I think I've seen this video about 20 times. Some the faces you make are so hilarious! And I love the sarcasm lol. All of these questions are offensive and it's a shame people feel they have a right to ask them of trans people. I can understand curiosity, but there are standards of politeness and common decency. Thank you for posting
That was rather entertaining. I feel that way some times. Just ready to snap at some one and tell them. "STFU! Leave me alone. I just want to be treated the way I feel!" :(
My sweet little three year old came in the room as I was watching this (I paused it of course) and she said, "That lady is very pretty." I hope that makes your day because it made me smile.
Wow someone is a little angry. Being asked stupid shocking questions seems to be a part of show biz. You see Hollywood stars being asked stupid questions repeatedly all the time, it is practically a part of the business. It may not be right or polite but it is a side effect of being in the lime light. The cure for being asked stupid,rude questions repeatedly??? Avoid the Lime light, Show biz, or any Media outlets.
@itsallbighere except when you are trans it doesn't matter if you are famous or not. I'm a receptionist who is trans and I get these kind of questions sometimes. It all comes down to people thinking they have a right to extremely personal information just because you are transgender.
lol i don't get what's up everyone's asses. i'll be honest and say before now i never thought much about some of these questions. that being said, i feel like a lot of this should be common sense for most people. and in relation to a comment below telling you to try and "understand that people are curious and not always that well informed", it's perfectly alright to be curious BUT you have to learn to respect boundaries. especially when you don't know the person that well.
thats all very well, but now I am afraid of talking to transgender people because I could insult them by accident. If you have to be so careful with every single word, I reckon it's better to avoid chatting with u guys in the first place ... in order not to hurt any feelings. Seriously, I understand that youre trying to raise awareness here for how people are feeling and all... and that is a good thing. but u have to understand that people are curious and not always that well informed...
@tightgeist "curious" and "not always well informed" people should use Wiki or Google not ask personal and majorly invasive questions of a perfect stranger.
I had to share this video because it's so damn funny! Well, you're funny anyways. The questions are pretty offensive. I know a lot of people who have been asked every one of those questions. People can be really stupid.
Ha. I've got transsexual friends and am completely okay with it, but this was the most offensive thing I've heard in a while. I apologize on behalf of the world's population that doesn't research and understand transsexuals. We're sorry.
WOW!!! This video really shows me that my respect for you was totally unfounded. I respected you immensely until I tried to choke down this video. Because other people can be many of those things you mentioned, sure doesn't mean you have to lower yourself too! So sad.
@benbaker108 If you don't get my demand for common decency from the countless hordes of rude strangers who (used to) intRUDE with rude questions, then we were indeed a mismatch, and you're better off finding common ground with someone else.
@benbaker108 Aww. . .don't be hatin. Imagine how you would feel if people treated you so insensivitively. It would hurt to volcano proportions. You'd want to vent in a safe place and educate people. . .on how to be respectful. Besides she's really fun! Show some love, ben baker. :)
I love you!!! I get asked stupid questions all the time. We feel your pain girl! Be yourself! That's all that matters. People question what they don't understand.
omg i get those stupid fucking questions all the fucking time, like when someone suspects me of being a tranny they will ask me if i have kids or how i get my period! smfh
This woman Calpernia Addams is very beautfiul, smart, brilliant, brave. I highly admire her, and she could have lived her life minding her business and not disclosing her past instead she goes out of her way to help people. with Andrea James, another woman I immensely admire. The only thing I don't like is that Calpernia still defines herself as a transsexual. If we want to be precise, you're transsexual until a transition is going on. Once you have completed it, u r at ur final destination
continuation of my previous message: I feel like vomiting when anti-gay or anti-trans morons talk about reproduction. Are you fucking serious? Do we exist only to reproduce? What are we, rabbits? We have to thank people who don't reproduce, considering that there are already 7 billions of individuals on this planet. Transsexualism is NOT antithetical to reproduction. Do you reproduce every time you have sex, you stupid ass piece of shit? Shove your entitlement up in your ass
For all who keep posting this chromosone argument and the inability to ever reproduce, this is total bullshit. First of all, there are many transsexuals who can have bilogical children, either via cryopreservation (I personally know many male to female transsexuals who have frozen their genetic material and used it) or many, many who tried to live as straight men, married and had children. Give me a fucking break. Anybody can reproduce, even rats and roaches. Many gays have kids. Plus, do u
@cherryicesexy00-bitch shut the fuck up, you sound ignorant. Until you walk that mile then don't give your 2cents. Statistically speaking, every asshole one here talking shit about us has a trans* family member/friend. You just don't know it. Try looking up legitimate information dummy!!!
For all who keep posting this chromosone argument and the inability to ever reproduce, you are correct. Biologically, she will never be a female, but you're missing the point. This isn't about biology. I'm guessing she could give a fuck about her chromosones. This is about emotion and identity. Fundamentally, it's no different than brunettes who go blonde, guys who shave to look younger, or the numerous other ways people alter their appearance to reflect their souls. A little empathy reptiles?
Calpernia I love you and Andrea James I yelled out to you at the San Francisco Pride parade in 2009 and you where SO sweet. I want to think you and Andrea for all the things you are accomplishing with the community. I wanted to know will you and Andrea James have another live video talk show that you had on Twitter a few years back I miss you two.
you're arrogant. if you didn't want to be asked, you shouldn't have gone through the process to become a mutilated male. i had a serious question but i think i'll ask a friendlier drunk.
@evianonly you are a stupid fuck, calling a transsexual a mutilated male. I hope you get dick cancer and they chop your dick off, then I will laugh, oh yes
Alright so I saw this for the first time and just wanted to say that I adore you! All of this is so true! I really don't get why some people are so rude seriously. I have a transsexual friend [also woman] and she is gay, so am I. Well... all of a sudden people are all: would you date him?
Dahhh... she's a she for one obvious reason, she has always meant to be a she. You rock! All those people giving you shitty comments just can't deal with the fact that you're comfortable with who you are! ;3
Not only are you gorgeous, but very funny & smart. ADORED. You are a terrific actress as well. This was insanely hilarious - Beautifully done. This just goes to prove that women can be beautiful AND have a brain as well.
You know, when I fist saw this, I thought it was soooo rude and angry... But I've been getting many of these questions over and over again, and some of them were just so ridiculously offensive. Now I think this is perfect! By the way, #4 pisses me off the most, especially because people insist on using that "name", as if it's their choice to make.
