The Bible actually DOES tell us to judge all the time! There is a condemning judgement, which we're not to do to others. But discernment judgements, and judicial judgements--made partly by what we see other people choosing to do (including with their dress) are to be made all the time.
Since when has the Christian message been, "judge a book by its cover"? I wonder if these guys would appreciate it if someone, before ever speaking with them, talked about them behind their backs saying they were shallow and simply out for attention because they were wearing their hats backwards or cocked to the side
I appreciate everything these young men said. I wish I had good role models growing up, but I did not. I was looking for attention, the wrong way and did not attract the right people around me. My hope, is that when you see the immodesty girl, that you will show her love, talk with her, be her friend. Show her that she does matter, and is seen. She will begin to change. The easy thing would be to judge her and walk away and never have the person see God love first hand. God Bless
I love this so much! I really needed to hear this today! I dress modestly because I think that my body was given to me to save for one person and not flaunt to every guy I come in contact with. The awesome thing about this video, is that all the dudes were pretty cute and modern and they all said that they appreciated and were more attracted to modest girls! This was such a blessing to me!
thank you for speaking the truth! to all the people who feel they are judging, for one thing, they know there's more then meets the eye. second, not just these guys, but anyone- we are human. people will judge, whether they are a good person, or not. thats just the way people are. thats why you choose to be modest. first impressions are everything. thats just the way it goes.
Very one sided argument, boys and men dress aren't any better in their presentations these days. Men like women have complete control of their urges so let's not do the blame game if you want to be taken seriously.
@Ichliebemusikundybd p.s if you genuinely have an innate biological preference for women that appear classy then why don't you give them the time of day? I dress modestly by choice and by that same token automatically reduce the likelihood of attracting attention from men in my age racket by about 70 percent, most men aren't confident enough to approach women and the ones that are a lot of times go for the rotten apples as you call it. Really think about it there's a lot of modest ladies you
@Ichliebemusikundybd are just to preoccupied with the women advertising their flesh to notice. Fortunately a lot of men are interested in long-term affairs and have fashion sense that's not equivalent to a borderline gangster. I'll only end up with one person therefore I am comfortable being ignored by the majority of men, a quality man appreciates a natural lady. Love and light : )
Wow, this was so encouraging! That's for putting this together! :D I also love how the guys were actually pretty good looking, and yet they were like "modesty is *way* more attractive there, ladies." I think I needed to hear that boost. God bless! :D
Sadly, here in Hawaii dressing immodesly is like, a culture, I mean. Guys won't care about u if u don't wear shorts, tank top, or bikinis, but I dont care, I try to be modest whenever I can. I don't want some nasty dude thinking nasty thoughts about me, that's nasty :)
I really liked this video until the guy with the purple shirt. I was looking for non-religious videos to promote modest dressing for my high-school students. Why can't people realize that modesty does not have to be a religious value? It just is a value. If anyone can point me towards a secular video that I can play in a classroom, please let me know.
I really liked this video until the guy with the purple shirt. I was looking for non-religious videos to promote modest dressing for my high-school students. Why can't people realize that modesty does not have to be a religious value? It just is a value. If anyone can point me towards a secular video that I can play in a classroom, please let me know.
If you dress and show off your body you are asking for trouble, And the world today is only promoting more and more of this today. Like ALL of these videos I have watched on this, ans GOOD MEN that I have meet they want a Lady that is PURE and also they want the other men drooling over their lady when they are out. Ladies that want to be Ladies should respect themselfs. Don't drop to there level STAND UP AND BE a LADY!
Awesome. I used to dress immodestly and trust me - I know the reasons girls dress that way. Jesus made all the difference in my life. No one had to *tell* me to dress differently after I accepted Him as my savior, it came natural. I immediately threw away all my miniskirts and so on and so on. The change came from within. Great video! Girls need to know what guys really think.
this really encouraged me because i have not been dressing modestly lately. getting a young guy's point of view really helps besides hearing my mom all the time. not that i don't respect her, it just reinforces what she says. thank you guys:)
Imodestly dressed young women as someone who is "easy" whereas someone you appreciates it will love you for who you are and not just what you look like in micro mini shorts and a skimpy shirt.
When she shows some skin then she is definatley insecure. A truly beautiful women would be able to turn heads with ALL of her clothes on. I know modesty, allot of the time, goes unnoticed and unseen of it's value but, if you take the time to find a young man who appreciates your modesty it will improve your self confidence and you will also find that this particular young man treats you with more respect. Most young men see i
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Guys like you that judge others by what they wear, are what put schools into uniforms. It doesn't tell ANYTHING about the person. Perhaps a girl finds clothes to be restricting? Maybe it helps her to feel beautiful to show off some leg, or not try and hide that fact she has breasts?
