Promoting Interracial dating

[monical82]

hes cute 

[firethrower1000]

naaah thats crazy it wouldn't be surprising to see you with a black women at all it's gotta be the area you're in especially in america

[dginki]

You are too funny! Some of the black women who flaunt white men are just as silly as black men who flaunt white women. They have deep issues and they know it. That is why they are actually looked down upon in the black community(No matter what social class). They are putting people on notice that they have low self- esteem and they need "others" to make themselves feel important. If the relationship was real, no one else would even matter or need to know. You'd simply be thankful for it.

[JustThink00]

regarding flaunting on youtube: If i had a black girlfriend I might well want to show her off. The novelty of your first interracial relationship could appeal to anyone in that way. Also some people can admire another race while still loving their own. personally I don't even think about race that much. My point is that it may be innocent sometimes. Don't just quickly.

[totaly52]

You are right, I've notice that extra flare in there as well, however I think with the bw in SOME cases they are being treated well and when you are treated well within a relationship you naturally want to share with the world. I think that it is a good thing that bw have began to date ir. It took me a minute - but yes, I think it is a good thing.

[BlakeBarbieDoll]

Yes, I have already seen this video. I made a response to it. As far as it NOT being considered IR dating if the person of color is bi-racial, Well, that is not true. Seeing that Bi-racials (mixed with BLACK) take the racial status of the minority parent, then it IS IR dating.

[wezekana]

On point, Bruh.

[GataAgressiva411]

I'm open to dating all races, but I tend to prefer white and biracial guys. All of the guys I've dated within the past few years have been one or the other. Actually, white/biracial dudes give me more play than black dudes. I understand the extra "flair" thing-it's kind of sad. Personally, it doesn't take long for me to get over the skin color before I start looking at what's going on upstairs. Many times, IR relationships are based on fetish and insecurity, just like any other relationship.

[caramelprincessxxx41]

how do you know they havent interacially dated?

[bmatt820]

@caramelprincessxxx41 I was speaking of the ones who promote it, that never interracially dated.. I know each scenario is different, lol

[caramelprincessxxx41]

@bmatt820 and im saying how do YOU know they havent? im sure, they wont be dumb enough to promote it if they havent been in one..get it? stop speaking for them...you know, you THINK they havent been in one.,..your just ASSUMING thats all it is..you never asked or anything

[LucaDeBeau]

Wow, a bi-biracial kid promoting same-race relationships.

Interesting!



[complocated]

Interracial Dating Is Sexy!! =)

I'm Black & Cuban & Asian.... & Ill Date A Latino Any Day!! =D

All This Racist Shit Is DUMB!!!

[ThandiNC]

What race are you? I mean I can't tell. Obviously your mom and dad thought it was cool to date interracially :-))

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

I have seen more couples with black channels on YT. .. I don't remember them all, but one is BlackLove and or n Locs.. I LOVE their show.. they do a really good job. And another channel, EbonyLoveAndMarriage.. you can probably find some more couples on that page. There are lots of well loads of videos over there.

Realize the IR channels are for propaganda. You can see as much stated on their blogs. They are even targeting 12yo black girls to get them to leave blk boys alone & chase White boys.

[TooShy22]

I like...

[marry238]

You right..everyone need to take responsibility at some point for their actions..So lets start..You dont put drugs in my community..you take them yourself.. contrary to what you think me and my sisters and brothers live VERY well..neeeever know who you talkn too dud!

[marry238]

controversy ..who peed in your cheerios..tell them i said stop that.!!! lazy im always amazed at that assumption..do you really think before you open your mouth?..i can tell you are right out the trailor park!!!

[TheEditorialist]

Race is an artificial construct.

Before about 1500 AD no one had ever heard of black and white people.

Seriously, go back and read ancient books (including the Bible)

Where does anyone mention black vs white races before about 1500? No one had any idea that races existed back then.

Hmmm, something fishy going on with this whole race thing. It probably started as an excuse for slavery. From there it just snowballed into taking over people's whole identity.

