Also, when you are married, that is a promise you are making to God and not just between two people. With that said, making a commitment to God far outweights just two people living together and being "committed" to each other. I believe Bianca is using the paper comments as an example about how important a piece of paper can be, not stating that these are exactly the same
Bianca, thank you for bringing a real and biblical perspective to these controversial and important issues. And to clarify to comment below, I have read in the bible that when you are married, your body is no longer yours, it is his and the same applies for him. So it's not exactly "ownership," but it does state you become his and he becomes yours. My husband and I apply this to our marriage and it has been wonderful.
Plus, your comment about a car slip or house deed is not a representation, its a proof of ownership. Is the marriage paper a proof of ownership? Does the husband own the woman, or the woman own the man? I guess your view on love and marriage iss different from mine
If your parents didnt have the marriage liscence, and your mother was dying of cancer, would your father not love, care and be there for her. Its not the paper that makes her special for him, its the love.
If you need a paper to force you into being there in good times and bad, in sickness and in health are you trully in love?
It's mortally sinful. Marriage is a sacred bond between God, the man, and the woman. It is sacred because God uses it to bring new life into the world. He takes it very seriously and so should we. Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen wrote a beautiful book entitled "Three to get Married. " It is a must read for all couples, married or not.
I would never marry someone without living with them for a few years and yes (gasp!) having sex with them. I take marriage very seriously. I could not marry someone without being sure that we work well together. Again, another reason why I left the church. They demonize really knowing someone before entering into a HUGE commitment, and try to make women feel like they have nothing to offer their future husbands but servitude and their virginity, which I disagree with strongly.
@LexieIsNotSexy honest question for you - how many 'trial' relationships would you have before settling on one? After 3 or 4 (or more), would you feel something special with the next? What about making a decision to love one person and sacrifice for them with the commitment of marriage and no out of leaving or divorce? Like I said, just some honest questions, not attacking in any way.
@spreadingthelovelike what the hell is a trial relationship? maybe it's just me, but i don't date or become romantically involved with people i don't care about. it's not a game or "fun". messing with people's emotions is not ok in my book. nothing is a "trial". i'm just with them. and if we're supposed to be together, than we will get married. if not, we will break up... and when i do get married, i really do not want to get divorced. i do not quite understand what is you are trying to ask me.
@LexieIsNotSexy Sorry if I upset you with my question - really wasn't my aim. My question is just in response to your comment about living with someone to see if you're compatible. My question is if you do live with someone for a while and it doesn't work out, do you do that again? How many times would you do that before finally deciding to stick with one. My point/question is why not commit to one person without the option of a back door to slip out of the relationship?
@spreadingthelovelike you do it until you find the one you're supposed to be with? "finally deciding to stick with one"? 1) you're kind of making it sound more like a business deal than a romantic relationship. 2) like i said, if we're supposed to be together we will be. if the relationship doesn't feel right, why settle? Why make the commitment to someone you dont love? Have you never been in a relationship? You didn't upset me, I just didn't understand what you were asking.
Nice video, However, when one party to a contract materially breaches it, it is our tradition the the other party's obligation ends. In a marraige if one party cheats, the other party's duty to love, cherish and obey is over. The sucess of a marriage depends on the couple's reationship with each other and God, not on their relationship to the state. In a divorce setting, the state allows the family's wealth to be drained off to attorneys, in a mosy ungodly way.
Very interesting subject! While I'm probably a few good years away from having to entertain the notion of cohabitating with a significant other, it's probably best to set personal boundaries before even getting into a relationship. I guess it's prolly best to live separately, cuz even if you remain abstinent sexually while living together you're still giving just as much of yourself emotionally to that person. Great vids and looking forward to more! :)
@StPatrickEdu It is part of it but it is not a requirment!
macrent2 4 months ago
you go girl!
godispowerful4evah 5 months ago
@StPatrickEdu so if you're sterile you shouldn't marry?
meckra 5 months ago 2
Why were you having lunch with professors? Did that seem normal to you? Did you look around and notice you were the only one?
Fornication is a sin. The. End.
scrateshooter 5 months ago
wooo i like this and your dads examples :)
eympretty 6 months ago in playlist More videos from BiancaFlower
Good example your dad used, wisdom speaking there...
