My did drugs. He threatned the life of me and my mom. My mom divorced him and I have never met him before. All my friends have a dad and a mom. I never had a dad and I have such big trust issues. I just finished thinking of my dad and crying. You just seem mad at your parent. Don't you ever feel sad and cry? That is the only thing I do. I am only 12, my mom is going through trouble right now and just i hate life right now. I don't know how you you just don't have many emotion on the subject
(contiuned). My sister had to pay for her half of the utilities and she talks about her like a dog. Her room smells like bar everyday and my children have to smell this and he's taking a lot of meds. I'm taking it one day at a time. My mother has been to AA and detox so she knows what to do but its her choice. A sad choice but I have to learn that there is nothing I can do even thou I want to. I wish you the best and if something changes with my situation that can help you I'll let you know ciao
My mother is an Alcoholic. After she had a major stroke she was clean for three years then she started again. At first it wasn't a lot but the past Sept 13 she has been drinking everyday nonstop. Me and her roommate together and I have three children. I pray and I talk to my family about it. Everyday I wake up and think is my mother going to wake up today. Just recently she didn't have her money for the utilities and I had no idea and she wanted me to pay for them. Very same situation.
This video hits home so hard that there's no way I could fit it into 500 characters. I'm not going to post a video either because I think it's too personal to put on my channel and my channel isn't really a vlogging type channel anyway. I'm not going to write you a whole long letter in a message either, because I doubt you'll read it because I'm sure you get hundreds a day. Just know...you're not alone. There are no words to describe what it's like to be in the shoes of someone like us.
@jordandeck you're made because you know I'm right.
This cunt is a talentless attention seeking faggot who is a bad stereotype of homosexual people.
This faggot deserves the negative attention, perhaps its the only solution for these late gen y faggots to realise that substance is more important than adoration.
@infidelity89 Go fuck yourself. God put humans on the earth TO LOVE , not to hate. That's why people consider yourself a close minded asshole. And people don't just aids from sex, they get it from needs, from cute etc... If you think God loves you becuase you bash other people, think again, because God loves chris for being who he is, but God hates you for hating. Be gone demon !
What helped me deal with it was the fact that I could not ruin my own life trying to help someone who did not want help. I had to just pray and let it be because it was dragging me down too. You have to try to be strong, but not hold the burden of their actions. You have to say You love them, but that they can not change unless they want to change.
I know exactly what thats like, I had a parent who used to pawn my stuff and say that they let a friend borrow it and stuff. And would lie about taking my Christmas money and birthday money. When I wasnt stupid, I knew. I used to be so mad when they wouldnt stop and quit complaining about how bad shit was when they were the ones making that way.
@pipercallum Me too going thru the same thing now with my husband. I think he pawned my earrings and wedding ring, took our daughter's 1st birthday money that was supposed to go towards her 1 year old pics, it's just so hard right now. :(
I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes when I give money to that "parent". I feel like I'm enabling them.....So I just stop answering the phone and go through my brother to see if their okay.....=(..............Tough love!!!!
@tewahawke Who taught your retarded ass how to type? I'm actually tired of trying to read that shit you wrote. It's as ugly as your pic.
I'm considered rather good-looking. Most good-looking people think Crocker is fucking hideous & ugly people love him. You like him & you're ugly... so, that theory is so proven! It's all a part of that "beauty is on the inside, not outside" crap. I totally disagree.
However, I can tell you believe it. You must be BEAUTIFUL as FUCK on the inside! HAHAHA!
@OneOneATymail well if you cant read your either dumb or old its called text writing dumb bitch i aint ugly dumb arse and you can try to hit me with those type of comments but um you cant prove shit on how you look because you aint got no photo and people who dont have a photo on thier profile and hate on others are just lowlife scum and are proberly uglyer then the piece of shit that comes out of ma ass
Even though a lot of your videos were idiotic, I think I've seen a couple serious sides of you. And people are being stupid saying "I wouldn't care if you died" etc, but they have never experienced it. And this is a serious issue. My parents are drug addicts and alcoholics. That sincerely doesn't mean god punished them. And a lot of you are fools. Chris was speaking the truth from 5:09 to 5:15.
I have a brother who's been an alcoholic for years. He's put my dad through a literal hell and one thing I've learned is that they are very manipulative and abusive people. They will steal your last dollar if they think they can get away with it and lie to you all day long about it.
Bottom line is that you can't help people like that because they don't think they have a problem. It's sad but true. All you can hope is one day...they turn their life around, but they got to want it.
WHAT THE FUCK i love how guys think there all high and mighty because they can call different people rude things first of all a FUCK those people out there that call people fags!. and your sitting at ur damn computer proably looking like a SHIT PIE and saying whatever the fuck you want cuz it makes you feel good. for all the guys out there and girls but mostly guys that do that fuck you cuz your the real fag watching these videos and thinking hmmm im going to wright something rude luv u chris
LOL! Your parents are trashy drug addicts! That's what your punishment from god is. It's a downside of fake-cowards who have nothing to offer the world, yet WANT fame so bad, they'll actually hide behind a camera and act STUPID. You use society's unfamiliarity in witnessing craziness to become famous, thinking people LIKE you, when they're actually (a deer in headlights)! It's fun to watch someone CRAZY and hard to look away! If you died tomorrow, people would be over you in 2.5 minutes.
@OneOneATymail Addiction is never funny! What you said was terrible! To say a parent's addiction is the child's fault is absolutely twisted! You have some serious issues! And WTF does dying tomorrow have to do with jacksh*t? Are you special? Is you're name going to be timeless when you go? For some reason I doubt it.
@OneOneATymail you must be a fucking low life if you have to hate on someone you fucked up dickhead if you died no 1 would proberly realise your fucked up hating ass is missing bitch i hate fucking haters
@OneOneATymail haha i aint fat dick least i gotta pic on my profile you dont yall proberly 1 ugly motha fucka hhahha yeah i might be hating on you but you deserve iht being as you just try to bully people because they are a different sexuality im sure your either just an insecure person or dam you got no sex life at all you dumb fucker
I already respected you for being brave enough to try the things the rest of us don't have the balls to do. But knowing what you have to deal with, I couldn't be prouder of being your fan. I sincerely hope that those who looked down on you will see this and realize you are a human being just like the rest of us. Keep strong, hun.
