How to handle people who think they are better than everyone else

[drvenkman1981]

I can relate in a way, I think. I once began a cashiere job some years ago, and after I was hired... the very first day the manager told me too much info. about herself (i.e. she created a sex tape w/ a boyfriend etc.) and would tell me stories of everyone she thought was "stupid". I also have an aquaintance who works w/ a woman who boasts about her accomplishments (I experienced it at a party) and then scream in front of colleagues about random people she met who she hated.

[n68firebird]

I believe that certain individuals may a notion that someone thinks they are better than everyone else, when actually those individuals recognize that this person has skills and education that they themselves do not possess. I was only nineteen when I got my first job in industrial drafting and design; I worked during the day and went to college at night to finish my degree. I think the secretary who was so nasty to me at my first workplace was jealous of my skills, so I just avoided her.

[ilovelovezwinky]

This helped me A LOT

[GlossyShoes]

I have a neighbor like this, he was always nice, then i was sad about losing someone, he could tell i was down and he started talking down to me, i just avoid him now or just wave.

[ja46231]

this comes in handy too!

[iLike2scream7]

'Narcissistic' is the word to describe these people.

[dbor009]

what if they are your boss... you don't want to bite the hand that feeds you.

[ejvi22]

@TheLisandem abandon her

[fairastits]

this video is absolutely correct! 100%

[TheRedtaz]

be happy that you're beautiful now, because someday you're tits are gonna sag, and you're gonna have a double chin, you can't fight gravity.

[djibril202]

@TheRedtaz LOLLMAOROFLMAO XD OMGLOL

[lazyfreedom98]

Kick them in a pit and shoot them with machines guns, it worked the last time.

[rivieralife1]

Good advice there are so many manipulators out there. Save your positive energy for people who will receive it.

[cresentchen]

thanks i needed this advice.

[Iluvrocket]

what a voice!

[TheMelleeeey]

i love you

[DanandDonna1]

Listen people, if someone is jealous of you for what EVER reason, that's their problem. They see you in a different light than you see yourself. Do the best as you have been doing and in time, you will be the victor. It is them with the problem, not yourself.

[starbright9856]

wow i love ur advies .. ur good at them

[EricSchwin22]

I work in a Mailroom office...I'm a hardworker, but it got to the point where 4 people got jealous of my hard work, and pretty much said some really nasty things to me that shouldn't have been said and I have to see these nasty backstabbing people everyday...but you know what? I go to work to get a paycheck, and get out of there by 4:30pm.

[TheRick916]

@EricSchwin22 they smile in your face BACKSTABBERS,,its a song look it up ,,just punch in backstabbers ,,its old but its good

[ThatWasPrettyFunny]

Hello sociopathic video maker hahahaha

[nekoneo666]

I knew someone like this what is a person like this insecure about?

[pineapple2059]

I realised that it's really stupid to waste time even thinking about them or what theyre saying or even their "glare" or that "condescension look" or that "up and down skim to see what youre wearing" or that "stare really intensely so i could catch a mistake or fault" because, i realise this is REALLY all ways to build their low self esteem.

Thank you for ur vedios! I think the people who are making these vedios to help others should get an award --

[naturalEbeautiful]

@pineapple2059 I don't know you, but I think you're awsome. Never comform to the likes/dislikes of others and you will go far. Be you even if you find yourself alone, just be you and think positive and people will WANT to be around you. Like what you like because YOU like it, dislike what you dislike because YOU dislike it no matter what any1 else thinks or says. Always use wisdom when choosing friends because friends are 4EVER! PEACE and LOVE :)

[pineapple2059]

@naturalEbeautiful Thankyouu so much!!

[pineapple2059]

Hi! I just started junior year, and there is one girl who used to be nice to me who is now extremely mean and condescending in front of the "popular girls" she wants to please. Now i realise that she REALLY is just insecure with herself, and needs to PROVE that she is good. I also have 2 other girls that talk behind my back, as if I can't hear, but I hear everything they're saying, and I think they need to mature up. They're not making themselves look any better by putting others down.

[happnat]

sound like you have low confidence to even to talk about this subject.Ha!

[shadow123991]

exactly

[98miamia]

People are jealous of me, I am beautiful 36 year old woman, younger and older women/men are jealous of me and my beauty, the way I am dress, fashion, lipstick I wear. I was born with two things money can't buy, Beautiful face and tall, Brains !!! This lady is so right, just be yourself !!!!

[mercyhurstchic]

@98miamia Why are older men jealous of you? Just curious.

[98miamia]

@mercyhurstchic some men, not all , a small percentage of idiots are . I do not know why. Maybe it is because my life is so good and I can improve my life !!!

[BankruptBassplayer]

@98miamia i want to see a pic....NPD , anyone?

[magellan3]

@98miamia You forgot to mention your modesty.

