@1RealityBroadcasting Fighting others is a way of trying to ride over them - control them so they don't control you. When learning how to be loving to yourself becomes more important than trying to have control over not being controlled, then you will learn to take care of yourself without hurt others.
This helps me a lot b/c my mom is an alcoholic and likes to say hurtful things to me a lot and I would always take it personally. I never really thought to focus on what is causing me to think about her comments as hurtful. It's really more of a reflection of her anger towards herself and her own life issues. Thank you.
wow this totally explains the scene in Good Will Hunting between Matt Damon and Robin Williams where he's like, "It's not your fault. It's not your fault." And Matt Damon is like, "Don't do this to me man, not you man." And Robin Williams is like, "It's not your fault. It's not your fault, etc."
This was sooo good!!!
myfirezone1 1 month ago
@myfirezone1 Thanks! I'm pleased it is helpful to you.
innerbond 1 month ago
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innerbond 2 months ago
@1RealityBroadcasting Fighting others is a way of trying to ride over them - control them so they don't control you. When learning how to be loving to yourself becomes more important than trying to have control over not being controlled, then you will learn to take care of yourself without hurt others.
innerbond 2 months ago
I'm pleased that this is helpful to you! Blessings to you.
innerbond 1 year ago
This helps me a lot b/c my mom is an alcoholic and likes to say hurtful things to me a lot and I would always take it personally. I never really thought to focus on what is causing me to think about her comments as hurtful. It's really more of a reflection of her anger towards herself and her own life issues. Thank you.
MusicalOxygen 1 year ago
I'm going to remember "purple hair" the next time I find myself feeling insulted. :)
monawachsler 1 year ago
@monawachsler I hope that help!
innerbond 1 year ago
wow this totally explains the scene in Good Will Hunting between Matt Damon and Robin Williams where he's like, "It's not your fault. It's not your fault." And Matt Damon is like, "Don't do this to me man, not you man." And Robin Williams is like, "It's not your fault. It's not your fault, etc."
sherbear2345 1 year ago
WOW I needed that
cupcakesnthesun 2 years ago