Aaaahh! Why Does She Want to Be "Just Friends"?

[jeweljgemini]

But what if they were sexing on the regular and she told him that she wanted to be friends? Does it still mean shes not into him?

[AwwsummSauce]

@jeweljgemini Same here bro. I asked her If I could have one chance and if it doesn't work out we stay friends. We're still together and things are good. I would try a similar route.

[kitchenman345]

I want to ask my co-worker out, but she is 5 years older than me tho...We get along really well and I feel it can be more. She laughs at my jokes and I feel really good being around her........ idk.......its too much!

[jteruel671]

Keep ME as a friend? No thanks. It's all or nothing with women. I disagree about throwing away the friendship, because she really DOES NOT value you at all.

[StrathendrickPiper]

retarded

[TheBlaknight26]

if she doesnt wanna be more than friends........ make her wanna be more than friends. work out ,,lose weight , get swag do something that you think will make her more attracted to you. jus dont give up if u really like her

[TheBlackmetalhead]

my girl friend just wants to be friends with benefits

[Darchdemon]

it hurts... to mutch... i got played with my feelings in these last 2 weeks... i dont know what to do.. she just wants to be my friend... i feel like shit... and i decided to stop talking to her and i left town... just to relax... im really down.. feel like i wanna kill my self... its not the first time girls play up with my feelings... what is wrong with me? fuck life

[TheKoolaidm4n]

@Darchdemon Hey man i went to a field trip at amazing jakes i a girl i really liked. Well anyways i stopped liking her that day when she ditched me at laser tag and go karts.:( so at the last frickin day at skool my friend asked her out for me when i stopped liking her she said "no i just want to be friends." now its a new year and she wont talk to me look at me or smile at me lik she used to. There maybe lots of fish in the sea but yours and mine were probably lik no other :(

[SpyWhoLovedHimself]

It's ALWAYS bullshit ROFL!

[wulfsragar]

really "just be friends" is in most cases an insult!!

[dfectus]

It's because she a Sagittarius.

[Agent1W]

I get the idea that this woman wants to preserve the guy who asked this question for a time. I dunno, just a thought. She's going to need a constant in her life, while she's courting others. Is a guy really going to tolerate that?

If the guy in question is seeking a stronger relationship, he's going to be treated unfairly. My advice: leave her in the friend zone and look for someone else. Not a good thing to get more involved with her.

[wpulhamus]

stupid ass hoes want nothin more than2Bwalked on all 4's over2their water bowl&then put outside in the cold ass rain2whine like the dogs they WANT2Btreated like.womenRcompletely fukedNthe head&the sooner us nice guys figure that out the sooner we can get on w/our lives.my friend put it2me this way wen i came2him w/this"situation"he said"i dnt want2treat girls like shit dude.i really dnt.but thats wat they want.i dnt know why.i cant imagine why.but thats wat they fucken want so i do it."

[SuperRebwar]

how many times did u hear girls saying iam looking for a nice guy but you will see the same girl dont go out with nice guys ,she goes out with a jerk who treats her like a dog ,i just couldnt understand that before but now i understand why because girls are not attracted to wuss bag[nice guys]its not their choice they dont choose it,if u ask a girl why did u go out with this jerk not with this nice guy,all their answer is i dont know thats y i say attraction is not you choice,gd luck to every 1

[SuperRebwar]

because u are a wuss bag ,u are doing every thing she says ,once u are doing everything she says at the begining of knowing a girl, thats it u maight become her best friend but u will never be her boyfriend i mean sexually,because girls are not attracted to nice guys trust me,every girl on this planet says i want a nice guy but once u are nice to them at the begining u become her friend not her boyfriend ,girls dont attract to very nice guys its not their choice they dont choose it just happenc

[Bobdillos]

What is this crap! Dan grow some balls, Jen your crazy. Just friends mean she cant tell you she wants other guys, in her mind better guys. dont put up with that shit! Women like that lack all originallity. Take pride in yourself and walk away.

[likeewoahhh95]

My personal experience: The same thing happened to me. What I did? I left. I got out of the friendship for about a month. During that time, I hung out with other friends. Did other things, without her. Stopped talking to her all the time. Even changed my look a little. Then after a while we started talking again. Shortly after we started dating.

Think what you want. But that was my personal experience, and it worked.

[rowsdower12]

@controversyking Totally agree. I think I contradict myself a lot. The idea sounds nice but when it happens, I'm like maybe not.

[rowsdower12]

I usually get stuck in the friend zone. Hence 98% of my friends from the past and now are female. Which I don't mind to a certain point but when a girl says I just want to be friends it stings cause its like, well I don't, I have enough female friends, i wasn't looking for another. Also I think cause i'm too nice. Funny, girls bitch about mean guys or a-holes and want to meet that "nice" guy but when it comes, nope. I digress.