I have so much respect for you for being so positive about your parents situation! I can relate to what you are saying. I have a parent that struggles with addiction too. I also can't believe some of the comments on this video (Joshlcross..) That comment is just disgustng. Chris you are beautiful. I love your eyes! Gorgeous! =o)
Fucking girl looking fag. Do the world a favor and slit your wrists. Your drug addled parent gives you motivation to be depressed so just pull the trigger.
you're an asshole. just because he's gay doesn't mean he deserves that. what so that makes you a better person just because you don't do drugs? well news flash you can still be an asshole sober
i'm sorry you have to live with that Chris. but i think you are seeing things very clearly, you cannot save someone on drugs all by yourself. users are manupulative and so self centered. i am sad that you have a parent thats a user. must be very hard.
You are amazing. I have so much respect for you. The only thing i can say is this quote i found: Be strong now because things will get better, it might be stormy now but it can't rain forever.
I'm thinking that its your mother. I can't even begin to describe to you how much of a similar relationship I have with my mom. Well I won't go all into detail, but I do have to say my respect for you just went wayy up. Not to say that you give a fuck anyways, but hey maybe you do?
Chris you are such a strong person and I thank you for being here on youtube and doing these videos especially this one because I'm 12 and I am going through the same thing you are I thank you for being courageous and putting this video up because it shows me that I'm not the only one. and as of ur other videos you have really sensible opinions and your funny ! I like the way you think a lot and i love your vids so please keep em comin. Kisses and lip gloss lol
maybe you should be the better person and just keep showing them tough love and just remember that they are the only one that are responseable for there on action...if i was in your shoe i would be the better person and remember that they brong you into the world and parents are going to do and say things you dont agree with but remember you shouldnt judge them....
I used to be a drug addict, not an extreme one but I was also an alcoholic for a while, But you're totally right because when a person is on drugs they can't make good decisions anymore and they don't realize what they are doing to others around them.
my parents r both junkies and alcoholics but i know they wont ever change i wish parents got that shyt i mean ive had 2 live with this bullshit for 17 years now and i know they dont wanna help themselves and it kills me i wish they would get help at rehab or somethin...
One more thing, don't let your frustration overcome the love you must have for your parent. I comment your videos a lot, hopefully you remember me. If not, it's all right. I'll keep watching either way. I love you, Chris Crocker. (:
When the phone rings, answer it. As you said, you will regret not answering if something had happened to them. They probably need you. It's hard to parent your own parent. My story is similar to yours, but my parents have been abusive. In all ways. The detaching part is definitely, definitely the biggest issue. I completely understand your struggle, and I wish you luck.
When the phone rings, answer it. As you said, you will regret not answering if something had happened to them. They probably need you. It's hard to parent your own parent. My story is similar to yours, but my parents have been abusive. In all ways. The detaching part is definitely, definitely the biggest issue. I completely understand your struggle, and I wish you luck.
This is something I've been dealing with... pretty much all my life. It's very difficult. It's a daily struggle. All you can really do, is make sure you're patient and understanding with them. Accept their ugly truth. They WILL lie to you if they think they'll get shit on for screwing up.
if u were really trying to stop them its easy stop complaining about a bunch of shit ur becoming a girl complaining about everything u attention hungry butthole
i also have a parent who uses drugs and there is nothing u can really do about it, nomatter how hard u try if they want to do it they will weather u like it or not
everything you say chris is pure poetry and you're life is so free and so few peple can say that yore parant are hert and all you can do is to cofort them
Chris, I wish all the best on this situation, I am sorry... Pray, be strong, protect yourself ... The only thing I know I love you guy and admire you!!
I have a lot of experience in this area. I like to call it second hand addiction -- just like when a smoker blows their smoke in your face, you're baring the burdens of someone's addiction. My father died of an overdose almost 16 years ago and my brother overdosed 3 years... today. My mom is still struggling with hers. You need to learn that you cannot save someone who doesn't want to be saved. Look into NA -- it works if you work it. If you'd like to talk further about it... let me know
i know exactly what ur going thru. after life long of dealing with drug addict parents they finally got themselves together. i had gave up on them because they had always went in rehab and never made it thru. and you are rite about u cant help somebody until they wanna help themselves. they had to make the choice. they finally made it thru rehab and they key is God. seriously. they didnt change until they got Got. and always pray!!
My entire life, from what I've been told, he's always used but would go for long periods of time without using so I never understood what was going on since I was so young at the times. Its been over a year now and he's been clean. He is a good father and I love him so much but I know now and fear that he's gonna do it again.
It also helped him realize that what he was doing was tearing his family apart and when he saw that he couldn't hide it from me, since I was 16 at the time and old enough to realize something wasn't right.
Drug abusers are definitely not themselves when they're using. Sometimes they're physically abusive, mentally abusive, and sometimes both. My dad is a drug addict. My mom told me a few years ago but I was in denile about it up until Dec. 2008. It tore me up inside to see my dad the way he was, constantly mentally abusing me and my stepmom. But I gave him tough love and left when I needed to because I felt like I was gonna have a panick attack.
I have someone in my immediate family who's addicted to drugs and everything you said is exactly how I feel every day of my life. I hate going through all this, but if you don't give though love, they'll never get sober or realize their addiction and you'll just keep wondering if this is last conversation you'll ever have with them. Thanks for putting this video up. I feel like it's such a huge epidemic that people need to know more about.
You just did the best post of your internet career. I am also a drunk and a drug abuser, pills are my specialty, I am sober now fo3 years. You are right to feel bad and unfortunatly there is nothing you can do about this problem, Tough love is an important issue for you at this time.
Dont give anyone $5 for food, take them and buy them food, dont give them money for anythign go get the item.
Then you know you are not the one that paid for anything they are on.
its ok, sweetie, i kno people who have been through terrible things. youre not alone. it will be ok just as long as you dont do anything like this. stay strong hun!
My mom Dosn`t do drugs but she is messed up because she did them in the passed so I just Think to myself that She`s not going to change if she don`t want to so you sould just worry about yourself and love them even though they are in a bad state at the moment. :) Love ya Chris and all your Videos
Stay strong sweetheart, I've been through it too. Unfortunately things never worked out for me, but I hope things will change for the better for you. I'm praying for you doll.
this is kind of late but chris number 1 your so pretty I wanna tell you that... I am gay and I have drug addicted parents its hard to stay strong and to know that they could be dead on the street... I try my best to do everything I can but it is hard... this video spoke to me... and I needed to comment... thanks for making me smile when I need it most.. and if you would comment me back or message me or something that would make my day.. anyway I am going to go thanks and I LOVE YOU
everyone who hates on chris in the comments, then if u dont like him, stop watching his videos! i happen to fucking love him and what he preaches! so go fuck off u losers!
I can't imagine what you are going through on that subject but on a much lighter note, I've discovered your videos yesterday and I'm now addicted to you!
You are so different that what they showed on TV (I'm from France, yeah, your "leave B. alone" video came to us).
