i.will.charm.you

[FluteStar09]

i suck at the eye contact part i kinda come off as awkard when i communicate. but im workin on my communication skills.

[lindseyclark08]

it's sad because the only bar with a dance floor where i live is always packed with cowboys two steppin' to boot scoot n boogie

[Everythingxxx]

i guess this concept really worked very well for you, jess - cause you visibly enjoyed the person behind the camera ;-)

[femalequality]

i like the double nose piercing..... makes you look like a cute little dragon ;)

[TaylorTotsYumm]

Jess, what would you do if I stole your hat?

[itsBA44]

I love your advice. "Don't talk, don't talk on the dance floor." - so true.

[baloobubble]

aww man. It's 111 degrees here lol. I'd kill for 89

[leannnicole91]

Prove that you dont have pants on ;) Just joking, kinda!

I totally love you! Ur the only one i watch on the beaverbunch channel..that bad?

[Diggz0]

Oh man, do I just keep sending my email to you guys?!? Lol i dont want to be annoyjng thou!! I'm so stuck that I just need some sort of advice!! Ugh!! Lol still ugh!!

[libbylu111]

Ha ha i suck i like talking on the dance floor, im gonna be alone forever.

[cautiousplay]

@libbylu111 aww you don't suck! you can talk on the dance floor... i'm just saying that if you're in that first moment of meeting someone, you might as well dance it up and have a blast before you talk to them. plus it's easier to talk when you can really focus on the conversation and not where you're jumping around.

[libbylu111]

@libbylu111 lol

[LolaGetty]

Jess you look a lot like Ginnifer Goodwin now that she has a short haircut!

[9Squishy9]

r u aware that pants = underwear in england sometimes? :P

[cautiousplay]

@9Squishy9 well i guess i wasn't wearing any underwear either :x

[flipmcflop2]

You look very cute :D

[Johana]

I live calif weather :) i wish i new ppl there so i could move .. But hooefully later on :), how are your new roomies?

[Ty98ink]

Haha it is gross - it's me.

TY *SLAP* butt - now you's a beanie baby

[redneckcookie11]

That's hot? 90 here is cool lol! I think you should come visit ;-)

[Justyouravrggirl]

@misspotofcoffee thanks for the advice, it's nice to know I'm not the only one! : )

[GabbyXena100]

That's it! I'm moving to San Diego. It's, like, 49 degrees here in Chicago.

So, are you wearing no pants or no chones, either? I'm not trying to be creepy, I'm just honestly curious.

[mikeymou]

Great advice, I'd love to see your new haircut!!!

[arsnel366]

I cant stop laughing at the no pants i dont know why

[itsjessina]

No pants :P lol ill try out the advice and ill let you know how it goes

[kcsarcastic1]

YAY for no pants

[pinkismafav]

you look a lot browner on this video. Good to see you're finally kicking that illness away and looking healthy again. It's really hot...and you're wearing a hat?!! The shaved sides look rad, so you might as well unveil it all :)

[cautiousplay]

@pinkismafav haha i did gain a few shades over the weekend... it's all the bike riding i've been doing.

[simplayaj]

You're haircut looks cool. I wish I could see it.

[TheBlankPage22]

I don't believe you! You are so wearing pants! Prove it! ;)

[AlyLunatika]

This might actually be useful, thank you Jess! By the way, you looked really cute in this video :)

[nuggett5262]

Haha is there like someone over there? Cause u keep on looking over there and laughing!?

[orangebob11]

you not wearing pants makes me a happy kid :D

[rujjur4]

I'm a happy kid :)

[Diggz0]

Very nice pointers!! Do you guys respond to all emails?

[cautiousplay]

@Diggz0 we definitely try but we have so many to get back to.

[cautiousplay]

@carmenprissy i think it's adorable. 

[Justyouravrggirl]

Jess I loved your video this week, I am so glad to see you are feeling better! I live in a small town and that coupled with the fact that I am not out yet makes things tricky, but I love your advice! Side note.. I think a good topic would be coming out after another member of your family has already come out. I have a twin brother who came out a few years ago, and am finding it difficult to come out myself. Any advice?

[sunday162]

I always have an initial moment of shock and confusion when an American says they are not wearing pants, its not the same item of clothing over here :p

[TheSashaSays]

seeing you happy, makes me happy. nice to see you back to 100%.. keep makin moves babes.

[claudia1515]

Great advice Jess.. Its like that in my town there is no place here in my town to meet girls.. And i really want to meet some cute girls.. Kinda hard when i'm girly and shes girly you make I contact but you just dont want to freak the other girl out and she might look at you disgusting,,

Love you jess looks like your not sick.

[Julikate]

this is good advice. gotta stay classy! :-) xo

[janecool69]

i was sick of looking at your couch.  where do your shop for your clothes? . you look super cute.

[paramoreFan642]

adorable as ever Jess but um remember when you realized your like always wearing that hat well you said its cause you need a hair cut well you have one now and need a new excuse!! lol but its okay cause I still love you in that cap your like made for it! ^_^

[xbellaxbrutalityx]

adorable! Great video. I'll definitely keep this one in mind next time I go to a club. =D Did you get a haircut?

[cautiousplay]

@xbellaxbrutalityx i certainly did ;)

[anotherloaner]

FYI Ross Jeffries the international speed seduction guru says- as a rule of thumb (whatever that means) actually i take it back. he doesnt use that phrase. /// he says that you have 30 seconds from the moment you spot her to get her attention. The longer you wait from that moment on the lesser your chances.

[anotherloaner]

: ) yer such an adorable guy sometimes.

[DoubleOhJo]

I too live in a very small town in Tennessee.So i can identify with this issue. My advice, subtracting the use of mud trucks, pork rinds, and cowboy boots..which we all know is THE way to attract a ladies attention..is theres a great deal of courage and eye contact. The rest minute detail :)

[JustFrigginPeachy]

I kept hoping the camera would fall and reveal your legs/Superhero underwear. You strike me as the Marvel undies kinda person.

[quesati]

you look babysized. ..like youd hafta scale that chair to get in it.

ps- cheesin pretty hard, who you crushin onnn kid.

cute. keep smilin.

[chickrocker]

ummm ...jess...how about a new hat!!!...or even better...NO HAT!!....lol..but ut still adorable with or without a hat! :) ...

[SactoGranny]

Good advice, all of it, I'm sure. It's been over 30 years since I was dating, but those applied then, as well. :-)

[ukebandit]

uh...i voted for horses...what's all this "approaching people at bars" nonsense?

[nannoninn]

Yes, this really helps, thanks! If all goes well, someday I won't have to go to bars any more... XD

[rainbowlover87]

jess is so cute

she can pull off any thing

like the no pant... *wink*

[Stayincontrolx]

You have both sides of your nose pierced?!

[cautiousplay]

@Stayincontrolx yes, i certainly do.

[clydevalentine2240]

dear jess,

pants are always optional.

the end.

[123MikeyGo]

@clydevalentine2240 Your comment made me spit out my drink! It was too funny!

[cautiousplay]

@clydevalentine2240 is that so. i'll keep that in mind. 

[delicateflower87]

I want a body shot!



[ezza192]

its all good u dont need to wear pants lol. and people should be looking at u not ur couch

[magalieaggs]

ahhh jess you're too cute! you're the best part of my mondays!

[cutezadi]

U are so CUTE!!! :D

[ieatcookiesforliving]

you look so cuuute :))) uuugh :D <3

[blaytonx04]

Next video: Will Jess ever take her hat off?

[SamBamKablaam]

I bet that if you did all those things pant-less, they'd work even better. ;P