Inspirational, love it. Sorry for the name, didn't set my acct up. This is what happens when you let a youngster do things for you, and you don't do it yourself.
I love it ! (comin from a man) she is parting the seas for positivity...and being friendly don't always mean sexual! I love friendliness that helps for me to open-up too!
You've probably had the "uppity" or "she's stuck up" accusation thrown at you more than once. Don't dumb down your speaking stlye, there's too much of that in our community already.......Okay I'm off my soapbox now
Seriously Shanel, if Shaniqua, Laquanda and the rest of them don't understand you or don't wanna listen because you're coming to them in a mature, intelligent manner that's their problem, not yours. Don't "dumb yourself down" in your style of speech in order to try and reach them. Alot of women hate on you because you appear to have alot of your stuff together.
In your earlier videos you used your normal speaking voice in your videos. What's with this "sister girlfriend" style you're using now? One of your appealing qualities was that you didn't speak as if everyone listening was from "The Hood", you obviously have intellect and you've done some "spiritual work" during your short life (I'm alot older than you). Now it seems like you're doing a Monique or Wendy Williams impersonation in these newer videos to reach your "target audience".
@derals869 Not good at all. You don't tell woman to hold a higher standard for themselves and then tell them it's ok let em cheat. I get what she's saying that she's going to teach you how to stop him from taking that path but it goes both ways both men and women cheat and it has more to do with the environment they grew up in.it's acquired not inbred.
@derals869 I've noticed that as well. It's become about selling her workshops now. Like the title of her latest video. "It's OK...let em cheat" You're telling a woman to respect herself and close her legs in one video and in the next you're titling it let em cheat just to get attention for your product.
Very good. I just didn't agree about the sex part, but overall good tips. I'm surprised you didn't mention Health. Like weight, disease, etc; that's important to me.
I don't agree with everything you say because I'm not religious but I definitely can appreciate a lot of what you say. You're in Milwaukee??? WHAT?? You should have a fashion and a makeup channel too sweetie...show women how to be classy PLEASE!!
I LOVE your videos!!!!!! thank you:)
Hairtogo2011 1 month ago
Lord have mercy!! I love this lady. You are so inspiring. Thank you very much.
jadejamrock 2 months ago
ray ray and pookie ha ha ha...
RoseFolasade 4 months ago 2
GOSPEL!!! LET THE CHURCH SAY, AMEN *FANNING MYSELF*
aligned576 5 months ago 3
Inspirational, love it. Sorry for the name, didn't set my acct up. This is what happens when you let a youngster do things for you, and you don't do it yourself.
aldatazz4U 6 months ago
Thanks
kenya73 6 months ago
You're extremely inspiring!! Love your videos!
AmatullahSharif 6 months ago
Really needed to hear this. Thank you!!
ReddishGemini84 7 months ago
Tell it like it is girl !
blknproud 8 months ago
U r such an inspiration lady!
BreiLenise 8 months ago
Wow! This is Sooo powerful and just what I needed ... Thank u for breaking it down ...now I have to run and apply steps 1-10 IMMEDIATELY
glendap16 8 months ago
@glendap16 Yes indeed!
m0renachula704 7 months ago
I love it ! (comin from a man) she is parting the seas for positivity...and being friendly don't always mean sexual! I love friendliness that helps for me to open-up too!
TStylez09 8 months ago
Amennnnnnn
TStylez09 8 months ago
this speaks to me so much!!! oh my goodness.....
jahcia 8 months ago
A wise young lady... Listen to her words!
NatalieGRamsay 8 months ago
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WomanInTransition 9 months ago
Love it!
LoveMeMore85 10 months ago
Wow!!! This deep... Keep it coming.
Mscandie17 10 months ago
<3<3<3<3<33<3<3
YEAHMOTHAFUCKER 10 months ago
first time checking you out (shout out to sosoblessed) im here to stay and telling a friend
epd0126 11 months ago
Ray Ray and Pookie nem!!!! lol LOVE her!!
chrissypaul2win 11 months ago
AMEN BABYGIRL I LOVE SHANEL SHE TELLS IT LIKE IT IS LISTEN UP BLACK WOMEN!
MegaZeitgeist 11 months ago
rofl@ GIRL WALKING AROUND LIK EU GOTTA pole stuck in your butt.. LMFAO..omg!!
licialicous 11 months ago
Shanel is THE TRUTH!