It's completely out of hand now.

jmo

[joyariffic]

for real. i go to a college waaaay up in northern wisconsin where theres not many minorities and i have a friend who flaunts her white boyfriend, and she always asks me did u find u a white boy yet. she be pissing me off, making black women look bad

[nauticabinx]

Interracial dating dont mean shit. and I mean those exact words. Ive been messed over by an asian recently and this girl had no remorse what so ever. I have never met a girl so tiflin and heartless. Dating someone just because they are a different ethnicity will not keep you from relationship problems. Dirtiness has no color. I dont know what kind of woman Ill will end up with but when I find her I will cherish her because Ive been through hell will little sights of heaven.

[kijijikubwa]

@controversyking. WFT???Your response makes absolutely no sense whasoever

[edupbeat]

I love it how the bw ( & i know its ya'll sisters ) r coming on here & clicking "thumbs down" on anyone who supports the vid, lol u women r in UTTER denial,opps, theres goes another thumbs down 4 me!

[bmatt820]

lol i give u a thumbs up..

[kag1985]

1:45-1:54 and 3:08-3:13... lol

Anyway, I tried to follow what you're saying, but I'm going to add my opinion here... I think segregation was not that long ago, so black and white people sometimes still act strange, whether they're still racist or overly excited to date interracially for the sake of dating interracially. Personally I think you should date who ever you're into, same ethnicity or not, but I have seen people date interracially only because it's the latest fad, and thats just silly.

[BriannaOConner]

I am a white woman and there is this superiority that our race are considered the most beautiful. I'm not saying that we are, but look at the sexiest women list- it's mostly white. So, when we see a biracial man like Barrack with a dark black woman we go into a shock because black women aren't seen as the most beautiful in our society. I know it isn't true, but that's the way it is.Halle Berry should be #1 with Angelina for sexiness, but she ends up being #30 on a list or something. Sad.

[bmatt820]

Yes it is sad.. Only brainwashed people think that any race of people is the most beautiful.. I believe a majority of ppl think that way because white women have long hair, but to me, beauty is much more than that.. I prefer a womens build..etc.. thick thighs, big butt,full breasts, typically attributes for women of color.. But i know not most people think like me.. Take away the long hair, all women would look the same, for real..

[bmatt820]

I think its nice to see barack obama with a black woman.. Most just hop the fence when they become successful...

[oramikleepunk]

You look mixed yourself Brianna.I disagree with you.If you allow yourself to be brainwashed by media in America then you will believe that lie.

[BriannaOConner]

@oramikleepunk... I spray tan. I'm milky white and know I look better tanned. Tanned skin is just prettier. I told my friend that it's funny how we white people tan and dark skinned women want to be lighter.

[oramikleepunk]

You have a good tan.You do look good tanned lol.Hard to believe your white with a tan like that lol.

[blackraider777]

@BriannaOConner tanned skin is not prettier, i'm white and i like white women, not wanna-be brown white women 

[complocated]

@BriannaOConner Lool IDK Where You Get These Facts From Cuh Weh I Live BLack & Hispanic Are Best Lookin'!!

[JustThink00]

@BriannaOConner

The sexiest woman list is mostly white, but then again so is hollywood which is mostly all those list makers look at. Personally I don't much care for Halle Berry.

Then again neither do i care for Alba or Fox so perhaps I just have odd tastes.

Anyway, it woudnl't suprise me if most of hollywood/washington was racist, sexist, classist, and countless other things, or at least inflamming those issues for control of us. Hate makes the world go round,

[blktrekie29]

I know what you mean by black people flaunting the fact they are a person of a different race. I know a lot of people personally who do that. Lots of times, they act like getting someone white is like a prize or something. It's also true about what you said about the interracial clips on Youtube.

[5150skullz]

you sound like some white kkk member. i guess you should be pissed at all the rappers flaunting all that money, gold watches and high doller cars they have in your face. you know it was the white man that helped make them rappers rich. point is, why does one dwell over what other people do ? live your own life, because no one is livin for you.