The funny thing here... I'm not a guy. I'm a girl that doesn't always dress modestly. But I was asked to get guys points of view on it for a fashion show. It wasn't about what they go after, on any given night. It was about long term relationships. I interviewed good guys, not douche bags, that makes a major difference in what they prefer.
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Judging based on appearances sounds super Christian. Personally, I look for a guy who respects me because I'm a fellow human being, not because my cleavage isn't showing.
Everyone needs to respect yourselves
MiuMiuStormiGirl 1 month ago
This is refreshing. I was never into the idea of dressing like a slut or showing too much skin or whatever. Nice to see young men with the same idea.
Jen321able 2 months ago
The Bible actually DOES tell us to judge all the time! There is a condemning judgement, which we're not to do to others. But discernment judgements, and judicial judgements--made partly by what we see other people choosing to do (including with their dress) are to be made all the time.
MyOttoLink 2 months ago
Since when has the Christian message been, "judge a book by its cover"? I wonder if these guys would appreciate it if someone, before ever speaking with them, talked about them behind their backs saying they were shallow and simply out for attention because they were wearing their hats backwards or cocked to the side
7cireton 2 months ago
its great that they are nice guys in this world like these guys!
Libstergirl74 2 months ago
It's sooooooooo good to know there are actually guys who feel this way....
lilmissrockprincess 2 months ago
This is allright I guess, but I think it's shallow, to judge so much on appearance.
starfaery 3 months ago
Good video.
laurenoliver23 3 months ago
I appreciate everything these young men said. I wish I had good role models growing up, but I did not. I was looking for attention, the wrong way and did not attract the right people around me. My hope, is that when you see the immodesty girl, that you will show her love, talk with her, be her friend. Show her that she does matter, and is seen. She will begin to change. The easy thing would be to judge her and walk away and never have the person see God love first hand. God Bless
VideoProductionPlus 3 months ago
I love this so much! I really needed to hear this today! I dress modestly because I think that my body was given to me to save for one person and not flaunt to every guy I come in contact with. The awesome thing about this video, is that all the dudes were pretty cute and modern and they all said that they appreciated and were more attracted to modest girls! This was such a blessing to me!
flutegirly321 3 months ago
men respect modest women.. and women respect modest men
DarkprinX2500 4 months ago
thank you for speaking the truth! to all the people who feel they are judging, for one thing, they know there's more then meets the eye. second, not just these guys, but anyone- we are human. people will judge, whether they are a good person, or not. thats just the way people are. thats why you choose to be modest. first impressions are everything. thats just the way it goes.
sileelee 4 months ago
Very one sided argument, boys and men dress aren't any better in their presentations these days. Men like women have complete control of their urges so let's not do the blame game if you want to be taken seriously.
Ichliebemusikundybd 4 months ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd p.s if you genuinely have an innate biological preference for women that appear classy then why don't you give them the time of day? I dress modestly by choice and by that same token automatically reduce the likelihood of attracting attention from men in my age racket by about 70 percent, most men aren't confident enough to approach women and the ones that are a lot of times go for the rotten apples as you call it. Really think about it there's a lot of modest ladies you
Ichliebemusikundybd 4 months ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd are just to preoccupied with the women advertising their flesh to notice. Fortunately a lot of men are interested in long-term affairs and have fashion sense that's not equivalent to a borderline gangster. I'll only end up with one person therefore I am comfortable being ignored by the majority of men, a quality man appreciates a natural lady. Love and light : )
Ichliebemusikundybd 4 months ago
Wow, this was so encouraging! That's for putting this together! :D I also love how the guys were actually pretty good looking, and yet they were like "modesty is *way* more attractive there, ladies." I think I needed to hear that boost. God bless! :D
BehindTheVeil333 4 months ago
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1 Timothy 2:9-10
In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided
hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
Modesty is about saying no to expensive and flashy items -- it's not about covering up!
tyseron1 4 months ago
Sadly, here in Hawaii dressing immodesly is like, a culture, I mean. Guys won't care about u if u don't wear shorts, tank top, or bikinis, but I dont care, I try to be modest whenever I can. I don't want some nasty dude thinking nasty thoughts about me, that's nasty :)
TheAngelmj15 4 months ago
Great video! Keep it up!
MakeupUniversity 6 months ago
I honestly wish there was more guys like this in Australia, because unfortunately the majority here don't think this way.
