@LittleMisfit2012 I can guarantee you now she does it because she has spoken to someone else who has it and they have exactly the same symptoms. Lies in the video? How would you know that? You weren't there when it happened were you so how about you get your information straight. Also why make your account yesterday? Just to comment on this. Or is it because in reality your looking for some sympathy yourself because your life is bad so to make yourself feel better you try to put others down.
@LittleMisfit2012 That's my Girlfriend your talking to so watch what your saying. Yeah what happened to her could of been a lot worse but that's not the point. This is her putting it up for closure. Not attention seeking. I gave her the idea to put the video up MONTHS ago and she has only just decided to do it. Have you seen her break down and cry for hours because she told you about this? Have you seen her shake violently at night? No? Exactly you haven't so just shut up.
@LittleMisfit2012 I'm literally getting nowhere talking to you, how about I put it beyond blunt. I was fucking upset, wanted to get it off my chest on a large scale because now when someone goes, "Why are you so scared of guys?" "Why are you so down?" Etc. I can direct them to this video. Nothing else, this is a weight off my chest, not a flashing light of attention seeking. What kind of fucked up, deluded, psychopath fakes being mentally traumatised?! How DARE you, accuse me of faking this.
@LittleMisfit2012 Please just fuck off, I'm not repeating myself for the 800th time. You don't have the brain power to even comprehend what emotional abuse and manipulation is.
@LittleMisfit2012 I hadn't been kissed before by the way. I was referring to being fingered, I knew what a freaking kiss was, it's more everything else that was done.
@LittleMisfit2012 This isn't really worthy of an explanation. I cut bits out because I was breaking down. I was crying, for real you see me start to cry. This happened, accept it. I ALWAYS fiddle with my hair, it's familiar to me, I'm obsessed with it. I am also obsessed with my computer, everyone does things to comfort themselves. Jeez.
@TheBiker1986 video EVER again. Because I swear if you continue to degrade her, to make her feel shit then you, my 25 year old immature friend, are a cunt. And that's me being nice. So I suggest you fuck off, tell your friend that he's a cunt. And NEVER EVER contact Steph, or try to talk to her in any way, shape or form. Because if you do, you are not human. You are evil. And I hope you can live with the guilt of knowing what you both have done. ^__^
@TheBiker1986 feel absolutely shit. It took a lot of effort for Steph to tell people. A LOT. Now, I don't think she's cry or breakdown or shake about something. Steph does not lie. She would never lie about something like this. Can you not tell from the video, how monotone her voice is, how sad and desolate and uncomfortable she looks that this is hurting her. Re-living it is hurting her. She was 13, she didn't know anything. So just do me the honour of FUCKING off and never commenting on this
Dear @TheBiker1986 kindly do me the favour of going away back to your dreary hole of a life and leaving Steph alone. Of course she's lying yeah, she's obviously lying when you've never met her you don't know much about her other than what the person who did this to her has said. Do you really think he'd tell the truth after doing something like this to someone? No. I don't think he would. You need to stop commenting on this video thinking your some hard man when all youre doing is making someone
I also took time to read what other lies you wrote on your tumblr post, and i just want to point out he never cheated on you, yeah he has cheated before, but it was after you, way after you, you really have gone full out to make him sound like the worst person. for me who stood by him in all this, this makes me so angry, i feel sick because you just twisted this so far from the truth.
@TheBiker1986 Honesty: truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness. How can you say that over one video. Do you know Steph in real life? Have you ever spoken to her and heard her tell you things before? Saying nothing is not honesty. Saying nothing is hiding behind the fear and taking away the right of free speech. Also if the person being spoken about in this video decides not to comment and he has told you not to then why do it?
@kongaconley he told me not to, but he cant tell me what to do. Im not a sheep who follows what everyone else does. no i never met her, and tbh im glad i didnt. and saying nothing is the most honest you can get if everything you say is just utter lies.
@TheBiker1986 You are the most annoying individual. How dare you say everything I say is a lie? You just said it yourself, you've never spoken to me. How on Earth can say that, I'm crying in the video for fuck sake. It's a direct explanation of events, it can't get much more real than that. You must realise the guy is a manipulating person, it's what he does and the irony is, you are being a sheep by doing this.
