Wow I had the exact same issue. 5'8" and 125 with a 28 inch waist. I could never go to a buffet without some fat person saying "If I was as skinny as you I'd eat more". I once had a partner tell me (while we were being intimate) that I should join a gym to get some muscle.
I'm now an old guy and finally up to a 30 inch waist. It's nice to shop in the men's department.
let me say, i love ya babe, i understand because i'm a big girl who eats 1200 calories a day, dont eat junk food or fast food, saw the documentary food inc. groos and i exercise seven days a week for 30 mins twice a day, and still get crap about being lazy, wtf. but i think your awsome, haters gonna hate thats all i gotta say!
I like this. You do make a good point. Look, as someone who's been marginally overweight and marginally underweight, I think both extremes are bad. And anyone who's naturally slender will inevitably run into problems or get the "are you eating enough?" look. And anyone who's ridiculing the poster for being gay is just proving that they are a homophobic bigot and that he's onto something. :)
Ryan man, I am surprised that you cannot find 28" jeans in US...
I have a 29" waistline myself (5'11", 142 lbs) and never had these problems. I've never actually shopped for jeans in the States though. Lol..In Asia, you get men's jeans starting from 25" .
a lot of guys seem to have this problem...hopefully you haven't tried gaining weight by eating junk food, because if so you may have actually succeeded in getting heavier -- but visceral fat (internal, builds up in your colon walls/stomach area, less visible) as opposed to subcutaneous (external, can accumulate anywhere on the body, very visible) fat. this can mess up your metabolism and make it even harder to get bigger. so i'd just recommend a good diet and good exercise!
i dumped this guy cause he was underweight.....not cause im shallow but cause it made me feel bad about my weight, and it made me seem overweight compared to him when i'm not at all. so yeah i can see the downsides to both...:(
my husband is the same way. when i first started to date him his poor ribs or sticking out. and he would eat junk and mean and all kinds of stuff trying to put on some weight. he did put some on in the last few years but hes still small. lol he and i are opposets. he wants to gain i want to lose. keep trying you'll get there. good luck.
Had a friend who looked anorexic, though I know she ate alot. She told me how people would come up to her on the street, strangers, and tell her to get some help or to eat. That really opened my eyes; people can be meanno matter what.
umm.. actually people do say that, and apparently are much more comfortable saying it to the person's face than if they were commenting on a larger person's weight.
I agree with animeee93 and Loveim4...I was very thin when I was growing up (which was completely genetic - I ate tons and didn't exercise all that much), and got brutally teased and ridiculed for it my whole life, all the way up through high school. I never witnessed one of my fat friends being teased to their face, but people (guys and girls) would constantly say that I was 'so skinny it's disgusting' and stuff like that. It does happen.
lift weights youll probably gain some weight. and of course eat alot, maybe take some protien to put on some muscle weight or just eat high protien foods
How many times have you made fun of an overweight person? Ok, great now think about how many times you think that over weight person made fun of you? None, I can answer you that...instead of her making a joke out of you she envies you. That is the difference between fat and underweight. Oh and most people would not make fun of you or whomever is the under weight, they would actually be like I wish I had her/him body...I wish I was that skinny. You NEVER hear anyone say I wish I was that fat.
Well, there's part of your problem. You're lazy? You need to get of your ass at least 4 days a week & go lift weights. If you started doing squats & build up your thighs, you could probably start wearing some 30 jeans at least.
Changing your body is not what fat rant or any reply to fat rant is/should be about. They're about loving your body the way it is right now. We should be saying neither that fat people should loose weight to fit into jeans nor that skinny people should gain weight to fit into jeans. We should be saying that jeans need to be made in sizes that represent the actual spectrum of sizes that people come in. People who make jeans need to expand their minds and their ideas of what beauty really is.
Thank you. It took a great deal of scientific investigation and many years of studying the great American land whale and after exhausting interviews and scientific surveys coupled with the fact that 67% of Americans are fat ugly smelly slobs it is now a scientific and mathematical certainty that fat people care more about feeding their unbridled food lust that anything else. Too bad that obesity take longer to kill them than cancer.
So, is that 67% (the fat ugly smelly slobs) only a PART of the percentage that are obese? I'm sure there must be fat people who smell good (perfume doesn't JUST come in skinny people sizes, and showers can be built large enough, I'm sure) and have pretty faces and dress nicely. Please, correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems that there must be fat people who aren't ugly, smelly, or slobs.
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no.
fat=ugly
i mean
i think around like 70% or more of the whole world population liked 'normal' looking girls more then the fat ones..and as it goes majority wins :)
and i think the same
fat=ugly
i got a bmi of 18.7 and im really happy, i get good girls(good looking, not talking about inner personality),i get good grades for sports,im healthy,i can do more sports then most fat people,i feel good since im not being bullied cus im fat and overall i just enjoy life without being uncertain!
I knew they had awards for sports performance, but I didn't know you were actually graded on them.
So, do those good grades in sports combine with your winning personality and mental clarity and certainty (though about what I'm not quite sure) to get you into college (barring, of course, a sports scholarship)?
