Guys dont build aroound being the best looking, there more concerned with themselves. so while your going out of your way, he's off making himself happy and if it means eye candy to taste, then he may not stay faithful to you. If some of these women spent more time WORSHIPPING there loves and hobbies, and less on new mascaras, then if you are broken up with you'll have alot of yourself left. Women sometimes feel they have to be about their man or they feel self centered. its in our nurturing
alot of women work really hard on molding themselves desirable, persona and looks. Not always surgery, but when a guy rejects you or compares you it can affect a women mmore harshly than a man. I think more women take breakups harder than a man, bc there usually always trying to upgrade themselves and if new tits didnt keep him home, it must be her. It hard to think otherwise when your obsessed with trying to be so physically pleasing. Its very easy to feel lacking.
I think my response was alittle un clear(i was listening to the interview at the same time). I just wanted to say it's peoples' relunctantness to change that keeps preferences so unrealistic. Guys always wants the hot girl, the girl every one else wants. So that makes women desire that role, Especially when some girl can steal your husband by being younger, fresher and beautiful. Thats always in a girls head that she can be replaced. So women go to extreme lengths to secure a relationship.
when they mentioned the media doenst want to hate on different variations of beauty but it depends soley upon who wants to see it or not. So the media is giving you what you want to see. So if the entertainment industry give every body some air time and maybe people should open their boundaries in beauty standards. Alot of narrow mindedness comes from somewhere and it isn't a rational emotion.
We need to have more discussions like this. Why does it seem like beauty standards are getting crazier and crazier? Can we all just get a grip please?
Very good interview, Abiola! I love your hair and Michael Beach is soooo beautiful...I love him! Okay, enough about that the physical aspects....I appreciate the content of this interview and will check out the documentary. Thank you, Abiola for bringing us worthwhile info/topics for discussion.
Super great video! I was just thinking about this very topic last week and how so many of us fall into this "facade of life" issue. I'm so glad this is coming out.
This documentary definatly needed to be done!!! And with Michael Beach behind it hopefully it'll get the exposure it needs. "Big ups" to the brother!!!
Thanks for your comments!
PlanetAbiola 1 year ago
Guys dont build aroound being the best looking, there more concerned with themselves. so while your going out of your way, he's off making himself happy and if it means eye candy to taste, then he may not stay faithful to you. If some of these women spent more time WORSHIPPING there loves and hobbies, and less on new mascaras, then if you are broken up with you'll have alot of yourself left. Women sometimes feel they have to be about their man or they feel self centered. its in our nurturing
tigrisx23 2 years ago
alot of women work really hard on molding themselves desirable, persona and looks. Not always surgery, but when a guy rejects you or compares you it can affect a women mmore harshly than a man. I think more women take breakups harder than a man, bc there usually always trying to upgrade themselves and if new tits didnt keep him home, it must be her. It hard to think otherwise when your obsessed with trying to be so physically pleasing. Its very easy to feel lacking.
tigrisx23 2 years ago
I think my response was alittle un clear(i was listening to the interview at the same time). I just wanted to say it's peoples' relunctantness to change that keeps preferences so unrealistic. Guys always wants the hot girl, the girl every one else wants. So that makes women desire that role, Especially when some girl can steal your husband by being younger, fresher and beautiful. Thats always in a girls head that she can be replaced. So women go to extreme lengths to secure a relationship.
tigrisx23 2 years ago
when they mentioned the media doenst want to hate on different variations of beauty but it depends soley upon who wants to see it or not. So the media is giving you what you want to see. So if the entertainment industry give every body some air time and maybe people should open their boundaries in beauty standards. Alot of narrow mindedness comes from somewhere and it isn't a rational emotion.
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ahealthnut2 2 years ago
God made you the way you are! This is a horrible thing that is going on
Ucalgirl0 2 years ago
We need to have more discussions like this. Why does it seem like beauty standards are getting crazier and crazier? Can we all just get a grip please?
Shadagga 3 years ago 3
Very good interview, Abiola! I love your hair and Michael Beach is soooo beautiful...I love him! Okay, enough about that the physical aspects....I appreciate the content of this interview and will check out the documentary. Thank you, Abiola for bringing us worthwhile info/topics for discussion.
Radiantsmiler 3 years ago
oh my god your hair is so pretty! and i love ur shows
creolebeauty17 3 years ago 2
In America, women have to be beautiful and men must have money. Sad but true.
3alarm247 3 years ago 2
Super great video! I was just thinking about this very topic last week and how so many of us fall into this "facade of life" issue. I'm so glad this is coming out.
AhnicB 3 years ago
man i'd love to see this documentary. its really sad what the world is becoming!!! so sad! thanks. Great video!
WONDERFULLYMADE2009 3 years ago 4
Hey Abiola, looking good girl!
It's about time someone brings this topic to light. I'm so sick of looking at fake people.
btw Who's to say what PRETTY is?
What I think is fine " A'hmm" Michael Beach....some might see him as unattractive.
I'm unattractive and proud!!!!
Sahbisun 3 years ago
I so want to watch this film now. Abiola your hair is so beautiful!
Lakishia 3 years ago
This documentary definatly needed to be done!!! And with Michael Beach behind it hopefully it'll get the exposure it needs. "Big ups" to the brother!!!
RevolutionaryINK 3 years ago
Amazing...
micaiahty 3 years ago