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  • I love you??

  • GREAT video!!! FINALLY, a Black woman that has looked at the situation and told it like it is!!! Thanks for posting!!!

  • this could be said about ALL women

  • There may be many problems with mate selection but at the end of the day black women...Have your children be proud to bless someone with the gift of life.

    There are many posers who camouflage themselves as "ONE OF US" who have been hired to encourage black women NOT to have children and help those who want to control the black population

    Have your child... be a blessing like you created to be

  • 100% correct, there is no excuse for ignorance which many deadminded zombies in the material world have and contribute to. This beautiful black queen has a conquered knowledge

    that can put the spotlight on the detestable, and thus should write books about the issues therin

  • She is just putting the shoe on the other foot & seeing things from a black man's point well at the same time keeping her female opinion at a reasonable rational level, she is not speaking from an ignorant narrow minded point of view, This is the kind of woman black men should want, she thinks from a realistic standpoint & not a emotional irrational fatal logic point of view!

  • Anybody (particularly black woman) who disagrees with this video is missing the point that she is trying to make, she is not defending black men she is just making a point on how black woman don't take responsibilty for their actions & blame black men for all their ills in their life, Black woman like drama & pain, just look at the men they pick rather then a man who has something going for himself, i think most not all black woman lack common sense, rational logic & don't live in reality!

  • LOVE you hair. you're B-E-A-utiful!

  • what is her youtube channel

  • show us your tits.

  • checkout my videos

  • Peace to you young sister, good vid you said a mouth full, thou art as conscious as you are beautiful ...Shalawm

  • Sweetheart, only if you knew! Just because you get along with your "baby-daddy" don't make you no different. You are still single, lonely, and collecting child support. And newsflash once you give up the ass, you cant take it back. "Great Relationships' LMAO! The roles that men and woman play has been damaged, and needs to be fixed on both ends. Stop sounding ignorant on the internet.

  • @angelic9889 lol ur a little late arent you i wrote on this a few months ago i dont even remember wat i typed

  • What does she look like under that mountain of foundation and paint?

  • you look good! that's for sure.

    

  • I love this video. I love her attitude towards life,dating, and relationships. I have said the same exact things to my daughters. It's all about getting your priorities straight. Stop focusing on the EYE CANDY and look for the QUALITIES in the individuals CHARACTERS.

  • @TheOCTAVIUS72 you said it better than she did.

  • @da1nonly1989 STFU IGNORANT ASS -__-

  • Go on girl! RESPECT! I've been saying this to my girls for years.

  • Go on girl! I've been saying this to my girls for years and yet they still sit home and cry the same tune.

  • how can you take responsibility when you're conditioned within a community that values "those" men to begin with? how can you adjust your perspective, singularly, when the problem is not singular? it's a problem of plurality. it's a CULTURAL CRISIS, not an individual flaw that is randomly presenting itself in a majority. let's use a bit more logic and historical basis for our conjectures, here. & by the way, i'm not "hating," just revealing your mole hill as the mountain it is.

  • RIP Whitney Houston

  • EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU IS BEAUTIFUL, I LIKE YOUR PERSONALITY

  • well first of tyler perry remaid a play read the play for colered girls. this would tell you that even back than woman were going through the same things as we are today in relationships Second it good to be in-powered but its better to have God.Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. if you dont have a man that dont love god how can he love you if you dont love god how can you love some one else

  • This lady needs a TV show of her own. Give solid advice to women. no whining, no excuses..no gangsta-comedies... Tell them the adult-self reliant-truth with dignity and self respect! Get people off the 'reality moron TV show crap".

  • We all, men and women, need to be accountable for the decisions we make and the people we allow in our life. Just like women are bashing their kids father they bashing their kids mother. The blame is not on black women but black people as a whole. We have forgot what our ancestors went through to get us where we are today, and the morals and values that was passed from generation to generation.

