I can't understand why grown ass men have commitment issues. Alot of men act like this, even in their 30's or 40's. Some men never grow up. Thank god I never had to deal with men like this but some of my friends r.
No sympathy, black women need to stop fucking and having kids by men who aren't serious about life. The only fool in such situations is the stupid woman
@gwynplane723 All the blame doesn't lay with the woman. This guy has obviously been lying to her for two years and been doing a very good job at it. If men didn't lie so darn well and running around looking for nothing but a hole to plug, this wouldn't be a problem.
@MzDani92 All the blame does belong on the woman. Women hold the overall veto power on rather or not a man's gonna fuck, or rather he's gonna be friendzoned, or rather he'll have any association with her at all. If women stopped falling for bullshit and having unprotected premarital sex and getting knocked up this wouldn't be a problem
@gwynplane723 No, it's not all the woman's to blame. If men did not play games with women, then we wouldn't have a problem. But a liar is very good at what they do and even the smart people get intangle in their traps. She holds some, yes. But not all.
@MzDani92 Yeah, well, you forget that women hold the ultimate choosing power when it comes to relationships. There is only so far a man can go, the woman holds the ultimate decision regarding rather sex or a relationship will take place. You sound like an immature child passing the buck on others due to a foolish decision you made. If women wanted good men they would have them.women like shitty men and that's what they end up with. They have none to blame but themselves and I have no pity at all
@gwynplane723 In a relationship, no one holds all the blame. You can say this or that about all you want, but in the end it's all parties involved fault. And no, I'm not bitter. I haven't been a relationship for four years now that ended after only a month with a clean break up and I don't have plans for getting into one for a while now. People put up masks and it's not easy to see through those masks. How do think people have affairs for years without their partners knowing?
@TheLadyindigo87 yeah women dont wait o find a decent guy and instead decided to start having sex at a young age, you are absolutely right women are stupid like that
women like her are the problem! they have kids, share houses/apartments and bank accounts and do everything else married people do but are with men who wont commit! in a situation like this I blame the woman and yes I am a black woman, black men have a ton of issues but these type of situations I have 2 blame the female for!
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@DarkShadow893 Depends on individual experience. Who knows what others have gone through on both sides of this situation. Your view point isn't the end all be all you know.
@raventakayama Sounds like you are defending this black male hating dogma. This video is totally fictitious. Which makes me wonder why you bother looking at videos on black issues. Does it increase your already big ego looking in from the outside?
@DarkShadow You speak as if my comment wasn't true. It does depend on individual experiences. While this may or may not be the social norm in black relations, it still happens. I never stated to what frequency it happens, but to say it doesn't happen is to be ignorant enough to believe in absolutes. And absolutes within the human psyche do not exist. Plus I know first hand that this kind of stuff happens. I use to play the so-so boyfriend-enough role when I was younger and I'm not the only one.
@raventakayama Not in this case. It doesn't. No, this scenario never happens. 2 people dating for 2 years and the guy says he's not looking for a relationship? That is totally fictitious. Taking things day by day even though they live together and have a child. Are you are heard broken about a girl you cheated on in high school. So you've done all that? In addition to all the other illogical statements in the video. You fell into that category? Yeah right. Stay off of black pages.
Man don't be a dumbass. Obviously this video is an exaggeration on a large scale. But in some cases its not. Now if you're taking the spoof styled semi-satirical nature of this video seriously then I'd have to question your overall intelligence. But there are people with kids, taking their relationship day to day. I know some women who refer to a guy who seems to be their bf as just their baby's daddy even though they are semi together. This leaves her free to date around in a technical sense.
@raventakayama That's exactly my point, dumbass. This was fake. And it was an attempt to shame black men. Really, you have no place talking on black issues if you aren't black.
You don't understand the spoof-like nature of this video. And I am black. Born and raised in a black community. Went to a mostly black high school and a HBCU. You assume waaaay too much, and you know waaay to little about the dynamics of this video and the point it was making. You seem to be one of those people who have to hear everything straight forward with no cleaver side-notes to living things up. I could probably guess your music selection. The word you're trying to find is stereotypical.
@raventakayama Looking at the name of this video, it wasn't meant to be a spoof. Hm, so now you're black? Interesting you never admitted to that before. So I doubt that. And way to casually place me into a stereotypical role. Which are all wrong. Again, stay out of black issues.
@DarkShadow893 If you can get that kind of information from the video's extremely ambiguous title then you should have been able to read between the lines and notice the underlying sarcasm and over usage of stereotypes within the video itself. And why should I admit to being black when I was never asked? You assumed way to much from the start, now your foot's in your mouth and somehow its my fault? Get outta here man.
@raventakayama Which is why I called this video bullshit from the beginning. Actually, I've called you white many times during this argument. You never denied it. Hens, you are now calling yourself black to legitimize your involvement in said argument. Nope, all of my comments have been on point. Besides you are the one who started this argument. If you want it to end, step down. Or not. Either way, doesn't matter to me.
@DarkShadow LMAO get outta here man. What are you talking about? You don't understand satire. You don't understand sarcasm. You don't understand exaggeration. And most of all you don't understand this video. This isn't some scheme to belittle black men and our relationships with black women. It just shows how we, along with people from EVERY OTHER RACE treat the opposite sex. This does not apply to all of us. It is based upon stereotypes, but there is plenty of social relevance in this video.
@raventakayama No, you get out of here. Whites are not needed in this discussion. Oh I understand satire, sarcasm, and exaggeration. Which is why I posted that comment. You on the other had was trying to convince me that there are black men who are like this in the video. Actually it is an attempt to belittle black men. Again, go on to the white videos. That's where you belong.
@DarkS First off dude, I'm not white in the least. I'm black, my parents grew up in the Jim Crow era, I'm from Georgia and I know all about white racism. Don't get it twisted. I'm not attempting to belittle black men, but you are in you're denial of black issues. This vid IS sarcasm. However, SARCASM is truly SATIRICAL when there is an ounce of truth to it. People do act like the guy in this vid and not just black men. You don't have to say the exact words outright to act like this animated guy.
@raventakayama Yeah, you are white. And not needed or wanted in the conversations. The crazies with the white blankets and flaming crosses are your friends.
