Relationship & Dating Advice : Dealing With Rejection

[qwerty1qwerty1123]

@iovitaavelina Yeah while I like the point about maybe not appreciating you, I don't think that's due to them being "oh so unworthy of my godlike traits" or whatever. People are just people, and I think sometimes things happen that sorta suck, not ever learning to face rejection by lying to yourself probably isn't healthy. Good to know someone else thought this seemed like kind of crappy advice.

[TheFoxdjs]

agreed. but where are they?? LOL

[joecool97]

Excellent Video A+. I just act like nothing happened and don't see it as a rejection. It means other fish in the sea and deserves someone better for you.

[SamusDrake]

@iovitaavelina

I agree, as that only serves to increase the pain you're going through. Hate and rejection are a bad combination.

Rejection can cause shock, depression, and can even lead to suicide in some cases. Being tough works for most, but for some its totally useless. For those people its best to give themselves time to "absorb" the shock and then move on.

[GirlsAskGuys]

We cannot control outcomes, we can only handle our reactions, and once we learn how to do that with grace and dignity, our lives are much fuller.

Here are a few tricks for dealing with dating and rejection:

1. Know what you want, but don't impose it on your date.

2. Have fun! Don't put pressure on the situation - dating is not "do or die".

3. If you don't get a return phone call, don't sweat it.

4. Don't hold high expectations that later may lead to disappointment.

Sara

GirlsAskGuys

[styleboy321]

0:50-0:60 WTF?

[maximon72]

i find the comments quite singular and simple minded.

[Grapes428]

The easiest way to deal with rejection is to try to go after or get a date with another woman. I myself decided long ago that if a woman doesn't want to be serious with me when I'm trying to be serious with her or if I have to play games with her to get her to be interested, then I don't need her. So the best way to deal is to keep lining up other dates with women and move on. If she wants to come back and realize she's missing out, you will know. It just takes 1 text message.

[nickoli889]

we know who you are, you say it twice in 17thousand videos. you shoulda just had a 3second clip that said ' shit'll figure itself out'

[Cosette24]

thnx this was very helpful!

[darhanreshel]

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[vividdescription]

The dumbest sh** I've ever heard. Most rejection is simply recognition of incompatibility. It has nothing to do with them being "not good enough" for you. Recognizing incompatibility is healthy. Putting blinders on isn't. Some rejection actually IS because you aren't GOOD ENOUGH in the other person's eyes. This may actually be true. Commit yourself to long-term self-improvement is the answer. Not pubescent blinders as propounded here.

[Attila709]

Spoken like a true expert. I bet she gets rejected all the time. (smirks)

[gbilios]

so many divorces its no joke..people believe in the perfect marriage -- there is no such thing as mister right and the devout loyal wife. people will always have their faults..rejection is normal..don't take it personally.

[phillipthai714]

Nice video. I just recently picked up Jack canfield's success principles and their is a chapter on rejection. He says that we tend to think ourselves into disaster and that we make situations worst than they actually are. In example you ask a girl to have dinner she says no, you didn't have anyone to have dinner with you before and after, the situation didn't get worst it stayed the same, only you made it worst by thinking bad things like oh I am not good enough or negative things like that.

[Nightavenger2]

I think people can take rejection not badly if they have the open mind of hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. Also if the person doesn't want to be with you then move on, and it's good because you want to date a person that is as much interested in you as you are in them.Also what help's hugely if rejection is polite, and not antagonistic.

[einarabelc5]

Wow, JUST WOW.This "coach" is so full of lies. Rejection is not about the person who's rejecting you. If she really knew what she was talking about we wouldn't need her.She's repeating exactly what everyone says.Which means it doesn't work if she's needed.

The first thing a rejected person thinks is: Is she right about me?

Truth is lying to yourself like she tells us here is not gonna solve it.You must be grounded and have self esteem. If you can handle rejection you become much more attractive.

[datingwomensex]

eHow, keep these good videos coming into youtube.

[livinn59801]

Wow, what horrible advice. Let's all try to make ourselves believe something that - deep down - we know is not true!

[atlantabrave1995]

yea well this girl said she likes me like a bf but we are supposidely best friends but she also likes this other guy and he is 18 she is 16 and im almost 15 and im soooo confused she doesnt make any since at all none of my friends understand her but o well

[sharmuta155]

idiotic advice ...

[reyesjaen07]

This girl and I have known each other for 2 months. She asked me out, first, but didn't set up a date until a 3 weeks later and she was very excited. Then, we didn't talk for a couple of weeks. She didn't return a call, was too busy, she said. Went out a 2nd time. Both times, hand holdings, kisses and hugs. Asked her out third time today. She said she had plans with a friend. After we went out, she won't call me. Why? I showed her too much affection. She says she likes me and still hugs me

[einarabelc5]

@reyesjaen07 The question is. Can you increase the tension? Can you manage tension? Can you take the next step?

[SinghxxKing]

what is ment to be will always find its way <3

[ivanahumpalot420]

Haha there must be a lot of people who "arent good enough for me" then haha. Iv been rejected more than a gay republican.

[RockandRoller918]

Thanks rejection is never easy to deal with but allways bounce back and find theres more fish in the sea.

[sassybabe643]

easy to say than done!

[taepodong1101]

I hear you. But its gotta be done!

[onsadarrab]

yes!!!i agree with that...thank you!!!

[barrydope]

"There're not good enough for you". If you can make yourself believe that then I've got a bridge in Brooklyn for sale that you'd love.

[erictbrown1]

Donna I learned this the hard way. Another thing I learned is how to talk to a woman I never just go ask a lady for her number I get to know her first and see if there is a spark or she has anything between her ears that have saved me so much heartace because I found just because someone is good looking don't make them a good person. And talking first I cut down on rejection about 90%