Such a shame that you found terribly incorrect statistics, and that you're clearly below the 50th percentile in intelligence as well as personality.
and why should some1 care about how they typ on ze interwebs?
weasel ofc you get graded on your performance in sports...why should you..I mean its school dude.!?
but yeah
everyone here loves fat people i guess since your all saying shes pretty bet fat omg shes so cute!!
maybe you guys r the nerds here since if you look@modern models(not the extreme thin ones that puke etc) and other ''pretty'' girls you won't see a fat girl :) everyday standards <3
I have to agree with you. I'm a big girl at 200+ and I understand that it can be hard for skinny people too. It's a different kind of hard. Fat people make fun of skinny people, skinny people make fun of fat people (not everyone, but in general) and both can't find clothes. I think we all just need to realize that life can be difficult for EVERYONE. Fat, skinny, or perfect body. We all have struggles and no ones struggles are worse then the others. Harmony, baby!
Btw, I'm average weight, though I have struggled with being underweight as a child, but now I'm just a healthy weight (5'8" and 140 pounds) and it's hard for me too because I can't relate to really skinny people, yet people get mad if I complain about being fat.
There's going to be cons, no matter your size, so as you said, you gotta make your pros fierce!
maybe try work out? build muscle if you cant build fat it does make you gain weight but in a good way
idk... im a fat girl and ive tried everything
i have never had a problem finding clothes though... which is funny cuz usually fat people do... and you are the one having trouble with the clothes issue...
I personally thought the Fat Rant was both poignant and entertaining, but it's important to realize that problems are had by any outlier, too skinny or too fat.
I'm not anorexic, I'm not unhealthy but medical charts tell me I'm something like 20%underweight.
Jeans aren't too hard to find, but hell I'd die for some more shape.
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I think your problem is that you are gay, and gays lie. First they lie they are not gay, then they lie about their age and their weight. Gays feel more pressure to be skinny than women, I guarantee you all Gay-guy ladies do all the puking in the bathrooms. It just happen men have high metabolism than women, blame nature for that. Gay-men ladies have it all, they have the men instinct nd female feeling - THE BEST OF THE TWO WORLDS!
I think that everyone is worried about some flaw in their appearance, regardless of who you are. Unfortunately, that's just how the world is. You could have one person who thinks your the hottest thing on this planet and another think you're appalling.. it's all about preference.
you're such a cutie! Dont worry my boyfriend is going thru the SAME thing you are! My boyfriend weights 114 on a GOOD day, and he's about five eight as well, and well, I know what you mean about not being able to find clothes and stuff, try hot topic for pants they usually have about a 29!
LOL, I'm a fat girl. Hon, everyones diffrent. My best friend is underweight too. lol, together were "normal" lol, but don't worry about your being underweight. we luv ya too. Everyone needs love
I actually have a hard time finding clothes that fit me right too! Well, tops. And I'm a skinny girl. I have little boobs and designers seem to think EVERY GIRL has a B/C cup. Regardless of how fat or thin she is. It makes dress and swimsuit shopping annoying. Although I suspect my complaints pale in comparison to a fat girl's.
Ok a) yer adorable, and b) I never considered the idea that some people can't find clothes SMALL enough. I shop in both the guys' and girls' sections, and I notice the differences a lot. I'm willing to bet that men's sizes tend towards large, just as women's sizes tend towards small. Messed up.
i wish the world not only began accepting big people but to small petit people too i just think that everyone should follow the rule of thumb if you dont got nothing nice to say dont say it at all as for clothing i think that there should be a variety of sizes i mean i have large friends that cant buy the clothes they want because of limited sizes and i also have friends that have to shop in the kids department because brands dont make anything small enough for them
There was a time when you could by pant with a 28" waist but thanks to fat people that is no longer possible. It is rare to find anything smaller than a 32".
Fat people ruin it for everybody. Small and medium men's shirts are hard to find too sometimes.
Good food is also getting harder to find because fatties dictate to the food industry what sells. After all they eat 90% of the food eaten.
what the HECK is wrong with you??? how dare you stereotype fat ppl...how do we ruin it..omg balldez you so ignorant..no all fat ppl eat most of the food so you can go shove that up your arse and do blame us for clothes sizes going up! p.s freak you balldez!
Do the math you big fat retard. You fat fucks eat 90% of the food. It is called calories you dumb fuck. A 300 pounder require 3 times as many calories to maintain weight that a 100 pounder and there are a fucking lot more 300 pound fat fucking filthy pigs.
I have the same problem, I eat all the time and I'm not that active. I'm 5'9 and weigh 120 lbs, and I am not anorexic or bulimic. I'm actually trying to gain weight and I can't. I've been asked so many times if I have an eating disorder...by strangers! It actually really hurts. Thanks for shining the light on the other side of the spectrum! Also...Joy I loved the video...I actually used to be a lot heavier because of a medication, and now I need to gain some back.
ok, #1 eat all the time, sleep all the time, and no activity and still thin... perfect situation. People would kill to be like that. #2 28in waist and you can only get 29's... that is why they make belts. Next time you go to walmart, try to find 50's or 52's. Then you will know my pain.
U just have a fast motablism. Im like u. Im a compleete couch patoto but my bmi is always in the normal weight range. the only diffrence is im not under wight or over weight im normal weight. im 13 im 5.1 and im 110 lbs so yeah im normal for my age. and my bmi is 20.8
Great vid! I think the whole point of Joy's vid was to love yourself, no matter what size. So, thanks for showing us the other side of the weight realm!
do you know why you are so skinny? just BECAUSE you eat junk food and dont exercise. Try eating real food (like cook your dinner, make some steak and potatoes and sauce etc) and go jog some days a week. And drink milk :P you see. If you DO exersice your body will start taking fat for produce of muzzles. When you dont exersice, your body thinks that it doesnt need fat because you dont wanna produce muzzles
i know how u feel.... its the same here i eat like a pig and am as lazy as hell - but when i model i'm asked if i vomit. wtf? ppl need to be educated and stop lettin their ignorance hurt others. loved joy's vid too.