I LOVE THIS !!!! THIS IS SOOOO ACURATE !!! ... We as woman HAVE to STOP giving up the "GOODS" n it will be easier to get gone when these loser men decide they dont want to marry us ... If you dont know a woman after 2 years of being in a relationship then you'll never know her ... Being in a relationship for 3,4,5,6,7, 8 years is FOOLISH!!!
DOWN W/ THE BABY MOMMA & BABY DADDY TITLE ... AIM FOR WIFE!
The crazy part is, this type of guy has been like this for years. She could have peeped this game so long ago it ain't even funny. It didn't take two years. Matter of fact, she prolly passed up a few good guys cause she thought he could fix this guy, like he was a baby bird with a broken wing. Pity isn't love.
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@mba2ceo yeah and at the end of the day, they come to realize that the best was what they had in the first place not some phony illusion of "best." Taking someone for granted will bite everyone in the ass one day, but by the time they realize it the damage is done and it is too late to go back. At best, the one wronged will have moved on to bigger and better things, which will lead the wrongdoer to realize what they had missed all along.
@SanamLovesEssie60 the women will move on to poverty and drug addiction with the children repeting the cycle because she was to dumb to close her legs years ago is what really happesn
After women leave a dude like this they will try to take their two kids, fat bellys and c-section scars and try to find a good educated man with a good job to marry
Wow, I hope this is not a tv show or something. Why stereotype mid 20s black men like that? I'm not even going to lie, I did lol because this scenario described a friend of mines current situation exactly.
Appears that blacks, probably all are African-American, are the only people that expose themselves in negatives ways to nearly the ENTIRE world; then they wonder why other races have little respect for them. Do African-Americans have anything positive to say about each other on these massive YouTube servers.
Dude sounds like one of my bruhs lol... and women flock to him... I wonder who's more broken here. The no good guy who refuse settle down or the women who chase no good men who refuse to settle down... Food for thought two sides to every story. lol funny shit tho.
Well, she's still stupid for having a baby by a man who wouldn't marry her. That's the #1 red flag right there. The issue is that Black women get get the worst kind of man, then try to change him.
WHY DO Black Women WANT TO BE PORTRAYED AS VICTIMS?
Why would the black girl have unprotected sex with someone thats not even her boyfriend, let alone have a baby by him, smh if this scenario is rife in the black community then BLACK WOMEN are simply stupid NOT victims!
WHY DO Black Women WANT TO BE PORTRAYED AS VICTIMS?
Why would the black girl have unprotected sex with someone thats not even her boyfriend, let alone have a baby by him, smh if this senario is rife in the black community then BLACK WOMEN are simply stupid NOT victims!
OMG can I like this a billion times, one for each tear I cried from dealing with fools like this? I loved one vid like this but it was how women leave the good men for men like the one in this video. It was so true, but this one is too so are both parties at fault for years wasted? The black women who pass up educated black men for wanna be thugs. Or the black men who leaves their homes for pussy. Now I am even more confused about who to point the blame at. UGH! Maybe it's just 50/50. Nice vid!
but this is the problem some women will stick around and listen to the these lame ass excuses. we as women have to have standards! this cartoon is saying what the guys dont say but most certainly display. we stick around then we r dumb and desperate we leave its because were just looking for a "baller" and we r golddiggers when we fuss we just loud mouth black women! CAN I LIVE! We just have to becareful and keep our eyes open there are good black men out there, but we set the standard!
Good black women simply do not exist. Even the conscious ones bull shit comes out sooner or later "blaqueindigo" Black women spend there good years with thugs than turn to white men once they have a formal education. Were you too ashamed to dress your thug as a thug? You know damn well your thug would not marry you.
@enyawix you've got to be a troll. Lol. You should certainly know better than to say that "Good Black Women simply don't exist." Have you met EVERY Black Woman? No. What if I said, "Good Black MEN don't exist" or "Good White/Asian/Hispanic people don't exist." That is total bull! My skin tone and my uterus have NOTHING to do with my personality or my character. -a good Black woman
@enyawix The guy in this video is not even a thug. And the woman in this video is mixed. Keep your feelings to yourself!!! I'm 100% sure that you're a black man. You're a fucking cunt. So what are you saying about your mother. And plz don't give me that bullshit about "My mama is the only woman I respect".
@enyawix The guy in this video is not even a thug. And the woman in this video is mixed. Keep your feelings to yourself!!! I'm 100% sure that you're a black man. You're a fucking cunt. So what are you saying about your mother. And plz don't give me that bullshit about "My mama is the only woman I respect". cuz Tha's a lame excuse. And if you're not black You better not be living in Bk with all that crazy talk.
@PHEOLA1 even African women are calling out your bull shit . Like most successful black men he did not want your ass. I herd you are trying for Asian men now.
@enyawix Asian men?!! Yea b2223967 is right. You are a frikkin troll. Not even asian women want asian men. LMAOOOO . So this debate right here is pointless now. I'm done.
@enyawix Your reference is on you. Don't crucify & blame black women for ours. Any black man that has a swagger has to be labeled out as a thug??!!. Negro please
I knew this video was bullshit when she said she cooks. Now how many even half-black young women do you know regularly cooking for their man? Fixing some spaghetti once a week, or heating up a microwave dinner doesn't count?
But really, why have a baby and play wife to a dude with no commitment, then be surprised that he never commits. He doesn't have to, therefore why should he? You got what you chose, so be happy with it.
Y'all will dip on this same situation just as quick if it's suits you
it sounds like a fairytale, and it feels like one too. I wish more BLACK women could have these experiences and know that EVERYTHING DOESN'T NEED TO BE A STRUGGLE!! We deserve to be love, we deserve to have our fairytale. Sometimes you have to make adjustments, but nothing that will require you to sacrifice your happiness or self worth. This was a good video!!
I'm 21! 4/10 I married my husband whom I met over 3 yrs ago, we have a bbygirl 5/10. At 1pt b4 this, he said a few things similar 2 this. It left me confused & of course hurt. I knew it wasn't in his character, otherwise I wouldn't have involved myself 4 so long. I stepped back & realized where the influence came frm & decided 2 take him around older men with some sense (my dad, his dad,etc..) & I let God wrk. He snapped out of it QUICK! I'm Blessed, I couldn't ask 4 a better husband!