@TheBiker1986 Saying nothing is not honest at all. So your telling me that everything that happened is utter lies and everything she has ever told me is utter lies. Wow, right ok, that kinda show's how clever you are doesn't it. Also accusation: A formal charge of wrongdoing brought against a person; the act of imputing blame or guilt. By not naming the person involved she is not actually making an accusation, ever thought of that? This video was her way of getting closure, not to get him done.
@TheBiker1986 Also I ask this of you. Your account has no activity until recently and this account has been made since 9th August 2009. Which is ironical considering that date has a particular meaning for the person involved. Also your Youtube account say's your 25? Which means you should mature enough by now to have good grammar from the start and to not verbally abuse a 16 year old girl over the internet. I invite you to message me on facebook to talk. He will know who I am :)
@kongaconley the only thing about that date is it was 4 days after we moved back to Kidderminster. i made it as me and my mates up here were gonna make biking videos, yeah that never happened but then i got directed here to this video by skype from the guy. and yeah im 25, what does that have to do about anything, if shes "mature" enough to post a video making accusations like this then whats the problem? and i am not a facebook user, i only use skype to talk to people. not a facebook sheep.
@TheBiker1986 Ok then, if you don't like using Facebook then why not message me on Youtube? I want to hear ALL of your opinions on this video personally. What exactly makes someone Facebook sheep, as the people I know make their decisions by themselves. Also I know the person in question has apologised to Steph for your actions via facebook and told her he told you to not do this. Your causing aggravation where there is none. I don't appreciate you insulting my girlfriend and calling her a liar.
As an outsider looking in, I find this story difficult, not simply because of the content. For one, it's a terribly personal problem, through which most cannot tell anyone, let alone broadcast it to many. Your body language also isn't correct for someone who is distributing the truth in liberal quantities. However, everyone is different, perhaps ptsd for you is different to the cases I know of and this really is a warning and a way for you to find closure. If so, be prepared to argue your point.
@JackDaniels4654 Sorry, what? How can body language be incorrect? You're picking holes in this that can't be found. I don't understand why this 'story' is difficult. It was hard for me to do this.. I needed a way to simply get it out there, to ALL of my friends and some of my family. Telling people to their face this happened.. is so difficult. I sat there in front of the computer shaking and crying, calmed myself down and got the words out.
I commented on facebook so I will here too, although I'm surprised to see people having a bit of a bitch fit.
If people don't believe a thing like this, at the end of the day it's how you remember it and you have not dropped names or anything like that. So commenting on this video to express dis-taste isn't going to help anything. I hope the people leave you alone, it's rude considering you took the time and strength to do this.
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!? This is the thickest spread of bullshit I've ever heard! I kno the lad this is about and i kno the whole story to, and it aint nothing like what she told at all, I was 1 of the kids best buds at the time this was all happening and he used to tell me everything. he tell me not to comment on this but I cant sit here and say jack all when this shit is out here and dumasses who dunkno what happened believe it! stop being sucha attention seeking lil lying bitch! CUNT
@TheBiker1986 Then why do I suffer from a traumatic disorder and remember everything as disclosed in the video, hard to divulge as I start to breakdown. I'm not attention seeking, I'm getting closure.
@Stephz124 Well i dunkno but it aint down to him for sure. you said your memory was faded, well mine an his aint, i stuck by him through all that, youv twisted the truth beyond recognition. you call that closure, lol make me laugh youv opend a brand new firin line to people like me who kno the truth. if you beleive that shit youv told ere then youv only got yourself to blame coz that shit aint real and youv got youself fuckd in the head! LOL
@TheBiker1986 You know nothing. I can't link my emotions and feelings to a memory which is just words on a screen. Mental manipulation is a charismatic process. They get inside your head and make you believe and think things which aren't yours, (like a seedling if you will.) At 13, I wouldn't know what fingering was. I didn't understand. How could I possibly have done any of those things off my own back?