I learned there is a big difference between true transsexuals and autogynephilics. Anything you ask an autogynephilic gets a response back that makes Psycho Girlfriend seem like Little Miss Muffett by comparison. A true transsexual filled me in on autogynephilics and called them "valium hags". She said they were men trapped in a man's body and all the female hormones had them totally flipped out and they need a ton of tranquilizers to get through the day. She said just avoid them, as she does.
@TaliskerLaphroaig Your friend should have also informed you that Blanchard's toxonomy of MTF transsexuals is barely empirically supported, and at is, at best, thoughtful conjecture. And, please don't go quoting Freud. He was really a crackpot.
thank you so-called ''straight'' people that you ''support and tolarate'' our ''decision'', because that is soooo important to us, because we all know that being straight is the superior being and everything else are mental diseases right........vomit!!!
THis is ridiculous , stop defending this. The world has cancer, heart disease, aids, and so many other life threatening diseases, yet we continue to grant this kind of circus freak airtime and exposure.
If you're uncomfortable in your own skin, deal with it , and move on.
@CalperniaAddams although i dont agree with the way this person was talking to you, nor do i understand his comparison with aids and cancer.. but i think he raises a good point. why cant you just be comfortable in your own skin? i mean personally for me.. i couldnt care less if i was a boy or a girl. i suppose this may sound rude, but i just cant imagine why someone would want to mutilate themselves like this. how did you know you were transexual? what does it feel like?
Because the "skin" you speak of is a birth defect. Transexuality is a legit medical condition. Transexual women are born with brains that are not masculinized, and hence retain a female gender identity. They are really an entirely different being on the inside and this conflict manifests in the psyche everyday of their fucking life. Transitioning not only saves their life, it also ends the pointless wasting of mental energy and anguish from their gender dysphoria.
You have no way of saying what you would or wouldn't mind because it is simply beyond your comprehension - you don't have gender dysphoria. I'm not being rude here either, but it's simply the truth. And "mutilation"? Seriously? I have scoliosis, a severe 48 degree curve. if I chose to get back surgery - would I be "mutilating myself for addressing a legit medical condition? No. The same applies to transexuality. Sexual Reassignment Surgery IS the only way to treat it. Period.
@CallMeeeK85 hmm yes i totally understand, im not in that position, so i suppose i could never really understand it. but im just speaking from how i feel. like if i woke up a woman tomorrow id be happy about it.. id go with it.. i wouldnt care. like i could dress up as a woman freely and happily, i wouldnt care. of course i dont as people would judge me and i really feel no need to. and again, from my view, if i got a sex change, i would considered that mutilating myself, but you dont.
@CallMeeeK85 i dont know.. for me, waking up as a woman the next day would be like waking up black the next day, you know? i wouldnt see what the big deal is. im still me on the inside and im still human. ive never really placed importance on my gender, i act both feminine and masculine, i feel fine acting either way, or dressing either way. i dont know.. i feel like the only thing stopping me from dressing as a woman is that people would make fun of me for it.
And you know what? That's totally fine that you feel that way. The most valuable lesson to learn about gender is that you have some people who are completely polarized as one gender or another, but some people may be more gender fluid, or feel comfortable with varying degrees between masculinity and femininity, and that is perfectly valid also. But for transexual women, it is the case where the body dissonant with the brain and the mind, and SRS is the only valid treatment.
@gottabidonthings I feel sorry for you. I'm pretty sure the world has given a lot of true as@*#, perverts, and f#ksticks that were "normal" a platform in our culture, including people like you who are probably chock full of a lot of hate and hypocrisy. People like Calpernia give a voice, humor and love to the world. What the hell have you done? Say some hateful things on youtube, huh? What a huge accomplishment.
@gottabidonthings ur such a dumbass, u deal wit it!!! this earth, not ur land not ur earth, we all were born free so stfu and live if not then just die, ur just a waste of space, ur useless.
@gottabidonthings you don't know a damn thing about anything. Jsuk, transsexuals ARE comfortable in their own skin. So don't go on about moving on and shit, because what you say "dealing with it" is exactly what transsexuals do. And all those stupid questions Calpernia is mentioning, are asked by people who don't WANT transsexuals to move on. And people like you who call transsexuals freaks for moving on and dealing with it.
As for aids and heart disease, either become a doctor or STFU!
#8..... I'm a trans lesbian. How should I answer that one! Another thing I hate is when they say "I've never met one you YOU before." Well, not that you know of.
WOW!!! You have never been curious? Maybe one day you saw a circus show and wanted to know how they... (e.g. walk on a rope without falling) if curiousity offends you and those "hurtfull" questions bring deep hate, I suggest you stay home and dont (and I mean DON'T) go parading your freak show. Get over yourself, when people point and laugh- just remember they ARE laughing at you!
Wow you are seroiously the most convincing transsexual I have ever seen! Your voice is completely feminine and your face is very feminine too. Well done!
This should also be on the 'bad questions'. I know you were probably well-intentioned and think it's a compliment, but...it's not. It's like saying...wow, you're almost like a real woman! She nor anyone else has to be 'convincing' by your nor anyone else's standards.
Wow. I really wish I had seen this video long, long ago. As a bi girl, I get asked dumba*s questions all the time. Yet, I have committed the same faux pas with my trans friend. Thanks Miss Adams, lesson learned!
Great job, Calpurnia for giving the inconsiderate what they so richly deserve. I have heard pretty much the same spectrum of bad questions in my transition.
hello, my name is fabio and today I watched the film that tells its history, our history that pretty sad ending though ... you and a winner and I'm proud of you .. through it all and continues standing there. parabens .. you do not know how much I moved .. a big hug .... fabiokengen@hotmail.es my e mail and if you want to correspond with me one day ..
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why are you such a bitch seriosly?? oh and btw we are free to ask whatever we want so dont be mean and swear... it is also your right not to answer but you have no right to call anyone an idiot for asking a question... so i ask you. are you a retard???
@supremeG1000 I Think you should shut your trap! Yes anyone is free to ask anyone anything, However look at the point she is making? Do you not see why she is calling people Idiots and guess what its her God given right to do so.
i don't know where you got your sense of entitlement, but you need to get rid of it.
and trans* people are humiliated, mocked, harassed, harangued, beaten, murdered and all sorts of horrible things every day. just because they're trans*.
she has every right to say what she's saying. now take your cis privilege, and shove it up your ass. :3
@camera9055 It doesn't have to be "strange". It's perfectly natural to be interested in a passionate, opinionated young woman with a great rack and a bangin' body! ;)
THANK YOU for your comment about adopting kids rather than idiots who don't really need to procreate.....procreating!!