[BriannaOConner]

@Blktekie29... I am white. Black women are dating out of their race because their men don't want them. I feel bad for black women.

[blktrekie29]

I think it has a lot to do with the media and how you grow up as well. Where I live, there are very few blk ppl beyond my family members. In colleges, there are more than 2x as many black women as there are men and higher. I also think that blk people who don't grow up in the "ghetto" aren't exposed to that many blk people, (unless they go to a blk college) and hold the same stereotypes of them as white ppl do. I think the media perpetuates this as well. I've been witness to this.

[Creditgirl2020]

briannaOconner,

U dont feel bad for BW, because BW dont need pity from anyone. You appear to hard-drive the perception that "BW don't have choices" because according to you "BM don't want them".

You seem oddly passionate about this "assumption." But I wont speculate any further as to why.because I think we both know.

Anyways, for those BW that continues to date within the race, and for those that do date IR, good luck. IR dating is difficult even in this evolved society.

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@BriannaOConner is THAT why the U.S. Census report shows that BLACK MEN marry BLACK WOMEN more than ANY other men marry them and vice versa? Because "Our men don't want us?" LOL.. yeah, whatever!

We don't need your sympathy and we could go with out the IR propaganda and stupid ABC specials.

[5150skullz]

i think you need to worry more about getting that headliner fixed in your car, it's saggin.

[bmatt820]

wow this video seemed to have struck a cord with you.. Thats usually an indication that it pertains to you.. For one, Im guessing your a female correct?? And for two, why does this video get u so touchy?? Are u in an interracial relationship?? Three, the headliner in my car has nothing to do with the video, lets stick to the topic please.. At the tender age of 37, im sure your capable of holding an intelligent conversation, yes??

[5150skullz]

your 99% wrong. im a 37 year old half black and white male with three 1/4 black 3/4 white kids and been married to a white woman for six years. my dad is black and he raised me by himself since i was 4.

[5150skullz]

i dont think you understant the comment. why do care what other people do ? if people are promoting mixed race dating, how does this affect you ? i think you have issues you need to deal with. for you being mixed, this video makes me wonder if you even accept yourself as a mixed raced person.

[bmatt820]

NO, im secure enough as a MIXEd race person, to label myself as black.. Are you??

[5150skullz]

i think of myself as black. i was raised in a black home. but i do know that im mixed. most people cant tell what race i am. i was dating this mexican chic and she met my dad. she said "i didnt know you were black, i thought you were indian". she said "i never thought of dating a black man". we were together four years after that. you see, skin color don't mean shit unless you want it to.

[Creditgirl2020]

to: 5150skullz,

I like the way you think. I agree with some of the things you said.

[lightnstrike]

Stick to your guns Matt, Skullz skull is full of mush

[5150skullz]

Why do you care and how does it affect you ?

[SirHappyThe1st]

This guy falls right from the getgo.

No one is promoting interracial dating. Its just a simple fact of life that in an open society people are free to date who they want and will regardless of race.

The fact that this interracial child doesnt like it shows he has personal issues he needs to deal with.

Peace.

[bmatt820]

Interracial child??  We hardly call people who are 27 CHILD here in the states.. Must be a london thing...

[africanqueen09love]

look youtube is for everyone.. i can't cuss out persons who are in 'IR' for posting their videos, the question that needs to be asked as why persons who are not in same race relationship dont post there videos on youtube... youtube is for everyone..

[judgedeborah7]

brainwashed blk america about what race they think is superior. Willie Lynch in full effect

[hellokitty7654321]

promoting interracial dating and just falling into dating with anyone is different ..promoting is pushing others to do something for there OWN gain..falling into a relationship is dating someone that YOU what to date regardless of what other people what or pushing you to date...