Wow. The sad thing is there are guys who are like that. There are also girls like that. This is not a race thing, it's called human nature. Some people want to get as much as they can for themselves and don't care who they hurt in the process.
Also, I know these are not real people, but the male cartoonamajig is not fine.
When he started reciting Chris Brown lyrics I laughed so hard.
But the video does bring up good issues and people should be aware.
@pmack169 yeah this vid is too extreme unlike the other videos
why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? she has his children b4 marriage? she got in a deep relationship not knowing if he healed beyond his previous one?
in the sense of having a screwed up mentality she is crazy. and stupid to be with a guy for 2 years and not have a clear understanding of him. I've hung with peeps just 3 months and have a better understanding then she did with this guy. Vid isn't making a clear point
@AymNaija People get caught up in their feelings. It could have been an unplanned pregnancy. She probably thought they were moving towards plans for marriage, long-term commitment. I know people who have found themselves in situations they didn't expect with people they thought they knew but really didn't. How many people watch The Maury Show with one guy and multiple women with multiple children? Or 1 woman with multiple guys and a child? It seems ridiculous but it happens all the time.
@moballa44 Not to offend you but you just defended a 3d fictional women. Yeah, I get the unplanned pregnancy happens but more than once? With all that other stuff? This video is ridiculous for both characters.
@AymNaija No offense taken. I'm not defending the fictional character. I'm just pointing out the fact that it isn't that unrealistic to imagine, and when I said "people", I was referring to actual people. I agree that the video is ridiculous for both characters, but if you listen to everything the female says, the male looks way more ridiculous then the female does because of the inconsistency and disconnect between his actions and what he is saying. Basically the female got played by the male.
@pmack169 THANK YOU! If the guy is so bad and so crappy why is she still with him? Sounds like he is exploiting someone who doesn't mind being exploited. He isn't going to change especially when he knows that loser will put up with it!
Oh my goodness! The best part of this entire video is when he said " I'm going to start calling you crazy instead of admitting my own actions that lead to understandable upsetting". I LOVE it!!! LOL
You idiots taking this parody way to serious.... It must have hit a cord with everyone who posted and felt somewhat butt hurt by this video... And in no way should anybody get offended this pretty much males of all races r like this... Its tons of movies about White women who never settle down Jennifer aniston for example soo y should one 2 min clip of 2 blk cartoons with alil slang get under ya skin...
You seem to have bashed Esquire212 in the worst way.
I will say this though...
You have insulted me, My father, My uncles, and My grandfather, All of which good men with degrees who REMAIN in the household.
The point the other video was to demonstrate that women CHOOSE who they are with. Men DO NOT club these women over the head and drag them to the hotel.
This is not a racial issue, The problem is that women actually PASS UP good men and follow after the man who CLEARLY playsthem
@The Esquire 212...mouth desperately seeking something to control to assuage the rejection you, by your own admission, experienced for a whole decade of your life----->pathetic.
@The Esquire 212...And if you think women of other races are more submissive perhaps you should look at their relationships with men of other races. Ever compare yourself to them dear? Of course not, because you know you would come up short and last place....but if you're interested perhaps I could recommend some non-Black men you can imitate...lol....when you're on their level perhaps then you can rightfully covet what they have...until then you are just another hater with a sour taste in your
@The Esquire 212...the pants who would? It is not our job to do less and wait for you to catch up. It is your job to match our output and then go above and beyond so that we can actually rest and be women. A Black women dating a Black man already has a 50% chance of dating someone below her on the life achievement scale...it's simple math. Perhaps you should familiarize yourself with facts about your own demographic before you offer up your ignorant unfounded opinion on other demographics.
@The Esquire 212...not too mention providers and role models. The Black race is the ONLY race in America where the women statistically outdo, outachieve and outrun the men from their community. If we sat back and did nothing, as you so desire, our people would go to shit. What you meant to say is, because you are a typical Black male, the underdog of society with a crippling inferiority complex all you are man enough to handle is a docile slave with the mentality of a child. If we did not wear
@The Esquire 212..."I hate the notion that Black women tell themselves that Black men only date non-Black women because of color or "exotic" looks. Can't it just be about being treated like a man? Which is what they do?" is perhaps due to the fact that women of other races actually come from cultures where the men are men. It's easy to be a stereotypical female when you are Asian, White or other because the me of your race are just that, high achieving, successful contributors to society...
@The Esquire 212..."I hate the notion that Black women tell themselves that Black men only date non-Black women because of color or "exotic" looks. Can't it just be about being treated like a man? Which is what they do?" is perhaps due to the fact that women of other races actually come from cultures where the men are men. It's easy to be a stereotypical female when you are Asian, White or other because the me of your race are just that, high achieving, successful contributors to society..
@The Esquire 212...grow up fatherless, 2/3 of all degrees earned by Blacks are earned by Black women, the average income of Black women and White women is a difference a a few thousand whereas the same surely cannot be said about Black men and White men...hmm..what else, oh perhaps the scholastic achievement of the American Black female is greater than that of the American Black male by a factor of 200%..so your comment,
@The Esquire 212...soo as if enough of the commenters haven't already torn you a new one I figured I'd go ahead and throw rocks too. The nerve of you to compare women based on race when Black men are bottom of the barrel not just as a matter of opinion but sheer fact. You spew unsensible statements out of bitterness whereas if I were to say Black men can't handle their responsibilities and compete in the real world with men of other races it would be a fact seeing as how 80% of Black children
EVERYBODY check out the dating modern day black women video, because this girl is the direct result of the girl in that video.
she wanted a thug, now she surprised when he act like one. Men like him are the direct result of women like her wanting thugs... don't judge all black dudes based off the black men YOU choose. There are qualities out there...
@Sag121068 Not true...You see it mainly focus on men mainly in the early to mid 20's...Usually when a man is in his 30's he tends to focus more on marriage, starting a family and the future...
Same scenario with "some" black women from ages 18-28... They'll let the good men slip thru their fingers and try to build a house on quicksand...