Now as to ur video.... I honestly just about laughed myself into a seizure!(not to say anything bad about people with seizure disorders!) it was that good! Funny thing is, my wife would pretty much respond in the same manner to ANY dumb ass question like those posed to you! I just don't understand the insatiable curiosity of "some people"! Okay, they're not "some people"...the
If a transsexual male engages in a sexual act with a man who believes he is a biological woman... is that transsexual sexually assaulting the man? Is she raping him? Is any crime being committed?
Well an important aspect of the person you would date you failed to mention on either end was the reproduction ability of that person. Yes, as a straight male I make note to date a female, obviously, but at the same time I would hope to mate with them in the end. Same goes for a female to male. I figure the other person may be interested in mating and it seems like it would be an impossibility. What i mean to say is outer appearance is not the only thing either sex is looking for at all points.
@Jangsaverem I'm just not interested in "reproducing", so it's not on my radar. The world is already festering with the unnecessary clones of billions of vain people who think their genetic material is so awesome that it should be duplicated... I wish people would stop having so many kids and start adopting the ones already here. In either case, I have no room in my life for a child of my own. Anyone I date needs to already have a kid, or not want them.
The only comment I want to make about this - and I do hope you get back to me Calpernia, is that sometimes people ask questions because they are curious. I don't think people always ask questions because they want to upset you or do anything bad to you. Granted there are some questions common sense tells you not to ask. However, I don't think you should be angry just because people are curious.You might be the only Trans person they have come across. I don't want to upset you or anything -really
I love your video and I love your name. I'm nowhere near patient enough to deal with the phenomenal amount of idiocy I would have to put up with if I voiced my opinions on similar topics, but I am tempted to let people know what I think from time to time. Then I realize that most people would not recognize actual "thought" if it bit them in an unpleasant sector of their anatomy and I give up on the human race. Again. Thank you for saving some of my faith in humanity.
Great video! Even though you are making lite and comedy out of all the constant questions you had been asked over and over again, I can see how you just want to be respected for what you stand for in the here and now.
Calpernia, first i have to say that my sides and my cheeks hurt from laughing so much, secondly you've actually had people ask you i you are a man or woman? Omfg its kinda hard not to tell. long flowing hair check, great curves check, wit so sharp its liable to take a life, double check, and lastly i think the 1940's homemaker character was a great choice. the happy go lucky "f you" is always a personal favorite, and just shows how skilled an actress you are.
I wonder how many people who had legitimate issues they needed help exploring that her snarky snottiness put off, and they went away wanting because they asked a question she decided was wrong to ask? If you're going to live such an intimate portion of your life 'openly' you have no reasonable right to expect not to get questioned about it. Her choice her consequence. If she just identified herself as a woman she'd have none of these issues. She brings it on herself. To whine is just stupid.
I have been tempted to ask a right religious guy.."Do you still cross dress, I saw your pic on the net" or "Did you ding the right girdle that will give the girlish curves"
Simply put : ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT ! Well Put. Simply, straight forward & to the point. Calpernia, as a fellow T-Sister, I could not have said it any better myself. Thank you for standing up for all of us in the Trans Community !
You are sooooooo hot and beautiful inside and out. *sigh* too bad youre not into girls. I admire you so much and i have a big lesbian crush on you <3 =]
Sooooo.... About that steak dinner? ROFLMAO I admire you and respect your talent and poise. Life has thrown obstacles at you, yet you rise above it all and I am glad you have a positive outlook and can use humor to diffuse such situations. Tell all the detractors "It's a Southern thing" when they accuse you of being to blunt. Particularly Tennessee ha! Come visit! We'll go to Dollywood! People who have never been do not know what they are missing. Blessed Be!
Not everyone meets your ridiculous sophistication standards. It is every American's God-given right to ask whatever they want to whomever they wish. Suck it up and deal with it. Personally, I find you to be just another self indulgent attention whore. And if I'm ever in the same room as you, I'll ask you whatever the fuck I want to whether you like it or not.
@douglifelsh Yes, of course, you CAN ask whatever you want to anyone. It doesn't mean it's socially acceptable to ask a stranger about their sex life/genitals. There's something called 'tact'.
You know what? I hope you do. I hope you walk up to a trans*person and ask any offensive question that comes across your cripplingly self-centered mind. And I hope they slap you across the mouth for prying into their personal life. Maybe it will knock that obnoxious sense of entitlement out of you.
@StrikeAProse CalperniaAddams posts SEVERAL versions of the same video that are all centered around the theme of "This is how you should act around me", and you say that I'm the one who is self centered with the sense of entitlement? Wow. So much ass kissing going on here that I must be the only one not on my knees.
@douglifelsh Why would you want to do that? As she previously explained, she has gone through many rough patches in her life, why would you want to make anyone re-live that by asking dumbass questions that you really shouldn't be asking in the first place? Ridiculous sophistication standards? You mean tact? You mean consideration for another humans feelings? That's really fucking sad that you think that privacy and common courtesy is unnecessary.
@northernxstar Privacy isn't an issue here, because the video is posted on Youtube. My problem is with the ivory tower that the uploader of this video is so happily sitting in. I'm not gonna walk on egg shells around them, but I never said I'm gonna spout off ignorant nonsense either.
@douglifelsh In that case: what do your genitals look like? It's my God-given right to ask. If you refuse to answer, you have ridiculous sohistication standards.
@michelamarielon One dick, two balls, and an acceptable amount of hair. And I'm not sure you're getting the core concept of "sophistication standards." You're right. It IS your God-given right to ask. So I answered. But that's got nothing to do with standards.
@douglifelsh Simply because you have no problem with describing your genitals to complete strangers doesn't mean that everyone enjoys doing the same. In fact, most people don't.
@douglifelsh My point is this: strangers don't have the right to ask a person about the appearance of their genitals, whether that person is a transsexual or not. Unless that person is you, douglifelsh, because you seem to be pretty comfortable with it.
@michelamarielon Your point is lost. It all circles back to the fact that the minute you share something like THIS with the world, you waive all rights to privacy in regards to the matter you're discussing. If I had a thrid arm, and I posted a video on Youtube listing all the questions I thought were innapropriate to ask about my third arm, I would have nothing to complain about if such questions happen. I've done nothing but fan an already lit flame. Your point is invalid.