101charmed 6 months ago
I really liked this video until the guy with the purple shirt. I was looking for non-religious videos to promote modest dressing for my high-school students. Why can't people realize that modesty does not have to be a religious value? It just is a value. If anyone can point me towards a secular video that I can play in a classroom, please let me know.
sambalizzirdonskis 8 months ago
I really liked this video until the guy with the purple shirt. I was looking for non-religious videos to promote modest dressing for my high-school students. Why can't people realize that modesty does not have to be a religious value? It just is a value. If anyone can point me towards a secular video that I can play in a classroom, please let me know.
sambalizzirdonskis 8 months ago
LOVE this!!!
x0livelaughlearn 9 months ago
If you dress and show off your body you are asking for trouble, And the world today is only promoting more and more of this today. Like ALL of these videos I have watched on this, ans GOOD MEN that I have meet they want a Lady that is PURE and also they want the other men drooling over their lady when they are out. Ladies that want to be Ladies should respect themselfs. Don't drop to there level STAND UP AND BE a LADY!
sign4unow 9 months ago
clothes make a man.. otherwise, why wear clothes?
lovellespice 9 months ago
Awesome. I used to dress immodestly and trust me - I know the reasons girls dress that way. Jesus made all the difference in my life. No one had to *tell* me to dress differently after I accepted Him as my savior, it came natural. I immediately threw away all my miniskirts and so on and so on. The change came from within. Great video! Girls need to know what guys really think.
JillMary5 1 year ago 7
@JillMary5 God bless u! Thnaks for sharing!
lovesColdplay 1 month ago
this really encouraged me because i have not been dressing modestly lately. getting a young guy's point of view really helps besides hearing my mom all the time. not that i don't respect her, it just reinforces what she says. thank you guys:)
iceskatecate 1 year ago 2
Are they just saying this to make themselves look good?
starfaery 1 year ago
Girls that cover up, doesn't necesarily respect themselves. I've dressed modest all my life, yet I don't respect myself. Quite the contrary.
starfaery 1 year ago
@starfaery You have to look at the rule not the exception okay you don't! but the majority do!
keishamonster 1 year ago
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starfaery 1 year ago
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starfaery 1 year ago
@keishamonster That's not a rule, just a vague assumption, and I don't think you're in authority, to claim what the majority thinks.
starfaery 1 year ago
way to incorporate a great song into a great movie! =) thanks for sharing guys!!
LadyRahel90 1 year ago
ohh yessss:))
coolperon 1 year ago
I'm fine with dressing modestly as long as it's applied to BOTH genders.
BoyGenteel 1 year ago 4
I am sooo happy to hear young men say these things! Thank you for going against the grain...for showing girls how you want us to look
InTheHeartOfChrist 1 year ago 4
Imodestly dressed young women as someone who is "easy" whereas someone you appreciates it will love you for who you are and not just what you look like in micro mini shorts and a skimpy shirt.
MsLuckyDuckling 1 year ago
When she shows some skin then she is definatley insecure. A truly beautiful women would be able to turn heads with ALL of her clothes on. I know modesty, allot of the time, goes unnoticed and unseen of it's value but, if you take the time to find a young man who appreciates your modesty it will improve your self confidence and you will also find that this particular young man treats you with more respect. Most young men see i
MsLuckyDuckling 1 year ago
feels beautiful
MsLuckyDuckling 1 year ago
Well aramisdiabolic, if a young lady only
MsLuckyDuckling 1 year ago
thanks so much for this!! It's great to hear from Christian guys that respect modest girls.
cjhaiz5 1 year ago 5
if guys dont like immodest girls, then why i dont get a christian bf? lol i wear modest!
ariboreal 1 year ago
it be nice to find some guys like this in my town!
dewyduce24 2 years ago 22
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Guys like you that judge others by what they wear, are what put schools into uniforms. It doesn't tell ANYTHING about the person. Perhaps a girl finds clothes to be restricting? Maybe it helps her to feel beautiful to show off some leg, or not try and hide that fact she has breasts?
aramisdiabolic 2 years ago
The funny thing here... I'm not a guy. I'm a girl that doesn't always dress modestly. But I was asked to get guys points of view on it for a fashion show. It wasn't about what they go after, on any given night. It was about long term relationships. I interviewed good guys, not douche bags, that makes a major difference in what they prefer.
neecee1987 2 years ago 15
@neecee1987 i agree! are you mormon?
lovebugg327 11 months ago
@lovebugg327 No I'm not mormon. I just understand that dressing provocatively doesn't give you a guy, it gives you a one night stand
neecee1987 11 months ago 17
@lovebugg327 No I'm not mormon. I just understand that dressing provocatively doesn't give you a guy, it gives you a one night stand.
neecee1987 11 months ago
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Judging based on appearances sounds super Christian. Personally, I look for a guy who respects me because I'm a fellow human being, not because my cleavage isn't showing.
beatreader656 2 years ago
aww-josh and ethan are so cute! Modest is the hottest for sure:)
CadetCadwell 2 years ago 4
you guys spoke the truth !!!!!!!!!!!!11
paintyourwoldislam 2 years ago 15