[Blatenly]

as long as the two love each other then race has nothing to do with anything

[Blatenly]

i have never seen a difference to be honest, when it comes to race the only defference i can say i am nervous about is the food, culture etc, i dont even think that has anything to do with race cause there are people from thesame race with different culture and food as well. it just makes me nervous thinking "will they like what i cook?, will i like what they cook?, do they do this at their home as well?, you know. but at the end of the day, what counts is the love the couple share

[LoliCupcake89]

I think its great when people are Interracial dating and even when you Mixed it is still Interracial dating becuase you are still not all (A)or (B)

[LoliCupcake89]

I for one IR dated black , white , Spanish, rican, ect , I am Spanish and rican but I was raised by my Italian father (step-dad but i hate calling people step etc because where all family )and Spanish/rican mother and i was shunned by others like if I went out with a white guy by my latin peers and vice versa . I am happy dating my mix bf (the love of my life) who is white(down south )/and rican there nothing wrong with it if you love some one

[breefoo15]

My spermbot your a dumbass.... 95 percent of black men are dating or married to black women 5 % are in a "interacial" relationship..... Wtf there is still a full continent of "blacks" most of which are not dating interacially so we to say we'll be extinct in 31 years is just a dumbass thing to say.

[MissASP1993]

And hi....I knew u were odd! Lol. In a funny way.

[MissASP1993]

I'm a young black girl who has been told all my life that "I act too white" by black men. Now they hate me!? I'm saving myself for a nice, good looking man with class who knows how to take care of his wife and kids. I hate thugs. But it seems that all the black men like this hate us and love white women. They even like the white prostitutes better than good black women it seems! It makes me sad. Hopefully they'll change in a couple of years when I'm old enought to get married. :-(

[bluedust80]

i see black women doing that on youtube

[ttopcar]

and kids don't curse? lol

[bmatt820]

nope, especially the youth these days.. they never curse.. LOL

[womanwheart]

a sucker for someone genuinely liking you, and if they chase you and lather you in flattery that can be even more seductive. As women blk,wte,blue or green, that's the stuff of our dreams--but boy, when the clouds clear?!?! Lol. Hard..with it's own unique set of problems. I'm too tired to flaunt! Lol.

[womanwheart]

..the world. So ppl arrive with alot of preconceived notions (hell our own men do) of what we are gonna be. Add to that whatever messages they have been receiving about how to be with and treat blk ppl. That stuff leaks through. Then when you date, there are different values based on your experiences. So, I've found it hard--but everyone's

[womanwheart]

I think the extra flare thing is true--regarding many blk men/wte wmn & blk wmn/wte men couples. Alot of ppl broadcast a bit of pride as if it is an achievement. I don't condemn interracial dating & I've interracially dated alot. What I tell ppl, anytime anywhere is that--it is hard. Because there is alot of imprinting regarding blk ppl in

[BlakeBarbieDoll]

I thought about a lot of the things you said in this video. Instead of commenting about it, what I am going to do is make a response. If you accept it fine, if not , it will still address what you have said here.

[MissASP1993]

Exactly. But they're too dumb to realize it. Then they say WE'RE fat when most black girls are skinny all over with curves in the right places. Dumb idiots.

[MissASP1993]

Hello?

[bmatt820]

lol hello

[bmatt820]

lol whats up??

[MissASP1993]

So true! I guess black men prefer fat ugly white leftovers who slept with 20 white men before coming to them. They can have them!

[peezhead]

They date fat white women because those are the women that white men don't want.

[bluedust80]

@peeshead thats an fucking sterotype i know plent of black men that date good looking white women

[peezhead]

Whoeva said fat women aren't good looking. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

And there's at least an ounce of truth in stereotypes.

[bluedust80]

@missasp1993

talk for yourself

[MissASP1993]

I think that more black men "flaunt" their white women on here. Always saying that she is prettier, nicer, and smarter than every black woman in the world. Even though she's like 5'7, 250lbs and looks like she smells. I only say that because I see black guys with these girls all the time and they give me mean glares even when I smile at them!

[notgone123]

to miss ap - i completely agree!

while we do see black women who flaunt white men - as opposed to black men? oh please! out of 100 men do it about 75 times more than black women do!

you see it in rap music,videos,tv shows, movies, sports players, you tube black women bashing videos, actors, and even in real life where a black man white woman couple staring you down just so you can see them! i mean how classless is that!

and whatsup with dating fat white broads?