You are awesome!
Onceisntenuf 17 hours ago
So true! I am part of the community as well and you nailed it girl! Thank you
amyjenson23 1 day ago
I think I've seen this video about 20 times. Some the faces you make are so hilarious! And I love the sarcasm lol. All of these questions are offensive and it's a shame people feel they have a right to ask them of trans people. I can understand curiosity, but there are standards of politeness and common decency. Thank you for posting
egheitasean1 3 weeks ago
you're really funny! & yes I hate stupid people that always ask "bad" questions ;)
GayLoveKicksAss 3 weeks ago
That was rather entertaining. I feel that way some times. Just ready to snap at some one and tell them. "STFU! Leave me alone. I just want to be treated the way I feel!" :(
DemonOfMyMind 4 weeks ago
no wonder u turned yourself into a woman, your a fuckin bitch. and your too over sensitive
92GimmeMusic 4 weeks ago
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egheitasean1 3 weeks ago
You my dear are fucking amazing. You're gorgeous and this should be on a public services annoucement xD Keep being awesome!
WeWereMachines 4 weeks ago 3
LOVE
yowermutha 1 month ago
Thank you so much ._____.
rastakingx 1 month ago
WoW ....you are gorjuss,loving the hair btw and i love the answers to some of the questions gave me a giggle xx
RosesOfTheMoon 1 month ago 2
I found this quite funny!
My sweet little three year old came in the room as I was watching this (I paused it of course) and she said, "That lady is very pretty." I hope that makes your day because it made me smile.
dunnamictrio1 1 month ago 6
@dunnamictrio1 Aww thank you. that's very sweet!
CalperniaAddams 1 month ago
Wow someone is a little angry. Being asked stupid shocking questions seems to be a part of show biz. You see Hollywood stars being asked stupid questions repeatedly all the time, it is practically a part of the business. It may not be right or polite but it is a side effect of being in the lime light. The cure for being asked stupid,rude questions repeatedly??? Avoid the Lime light, Show biz, or any Media outlets.
itsallbighere 1 month ago
@itsallbighere except when you are trans it doesn't matter if you are famous or not. I'm a receptionist who is trans and I get these kind of questions sometimes. It all comes down to people thinking they have a right to extremely personal information just because you are transgender.
Mistform 2 weeks ago
also, you are gorgeous :) and this made me smile.
Chimero100 1 month ago 2
lol i don't get what's up everyone's asses. i'll be honest and say before now i never thought much about some of these questions. that being said, i feel like a lot of this should be common sense for most people. and in relation to a comment below telling you to try and "understand that people are curious and not always that well informed", it's perfectly alright to be curious BUT you have to learn to respect boundaries. especially when you don't know the person that well.
Chimero100 1 month ago 4
I use to be a transsexual, til I took an arrow in the knee.
Thompson1337 1 month ago
thats all very well, but now I am afraid of talking to transgender people because I could insult them by accident. If you have to be so careful with every single word, I reckon it's better to avoid chatting with u guys in the first place ... in order not to hurt any feelings. Seriously, I understand that youre trying to raise awareness here for how people are feeling and all... and that is a good thing. but u have to understand that people are curious and not always that well informed...
tightgeist 1 month ago
@tightgeist "curious" and "not always well informed" people should use Wiki or Google not ask personal and majorly invasive questions of a perfect stranger.
cherimurr 2 weeks ago
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darkglaive 1 month ago
this was really informative! that you! love your shirt btw it rocks :)
HayLeeJo92 1 month ago
Well I guess feminine gay guys are screwed forever since gay guys only like muscles and super mainly beard guys...
Jelloz104 1 month ago
You're gorgeous. Sorry for your pain, but you have an impressive attitude.
airtech4 1 month ago
I had to share this video because it's so damn funny! Well, you're funny anyways. The questions are pretty offensive. I know a lot of people who have been asked every one of those questions. People can be really stupid.
egheitasean1 1 month ago
Ha. I've got transsexual friends and am completely okay with it, but this was the most offensive thing I've heard in a while. I apologize on behalf of the world's population that doesn't research and understand transsexuals. We're sorry.
DroidJD 1 month ago
Love this
Nefer0ne 1 month ago
WOW!!! This video really shows me that my respect for you was totally unfounded. I respected you immensely until I tried to choke down this video. Because other people can be many of those things you mentioned, sure doesn't mean you have to lower yourself too! So sad.
benbaker108 1 month ago
@benbaker108 If you don't get my demand for common decency from the countless hordes of rude strangers who (used to) intRUDE with rude questions, then we were indeed a mismatch, and you're better off finding common ground with someone else.
CalperniaAddams 1 month ago 11
@benbaker108 Aww. . .don't be hatin. Imagine how you would feel if people treated you so insensivitively. It would hurt to volcano proportions. You'd want to vent in a safe place and educate people. . .on how to be respectful. Besides she's really fun! Show some love, ben baker. :)
lilyofhearts 1 month ago
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benbaker108 1 month ago
Excellent!
w7md 1 month ago
I completely agreed with her until she said "beautiful vagina". No such thing!
polisci0586 2 months ago
lmfaoo love your attitude you are hilarioius and i love your sarcasm :) i could watch this vid all day long lol
edi0947 2 months ago
How about this one? When you went under the knife, why didn't you get your ass and your lips fixed as well?
MrSupertrollerman 2 months ago
Totally love the '50's propaganda film stylization, so fun. Perfect satirical backdrop. Good stuff - good stuff.
urgirlcassie23 2 months ago
I love you!!! I get asked stupid questions all the time. We feel your pain girl! Be yourself! That's all that matters. People question what they don't understand.
tlewis7630 2 months ago
omg i get those stupid fucking questions all the fucking time, like when someone suspects me of being a tranny they will ask me if i have kids or how i get my period! smfh
trannythebody 2 months ago
OMG are you trying to look like Mortish on the adams family? or is natural?
i love your answer to Q: #14 summary..."i'm human"
LOVE IT!! thats all that should mater. are you human or inhuman?