BrothaLeeKIC 8 months ago 14
Also, when you are married, that is a promise you are making to God and not just between two people. With that said, making a commitment to God far outweights just two people living together and being "committed" to each other. I believe Bianca is using the paper comments as an example about how important a piece of paper can be, not stating that these are exactly the same
Lilly1truth 1 year ago 6
Bianca, thank you for bringing a real and biblical perspective to these controversial and important issues. And to clarify to comment below, I have read in the bible that when you are married, your body is no longer yours, it is his and the same applies for him. So it's not exactly "ownership," but it does state you become his and he becomes yours. My husband and I apply this to our marriage and it has been wonderful.
Lilly1truth 1 year ago 6
Plus, your comment about a car slip or house deed is not a representation, its a proof of ownership. Is the marriage paper a proof of ownership? Does the husband own the woman, or the woman own the man? I guess your view on love and marriage iss different from mine
northernsupernova1 1 year ago
@northernsupernova1 Actually husbands and wives do own each other. Read 1 Corinthians 7:4
MamaGboyega 1 year ago
Here is the question!!!
If your parents didnt have the marriage liscence, and your mother was dying of cancer, would your father not love, care and be there for her. Its not the paper that makes her special for him, its the love.
If you need a paper to force you into being there in good times and bad, in sickness and in health are you trully in love?
northernsupernova1 1 year ago 2
Marriage is also a vocation
umammieu 1 year ago
It's mortally sinful. Marriage is a sacred bond between God, the man, and the woman. It is sacred because God uses it to bring new life into the world. He takes it very seriously and so should we. Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen wrote a beautiful book entitled "Three to get Married. " It is a must read for all couples, married or not.
umammieu 1 year ago
I would never marry someone without living with them for a few years and yes (gasp!) having sex with them. I take marriage very seriously. I could not marry someone without being sure that we work well together. Again, another reason why I left the church. They demonize really knowing someone before entering into a HUGE commitment, and try to make women feel like they have nothing to offer their future husbands but servitude and their virginity, which I disagree with strongly.
LexieIsNotSexy 1 year ago
@LexieIsNotSexy honest question for you - how many 'trial' relationships would you have before settling on one? After 3 or 4 (or more), would you feel something special with the next? What about making a decision to love one person and sacrifice for them with the commitment of marriage and no out of leaving or divorce? Like I said, just some honest questions, not attacking in any way.
spreadingthelovelike 1 year ago
@spreadingthelovelike what the hell is a trial relationship? maybe it's just me, but i don't date or become romantically involved with people i don't care about. it's not a game or "fun". messing with people's emotions is not ok in my book. nothing is a "trial". i'm just with them. and if we're supposed to be together, than we will get married. if not, we will break up... and when i do get married, i really do not want to get divorced. i do not quite understand what is you are trying to ask me.
LexieIsNotSexy 1 year ago
@LexieIsNotSexy Sorry if I upset you with my question - really wasn't my aim. My question is just in response to your comment about living with someone to see if you're compatible. My question is if you do live with someone for a while and it doesn't work out, do you do that again? How many times would you do that before finally deciding to stick with one. My point/question is why not commit to one person without the option of a back door to slip out of the relationship?
spreadingthelovelike 1 year ago 3
@spreadingthelovelike you do it until you find the one you're supposed to be with? "finally deciding to stick with one"? 1) you're kind of making it sound more like a business deal than a romantic relationship. 2) like i said, if we're supposed to be together we will be. if the relationship doesn't feel right, why settle? Why make the commitment to someone you dont love? Have you never been in a relationship? You didn't upset me, I just didn't understand what you were asking.
LexieIsNotSexy 1 year ago
Nice video, However, when one party to a contract materially breaches it, it is our tradition the the other party's obligation ends. In a marraige if one party cheats, the other party's duty to love, cherish and obey is over. The sucess of a marriage depends on the couple's reationship with each other and God, not on their relationship to the state. In a divorce setting, the state allows the family's wealth to be drained off to attorneys, in a mosy ungodly way.
akisland7 1 year ago
Very interesting subject! While I'm probably a few good years away from having to entertain the notion of cohabitating with a significant other, it's probably best to set personal boundaries before even getting into a relationship. I guess it's prolly best to live separately, cuz even if you remain abstinent sexually while living together you're still giving just as much of yourself emotionally to that person. Great vids and looking forward to more! :)
ThatsCrizzay 1 year ago 2