Well, you know what the media made you look like, and they were wrong.
So thank you for your very intellignet and pleasant videos and I wish you and you family a lot of courage on the topic of that video.
Is that really all you could come up with? Faggot? Well hun let me tell you some thing, while you took the time to sit there and call this magnifisint man a "Faggot" you wasted 10 seconds of your life while also giving his video another view to add to his popularity. So thank you for giving him your time. So just keep on bullshiting yourself into thinking your better BREEDER.
chris i know what your talking about. my brother has done drugs almost my whole life and its is really hard a scary to know that your family member or anyone could ruin there whole life thrw drugs,i know one thing is that drugs will never ever take over my life and i will become a stronger person becuase of my brothers mistakes in life. i want to tell you chriss that you are one of the most braves and amzing person i have ever seen., you have alot of guts and i love that about you. ROCK ON (:
All my life I have had to deal with family members abusing drugs. It has caused major problems, depression, anxiety, shame in my life. I was put off on my grandparents. they raised me and I AM so thankful for them. my mother is now living with us again and we're all havin to deal with the burden of her drug problem again. its so deep and theres so much more to say jus know i know what your goin through and i feel for you! <3
my brother was a heroin addict since the age of 18 to 33. he was on methadone trying to get himself sorted out and i fell out with alot of my family defending him because they doubted him and stuck with the fact that drug addicts dont change etc cut a long story short, he was found dead 3 month ago, 13th oct 09 overdosed on "street methadone" and i feel like such an idiot for having that trust in him. maybe i should of done more then i already did to help him..i dont know :(
I also think ur rite u know all these people saying your wrong no that's not how it is probably just doesn't want to admit that their parents died from drugs and are too embareced
Let your parent know you love them but if they don't stop what they are doing you can't help them anymore, you can't enable them. Let them know if they want help you will always be their for them, but otherwise you can't give them money or talk to them as much. Just give them a little tough love.
I have so many friends with parent issues becaus of alcohol or drugs, it makes me sick. It sucks how someone can come into a world full of people, and the two you were supposed to depend on (parents)can''t even take their hands off the bottle to take care of you. (Not you specifically Chris, just in general) I hate it.
i get you .. my parents, both of them, were drunks, they lie to themselves, they were always fighting. for a longtime, and they finally stopped 2 years ago. The way i dealed with it really, i couldn't really do much, i was afraid, and sad, and thought that that would never change. I would just, stay in my room all day, i never really knew what to do. but i'm glad it's over now.
I'm dealing with the same thing right now in my life actually...with my mom. One of my friends said to report her to the authorities n I was like, I cannot do that 1st of all I love her n she was like why? She doesnt love u n I was like how can u say tht, she does but she also like the drugs. I still dnt know what I should do n I have actually become clinically depressed bcause of all the stress I have had to go hrough being the parent of my parent. Its soooo hard n I just dnt know what to do...
@DarkPureAndTimVideos Do you even know what its like dealing with someone who does drugs? You can't just get them help if they're not willing to help themselves, it doesn't work that way.
I lived through the same thing, Chris, with my Dad. He finally couldn't take it anymore and blew his brains out. There's nothing you can do for a parent that does not want to help themselves. NOTHING. Trust me. I tried.
Thankyou for doing this Chris. my mother was an addict and I still loved her so much it was very hard. She passed 3yrs ago from it. I've watched a zillion of your vids, even did years ago. <3
i can now understand kind of why you are the way you are because when i would watch your videos i would think wow your really heartless and the things you say are stupid.... but now i have realised that you had it pretty tough while you were growing up.
I can relate to this so much... I'm 14 and I've been dealing with it my entire life... I'm to a point where I just wish they'd just finally die. .. I don't love them. One of the earliest memories I have is sleeping outside in the backyard because my parents were drunk and fighting (knives, guns, ect...) I was 4 the first time I seriously thought about killing myself... My parents don't realize what they're doing to me... I don't care anymore...
Hey, just wanted to say keep strong and remember that you have the power to use your experiences to help others going through the same thing. Bad times are never wasted if we use them to empower ourselves and others. You can transform hate into love. That makes you very special <3
i went thru that situation and im only 14. my mom is getting help finally. she was doing very bad things even when i was with them just in the next room. and now i live with my grandma. i see my mom either 1 time a week or 1 time every 2 weeks. i am now very mature for my age. well at least thats what i hear. it is very hard. i still cry about it. im getting over this fact that my mom is not really the same mom i once knew. i am getting to know what adults go thru. im just glad that my mom is ok
when i was little like 8 or so .. my mum had a ebusiv relation ship with a man who fortunatly isent my dad thy have split now but when thy were to gether he was on drugs witch made him violent deppressed and parronoyede .. my mum was a alchoholik and was very violent i used to sit at the top of the stears watching them fight like attack eatchother with glasses pots and pans ..then thy eventually split but back then it was so dificult for me to understand wt ws happening good luck chris xxxxxxxx
ive come to realize that you can only help yourself. and if you dont take care of yourself, noone else will. im 13 years old and i "parent" my mother on a daily baisis. even tho she isnt a drug "addict" she still makes very inappropriate/ stupid choices. i do everything i can to make her see that the choices she makes are going to hurt her in the end.. So, hang in there Chris. and try not to dwell or worry on/about the things you can't change
hi chris, i just want to say thank you alot for this vid. i'm going through this very same thing with the both of my parents, i'm 17 and i have only ever lived with my grandmother too. i try to help my parents and im sick of the fact that they throw it back in my face. im in 2 mins like u chris, i love my parents i just want them to get 'better', & i've told them if they ever want respect from me, they need to respect themselves (getting of the drugs). thanks chris, hope life turns out well ♥
I've always wondered why you were raised by your grandmother instead of your parents. I'm pretty sure you're talking about your mother, because when Britney lost custody you mentioned your mother lost custody of you for a few years, but eventually got it back.
, a lot of kids "parent" their parents even when they are NOT on drugs, I have a friend who is mentally older than her mother and I swear, I just want to slap her mom and put her ass in time out every once in a while! Good luck dealing w/your druggie parent.. the only thing you can do is tell them how you feel and hope that they make the right choices later.. Just be thankful that it's not YOU with the drug problem and be happy you are grown and not a helpless child w/a strung out parent
Thanks so much Chris, you inspire me with everything u say. You are truely an inspiration to everyone and more people in this world shud b like you (:. love you !
I know he didnt mean it, but the pills controlled his whole entire life. I was only 9 when he died, but still till this day, it has an affect on me . Becuase my experiance with my father adn my relationship with my father was cut short because of the drugs he was abusing. i know he didnt mean for it to happen, but i never really got to spend time with the real person he was without the drugs being in in system. I dont even know what he was like. He was so good at hiding when he was high with me.