  • To be honest I can't completely say I like this video or don't. You did hit home on some good points about women, black or white need to take responsibility for the men they sleep with and have babies from. On the other hand about how black men have a continuous struggle on proving to black women and society that every black man is not the same, it goes both ways. Black women struggle every day to prove to black men and society that not all of us are loud, ghetto, money hungry, and uneducated.

  • First thing first, I'm not hating, just giving a point of vue. It's funny how you expect people to hate on you while you pride yourself on being so positive and not stereotyping.

    Well, I do not like the loud characters in Tyler Perry movies but you are missing the point. I do not identify to these loud people (at all) but apparently a lot of people do and the movies are addressed to them. These people need guidance and yeah, directing this kind of movies comes with money... So what?

  • Excellent points and very well said...

  • WILL YOU MARRY ME...YOURE YUMMY BABE

  • Bravo sister!...nobody is perfect, but there are some good brothers out there. We're not all on the downlow, cheatin' and end up on Maury Povich, or in jail, or selling dope. Some of us are educated and have decent jobs but because we don't have Mercedes or BMW's they don't give us the time of day. It's refreshing to see a woman that supports a brother. Thanks!

  • the black woman that date a white man is a sell out bitch from hell

  • @blkmun86 that sucks, Ive kinda gave up on white woman.... If I dated a black woman I wouldnt want others to think she is a bitch from hell.....

  • @blkmun86 Or... open-minded???

    Really dude, if this is the way you talk about women you don't even know, I get why they would not date you and go for whatever is next on their way...

    Love is love!

    Peace

  • Oh and Fuck Tyler dress wearing ass perry

  • I love this woman lol for real I do, I have bypast this video a hundred times cus I thought it would be the same as all the rest of them, just bashing on a nigga but damn she spoke the truth. the ass holes that disliked this video most lack intelligence and true understanding. I commend her for this video much respect my queen blessings. We really do need more black women like this for real.

  • @madhooxz I agree! and she's absolutely beautiful. :) 

  • 8:21-9:25 She nailed it...hit it on the head and knocked it out of the park.

  • People are being PLAYED by the media and society. They manipulate u into focusing on race and gender - when the fact is, it's all about rich vs poor. (Rich getting richer, poor getting poorer)

    It's just a way of keeping people focused on trivial issues instead of the bigger picture.

  • @mikelorenz121 Oh my God, dude!!! I've been trying to get people to see that for the longest. Yes, racism still exist, but geez.

  • @SUPERFSUNOLE Yes. People need to open their eyes to what is going on around them. Our civil liberties are vanishing and people are focused on trivial crap.

  • @mikelorenz121 Ain't about money, but power..

  • @mikelorenz121 This is totally wrong. Your vision of the society is the most naive. They also are serious issues among and between genders and races; issues that take root in the past and that are fed by society. This is real and seriously damaging to our society. Wealth is not all that characterize an individual, community or society.

    You need to consider other criteria such as ethnicity and gender in order to understand the many disparities we can see...

    Peace.

  • @Bayokemistwi971 Keep being a sheep then. You're exactly the type of person that the media exploits and scare mongers too. Together we fight, divided we fall.

  • @mikelorenz121 Keep living a paranoia then. You clearly do not know me.

    My business evolve around my community and I can see what is going on. I can also say that I lived in other countries and with many other communities. Every one of them have specific issues due to their culture, history, etc... and all the communities are split over power. We are no different. We have issues.

    Not to tackle them is absolut nonsense.

  • @Bayokemistwi971 The 'split' is a direct result of seperatism within communities and society. Men's rights, women's rights, race rights etc... all falter in the face of societal indifference and media indoctrination. The media panders to the white female demographic so they are held up as the epitome of beauty. Look at a pic of beyonce or rhianna 5-10yrs ago and see how white their skin is now. People need to wake up, they're being manipulated.

  • @mikelorenz121 Well, I strongly agree with you on the fact the media impact massively in this. It is to blame for widely promoting the caucasian features as the only standard. And people are so brainwashed that they end up picking stupid fights among each other instead of focussing on the reals issues. I get your point.