That was so cute! I agree though, yes we fat people might get a little bitchy when a skinny person has trouble being underweight and finding clothes, but we delude ourselves and say, DAMN YOU YOU'RE STILL SKINNY. Oh well! Yay fat and really skinny people who can't help it! XD
People of any weight have problems I think...I'm the exact average for my height and age...Because I'm not obese during the 'obesity epidemic'...People assume I have an eating disorder. Although I think it's going to take a lot more work to keep people from ostracizing 'fat' people...People do need to understand that thinner people deal with weight issues too
wow you are so cool. some of my family have a problem with being too thin and it gets annoying that people think they are anorexic or whatever, also getting suit trousers and stuff is almost impossible, hehe. i actually am not thin and it can get annoying that my brother can eat 2 packs of biscuits in about an hour and sit around watching tv all day and i eat 5 biscuits and i get chubby, but hey, ill live!!!
I go in wierd waves where I'll be normal sized for like a year and then for no reason weight will just start falling off of me. I'm in a molting phase right now and I can't keep my pants up.
You are so handsome. Thanks for pointing out how being on either end of the weight spectrum makes people automatically make absurd assumptions about you.
I'm 6'7. I used to be 145 lbs and a major toothpick. Now I weigh 199 and I look like the man on the underwear ads. Everyone here thinks you're 'cute'- boy if you hit the gym hard you would be a RARE breed of attractive. Go for it!
Eat more. lift weights. The lazy approach doesn't work want to change who you are. It was easy for me, it just takes a strong resolve.
SOOOOO GLAD YOU DID THIS. It's just so nice to hear from the other end. I HATE hearing people talk about skinny people and how they're all suffering from eating disorders and blah blah blah. Good boy. Sooooo good boy.
I choked on my water when this thing came on it was so funny! Anyhow I'm a straight guy and I don't have a problem with big women so not all straight guys take issue with that (tommysmalss). Getting to the point I'm glad you said something about being skinny sometimes I feel so alone with that.
i would rather be underwieght than overweight, but i see your point. you can almost always find stores that sell larger sizes, but it is rare to find a "small and short" rather that "Big and Tall". But I have a feeling you're gonna do fine. You're too cute not to!
you are right. i am overweight but i have friends who just cant gain weight at all. it happens. people are different.. that's the way we were made.. cheers to you though.. youre a cutie!
you're great, u work ur skinny butt babe lol...but yea u could buy girl jeans they should fit u. As long as u don't buy the jeans with pink glitter on them no one would know the difference lol....and thats right we're all fierce lol much luv
What I took from Joy's video is that it is difficult for overweight people to not only overcome the struggle of losing the weight, but to get past society's view of them being "ugly." I'm sure you won't get quite as many comments like Joy's making fun of her weight.
YES! i LOVE joys video. i just really hope that it isnt translated into hostiity towards skinny people. ive always been very thin, and had people say very hurtful things like "you look sick and anorexic." i hope everyone understands her message; appreciate the beauty in everyones body, as long as they do and are healthy.
now see people don't have any problem believing that a skinny person has trouble gaining wait even when they do every thing wrong but nooo a fat person is lieing if they say they do everything right and STILL can't lose weight. All these double standards are getting annoying.
My brother has the same problem. He stands at 6'4", and he only weights 50kg. He eats ALL THE TIME, but just can't put on weight. Now, if I could just give him some of MY weight, we'd both be happy ;)
I am so jealous of you!!!!
ilovebelladonna 1 month ago
Wow I had the exact same issue. 5'8" and 125 with a 28 inch waist. I could never go to a buffet without some fat person saying "If I was as skinny as you I'd eat more". I once had a partner tell me (while we were being intimate) that I should join a gym to get some muscle.
I'm now an old guy and finally up to a 30 inch waist. It's nice to shop in the men's department.
cavejourney 2 months ago
Start excersising, eat healthy, lift some weights. Then you will start gaining. Its better to gain muscles than fat ;)
And seriously, you eat all you can get and sleep a lot? What kind of life is that? Live your life! You only live once...I think
musicduct 8 months ago
let me say, i love ya babe, i understand because i'm a big girl who eats 1200 calories a day, dont eat junk food or fast food, saw the documentary food inc. groos and i exercise seven days a week for 30 mins twice a day, and still get crap about being lazy, wtf. but i think your awsome, haters gonna hate thats all i gotta say!
sillykatz 11 months ago
There you go - it just goes to show you can't necessarily tell how people eat or how much they exercise by the way they look.
At least people don't assume you're lazy, undisciplined and stupid because of your weight.