My father was a pill popper, and didnt care whether me my sister or my brother ate or had anywhere 2 live. While he had food, and he had money bcuz he got checks from the mail cuz he was disabled cuz he got hurt on the job.. and he had food stamps. He was supposed 2 give my mother child support, but hardly did it. It was so bad that my mother had no food 2 give us, and we once had no electricity. He loved us, but the drugs became too much. It runied his life, and now his life is gone.
wow, such hard lessons, Chris. I'm feeling yah. God bless.
jacero10 2 weeks ago
My did drugs. He threatned the life of me and my mom. My mom divorced him and I have never met him before. All my friends have a dad and a mom. I never had a dad and I have such big trust issues. I just finished thinking of my dad and crying. You just seem mad at your parent. Don't you ever feel sad and cry? That is the only thing I do. I am only 12, my mom is going through trouble right now and just i hate life right now. I don't know how you you just don't have many emotion on the subject
gigglygaby9 2 weeks ago
Chris what drugs are your parents on ?
juliasweet36 2 weeks ago in playlist Chris Crocker
(contiuned). My sister had to pay for her half of the utilities and she talks about her like a dog. Her room smells like bar everyday and my children have to smell this and he's taking a lot of meds. I'm taking it one day at a time. My mother has been to AA and detox so she knows what to do but its her choice. A sad choice but I have to learn that there is nothing I can do even thou I want to. I wish you the best and if something changes with my situation that can help you I'll let you know ciao
FabJennie 2 months ago
My mother is an Alcoholic. After she had a major stroke she was clean for three years then she started again. At first it wasn't a lot but the past Sept 13 she has been drinking everyday nonstop. Me and her roommate together and I have three children. I pray and I talk to my family about it. Everyday I wake up and think is my mother going to wake up today. Just recently she didn't have her money for the utilities and I had no idea and she wanted me to pay for them. Very same situation.
FabJennie 2 months ago
@ukpkmkk nicely said god bless u
ShaneDawsonxoFRED 5 months ago
so, what's your political party again?
Jeffersen08 8 months ago
This video hits home so hard that there's no way I could fit it into 500 characters. I'm not going to post a video either because I think it's too personal to put on my channel and my channel isn't really a vlogging type channel anyway. I'm not going to write you a whole long letter in a message either, because I doubt you'll read it because I'm sure you get hundreds a day. Just know...you're not alone. There are no words to describe what it's like to be in the shoes of someone like us.
Rinster17 8 months ago
ily chris
238jess 8 months ago
@jordandeck you're made because you know I'm right.
This cunt is a talentless attention seeking faggot who is a bad stereotype of homosexual people.
This faggot deserves the negative attention, perhaps its the only solution for these late gen y faggots to realise that substance is more important than adoration.
infidelity89 9 months ago
@infidelity89 if you talking about Chris, then fuck you!
mclajnuus07 9 months ago
you have other issues to worry about.....like the fact you're a fucking queer.
dudes aren't meant to fuck other men...they're meant to fuck women.
that's why people bash you... before fucking gays spread aids.
infidelity89 10 months ago
@infidelity89 your slow mindedness makes me laugh.
Look at the whores that wander streets having sex for money, but you talk about gay people spreading aids.
You need to do a little research.
jordanndeck 9 months ago
@infidelity89 Go fuck yourself. God put humans on the earth TO LOVE , not to hate. That's why people consider yourself a close minded asshole. And people don't just aids from sex, they get it from needs, from cute etc... If you think God loves you becuase you bash other people, think again, because God loves chris for being who he is, but God hates you for hating. Be gone demon !
ukpkmkk 7 months ago 2
What helped me deal with it was the fact that I could not ruin my own life trying to help someone who did not want help. I had to just pray and let it be because it was dragging me down too. You have to try to be strong, but not hold the burden of their actions. You have to say You love them, but that they can not change unless they want to change.
pipercallum 11 months ago
I know exactly what thats like, I had a parent who used to pawn my stuff and say that they let a friend borrow it and stuff. And would lie about taking my Christmas money and birthday money. When I wasnt stupid, I knew. I used to be so mad when they wouldnt stop and quit complaining about how bad shit was when they were the ones making that way.
pipercallum 11 months ago
@pipercallum Me too going thru the same thing now with my husband. I think he pawned my earrings and wedding ring, took our daughter's 1st birthday money that was supposed to go towards her 1 year old pics, it's just so hard right now. :(
OrganicMommyof2 4 months ago
i cant relate to u chris. my mom used to have a drug problem.
chicka123756 1 year ago
I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes when I give money to that "parent". I feel like I'm enabling them.....So I just stop answering the phone and go through my brother to see if their okay.....=(..............Tough love!!!!
CAgurlSummer86 1 year ago
yah my parent is an alcohlic its hard to deal with it but your right you cant help them if they dont want to help them selves
ChelsiGalivanMartel 1 year ago
Anyone has the right to hate on someone who does drugs. BECAUSE DRUGS ARE FUCKING RETARDED. Chris has a point. A BIG ONE.
stinab00x3 1 year ago 4
I kno w how u feel. I just don't answer the phone sometimes.
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true. I feeel the exact same way about my 'parent'.
JamesJurrasic 1 year ago
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true. I feeel te exact same way about my 'parent'.
JamesJurrasic 1 year ago
@tewahawke Who taught your retarded ass how to type? I'm actually tired of trying to read that shit you wrote. It's as ugly as your pic.
I'm considered rather good-looking. Most good-looking people think Crocker is fucking hideous & ugly people love him. You like him & you're ugly... so, that theory is so proven! It's all a part of that "beauty is on the inside, not outside" crap. I totally disagree.
However, I can tell you believe it. You must be BEAUTIFUL as FUCK on the inside! HAHAHA!
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@OneOneATymail well if you cant read your either dumb or old its called text writing dumb bitch i aint ugly dumb arse and you can try to hit me with those type of comments but um you cant prove shit on how you look because you aint got no photo and people who dont have a photo on thier profile and hate on others are just lowlife scum and are proberly uglyer then the piece of shit that comes out of ma ass
tewahawke 1 year ago
WTF!
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EvylFlash 1 year ago
Even though a lot of your videos were idiotic, I think I've seen a couple serious sides of you. And people are being stupid saying "I wouldn't care if you died" etc, but they have never experienced it. And this is a serious issue. My parents are drug addicts and alcoholics. That sincerely doesn't mean god punished them. And a lot of you are fools. Chris was speaking the truth from 5:09 to 5:15.
