Sad old story, guy controls girl out of jealousy, Girl lets him because she is insecure, girl loses friends over guy, guy ends up being jerk ad girl has nothing so feels worse about herself.
I love that your out there helping people Tollie. Tell it like it is....
Dropping them over a guy? Maybe she really feels bad about herself and thinks she needs 2. The mad girl should try to work with her and help her understand she can only feel good form the inside.
master1dog, i think they shuld work it out iwthout anger. its hard enough to keep friends these days. they all seem to have some serious issues to work out
Tollie, these are the kinds of girl fights that end on youtube as a video with 3 chicks beating up on 1 girl. This is really sad. You are right. We should focus on the good feelings and if we cant, then move on.
fights should not be allowed on youtube. Tolli please do a video about the WHY poeple would do that? why would they video tape ganging up on and beating someone up Why why why
i was so appauled when the girl fight last year was posted. and then the girls got a slap on the wrist. WALK AWAY GIRLS!!!! Dont stick aruond such a volatile situation unless you really want to try to FIX IT with peacefull means and kindness
This is one of americas most serious issues. i have seen so many of my friends in middle school, high school and now freshman college lose themselves to this.
Tollie (or anyone else) How much of this problem comes from Friend pressure? From peer pressure. Sometimes we're not just unssportive, we even cause the problems.
But Anorexia doesnt get noticed like it should it is a huge problem today. I think we need to do more. Friends and family are sometimes the buest cure.
I read somewhere that around 50% of americans have eating disorders. Something like 40% are overweight and around 10% face anorexia or blmia.... might not be right.
Tollie I really need to talk to you. I know I can help. Ive tried on Myspace and email please, I really want to talk to you. Im a huge fan and supporter.
I found out my friend is Anorexic. I could not believe it she is sooo beautiful. Im using your plan, Im gonna reinforce her amazing qualities and help her see a new person.
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WillowXana 1 year ago
i think friends CAN see your faults, they just accept them.
i love these videos by the way.
THANK YOU!
luralisious 2 years ago
Drama!!!
jsherri46 2 years ago
are you gay im just wondering
georgiaflorentine 2 years ago
Nope Straight.
OnlyADreamer152 2 years ago
sory x
georgiaflorentine 2 years ago
You sure??? Lol... J/k
jsherri46 2 years ago
You better not be!
SoYouThinkYourAStar 2 years ago
i put this on my front page favorites for people to see.
LauraLeedsU 2 years ago
Sad old story, guy controls girl out of jealousy, Girl lets him because she is insecure, girl loses friends over guy, guy ends up being jerk ad girl has nothing so feels worse about herself.
I love that your out there helping people Tollie. Tell it like it is....
LauraLeedsU 2 years ago
Dropping them over a guy? Maybe she really feels bad about herself and thinks she needs 2. The mad girl should try to work with her and help her understand she can only feel good form the inside.
Tollie is so right.
popularnotes 2 years ago
Yep, she definitely has some issues if she is letting a guy push her to drop her friends. Its so hard 2 see thigns at that age
merleperlebelle 2 years ago
I favorited. This is a serious issue for teens to be thinking about. 5 stars
perryprowl 2 years ago
amazing how easy it is 2 get trapped in the moment and forget the bigger picture. awesome vid
cindysutter123 2 years ago
hey there, great video this was a good find. i'll watch more for sure
superbrunete 2 years ago
spot on. 5 stars 4 the deep insight
cnta4d2die 2 years ago
Realy good points. its so hard to ask for help and its so cool that you are actually out there doing something for people
rickrobbob 2 years ago
yeah. Tollie's been through a lot and it taes someone with a lot of guts to get out there and share your experiences and wisdom to help others.