    But my point is that the media alone is not to blame. We do have inherent issues. Like men deserting homes, lack of education, etc. This is not fictional.

  • Not mad at you Beloved. Shalom Achot!!

  • Love $cams: Never send money to a stranger over the internet, no getting involved with illegal immigrants/google marriage fraud, pass the check, never co-sign/mix anything legal, no marriage, avoid long distance relationships, when meeting women online avoid dinner & movies on first meet up (meet up at free/low cost places like bookstores/parks/cafes), stop paying for other men's kids/no single women with kids, always use a condom/no child support, never lend money to women.

  • This woman IS the definition of a strong black woman! Check yourself and quite throwing pity parties about why YOU cant find a good man!

  • Beautiful woman who makes a lot of great points. A person can only do what we allow them. People need to love and understand themselves first and foremost, and I think that's something people in general have gotten away from.

  • Damn 8 months, 2 weeks, AND a day?!

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  • Well done sista! You are wise beyond your years. Good to see a strong black women like you hanging in there and speaking your mind on what has become a very serious issue in the African American community. 

  • Hey Hun in the video, I wanna know why this Good Man of yours didn't Marry you ? Were you the bad one in the relationship ? Hope you and this good man work things out.

  • so pretty and clever the kind of women worth having children with

  • @xarif777 *woman

  • You're a very wise woman and i love you

  • Three words TTTTTTTTTTTTHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAANK­KKKKKKKKKKK YOUUUUUUUUUUU Sista

  • Cant hear it & not going to strain. Sorry.

  • she is very beautiful

  • she is very beautiful 

  • I'm seeing a new trend. This trend is that some and i express that some black women are WAKING UP and seeing the nonsense of their fellow sister and SPEAKING ON IT! SO THERE IS HOPE AFTER ALL!!!!!

  • I so agree about Tyler Perry movies. Most of them are about crying black woman that cry over absolute nonsense. Never is his movies really dealing with real issues facing the black community. Like the 72% single parents among blacks pointed out in this woman.

  • I absolutely agree with what your saying I'm a black female and I'm tired of our race making excuses for the dumb choices they make, at the same time I see a lot of videos bashing black women, but white women are no different especially where I'm from. Now the deal on Tyler Perry WOW!!! I honestly never looked at it that way. Now that you've pointed it out it's true. At the same time if the shoe fit wear it. If this is how most black women act then how else is he suppose to potray black women?

  • heheheheh... racism is terrible...these black ladies looks white ladies (nose) with a little tanning....you see that people when select black girls choose the ones looks less black in their nose, hairs and lips.

    There's a tribe, or country, or group that has lovely nose, they are tall and the skin is black and shinny...i do think they are from Sudan .... well..... scientists said we all came from Africa..then because of climate the natural evolution changes something...just that...not different

  • ( tryna get my whole point across ) The point is a person cannot function properly in society without being taught how to function within that society ....... the deeper issues we have as a people are far more deeper than just the relation of the black man and the black woman ... I would love to build with you on a more personal level.

  • I agree with everything you had to say about women being attracted to these men who are not worth their time. I disagree with your comments about Tyler Perry's movies. I can relate to or identify with most of the characters in his movies. I saw the movie Good Deeds this weekend and even though I could not stand the character Lindsey played by Thandie Newton. I know many angry black women that are just hoping for a break in life, but to cover up their pain they are erratic and obnoxious.

  • 334 ratchet black women disliked this video.

  • you are so pretty to look at. you remind me of diane carol in her hey day. i love it when you said

    "exhausting" and flipped your hair back.

  • i agree with a few things you said, but their are many men that treat ladies perfect untill they get what they want and some time its too late, the trap had been set, then the man is gone!!!!!!

  • All attitude seems to be hiding the fact that she's in the same 'baby momma' position as the rest. "But wait wait wait!!! MY situation is different!"..,no, it's not actually. She's just pushing herself to the head of the pile with the tone of superiority.