Segnet37451172 2 months ago
love it you forgot do you do shows are you here to do a show
kat21sd 2 months ago
This woman Calpernia Addams is very beautfiul, smart, brilliant, brave. I highly admire her, and she could have lived her life minding her business and not disclosing her past instead she goes out of her way to help people. with Andrea James, another woman I immensely admire. The only thing I don't like is that Calpernia still defines herself as a transsexual. If we want to be precise, you're transsexual until a transition is going on. Once you have completed it, u r at ur final destination
svastichellaFROCIO 2 months ago
continuation of my previous message: I feel like vomiting when anti-gay or anti-trans morons talk about reproduction. Are you fucking serious? Do we exist only to reproduce? What are we, rabbits? We have to thank people who don't reproduce, considering that there are already 7 billions of individuals on this planet. Transsexualism is NOT antithetical to reproduction. Do you reproduce every time you have sex, you stupid ass piece of shit? Shove your entitlement up in your ass
svastichellaFROCIO 2 months ago 3
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For all who keep posting this chromosone argument and the inability to ever reproduce, this is total bullshit. First of all, there are many transsexuals who can have bilogical children, either via cryopreservation (I personally know many male to female transsexuals who have frozen their genetic material and used it) or many, many who tried to live as straight men, married and had children. Give me a fucking break. Anybody can reproduce, even rats and roaches. Many gays have kids. Plus, do u
svastichellaFROCIO 2 months ago
@cherryicesexy00-bitch shut the fuck up, you sound ignorant. Until you walk that mile then don't give your 2cents. Statistically speaking, every asshole one here talking shit about us has a trans* family member/friend. You just don't know it. Try looking up legitimate information dummy!!!
jemc91 2 months ago
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deniedera 3 months ago
I'm a lesbian. And I think shes incredibly sexy.
SamanthaFernandez 3 months ago
I get these questions all the time and its so annoying
i know how you feel calpernia :/
MelMillionsFly 3 months ago
I have nothing against transsexuals by any stretch of the imagination, but you seem kind of well..................Bitchy.
northpaw2000 3 months ago
I adore you, you beautiful amazing woman. <3
dearfallenjones 3 months ago
I luved this video, its so true.
icecreamfanatic55 3 months ago
For all who keep posting this chromosone argument and the inability to ever reproduce, you are correct. Biologically, she will never be a female, but you're missing the point. This isn't about biology. I'm guessing she could give a fuck about her chromosones. This is about emotion and identity. Fundamentally, it's no different than brunettes who go blonde, guys who shave to look younger, or the numerous other ways people alter their appearance to reflect their souls. A little empathy reptiles?
spacemonkey479 3 months ago
Calpernia I love you and Andrea James I yelled out to you at the San Francisco Pride parade in 2009 and you where SO sweet. I want to think you and Andrea for all the things you are accomplishing with the community. I wanted to know will you and Andrea James have another live video talk show that you had on Twitter a few years back I miss you two.
CodaNYC 3 months ago
You're awesome Ms. Addams! :)
phraughy1970 3 months ago
you're arrogant. if you didn't want to be asked, you shouldn't have gone through the process to become a mutilated male. i had a serious question but i think i'll ask a friendlier drunk.
evianonly 3 months ago
@evianonly you are a stupid fuck, calling a transsexual a mutilated male. I hope you get dick cancer and they chop your dick off, then I will laugh, oh yes
svastichellaFROCIO 2 months ago
Alright so I saw this for the first time and just wanted to say that I adore you! All of this is so true! I really don't get why some people are so rude seriously. I have a transsexual friend [also woman] and she is gay, so am I. Well... all of a sudden people are all: would you date him?
Dahhh... she's a she for one obvious reason, she has always meant to be a she. You rock! All those people giving you shitty comments just can't deal with the fact that you're comfortable with who you are! ;3
SnowyMuffin 3 months ago
Not only are you gorgeous, but very funny & smart. ADORED. You are a terrific actress as well. This was insanely hilarious - Beautifully done. This just goes to prove that women can be beautiful AND have a brain as well.
MrTjandcl 3 months ago
This is the funniest thing I've seen in weeks. Everything you said should be so obvious to anyone, yet the questions are still asked.
I think you're my new hero(ine) ^.^
MiriMiriAru 3 months ago
You know, when I fist saw this, I thought it was soooo rude and angry... But I've been getting many of these questions over and over again, and some of them were just so ridiculously offensive. Now I think this is perfect! By the way, #4 pisses me off the most, especially because people insist on using that "name", as if it's their choice to make.
senseofvertigo 3 months ago
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n0ts0B9 3 months ago
Nice lol
Teaching manners and common sense to people who didnt learn it the first 5-10 years of their life +1 xD
xRailsex 3 months ago
I learned there is a big difference between true transsexuals and autogynephilics. Anything you ask an autogynephilic gets a response back that makes Psycho Girlfriend seem like Little Miss Muffett by comparison. A true transsexual filled me in on autogynephilics and called them "valium hags". She said they were men trapped in a man's body and all the female hormones had them totally flipped out and they need a ton of tranquilizers to get through the day. She said just avoid them, as she does.
TaliskerLaphroaig 4 months ago
@TaliskerLaphroaig Your friend should have also informed you that Blanchard's toxonomy of MTF transsexuals is barely empirically supported, and at is, at best, thoughtful conjecture. And, please don't go quoting Freud. He was really a crackpot.
Greyedable 3 months ago
thank you so-called ''straight'' people that you ''support and tolarate'' our ''decision'', because that is soooo important to us, because we all know that being straight is the superior being and everything else are mental diseases right........vomit!!!
poezen21 4 months ago
"My name is Calpernia Addams...dumbass"
hwwwarrior90 4 months ago
Heavens, you're beautiful!
Thank you for making this video. ♥
BlueGlassLightning 4 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
THis is ridiculous , stop defending this. The world has cancer, heart disease, aids, and so many other life threatening diseases, yet we continue to grant this kind of circus freak airtime and exposure.
If you're uncomfortable in your own skin, deal with it , and move on.
Freaks
gottabidonthings 4 months ago
@gottabidonthings LOL so angry! I'm sure if I peeked into your closet I'd find loads to disgust ME, but you don't see me eyeballing you. FOADIAF =)
CalperniaAddams 4 months ago 15
@CalperniaAddams although i dont agree with the way this person was talking to you, nor do i understand his comparison with aids and cancer.. but i think he raises a good point. why cant you just be comfortable in your own skin? i mean personally for me.. i couldnt care less if i was a boy or a girl. i suppose this may sound rude, but i just cant imagine why someone would want to mutilate themselves like this. how did you know you were transexual? what does it feel like?
brndnrckn 2 months ago
@brndnrckn
Because the "skin" you speak of is a birth defect. Transexuality is a legit medical condition. Transexual women are born with brains that are not masculinized, and hence retain a female gender identity. They are really an entirely different being on the inside and this conflict manifests in the psyche everyday of their fucking life. Transitioning not only saves their life, it also ends the pointless wasting of mental energy and anguish from their gender dysphoria.
