The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
This is beautiful advise I just wished us sistas really feel in love with ourselves first before religion before a relationship to get to know the natural Goddesses we were created to be.
We should never let anyone culture of people define us and our relationships based on their belief systems. We are a first world peoples the African sista has to remember we are the definement of the natural organic Goddess..... We must remember.
If you're so perfect....why don't you check your out of shape stomach, your clumpy bra poking through your shirt..so get yourself together..awright...think about that!
The question is who are fathering these females' children? Are these christian and God-fearing men? I think there are many good black christian men all around. Many of them do not have much money, or a nice car, or a profession... or not even a job. Of course, they may not look like hunks, they may look like geeks or nerds, but sure they are nice men.
However, they serve God. What's wrong with those men....?
I tell people mostly women too become what u want. If u want a christian become one and be true too it.If u want a sucessfull man or woman be sucessfull at least work in that direction.These women well i call them hoes are looking for a come up walkin around half naked even in the winter time r only going too attract the same type of guy that goes looking for a street prostitute.
So u Shanel Cooper-Sykes i heard yo name on anothers womans channel over an over again.now i see why she mention yo name.o gurl be HATIN cause damn u fine.ok maybe i was wrong for sayin DAMN U FINE.But i couldnt help it cause its true.Fine and very intillegent gotta love it.Fine an no brians cant talk about nothing but drama dont do it fo me.
I really like your style and was amazed by your video!! Today the truth has been reveled thanks to Shanel Cooper-Sykes!! Excellent video my friend!! :)
@dwkironde1 Ok then, I misunderstood what you meant then. I assume you meant to type "aimed at black women again" instead of "aimed at black men again".
@zacata23 did you ever receive your money, cuz shanel definetly cheated me out of mine. to everyone considering buying shanel's worthless stuff, let my my experience be your teacher: I dont normally buy anything full price (cuz i try to be frugal), but i spent money on her book and never received my product. after communicating wtih her by email for 13 weeks, and her telling me she sent it, then saying it cant be sent yet, then saying again that she sent it weeks ago, then asking me
@zacata23 what my purchase order #, she finally decided to just ignore me. so, i never received my product, but she definitely received my money. she is just Godless and shameless. People, I suggest you find a role model who actually has some morals, a keener sense of business, and who practices what she preaches; Shanel Cooper-Sykes is not the one to be listening to. I just hope she doesnt have the chance to do this to anyone else.
Thank you so much for putting this message out there. I'm a good man myself and there has been so many times where I have been looked at as a dog for just being a man in general. You are an excellent quality woman and I'm glad that there are people out there like you. I found my girl and she is great, and just like you say "she loves herself". Very on point!
Beauty and brains. I wish more women thought like you, this world would be such a better place. I've been saying this same thing for years. Most women just don't get it though. Glad you pointed it out to them. Maybe if a beautiful, strong educated woman like yourself would tell more of them this, then maybe they'll listen. Because when I try to tell them, they just think I'm woman bashing
wow,soo gorgeous,...men would not have a chance to be dogs if women would respect their own bodies and not have sex with a man 12hrs after they met. women have the most to loose by making the wrong connection, they should be more cautious and selective.
My dude directly me to your page, and I'm glad he sent me....well us to this particular page, cause alot of women need to know this as long with men, keep true baby.
I love this Public Service Announcement. I feel we need to do three things. First, we have got to learn to love ourselves. Secondly, love others with sincerity. Thirdly, learn how to communicate our love.
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The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
pc0p1mp 2 weeks ago
This is beautiful advise I just wished us sistas really feel in love with ourselves first before religion before a relationship to get to know the natural Goddesses we were created to be.
We should never let anyone culture of people define us and our relationships based on their belief systems. We are a first world peoples the African sista has to remember we are the definement of the natural organic Goddess..... We must remember.
joynerhampton 2 weeks ago
Where the fuck is my book
singingchef23 2 weeks ago
Awesome. I really agree with what you said and I have been watching your video's and I am feeling all of this.