  • @guysparks Yeah, great advice by her. but if this issue is that common, something else is wrong. Forget the culture of out of wedlock pregnancies, low union rates and lack of child rearing among black men, no black women choose them it's all on them. But black women are discouraged from dating out the race and favoring their "oppressors," should most become nuns? She is also clearly only worth a fuck and being child bearer not more. She should have demanded better, or become an nun.

  • @guysparks Well said indeed!

  • now the men that you describe...are they on some uncharted island orrrrrrrrr?

  • @RonnieSkellington ...Heres one reading your very words good luck and good looking.

  • My dad is the assistant board director of cherry hospital and he beat me and my mother for years and had 3 children outside of their marriage while they were married. I'm not saying that all men are like that but in the case of physical abuse...lets just say my dad could rot in hell...

  • This sista is speaking some true words. Just remember that all men are not the same. If every man who you messed with ain't shit, it just means that ain't shit pussy attracts ain't shit men.

  • I swear if I ever find you.. you are going to get a great big huge and gifts from me. O I thing your really sexy too.. I just had to say that sry if I offended you

  • I love you!

  • sweetheart u just spoke the truth..i'm sharing this with damn near every female i know

  • Well said.

  • Im a blk man I agree with her this women whole heartedly, you choose that piece of shit brother who already had 3 kids and 3 baby mommas and a criminal record no education who couldnt even pronounce words correct.

  • your a smart lady i tell my female family members this all the time

  • THE TRUTH IF I HAVE EVER HEARD IT!!!!!! I totally agree and i have been saying women define there reality through chaos and pain for YEARS!! Im not putting the blame on women. Im just saying that women have to start choosing better. Stop going after these thugged out, violent types and realize you deserve better early in life.

  • This woman is your prime example of a huaghty hoe.

    (My statement is just directed to the black brothers and concious sisters. Don't be deivcied family.)

    Peace.

  • @scanman2k

    SHUT UP, STOP HATING, and "lern tu spel"!!! YOU IGNORANT, DISRESPECTFUL, ILLITERATE, SCRUB!!!

  • @rdm4247

    LOL. You got hit on that didn't you.

  • "The love we deserve", "demand better", "get someone who is worth it". Translation; female entitlement.

  • Truth..I love u for that

  • Thank you, sister. We men and women need to take responsibility for our choices as adults.

  • HE'S A GREAT MAN.. WHO ABANDONED YOU LMAO

  • I bet you take it in the ass and then suck the poop off a cock right after

  • what was your man thinking not being with you lol your a rare kind

  • Why cant i find a women like her in this video lol i would not let her go for nothing!!! she gets it!!! that is wife matrial!

  • I agree and disagree with u. Yes we as we shouldn't put black men down. But sometimes we as women meet men and they act one way and down the road they act another so alot of us do get ourselves in situations we shouldn't for that reason. So pain we experienced carries us form one man to the next. But since u never had this happen to u i assume u won't understand. Since u have never been in a bad relationship. Just giving u something to think about thats all ...

  • @monicaker u sound dumb. he was that way when u met him dummy

  • Is she trying to find her next baby daddy by bashing other black women...Hello she is a single mom herself so clearly she is no better than the women she is talking about..

  • wow this is the best vlog I have ever seen. she speaks complete & total truth.

  • That is funny, I like Tyler Perry's movies. I enjoy seeing Black Men in lucrative roles and having jobs and being successful. yes some of the women are hysterical. As for making money of your pain? I dont think so.

    There are enuf gangsta movies showing black men as threatening, loud and violent that it is refreshing to watch a man look regular.

    As for theother stuff you were talking about. I agree & applaud you.Your relationship with your kid's father is an example for all single mothers.

  • Lady I admire your strength in speaking out I'm just a critic that agrees with you on some points but hopefully in our thesis and antithesis we will find a deeper truth

  • Demons? Wow! No its just that we need real wisdom to make it thru this crisis and its a shame that black are dogged in the society by not only pseudo history but most importantly by his woman. Under women ran homes what are the stats for homosexuality,divorce rate,jail rate,prison rate,lesbianism,high school drop out rate Ect... Don't get emotional lady just get factual and see why I said what I said and no a woman is not of a lesser value only some patriarchal religions like Christianity teach

  • @daSlamurai Your beliefs are why you keep finding the same women.

