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  • god bless black love the best!

  • This is awesome I will let my husband see this he needs to hear this he is not liking my hair I just did the chop!!!

  • @las0325 Dont worry, he will come around. If you continue to believe he will come around. Next thing you know he will be boasting to people. "My wife is natural, she dont put all those chemicals in her hair":) Stat strong and happy growing!!

  • your a good husband keep being supportive of your wife during her natural journey

  • marry me !!!??!!

  • this is truly a beautiful video. nice to see a black man loving and appreciating you naturally. and he is so charming. you guys are beautiful. love.black.love

  • u r pretty

  • Your husband has a good spirit and he obviously loves you!

  • From a natural woman, married 32 years, it's clear from this video that Justin truly loves and supports you. Your union is a blessing from God.

  • black love!

  • no offense but I disagree with that statement you made about if you grown up in an environment where all you see is that on TV....so if you grew up in an environment where being homosexual was being idealized, is you gonna be gay? no

  • Good job guys! Wonderful insight from a male POV.

  • love what he is saying its true

  • black love the best! stay dark, black and proud!

  • I really enjoyed what your husband said about natural hair

  • thanx justin! (: man whos his dentist? lol Im goin natural soon maself cant wait!

  • You are both too cute! latia4u, have confidence in yourself - you're absolutely gorgeous. Justin you're beautiful and you have a smile to die for. He's definitely a keeper latia4u. You both keep supporting each other and have a long, fresh, and wonderful life. As a side note: I really don't think we need all the product that's thrown at us. Do a gentle washing with a basic shampoo, with a leave in conditioner and some type of light natural oil like coconut or olive oil, and be gentle.

  • Tiffany you are so sweet. :)

  • @neilybugg aww u made my day!

  • @latia4u Your Husband seems so sweet

  • thats fucked up when you hear a black man say postive things about black women......which he came from a black woman. why people think they are lying. thats crazy and it pisses me off because my wife is black and I love her more since she went natural...... she look more black and her beauty stands out more.

  • awwww he's so sweet to you

  • lol so funny... "oh your just saying that".... been there done that, lol. Sometimes it be like that.

  • Where did this man come from? Wow wow wow you are so so so blessed to have that man

  • Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ilove what your hubby said!!!! LOVE IT!!!! I will have my hubby take alook at it, its great and super encouraging!! Amazing to hear a black man!! A BLACK man! hold up his black sister!!! God bless you two and your marriage!

  • where did y'all meet??? This is a SMART well rounded black man! His mother needs to be commended!!!

  • @sexii87 wow...he like JUST said hes married to latia...

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  • It's so good that you had your husband's support because most people do not understand! I'm natural..just did my BC after a year and people hate it! Going natural is a journey and you have to be prepared for people not accepting it.

  • 4:52 "And I was right" So sweet.

  • Awwwww...... Your hubby is soooooo sweet!!! :)

  • Your hair looks AFRO-Beautiful!! We are AFRO-Blessed!! I think it's afrobeautiful that our hair can be molded like clay...VERSITILE with style, twists, braids, locs, blow dry straight...so many options! OYeaH God knew what he was doing & he got it RIGHT! Like ANY hairstyle we have to educate ourselves & take care of it!! R-luv❤

  • Black man here and i like to say i love Black women with natural hair styles. Really show me she is super confident in her self, and its  sexy and they can style it in a million way. i got love for my African Queens and yeah not all black guys are jerks, i am a gentleman right here so keep on marching on. one day i hope to find my Black or African queen.

  • well said Justin! Keep encouraging her.

  • Every woman needs affirmation. Cause there is so much out there that attacks women self-esteem.

  • @sexii87 did u even watch the video, lol

  • What a beautiful and supportive couple!

  • he is AWESOME.COM :0)

  • What a sweetheart!! Good for you, girl!!!

  • Good job Justin. Your wife is lovely and her hair is lovely also. She's definitely given me that extra umph to not go back to the creamy crack. Thanks and God bless you both.

  • Wow!! Where did you find him?

  • @LatraciaY lol on the bus stop ;) dont knock it till u try it haaaaa

  • @latia4u  I'm headed to the bus stop right now. LOL

  • @shonworld haaaaaa^___^

  • @latia4u bus stop....HERE I COME!! LOL!!

  • @latia4u bus stop...HERE I COME!! LOL!

  • @LatraciaY lol

  • He is a doll! You are so blessed. I subbed because of this video!

  • he is adorable and sweet! He got a brother? haha jkjk

  • Nice Video!

  • I'm so glad I saw this video! I'm 23 yrs old, married with no kids and my husband's name is also Justin lol! [He is 22 yrs old and Black] He never paid too much attention to my hair but when I decided to go natural he was the most supportive person I knew! He was there with my from my big chop to where I am now, a full year later. I think its important for black women, esp NATURAL black women, to see that there are men supporting and loving our natural beauty.