@CapricousCapricon1: So, all black men are trash because you make poor choices? Boy, you're really going to feel like shit when that white boy dumps you for some Asian flavor.
I am just glad I am one of those black women that can and does attract men of different races. I am not going to be politically correct here. If you are a young woman who wants a real relationship and to get married and be treated with some dignity, you better not date black men seriously because most are trash. Pure trash. Obsessed with sex. Can't develop genuine emotional ties. Materialistic. Always fronting. I am 20 and engaged to a white guy who is hot hot hot. Lol.
@CapricousCapricorn1 wow. well my mother is married to a man who is NOT trash. so watch your mouth! don't assume things about all Black men, you make it acceptable for other people to assume things about black women, or black ppl in general. u get what you put out there, if u dressed like a slut, you are gonna attract guys who only want sex, so u must look like a slut......
@authenticeen your insight exudes a confidence & maturity which is incredibly admirable & way beyond your years. i wish you the best in all endeavors, love & otherwise. this is my favourite comment :)
This is such a fantastic analysis of this dynamic. Very insightful. May we all learn something from this. When you don't get what you need, move on! It is out there. Do not settle.
@olenholm In this case, he didn't know what he needed. He was being very immature. When you have a good woman/man, you need to hold on to her!/him....he wasn't a good man but she was.....
thats why older men (not always tho) are so much more attractive to me, they kno wat they want and wats best.....
Shut your stupid damn mouth bitch. Black men will be obsessed with sex if I dress like a nun because thats how they are. And Im goodlooking. Go suck a dick you lame. Slut? Lol!! This is 2010 worry about who ur fucking not me you pitiful ass bitch. Kill yourself. Lolololololololol!
LOL!!!!...so tru... until u grow up!
tlmcqu80 1 month ago
Modern Sad Hip 20 Something Girl right here...SMH youtube.com/watch?v=hX7EXjzMyiw
Junious04 1 month ago
21!!!!!!
ThePolomars 1 month ago
lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
ShadP23 1 month ago
I can't understand why grown ass men have commitment issues. Alot of men act like this, even in their 30's or 40's. Some men never grow up. Thank god I never had to deal with men like this but some of my friends r.
africanbeautyqueen89 1 month ago
Ryan Leslie, lol
morenaso1 1 month ago
Lmaoooo this is so trueee
BruceWayneSteeeze 1 month ago
No sympathy, black women need to stop fucking and having kids by men who aren't serious about life. The only fool in such situations is the stupid woman
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 All the blame doesn't lay with the woman. This guy has obviously been lying to her for two years and been doing a very good job at it. If men didn't lie so darn well and running around looking for nothing but a hole to plug, this wouldn't be a problem.
MzDani92 1 month ago
@MzDani92 All the blame does belong on the woman. Women hold the overall veto power on rather or not a man's gonna fuck, or rather he's gonna be friendzoned, or rather he'll have any association with her at all. If women stopped falling for bullshit and having unprotected premarital sex and getting knocked up this wouldn't be a problem
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 No, it's not all the woman's to blame. If men did not play games with women, then we wouldn't have a problem. But a liar is very good at what they do and even the smart people get intangle in their traps. She holds some, yes. But not all.
MzDani92 1 month ago
@MzDani92 Yeah, well, you forget that women hold the ultimate choosing power when it comes to relationships. There is only so far a man can go, the woman holds the ultimate decision regarding rather sex or a relationship will take place. You sound like an immature child passing the buck on others due to a foolish decision you made. If women wanted good men they would have them.women like shitty men and that's what they end up with. They have none to blame but themselves and I have no pity at all
gwynplane723 1 month ago
@gwynplane723 In a relationship, no one holds all the blame. You can say this or that about all you want, but in the end it's all parties involved fault. And no, I'm not bitter. I haven't been a relationship for four years now that ended after only a month with a clean break up and I don't have plans for getting into one for a while now. People put up masks and it's not easy to see through those masks. How do think people have affairs for years without their partners knowing?
MzDani92 1 month ago
@MzDani92 the blame does lay on the women, even if the man deoes lie the women does have the final say
chiefnavarro1 1 month ago
@chiefnavarro1 How does that make sense? He lied, yet he isn't responsible for it. I'm not saying to the woman does hold some blame, but really?
MzDani92 1 month ago
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ConstanceTurbo 1 month ago
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DustinOffAClassic 1 month ago
So fucking true! But not for blk men but for most in today society.
TheLadyindigo87 2 months ago
@TheLadyindigo87 yeah women dont wait o find a decent guy and instead decided to start having sex at a young age, you are absolutely right women are stupid like that
chiefnavarro1 1 month ago
women like her are the problem! they have kids, share houses/apartments and bank accounts and do everything else married people do but are with men who wont commit! in a situation like this I blame the woman and yes I am a black woman, black men have a ton of issues but these type of situations I have 2 blame the female for!
UTubeuzername84 2 months ago
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Princeimasuen 2 months ago
what the hell is chuckin the dueces
ep95409 2 months ago
I need a good lady like her WOW!!!!! it's just animation help me Jesus.
willcanbe 2 months ago
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sfrichy 2 months ago
Wow.
kamaniibthebombest 2 months ago
Wow, this is so inaccurate it's funny! This is just a pathetic attempt to shame black men. FAIL!
DarkShadow893 2 months ago
@DarkShadow893 Depends on individual experience. Who knows what others have gone through on both sides of this situation. Your view point isn't the end all be all you know.
raventakayama 2 months ago
@raventakayama Sounds like you are defending this black male hating dogma. This video is totally fictitious. Which makes me wonder why you bother looking at videos on black issues. Does it increase your already big ego looking in from the outside?
DarkShadow893 2 months ago
@DarkShadow You speak as if my comment wasn't true. It does depend on individual experiences. While this may or may not be the social norm in black relations, it still happens. I never stated to what frequency it happens, but to say it doesn't happen is to be ignorant enough to believe in absolutes. And absolutes within the human psyche do not exist. Plus I know first hand that this kind of stuff happens. I use to play the so-so boyfriend-enough role when I was younger and I'm not the only one.
raventakayama 2 months ago
@raventakayama Not in this case. It doesn't. No, this scenario never happens. 2 people dating for 2 years and the guy says he's not looking for a relationship? That is totally fictitious. Taking things day by day even though they live together and have a child. Are you are heard broken about a girl you cheated on in high school. So you've done all that? In addition to all the other illogical statements in the video. You fell into that category? Yeah right. Stay off of black pages.