Sharone326 11 months ago
Just what I needed to hear ! :)
silkygyal 11 months ago
You've probably had the "uppity" or "she's stuck up" accusation thrown at you more than once. Don't dumb down your speaking stlye, there's too much of that in our community already.......Okay I'm off my soapbox now
derals869 11 months ago
Seriously Shanel, if Shaniqua, Laquanda and the rest of them don't understand you or don't wanna listen because you're coming to them in a mature, intelligent manner that's their problem, not yours. Don't "dumb yourself down" in your style of speech in order to try and reach them. Alot of women hate on you because you appear to have alot of your stuff together.
derals869 11 months ago 4
In your earlier videos you used your normal speaking voice in your videos. What's with this "sister girlfriend" style you're using now? One of your appealing qualities was that you didn't speak as if everyone listening was from "The Hood", you obviously have intellect and you've done some "spiritual work" during your short life (I'm alot older than you). Now it seems like you're doing a Monique or Wendy Williams impersonation in these newer videos to reach your "target audience".
derals869 11 months ago 3
@derals869 Not good at all. You don't tell woman to hold a higher standard for themselves and then tell them it's ok let em cheat. I get what she's saying that she's going to teach you how to stop him from taking that path but it goes both ways both men and women cheat and it has more to do with the environment they grew up in.it's acquired not inbred.
NYCollegeReview 8 months ago
@derals869 I've noticed that as well. It's become about selling her workshops now. Like the title of her latest video. "It's OK...let em cheat" You're telling a woman to respect herself and close her legs in one video and in the next you're titling it let em cheat just to get attention for your product.
NYCollegeReview 8 months ago
LOL DID ANYONE GET GOOSE BUMPS?
licialicous 11 months ago
Go off Ms.Cooper! Go offfff! Did she not preach???
domleah1987 11 months ago
Love it, love it, love it. (I am an atheist, though!)
Jynjerbred47 11 months ago
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Your too funny!
lyricalhealer 1 year ago
MS. Cooper, I doubt they will follow the first five step..LOL
TheLou28 1 year ago
Real talk!
maximuslyricus 1 year ago
Very good. I just didn't agree about the sex part, but overall good tips. I'm surprised you didn't mention Health. Like weight, disease, etc; that's important to me.
shany9988 1 year ago
I don't agree with everything you say because I'm not religious but I definitely can appreciate a lot of what you say. You're in Milwaukee??? WHAT?? You should have a fashion and a makeup channel too sweetie...show women how to be classy PLEASE!!
cocoa8872 1 year ago
Ms. shanel.... your right! women pick the guys that are "fine" with a messed up mind set!!! thank you for the knowledge
gabbay17 1 year ago
TRUE & POWERFUL WORDS SHANEL
jaydubb2005 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive
Noted...I admit...I need to stop cursing
prettyblackwomen1 1 year ago 2
@prettyblackwomen1 Me and you both:).
Sharone326 11 months ago
HeLLo :-)
I saw this video on my friend Prettyblackwomen1's channel.
*Nice video!*
Dirtywayne80 1 year ago
Powerful!!. We women can never hear this too much!!!
atoy1224 1 year ago
Shanel...this is sooooo good!! Amazing men make amazing friends!
SMILEMKR29512 1 year ago
Very Good!!Your way of talking reminds me of B Scott
lunar371 1 year ago
Very good!
lunar371 1 year ago
Lol!!
lunar371 1 year ago
I love her!!!
ZOOBEE79 1 year ago
change your conversation...I love it
fabulosity0212 1 year ago
change your conversation...I love it
fabulosity0212 1 year ago
AMEN!!!!
serena941 1 year ago
I love this video!!!
tabbykat329 1 year ago
"Ray Ray" and "Pookey Dem"... LOL. True!!!
tabbykat329 1 year ago
God bless you Shanel!!
keeps00000 1 year ago
Shanel you are wise beyond your years!!! Powerful video!!!
msjkirklee 1 year ago
I would eat u right up lol
baylife84 1 year ago
Im adding this as my feature video...Thanks!
prettyblackwomen1 1 year ago
I needed this. you are the bomb sista =]
LoveLife21189 1 year ago
Amazing!
mulliaa 1 year ago
Girl, you better TELL it!!
mpenny226 1 year ago
If it hurts just say ouch.... and take her ADVICE!!!!!!
sheadjones 1 year ago 36
If your about self improvement. This lady is for you.
SLICENSLASH 1 year ago
OK, we will share these!!
BIGBOSSandTHEDOLL 1 year ago
I love ur videos! U r very well spoken and have knowledge. I appreciate ur advice. I will try to implement it in my life. Thank you. Stay blessed.
larizg 1 year ago
everything she's saying is true and known already.most women are just not smart enough to implement them into their lives.
cherryboboc 1 year ago 2
Well Damn ! Love it !
TheUltimateReviewer1 1 year ago
Youtube needs a shawn cooper-sykes for 10 tips to becoming an AMAZING "man"
TheFashionableChic 1 year ago
you are the best motivational speaker I have seen yet
TheFashionableChic 1 year ago
This is Divine!!!!
testizel 1 year ago
My goodness Sister you are divine, believe that.....your energy and spirit is just as magnetic as your beauty...
One thing for sure is that young brothers and some of these old knuckles need to learn to value a woman's mind such as yours, IF they have it...lol
Like i said we need more sisters like you out here forreal.....hopefully some of these lost sisters out here take heed of your words
MA'AT
MegaMalik30 1 year ago
@MegaMalik30 RIGHT BROTHER...I LOVE HER SHE IS AMAZING!!
CallieShabazz123 1 year ago 7