MaiaRikae 1 year ago
homosexual
GODMANGUY6969 1 year ago
Respond to this video: YOU GO GIRL!
kirbysuperstar1000 1 year ago
i fucking love you!!!!
proudmexican111 1 year ago
dude im skinner then you but i dont take shit the reason you guys get made fun of is because you let people talk shit
MillerMan8228 1 year ago
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MillerMan8228 1 year ago
I like this. You do make a good point. Look, as someone who's been marginally overweight and marginally underweight, I think both extremes are bad. And anyone who's naturally slender will inevitably run into problems or get the "are you eating enough?" look. And anyone who's ridiculing the poster for being gay is just proving that they are a homophobic bigot and that he's onto something. :)
jesuisme94 1 year ago
OMG you are so right! And so adorable! Loved the video! :-)
hugebeerbelly 1 year ago
ur gay
Girl18Pretty 1 year ago
cute :)
NahIshCool 1 year ago
you are adorable!
msleslieee 1 year ago
You have a great point! Underweight and overweight people unite! : )
VEASLY101 1 year ago
Ryan man, I am surprised that you cannot find 28" jeans in US...
I have a 29" waistline myself (5'11", 142 lbs) and never had these problems. I've never actually shopped for jeans in the States though. Lol..In Asia, you get men's jeans starting from 25" .
Imrankniazi 2 years ago
a lot of guys seem to have this problem...hopefully you haven't tried gaining weight by eating junk food, because if so you may have actually succeeded in getting heavier -- but visceral fat (internal, builds up in your colon walls/stomach area, less visible) as opposed to subcutaneous (external, can accumulate anywhere on the body, very visible) fat. this can mess up your metabolism and make it even harder to get bigger. so i'd just recommend a good diet and good exercise!
jumpyourbone 2 years ago
I'M SKINNY WAAAAAAHHHH
justanotherperson1 2 years ago
i dumped this guy cause he was underweight.....not cause im shallow but cause it made me feel bad about my weight, and it made me seem overweight compared to him when i'm not at all. so yeah i can see the downsides to both...:(
i miss him.
little0boots 2 years ago
maybe its metabolic problem.
5959512 2 years ago
my husband is the same way. when i first started to date him his poor ribs or sticking out. and he would eat junk and mean and all kinds of stuff trying to put on some weight. he did put some on in the last few years but hes still small. lol he and i are opposets. he wants to gain i want to lose. keep trying you'll get there. good luck.
sallysragdoll 2 years ago
Haha me and my bf are the same way.
BloomingSkulls 2 years ago
Had a friend who looked anorexic, though I know she ate alot. She told me how people would come up to her on the street, strangers, and tell her to get some help or to eat. That really opened my eyes; people can be meanno matter what.
sadeyeseeyore 2 years ago 2
Awwh you're cute % nice vid.
Thin people have it much easier. No one's going to say, "OMG he's SOOO skinny. Gross!" Fat people, on the other hand... :/
purtymusic 2 years ago
actually ppl do say that =/
animeee93 2 years ago
*_* Weell you're right.
But fat people get insults more often. (But I dunno, I'm neither skinny nor fat)
purtymusic 2 years ago 3
umm.. actually people do say that, and apparently are much more comfortable saying it to the person's face than if they were commenting on a larger person's weight.
Loveim4 2 years ago
I agree with animeee93 and Loveim4...I was very thin when I was growing up (which was completely genetic - I ate tons and didn't exercise all that much), and got brutally teased and ridiculed for it my whole life, all the way up through high school. I never witnessed one of my fat friends being teased to their face, but people (guys and girls) would constantly say that I was 'so skinny it's disgusting' and stuff like that. It does happen.
xenophile84 2 years ago
Society itself looks down upon fat people more than skinny people. Many people want to be thin, but no one wants to be fat (normally, anyway.)
But I think it all comes down to how mean people are. No matter how skinny/fat//etc you are, people are always going to find a way to tease you. :/
purtymusic 2 years ago 3
@purtymusic people say eww gross SHES so skinny, but no1 says that to men
Camm119 2 years ago
gay guys love fat women. know why? ask the girls.
worldmayhem 2 years ago 2
that song is totally my anthem! lol
sorry bout your pants luck :( i've been shopping with skinny boys, it's a pain!
oneisallineed 2 years ago 2
cute
XxZVIONxX 2 years ago
lift weights youll probably gain some weight. and of course eat alot, maybe take some protien to put on some muscle weight or just eat high protien foods
cooptroop123 2 years ago
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you seem nice but when you said i have a problem with being underweight really annoyed me, theirs no problem there....
stop bragging.
Aarroonnn 2 years ago
everyone does love him lol why do we all love you?...lol :D
i love you......haha
mzmelendez08 3 years ago 2
a gay rant?
tholuong123 3 years ago
aw i love you
justsmile115 3 years ago 3
you are cute.
pinklisa 3 years ago 3
omg, i love you!
you remind me of Jack from Will & Grace!
agaffa2010 3 years ago 7
You're so cute! :)
ElectricShark 3 years ago
Damn right, so do I, im like 136 pounds and im 6 feet, you know how much that sucks?
the jeans! lol but the 29 dont fall off me though, maybe if YOU EXERCISED YOULL GAIN MUSCLE AND BE AT LEAST A LITTLE BIGGER!
Mandingou 3 years ago
I LOVE YOU...YOU GO!!! And ur right its hard for very thin and overweight people...
virtualblonde4747 3 years ago
just wondering, is it bad if your under weight? like do you just not like it or is it a health prob?