CallMeeeK85 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
@brndnrckn
You have no way of saying what you would or wouldn't mind because it is simply beyond your comprehension - you don't have gender dysphoria. I'm not being rude here either, but it's simply the truth. And "mutilation"? Seriously? I have scoliosis, a severe 48 degree curve. if I chose to get back surgery - would I be "mutilating myself for addressing a legit medical condition? No. The same applies to transexuality. Sexual Reassignment Surgery IS the only way to treat it. Period.
CallMeeeK85 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
@CallMeeeK85 hmm yes i totally understand, im not in that position, so i suppose i could never really understand it. but im just speaking from how i feel. like if i woke up a woman tomorrow id be happy about it.. id go with it.. i wouldnt care. like i could dress up as a woman freely and happily, i wouldnt care. of course i dont as people would judge me and i really feel no need to. and again, from my view, if i got a sex change, i would considered that mutilating myself, but you dont.
brndnrckn 1 month ago
@CallMeeeK85 i dont know.. for me, waking up as a woman the next day would be like waking up black the next day, you know? i wouldnt see what the big deal is. im still me on the inside and im still human. ive never really placed importance on my gender, i act both feminine and masculine, i feel fine acting either way, or dressing either way. i dont know.. i feel like the only thing stopping me from dressing as a woman is that people would make fun of me for it.
brndnrckn 1 month ago
@brndnrckn
And you know what? That's totally fine that you feel that way. The most valuable lesson to learn about gender is that you have some people who are completely polarized as one gender or another, but some people may be more gender fluid, or feel comfortable with varying degrees between masculinity and femininity, and that is perfectly valid also. But for transexual women, it is the case where the body dissonant with the brain and the mind, and SRS is the only valid treatment.
CallMeeeK85 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
@brndnrckn Another idiot that completely missed the point of this video. Alas, Miss Addams, some simpletons cannot be saved.
cherimurr 2 weeks ago
@gottabidonthings I feel sorry for you. I'm pretty sure the world has given a lot of true as@*#, perverts, and f#ksticks that were "normal" a platform in our culture, including people like you who are probably chock full of a lot of hate and hypocrisy. People like Calpernia give a voice, humor and love to the world. What the hell have you done? Say some hateful things on youtube, huh? What a huge accomplishment.
polyanthus27 4 months ago 2
@gottabidonthings ur such a dumbass, u deal wit it!!! this earth, not ur land not ur earth, we all were born free so stfu and live if not then just die, ur just a waste of space, ur useless.
MrKingtyrant05 4 months ago
@gottabidonthings you don't know a damn thing about anything. Jsuk, transsexuals ARE comfortable in their own skin. So don't go on about moving on and shit, because what you say "dealing with it" is exactly what transsexuals do. And all those stupid questions Calpernia is mentioning, are asked by people who don't WANT transsexuals to move on. And people like you who call transsexuals freaks for moving on and dealing with it.
As for aids and heart disease, either become a doctor or STFU!
phoenixheart6 3 months ago
@gottabidonthings go away.
x123Scandalx 1 month ago
She's beyond gorgeous(: Her attitude packs a punch too(:(:
ohshittkailaaa 5 months ago 10
I laughed so hard your awesome Calpernia!!
wendycdvixen 5 months ago
I love calpernia Addams
barbourboixx 5 months ago
"What is, or was, your "real" name?" "This one's a biggie.. my "real" name is Calpernia Addams, dumbass." LMFAO
xRklo 5 months ago
LOVED this!!! You are awesome!!! I am glad to be a "Cal Pal"!!! Love you, Calpernia. :)
Timberextra 5 months ago
LOL Youtube's new "feature" of hiding the video timer keeps me from being able to "Skip to the Questions".
DarkWillUser 5 months ago
#8..... I'm a trans lesbian. How should I answer that one! Another thing I hate is when they say "I've never met one you YOU before." Well, not that you know of.
marissagrl 5 months ago
@marissagrl Just say "I don't date guys at all". :)
DarkWillUser 5 months ago
WOW!!! You have never been curious? Maybe one day you saw a circus show and wanted to know how they... (e.g. walk on a rope without falling) if curiousity offends you and those "hurtfull" questions bring deep hate, I suggest you stay home and dont (and I mean DON'T) go parading your freak show. Get over yourself, when people point and laugh- just remember they ARE laughing at you!
avinism 5 months ago
great video. made me laugh as well.
AmberLynnTGirl 5 months ago
I don't realized that these questions actually bothers me until I saw this video! You tell 'em girl!!
MariaJoyAbdul 5 months ago
the right answer to all these questions? GO FLY A KITE!!!!
37butterflyprincess 5 months ago
I love this video. funny as hell.
37butterflyprincess 5 months ago
Calpernia.... I LOVE you <3 <3 <3
Raelinkun 5 months ago
An attractive and intelligent person. What other criteria are needed?
dillonzo88 5 months ago
Wow you are seroiously the most convincing transsexual I have ever seen! Your voice is completely feminine and your face is very feminine too. Well done!
MrAvalokiteshvara 5 months ago
@MrAvalokiteshvara
This should also be on the 'bad questions'. I know you were probably well-intentioned and think it's a compliment, but...it's not. It's like saying...wow, you're almost like a real woman! She nor anyone else has to be 'convincing' by your nor anyone else's standards.
elliotsavestheday 5 months ago
Ha ha ha an unhuman beeing who dare argue human beeings.
Pathetic piece of meat. Go ahead with your "intelligent speech" - make my day!
IchirinNoHanaBleach 5 months ago
You would think someone like Calpernia would be clever and funny... Nope. Like her name she's trying too hard.
brandon80238 5 months ago
Wow. I really wish I had seen this video long, long ago. As a bi girl, I get asked dumba*s questions all the time. Yet, I have committed the same faux pas with my trans friend. Thanks Miss Adams, lesson learned!
lcatgoddess 5 months ago
I have the weirdest boner
TheKylesewell 6 months ago
HAHA funny...
laptoplover101 6 months ago
Great job, Calpurnia for giving the inconsiderate what they so richly deserve. I have heard pretty much the same spectrum of bad questions in my transition.