  • Girl You babe is so uber cute! It's so refreshing to see a clean cut , articulate, humble and supportive black male. God Bless You Two And MAY YOUR LOVE BE SEALED WITH HIS GRACE.

    LOVE YOU MAN, STAY HUMBLE AND FOCUS ON YOUR WIFE.........this video felt great!

  • Awww, What a great man you have! My Hubby is very similar, but he made it clear he doesnt like short hair. I have done the big chop before, but I relaxed it again! This time I am transitioning now. I plan on to transition for about 12-18 months. It was great to hear your husband point of view!

  • awwww your husband is a good man = )

  • You've got a good guy! Great video.

  • love the vid.

  • Love the video.  Always interested in hearing the honest opinion of black men on natural hair. I am in lllllooooovvvveeee w/ the song :D

  • her face face puts me in mind of jill scott.

  • Wow...just stumbled upon this, (better late than never). How honest and genuine.  Hubby's parents did a great job and you are reaping the rewards. Peace.

  • i too live an Hawai'i it's so hard to find the right products, but i love this video wish my husband is that supportive

  • Awwwe! Your hubby is so sweet and sincere! Great video! His perspective was really interesting! :)

  • you are lucky you have a man that loves his own because men like that are a minority it seems like he had a good upbirnging. a lot of black men that dont like black women is bacause they had a parent that said to them "DONT BRING ME HOME NO NAPPY HEAD GIRL" OR "SHE TO BLACK", THIS LEAD MEN TO NOT LIKE THERE OWN.

  • Lnyxwoman1, you would be surprised at how many don't. I mean weave has come a long way.

  • great video. I love it. I was laughing when he said he thought it would be cheaper to have natural hair.... my hubby thought the same thing.. NOT!!!!!!!! lol this is adorable btw

  • awww. how cute

  • The song...the *song*...oh my goodness...*the song*.

    *Mutes the beginning*

    love the video overall though. :-3

  • @Teddybeer42 Thats fine that you prerfer straight silky hair, because you are white. But they are talking about Afro-american hair which is very tightly curled in some cases, some more than others. But our hair is not like yours.

  • @george7372 Lol. George you are too nice. Teddy like to spend endless hours trying pissing off the very race they secretly want to be. Check the profile and look at the comments. Gotta love You tube trolls. Anyway thank you for posting this video Latia. It's good to see a positive view point.

  • @Teddybeer42 you're obviously a troll and have nothing better to do

  • Good thing about natural hair is that the guy knows you for you, not the weave. Some women wont even tell their man that their children will not have straight long hair. Why??? because you an't got any!

  • @claritycentral But what kind of man doesn't know that black people don't have straight hair????

  • Just came upon this. I am so happy that you support your wife. My Hubby supports me too. Big ups to you.

  • black men.... take notes. ur hubby is awesome. its great to hear that there r black men who love their women no matter wut

  • Dear God. Please send me a husband like Justin. And thank for sending him particularly to a sweet woman. That is all. Amen. Lol ^_^

  • @1JustWatching123 Justin says that makes him feel sooo good ^_^ this comment is just so sweet.

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  • @latia4u Awww. You're Very welcome deary. ...And I enjoyed watching this video again. :) Keep it up y'all two!! ,')

  • @latia4u And sorry if you see that it says I removed a comment. :-> :-> I only did it to change it cause at first I said sorry for just now seeing your reply after all these months. But then I saw it said you'd only wrote this last week. Lol But yeah, so I didn't remove it cause it was something bad.  ;-)

  • @latia4u your hair is sooooo pretty! It really fits you. Im transitioning now...and trying to love it lol!

  • very cute 

  • I haven't had a perm in (I think) 6 months and I'm doing the Big Chop on my birthday, November 9th. Are there any tips on how to stay confident b/c I'm kinda nervous lol

  • @R2A2C - Hey :), I'm November 4th and I'm going to do the same thing! Don't punk out and happy early birthday!

  • @NATAHU77 lol sorry I meant to say November 6th (My real birthday) but yeah thanks same to you ^.^

  • black love the best!!

  • What an adorable couple you guys are.

  • That is so nice that you knew she would still look beautiful! I think natural hair is beautiful, and the confidence to wear natural hair is beautiful:) Yes the media has its own perspective of ideal beauty, but I think everyone needs to choose for themselves what is beautiful.

    I wish my husband would do a video but that would not happen unless my cat grew wings and started to fly^_^

  • I live in Hawaii. And from what i've seen the Samoans use relaxers. Although Native Hawaiian people love using black hair products. ;)

  • @Onegurrrlrev Hey i live in Hawaii too and I have seen that. Many natives have afro textured hair and some of them use relaxers. I saw this one girl i believe she was texlaxed and she had very long afro textured hair. Thanks for commenting !