[Juliana65]

@magellan3 She also forgot to post a picture of her beauty on her page!

[hustler1babe]

@98miamia Did you say brains ? lol sorry had to ask

[itsmedontusee]

@98miamia wtf

[andreasegde]

@98miamia

A classic Narcissist, with NPD.

[SumMer70401]

@98miamia Omg I sympathize with you. Beauty comes with a price. People try to make my life a living hell just because I am beautiful and not full of myself. They almost can't take it and it would just be too nice of them to let me be happy. It's only gotten worse with age. But youre right. Youve got to be yourself... Don't let the clouds get in the way of sunshine. And also just do the best you can do...that's all you can do!!

[ColdCypher]

@98miamia Actually money can buy a pretty face. Not brains though... at least not yet. Soon enough however...

[troydeancarpenter]

@ColdCypher - Money hires brains.

[ColdCypher]

@troydeancarpenter Yes, but then youre playing at the mercy of your advisors.

[troydeancarpenter]

@ColdCypher Smart people play at the mercy of their own smarts. It's all a matter of what you've got I guess.

[ColdCypher]

@troydeancarpenter Yes, but in that situation they are dependent upon themselves, not others, which is preferable in my view. Yes, it is a matter of what youve got. One can develop strengths they are not born with however. Willpower.

[jenny2006454]

@98miamia how " modest" of you ...

[troydeancarpenter]

@98miamia If you're beautiful at 36, that's terrific! I normally don't see that. Maybe once in a while.

[sirvidia]

@98miamia i wish i had tall, Brains !!!

[logotrix]

@98miamia

Is this a joke?  If not maybe you're confusing jealously with revulsion, because you sound like an egocentric nitwit.

[guidedfarandthrough]

@98miamia Is this a joke? you sound like that insecure person who has to them everyne she is great even though she isn't! nice try though at fooling us

[n68firebird]

@guidedfarandthrough: LOL! "98miamia" sounds like the kind of person to whom I would just act 'professional' towards, if I had to interact with her, but would stay FAR AWAY from otherwise.

[JeffersonDinedAlone]

Simple; don't waste your time with them. It's your time; don't allow anyone to waste it.

[Rolfchoppa007]

@JeffersonDinedAlone I know yet they get really on your nerves! I just argued with a 35 year old male from Canada on an airsoft video and just because i said "jackass" ounce because he made fun of me just because he insinuated i use a paintball mask to airsoft which i took as an offensive comment

[blessloving]

Sure you right. Keep making video to help guide people.

[glamayhem13]

But lets say... I am better than everyone else... How do I let them know, without coming off as arrogant or posh? :) (that would be a great video)

[thepinkmagic205]

@glamayhem13 You don't need to let them know.Let they find out by themselves ;) Because you're better than them,and you know it,so be proud of it.

[christophermok]

lol i have a friend exactly like that... i hate it.

[lordchocobo222]

Now I feel like an arrogant snob. :P

[Cschive]

Thank you, that was a good refresher

[breekochip]

Thanks for the advice..  i feel so much better(:

[menderfire9]

Yes, be business like, have firm, polite boundaries & don't be insulting. But I think you are wrong when you say that people who put themselves on pedestals are hurting inside. There are many abnormal "comfortable" people around who aren't hurting inside and are just plain arrogant & filled with a spirit of entitlement and they are totally out of touch with us who know pain. I know people who have meditated so much & ended up in a permanent state of bliss, feeling like gods but very insensitive

[krazysb88]

Short n sweet and to da point.

Very well said.

[msphilophobia]

I'm nodding my head as you talk... that's like freaking true... I suddenly feel better about myself!!!

[jag216]

This is a well stated and sympathetic view. I would also add to her comments that many times when a person with these issues complain about what other people do, they are often indicating something that they dislike or despise about their own behavior and tendencies and they use this process as a way to distance themselves from their own insecurities and foibles.

[landth78]

I'm in grade 12 and I'm doing a group project with 4 other people... And this one guy frustrates me SO much! He literally said "I'm so sexy, I'm so smart, I'm perfect, I'm royalty" today or something like that... He acts like all my opinions are stupid and his are brilliant! When I know for a fact that what I do for the project is incredible and what he does is oozing with mistakes. He also yells at me and says rude things. I just want to KILL him! But I'll take your advice :D

[floweriepot]

u make me feel good when i hear ur advice!! thnx!!

[jtking2504]

I totally agree. Someone has been trying to put me down for months, I finally was able to move away, then the other day I just went by her desk and made a friendly gesture, she managed to turn it in to one of her humiliating comments in front of others, I have no idea how she did it, I suppose she has perfected it. This is when I REALLY got it, stay as far away as possible, these people are toxic and cannot help themselves. I now save my friendly gestures for those who deserve it, her loss.

[KrazyChick17]

I love you! great advice in all ur videos :)