BabyDracula432 3 years ago
wow so far i can see the following
-it's hard for big girls to find clothes in their size in the fashion they like
-and it's hard for really skinny guys to find clothes too.
wow.
that freaking sucks.
can no one be satisfied with all different sizes?
loved the video, btw =]
cascas2284 3 years ago 2
Lol you rock! GO GIRL! YOU GO
XxPnuemaxX 3 years ago
god i love gay guys lmao this vid is so cute
daydreamingiscool 3 years ago
your so cool! i wanna hang out with you lol
your so fucking awesome. lol. ihnc why :D
xhibuddypoox 3 years ago
uhm,.. try not sleepin' so much
it makes you thinner
soleyselma 3 years ago
ur a fuckin idiot
dickturpan1987 3 years ago
People should understand that underweight people have the same insecurities as overweight people do. Let's stop being predjudice.
LindsayBBW25 3 years ago
How many times have you made fun of an overweight person? Ok, great now think about how many times you think that over weight person made fun of you? None, I can answer you that...instead of her making a joke out of you she envies you. That is the difference between fat and underweight. Oh and most people would not make fun of you or whomever is the under weight, they would actually be like I wish I had her/him body...I wish I was that skinny. You NEVER hear anyone say I wish I was that fat.
im0me0n0thats0it 3 years ago 10
you sound strange
purtymusic 3 years ago
Great response :D
MaqiicTwinkies 3 years ago
Who said that I wanted to be bigger?
lilryan55 3 years ago
Well, there's part of your problem. You're lazy? You need to get of your ass at least 4 days a week & go lift weights. If you started doing squats & build up your thighs, you could probably start wearing some 30 jeans at least.
bassguitarislife 3 years ago
Changing your body is not what fat rant or any reply to fat rant is/should be about. They're about loving your body the way it is right now. We should be saying neither that fat people should loose weight to fit into jeans nor that skinny people should gain weight to fit into jeans. We should be saying that jeans need to be made in sizes that represent the actual spectrum of sizes that people come in. People who make jeans need to expand their minds and their ideas of what beauty really is.
mghhall 3 years ago
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Fat people care more about food than anything else.
Balldez 3 years ago
Wow, how inciteful. Thank you for you scientifically based remark.
Tocxica 3 years ago
Thank you. It took a great deal of scientific investigation and many years of studying the great American land whale and after exhausting interviews and scientific surveys coupled with the fact that 67% of Americans are fat ugly smelly slobs it is now a scientific and mathematical certainty that fat people care more about feeding their unbridled food lust that anything else. Too bad that obesity take longer to kill them than cancer.
Balldez 3 years ago
So, is that 67% (the fat ugly smelly slobs) only a PART of the percentage that are obese? I'm sure there must be fat people who smell good (perfume doesn't JUST come in skinny people sizes, and showers can be built large enough, I'm sure) and have pretty faces and dress nicely. Please, correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems that there must be fat people who aren't ugly, smelly, or slobs.
weaselsfeet 3 years ago
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no.
fat=ugly
i mean
i think around like 70% or more of the whole world population liked 'normal' looking girls more then the fat ones..and as it goes majority wins :)
and i think the same
fat=ugly
i got a bmi of 18.7 and im really happy, i get good girls(good looking, not talking about inner personality),i get good grades for sports,im healthy,i can do more sports then most fat people,i feel good since im not being bullied cus im fat and overall i just enjoy life without being uncertain!
lunaticz0r 3 years ago
I knew they had awards for sports performance, but I didn't know you were actually graded on them.
So, do those good grades in sports combine with your winning personality and mental clarity and certainty (though about what I'm not quite sure) to get you into college (barring, of course, a sports scholarship)?
Such a shame that you found terribly incorrect statistics, and that you're clearly below the 50th percentile in intelligence as well as personality.
weaselsfeet 3 years ago 2
Do you get bullied for your awful grammar and writing?
Abbasmurf 3 years ago
me? no
Actually
I never got bullied before :D
and why should some1 care about how they typ on ze interwebs?
weasel ofc you get graded on your performance in sports...why should you..I mean its school dude.!?
but yeah
everyone here loves fat people i guess since your all saying shes pretty bet fat omg shes so cute!!
maybe you guys r the nerds here since if you look@modern models(not the extreme thin ones that puke etc) and other ''pretty'' girls you won't see a fat girl :) everyday standards <3
lunaticz0r 3 years ago
I LOVE YOU!
MisterSmartalick 3 years ago 2
I have to agree with you. I'm a big girl at 200+ and I understand that it can be hard for skinny people too. It's a different kind of hard. Fat people make fun of skinny people, skinny people make fun of fat people (not everyone, but in general) and both can't find clothes. I think we all just need to realize that life can be difficult for EVERYONE. Fat, skinny, or perfect body. We all have struggles and no ones struggles are worse then the others. Harmony, baby!
singerissilent 3 years ago
i love you. hahha.
Btw, I'm average weight, though I have struggled with being underweight as a child, but now I'm just a healthy weight (5'8" and 140 pounds) and it's hard for me too because I can't relate to really skinny people, yet people get mad if I complain about being fat.
There's going to be cons, no matter your size, so as you said, you gotta make your pros fierce!
dudet4444 3 years ago
omigosh..i thought you were gay..but like have you ever noticed that gay guys are like really good friends..i ADORE the way you talk....=D
Charna44 3 years ago
be my best friend!
xrocket2russiax 3 years ago
You are too cute! Also... Bastard... Trade you half my metabolism for half of yours? Okay! ;P
Duoluvr 3 years ago
I love you. That is all. lol
DeadlyWhispers 3 years ago
lol...boy u go, make it fierce, work it honey
anaxr88 3 years ago
aahahahahah
beastuh 3 years ago
hmm
never thought of it that way
my cousin has to get his jeans tailored
in a way you are sort of lucky
maybe try work out? build muscle if you cant build fat it does make you gain weight but in a good way
idk... im a fat girl and ive tried everything
i have never had a problem finding clothes though... which is funny cuz usually fat people do... and you are the one having trouble with the clothes issue...
great job<3
and shut up you homophobic people!
this guy is cool!
cori182 3 years ago
Thankyou!