  • @latia4u Oh wow! what a coincidence. Did you move here right after college? I have one more year at HPU.

  • @latia4u wats it like in Hawaii how is the real estate looking over there??

  • @latia4u what's it like in Hawaii how is the real estate looking over there??

  • @latia4u I just moved to hawaii last month, i didn't know they relaxed, but yeah, they use black products

  • Thanks for sharing......STAY BLESSED!

  • Hello beautiful! I just want to say that your husband is cutie a pie (lol) how bless you are. I have so much to say about your video so I will post a video soon to share with all my experience on my b/c. So look for it and please respond because I love connecting with beautiful people. I'm going to share your video with my husban because he needs to hear this message. Your look is down right gorgeous and you both look very lovely (smile)

  • your husband it so cute!

  • I JUST DID THE BIG CHOP AND I LOVE MY HAIR!!!!! AND TO MY SURPRISE I ATTRACT MORE MEN THAN EVER BEFORE; YES BLACK MEN!!!!

  • @vonalove lol u go Queen!

  • i wish a lot of black men felt like that but the truth blac men claim they dnt like women with weave buit yet they still want them to have long straight hair like a white women but the reality not everybody will have the nice curly good hair like somebody like amanda lewis or chilli u hardly ever see a famous person with a black women with her natural hair its always straight i want to see for ones a young black famous man with a sister with dreads

  • @2hottric very true, many men do want some model type long haired exotic woman that you wont see everyday on the streets, but I feel like if he is a real man & you are a virtuous woman who exudes confidence he will see past your hair & want to get to know you no matter what race he is. If he doesn't see that then he was not worth getting to know anyway (and it's better 2 know that now, rather than later right Queen ;^) Remember u don't need ALL men to love you. Just the one who was meant 4u.

  • @2hottric - i agree! i wish more men who R public figures wore dreads (maybe even politicians). I think dreads look powerful on men esp when its well kept (women too). I think i wil see more in my lifetime...young ones @least (besides Lil Wayne &Lenny Kravitz etc). When i graduated from college guys w/beautiful dreds cut it to get "jobs"...they still dont have jobs. i am saddened when a guy cuts his dreds to get a job. If a job cant focus on your skillset--not your hair, dont work for them!

  • @2hottric Well, you have Jill Scott who has her natural hair! And don't forget about Whoopi Goldberg, Lauryn Hill, India Arie...but you are absolutely correct with this post!

  • @2hottric good hair? Please stop with the nonsense. Straight hair gets lice, and doesn't protect against anything. Thats actually not good at all. Kinky hair protects against all weather conditions and doesn't get lice. Thats good hair. Also, If a guy is brainwashed by racist white media than his feelings aren't even true. His thoughts and opinions aren't even his and therefore what he thinks and says is worthless.

  • You should be proud to have a husband like him. He is so supportive and I know that you appreciate that.. God Bless him..

  • Ur hubby has a nice smile :)

  • i am glad ur husband has been so supportive! mine wasnt as supportive at first, but he likes it now that it's a little longer.

  • hahahahah my hubby feels your hubby! :P He just hates my constant talking about HAIR :P He just thinks he loves me anyway. PERIOD :) But he really supports me too. I' doin my BC today and he will the one cutting my hair. He loves my "Go Natural" journey.. he just doesnt wanna me talking about with 24/7.. and i think we usually do LOL.. at least in the beggining

  • You guys are adorable

  • if you haven't, I would recommend watching kimmaytube. It will save you money and break the habit of being a product junkie. I'm no expert but from my research the only thing that you need for healthy hair growing is a good oil, conditioner, weekly cleaning, and a positive outlook.

  • Black love !!!! I love it

  • too cute!!!!!love your hair I just got started on my journey and my hubby is the same way is all for me going natural!!!!!!BLACK LOVE IS A WONDERFUL THING!!!

  • You are too funny! But I appreciate your sensativity of your wife's natural! My husband hasn't said anything about my change. I know he hates it! So I applaud you in accepting your wife's naural look. And yes you correct, your wife is beautiful! Bless ya'll and stay together!

  • Im not tryig to be disrespectful in any way but your husband is very handsome! I love to see black men and women get together and prove people wrong! great video!

  • Buy Kinky Curly!

  • Gah you give me hope i'll meet someone as nice

  • Oh your husband is such a cutie! What and sweet and wonderful things he said! LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!!!

  • lovely video, but sorry your hubby doesn't count if yall met before you went natural. He's your hubby and he's gonna and love you natural or not. Guess I was expecting something else, oh well. Long live love to those that have it! :-)

  • i like how nobody mentions asians also have straight hair. not only that, but people say that having straight hair is to look european, and yet the human hair weaves are majority indian hair.

    anyway, i agree with the video.

  • too bad all men don't think like that....