DoggyDrake 2 years ago
Yep. U cant tell people who to be friends with WT* that other girl should just dump this person
master1batedog 2 years ago
master1dog, i think they shuld work it out iwthout anger. its hard enough to keep friends these days. they all seem to have some serious issues to work out
brandonalone 2 years ago
why cant ppl just be more supportive of each other? we all have disagreements, and girls especially seem to turn on each other so quickly
lolitalawry 2 years ago
Tollie, these are the kinds of girl fights that end on youtube as a video with 3 chicks beating up on 1 girl. This is really sad. You are right. We should focus on the good feelings and if we cant, then move on.
claireonthedl 2 years ago
fights should not be allowed on youtube. Tolli please do a video about the WHY poeple would do that? why would they video tape ganging up on and beating someone up Why why why
cindyclaybourne 2 years ago
i was so appauled when the girl fight last year was posted. and then the girls got a slap on the wrist. WALK AWAY GIRLS!!!! Dont stick aruond such a volatile situation unless you really want to try to FIX IT with peacefull means and kindness
CeeCeeMgee 2 years ago
i've seen soem of those fights on the news and YT. At least it helps to get these people arrested.
braniac4u 2 years ago
yes its wrong to use her secrets against her. no issue. no question. do the right thing
bodypartsrgood 2 years ago
peeps r always putting 2 much in2 the things i say.... n i'm almost always just talking out my butt.. its just words
stacyjones21 2 years ago
yes that is exactly what we're supposed to do. Just as Tollie says. Dont b so wrapped up in all that...
pierceplays 2 years ago
This is one of americas most serious issues. i have seen so many of my friends in middle school, high school and now freshman college lose themselves to this.
mylowinks 2 years ago
You are very sensible. I like what you say. You are right. It seems like those who have been thru a lot of crap learn to understand things better
scarymarysdaughter 2 years ago
We do need 2 let things go. i have held on2 things 4 so long and it ends up hurting me worse than others
danasworth 2 years ago
Your doing an incredible job providing positive reinforcement. Its good to see videos like this
poppalegbaprctc 2 years ago
speaking of eating disorders, i could just eat you up Tollie. hugs n kisses
willUBmine2day 2 years ago
We love you Tollie..... From Oklahoma
isnuckasecondaccount 2 years ago
Good video. 5 star rating
Urin8r 2 years ago
Tollie (or anyone else) How much of this problem comes from Friend pressure? From peer pressure. Sometimes we're not just unssportive, we even cause the problems.
jameskigglen 2 years ago
Yes. Firends can be as cruel as they can be kind sometimes they dont even know it. Tollie touches on that in this video
lleeplusme 2 years ago
5 stars again Tollie
theklappersavedme 2 years ago
What you said at 5:06 where you would help if you could and there is no reason to hate. It sooooo true that we should be that way
kittykrazer 2 years ago
i think he was talking about the history people hwave together
cnta4d2die 2 years ago
I like where you talk about referencing the past and whether you paly the victim. Every has done stuff in the past. And I think we work on today.
robotrume 2 years ago
I've seen him on the 700 club and he makes a lot of sense
shotindadark59 2 years ago
I'll have to check out your website tolliesproject org....
VeraLotta 2 years ago
I've seen af ew of this guys vids. He really tries to help - and he's cute. so there you go..
cul8cutie 2 years ago
But Anorexia doesnt get noticed like it should it is a huge problem today. I think we need to do more. Friends and family are sometimes the buest cure.
time2partways 2 years ago
I read somewhere that around 50% of americans have eating disorders. Something like 40% are overweight and around 10% face anorexia or blmia.... might not be right.
alanopolis11 2 years ago
alanopolis thats probably not 2 far off. I heard that over 50% of americans will be overwieght by 2011 if ratios dont change.
trappedat8 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Tollie I really need to talk to you. I know I can help. Ive tried on Myspace and email please, I really want to talk to you. Im a huge fan and supporter.
babydollsexy21 2 years ago
A++
cutterjohn34 2 years ago
Good points.
jsherri46 2 years ago
I found out my friend is Anorexic. I could not believe it she is sooo beautiful. Im using your plan, Im gonna reinforce her amazing qualities and help her see a new person.
bkasey49 3 years ago
bkasey, i reall think that is the best thing. i went thru this as well and it was the support of others that helped me thru it.
Gr8 vid Tollie
caseypleets 2 years ago
Girls are always jealous.
sherrilivinlife 3 years ago 3
Anorexia is so damn common. Sorry yeah im going through all your video's. Theyre great
justplainsexy01 3 years ago 6
OMG! Seriously, I try not to get jealous but sometimes I don't mean to be mean. I never realized how it really hurts.
katieblack33 3 years ago 8
Your right about the message.
inadaze99 3 years ago 8