Sex Tips For Guys: Our Dirty Little Secret About Sex

[rangerstubbs76]

I've seen this a million times as a swinger club manager. And as a soldier as well. The majority of men are SCARED TO DEATH of women. There's no need to be. She's just as nervous as you, if not more. Technique issues, stamina, size or looks issues, whatever. Our self esteem or ego is the biggest killer of sexual exploration. Are you going to be perfect every time? No. Learn from your mistakes and don't let it rip your heart out. Rome wasn't built in a day. A great sexual experience isn't either.

[AshleyWilliams19]

@rangerstubbs76 Youre so right. When Im about to go on a date with a man or I see a man is about to come talk to me, im terrified. Im almost so terrified to the point i feel im about to puke, but I want to keep my cool, to not run the man off and make him think im stupid, or an idiot, or just weird. somhow, I can feel when a man is nervous and I just try my best to make him feel as comfortable as possible around me, wether he says something dumb on accident or not. I can tell when its his nerves

[LowLowSpinners]

im scared because i always think the vagina will eat my penis in 1 bite

[cheezieguy]

Guys joke about sex cuz guys r never serious. Its because we crave it so much (hence porn) because of hormones tht are their to ensure human survival. Soldiers joke and laugh becaus laughing at something makes it seem to go by faster Nobody wants to be in war for long.

[rangerstubbs76]

@cheezieguy You know, I've never once thought I had to go out and have sex with so many women because I felt I needed to continue my line. I've literally killed off billions of sperm using birth control only because it feels good to have sex with women. The procreation theory is just some guy's lousy excuse to try to cover up for his own insecurities, or an attempt to not look like such an idiot to women. Doesn't work very well with them at all. They don't buy into that. Neither should you.

[conceptualclarity]

I don't think this is feminism. He's onto something here. I've noticed that male commenters online always talk about their penises in a very jokey vein, never serious. Of course in their own different ways women's sex lives are also seriously undermined by insecurities.

[SPANGLEDROB1]

Isn't this the feminist point of view about men,, yeah we're so scared... Undermining.. I mean get a grip,

I love being a man.,. I'm not a soldier I don't have a joking coping system.. 'm here to have sex, and enjoy the experience with my partner.. Mb a few hick ups.. But it's not fear.

mb for some men,, but this is mental, quackery. PC muscles, Breathing even Chi gong. Your not a victim your alive,. Sorry mate, but NO!

[JClyda44]

This is so damn true, honest, and on point! THANK YOU! I want to email this to my boyfriend!

[Mrvegeta01]

he didnt teach nothin... wasted my time with this asshole...

[iamsmilie]

hes trapin us guyz ...

we watch da video cuz he waz gona say sumthing to help us turnz out he jus goin on us...

[studentoflife01]

The reason why is because we (Guys) want to respect women.

[rangerstubbs76]

@studentoflife01 HUH? Ever go to a swingers club? A bar? A gym? Anywhere?Watch the ratio of men that actually respect women vs. the ones who try to take advantage of the situation instead. You obviously haven't been around much OR you're thinking being all teddy-bearish and saying that will work for you. Either way, women know better. They often reject guys who are way too nice to them. Men are pretty much scared to death of rejection due to their own egos. Seen it a million times.

[studentoflife01]

Ummm....What do you mean by respect?

[rangerstubbs76]

@studentoflife01 Basic human interaction skills. Not being pushy for sex or being rude afterwards when she won't give it. No means no and she's not going to change her mind just because you're over-persistant. Touching her when she doesn't want you to. Not being able to read her body language or simply not caring when it should be obvious. Following her around like a puppy dog. You may not personally do those things, but most other guys won't control those urges. It can easily be seen anywhere.

[studentoflife01]

"it should be obvious. Following her around like a puppy dog." - It's all up to the female to decide what the fuck is obvious or not. Goddamit, We have no rights unless the female approaches us. WHY DON'T FEMALES APPROACH MALES...BECAUSE THEY DON'T LIKE SEX. Simple, 95%+ of reported 'rape charges' are from women to men, not the other way around. Don't push this everything is okay feeling because it’s not. There is a reason why they're not naturally in positions of power.

[rangerstubbs76]

@studentoflife01 You're getting angry. Don't. Females have a literal 100 to 1 ratio of men that will approach them, vs. them approaching a guy. Men will chase every girl that looks good. Women have to have both that AND an emotional attraction. Females like sex as much as men. Look at Kinsey Institute studies. 51% of men cheat. 52% percent of women do too. But most women will be very picky on who they have sex with. It's a man's approach that makes everything right or wrong. Up to her after that

[AshleyWilliams19]

@rangerstubbs76 I do like sex as much as men but i WILL NOT just pick a random man and have sex with him. I am very picky about which man gets that attention. He cant be afraid to work for it and youre right, he needs to approach a woman properly. He needs to take time for her to build trust in him first. The way he talks to me and acts around me is a start. and, i can sometimes tell when a man is bullshitting with me half the time im right, and if he's doing so, that's a deal breaker.

[rangerstubbs76]

@AshleyWilliams19 Much thanks, and it's from the female perspective instead. Most guys seem to forget to do most of the things that a woman needs to be able to trust him first, then wonder why she DIDN'T trust him later. On the flip side, (just from my observations) most women won't accurately relay their own feelings resulting from their own nervousness either. Then, we all tend to do things in the opposite order. If both genders can get past all that, you'll have a better date / relationship.

[AshleyWilliams19]

@rangerstubbs76 Well you do make a good point. :) I know both men and women do screw up alot on each others part, so i can understand where youre coming from. We just gotta take chances.

[sjpigott]

Excellent video.

[spelqueka]

Alex you really need to go away and think about something else. We all know guys lie and have false bravado,nothing new there. Men just need to know how to please others and not put themselves first all the time.

[juggurung]

hi i am ray i got some problem eversince me friend told me to go to a porn site i just can`t stop thinking about it i keep on claping myself to forget it but i can`t also i tryed to forget it by playing a online game called runescape but still it did not work pls think a way to help me pls thx

[NightLite08]

WEll ray, looks like you've got yourself in quite a pickle. The best thing to do is come to my house... Im a giggly little school girl with large tits. I want to suck and fuck every thing i see..Please come here..Literally.

[sheckla]

hahahaa///

A+

[caseywhisman]

nice! lol

[verrybadman]

its poor. deal with it.

[BakRU84]

wow.. this guy is an idiot

[itshcrumbly]

Thanks man helped

[hanneesh]

i hung on every word...thanks

[NightLite08]

haha,,you HUNG!!

[thenewrapstyle]

man gives sex tip -3000 views. woman gives sex tip -3M views

[rangerstubbs76]

@thenewrapstyle Goes to show that if women actually LISTENED to men and how they felt about sex, women might learn even more than they THINK they know. Damn shame for every one in the end.

[IbnNero]

@thenewrapstyle coz mostly women are whores ! men are NOT ...Especially sex advicer are the biggest whore there is

[scholachu]

Hi Alex,

This is the first time I've come across your videos here at Youtube. It's all great, highly informative sessions. This one in particular is almost like "psychology of sex". Thumbs up!

[LoveChari]

I concur!  Interesting stuff :)

[wmsc29]

sorry Alex, I receive the video, but do not have the sound??

Don't know why this happens sometimes.

- Carl

[hypershrimp]

try updating your flash player.