@Stephz124 so what he fuckin came on to you, but was it relly 'grooming' as you calld it? and he told me abowt the stuff you said to him, this werent a 1 way thing the way you make it out to be. you kno what, fuck everyone here who beleives this, coz you'd beleive gullible aint in a dictionary. the lad knos the truth and those closest to him do to. next time you wanna do a vid like this, why dont you actully tell the truth, and not miss out the key parts of the story to.
@TheBiker1986 relly, abowt, werent, kno, calld, beleives, coz, knos, beleive, actully. If you want people with half a brain to take you more seriously, work on your spelling some more!
@TheBiker1986 mate whether it was one way or not, he was 16, he should of known better than to rape a 13 year old GIRL. and well done to you for sticking up for a rapist, what a nice personality you have, i bet your family are very proud.
@kamakamaha Just to clear this up, He was 15 and she was 14 at the time this happened. there was less than 2 years between them. And as I said, my spelling is crap. you may think it reflects my personality but you are wrong. you do not know me, or the guy in question, so stop being judgemental.
@TheBiker1986 It was the way I told it. Why would I go to the trouble of making up a massive story to prove someone that they practically raped me, broadcast it on the internet and expect no repercussion? Of course I know people with as lower IQ as you wouldn't understand. You're wrapped round his finger. Wake up.
@Stephz124 Me wrapped around his finger? right, whatever, yeah I know my spelling isn't the best, but I get my point across none the less, you know nothing about the person I am, I'm a lot older and wiser than you or him for that matter. and those of you making judgements on him, you do not know him! so how can you possibly judge him?
@TheBiker1986 You do know what experiences make you wiser, not age. I know 30 year olds who are complete morons. Your accusations say more about how easily offended you are and unable to look at the facts when presented to you. Perhaps I don't know him, no. I never did. He is someone else, who pretended to be charming, nice and funny, that is what hurts more than anything. Lies. So how can you call ME a liar?
@TheBiker1986 Hello there good sir. I would just like to point out that by swearing and the lack of grammar in your comment you have actually made your argument more laughable and less plausible. Getting to the point however as I do not wish to insult you. I have spoken to the person who this video is about and they have told me their version. She did the right thing by not mentioning his name as it protects him from people wanting revenge yeah? Attention seeking would be to name the guy.
@kongaconley Yeah I know he's told you his version, he told me, and yeah my spelling, grammar and general typing is crap. and she may as well have named him, because plenty of people who have seen this know who it was about and have been sending him abuse, other than a few who also know what bullshit this is. and it's not like she has told some people who it is about anyway?
@TheBiker1986 I never once gave a name, this is closure not intended to get him in shitter. I don't care about your views or story on the matter, I know what happened. And by the way, it started when I was THIRTEEN. Not 14. He was 15, nearly 16, when I later turned 14 in March. So, he should have known better, I was very young and naive. As I said, I didn't mention a name, so why on Earth are you defending the anonymously subjected rapist?
@Stephz124 you know what's become clear now, the reason you have not used his name is because you know he would then have proof of this video being about him and he could report you, and even take you to court to get this sorted. thats why your freely telling people who this is about, because theres no connection doing it that way. sly. very sly indeed. why dont you just throw his name out here, come on im sure we all want to know!!!
@TheBiker1986 You're really digging deep into this aren't you. Why don't you turn around and look at the facts, I wouldn't go to the trouble of framing someone, I put this out there for CLOSURE. Not to get someone hurt, abused or ambushed. I said no name, because it's pointless. Of course I'm going to tell my closest friends, it's a traumatic experience that greatly changed me as a person. I made this video to help other girls who get abused to step forwards and get the help they need.
@Stephz124 yeah why shouldnt I dig deep, your friends are spreading his name faster than fire on petrol, and burrying my mate in tonnes of abuse. do you not see that, we know you hate him, but its not fair what you have done to him, yeah i understand you got hurt by him, but that gives you no right to go spreading these lies about him just to make yourself feel better. i hope your fucking happy.
