If I were to cheat on a partner, which I never have, it would definitely mean for me that I absolutely did not love my partner & I was in the wrong relationship period! If I was with THE ONE, then the thought of cheating would never cross my mind 'cause I would never, ever want to hurt that person in that way. I have always had the dignity to leave an unhappy relationship before starting another. That's the way it should be.
My question is why do i feel like cheating on my girlfriend with a younger girl i fooled with about 4 years ago, i love my current girlfriend to death, but i cant stop thinking about this other person, and i dont think i can control these feelings im 23 pls help!!
I thik she is right? I went through the same thing and i saw my parents go through the same thing. You cant hide a secret, deep down the truth will be known. I think that if someone will admit it and not just come clean after being caught, then the realtionship has a better chance.
unfortunately one size dosen't fit all i also think that some people do not know what the word "love" means,if you love your wife in the true sense then you would not let someone else come near your personal space at all because when in love the person you are in love with is all you want near you anyway other than that how can it be real love???
This is BS!!. OK. ..you cheated, you confessed and I forgave, what are the chances you won't do it again if i made it that easy?. Even if you decide to continue with the relationship it would never be the same again from either side.
Relationship with an unfaithful partner should be ended to avoid any further mental or emotional stress.
I'm about to confess my one night stand... Well my three night stand! I love my girl and this secret is hurting me sooooooo much. I just had a baby w my wife and I'm done w lying and shit but should I tell?? She was prego at the time and I don't wanna lose her! Please help..!
@RGarcia33009 ....truth has broken more marriages than it has saved!....because if you do tell her then there will be consequences....I say that you dont tell her and promise that you will not cheat on her again....that is if you love your wife and care about your family!
That is exactly what she is saying. This is a "sticky whicket"..."Why do you want to bring it up now?" "Cause there will be a storm that follows the confession"...listen to her!
This woman is crazy. If somebody cheated on me, I would leave the relationship permanently. A person that cheats doesnt deserve a good relationship in the first place. This is why private investigators make so much money, because people are worthless liars.
If I were to cheat on a partner, which I never have, it would definitely mean for me that I absolutely did not love my partner & I was in the wrong relationship period! If I was with THE ONE, then the thought of cheating would never cross my mind 'cause I would never, ever want to hurt that person in that way. I have always had the dignity to leave an unhappy relationship before starting another. That's the way it should be.
auntstacey123 8 months ago
@auntstacey123
true
indvortex05 6 months ago
Hey!...Why dont you just leave if your going to cheat...people are dumb
Democrate4Life 8 months ago
My question is why do i feel like cheating on my girlfriend with a younger girl i fooled with about 4 years ago, i love my current girlfriend to death, but i cant stop thinking about this other person, and i dont think i can control these feelings im 23 pls help!!
strongarmeric 1 year ago
@strongarmeric dont get into serious relationships unless you think your willing to die for them
xXMonteCristoXx 1 year ago
I thik she is right? I went through the same thing and i saw my parents go through the same thing. You cant hide a secret, deep down the truth will be known. I think that if someone will admit it and not just come clean after being caught, then the realtionship has a better chance.
neonatat7 1 year ago
Never tell! Ever! You're only going to hurt the other person. Dr. Myers is friggin hot!!
hiptojive 1 year ago
@hiptojive Dont tell? How strong can your love or relationship be if your not willing to rick everything for it?
neonatat7 1 year ago
unfortunately one size dosen't fit all i also think that some people do not know what the word "love" means,if you love your wife in the true sense then you would not let someone else come near your personal space at all because when in love the person you are in love with is all you want near you anyway other than that how can it be real love???
opendtuning 1 year ago
never, ever, ever lie. esp not to your 'beloved'. if you can't be honest about it, you should not be married.
the truth hurts. and lies kill.
alexp9999 1 year ago
This is BS!!. OK. ..you cheated, you confessed and I forgave, what are the chances you won't do it again if i made it that easy?. Even if you decide to continue with the relationship it would never be the same again from either side.
Relationship with an unfaithful partner should be ended to avoid any further mental or emotional stress.
warmerstalk 1 year ago
shellb12 hopefully your mind changes in that attitude or you will never be happy
prettynic1 2 years ago
I'm about to confess my one night stand... Well my three night stand! I love my girl and this secret is hurting me sooooooo much. I just had a baby w my wife and I'm done w lying and shit but should I tell?? She was prego at the time and I don't wanna lose her! Please help..!
RGarcia33009 2 years ago
@RGarcia33009 ....truth has broken more marriages than it has saved!....because if you do tell her then there will be consequences....I say that you dont tell her and promise that you will not cheat on her again....that is if you love your wife and care about your family!
MrSaeedurrehman 1 year ago
That is exactly what she is saying. This is a "sticky whicket"..."Why do you want to bring it up now?" "Cause there will be a storm that follows the confession"...listen to her!
patricksmccourt 2 years ago
so to avoid the consequesces...don't tell..??? what the hell!?
patricksmccourt 3 years ago
...that's not what she said...
LifeFirst 2 years ago
This woman is crazy. If somebody cheated on me, I would leave the relationship permanently. A person that cheats doesnt deserve a good relationship in the first place. This is why private investigators make so much money, because people are worthless liars.
ShellB12 3 years ago
Thank you, some one with some one common sense.
EzpzNewb 2 years ago