LynneaUrania 6 months ago
Hahaha. I laughed many times during that video, but the part that made me cry from laughing was when you said "I date straight guys, dumbass."
stevethegreat7 6 months ago
<333333
Shinitkun 6 months ago
OMG, you're so funny and adorable! <3 <3 <3
TotalPerspective 6 months ago
You're awesome. I don't get why people think someone's life is their business just because it's "different" or "weird" to them.
xtorie 6 months ago
This video never gets old, i must have watched it 10 or more times. Thanks
sachem79 6 months ago
You. Are. Amazing.
jennyjoregon 6 months ago
[“Life made him famous. Death made him immortal.” – Fox News concerning Elvis, 2004]
OneDollarBook 6 months ago
hello, my name is fabio and today I watched the film that tells its history, our history that pretty sad ending though ... you and a winner and I'm proud of you .. through it all and continues standing there. parabens .. you do not know how much I moved .. a big hug .... fabiokengen@hotmail.es my e mail and if you want to correspond with me one day ..
fabiokengen1 6 months ago
LOL
DJstephyyy 6 months ago
@supremeG1000 , Um no , not a bitch , just a garden veriety sociopath.
Sociopath and Psychopath , are 2 words I suggest everyone study and remember.
azkeyz 7 months ago
@azkeyz _The Silence of the Lambs_ does not count as a psychology book, dumbass. I advise you to follow your own suggestion.
sweetxtasy4life 3 months ago
I like this video, Thanks for posting this Love ya!
michchles 7 months ago
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why are you such a bitch seriosly?? oh and btw we are free to ask whatever we want so dont be mean and swear... it is also your right not to answer but you have no right to call anyone an idiot for asking a question... so i ask you. are you a retard???
supremeG1000 7 months ago
@supremeG1000 Um, yeah, huh huh huh, herpa derpa...
CalperniaAddams 7 months ago 16
@supremeG1000 I Think you should shut your trap! Yes anyone is free to ask anyone anything, However look at the point she is making? Do you not see why she is calling people Idiots and guess what its her God given right to do so.
michchles 7 months ago
@supremeG1000 Yeah you are free to be a rude jerk asshole.
littlebit19801 6 months ago
@supremeG1000
no, you are NOT free to ask whatever you want.
i don't know where you got your sense of entitlement, but you need to get rid of it.
and trans* people are humiliated, mocked, harassed, harangued, beaten, murdered and all sorts of horrible things every day. just because they're trans*.
she has every right to say what she's saying. now take your cis privilege, and shove it up your ass. :3
310BPM 3 months ago
Calpernia, after I saw a soldiers girl, i've been so fascinated by you. You are truly beautiful! Love from Norway! :D
2Q4SCHOOL 7 months ago 2
Is anyone else strangely turned on by her?
camera9055 7 months ago
@camera9055 It doesn't have to be "strange". It's perfectly natural to be interested in a passionate, opinionated young woman with a great rack and a bangin' body! ;)
CalperniaAddams 7 months ago 37
@CalperniaAddams Very fair point and also a perfect description of yourself. :)
camera9055 7 months ago
@camera9055 erm yes but I don't think there is anything strange about it?
LooseRivet2103 5 months ago
@camera9055 No.
northpaw2000 3 months ago
THANK YOU for your comment about adopting kids rather than idiots who don't really need to procreate.....procreating!!
Now as to ur video.... I honestly just about laughed myself into a seizure!(not to say anything bad about people with seizure disorders!) it was that good! Funny thing is, my wife would pretty much respond in the same manner to ANY dumb ass question like those posed to you! I just don't understand the insatiable curiosity of "some people"! Okay, they're not "some people"...the
cjeffe007 7 months ago
If a transsexual male engages in a sexual act with a man who believes he is a biological woman... is that transsexual sexually assaulting the man? Is she raping him? Is any crime being committed?
mohammmadtouchedboys 7 months ago
@mohammmadtouchedboys LOL I wonder if you're a troll account, "mohammmadtouchedboys"?
CalperniaAddams 7 months ago
I love you! :)
LilyIsMehName 7 months ago
Well an important aspect of the person you would date you failed to mention on either end was the reproduction ability of that person. Yes, as a straight male I make note to date a female, obviously, but at the same time I would hope to mate with them in the end. Same goes for a female to male. I figure the other person may be interested in mating and it seems like it would be an impossibility. What i mean to say is outer appearance is not the only thing either sex is looking for at all points.
Jangsaverem 7 months ago
@Jangsaverem I'm just not interested in "reproducing", so it's not on my radar. The world is already festering with the unnecessary clones of billions of vain people who think their genetic material is so awesome that it should be duplicated... I wish people would stop having so many kids and start adopting the ones already here. In either case, I have no room in my life for a child of my own. Anyone I date needs to already have a kid, or not want them.
CalperniaAddams 7 months ago 2
The only comment I want to make about this - and I do hope you get back to me Calpernia, is that sometimes people ask questions because they are curious. I don't think people always ask questions because they want to upset you or do anything bad to you. Granted there are some questions common sense tells you not to ask. However, I don't think you should be angry just because people are curious.You might be the only Trans person they have come across. I don't want to upset you or anything -really
Lucailey 7 months ago
I love your video and I love your name. I'm nowhere near patient enough to deal with the phenomenal amount of idiocy I would have to put up with if I voiced my opinions on similar topics, but I am tempted to let people know what I think from time to time. Then I realize that most people would not recognize actual "thought" if it bit them in an unpleasant sector of their anatomy and I give up on the human race. Again. Thank you for saving some of my faith in humanity.
Alyssasidhe 7 months ago
Great video! Even though you are making lite and comedy out of all the constant questions you had been asked over and over again, I can see how you just want to be respected for what you stand for in the here and now.
Ahhapictures 7 months ago
Dear Calpernia. I love you.
modernfairie 8 months ago
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n0ts0B9 8 months ago
@douglifelsh
exactly.
n0ts0B9 8 months ago
Calpernia, first i have to say that my sides and my cheeks hurt from laughing so much, secondly you've actually had people ask you i you are a man or woman? Omfg its kinda hard not to tell. long flowing hair check, great curves check, wit so sharp its liable to take a life, double check, and lastly i think the 1940's homemaker character was a great choice. the happy go lucky "f you" is always a personal favorite, and just shows how skilled an actress you are.
AlexandriaUrssa 8 months ago
funny
BrancoVukovic 8 months ago
You are intensely creepy.
tekubus 8 months ago
@tekubus I hope to up that to "terrifying".