@TheBiker1986 It's not my responsibility to hold back the reactions of outraged friends who care. I'm not doing that? I just posted a video and described what happened. I am happy, this video and post was a massive weight of my chest.
from what I gather, nothing severe happened. yeah, some stuff happened, but your making it seem like the end of the world. just move on and forget about it, your making it out to be worse than it actually is. There's no need to go and post your personal life on youtube
@hazzaperkins08 I was forced to do something I didn't know the name of? I went behind my grandparent's backs and betrayed their trust. I was ashamed of myself for years. Perspective is different, I needed closure. Say what you will but NEVER tell me how to live my life. I'm moving on slowly and this is a step forward before I go to tell councillors/psychiatrists. This event destroyed me. You have the audacity to sit there and tell me it wasn't the end of the world? It was to me.
@Stephz124 I understand that he was 'grooming' you, but you couldve said 'no' or stopped any time. If what he did was so bad, then you shouldve contacted the police. Internet relationships always seem to go wrong, but you were at a naive age and didnt understand. Look, a lot of people have been in much worse relationship situations, so just be grateful you arent one of them. If people spread rumours, just ignore it because they will stop if you dont pay any attention to it
@hazzaperkins08 I was shit scared. He said he'd kill himself if I told anyone, there wasn't a way out. I've been bullied all my life and every rumour cut like a knife. You just don't understand mental manipulation and making me feel worse..
@Stephz124 shouldve just let him. was probably an empty threat anyway. I feel sorry for you, but its no use telling the whole world. People like me who dont know you shouldnt know about your personal life. Try and be stronger caus being weak and moping about your problems wont get you anywhere, believe me
@hazzaperkins08 Different people cope in different ways, and for some people it's not always easy to talk about it direct to others. Honestly I give credit to stephz for being able to let it out at all, which is more than I reckon I could do in a situation that had such an effect on me, and I respect her for warning others to be careful. You may have your views on how people should cope, but try to respect others' also.
@JackTheMiz posting videos on youtube isnt coping. there is no need for it. if she can tell a bunch of strangers, then why not her friends?
She choose to communicate with him in the first place, and it went too far perhaps. but he's not a murderer or a paedophile. I'm sure if we listened to his side, the two stories would be completely different.
@hazzaperkins08 Harry look. Everybody will cope in different ways and this is how she copes. You haven't seen her like I have, you don't know her like I do. I've sat there and watched her shake and have breakdown after breakdown when she recalls what happened here. This video is nowhere near as graphic as what happened. She told me what happened and was shaking and crying non stop for a hour. She has told her closest friends but she developed PTSD and constantly picks her lips. Have a open mind.
@kongaconley yeah but that doesnt explain why she made a video about it. All I'm saying is, keep your private life private, caus believe it or not some people will take the piss out of her, which is unfair. Im not saying that i dont feel sorry for her, caus i do, its just a bad idea to make videos about it to entice bullies and nasty comments
@hazzaperkins08 Making a video like this can be a way for people to cope with situations like this, as it can vary from communicating with others who went through the same situations where they can share advice and just generally be comfortable about talking about it as that can really stop you from breaking down as much and it can take it off your mind. Fair enough you may think she'll have the piss taken out of her but if they do, they'll get what is coming to them for being arrogant pricks.
Hey girl, this is really brave thing that you are doing. Now please note that you did absolutely nothing wrong. But neither the other kid... You both had early sexual experience that didn't went well and the kid was a dick. But most kids at his age are like that. This things happens more often than you can imagine. No need to lose your faith in people cozz some of them are assholes. Some people are awesome....
@LittleMisfit2012 I can guarantee you now she does it because she has spoken to someone else who has it and they have exactly the same symptoms. Lies in the video? How would you know that? You weren't there when it happened were you so how about you get your information straight. Also why make your account yesterday? Just to comment on this. Or is it because in reality your looking for some sympathy yourself because your life is bad so to make yourself feel better you try to put others down.
kongaconley 2 months ago
@LittleMisfit2012 That's my Girlfriend your talking to so watch what your saying. Yeah what happened to her could of been a lot worse but that's not the point. This is her putting it up for closure. Not attention seeking. I gave her the idea to put the video up MONTHS ago and she has only just decided to do it. Have you seen her break down and cry for hours because she told you about this? Have you seen her shake violently at night? No? Exactly you haven't so just shut up.