I personally thought the Fat Rant was both poignant and entertaining, but it's important to realize that problems are had by any outlier, too skinny or too fat.
I'm not anorexic, I'm not unhealthy but medical charts tell me I'm something like 20%underweight.
Jeans aren't too hard to find, but hell I'd die for some more shape.
TheBlackDress 4 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
I think your problem is that you are gay, and gays lie. First they lie they are not gay, then they lie about their age and their weight. Gays feel more pressure to be skinny than women, I guarantee you all Gay-guy ladies do all the puking in the bathrooms. It just happen men have high metabolism than women, blame nature for that. Gay-men ladies have it all, they have the men instinct nd female feeling - THE BEST OF THE TWO WORLDS!
Shaftttttt 4 years ago
i don't consider being a gay a problem. And i don't lie about anything.
lilryan55 4 years ago
your really ignorant and this guys cool so shut up
theicelands 3 years ago
i know how you feel !!!!!
gotica 4 years ago
I think that everyone is worried about some flaw in their appearance, regardless of who you are. Unfortunately, that's just how the world is. You could have one person who thinks your the hottest thing on this planet and another think you're appalling.. it's all about preference.
brigidsfyre 4 years ago
nicely said. :]
lilryan55 4 years ago
Bravo.
admitteddork 4 years ago
you're such a cutie! Dont worry my boyfriend is going thru the SAME thing you are! My boyfriend weights 114 on a GOOD day, and he's about five eight as well, and well, I know what you mean about not being able to find clothes and stuff, try hot topic for pants they usually have about a 29!
Edapeech 4 years ago
obviously you didn't listen, i said 29 is too big. I'll stick to GAP thank you.
lilryan55 4 years ago
awe i love this guy.
x0jme 4 years ago
You are so adorable and fabulous!
And
Your comment was incredibly sweet!
nightcrawlsin 4 years ago
only in america are people worried about being underweight but not about being fat...
gimmesomeweed 4 years ago
I know. Bitching about nonsense is at an all-time level.
Bio98765 4 years ago
LOL, I'm a fat girl. Hon, everyones diffrent. My best friend is underweight too. lol, together were "normal" lol, but don't worry about your being underweight. we luv ya too. Everyone needs love
Catt3 4 years ago
Folks should just accept each other... No matter what!!! Why do we have to always be fighting to fit in?
Phatgrl75 4 years ago
I actually have a hard time finding clothes that fit me right too! Well, tops. And I'm a skinny girl. I have little boobs and designers seem to think EVERY GIRL has a B/C cup. Regardless of how fat or thin she is. It makes dress and swimsuit shopping annoying. Although I suspect my complaints pale in comparison to a fat girl's.
weasieee 4 years ago
just love who you are and btw i think you look great
deadweight7777 4 years ago
Ok a) yer adorable, and b) I never considered the idea that some people can't find clothes SMALL enough. I shop in both the guys' and girls' sections, and I notice the differences a lot. I'm willing to bet that men's sizes tend towards large, just as women's sizes tend towards small. Messed up.
PixelFool 4 years ago
Kudos sweetie! My mom has the same problem you have :( It's odd but it seems to be difficult for both ends!
hmklomhaus 4 years ago
ah hes such a dote!!:)
kazluvsya 4 years ago
i wish the world not only began accepting big people but to small petit people too i just think that everyone should follow the rule of thumb if you dont got nothing nice to say dont say it at all as for clothing i think that there should be a variety of sizes i mean i have large friends that cant buy the clothes they want because of limited sizes and i also have friends that have to shop in the kids department because brands dont make anything small enough for them
krayzgurl18 4 years ago
There was a time when you could by pant with a 28" waist but thanks to fat people that is no longer possible. It is rare to find anything smaller than a 32".
Fat people ruin it for everybody. Small and medium men's shirts are hard to find too sometimes.
Good food is also getting harder to find because fatties dictate to the food industry what sells. After all they eat 90% of the food eaten.
Don't feel sorry for fat people.
Balldez 4 years ago
what the HECK is wrong with you??? how dare you stereotype fat ppl...how do we ruin it..omg balldez you so ignorant..no all fat ppl eat most of the food so you can go shove that up your arse and do blame us for clothes sizes going up! p.s freak you balldez!
Charna44 3 years ago
balldez? I'm sorry what?
lilryan55 3 years ago
Balldez is ridiculous. He goes to all these pages and post stupid comments. No one takes his dumb butt seriously hahaha I love this vid, lilryan!! :D
StephFL07 3 years ago
Don't defend gluttony. Google costs of obesity. Fat people are not to be praised they are to be scorned.
Balldez 3 years ago
Dude, you're a glutton for attention. You should be scorned for being an abrasive shithead. Go away, troll. I'm done.