[mistacramer]

@rowsdower12

But you are so handsome, courageous and charming, Zap R.

[rowsdower12]

@mistacramer lol. Thanks. You know where I got the name from. Best name ever!

[agony202]

this guys a real pussy

[nzmetalman]

Shes a Bitch tell her to take a hike!!

[nzmetalman]

Just friends? what does she want the guy to go shopping with her. some women are like childs grow up already stop lying women and tell it like it is thats the whole problem with this dating shit!

[theorchidstrator]

Years ago, I had just got divorced and met this nice guy who turned out 2 b a true and dear friend 2 me. One day he tells me he thinks he's in love with me, but I didn't want 2 b more than friends because my ex & I were best friends b4 we started dating. I was afraid I'd loose my best friend all over again. As time went on I got more mature and began 2 fall in love with this guy. it's never the right time. we're not together now but we're still great friends. I love him and maybe 1day we'll b 1.

[blinko656]

For starters Dan has to get a new shirt. Russian men wore these in the 70's...ummm.

[kabir471]

very fucking bad sagesantions......fucked

[HandyMan101]

So if a woman says she doesn't see you as boyfriend material, how do you change her perception if you have feelings for her?

[noneya26]

I am a Woman and I agree with JoshRom. I know allot of women like what he says. I really dont know why some women are like that it amazes me. But I dont agree with the two on the video. Its one of two reasons she either has a very deep love for the guy and does not want to get hurt so she avoids it and isnt attached to the other guys so she doesnt care if they hurt her. OR she just doesnt find you appealing and doesnt want to hurt your feelings. And women dont like men to nice or to assholey .

[jesse4ya]

just friends means she only likes you cuz you pay all the bills whenever you go out lol

[willDANCEforPENNIES]

21 year old male, never done anything with a girl. I'm about to graduate college and didn't get any action the entire time. I am just about fed up with girls. I have had several bad dates, I never get anywhere. All my dorky friends from high school have steady girlfriends. Does anyone have any idea what I should do??

[broadcastmyass4u]

GIRLS PLEASE QUIT BEING ATTENTION WHORES! it doesn't make you anymore wanted, believe me. It only makes you look more like a slut! Guys really aren't interested in that, they want a smart girl, not a needy bitch! Admire you boyfriend for his intellectual thoughts, hell even join him in a debate, want hurt. Because if you keep being that attention craving whore that you are you will only shy away from the real truths of your relationship, and even your own being.

[TheSuicidesammy]

yer mind i had a gd friendship with my boyfriend but i am a guy so shit that dont count..thank god i am gay girls sound complicated

[Jgeneraledger23]

0:27 scared she will ruin your 'friendship' means that she thinks u r a pussy.

[paland5]

just explain it

[Heather4Forever]

A girls point of view: Scared, SCARED, and more scared!! I am scared that my best friend if we date we will lose our friendship if it doesn't workout scary place to be.

[6greenduck]

@Heather4Forever Fuck you bitch don't try to play the victim when its US GUYS that is the real victim. 85% of guys aren't looking for gay ass friendship thats what their guy friends are for. So as soon as you turn a guy that is in the friendzone down he most likely will never be your friend again because he'll think your a shallow bitch. So really you'll lose your friendship anywayz so you might as well make out with him for putting up the effort.

[rowsdower12]

@Heather4Forever I see that, but at the same time the best relationships come from friendship cause that's what it should ultimately be based on. In an ideal world, marriage is marrying your best friend.

[jesushigh5]

keep her as a friend...fuck that. 

[antpal0101]

im sorry but you laugh at every little thing that is serious and dont give any tips except your opinion and thats why my life and the rest of the people who watch this feelings get lowered and never get the courage or confidence to ask the girl/guy out.

[cod4masta22]

mi gf loves me now thx ur awesome. just find out y she dusnt like u n apologise. werked 4 me.

[djkinzo1]

if ur gf or crush says lets just b frends.......tht means she already got a bf or crush or she dun wanna b in a relationship with u..........there might b hundreds of reasons for her..............

my best advice: dump her n move on..........

[malemutekid1973]

guy-girl friendship = bulls***

[TheCastellan]

Friendship with a chick = Less than NOTHING.

[rgchrono]

good tip, yet! from my experience! the best thing I ever did was getting rid of lady friends, or just forget about them and move one. The fact is that a lot of times us guys will feel as being just " good enough to be friends with " for every lady we meet. Keeps us in the friend zone with women. The best thing to do is to get rid of them and start over. Meet new women, contact old ones you have not seen. I did, now i have a gf, who was an old friend :)

[nhlmike26]

JoshRom you are a genius for real your gith women are retarded and i got your same problem!