kongaconley 2 months ago
@LittleMisfit2012 I'm literally getting nowhere talking to you, how about I put it beyond blunt. I was fucking upset, wanted to get it off my chest on a large scale because now when someone goes, "Why are you so scared of guys?" "Why are you so down?" Etc. I can direct them to this video. Nothing else, this is a weight off my chest, not a flashing light of attention seeking. What kind of fucked up, deluded, psychopath fakes being mentally traumatised?! How DARE you, accuse me of faking this.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@LittleMisfit2012 Please just fuck off, I'm not repeating myself for the 800th time. You don't have the brain power to even comprehend what emotional abuse and manipulation is.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@LittleMisfit2012 Your account was made just today? How convenient. Hard to believe you're a genuine person.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@LittleMisfit2012 I hadn't been kissed before by the way. I was referring to being fingered, I knew what a freaking kiss was, it's more everything else that was done.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@LittleMisfit2012 This isn't really worthy of an explanation. I cut bits out because I was breaking down. I was crying, for real you see me start to cry. This happened, accept it. I ALWAYS fiddle with my hair, it's familiar to me, I'm obsessed with it. I am also obsessed with my computer, everyone does things to comfort themselves. Jeez.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 video EVER again. Because I swear if you continue to degrade her, to make her feel shit then you, my 25 year old immature friend, are a cunt. And that's me being nice. So I suggest you fuck off, tell your friend that he's a cunt. And NEVER EVER contact Steph, or try to talk to her in any way, shape or form. Because if you do, you are not human. You are evil. And I hope you can live with the guilt of knowing what you both have done. ^__^
Mashamoo100 2 months ago
@Mashamoo100 Thank you Tash. ♥
Stephz124 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 feel absolutely shit. It took a lot of effort for Steph to tell people. A LOT. Now, I don't think she's cry or breakdown or shake about something. Steph does not lie. She would never lie about something like this. Can you not tell from the video, how monotone her voice is, how sad and desolate and uncomfortable she looks that this is hurting her. Re-living it is hurting her. She was 13, she didn't know anything. So just do me the honour of FUCKING off and never commenting on this
Mashamoo100 2 months ago
Dear @TheBiker1986 kindly do me the favour of going away back to your dreary hole of a life and leaving Steph alone. Of course she's lying yeah, she's obviously lying when you've never met her you don't know much about her other than what the person who did this to her has said. Do you really think he'd tell the truth after doing something like this to someone? No. I don't think he would. You need to stop commenting on this video thinking your some hard man when all youre doing is making someone
Mashamoo100 2 months ago
I also took time to read what other lies you wrote on your tumblr post, and i just want to point out he never cheated on you, yeah he has cheated before, but it was after you, way after you, you really have gone full out to make him sound like the worst person. for me who stood by him in all this, this makes me so angry, i feel sick because you just twisted this so far from the truth.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 And he did cheat on me. I am good friends with the girls.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 yeah well all i can say to that is your just spewing more lies.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 Nope. I'm being honest.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 the only time you tell the truth is when your mouth stays shut and you dont say anything. i dont even think you know what honesty is.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 Honesty: truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness. How can you say that over one video. Do you know Steph in real life? Have you ever spoken to her and heard her tell you things before? Saying nothing is not honesty. Saying nothing is hiding behind the fear and taking away the right of free speech. Also if the person being spoken about in this video decides not to comment and he has told you not to then why do it?
kongaconley 2 months ago
@kongaconley he told me not to, but he cant tell me what to do. Im not a sheep who follows what everyone else does. no i never met her, and tbh im glad i didnt. and saying nothing is the most honest you can get if everything you say is just utter lies.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 You are the most annoying individual. How dare you say everything I say is a lie? You just said it yourself, you've never spoken to me. How on Earth can say that, I'm crying in the video for fuck sake. It's a direct explanation of events, it can't get much more real than that. You must realise the guy is a manipulating person, it's what he does and the irony is, you are being a sheep by doing this.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 Saying nothing is not honest at all. So your telling me that everything that happened is utter lies and everything she has ever told me is utter lies. Wow, right ok, that kinda show's how clever you are doesn't it. Also accusation: A formal charge of wrongdoing brought against a person; the act of imputing blame or guilt. By not naming the person involved she is not actually making an accusation, ever thought of that? This video was her way of getting closure, not to get him done.