Joce8484 2 weeks ago
honey, you made a fool of yourself on the Dr. Drew show. I like this video, but you are actually the woman that you detest.
shaybluvsmusic 1 month ago
you never said it better!
MrFloody84 1 month ago
If you're so perfect....why don't you check your out of shape stomach, your clumpy bra poking through your shirt..so get yourself together..awright...think about that!
carmenceliafletcher 1 month ago
I saw and heard you on Dr. Drew a few moments ago. What an idiot YOU are.
carmenceliafletcher 1 month ago
The question is who are fathering these females' children? Are these christian and God-fearing men? I think there are many good black christian men all around. Many of them do not have much money, or a nice car, or a profession... or not even a job. Of course, they may not look like hunks, they may look like geeks or nerds, but sure they are nice men.
However, they serve God. What's wrong with those men....?
jesus7es7dios7 3 months ago
Thanks for deliberately showing us your tits at the beginning.
leecfb000 5 months ago
im so tired of that saying ew lol its SO NOT TRUE.
licialicous 8 months ago
I tell people mostly women too become what u want. If u want a christian become one and be true too it.If u want a sucessfull man or woman be sucessfull at least work in that direction.These women well i call them hoes are looking for a come up walkin around half naked even in the winter time r only going too attract the same type of guy that goes looking for a street prostitute.
bigjoe1vidsinc 9 months ago
So u Shanel Cooper-Sykes i heard yo name on anothers womans channel over an over again.now i see why she mention yo name.o gurl be HATIN cause damn u fine.ok maybe i was wrong for sayin DAMN U FINE.But i couldnt help it cause its true.Fine and very intillegent gotta love it.Fine an no brians cant talk about nothing but drama dont do it fo me.
bigjoe1vidsinc 9 months ago
Man, You Rule! Its about time a sista understood the concept.
damndisplace07 9 months ago
You look very DELICIOUS Shanel Cooper lol
baylife84 1 year ago
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joemellor1892 1 year ago
'When the queen is ready, the king will appear' Thanks Shanel
sweetbelzn 1 year ago
I am speechless... amen amen andddd ammmmennnn....
ChaCha157 1 year ago
I really like your style and was amazed by your video!! Today the truth has been reveled thanks to Shanel Cooper-Sykes!! Excellent video my friend!! :)
MRMELTDOWNDOTCOM 1 year ago
Yes, usually finding the answers we seek in our lives starts with taking Accountablity.
I can definitely appreciate tthis video.
SLICENSLASH 1 year ago
key word " look at or into yourself " self examination is the start of positive love & attraction from a good mate......
nice vid
MAJISTYGOD 1 year ago
this goes the same for men and our views to,this a kool message
smurfsgot1 1 year ago
This short speech was well overdue. Thanks for keeping it real.
MrAntone2 1 year ago
Shanel is so on point
kingofspades707 1 year ago
Amen!!
counterproof 1 year ago
That table is so shiny and clean lool but this video is so accurate its amazing
gk020490 1 year ago
Men are dogs, men are gods -men are anything but... men.
EXoTjC 1 year ago
truuuu saiii guurl
ordainmoyo 1 year ago
good stuff
chatterbox411 1 year ago
ok oy are the TRUTH lady!!!!!! damn this is what i tell females all the TIME
youngTaharka 1 year ago
You can check out Shanel Cooper Sykes on the new The ATLANTA PEACH. Motivation section May 2010. Stay Connected.
theatlantapeachusa 1 year ago
ah ok, gotcha. Wll all men may be dogs, but some women ain't too good for you either ;)
zacata23 1 year ago
Hi Shanel. We transcribed this video for you a few weeks ago, but HAVE NOT RECEIVED payment for that. Please send $45 to the address I sent to you.
Thanks!
zacata23 1 year ago
@zacata23 You have the wrong account. This is just a video I reposted that I found interesting. Good luck getting your money though from Shanel lol.