[nhlmike26]

thats bullshit!

[ThingsThatHateUs]

stumble upon failed me...the impossible has happened

[JoshRom]

She just wants fucking attention. Most females I know are idiots that want what they can't have and when someone truly cares about them and WANTS to be with them they run away. Retarded bullshit.

[r0kstar182]

they don't really seem to care either, i'm in that spot right now. Yeah, retarded is exactly the right word

[redshoes555]

@JoshRom I agree with u josh and i am a female! a friend of mine, well i still call him a friend cuz it was preity "good friendship" used the terms we are " good friends" till i got sick of hearing it so i just said..Loook I have a crush on you..and what do you know..he is not interstd..lesson learnt rather thn fustration!

[WutLawl]

@JoshRom holy fucking shit i couldnt agree more my friend. EXACTLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY­YYYYY this deserves about 40 million thumbs up

[hugonohemi]

@JoshRom << Attention, everyone wants it, at least at some point. And those females you know, yeah.. are pretty much blind, but at the same time, you also need to see that, even if they stayed, what are they going to offer you, if they're into someone else? ..So yeah, they might as well just leave and not keep on hurting your feelings. Baka... It also depends on what type of people you hang out with <<

[5ti01qs]

@JoshRom Amen to that brother I have the same fucking problem and it's just flat out stupid

[MirageUchiha]

@JoshRom

That's the realest talk I've heard... ever.

[kowal789]

@JoshRom its quite stupid... most, if not all the good girls that you like always have that 1 prince charming that they want to come by and sweep them off their feet, or they go for the "hotter or sexy" guys. this means they will usually reject normal/ugly guys because sthey all know once they let guys know they want to date, they play the waiting game, and get cheated on or something by an over-confident dude... seen it happen to me wayyy to many times..

[KevinandCluke]

@JoshRom I wish I could like your comment 8 million FUCKING TIMES.

[ichigo19910]

me and my friend are in the same posision but we've kissed and everything and were really close and she always tells me that she likes me that way and its just getting well confusing cos its like i like you but dont wana be with you and i know shes not just saying it to make me feel better anytips ?

[TheCastellan]

Friendship with a girl = Less than NOTHING.

[badcoraphael]

nothing is better.

[tonyvalente]

Shes full of shit. that bitch uses you and she comes back to use your ass. dump that fake ho!

[needles1987]

A girl would risk the friendship if she really likes the guy.

[TheCastellan]

IT's amazing how girls get freaked out if a best friend asks her out....like her brother asked her out....and would rather be with some dude she just met in a bar :P

[carinsolis]

what if i have tried to ask her out more then a few times over the past 6 years and she says everytime that she wants to be friends. We are really good friends now and she has a boyfriend who she loves but i still have the same feelings for her. i can't get over her, i feel if i move on to someone else i will just be thinking of her. what do i do?

[irishhlad87]

I feel you and this is something that has happened to me before. My best advice would be to just break it off because think about it, its at the point where this relationship with her has gotten very unhealthy for you and trust me you dont want to cry over somebody that wont cry for you. Also she has a boyfriend and when it comes down to it, she'll always choose her boyfriend over you, so my advice would be to just get another girl and just dont talk to her again.

[irishhlad87]

Also if you do move on, and you will, the most important thing is to keep your mind occupied, either that may be sports or music or any kind of activity. I know that you may probably think about her all the time but you just gotta realize that there are better people for you, so really it isnt worth it with this girl, it is best if you find another one that will reciprocate your love and feelings.

[rtb214]

GREAT VIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[needles1987]

When a girl says "I don't want to ruin your friendship", it just means she's just not into you.

[Nokia1708]

could someone PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

I have known this girl for a while now and we are really close friends. I have taken her out to the movies and to other places just to be by ourselves. I recently took her out on the weekend and we went back to her place and i kissed her :) ......but she recently also told me she doesnt want to have a relationship right now??? She is coming with me to my school dance later in the year, but what do i do to ask her how she feels about me???

[dirtyboy2121]

if you changed at all go back to the way you were beforeshe finds another guy i know all about this it just recently happened to me but i didn't have time to cange if you didn't chang and you think your in love make her think she was wrong about you other wise wait 6 months if you stil feel for her ask her out again con tinue were you left off good luck to ya

[Nokia1708]

cheers buddy

[fatzo49]

just say hey i have alot of feelings for you(if you do) and i was just wondering if you felt the same way about me hope that helps goodluck man :)

[ace1two2]

Ask her for a walk, to a lonely place. When alone, kiss her suddenly and hug her. If she asks you to stop grab her ass and/or vagina. She will no longer consider you as her friend... However if she says again no, stop, or else it would be a "friendly rape" not sex.