Abbasmurf 3 years ago
Do the math you big fat retard. You fat fucks eat 90% of the food. It is called calories you dumb fuck. A 300 pounder require 3 times as many calories to maintain weight that a 100 pounder and there are a fucking lot more 300 pound fat fucking filthy pigs.
Get a clue you fat fucker.
Balldez 3 years ago
there is nothing wrong with being a lil over weight
so wht if most of the population is fat, its there choice , let them live how they choose, so back the fuck off
greatistartist45 3 years ago
Balldez, everyone is laughing at you lol Just go away already. No one even pays attention to you.
StephFL07 3 years ago
you are beautiful just the way you are papi. is that a poster of lucy lawless i see in your background? I LOVE HER!!!!! : )
lalobabbw 4 years ago
First let me say, you're lucky! Haha.
And very cute.
XxXVicks 4 years ago
i think you are perfect exactly as you are
too cute
therichards2000 4 years ago
lol gay ppl r funny
dirtynig92 4 years ago
I have the same problem, I eat all the time and I'm not that active. I'm 5'9 and weigh 120 lbs, and I am not anorexic or bulimic. I'm actually trying to gain weight and I can't. I've been asked so many times if I have an eating disorder...by strangers! It actually really hurts. Thanks for shining the light on the other side of the spectrum! Also...Joy I loved the video...I actually used to be a lot heavier because of a medication, and now I need to gain some back.
zaw4ever 4 years ago
aww :)
xsteffy 4 years ago
I have a plan .......... use a belt on those 29s.
just trying to help
zippi007 4 years ago
*cutie*
lilarne 4 years ago
You are so cute. You remind me alot of a young little Ben Affleck. So you go! lol...
softyliss 4 years ago
Oh sweetie you rock so cute!!!
mpanda2124 4 years ago
thanx for this video! you have an adorable soul! :D
sweetgirl84x 4 years ago
u have a high metabolism, lucky.
babewbrains22 4 years ago
ok, #1 eat all the time, sleep all the time, and no activity and still thin... perfect situation. People would kill to be like that. #2 28in waist and you can only get 29's... that is why they make belts. Next time you go to walmart, try to find 50's or 52's. Then you will know my pain.
acolecobob 4 years ago
Dude, you have a HIGH metabolism!! o and i love u!!<33 you remind me of my bestest friend!!
ApocalypseKitten 4 years ago
U just have a fast motablism. Im like u. Im a compleete couch patoto but my bmi is always in the normal weight range. the only diffrence is im not under wight or over weight im normal weight. im 13 im 5.1 and im 110 lbs so yeah im normal for my age. and my bmi is 20.8
siisiimaria 4 years ago
This is a great point ! There are 2 sides to every story. I have a friend of mine with he same problem.
Good Video !!
peterpeterpiper 4 years ago
Great vid! I think the whole point of Joy's vid was to love yourself, no matter what size. So, thanks for showing us the other side of the weight realm!
ilovetospin 4 years ago
do you know why you are so skinny? just BECAUSE you eat junk food and dont exercise. Try eating real food (like cook your dinner, make some steak and potatoes and sauce etc) and go jog some days a week. And drink milk :P you see. If you DO exersice your body will start taking fat for produce of muzzles. When you dont exersice, your body thinks that it doesnt need fat because you dont wanna produce muzzles
DonQuixotec 4 years ago
#1. It's Muscles, not muzzles...
#2. Ignorance must really be bliss! I mean, you sure seem happy!
ilovetospin 4 years ago
i know how u feel.... its the same here i eat like a pig and am as lazy as hell - but when i model i'm asked if i vomit. wtf? ppl need to be educated and stop lettin their ignorance hurt others. loved joy's vid too.
MellowDeeUnsilenced 4 years ago
That was so cute! I agree though, yes we fat people might get a little bitchy when a skinny person has trouble being underweight and finding clothes, but we delude ourselves and say, DAMN YOU YOU'RE STILL SKINNY. Oh well! Yay fat and really skinny people who can't help it! XD
DarkandJaded 4 years ago
Thank you - BTW you're adorable.
buffnrub 4 years ago
Great and to the Point!! Nice job
OctoberSaint 4 years ago
heck yes you go skinny dude. 5'8, was 120, gym put me up to 144. i know how it feels, size 29 waist sucks! :P
dark2k1 dot com :)
john2496 4 years ago
5'4", 100 pounds even, 28 inch waistline. i've been mocked my whole life. thank you for bringing this point up.
RidiculousHat 4 years ago
'kay
SkaterKyoto 4 years ago
weight can be an issue for ANYONE. thanks for addressing that.
xo
cupcakemotherfucker 4 years ago
you are so adorable
lilmizdramaqween 4 years ago
People of any weight have problems I think...I'm the exact average for my height and age...Because I'm not obese during the 'obesity epidemic'...People assume I have an eating disorder. Although I think it's going to take a lot more work to keep people from ostracizing 'fat' people...People do need to understand that thinner people deal with weight issues too
Ekkquine 4 years ago
wow you are so cool. some of my family have a problem with being too thin and it gets annoying that people think they are anorexic or whatever, also getting suit trousers and stuff is almost impossible, hehe. i actually am not thin and it can get annoying that my brother can eat 2 packs of biscuits in about an hour and sit around watching tv all day and i eat 5 biscuits and i get chubby, but hey, ill live!!!
cellohel 4 years ago
I go in wierd waves where I'll be normal sized for like a year and then for no reason weight will just start falling off of me. I'm in a molting phase right now and I can't keep my pants up.