kongaconley 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 Also I ask this of you. Your account has no activity until recently and this account has been made since 9th August 2009. Which is ironical considering that date has a particular meaning for the person involved. Also your Youtube account say's your 25? Which means you should mature enough by now to have good grammar from the start and to not verbally abuse a 16 year old girl over the internet. I invite you to message me on facebook to talk. He will know who I am :)
kongaconley 2 months ago
@kongaconley the only thing about that date is it was 4 days after we moved back to Kidderminster. i made it as me and my mates up here were gonna make biking videos, yeah that never happened but then i got directed here to this video by skype from the guy. and yeah im 25, what does that have to do about anything, if shes "mature" enough to post a video making accusations like this then whats the problem? and i am not a facebook user, i only use skype to talk to people. not a facebook sheep.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 Ok then, if you don't like using Facebook then why not message me on Youtube? I want to hear ALL of your opinions on this video personally. What exactly makes someone Facebook sheep, as the people I know make their decisions by themselves. Also I know the person in question has apologised to Steph for your actions via facebook and told her he told you to not do this. Your causing aggravation where there is none. I don't appreciate you insulting my girlfriend and calling her a liar.
kongaconley 2 months ago
As an outsider looking in, I find this story difficult, not simply because of the content. For one, it's a terribly personal problem, through which most cannot tell anyone, let alone broadcast it to many. Your body language also isn't correct for someone who is distributing the truth in liberal quantities. However, everyone is different, perhaps ptsd for you is different to the cases I know of and this really is a warning and a way for you to find closure. If so, be prepared to argue your point.
JackDaniels4654 2 months ago
@JackDaniels4654 Sorry, what? How can body language be incorrect? You're picking holes in this that can't be found. I don't understand why this 'story' is difficult. It was hard for me to do this.. I needed a way to simply get it out there, to ALL of my friends and some of my family. Telling people to their face this happened.. is so difficult. I sat there in front of the computer shaking and crying, calmed myself down and got the words out.
Stephz124 2 months ago
I commented on facebook so I will here too, although I'm surprised to see people having a bit of a bitch fit.
If people don't believe a thing like this, at the end of the day it's how you remember it and you have not dropped names or anything like that. So commenting on this video to express dis-taste isn't going to help anything. I hope the people leave you alone, it's rude considering you took the time and strength to do this.
nuttykaylee 2 months ago
@nuttykaylee Thank you. I'm glad you see the sense to this video.
Stephz124 2 months ago
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!? This is the thickest spread of bullshit I've ever heard! I kno the lad this is about and i kno the whole story to, and it aint nothing like what she told at all, I was 1 of the kids best buds at the time this was all happening and he used to tell me everything. he tell me not to comment on this but I cant sit here and say jack all when this shit is out here and dumasses who dunkno what happened believe it! stop being sucha attention seeking lil lying bitch! CUNT
TheBiker1986 2 months ago 2
@TheBiker1986 Then why do I suffer from a traumatic disorder and remember everything as disclosed in the video, hard to divulge as I start to breakdown. I'm not attention seeking, I'm getting closure.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 Well i dunkno but it aint down to him for sure. you said your memory was faded, well mine an his aint, i stuck by him through all that, youv twisted the truth beyond recognition. you call that closure, lol make me laugh youv opend a brand new firin line to people like me who kno the truth. if you beleive that shit youv told ere then youv only got yourself to blame coz that shit aint real and youv got youself fuckd in the head! LOL
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 You know nothing. I can't link my emotions and feelings to a memory which is just words on a screen. Mental manipulation is a charismatic process. They get inside your head and make you believe and think things which aren't yours, (like a seedling if you will.) At 13, I wouldn't know what fingering was. I didn't understand. How could I possibly have done any of those things off my own back?
