who spend hours in the gym but bareback illogical.
@TickleMehNancy: I agree with you 100%, but it's not about "eliminating" risk (that's impossible), it's about "minimizing" the risk. But you are absolutely right.
widgetfun 1 week ago
FAGGOTS HAVE AIDS!!!
tdot06 3 months ago
Justin, I have been following your vids for quite some time now. I have a friend a very close friend who is positive and that's all he does is bareback. I told him the same thing you said about barebacking and reinfection, but he's not listening. I love you, I have followed all of your vids. Keep it up...and for those that watch this...REAL TALK RAP IT UP...
MsChainedLady 5 months ago
hi is oral sex safe pz try to answer this question.
fahd181 6 months ago
@fahd181
Depends. You can always catch HIV when there's not a latex or polyurethane condom involvded. It's just always safer to stay in a relationship and both get tested for everything before you engage in sexual acts. And remember, even in relationships, it's better to wear condoms because HIV tests can take up to 6 months before they show someone is positive.
Also, 1 in 4 people have genital herpes or warts (which are spread by touch alone - condom or not). Just be safe.
RBG02005 5 months ago
@fahd181
Also, just because you can't see a disease doesn't mean it isn't there. They just may not show the symptoms.
Trust yourself and yourself only. Never let someone "convince" you they don't have anything or that they're ok because only a doctor can do that. Good luck!
RBG02005 5 months ago
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fahd181 6 months ago
yourreally cute!
hh73 6 months ago
Barebacking, barebacking barebacking…Ahhh, tis but a distant memory.
Advice to all – strap it on and even so, don’t come inside, period. I came up during the age of AIDS (53), and I must admit that I miss barebacking, but nothing’s a more sobering cure for denial than going to 2, 3, 4 funerals a month and noticing that before long all of your friends are gone (mostly in their 30’s). Take it from someone who was lucky and knows. Oh, and y'all self-righteous bible-thumpers, y’all be damned!
widgetfun 7 months ago
@widgetfun i don't think condoms are 100% effective against hiv so not cumming in the condom is good advice
TickleMehNancy 7 months ago
whats barebacking ?
TheRocky031 7 months ago
@TheRocky031 google retard
TickleMehNancy 7 months ago
@TheRocky031 Rocky....someone wrote, google retard, but they are a retard for putting that up there. Anybody that doesn't ask questions is a retard. Barebacking is having sex with no condom. Which do you chose...risking getting infected or spending a few dollars to save your own life. Does that make sense?
MsChainedLady 5 months ago
I 40years old and a transsexual and believe it or not, I have dodge the bullet of HIV. I have done a LOT of things in my past and by the Grace of God; I don't have HIV. A lot of my close friends do and a lot that I have lost did. I haven't had any sexual contact with anyone in a couple of years because I am terrified of letting HIV be my last will and testament. Instead, I buy luxury cars and nice things to fill the void of a man in my life. At least my cars can't give me AIDS.
2710Pocahontas 8 months ago
I did not know that you could become infected twice with HIV, but it makes sense... different strains.... informative video
jadakiss228 8 months ago
You are not the face or the "story" of hiv sweetie. Not everyone goes through what you go through. I have listened to some of your videos and found that you are ignorant as FUCK in soooo many areas. I wish you would just shut the fuck up about topics you really know nothing about.
greatbydesign33 10 months ago
If you practise barebacking - you deserve what you get. You have a choice - SAFE SEX OR NOT. Everyone think about it....
iberia77 10 months ago
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEOS, VERY EDUCATIONAL INDEED, BUT CAN YOU PLEASE USE A MICROPHONE SO THAT YOUR VOICE CAN GET A BIT LOUDER, I ALSO FEE IT WILL BE GOOD IF YOU CAN WRITE A BOOK ABOUT YOUR LIFE PRE-HIV AND POST HIVS
WASHNEW 11 months ago
bby u hot nd i love yr confidence of taking such a huge step making a video abt yr lyf....so 2 all da haters u can eat yr dust.
TheGaysaint 1 year ago
So what are the best places for a married man to get some hot bareback gay sex?
POZAIDS 1 year ago
I totally agree with you dude. The whole barebacking craze is totally pissing me off.
jlenoconel 1 year ago
Leviticus 20:13. Nuff said.
RevdCuntyman 1 year ago
@RevdCuntyman
Leviticus 11:7 also says it's an abomination to eat Swine. So you do me a favor you take the sausage out of your mouth and I'll take the sausage out of mine. Don't you dare quote the Bible to me. For someone with the name RevdCuntyman should really keep his mouth shut when it comes to sexuality.
jsmithco98 1 year ago 8
@jsmithco98 As an atheist I have to say, and as a fellow LGBT, it DOES say that "god" considers homosexuals worthy of death, and that their blood shall be upon them. Don't say well it also says this about the dietary restrictions because that does NOTHING to remove what it says about gays. THROW off your chains from this savage religion and say yes I love my fellow man because I JUST DO. The bible is not a source of morality. Period. HUMANS are.
XforeverlongingX 7 months ago
@jsmithco98 speaking of holiness, holy shit you're 31? you look so good hunny, god damn
XforeverlongingX 7 months ago
Respect my friend....I love you man.
Angel0Martinez 2 years ago
An absolutely beautiful, blunt and upfront video post that should be stamped on the forehead of every single gay man in the world. I may sound somewhat brutal but i have no sympathy with men who know the facts about the HIV virus and yet who still knowingly engage in bareback sex. To do so and knowing the dangers of becoming positive is just drop dead dumb and stupid.
friendofthediva3 2 years ago
Thank you for posting this because so many people do this and its not a good thing to do sex without a condom is not the route to go. protect yourselves always ppl. Listen to Justin. there is now aids found in our youth kids under the age of 13 out having sex its not cool again Listen to Justin. thank You Justin
dylougottaluvme 2 years ago
It's a hard decision if your a horn dog, but Its worth the effort to wear condoms. Less mental stress, and worrying about wha u might have or wha tu might have given your partner. We gay men, ESPECIALLY black gay men need to evovle. Suck it up ad wrap it up!
mandingo782 2 years ago 2
A friend and I were talking about this recently. I remember we were at Black Pride in Atlanta last year and noticed about a dozen barebacking parties ON ONE PAGE of a website.
Sheryl Lee Ralph even spoke on it at her keynote address. "A lot of ppl are going home with more than they got here" (badly paraphrasing).
Keep up your good work man. Just gotta keep the word out there.
robertantonnyc 2 years ago 2
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shussey100 2 years ago
No I do not enjoy being HIV +
jsmithco98 2 years ago
@jsmithco98 who would there so fuckin ignorant for that
Chanay525 1 year ago
In porn its supposedly different because the actors are tested but its still dangerous because the virus can be in your system a long time before it shows up on tests.
artistNexile 2 years ago 3
Don't worry about not being able to pronounce my name(its me Dele Alade from Facebook).
I whole heartedly agree with everything you said & thanks for the response.
I feel because individuals are living longer 26yrs people are willing to take risks. SO MANY GAY MEN ONLY COCK THE EARS & EYES OPEN WHEN THEIR LOOKS START FADING BECAUSE OF THIS DISEASE.
I know guys who spend hours in the gym but bareback illogical.
Thanks my dear for your great response.
GayBlkWorld 2 years ago 3
OMG, I have to do a response video.
DauntaviusSwain 2 years ago 3
Well I hope it is nice and I hope I didn't offend you
jsmithco98 2 years ago