DatingOYL 1 year ago 3
@DatingOYL IS THIS DIRECTED TO BLACK MEN ONCE AGAIN? CANT BLACK WOMEN JUST MARRY AN ATM MACHINE?
dwkironde1 11 months ago
@dwkironde1 Apparently you didn't watch the video.
flip5577 11 months ago
@flip5577 I WATCHED IT! ITS CLEAR TO ME. THEY WANT AN ATM. THEY ARE LOADS OF GOOD BLACK MEN. BUT WE DONT HAVE THAT MANY ATM MACHINES.
dwkironde1 11 months ago
@dwkironde1 Ok then, I misunderstood what you meant then. I assume you meant to type "aimed at black women again" instead of "aimed at black men again".
flip5577 11 months ago
@zacata23 did you ever receive your money, cuz shanel definetly cheated me out of mine. to everyone considering buying shanel's worthless stuff, let my my experience be your teacher: I dont normally buy anything full price (cuz i try to be frugal), but i spent money on her book and never received my product. after communicating wtih her by email for 13 weeks, and her telling me she sent it, then saying it cant be sent yet, then saying again that she sent it weeks ago, then asking me
hisboo911 4 months ago
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@zacata23 what my purchase order #, she finally decided to just ignore me. so, i never received my product, but she definitely received my money. she is just Godless and shameless. People, I suggest you find a role model who actually has some morals, a keener sense of business, and who practices what she preaches; Shanel Cooper-Sykes is not the one to be listening to. I just hope she doesnt have the chance to do this to anyone else.
hisboo911 4 months ago
well put
djfl3xx 1 year ago
am going to pass this message to every woman i know, you are good girl, you are so very intune with whats happenning today. thanks.
usstkitts 1 year ago
Thank you so much for putting this message out there. I'm a good man myself and there has been so many times where I have been looked at as a dog for just being a man in general. You are an excellent quality woman and I'm glad that there are people out there like you. I found my girl and she is great, and just like you say "she loves herself". Very on point!
DanAltuz 1 year ago
Beauty and brains. I wish more women thought like you, this world would be such a better place. I've been saying this same thing for years. Most women just don't get it though. Glad you pointed it out to them. Maybe if a beautiful, strong educated woman like yourself would tell more of them this, then maybe they'll listen. Because when I try to tell them, they just think I'm woman bashing
hehateme131 2 years ago
wow,soo gorgeous,...men would not have a chance to be dogs if women would respect their own bodies and not have sex with a man 12hrs after they met. women have the most to loose by making the wrong connection, they should be more cautious and selective.
dangermous1968 2 years ago
Thank You!! Well said:)
newlyfree205 2 years ago
Thank you so much! Very Well stated and YOU ARE GORGEOUS MY DEAR!
Lovely629 2 years ago 10
My dude directly me to your page, and I'm glad he sent me....well us to this particular page, cause alot of women need to know this as long with men, keep true baby.
100
neballar 2 years ago
Very objective balanced point sis. God bless
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onemanofgod 2 years ago
Shanel on point!
DatingOYL 2 years ago
Wow!! Well said!!
A positive, eloquent message from a beautiful and intelligent lady.
jediwampaoola 2 years ago 2
id wife pipe eat and beat =)
718HOUSE 2 years ago
I love this Public Service Announcement. I feel we need to do three things. First, we have got to learn to love ourselves. Secondly, love others with sincerity. Thirdly, learn how to communicate our love.
pringlekevinb 2 years ago 8
YOu are so right I wish more women knew this.
erictbrown1 2 years ago
So I'm assuming that you've been treated like a queen with every man you've dated. There are SOME
lss121576 2 years ago
YIKES!
kayode29 2 years ago
perfect =)
antoinettedaniels 2 years ago
Great commentary. I've been saying this for many years but Shanel, you said much better! Thank you for posting.
"You must fall deeply in love with yourself"
"If you want a good man, get it together"
"If you have a good man, keep it together"
devimultimedia 2 years ago
Thank you sista
jaycenwise 2 years ago
Good
StrictlyGrimeBeats 2 years ago
no idea who u r but damn i wish more women would think da way u do lol
604GPC 2 years ago
Nice vid!
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ak4benji204 2 years ago
good video
HITCH1483 2 years ago