SittingOnFencess 1 year ago
OKAY.. NOW i understand!!!!
kathie195 1 year ago
I have a brother who's been an alcoholic for years. He's put my dad through a literal hell and one thing I've learned is that they are very manipulative and abusive people. They will steal your last dollar if they think they can get away with it and lie to you all day long about it.
Bottom line is that you can't help people like that because they don't think they have a problem. It's sad but true. All you can hope is one day...they turn their life around, but they got to want it.
EvilShadow76 1 year ago
dude that sucks
tarjay35 1 year ago
WHAT THE FUCK i love how guys think there all high and mighty because they can call different people rude things first of all a FUCK those people out there that call people fags!. and your sitting at ur damn computer proably looking like a SHIT PIE and saying whatever the fuck you want cuz it makes you feel good. for all the guys out there and girls but mostly guys that do that fuck you cuz your the real fag watching these videos and thinking hmmm im going to wright something rude luv u chris
AshleyMsHumanBarbie 1 year ago
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LOL! Your parents are trashy drug addicts! That's what your punishment from god is. It's a downside of fake-cowards who have nothing to offer the world, yet WANT fame so bad, they'll actually hide behind a camera and act STUPID. You use society's unfamiliarity in witnessing craziness to become famous, thinking people LIKE you, when they're actually (a deer in headlights)! It's fun to watch someone CRAZY and hard to look away! If you died tomorrow, people would be over you in 2.5 minutes.
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07misshizhap 1 year ago
@OneOneATymail Addiction is never funny! What you said was terrible! To say a parent's addiction is the child's fault is absolutely twisted! You have some serious issues! And WTF does dying tomorrow have to do with jacksh*t? Are you special? Is you're name going to be timeless when you go? For some reason I doubt it.
07misshizhap 1 year ago
@OneOneATymail
you're a piece of shit
tarjay35 1 year ago
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OneOneATymail 1 year ago
@tarjay35 Yeah... but you love it.
OneOneATymail 1 year ago
@OneOneATymail Love what?
tarjay35 1 year ago
@tarjay35 It
OneOneATymail 1 year ago
@OneOneATymail you must be a fucking low life if you have to hate on someone you fucked up dickhead if you died no 1 would proberly realise your fucked up hating ass is missing bitch i hate fucking haters
tewahawke 1 year ago
@tewahawke I hate ugly (fat) women who have their faces up too close to the camera on their profile pics... who obviously hate too Wow.... UUUUUUGLY.
Oops, sorry.
OneOneATymail 1 year ago
@OneOneATymail haha i aint fat dick least i gotta pic on my profile you dont yall proberly 1 ugly motha fucka hhahha yeah i might be hating on you but you deserve iht being as you just try to bully people because they are a different sexuality im sure your either just an insecure person or dam you got no sex life at all you dumb fucker
tewahawke 1 year ago
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OneOneATymail 1 year ago
you were really pretty in this video =D you rock
dogdopotslot 1 year ago
your not alone no worries :D
thebigpurpledot 1 year ago
I already respected you for being brave enough to try the things the rest of us don't have the balls to do. But knowing what you have to deal with, I couldn't be prouder of being your fan. I sincerely hope that those who looked down on you will see this and realize you are a human being just like the rest of us. Keep strong, hun.
altoecho 1 year ago
I have so much respect for you for being so positive about your parents situation! I can relate to what you are saying. I have a parent that struggles with addiction too. I also can't believe some of the comments on this video (Joshlcross..) That comment is just disgustng. Chris you are beautiful. I love your eyes! Gorgeous! =o)
ihatewinter85 1 year ago
Fucking girl looking fag. Do the world a favor and slit your wrists. Your drug addled parent gives you motivation to be depressed so just pull the trigger.
JoshLCross 1 year ago
@JoshLCross That is fucked up, I'm not even a fan of him but no one deserves to have shit said to or about them like that.
FinalXXXMistake 1 year ago
@JoshLCross Thumbs up 400,000,000,000 times!
OneOneATymail 1 year ago
@OneOneATymail
you're an asshole. just because he's gay doesn't mean he deserves that. what so that makes you a better person just because you don't do drugs? well news flash you can still be an asshole sober
tarjay35 1 year ago
@tarjay35 I agree that I can be a sober asshole. Point taken! Good call! However, that's hardly news.
OneOneATymail 1 year ago
How old are u?
medirgis 1 year ago
i'm sorry you have to live with that Chris. but i think you are seeing things very clearly, you cannot save someone on drugs all by yourself. users are manupulative and so self centered. i am sad that you have a parent thats a user. must be very hard.
jodelle6 1 year ago
my grandfather DIED because he overdosed on drugs and achole IM GLAD YOU MADE THIS VID THANK YOU
thebiebertastic 1 year ago
I'm so glad you made this video. I have the same problems :/
ragtimegals 1 year ago
You are amazing. I have so much respect for you. The only thing i can say is this quote i found: Be strong now because things will get better, it might be stormy now but it can't rain forever.
comendancewithme 1 year ago
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But when you lie to your self, youre SCRE- And my parent is lying.. Lol
yourdefense23154 1 year ago
Your eyes are soo pretty!! You go, girl!
SicklySara 1 year ago
I'm thinking that its your mother. I can't even begin to describe to you how much of a similar relationship I have with my mom. Well I won't go all into detail, but I do have to say my respect for you just went wayy up. Not to say that you give a fuck anyways, but hey maybe you do?
Swimelychew 1 year ago
Chris you are such a strong person and I thank you for being here on youtube and doing these videos especially this one because I'm 12 and I am going through the same thing you are I thank you for being courageous and putting this video up because it shows me that I'm not the only one. and as of ur other videos you have really sensible opinions and your funny ! I like the way you think a lot and i love your vids so please keep em comin. Kisses and lip gloss lol
ellerob97 1 year ago
i can totally relate... my favorite video of you :)
jessjohnson16 1 year ago
WORD.
BlondeBarbieBombshel 1 year ago
You just have to love some people from distance.
DevilJrocker 1 year ago 13
ya i went through this with my mom before....still am actually :(
christina1800 1 year ago
maybe you should be the better person and just keep showing them tough love and just remember that they are the only one that are responseable for there on action...if i was in your shoe i would be the better person and remember that they brong you into the world and parents are going to do and say things you dont agree with but remember you shouldnt judge them....
karstenjade2004 1 year ago
What the fuck, fucking transgender bitch.
PuppyXz 1 year ago
u are not alone
candy541 1 year ago 2
why am i watching this shit????????
NateMerchell 1 year ago
I used to be a drug addict, not an extreme one but I was also an alcoholic for a while, But you're totally right because when a person is on drugs they can't make good decisions anymore and they don't realize what they are doing to others around them.