HtotheB 4 years ago
Aw, you're so cute anyway!
JessicaSue 4 years ago
Love your voice ^^
Kristina0915 4 years ago
my man's 5'10,130 lbs. skinny guys rock!
DiniBalls78 4 years ago
I think you're adorable and have nothing at all to worry about. I also think it's great you accept larger people.
LetsJustBeHappy 4 years ago
ok, im gay... and your embarrassing me with those flames... lawl!... simma down please.., but i guess a valid point had been made...
dabombdude87 4 years ago
be my friend.
<3
spriggeh 4 years ago
You're just adorable! Thanks for posting!
Sweetbug74 4 years ago
lol. i . love. you. your awesome! love the video.
bandgeek615 4 years ago
You are so handsome. Thanks for pointing out how being on either end of the weight spectrum makes people automatically make absurd assumptions about you.
pinkstocking 4 years ago
I'll keep this nice and simple :)
I'm 6'7. I used to be 145 lbs and a major toothpick. Now I weigh 199 and I look like the man on the underwear ads. Everyone here thinks you're 'cute'- boy if you hit the gym hard you would be a RARE breed of attractive. Go for it!
Eat more. lift weights. The lazy approach doesn't work want to change who you are. It was easy for me, it just takes a strong resolve.
Wyndowlies 4 years ago
Yeah, I like being skinny and lazy. But thank you anyways. :]
lilryan55 4 years ago
SOOOOO GLAD YOU DID THIS. It's just so nice to hear from the other end. I HATE hearing people talk about skinny people and how they're all suffering from eating disorders and blah blah blah. Good boy. Sooooo good boy.
schwimmvest 4 years ago
You are to fucking cute.
catchthe5ambus1234 4 years ago
I choked on my water when this thing came on it was so funny! Anyhow I'm a straight guy and I don't have a problem with big women so not all straight guys take issue with that (tommysmalss). Getting to the point I'm glad you said something about being skinny sometimes I feel so alone with that.
coolwet 4 years ago
LOL.
NewJeru973 4 years ago
i would rather be underwieght than overweight, but i see your point. you can almost always find stores that sell larger sizes, but it is rare to find a "small and short" rather that "Big and Tall". But I have a feeling you're gonna do fine. You're too cute not to!
saturnssailor 4 years ago
Oh. My. God. You are FAR too fucking cute.
graecyn 4 years ago
you are right. i am overweight but i have friends who just cant gain weight at all. it happens. people are different.. that's the way we were made.. cheers to you though.. youre a cutie!
cemetree 4 years ago
Honey you are tooo cute MWAS much luv to ya i definately agree it works both ways
BoReDYOUDuMB 4 years ago
right you are it is hard for everyone! you are awesome!
beffani 4 years ago
Yes, you're right ! Amen to that!
hannahmaly 4 years ago
you're cute
bxsangel 4 years ago
omg how cute are you! Gay boi's love us fat girls!
Whussy 4 years ago
you're great, u work ur skinny butt babe lol...but yea u could buy girl jeans they should fit u. As long as u don't buy the jeans with pink glitter on them no one would know the difference lol....and thats right we're all fierce lol much luv
luxuriouslbbw24 4 years ago
you could wear girl jeans, like the many "emo" or "scene" boys do. You'd probably look good in them :)
oh and by the way, I love, love, love the room your in!
confidino 4 years ago
omg you....are fabulous.
i totally understand your p.o.v.
im on the opposite end though...but damn boy,
you're a hottie ;)
AwtumnRayne 4 years ago
jävla runkare!:
punos 4 years ago
What I took from Joy's video is that it is difficult for overweight people to not only overcome the struggle of losing the weight, but to get past society's view of them being "ugly." I'm sure you won't get quite as many comments like Joy's making fun of her weight.
devtastico 4 years ago
I have a freind like that, her name is sarah and shes like 65-70lbs. be grateful.
vanity900 4 years ago
You are so, so, so cute...Come to ohio!
OSUSTUD21 4 years ago
rofl
surgictube 4 years ago
My mom is very underweight, and I am overweight; we have equaly difficulty finding clothes. Good job adressing this issue!
familyguysux 4 years ago
Haha I love you!
Kaichita 4 years ago
Why is it that no straight guys are defending Joy? Hmmm......I wonder why?
tommysmalss 4 years ago
because my opinon straight guys are dicks...
JMaydevil 4 years ago
absolutely.
ijustrippedabiggun 4 years ago
agree
unknwn2312 4 years ago
YES! i LOVE joys video. i just really hope that it isnt translated into hostiity towards skinny people. ive always been very thin, and had people say very hurtful things like "you look sick and anorexic." i hope everyone understands her message; appreciate the beauty in everyones body, as long as they do and are healthy.
kcuhc000 4 years ago
now see people don't have any problem believing that a skinny person has trouble gaining wait even when they do every thing wrong but nooo a fat person is lieing if they say they do everything right and STILL can't lose weight. All these double standards are getting annoying.
Baalat 4 years ago
I agree, Baalat. The double standard is ridiculous...
BodaciousBBW 4 years ago
ur fit :P
MiLliRoKz 4 years ago
My brother has the same problem. He stands at 6'4", and he only weights 50kg. He eats ALL THE TIME, but just can't put on weight. Now, if I could just give him some of MY weight, we'd both be happy ;)
Caghs 4 years ago