DarkShadow893 2 months ago
Man don't be a dumbass. Obviously this video is an exaggeration on a large scale. But in some cases its not. Now if you're taking the spoof styled semi-satirical nature of this video seriously then I'd have to question your overall intelligence. But there are people with kids, taking their relationship day to day. I know some women who refer to a guy who seems to be their bf as just their baby's daddy even though they are semi together. This leaves her free to date around in a technical sense.
raventakayama 2 months ago
@raventakayama That's exactly my point, dumbass. This was fake. And it was an attempt to shame black men. Really, you have no place talking on black issues if you aren't black.
DarkShadow893 1 month ago
You don't understand the spoof-like nature of this video. And I am black. Born and raised in a black community. Went to a mostly black high school and a HBCU. You assume waaaay too much, and you know waaay to little about the dynamics of this video and the point it was making. You seem to be one of those people who have to hear everything straight forward with no cleaver side-notes to living things up. I could probably guess your music selection. The word you're trying to find is stereotypical.
raventakayama 1 month ago
@raventakayama Looking at the name of this video, it wasn't meant to be a spoof. Hm, so now you're black? Interesting you never admitted to that before. So I doubt that. And way to casually place me into a stereotypical role. Which are all wrong. Again, stay out of black issues.
DarkShadow893 1 month ago
@DarkShadow893 If you can get that kind of information from the video's extremely ambiguous title then you should have been able to read between the lines and notice the underlying sarcasm and over usage of stereotypes within the video itself. And why should I admit to being black when I was never asked? You assumed way to much from the start, now your foot's in your mouth and somehow its my fault? Get outta here man.
raventakayama 1 month ago
@raventakayama Which is why I called this video bullshit from the beginning. Actually, I've called you white many times during this argument. You never denied it. Hens, you are now calling yourself black to legitimize your involvement in said argument. Nope, all of my comments have been on point. Besides you are the one who started this argument. If you want it to end, step down. Or not. Either way, doesn't matter to me.
DarkShadow893 1 month ago
@DarkShadow LMAO get outta here man. What are you talking about? You don't understand satire. You don't understand sarcasm. You don't understand exaggeration. And most of all you don't understand this video. This isn't some scheme to belittle black men and our relationships with black women. It just shows how we, along with people from EVERY OTHER RACE treat the opposite sex. This does not apply to all of us. It is based upon stereotypes, but there is plenty of social relevance in this video.
raventakayama 1 month ago
@raventakayama No, you get out of here. Whites are not needed in this discussion. Oh I understand satire, sarcasm, and exaggeration. Which is why I posted that comment. You on the other had was trying to convince me that there are black men who are like this in the video. Actually it is an attempt to belittle black men. Again, go on to the white videos. That's where you belong.
DarkShadow893 2 days ago
@DarkS First off dude, I'm not white in the least. I'm black, my parents grew up in the Jim Crow era, I'm from Georgia and I know all about white racism. Don't get it twisted. I'm not attempting to belittle black men, but you are in you're denial of black issues. This vid IS sarcasm. However, SARCASM is truly SATIRICAL when there is an ounce of truth to it. People do act like the guy in this vid and not just black men. You don't have to say the exact words outright to act like this animated guy.
raventakayama 1 day ago
@raventakayama Yeah, you are white. And not needed or wanted in the conversations. The crazies with the white blankets and flaming crosses are your friends.
DarkShadow893 1 day ago
"That is bullshit"! ahaha
NewSiteModels788 3 months ago 2
I LOVE THIS !!!! THIS IS SOOOO ACURATE !!! ... We as woman HAVE to STOP giving up the "GOODS" n it will be easier to get gone when these loser men decide they dont want to marry us ... If you dont know a woman after 2 years of being in a relationship then you'll never know her ... Being in a relationship for 3,4,5,6,7, 8 years is FOOLISH!!!
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sgj002 3 months ago 11
The crazy part is, this type of guy has been like this for years. She could have peeped this game so long ago it ain't even funny. It didn't take two years. Matter of fact, she prolly passed up a few good guys cause she thought he could fix this guy, like he was a baby bird with a broken wing. Pity isn't love.
EggheadJr1 4 months ago 6
This is the product of a bitter woman...
redsmurphstudiostx 4 months ago
Whoa lol
JkillaJ15 4 months ago
im on some new shit. im chucking my dueces lmfao
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Mr24242244 4 months ago
Luv this....genius
Itsstephen25 5 months ago
Todays women wont even date a guy for 2 weeks. This is sooo unreal it's funny.
theright1allthetime 5 months ago
Men are shallow everywhere regardless of their race.
SanamLovesEssie60 5 months ago
@SanamLovesEssie60 Humans are shallow ... Both pursue the best they can obtain.
mba2ceo 5 months ago
@mba2ceo yeah and at the end of the day, they come to realize that the best was what they had in the first place not some phony illusion of "best." Taking someone for granted will bite everyone in the ass one day, but by the time they realize it the damage is done and it is too late to go back. At best, the one wronged will have moved on to bigger and better things, which will lead the wrongdoer to realize what they had missed all along.
SanamLovesEssie60 4 months ago 2
@SanamLovesEssie60 Truth.
MrUniqueosmosis 2 months ago
@SanamLovesEssie60 the women will move on to poverty and drug addiction with the children repeting the cycle because she was to dumb to close her legs years ago is what really happesn
chiefnavarro1 1 month ago
@mba2ceo You are correct.