[bmatt820]

lol

[KushWarriorReturns]

To bmatt820:

Interracial couples are everywhere on youtube and in real life and this is NOT something good because this is a sign that the race traitors are on the loose. People who are agree with the progression of their own race don't have the right to express themselves on youtube but those who promote interracial bestiality have access to freedom speech. I can't wait to see the day that Youtube will declare bankrupt so I will not see any repulsive interracial video again.

[atlantagradybaby]

good video

[balance512]

You're funny with the little white person impersonation! But, I know many lovely black couples where I'm from, working class save their money and have anything the white man has, and also plenty of educated and some entrepeneurs, who have beautiful homes and such, there's a sense of pride. Maybe its where you're @? Seattle has few racial issues. Only thing is the white women are black man crazy. Whites don't act like they are better there, and it makes everyone act more decent. Moving back.

[msaphrodite23]

hey matt! I'm back on the tube! like the vid! funny and informative as always!

[bmatt820]

why hello there

[dunn0411]

This video is so true. I have seen black people do this...like when you are in the mall and there is a black guy with a white girl and the whole time they are staring at you. i guess wanting you to see them with their white person, but who really cares. if that's who you chose then so be it. i'm not mad at you. i have also seen black people who are in a relationship with a white person and they truly have a connection with that person. so it really depends on the maturity level of that person.

[bmatt820]

Please watch the whole video before asking questions.. all the questions i have gotten have been answered in the video, thanks..

[notgone123]

think about it like this- for years- how have black women been viewed as? sex objects, video hoes, baby mommas, poor,etc....

and to tell you the truth non black people were NOT the ONLY ones that were stereotyping black women

a lot of the times it was black women themselves but I think we all can say truthfully that certain black men objectified and demeaned black women to an extreme- in media and in real life

so now that IR is up and coming- a lot of them have a right to be joyous -no?

[lightnstrike]

Well look at how black females have presented themselves. Who controls th media? It s sure NOT the Black man.

[notgone123]

well what black females are you talking about? cause i havent been in the media and she hasn't and neither has she!

just cause there are some bad apples in a race should we condemn all on what some people do? then damn i guess the rest of you black guys should go to jail too!

that's a pretty lame argument- besides i see more black women making smarter choices and doing good things with their lives!

i see more oprah's and michelle obamas out there then i see video whores or baby mamas!

[notgone123]

and with the media thing - well we know a lot of those white media analysts and whatnot are trying to put black people down in a lot of ways- but what I do is this -I dont watch anything that speaks against me or negatively about me and I encourage others not to as well! it's pretty simple really! if they have less or no viewers - there is no reason to make it right?

as for black men - I do see an improvement in their rates of being more professional but vs bw - they are wayyyy down there!

[ShakeitUp09]

bmatt820 - Have you considered that maybe the BW are just happy that they are being treated well by someone from a different cultural background. Their "flaunting" as you put it, is their way of showing you the reason for their romantic success. If you really think about it, this isn't too hard to figure out.

[bmatt820]

Yes, but it should not make anyone feel validated just because someone from a different culture treats them well.. ALot of the situations i am speaking of SCREAM nothing but, LOOK, a white person is giving me the time of DAY!! Its like who the hell cares? you were still a good person before whitey came along, LOL

[chavjohn]

well spoken..it shouldn't matter who you date..the reason you date the person is what should matter. the purpose behind what you do determines the person that you are..if you like the person thats all that matters

[mommashopper]

Well, just tell us how you really feel bmatt- :-)

[nicoleiffound]

I'm honestly super confused by this video, I enjoy watching your videos because feel like you have a lot of interesting things to say, but for this one you kinda lost me because I just don't get what your idea of flaunting is, maybe they just finally found the person of their dreams and they just want to tell the world you know, idk I guess we have different views of what flaunting is

[bmatt820]

Flaunting as in feeling validated in the world for having a white partner.. Like dude said below, we may flaunt the white partners, but they are less likely to flaunt us!!