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 so what he fuckin came on to you, but was it relly 'grooming' as you calld it? and he told me abowt the stuff you said to him, this werent a 1 way thing the way you make it out to be. you kno what, fuck everyone here who beleives this, coz you'd beleive gullible aint in a dictionary. the lad knos the truth and those closest to him do to. next time you wanna do a vid like this, why dont you actully tell the truth, and not miss out the key parts of the story to.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 relly, abowt, werent, kno, calld, beleives, coz, knos, beleive, actully. If you want people with half a brain to take you more seriously, work on your spelling some more!
CirtLok 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 mate whether it was one way or not, he was 16, he should of known better than to rape a 13 year old GIRL. and well done to you for sticking up for a rapist, what a nice personality you have, i bet your family are very proud.
kamakamaha 2 months ago
@kamakamaha Just to clear this up, He was 15 and she was 14 at the time this happened. there was less than 2 years between them. And as I said, my spelling is crap. you may think it reflects my personality but you are wrong. you do not know me, or the guy in question, so stop being judgemental.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 It was the way I told it. Why would I go to the trouble of making up a massive story to prove someone that they practically raped me, broadcast it on the internet and expect no repercussion? Of course I know people with as lower IQ as you wouldn't understand. You're wrapped round his finger. Wake up.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 Me wrapped around his finger? right, whatever, yeah I know my spelling isn't the best, but I get my point across none the less, you know nothing about the person I am, I'm a lot older and wiser than you or him for that matter. and those of you making judgements on him, you do not know him! so how can you possibly judge him?
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 You do know what experiences make you wiser, not age. I know 30 year olds who are complete morons. Your accusations say more about how easily offended you are and unable to look at the facts when presented to you. Perhaps I don't know him, no. I never did. He is someone else, who pretended to be charming, nice and funny, that is what hurts more than anything. Lies. So how can you call ME a liar?
Stephz124 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 Hello there good sir. I would just like to point out that by swearing and the lack of grammar in your comment you have actually made your argument more laughable and less plausible. Getting to the point however as I do not wish to insult you. I have spoken to the person who this video is about and they have told me their version. She did the right thing by not mentioning his name as it protects him from people wanting revenge yeah? Attention seeking would be to name the guy.
kongaconley 2 months ago
@kongaconley Yeah I know he's told you his version, he told me, and yeah my spelling, grammar and general typing is crap. and she may as well have named him, because plenty of people who have seen this know who it was about and have been sending him abuse, other than a few who also know what bullshit this is. and it's not like she has told some people who it is about anyway?
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 I never once gave a name, this is closure not intended to get him in shitter. I don't care about your views or story on the matter, I know what happened. And by the way, it started when I was THIRTEEN. Not 14. He was 15, nearly 16, when I later turned 14 in March. So, he should have known better, I was very young and naive. As I said, I didn't mention a name, so why on Earth are you defending the anonymously subjected rapist?
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 you know what's become clear now, the reason you have not used his name is because you know he would then have proof of this video being about him and he could report you, and even take you to court to get this sorted. thats why your freely telling people who this is about, because theres no connection doing it that way. sly. very sly indeed. why dont you just throw his name out here, come on im sure we all want to know!!!
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 You're really digging deep into this aren't you. Why don't you turn around and look at the facts, I wouldn't go to the trouble of framing someone, I put this out there for CLOSURE. Not to get someone hurt, abused or ambushed. I said no name, because it's pointless. Of course I'm going to tell my closest friends, it's a traumatic experience that greatly changed me as a person. I made this video to help other girls who get abused to step forwards and get the help they need.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 yeah why shouldnt I dig deep, your friends are spreading his name faster than fire on petrol, and burrying my mate in tonnes of abuse. do you not see that, we know you hate him, but its not fair what you have done to him, yeah i understand you got hurt by him, but that gives you no right to go spreading these lies about him just to make yourself feel better. i hope your fucking happy.
TheBiker1986 2 months ago
@TheBiker1986 It's not my responsibility to hold back the reactions of outraged friends who care. I'm not doing that? I just posted a video and described what happened. I am happy, this video and post was a massive weight of my chest.
Stephz124 2 months ago
Wow, it's really brave of you to let this all out.