[TooSucio4U]

lmao

[irishraver2009]

fuck friendship!....nickers off!...gud videos by the way!

[youbananabuoy]

no one likes me in 'that way' :(

[sk8bo4rdv]

i feel u bro!

[kowal789]

@youbananabuoy same :( girls just dont like me at all

[supernova58]

even all the women in the world have the potential to sleep with you on the first date no matter what they say, if you know what to do and everything goes fine. so don't ever get stuck with girls who just wanna be friends. it means something has gone not right between you and her!

[wsgRainman69]

sometimes there is nothing you can do to get one of your better friends to like you.. just wasn't meant to be no matter how much you think it feels right and could last until marriage and death.

[Mpua24]

If she says "lets just be friends" it's cause you haven't made her attracted to you. It's that simple.

[morlenheim]

Don't listen to this amateur advice.

Here are the facts:

ANY woman that says she wants to be friends ONLY is not physically attracted to you.

All she wants you around for is a rainy day friend when nothing else is going on.

You must steer clear of women like this, because they will prevent you from establishing a relationship thats more serious with someone else.

A serious woman doesn't want her man to have "other" female friends.

The Professor.

[Edaeron]

If i could ask a question about some thing related to this is, what does a woman REALLY mean when she says, "I don't know what I want right now." ???

Honestly I'm starting to think woman are becoming more and more confused about them selves then men are about woman.

[Heny4563]

PUA is the answer to this problem. Of course theres a way out of this!!! Are you kidding me?! Join the community, they will teach you everything you need to know.

[vilxan]

There's a really big problem with this video. The second point. She doesn't find you attractive.

What they don't say is how to get the person attracted in the first place. I don't mean to sell but David DeAngelo can explain this better than I could in this little space, and I would reccommend anyone buying his stuff, but if you don't want to buy his stuff (like me), just look up his name here on Youtube.

I don't mean to sell his stuff, but even so I think he has the answer.

[Bobzeaux]

So.... No way out of it, huh?

[geeksquadgreg]

the popular answer is no, but if she truly cares for you as a friend, this happens a lot in rebound scenarios where she just broke up with someone, and doesn't want to lose you if you broke up then you can get out, if she is saying that because she really isnt attracted to you then you can't, find out what it is. Give her space, less attention, and if she asks give her an ultimatum saying hey im not gonna stand around and be an emotional backboard, your with me or your not. thats how

[geeksquadgreg]

you get out of the friend zone. she will have to say yes or no, if she says yes kiss her, if she says no, get the hell out of dodge because you dont want to be in the friend zone, it is hell, like a torture chamber, where something that you want it always beyond your grasp, terrible. It can turn u into a shell. Just be very forward with her. kiss= very important though trust me, I have gotten out of the friend zone twice.

[Bobzeaux]

What do you do if you're the LAST to know about the break-up (which rarely happens in the first place) and the rebound has already happened?

[geeksquadgreg]

then wait for the rebound period to be over rebound guys are just something to get a girls mind off an ex dont be the rebound guy you will become a cumrag in every sense of the word. being a rebound is worse, unless your not into relationships and your just about having sex, which there are a lot of people out there like that but I f you want something more, wait for her to have a clear mind, not one with memories of her ex. if the rebound has already happened and its over, that when U step in

[Bobzeaux]

"dont be the rebound guy"

"if the rebound has already happened and its over, that when U step in"

So DO I want to be in the rebound or not? You're flip-flopping between ideologies. :S

[geeksquadgreg]

no if the rebound has happened and its over and she is normal again that is when you step in not, don't be a rebound unless all you want is sex then a relationship

[Maqtka]

Even when she has a clear mind that does not guarantee you she's going to choose you. So what's the waiting for? Look around you, there are plenty fish in the ocean. There's so much more than sitting there and waiting for her to shake. Not to mention it might take months or sometimes years. I know, cos I've been there. When you've been hurt you don't wan't to deal with men for a long time. It took me a year to shake off the memories and get involved in a new relationship.

[william14007]

there may be plenty of fish in the ocean but none like her and i cant live without her we have talked about dating but idk what it is she does like me enough and we have made a blood pact ot never lose friendship NO MATTER WHAT please email me and can someone just give me an answer, i feel so lost and cant focus without her in my arms which she never has been yet... please can someone help me please maqtka.......please help me..... i feel i can never have her and thats what hurts the most

[invista360]

The guy should:

Build more sexual value and be an emotional challenge. That is what it takes to move out of that zone.

Id even say, "Im not interested in being your "friend" Because a friend is for life. Do you honestly think she will be a "friend" when she is screwing the next guy and the new guy is wondering about the old "friend" and why he is calling her? I dont think so.

[JinXuanJun]

plz tell me more about it.