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  • This is beautiful advise I just wished us sistas really feel in love with ourselves first before religion before a relationship to get to know the natural Goddesses we were created to be.

    We should never let anyone culture of people define us and our relationships based on their belief systems. We are a first world peoples the African sista has to remember we are the definement of the natural organic Goddess..... We must remember.

  • Where the fuck is my book

  • Awesome. I really agree with what you said and I have been watching your video's and I am feeling all of this.

  • honey, you made a fool of yourself on the Dr. Drew show. I like this video, but you are actually the woman that you detest.

  • you never said it better!

  • If you're so perfect....why don't you check your out of shape stomach, your clumpy bra poking through your shirt..so get yourself together..awright...think about that!

  • I saw and heard you on Dr. Drew a few moments ago. What an idiot YOU are.

  • The question is who are fathering these females' children? Are these christian and God-fearing men? I think there are many good black christian men all around. Many of them do not have much money, or a nice car, or a profession... or not even a job. Of course, they may not look like hunks, they may look like geeks or nerds, but sure they are nice men.

    However, they serve God. What's wrong with those men....?

  • Thanks for deliberately showing us your tits at the beginning.

  • im so tired of that saying ew lol its SO NOT TRUE.

  • I tell people mostly women too become what u want. If u want a christian become one and be true too it.If u want a sucessfull man or woman be sucessfull at least work in that direction.These women well i call them hoes are looking for a come up walkin around half naked even in the winter time r only going too attract the same type of guy that goes looking for a street prostitute.

  • So u Shanel Cooper-Sykes i heard yo name on anothers womans channel over an over again.now i see why she mention yo name.o gurl be HATIN cause damn u fine.ok maybe i was wrong for sayin DAMN U FINE.But i couldnt help it cause its true.Fine and very intillegent gotta love it.Fine an no brians cant talk about nothing but drama dont do it fo me.

  • Man, You Rule! Its about time a sista understood the concept.

  • You look very DELICIOUS Shanel Cooper lol

  • 'When the queen is ready, the king will appear' Thanks Shanel

  • I am speechless... amen amen andddd ammmmennnn....

  • I really like your style and was amazed by your video!! Today the truth has been reveled thanks to Shanel Cooper-Sykes!! Excellent video my friend!! :)

  • Yes, usually finding the answers we seek in our lives starts with taking Accountablity.

    I can definitely appreciate tthis video.

  • key word " look at or into yourself " self examination is the start of positive love & attraction from a good mate......

    nice vid

  • this goes the same for men and our views to,this a kool message

  • This short speech was well overdue. Thanks for keeping it real.

  • Shanel is so on point

  • Amen!!

  • That table is so shiny and clean lool but this video is so accurate its amazing

  • Men are dogs, men are gods -men are anything but... men.

  • truuuu saiii guurl

  • good stuff

  • ok oy are the TRUTH lady!!!!!! damn this is what i tell females all the TIME

  • You can check out Shanel Cooper Sykes on the new The ATLANTA PEACH. Motivation section May 2010. Stay Connected.

  • ah ok, gotcha. Wll all men may be dogs, but some women ain't too good for you either ;)

  • Hi Shanel. We transcribed this video for you a few weeks ago, but HAVE NOT RECEIVED payment for that. Please send $45 to the address I sent to you.

    Thanks!

  • @zacata23 You have the wrong account. This is just a video I reposted that I found interesting. Good luck getting your money though from Shanel lol.

  • @DatingOYL IS THIS DIRECTED TO BLACK MEN ONCE AGAIN? CANT BLACK WOMEN JUST MARRY AN ATM MACHINE?

  • @dwkironde1 Apparently you didn't watch the video.

  • @flip5577 I WATCHED IT! ITS CLEAR TO ME. THEY WANT AN ATM. THEY ARE LOADS OF GOOD BLACK MEN. BUT WE DONT HAVE THAT MANY ATM MACHINES.

  • @dwkironde1 Ok then, I misunderstood what you meant then. I assume you meant to type "aimed at black women again" instead of "aimed at black men again".

  • @zacata23 did you ever receive your money, cuz shanel definetly cheated me out of mine. to everyone considering buying shanel's worthless stuff, let my my experience be your teacher: I dont normally buy anything full price (cuz i try to be frugal), but i spent money on her book and never received my product. after communicating wtih her by email for 13 weeks, and her telling me she sent it, then saying it cant be sent yet, then saying again that she sent it weeks ago, then asking me

  • well put

  • am going to pass this message to every woman i know, you are good girl, you are so very intune with whats happenning today. thanks.

  • Thank you so much for putting this message out there. I'm a good man myself and there has been so many times where I have been looked at as a dog for just being a man in general. You are an excellent quality woman and I'm glad that there are people out there like you. I found my girl and she is great, and just like you say "she loves herself". Very on point!

  • Beauty and brains. I wish more women thought like you, this world would be such a better place. I've been saying this same thing for years. Most women just don't get it though. Glad you pointed it out to them. Maybe if a beautiful, strong educated woman like yourself would tell more of them this, then maybe they'll listen. Because when I try to tell them, they just think I'm woman bashing

  • wow,soo gorgeous,...men would not have a chance to be dogs if women would respect their own bodies and not have sex with a man 12hrs after they met. women have the most to loose by making the wrong connection, they should be more cautious and selective.

  • Thank You!! Well said:)

  • Thank you so much! Very Well stated and YOU ARE GORGEOUS MY DEAR!

  • My dude directly me to your page, and I'm glad he sent me....well us to this particular page, cause alot of women need to know this as long with men, keep true baby.

    100

  • Very objective balanced point sis. God bless

    onemanofGod.

  • Shanel on point!

  • Wow!! Well said!!

    A positive, eloquent message from a beautiful and intelligent lady.

  • id wife pipe eat and beat =)

  • I love this Public Service Announcement. I feel we need to do three things. First, we have got to learn to love ourselves. Secondly, love others with sincerity. Thirdly, learn how to communicate our love.

  • YOu are so right I wish more women knew this.

  • So I'm assuming that you've been treated like a queen with every man you've dated. There are SOME

  • YIKES!

  • perfect =)

  • Great commentary. I've been saying this for many years but Shanel, you said much better! Thank you for posting.

    "You must fall deeply in love with yourself"

    "If you want a good man, get it together"

    "If you have a good man, keep it together"

  • Thank you sista

  • Good

  • no idea who u r but damn i wish more women would think da way u do lol

  • Nice vid!

    | | | PEACE | | |

  • good video

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