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  • You are a single mother also! Some Black Women now aren't queens they vicious haters of themselves and black men! The host of this video acts as if she is a little Jesus but yet she is still a single women! We are the product of the feminist movement that destroyed us!

  • @djsedd1 I guess having a man is the only thing that validates her? I guess according to you she is of lesser value without a man. You act like single women are demons. Tell me, when you dated how did you find the person you wanted to date? Oh yeah thats right, you looked for the women who were SINGLE!!! Only a homewrecker wants to date a taken woman.

  • @kamina77 she does'nt appear as thinking she is better.she is only trying to get stupid bw to open their eyes.she's right,I also protect my heart,I just dont get let down by men anymore once i refuse to be apart of drama.I dont talk about how awful my husband or my x is to other women.keep it classy.why have kids with men who dont love you.looks as if God is giving ww your men until you get the picture.

  • you are so right on target.the haters are probably big assed fat ghetto sluts that dont get it.you Bw that are loud mean and baby making machines are whats wronge with the race.Tyler Perry is a gay jerk,The way he put down bw is horrible and you fools just dont get it.I cringed at the movie he made when the women threw hot grits on her man.so classless and ghetto i could not believe it.Thats one of the reason why men dont date some of you ,they are afraid.you also let yourselves get fat an nasty

  • We live in a very dark world.If you are seen as too nice ,problem.If you are too accomodating,problem.If your not a thug,problem.If you dont have a woman and are available for a relationship,there is something wrong with you and your not challenging enough,problem.Black women ,infact all women,quit making everything a damn problem!

  • Sister, I truly understand your points. Men go out and buy all the shit that will catch a women's eye. And women FALL for it. It's fall's on all of us.

    And that dude you were talking about, (PARRY) all light skin lady's, never dark. All the men the lady's have start off rich, then she meets a dude who so called broke. And in the end, she make's the so called broke dude is made better because of her. I also like what you said about never having bad men cause you don't play the HATEFUL........

  • @1stcopahittheground

    ....Brake up game, I can say that most of the lady's that I've had in my life, we are still friends. I don't play that game because like you said, its just dumb to fight just were not ment to be together.

    You real sister.

    From one lean mean U.S.MARINE.

  • @1stcopahittheground

    SORRY, I missed a few word's.

    I was saying "just BECAUSE WERE NOT MENT TO BE TOGETHER"

    HAD TO FIX THAT. I type to fast. Anyway, like i said, YOU REAL SISTER, AND I LIKE THE WAY YOU THINK.

    Peace.

  • @LoveAboveHate In Latin America you would not be seen as black, but as mulatto. In the United States, because of that stupid one drop thing along time ago, mulattoes are called black. But in Latin America, that's not the case. There are Dominicans that look like you and they will tell you they are mulattoes, not blacks. Just giving you a view from a Hispanic perspective. Gracias por su tiempo.

  • I love you! A black woman finally said it! When a black man says it (me), he gets cursed out and what was stated get disregarded. The truth really hurts black women, but they really need to open their minds. Many black women that have issues with the type of guys they keep choosing wonder why good black men choose to date outside the black race. I personally know black men that won't date black women because they are tired of the bitter and obnoxious attitudes.

  • @camelspyder1 I know plenty of black women who date outside their race because they have the same beliefs about black men. Maybe both genders need to let their baggage go.

  • Holy shit you are so so soooooooo Beautiful. I know that got nothing to do with you video but my GOD

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  • Blacks need to get mental help or just die. That is all.

    

  • @ARepublicanVictory I think all bigots should get help or die but I still see your still walking around.

  • @ARepublicanVictory Why dont you just die,so the world will be better off.

  • Women should take responsibility for their actions... You made some great points, and hopefully women will hear you!

  • 330 black ladies disliked the video LOL... i guess they didn't watch the whole video because the're PISSED off

  • @fandeley its because they are the problem,loud ugly ,mean with 10 kids and no husband.