[notgone123]

ahh great comeback! lol

shake it up is right- did you ever think maybe you and these other black men are just too insecure with the fact that black women are dating non black men and speaking up about it? i mean ok im not gonna lie -some do show off and shit -

ok we know there will be people like that - but that shouldnt downplay those who are for real....it's like saying that most black guys are thugs- it's not fair to cluster a whole based on some - you know?

[everclyde]

These men and women know exactly what you mean by flaunting. They just are attention whores.

That is why those relationships never work. It's based on bullshite.

[awesomenesssssssssss]

i'm mix just like you matt,i support IR dating,i'm in IR relationship and i support ppl who date their own race too,what i don't support is the "fashion"on dating other races,i think is not mature

[Jwriter4]

I feel you... It is the presentation: For instance, "Yea I'm dating a white chic".... As though to convey that they're now a step higher... The extra presentation of white counterparts is much higher than with the same race, I can believe that.....

[notgone123]

obviously a lot of bm on you tube are showing how insecure and immature they still are when it comes to love and just leaving black women be themselves....stop judging bw - whatever they do wrong is for them to deal with - what is your talking about it over and over gonna solve?

it honestly only makes you guys look jealous....particularly since black guys are always talking and uplifting white women....if they are so good- then why are black men still talking about black women?

am i wrong?

[Creditgirl2020]

notgone123, You are right on Target.

[notgone123]

im sorry but out of all the things in the world to stress and talk about - people on here are judging who people love? but why?

and what is this obsession with black women?

why are black/biracial men so into what black women are doing? are black men that insecure with themselves?

because terrell owens and black rappers who date white women are never shy about saying they only want and date white women - so where is the flaunting accusations then black guys?

[bmatt820]

I know for a fact terrell owens never said he only dates white women..

[Exclusiv3king]

Very good video.

"Flaunting" was the right word. A BM or a BW will FLAUNT their White boyfriends/girlfriends (at least that's what happens on YT) ...sort of like their advertising them. This presents an issue because they would not do the same had their BF/GF been Black.

I don't know why it's happening. Maybe they feel as though they have something to prove (as IR relationships are rare)? But then, why is it that the BM/BW are doing the flaunting ...and their White counterparts are not?

[ZuluNgr]

I don't see many black men flaunting white women but i do see black women doing the flaunting.

[tnj2323]

Exclusiv3king said,

I don't know why it's happening. Maybe they feel as though they have something to prove (as IR relationships are rare)? But then, why is it that the BM/BW are doing the flaunting ...and their White counterparts are not?

EXACTLY!

[Exclusiv3king]

Ah, you ALWAYS got my back!! Love you, sis. [@ tnj2323]

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

Because they are victims of Racism- White supremacy and need to flaunt everything the "white man" does for them or every privilege that those who classify themselves as white give them in order to feel accepted or like they have some sort of power or sense of escaping the Black community. If you visit ANY of those BW iR SITES, ALL THEY TALK about is abandoning BM & the B community. They sound like Blackened White Supremacists. Disgustingly perverse propaganda on those sites. Repulsive in fact.

[smileyousee]

i am back again.. like i said this is a good video expressing yourself.. they are some black couples on youtube that i am subscribed to.. I agree they are not many but they are out there.. In regards to interracial dating, it is rear so it becomes more noticable and a quick target for converation. many have said i am "showing off" my relationship on youtube.. people will think what they want.

[smileyousee]

hi handsome.. great video!!! great video!!

[wildfusciaorchid]

I see happy black couples all the time. they're just not as prominent on YT. A matter of fact I don't really see many white couples on YT either. I'm for people dating who ever their heart desire as long as it is in good intentions.

[bmatt820]

lol of course, i dont date frogs, LOL

[bmatt820]

Good at first, but she turned out to be very immature.. Maybe a bit young for me though..