EK069 1 year ago
my parents r both junkies and alcoholics but i know they wont ever change i wish parents got that shyt i mean ive had 2 live with this bullshit for 17 years now and i know they dont wanna help themselves and it kills me i wish they would get help at rehab or somethin...
viciousandsexi 1 year ago
that parent probably does drugs so that can deal with your ass
bandicoot802 1 year ago
One more thing, don't let your frustration overcome the love you must have for your parent. I comment your videos a lot, hopefully you remember me. If not, it's all right. I'll keep watching either way. I love you, Chris Crocker. (:
ErikaaLynnx 1 year ago
When the phone rings, answer it. As you said, you will regret not answering if something had happened to them. They probably need you. It's hard to parent your own parent. My story is similar to yours, but my parents have been abusive. In all ways. The detaching part is definitely, definitely the biggest issue. I completely understand your struggle, and I wish you luck.
ErikaaLynnx 1 year ago
When the phone rings, answer it. As you said, you will regret not answering if something had happened to them. They probably need you. It's hard to parent your own parent. My story is similar to yours, but my parents have been abusive. In all ways. The detaching part is definitely, definitely the biggest issue. I completely understand your struggle, and I wish you luck.
ErikaaLynnx 1 year ago
Hey Chris. <3
This is something I've been dealing with... pretty much all my life. It's very difficult. It's a daily struggle. All you can really do, is make sure you're patient and understanding with them. Accept their ugly truth. They WILL lie to you if they think they'll get shit on for screwing up.
ErikaaLynnx 1 year ago
if u were really trying to stop them its easy stop complaining about a bunch of shit ur becoming a girl complaining about everything u attention hungry butthole
TravisWard88 1 year ago
i also have a parent who uses drugs and there is nothing u can really do about it, nomatter how hard u try if they want to do it they will weather u like it or not
LasVegasGirl89032 1 year ago 2
the emotional detachment is the hardest part. I think the best step to take is to avoid being that enabler.
My parent is in a very similar situation. I'm forced to deal with these emotions every day, and my parent doesn't deal with any emotion, ever.
Hardest part, watching my younger siblings go through it.
I just don't even know sometimes.
skankytizzle 1 year ago
everything you say chris is pure poetry and you're life is so free and so few peple can say that yore parant are hert and all you can do is to cofort them
rosegrace19 1 year ago
Chris, I wish all the best on this situation, I am sorry... Pray, be strong, protect yourself ... The only thing I know I love you guy and admire you!!
adrianaRobsonCruz 1 year ago
wtf that is a guy
TheKannabisking 1 year ago 2
I have a lot of experience in this area. I like to call it second hand addiction -- just like when a smoker blows their smoke in your face, you're baring the burdens of someone's addiction. My father died of an overdose almost 16 years ago and my brother overdosed 3 years... today. My mom is still struggling with hers. You need to learn that you cannot save someone who doesn't want to be saved. Look into NA -- it works if you work it. If you'd like to talk further about it... let me know
hopeforkate 1 year ago
I totally understand where your coming from. If you need someone to talk to please don't hesitate to message me.
ladysolitary85 1 year ago
i know exactly what ur going thru. after life long of dealing with drug addict parents they finally got themselves together. i had gave up on them because they had always went in rehab and never made it thru. and you are rite about u cant help somebody until they wanna help themselves. they had to make the choice. they finally made it thru rehab and they key is God. seriously. they didnt change until they got Got. and always pray!!
JessGenocide141 1 year ago 2
My entire life, from what I've been told, he's always used but would go for long periods of time without using so I never understood what was going on since I was so young at the times. Its been over a year now and he's been clean. He is a good father and I love him so much but I know now and fear that he's gonna do it again.
blondeballinbabe 1 year ago
It also helped him realize that what he was doing was tearing his family apart and when he saw that he couldn't hide it from me, since I was 16 at the time and old enough to realize something wasn't right.
blondeballinbabe 1 year ago
Drug abusers are definitely not themselves when they're using. Sometimes they're physically abusive, mentally abusive, and sometimes both. My dad is a drug addict. My mom told me a few years ago but I was in denile about it up until Dec. 2008. It tore me up inside to see my dad the way he was, constantly mentally abusing me and my stepmom. But I gave him tough love and left when I needed to because I felt like I was gonna have a panick attack.
blondeballinbabe 1 year ago
crap!! i accidently disliked this video. i ment to press the like button. but you are such a inspiration
liligaga95 1 year ago
I know u posted this a long time
Ago but speaking from experience as
Someone drug free for 9 years at a point
It is no longer a choice and nothing feels
Worse than lying to the ones you love
With that being said the parent won't stop
Until they are ready all you can do is not abandon them and do the best you can
Without enabling them I hope the situation
Has improved for u both I really do
elfpuck69V2 1 year ago
i pieced it all together and i know which parent it is and im really sorry girl. i wish i could help.
misty1147 1 year ago
five united states dollar= 500 pennies. wow is it that hard to get?
coolkill31 1 year ago
go fly to pluto then freeze ur dick there !
sophia668 1 year ago
I have someone in my immediate family who's addicted to drugs and everything you said is exactly how I feel every day of my life. I hate going through all this, but if you don't give though love, they'll never get sober or realize their addiction and you'll just keep wondering if this is last conversation you'll ever have with them. Thanks for putting this video up. I feel like it's such a huge epidemic that people need to know more about.
MexiJessi 1 year ago
as Artie from Glee says, preach! im going through this too..
your not alone, dont worry! <3 youu!:)
zphotofaye 1 year ago 18
Right on mah sister! I'm going through this too, its so hard.. Stay strong
annathewe 1 year ago
You just did the best post of your internet career. I am also a drunk and a drug abuser, pills are my specialty, I am sober now fo3 years. You are right to feel bad and unfortunatly there is nothing you can do about this problem, Tough love is an important issue for you at this time.
Dont give anyone $5 for food, take them and buy them food, dont give them money for anythign go get the item.
Then you know you are not the one that paid for anything they are on.
You will sleep better
mhguy77 1 year ago 2
its ok, sweetie, i kno people who have been through terrible things. youre not alone. it will be ok just as long as you dont do anything like this. stay strong hun!
Morphine175 1 year ago
My mom Dosn`t do drugs but she is messed up because she did them in the passed so I just Think to myself that She`s not going to change if she don`t want to so you sould just worry about yourself and love them even though they are in a bad state at the moment. :) Love ya Chris and all your Videos
MakeupVictum 1 year ago
You should have your own talk show! Haha. (:
maiahisawesome 1 year ago
Hey. I can relate. You're right that you must detach yourself. I think another piece of advice would be to be non judgmental. Love you Chris XOXXO
elysssa654321 1 year ago
he is pretty lol
VictoriaaXoXoX 1 year ago
Stay strong sweetheart, I've been through it too. Unfortunately things never worked out for me, but I hope things will change for the better for you. I'm praying for you doll.