JackTheMiz 2 months ago
@JackTheMiz Thank you. :3
Stephz124 2 months ago
from what I gather, nothing severe happened. yeah, some stuff happened, but your making it seem like the end of the world. just move on and forget about it, your making it out to be worse than it actually is. There's no need to go and post your personal life on youtube
hazzaperkins08 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@hazzaperkins08 I was forced to do something I didn't know the name of? I went behind my grandparent's backs and betrayed their trust. I was ashamed of myself for years. Perspective is different, I needed closure. Say what you will but NEVER tell me how to live my life. I'm moving on slowly and this is a step forward before I go to tell councillors/psychiatrists. This event destroyed me. You have the audacity to sit there and tell me it wasn't the end of the world? It was to me.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@hazzaperkins08 If you don't full grasp the full context, read my tumblr post on it. Link in the description.
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 I understand that he was 'grooming' you, but you couldve said 'no' or stopped any time. If what he did was so bad, then you shouldve contacted the police. Internet relationships always seem to go wrong, but you were at a naive age and didnt understand. Look, a lot of people have been in much worse relationship situations, so just be grateful you arent one of them. If people spread rumours, just ignore it because they will stop if you dont pay any attention to it
hazzaperkins08 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@hazzaperkins08 I was shit scared. He said he'd kill himself if I told anyone, there wasn't a way out. I've been bullied all my life and every rumour cut like a knife. You just don't understand mental manipulation and making me feel worse..
Stephz124 2 months ago
@Stephz124 shouldve just let him. was probably an empty threat anyway. I feel sorry for you, but its no use telling the whole world. People like me who dont know you shouldnt know about your personal life. Try and be stronger caus being weak and moping about your problems wont get you anywhere, believe me
hazzaperkins08 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@hazzaperkins08 Different people cope in different ways, and for some people it's not always easy to talk about it direct to others. Honestly I give credit to stephz for being able to let it out at all, which is more than I reckon I could do in a situation that had such an effect on me, and I respect her for warning others to be careful. You may have your views on how people should cope, but try to respect others' also.
JackTheMiz 2 months ago
@JackTheMiz posting videos on youtube isnt coping. there is no need for it. if she can tell a bunch of strangers, then why not her friends?
She choose to communicate with him in the first place, and it went too far perhaps. but he's not a murderer or a paedophile. I'm sure if we listened to his side, the two stories would be completely different.
hazzaperkins08 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@hazzaperkins08 Harry look. Everybody will cope in different ways and this is how she copes. You haven't seen her like I have, you don't know her like I do. I've sat there and watched her shake and have breakdown after breakdown when she recalls what happened here. This video is nowhere near as graphic as what happened. She told me what happened and was shaking and crying non stop for a hour. She has told her closest friends but she developed PTSD and constantly picks her lips. Have a open mind.
kongaconley 2 months ago
@kongaconley yeah but that doesnt explain why she made a video about it. All I'm saying is, keep your private life private, caus believe it or not some people will take the piss out of her, which is unfair. Im not saying that i dont feel sorry for her, caus i do, its just a bad idea to make videos about it to entice bullies and nasty comments
hazzaperkins08 2 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@hazzaperkins08 Making a video like this can be a way for people to cope with situations like this, as it can vary from communicating with others who went through the same situations where they can share advice and just generally be comfortable about talking about it as that can really stop you from breaking down as much and it can take it off your mind. Fair enough you may think she'll have the piss taken out of her but if they do, they'll get what is coming to them for being arrogant pricks.
KyleCakezZz 2 months ago
@KyleCakezZz Thank you Kyle, that is exactly why I made the video.
Stephz124 2 months ago
You are awesome!!! Go live your life and don't even spend 1 second caring what un-awesome people think. Its your life.
tashonov 2 months ago
Hey girl, this is really brave thing that you are doing. Now please note that you did absolutely nothing wrong. But neither the other kid... You both had early sexual experience that didn't went well and the kid was a dick. But most kids at his age are like that. This things happens more often than you can imagine. No need to lose your faith in people cozz some of them are assholes. Some people are awesome....
tashonov 2 months ago