MrUniqueosmosis 2 months ago
you stole my idea :P
MMFxC 6 months ago
After women leave a dude like this they will try to take their two kids, fat bellys and c-section scars and try to find a good educated man with a good job to marry
daddyrichten 7 months ago 17
@daddyrichten ... exactly right.
mba2ceo 5 months ago
This is soooooooooooo true lol
CandieNP 7 months ago
Good video sad but it's a wild world out here and relationships have gone to hell
skeetmoses 8 months ago
That is funny as hell. I'm a Black man and I approve that message...lol
royceteaches 8 months ago
Mid 20s black male...let me see....90% of them will think a white guy is racist because he acts with confidence almost all the time.
meinside99 8 months ago
Wow, I hope this is not a tv show or something. Why stereotype mid 20s black men like that? I'm not even going to lie, I did lol because this scenario described a friend of mines current situation exactly.
1prettybrownsuga 8 months ago
lolol
SexyKiwi268 8 months ago
Appears that blacks, probably all are African-American, are the only people that expose themselves in negatives ways to nearly the ENTIRE world; then they wonder why other races have little respect for them. Do African-Americans have anything positive to say about each other on these massive YouTube servers.
ArtistBet 9 months ago 6
@ArtistBet You obviously don't get that this movie was a joke.
holycowmania 8 months ago
@ArtistBet This is true SMH
MrUniqueosmosis 2 months ago
eh..I don't know if this relates too much to reality. is this implying that black single mothers can't raise good black males?
Nomorehataz 9 months ago
THiS is funny ...LOL...and true...lol but the one going in about women is true too...lol
dowellday 9 months ago
hhaahahahah, seems to be more funnier than the male version
kenbladex 9 months ago
Dude sounds like one of my bruhs lol... and women flock to him... I wonder who's more broken here. The no good guy who refuse settle down or the women who chase no good men who refuse to settle down... Food for thought two sides to every story. lol funny shit tho.
raventakayama 9 months ago
@raventakayama yup
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BoudoirBlue 10 months ago
Well, she's still stupid for having a baby by a man who wouldn't marry her. That's the #1 red flag right there. The issue is that Black women get get the worst kind of man, then try to change him.
Ramal123 10 months ago 3
LMAO "I'm on some new shit. I'm chuckin the dueces"
theone8601 10 months ago 30
That nigga is right. lol
komjonggirl666 10 months ago
dude dont even sound like a black man...even a non-hood one.
Superfudgeism 10 months ago
THIS IS SOOO TRUE!!
spierce100 10 months ago
WHY DO Black Women WANT TO BE PORTRAYED AS VICTIMS?
Why would the black girl have unprotected sex with someone thats not even her boyfriend, let alone have a baby by him, smh if this scenario is rife in the black community then BLACK WOMEN are simply stupid NOT victims!
jerryumeh1 10 months ago
WHY DO Black Women WANT TO BE PORTRAYED AS VICTIMS?
Why would the black girl have unprotected sex with someone thats not even her boyfriend, let alone have a baby by him, smh if this senario is rife in the black community then BLACK WOMEN are simply stupid NOT victims!
jerryumeh1 10 months ago
OMG can I like this a billion times, one for each tear I cried from dealing with fools like this? I loved one vid like this but it was how women leave the good men for men like the one in this video. It was so true, but this one is too so are both parties at fault for years wasted? The black women who pass up educated black men for wanna be thugs. Or the black men who leaves their homes for pussy. Now I am even more confused about who to point the blame at. UGH! Maybe it's just 50/50. Nice vid!
binkybreezy1988 11 months ago 2
but this is the problem some women will stick around and listen to the these lame ass excuses. we as women have to have standards! this cartoon is saying what the guys dont say but most certainly display. we stick around then we r dumb and desperate we leave its because were just looking for a "baller" and we r golddiggers when we fuss we just loud mouth black women! CAN I LIVE! We just have to becareful and keep our eyes open there are good black men out there, but we set the standard!
deebeautiful84 11 months ago
@authenticeen .....so then don't date hood rats problem solved. not all black men are hood rats.
jwk94 11 months ago
looooool love it!
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umtydnoia 11 months ago
OMGGGG how did you knoowwwwww
i feel like you were watching me when it happend ROFL XD
angelmdevilm 11 months ago
this is fugging hilarious
gryphen 1 year ago
I think this may represent men of all backgrounds (PERIOD)
LaAerial 1 year ago 2
Stop Quoting Chris Brown LMAO
Stump78duke 1 year ago
This is like every other douchebag out there!
kpslover 1 year ago
I wish I can insert the lawdbaby gif in these comments.
gummibears7 1 year ago
LOL @ the ratings. so sad.
MamiSoooPrecious06 1 year ago
Girl-"That is bullshit", Guy"Im on some new shit" lol
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malindaharshana 1 year ago
Good black women simply do not exist. Even the conscious ones bull shit comes out sooner or later "blaqueindigo" Black women spend there good years with thugs than turn to white men once they have a formal education. Were you too ashamed to dress your thug as a thug? You know damn well your thug would not marry you.
enyawix 1 year ago
@enyawix you've got to be a troll. Lol. You should certainly know better than to say that "Good Black Women simply don't exist." Have you met EVERY Black Woman? No. What if I said, "Good Black MEN don't exist" or "Good White/Asian/Hispanic people don't exist." That is total bull! My skin tone and my uterus have NOTHING to do with my personality or my character. -a good Black woman
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@enyawix The guy in this video is not even a thug. And the woman in this video is mixed. Keep your feelings to yourself!!! I'm 100% sure that you're a black man. You're a fucking cunt. So what are you saying about your mother. And plz don't give me that bullshit about "My mama is the only woman I respect".
PHEOLA1 1 year ago
@enyawix The guy in this video is not even a thug. And the woman in this video is mixed. Keep your feelings to yourself!!! I'm 100% sure that you're a black man. You're a fucking cunt. So what are you saying about your mother. And plz don't give me that bullshit about "My mama is the only woman I respect". cuz Tha's a lame excuse. And if you're not black You better not be living in Bk with all that crazy talk.
PHEOLA1 1 year ago
@PHEOLA1 even African women are calling out your bull shit . Like most successful black men he did not want your ass. I herd you are trying for Asian men now.
enyawix 1 year ago
@enyawix Asian men?!! Yea b2223967 is right. You are a frikkin troll. Not even asian women want asian men. LMAOOOO . So this debate right here is pointless now. I'm done.