  • Thanks for sharing this, very interesting :)

  • Your husband is so handsome and you guys make a beautiful couple. I love his honesty and his expression of love you thanks for sharing.

  • @BethV93 thanks that was nice

  • @latia4u I WAS THINKIN THE SAME THING. YOU BOTH HAVE BEAUTIFUL SMILES

  • aww, he admires you.. you have all the encouragement you need!

  • Ya'll so cute!!

    lol. Yeah, men don't expect all them lotions & potions n thangs when we go natural. You tryna get the BEST possible outcome. & hair reacts differently to different products.

  • omg girl he is such a keeper lol

  • he's so sweet

  • She's a product junkie! lol. She doesn't need a lot of products she just likes them lol. I only have 4 main products i use.

  • "I was right as always" lol. Thank you for posting your hubby's perspective. I love hearing from black men who are willing to share their thoughts.

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  • I love your video, i too have asked my husband MANY times, does my hair look ok? I had hair down my back , i transitioned for 5 months then did the big chop! He also said the same thing to me , that i was pretty anyway, so i can identify! LoL this was a good vid and glad that we got another man perspective, It was needed sis! I LOVE THE SONG!! LOLOLOLOL It was so funny!

  • Grl im young but when im ready you tell where you found a man like that an sign me up..LMAO!!!! but naw i really like when guys are that supportive an sweet..keep going strong mamaz

  • you and your hubby are so cute !!! You got a good one girl! Thanks for this video.

  • You guys are adorable!

  • such a lovely couple!keep up the good work!

  • This video got me really inspired.

    Did either of you go to private schools?

  • Good vid, love the song too. Your husband is very supportive.

  • Girl you have an amazing (and cute) husband. And he is a lucky man to have you.

  • he's so lovely ur so lucky!!!! =)

  • gr8 video i love seeing black love

  • Great choice of words... My wife is going natural also!

  • thats wonderful,its really a beautiful thing!

  • Love your song choice!

  • What version of this song are you using?

    You're beautiful and your hair looks great! I've been natural for six months and it took awhile for me to see it as "pretty". Now, I can't see myself any other way and the few times I've straightened it in the past few years, I didn't even like it!

    Short hair gives you a chance to really see your bone structure (this is based on my ANTM knowledge, LoL)!

  • @QueenofSunshine84 Hey the version of the song is from the Juno soundtract. Thanks for your support. Sometimes i used to think i looked weird with short hair but now i look back on that length and I fell like i looked ok. Thanks gurlie!

  • YALL ARE SO CUTE!!!!

  • Real black love! I love it! Thank you!

  • he looks like reggie bush.

  • This is great. There's nothing like having a supportive spouse. Stay Blessed.

  • Did u meet yur husband before u went natural?

  • yep at a bus stop,lol

  • @latia4u Oh just askng cuz it seems that some of the women who went natural and r married had permed hair beforehand. I just run nto guys that r use to the norm of a chick w/ permed hair. It seems that my hair intimdates them. I don't know I'll leave it up to God. Thanx for response.

  • excellent video and good pick of a man! Congrats!

  • your husband is sexy XXXXXXP

  • Just beautiful!!!!

  • great video...great husband..he is sooo supportive..alot of black men arent cool with the frizzy bushy edges..as far as the products..I recently started using vasoline in my hair and it really works..it lays the friz down and keeps the scalp from drying and makes my hair softer..plus its really inexpensive..I recently did my first hair vid I am 2 years and 7months natural so believe me it definately gets easier with time just stick with it

  • Natural hair is the bomb! And caring for it is as anything else...love it, groom it..now that is beautiful!

    Peace - TikurYesus

  • he speaks so highly of u. thats great..and shout to your husband for bein so real

  • love the vid...it's good your husband is 100% with you

  • All the best sweetie. You guys are adorable. I am natural too. But I have problem with styling so a wear a hat. Hey it's winter. Any advise?? Thanks.

  • he's awesome, im glad he regards u so highly for being urself. My boyfriend's name is Justin lol and he feels the same way lol. Go Justins!

  • most black dudes would date black women with natural hair. most chicks i see look better with natural hair. as a black dude who people think is a pretty. chicks with dreadlocks are sexy. long dreads on a chick is exotic.

  • He is precious! Its great that he is so supportive!

  • Great video!!! I really appreciate Justin's honesty and view of natural hair. He's right inthat we are beautiful regardless of how we choose to wear our hair. Natural or Relaxed hair is not what makes you beautiful...it's how you carry yourself and your inner confidence of your beauty. I love being natural and discovering all that I can do with my hair; I can't see me ever going back to a relaxed state. But however I choose to wear my hair I have to KNOW that I'm beautiful from the inside.

  • gr8 video...nice to hear a man's perspective..IM IN THE PROCESS OF TRANSITIONING as well, your video really helped.

    thanks

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