UneTragedieBelle 1 year ago
this is kind of late but chris number 1 your so pretty I wanna tell you that... I am gay and I have drug addicted parents its hard to stay strong and to know that they could be dead on the street... I try my best to do everything I can but it is hard... this video spoke to me... and I needed to comment... thanks for making me smile when I need it most.. and if you would comment me back or message me or something that would make my day.. anyway I am going to go thanks and I LOVE YOU
ohmyitscody1 1 year ago
Thanks for raising awareness and sharing your story with us. Keep it up!
RecoveryNow 1 year ago
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everyone who hates on chris in the comments, then if u dont like him, stop watching his videos! i happen to fucking love him and what he preaches! so go fuck off u losers!
kaoxoxo 2 years ago
Tough love never work on drug addicts.
MoonSideMKDS 2 years ago
hmm... I have alot of empathy for you and can feel for you.
MoonSideMKDS 2 years ago
i hope everything works out I am going through similar things in my life and I hate to see others struggling with this I will pray for you!
missbkales 2 years ago
Hello,
I can't imagine what you are going through on that subject but on a much lighter note, I've discovered your videos yesterday and I'm now addicted to you!
You are so different that what they showed on TV (I'm from France, yeah, your "leave B. alone" video came to us).
Well, you know what the media made you look like, and they were wrong.
So thank you for your very intellignet and pleasant videos and I wish you and you family a lot of courage on the topic of that video.
shakesgirll 2 years ago
lady gaga a man
maxka7amsut 2 years ago
FAGGOT
IamFreeRu 2 years ago
Is that really all you could come up with? Faggot? Well hun let me tell you some thing, while you took the time to sit there and call this magnifisint man a "Faggot" you wasted 10 seconds of your life while also giving his video another view to add to his popularity. So thank you for giving him your time. So just keep on bullshiting yourself into thinking your better BREEDER.
JoshPJ 2 years ago
Excellent video, Chris. I lost both of mine suicide. I hope you live forever.
Malatesa 2 years ago
chris i know what your talking about. my brother has done drugs almost my whole life and its is really hard a scary to know that your family member or anyone could ruin there whole life thrw drugs,i know one thing is that drugs will never ever take over my life and i will become a stronger person becuase of my brothers mistakes in life. i want to tell you chriss that you are one of the most braves and amzing person i have ever seen., you have alot of guts and i love that about you. ROCK ON (:
sexxiemmi205 2 years ago
All my life I have had to deal with family members abusing drugs. It has caused major problems, depression, anxiety, shame in my life. I was put off on my grandparents. they raised me and I AM so thankful for them. my mother is now living with us again and we're all havin to deal with the burden of her drug problem again. its so deep and theres so much more to say jus know i know what your goin through and i feel for you! <3
tabatha5252 2 years ago
who cares who it was obviously it was something that was supposed to be kept private whats the point in guessing
anavarac 2 years ago
its your dad- you said HIMself
XDlizzXD 2 years ago
Drugs in parents...
It really sucks being the parent of your parents even more when your 15 and they been in there for many many years.
cute4neko 2 years ago
it was ur dad
lilgator07 2 years ago
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lilgator07 2 years ago
I THINK IT WAS YOUR MOM
Thefashionlyfe 2 years ago
I relate soo much.
I have so much respect for you right now(:
Thanks for making the video. :D
WendiTheP00h 2 years ago
my brother was a heroin addict since the age of 18 to 33. he was on methadone trying to get himself sorted out and i fell out with alot of my family defending him because they doubted him and stuck with the fact that drug addicts dont change etc cut a long story short, he was found dead 3 month ago, 13th oct 09 overdosed on "street methadone" and i feel like such an idiot for having that trust in him. maybe i should of done more then i already did to help him..i dont know :(
mabby999 2 years ago
@mabby999 dont worry sweetie there was nothing you could have done.
gbunnybabyy 2 years ago
@mabby999 I'm so sorry to hear that. That is really sad. :(
blondeballinbabe 1 year ago
I also think ur rite u know all these people saying your wrong no that's not how it is probably just doesn't want to admit that their parents died from drugs and are too embareced
chaisingjordan 2 years ago
i hate mean ppl! i love your vidz and i love the fact tht you are you!
lougheryb4 2 years ago
some of the people that comment on your videos are really mean :/
babypellien 2 years ago
I agree With you Chris I feel ya I love you're Videos too :D
zenadede23 2 years ago
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who cares! your parents should die for having you
nothinglikeafender 2 years ago
My parents also have addiction problems I feel you Chris :/
opinkelephant 2 years ago 2
Let your parent know you love them but if they don't stop what they are doing you can't help them anymore, you can't enable them. Let them know if they want help you will always be their for them, but otherwise you can't give them money or talk to them as much. Just give them a little tough love.
00sunflora 2 years ago
I have so many friends with parent issues becaus of alcohol or drugs, it makes me sick. It sucks how someone can come into a world full of people, and the two you were supposed to depend on (parents)can''t even take their hands off the bottle to take care of you. (Not you specifically Chris, just in general) I hate it.
ClayMastah344 2 years ago
I have some mad respect for you. To talk about this in front of so many people take so much courage. You rock
ashhippo 2 years ago 26
No wonder your so messed up, it's the way your parents raised you.
momof2preciousangels 2 years ago
You're the real messed up one for being so judgemental and rude.
VoltVixen 2 years ago
I love yooooooou :)
JosephineR1994 2 years ago
i get you .. my parents, both of them, were drunks, they lie to themselves, they were always fighting. for a longtime, and they finally stopped 2 years ago. The way i dealed with it really, i couldn't really do much, i was afraid, and sad, and thought that that would never change. I would just, stay in my room all day, i never really knew what to do. but i'm glad it's over now.
JosephineR1994 2 years ago
i kinda have a similar situation with my parent as well, it sucks. hope things get better for you
raquelle08 2 years ago
I know how you feel.. my parent also do drugs.. its not easy but you cant save the world..
CuitieButie 2 years ago
i feel bad for your parents.
drugs would be the only reasonable escape from a failure from something like THIS ^^
mrwalrus3 2 years ago
I'm dealing with the same thing right now in my life actually...with my mom. One of my friends said to report her to the authorities n I was like, I cannot do that 1st of all I love her n she was like why? She doesnt love u n I was like how can u say tht, she does but she also like the drugs. I still dnt know what I should do n I have actually become clinically depressed bcause of all the stress I have had to go hrough being the parent of my parent. Its soooo hard n I just dnt know what to do...
