My SOFFA introduction video

[Katelynn451]

Hi,

I am a grad student at UC Santa Barbara conducting a research project concerning the experiences of partners of FTMs. I am looking for partners of FTMs willing to participate in interviews for the project. If you might be interested, or would like more information, please contact me at kbish.07 at gmail dot com.

Thanks, hope to hear from you!

Katelynn

[thetroydi]

Hi there, thanks for the quick response. I guess the main thing for me is that its only in the 3rd month that I have experienced some minor negative issues for me regarding my partners transition. I have noticed a noticeable distancing physically and emotionally. I wondered if that happened with Chris and how you coped with it? I am struggling but determined to stay with Jay cos we have such a strong relationship in so may other ways but I miss that side of him.

[thetroydi]

Can I ask was there something significant about the 3 months on T thing? I am struggling atm. Thanks

[tweetie1486]

Chris's T-levels were twice the max so we had some issues. If you have a more specific question you can message me and I'd be glad to respond.

[tweetie1486]

Yay! i want a t-shirt!  thank you!

[SilentSyren]

Chris is SO incredibly lucky to have an awesome lady like you. I've got a special place in my heart for you two. Thanks for putting one out there for the partners - it's really important for people to see both sides of how transitioning affects couples. :)

[jayec009]

Awsome vid. I've been tryin to get my girl to do a video, but she's shy. Thanks for putting something out there for the partners!

[tweetie1486]

the more partner vids the better :) thank you!

[littlefastcar]

Oops...what i was saying before I got click happy was show us the noisy bird next time!

[littlefastcar]

Great video and really cute chatty cockatiel!

Hope to see more vidoes and maybe this will encourage my gf and other soffas to post as well. Next time show us the n

[tweetie1486]

she should def make some videos! we need the community as well :) I'll have to get Birdie in there one day.

[transcenderJR]

thank you for doing this. you're awesome. this is awesome.

[tweetie1486]

thank you!

[Shannon0805]

Wonderful my wife said she was going to do one real soon so that will be great Hat's OFF to you Ladies and we appreciate ur openess it take a Strong Woman and Kudos! : D

[tweetie1486]

thankyou! will be waiting for her videos!

[Shpants9710]

that bird is driving me nuts!

It is really great that everyone is showing love. youtube needs more people like you

[tweetie1486]

thank you! sorry about the crazy bird!

[noobiedudud15]

Chris is a lucky guy. Glad to see how ur here for him!!

[tweetie1486]

thank you.

[SoxAsh0810]

this is awesome.

[pigpen7471]

LOL, everyone has a bladder! soo true!

so fascinating getting an no tranitinors view of transition!

[tweetie1486]

thank you!

[genderlessTRENT]

I love seeing more ftm partners coming out and showing their support. Thanks! The whole community appreciates it! =)

[tweetie1486]

thank you!

[tweetie1486]

:) thanks

[arawrebirth20]

its cool to see soffa vids on here.thank you.I am hoping my g/f will tune in and make one herself

[tweetie1486]

def encourage her to! the more the merrier!

[bombmehappy78]

Thanks for posting. It's awesome to see these vids

[tweetie1486]

thanks :)

[sellantra]

Good to see you on here. Good to see other partners. Thanks for your support and hope to see some more of you. Kate

[tweetie1486]

I'm glad to see this started. just as there's a small community of transppl theres that same small group of their partners and we should all have that support.

[jeremyx51]

Yay, it's so good to see you on here! Hopefully we will hang out in person again sometime soon.

[tweetie1486]

lol its kinda weird to see me on here but I enjoy talking about Chris so.. yea.. Hope to see you soon hun :)

[freeride297]

Hello babbbbbbby! glad to see some soffa videos. I'm a lucky guy to have a girl like you. i <3 you

[tweetie1486]

:) I love you too babe!

[iloveearlymornings]

thanks for posting this - a lot of what you said resonated for me.

[tweetie1486]

thank you! Just hoping to help give some voice to other side!

[nickrezz]

great video, thanks for making.

[tweetie1486]

thank you :)