PHEOLA1 1 year ago
@PHEOLA1 wife is Asian from Singapore.
enyawix 1 year ago
@enyawix Your reference is on you. Don't crucify & blame black women for ours. Any black man that has a swagger has to be labeled out as a thug??!!. Negro please
PHEOLA1 1 year ago
@enyawix Troll.
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tatumvitamsd 1 year ago
BORING
whayes8084 1 year ago
This is hilarious and shockingly true!
Masmosaic1 1 year ago 2
I knew this video was bullshit when she said she cooks. Now how many even half-black young women do you know regularly cooking for their man? Fixing some spaghetti once a week, or heating up a microwave dinner doesn't count?
But really, why have a baby and play wife to a dude with no commitment, then be surprised that he never commits. He doesn't have to, therefore why should he? You got what you chose, so be happy with it.
Y'all will dip on this same situation just as quick if it's suits you
BlackPerspectivenet 1 year ago
it sounds like a fairytale, and it feels like one too. I wish more BLACK women could have these experiences and know that EVERYTHING DOESN'T NEED TO BE A STRUGGLE!! We deserve to be love, we deserve to have our fairytale. Sometimes you have to make adjustments, but nothing that will require you to sacrifice your happiness or self worth. This was a good video!!
CooKieMonStar07 1 year ago 3
I'm 21! 4/10 I married my husband whom I met over 3 yrs ago, we have a bbygirl 5/10. At 1pt b4 this, he said a few things similar 2 this. It left me confused & of course hurt. I knew it wasn't in his character, otherwise I wouldn't have involved myself 4 so long. I stepped back & realized where the influence came frm & decided 2 take him around older men with some sense (my dad, his dad,etc..) & I let God wrk. He snapped out of it QUICK! I'm Blessed, I couldn't ask 4 a better husband!
CooKieMonStar07 1 year ago
FAVORITED!!!
Lonsoleil 1 year ago 3
Wow. The sad thing is there are guys who are like that. There are also girls like that. This is not a race thing, it's called human nature. Some people want to get as much as they can for themselves and don't care who they hurt in the process.
Also, I know these are not real people, but the male cartoonamajig is not fine.
When he started reciting Chris Brown lyrics I laughed so hard.
But the video does bring up good issues and people should be aware.
Guys and girls.
moballa44 1 year ago
can you upgrade this stuff. because the tones, vocals really suck. serioulsy why are their arms so dam long? it is funny but it looks outdated ...
WonderWomanFan4life 1 year ago
this is hilarious
WonderWomanFan4life 1 year ago
This is more of a man thing than a 'black man thing'.
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nbmnkjlrwewds 1 year ago
Weak. If this is all the comeback they got for the original, then we are all in trouble... Or maybe just them...
pmxperience 1 year ago
@pmack169 yeah this vid is too extreme unlike the other videos
why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? she has his children b4 marriage? she got in a deep relationship not knowing if he healed beyond his previous one?
in the sense of having a screwed up mentality she is crazy. and stupid to be with a guy for 2 years and not have a clear understanding of him. I've hung with peeps just 3 months and have a better understanding then she did with this guy. Vid isn't making a clear point
AymNaija 1 year ago
@AymNaija People get caught up in their feelings. It could have been an unplanned pregnancy. She probably thought they were moving towards plans for marriage, long-term commitment. I know people who have found themselves in situations they didn't expect with people they thought they knew but really didn't. How many people watch The Maury Show with one guy and multiple women with multiple children? Or 1 woman with multiple guys and a child? It seems ridiculous but it happens all the time.
moballa44 1 year ago
@moballa44 Not to offend you but you just defended a 3d fictional women. Yeah, I get the unplanned pregnancy happens but more than once? With all that other stuff? This video is ridiculous for both characters.
AymNaija 11 months ago
@AymNaija No offense taken. I'm not defending the fictional character. I'm just pointing out the fact that it isn't that unrealistic to imagine, and when I said "people", I was referring to actual people. I agree that the video is ridiculous for both characters, but if you listen to everything the female says, the male looks way more ridiculous then the female does because of the inconsistency and disconnect between his actions and what he is saying. Basically the female got played by the male.
moballa44 11 months ago
@moballa44 Oh, yeah def got played.
AymNaija 11 months ago
@pmack169 THANK YOU! If the guy is so bad and so crappy why is she still with him? Sounds like he is exploiting someone who doesn't mind being exploited. He isn't going to change especially when he knows that loser will put up with it!
misslemonnlime 1 year ago
lmao @ 1:11
TheBigBadWoIf 1 year ago
Oh my goodness! The best part of this entire video is when he said " I'm going to start calling you crazy instead of admitting my own actions that lead to understandable upsetting". I LOVE it!!! LOL
MandisaTV 1 year ago 5
@authenticeen get a european. blacks are to screwed up. we are not good for one another. french are the best!
shyvixx1 1 year ago
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erikly01 1 year ago
black people are funny.
jonlajoiejr 1 year ago
I'm sorry. This was funny as hell.
silverflyt 1 year ago
I had to rewind that chris brown part like 12 times
HonestHeartsClub 1 year ago 4
You idiots taking this parody way to serious.... It must have hit a cord with everyone who posted and felt somewhat butt hurt by this video... And in no way should anybody get offended this pretty much males of all races r like this... Its tons of movies about White women who never settle down Jennifer aniston for example soo y should one 2 min clip of 2 blk cartoons with alil slang get under ya skin...
CrestKidz 1 year ago 2
MEANINGLESS PUSSY ...
Trapz47 1 year ago 27
@Trapz47 ROFLMAO. HAHAHHA. This is funny.
visionimagify 1 year ago
@visionimagify i know dood
Trapz47 1 year ago
@authenticeen Yoou are very smart we need more like you if our woman start turning away these hoodrats maybe they would straighten up
cherisseshaw 1 year ago
@BriBreezyBri
You seem to have bashed Esquire212 in the worst way.
I will say this though...
You have insulted me, My father, My uncles, and My grandfather, All of which good men with degrees who REMAIN in the household.
The point the other video was to demonstrate that women CHOOSE who they are with. Men DO NOT club these women over the head and drag them to the hotel.