[bmatt820]

yep

[Slylady81]

We can't all be Dr. Phill or some other relationship psychologist.. If people wanna date outside their race fine.. Their reasons are irrelevant because it's their life.. How is it really effecting me/us? We are not the dating police.

I understand that flaunting any type of thing can get annoying but when you give attention to these type of people they will just do it more because they know it upsets people.. It's a classic move. I flaunt my snakes just to get a reaction out of scared people.

[BugottiGirl]

I agree, who cares what others do.

[bmatt820]

If someone is interracially dating to get a rise out of people, thats definitly dating that person for the wrong reason..

[bmatt820]

Well just like you said u flaunt your snakes, black people are doing the same thing to each other.. Its sad, and sick, and does nothing but divide..

[Slylady81]

This is true.. It is wrong on their part but why should it effect you much.. That's their business.. That flaunting stuff doesn't bother me, and how is that causing a divide in the whole black race..I'm not sleeping with them, they aren't paying my bills.. Besides the majority of people still prefer to date people that look like them.. It's just that sometimes people like to make a mountain out of a molehill on certain things. There are way worse things going on that divides our people.

[notgone123]

to sly lady i agree- it's their business! why are people so concerned with what other people are doing? is it affecting them?

like i said - it's all insecurities.

and yes- there are soooooooooooooo many other things to worry about "solving" - i mean i dont see people as incensed to solve world hunger---no

they are more worried about what a black chick that they don't even know is doing with a white guy that they equally do not know!

what a waste

[111Treasury]

It's gotten to the point where I am shocked to see a black couple. Now that is bad. I don't want my people dividing over this stuff. Now it is something if I don't get as shocked seeing a IR couple than seeing a black couple.

[111Treasury]

I'm not against IR. But, it's time for my people to try working out their relationships with each other. I'm honestly tired of seeing bw promoting this. Is this their way of solving the solution with black men? Exactly. People who say stuff like that have never been in a IR. IR bring up differences out of both people. They make everything appear to be peaches and cream with a white man. No offense Matt. Whtie men are arrogant.

[ohveryyoung]

for real? i have a lot of white friends who promote interracial dating, but yet, they haven't interracially dated, because they just happen to be sexually attracted to only white men. I think it's just preference, but these friends are greatly offended by anyone being told that they can't follow their heart because of this dumb society we live in.

[YoungGrizzly82]

Based on what I've seen on youtube, it's mostly BW posting vids about WM. I watched your vid about BW flaunting WM, & it pissed a lot of women off. Some of the comments were from BW explaining how they don't fall into that category, yet they felt the need to inform u that they have a white husband or boyfriend. I think it's sad when BM & BW alike flaunt their white significant others as if they've just struck gold.

[bmatt820]

Specially with the whole lame excuse of.....IM WITH A WHITE GUY NOW BECAUSE BLACK GUYS ARE ALL DEADBEATS!! Its like... NO LADY, you just dont know how to pick a good black guy, because were definitly out here, were just not getting picked first...

[kuunami]

True and there are a lot of factors that seem to go ignored when they do this. For example a lot of bw will reject the qualities that they claim attracted them to that white man when they see it in a black man. Caring, sensitive, thoughful, well spoken and educated are traits that a lot of bw are rejecting and considering "weak" "whitewashed" etc when the find those traits in a black man. The white guy can be a regular dude but the bm is expected to a super swag having "2pac with a degree."

[bmatt820]

exactly

[Slylady81]

The way I see it, It's kinda like how they always show the basketball players with the white wives... You always see the famous ones with the white wives but they rarely show numerous amounts of other famous black men with black wives. Even the media does this to get a rise out of people. I see it like this If someone flaunts their white boyfriend or white girlfriend. SO.. Why get upset over a person who clearly doesn't like black. For one person who doesn't like black there's hundreds who do.

[kijijikubwa]

"For one person who doesn't like black there's hundreds who do. "

Thank you for making the rest of my year great with that comment.Spot On!!

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

ACTUALLY MILLIONS DO.. NO one marries black women or men as much as they marry each other.. THEY love each OTHER the most and they should.