  • @treeyard1 No wonder they are mean to you. Look at your attitude.

  • @fandeley how do you know it was black women who disliked this video?

  • pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee marry me

  • Women cannot be happy without either pain or drama, It's like depriving a fish water.

  • @Esharido Your attitude is exactly why you keep finding the same women.

  • thank you!!! this is a wonderful video and i strongly believe everything you are saying, it is sooo true

  • @daSlamurai They really do, I am one them; and I so appreciate her articulating and exposing some great food for thought! Nothing against our men, I celebrate our healthy men. My experience has been that so many of our men/women have been hurt and addicted to the drama that they no longer know how to respond to healthy men/women. What are your thoughts?

  • Great video! Women we have to learn to love ourselves first!!! We must be happy with being the very best that we can be for ourselves so that we can have and maintain healthy relationships. A woman who has really learned to love herself can really love her man. A woman who has learned the art of living alone can appreciate living with another. She won't settle for anything less than what she feels that she deserves. Let's take responsibility for our own choices please and stop the blame game.

  • @ Lydia Cotton

    Forgive my shock, but, I've been on this planet 40 years and I'm sorry to say, I've NEVER, EVER seen, nor heard of a BLACK WOMAN with even the capacity to think on that level! No less challenge other black women on being PROACTIVE & ACCOUNTABLE for THEIR OWN negative mentality, actions, and misery?! OMG! Who ARE you?! Are you for real?! You're articulate, inteligent, AND beautiful! PLEASE tell me where can I find a SISTER like you?!

  • @rdm4247 There are plenty of us in Houston, Texas. Born and breed.

  • @danellcotton02

    I'm moving to Houston! Cuz, there ain't NOTHING better to have on your arm than a classy, intellegent, articulate, and Beautiful Black Woman!

  • Exactly the way I look at it ..soo true

  • OMG, finally a young black woman who is actually RATIONAL as opposed EMOTIONAL, proactive instead of being reactive. she truly understands that, at the end of the day, the poor choices & decisions women make, are the reasons & results of their misery.

  • The actual video comes in at 02:26

  • I have tried to tell women that they do this. I guess you don't know this, but white women do this too. A lot!! About 25 years ago I figured out that women would respect me more, love me more and cheat on me less if I was a sorry unfaithful lier. But I always felt that a man that does this stuff is also cheating on his children. And besides, what is the attraction to a complicated fucked up life? Kudos, lady! You said it well and good grief you're beautiful!!!

  • I'm not going to lie but the main reason I came to this video was to see this fine sister. She's speaking the truth as well!

  • Dam she is talking truth. This is coming from a guy!

  • Really nice video, and there will be no hate from me. But I am curious, have you ever dated anyone besides a black man? I guess more of what I'm asking is, do you have a problem with dating people outside your own race? I would just like to hear your comments on that.

    Keep up the good disposition!

  • @RisingOmega I have plenty of friends outside my race but I've never been intimate with men who weren't black but the older I get the more I am open to it but I will be honest, I prefer black men.

  • People need to stop letting the media educate them because everything is a lie.

  • @Shinemodel TELL IT!!!!! AND TELL IT AGAIN!! GOD BLESS.

  • @Shinemodel true

  • @Shinemodel Only when it concerns the Leftist media. They spew lies more than crimes done by Negros.

  • Simply put a woman chooses a man. Women have a habit of overlooking or just dismissing the so called nice guy. In order to be with the so called bad boy or player. Then once these females find themselves in negative relationships. Then they label all men dogs. Black women can't identify a good black when there isn't one in the home. 70% of black households are heading by single parents. The majority of these homes are heading by black women.

  • Sorry my comment seems too racist but I do love those lips.... They work magic....

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  • My GOODNESS! I've never met a woman like you EVER! I am a Black man, and consider myself to be a good one. I really enjoyed your view on this! I truly wish more of our women felt this way...

  • I find this difficult to masturbate too.