AmerEagleLover 2 years ago
if you love your mom you will get her help. it will hurt nowbut when she is finally done wit hdrugs trust me you will all fell better
DarkPureAndTimVideos 2 years ago
@DarkPureAndTimVideos Do you even know what its like dealing with someone who does drugs? You can't just get them help if they're not willing to help themselves, it doesn't work that way.
blondeballinbabe 1 year ago
easyer said then done. cant help someone uless they help themselves. you cant detach your parent they were there for you retern the favor bitch
WeOnLyFight2win 2 years ago
I lived through the same thing, Chris, with my Dad. He finally couldn't take it anymore and blew his brains out. There's nothing you can do for a parent that does not want to help themselves. NOTHING. Trust me. I tried.
kamjo79 2 years ago
Thankyou for doing this Chris. my mother was an addict and I still loved her so much it was very hard. She passed 3yrs ago from it. I've watched a zillion of your vids, even did years ago. <3
Punkasaur2009 2 years ago
I've watched this so many times. Hope you don't mind I'm putting it in my blog as an example. xoxo
MissChristyVera 2 years ago
u should dye your eye brows to match ur hair :D ur super pretty
looluu47 2 years ago
i dont think talking at this point works. by force would probably be the best.
mseesired 2 years ago
chris you look really good here :] and your a really strong person! keep your head high, and keep the videos coming!
brandisandy 2 years ago
i can now understand kind of why you are the way you are because when i would watch your videos i would think wow your really heartless and the things you say are stupid.... but now i have realised that you had it pretty tough while you were growing up.
Lauriejanee095 2 years ago
I can relate to this so much... I'm 14 and I've been dealing with it my entire life... I'm to a point where I just wish they'd just finally die. .. I don't love them. One of the earliest memories I have is sleeping outside in the backyard because my parents were drunk and fighting (knives, guns, ect...) I was 4 the first time I seriously thought about killing myself... My parents don't realize what they're doing to me... I don't care anymore...
...I can't care anymore. . .
MelodyThat 2 years ago
Hey, just wanted to say keep strong and remember that you have the power to use your experiences to help others going through the same thing. Bad times are never wasted if we use them to empower ourselves and others. You can transform hate into love. That makes you very special <3
CKMS 2 years ago
i went thru that situation and im only 14. my mom is getting help finally. she was doing very bad things even when i was with them just in the next room. and now i live with my grandma. i see my mom either 1 time a week or 1 time every 2 weeks. i am now very mature for my age. well at least thats what i hear. it is very hard. i still cry about it. im getting over this fact that my mom is not really the same mom i once knew. i am getting to know what adults go thru. im just glad that my mom is ok
ariluvsnickj 2 years ago
This video really did inspire me. its sad to see people's parents be addicted to drugs, and spend tons of money on it :'(
btw your eyes look gorgeous chris ! <3
xbubbleskitzx 2 years ago
i think ur really strong !! <3
xx
PippyMCR 2 years ago
when i was little like 8 or so .. my mum had a ebusiv relation ship with a man who fortunatly isent my dad thy have split now but when thy were to gether he was on drugs witch made him violent deppressed and parronoyede .. my mum was a alchoholik and was very violent i used to sit at the top of the stears watching them fight like attack eatchother with glasses pots and pans ..then thy eventually split but back then it was so dificult for me to understand wt ws happening good luck chris xxxxxxxx
shannong298 2 years ago
ive come to realize that you can only help yourself. and if you dont take care of yourself, noone else will. im 13 years old and i "parent" my mother on a daily baisis. even tho she isnt a drug "addict" she still makes very inappropriate/ stupid choices. i do everything i can to make her see that the choices she makes are going to hurt her in the end.. So, hang in there Chris. and try not to dwell or worry on/about the things you can't change
TAYLORZdaSHYT 2 years ago
@TAYLORZdaSHYT i have a mother like that, but at least im an adult. u really shouldnt have to have that kind of responsibility.
louib716 1 year ago
hi chris, i just want to say thank you alot for this vid. i'm going through this very same thing with the both of my parents, i'm 17 and i have only ever lived with my grandmother too. i try to help my parents and im sick of the fact that they throw it back in my face. im in 2 mins like u chris, i love my parents i just want them to get 'better', & i've told them if they ever want respect from me, they need to respect themselves (getting of the drugs). thanks chris, hope life turns out well ♥
StarlightExpress11 2 years ago
I've always wondered why you were raised by your grandmother instead of your parents. I'm pretty sure you're talking about your mother, because when Britney lost custody you mentioned your mother lost custody of you for a few years, but eventually got it back.
NicholasSims 2 years ago
, a lot of kids "parent" their parents even when they are NOT on drugs, I have a friend who is mentally older than her mother and I swear, I just want to slap her mom and put her ass in time out every once in a while! Good luck dealing w/your druggie parent.. the only thing you can do is tell them how you feel and hope that they make the right choices later.. Just be thankful that it's not YOU with the drug problem and be happy you are grown and not a helpless child w/a strung out parent
shortcake883 2 years ago
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no wonder they were taking drugs.......THEY HAD YOU!!!!
MegaBasketballFreak 2 years ago
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NoBoxLimit 2 years ago
MegaBasketballFreak u r really stupid
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annamorey47 2 years ago
im dealing with the same issue with one of my parents ..you can lead a horse to water but you cant force them to drink
purplekushion1 2 years ago
Thanks so much Chris, you inspire me with everything u say. You are truely an inspiration to everyone and more people in this world shud b like you (:. love you !
timeisonmyside23 2 years ago 3
I know he didnt mean it, but the pills controlled his whole entire life. I was only 9 when he died, but still till this day, it has an affect on me . Becuase my experiance with my father adn my relationship with my father was cut short because of the drugs he was abusing. i know he didnt mean for it to happen, but i never really got to spend time with the real person he was without the drugs being in in system. I dont even know what he was like. He was so good at hiding when he was high with me.
timeisonmyside23 2 years ago
My father was a pill popper, and didnt care whether me my sister or my brother ate or had anywhere 2 live. While he had food, and he had money bcuz he got checks from the mail cuz he was disabled cuz he got hurt on the job.. and he had food stamps. He was supposed 2 give my mother child support, but hardly did it. It was so bad that my mother had no food 2 give us, and we once had no electricity. He loved us, but the drugs became too much. It runied his life, and now his life is gone.
timeisonmyside23 2 years ago
omg sometimes he's prettier than Spears herself :|