CalperniaAddams 8 months ago 5
inappropriate questions????? You cut your dick off, Asshole! lol
tekubus 8 months ago
lol an acress in hollywood.
tekubus 8 months ago
"haven't seen genitals outside the family........" HA HA! That's awesome.
n0ts0B9 8 months ago
Do you tell the straight guys you're a transsexual though? cuz usually straight guys dont want to be with girls that were once men.
yippy010 8 months ago
@yippy010 Yes.
CalperniaAddams 8 months ago
@yippy010 Well I'm a straight guy and what she was in the past is where it belongs, in the past and would only be of concern if I wanted children.
LooseRivet2103 8 months ago
You're really beautiful. :)
Eiama 8 months ago
I wonder how many people who had legitimate issues they needed help exploring that her snarky snottiness put off, and they went away wanting because they asked a question she decided was wrong to ask? If you're going to live such an intimate portion of your life 'openly' you have no reasonable right to expect not to get questioned about it. Her choice her consequence. If she just identified herself as a woman she'd have none of these issues. She brings it on herself. To whine is just stupid.
thedantheman7777 8 months ago
I have been tempted to ask a right religious guy.."Do you still cross dress, I saw your pic on the net" or "Did you ding the right girdle that will give the girlish curves"
KristenMac100 8 months ago
"Despite what whoever you get your learnin' from told ya..."
Hahahah! You're awesome!
ocojaa 8 months ago
Simply put : ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT ! Well Put. Simply, straight forward & to the point. Calpernia, as a fellow T-Sister, I could not have said it any better myself. Thank you for standing up for all of us in the Trans Community !
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MzLadyFox 8 months ago
I... I love you. This video is brilliant.
Can I use these answers? If I can say them with a straight face, that is.
DarkestFinale 8 months ago
You are sooooooo hot and beautiful inside and out. *sigh* too bad youre not into girls. I admire you so much and i have a big lesbian crush on you <3 =]
UrMomWatchesThis 8 months ago
This may make it into your list of stupid questions, but if you're dating a straight guy, do you let him know that you're a transsexual?
Alexielxxxx 8 months ago
Sooooo.... About that steak dinner? ROFLMAO I admire you and respect your talent and poise. Life has thrown obstacles at you, yet you rise above it all and I am glad you have a positive outlook and can use humor to diffuse such situations. Tell all the detractors "It's a Southern thing" when they accuse you of being to blunt. Particularly Tennessee ha! Come visit! We'll go to Dollywood! People who have never been do not know what they are missing. Blessed Be!
Mictrostar 8 months ago
@Mictrostar Yea, I really wouldn't want it in my home state. Deo Vindice.
MaxamillianArturo 7 months ago
@MaxamillianArturo Hmmm don't recall asking your permission butt munch. Moving on...
Mictrostar 1 week ago
You have to admit, she's pretty damn hot now.
camera9055 9 months ago
Calpernia rules. End of story.
4Change2011 9 months ago
Not everyone meets your ridiculous sophistication standards. It is every American's God-given right to ask whatever they want to whomever they wish. Suck it up and deal with it. Personally, I find you to be just another self indulgent attention whore. And if I'm ever in the same room as you, I'll ask you whatever the fuck I want to whether you like it or not.
douglifelsh 9 months ago 7
@douglifelsh Alright, but good luck getting an answer, you self-centered bigot!
DarkestFinale 8 months ago
@douglifelsh then you will be equally asked to shut the fuck up
vCollected 8 months ago 2
@douglifelsh Yes, of course, you CAN ask whatever you want to anyone. It doesn't mean it's socially acceptable to ask a stranger about their sex life/genitals. There's something called 'tact'.
You know what? I hope you do. I hope you walk up to a trans*person and ask any offensive question that comes across your cripplingly self-centered mind. And I hope they slap you across the mouth for prying into their personal life. Maybe it will knock that obnoxious sense of entitlement out of you.
StrikeAProse 8 months ago
@StrikeAProse CalperniaAddams posts SEVERAL versions of the same video that are all centered around the theme of "This is how you should act around me", and you say that I'm the one who is self centered with the sense of entitlement? Wow. So much ass kissing going on here that I must be the only one not on my knees.
douglifelsh 8 months ago
@douglifelsh Why would you want to do that? As she previously explained, she has gone through many rough patches in her life, why would you want to make anyone re-live that by asking dumbass questions that you really shouldn't be asking in the first place? Ridiculous sophistication standards? You mean tact? You mean consideration for another humans feelings? That's really fucking sad that you think that privacy and common courtesy is unnecessary.
northernxstar 8 months ago
@northernxstar Privacy isn't an issue here, because the video is posted on Youtube. My problem is with the ivory tower that the uploader of this video is so happily sitting in. I'm not gonna walk on egg shells around them, but I never said I'm gonna spout off ignorant nonsense either.
douglifelsh 8 months ago
@douglifelsh In that case: what do your genitals look like? It's my God-given right to ask. If you refuse to answer, you have ridiculous sohistication standards.
michelamarielon 8 months ago
@michelamarielon One dick, two balls, and an acceptable amount of hair. And I'm not sure you're getting the core concept of "sophistication standards." You're right. It IS your God-given right to ask. So I answered. But that's got nothing to do with standards.
douglifelsh 8 months ago
@douglifelsh Simply because you have no problem with describing your genitals to complete strangers doesn't mean that everyone enjoys doing the same. In fact, most people don't.
michelamarielon 8 months ago
@michelamarielon You asked. I answered. I got nothing to hide.
douglifelsh 8 months ago
@douglifelsh You really have no limits whatsoever? How nice that must be for you.
michelamarielon 8 months ago
@michelamarielon Again, you're the one who asked what my genitals look like.
douglifelsh 8 months ago
@douglifelsh My point is this: strangers don't have the right to ask a person about the appearance of their genitals, whether that person is a transsexual or not. Unless that person is you, douglifelsh, because you seem to be pretty comfortable with it.
michelamarielon 8 months ago
@michelamarielon Your point is lost. It all circles back to the fact that the minute you share something like THIS with the world, you waive all rights to privacy in regards to the matter you're discussing. If I had a thrid arm, and I posted a video on Youtube listing all the questions I thought were innapropriate to ask about my third arm, I would have nothing to complain about if such questions happen. I've done nothing but fan an already lit flame. Your point is invalid.
douglifelsh 8 months ago
@douglifelsh "You waive all rights"? Says who? When your mom puts on 30 pounds and goes out in public