This is not a racial issue, The problem is that women actually PASS UP good men and follow after the man who CLEARLY playsthem
mmoscova89 1 year ago
This is too funny..LOLLL
isleofcapri2 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212...mouth desperately seeking something to control to assuage the rejection you, by your own admission, experienced for a whole decade of your life----->pathetic.
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212...And if you think women of other races are more submissive perhaps you should look at their relationships with men of other races. Ever compare yourself to them dear? Of course not, because you know you would come up short and last place....but if you're interested perhaps I could recommend some non-Black men you can imitate...lol....when you're on their level perhaps then you can rightfully covet what they have...until then you are just another hater with a sour taste in your
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212...the pants who would? It is not our job to do less and wait for you to catch up. It is your job to match our output and then go above and beyond so that we can actually rest and be women. A Black women dating a Black man already has a 50% chance of dating someone below her on the life achievement scale...it's simple math. Perhaps you should familiarize yourself with facts about your own demographic before you offer up your ignorant unfounded opinion on other demographics.
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212...not too mention providers and role models. The Black race is the ONLY race in America where the women statistically outdo, outachieve and outrun the men from their community. If we sat back and did nothing, as you so desire, our people would go to shit. What you meant to say is, because you are a typical Black male, the underdog of society with a crippling inferiority complex all you are man enough to handle is a docile slave with the mentality of a child. If we did not wear
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212..."I hate the notion that Black women tell themselves that Black men only date non-Black women because of color or "exotic" looks. Can't it just be about being treated like a man? Which is what they do?" is perhaps due to the fact that women of other races actually come from cultures where the men are men. It's easy to be a stereotypical female when you are Asian, White or other because the me of your race are just that, high achieving, successful contributors to society...
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212..."I hate the notion that Black women tell themselves that Black men only date non-Black women because of color or "exotic" looks. Can't it just be about being treated like a man? Which is what they do?" is perhaps due to the fact that women of other races actually come from cultures where the men are men. It's easy to be a stereotypical female when you are Asian, White or other because the me of your race are just that, high achieving, successful contributors to society..
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212...grow up fatherless, 2/3 of all degrees earned by Blacks are earned by Black women, the average income of Black women and White women is a difference a a few thousand whereas the same surely cannot be said about Black men and White men...hmm..what else, oh perhaps the scholastic achievement of the American Black female is greater than that of the American Black male by a factor of 200%..so your comment,
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
@The Esquire 212...soo as if enough of the commenters haven't already torn you a new one I figured I'd go ahead and throw rocks too. The nerve of you to compare women based on race when Black men are bottom of the barrel not just as a matter of opinion but sheer fact. You spew unsensible statements out of bitterness whereas if I were to say Black men can't handle their responsibilities and compete in the real world with men of other races it would be a fact seeing as how 80% of Black children
BriBreezyBri 1 year ago
EVERYBODY check out the dating modern day black women video, because this girl is the direct result of the girl in that video.
she wanted a thug, now she surprised when he act like one. Men like him are the direct result of women like her wanting thugs... don't judge all black dudes based off the black men YOU choose. There are qualities out there...
RazeGeneration 1 year ago
damn!
I swear I've said the exact same words in this video!
except I didn't cheat on my last girlfriend who broke my heart..lol
1tzUrSuNsH1n3 1 year ago
Hilarious!
moslaam812 1 year ago
wow.....lol
S8xyGurl 1 year ago
Wow HAM!!! And the sad thing is this is most blk men out here dating!
Sag121068 1 year ago
@Sag121068 Not true...You see it mainly focus on men mainly in the early to mid 20's...Usually when a man is in his 30's he tends to focus more on marriage, starting a family and the future...
Same scenario with "some" black women from ages 18-28... They'll let the good men slip thru their fingers and try to build a house on quicksand...
keepthapinit 1 year ago
@CapricousCapricon1: So, all black men are trash because you make poor choices? Boy, you're really going to feel like shit when that white boy dumps you for some Asian flavor.
Myxlplyx69 1 year ago
I love this
smalito83 1 year ago
I am just glad I am one of those black women that can and does attract men of different races. I am not going to be politically correct here. If you are a young woman who wants a real relationship and to get married and be treated with some dignity, you better not date black men seriously because most are trash. Pure trash. Obsessed with sex. Can't develop genuine emotional ties. Materialistic. Always fronting. I am 20 and engaged to a white guy who is hot hot hot. Lol.
CapricousCapricorn1 1 year ago
@CapricousCapricorn1 wow. well my mother is married to a man who is NOT trash. so watch your mouth! don't assume things about all Black men, you make it acceptable for other people to assume things about black women, or black ppl in general. u get what you put out there, if u dressed like a slut, you are gonna attract guys who only want sex, so u must look like a slut......
S8xyGurl 1 year ago
@authenticeen Good girl! ;)
MssoldierinChrist 1 year ago
Can't help but realize that almost everyone's comments come back saying that it's the womans fault for doing something...wow
chinamama03 1 year ago
@authenticeen your insight exudes a confidence & maturity which is incredibly admirable & way beyond your years. i wish you the best in all endeavors, love & otherwise. this is my favourite comment :)
you won me at the hoodrat men, lol.
hunnypotchris 1 year ago 19
This is such a fantastic analysis of this dynamic. Very insightful. May we all learn something from this. When you don't get what you need, move on! It is out there. Do not settle.
olenholm 1 year ago
@olenholm In this case, he didn't know what he needed. He was being very immature. When you have a good woman/man, you need to hold on to her!/him....he wasn't a good man but she was.....
thats why older men (not always tho) are so much more attractive to me, they kno wat they want and wats best.....
S8xyGurl 1 year ago
@S8xyGurl
Shut your stupid damn mouth bitch. Black men will be obsessed with sex if I dress like a nun because thats how they are. And Im goodlooking. Go suck a dick you lame. Slut? Lol!! This is 2010 worry about who ur fucking not me you pitiful ass bitch. Kill yourself. Lolololololololol!
CapricousCapricorn1 1 year ago
WOW, Brilliant!! LOL
TruthFan 1 year ago
LMAO
swiftlouie143 1 year ago