a narcissisist AND a sociopath. just one of them alone is dangerus. the combination of both is lethal. this is sociopathy- i know what i id was wrong but i didnt care. this is narcissism especially in regards to what they want- i want it i deserve it. if you dont give it to me ill take it even if i have to kill you to get it.
I don't think she realized just how dangerous he really was. When she put the earrings on I think she thought he stole them. That the police had recovered them and sent them to them otherwise she wouldn't have asked him about it. She knew about the 976 numbers and the drugs. But I don't think when she put those earrings on she knew what kind of danger she was putting herself in.
im real sick of people passing judgment. while i agree she should have just left the house when she saw he knew about the earrings. she felt she was tough enough to defend herself unfortunately but that does NOT give anyone the right MELANCHOLYROSE...and people like you.....to immediately pass judgement when you have NEVER lived a life like this. When you have walked in the shoes of a woman being beaten or threatened then you can talk. To us it is easy to walk away, to those like her it is not
After showing him the earrings, I thought she was an idiot. I'm sorry, but that was just stupid. I found it hard to sympathize. I don't care if she has this feeling of "I can't continue the lie he needs to know that I know!" That's dumb. When the fucking police show up, THEN he'll know that she knows. She should have taken the baby and left a long time ago. Or not get with him at all... she asked for trouble when she did this. She doesn't "deserve" it but, yes, she asked for it. Stupid.
@MelancholyRose Are you SERIOUS!!!?? 'Yes asked for it' Are you crazy!!? That's the defense for every rapist, murderer, child abuser and spouse beater in the world!! You are basically saying that if you stole something from your partner and they confronted you about it that that would be grounds for you to hit or murder them! Domestic abuse has NO excuse!! You do NOT hit your partner in ANY circumstances!
@shoegalsho2 My defense isn't that. It's more like, if a rapist or murderer stole something from you, and you confronted them instead of called the cops. I'm saying IDIOCY asks for it, not women in general. It's stupid to confront someone you know is violent. You wouldn't face a murderer who is holding a gun and say "yeah I found this thing you stole from me, what you gonna do? Oh. You're going to shoot me in the face."
@MelancholyRose She didn't know he was violent did she? He convinced her that he hadn't hit her thanks to the head injuries he gave her. She had no idea he was going to murder her. The fact is he didn't have a gun.
@shoegalsho2 The reason why she showed him the earrings was because she knew it meant "he was the one who beat me." She was trying to show him that she knew he was the one who did it. And, yeah, I know he doesn't have a gun. He has a huge weight in his hands. That can easily be considered a weapon.
@MelancholyRose My ex-husband hit me week after we were married. He promised he wouldn't do it again. I stayed and four months later he kicked my dog. I shouted at him and he battered me for the last time (I left). I knew he had hit me before and I reacted in anger. Did I 'ask for a beating'. Was I not entitled to shout at him. Or should I just have walked on egg shells. I gave him a second chance because he had just come back from Iraq and I thought it was the war that caused his anger.
@shoegalsho2 Look, it's like you're telling me that I want spouses to beat each other. I'm not saying that it should happen. It's a BAD THING. I'm sure you know what I'm going to say, but, what you should have done was call the cops. That's what she should have done. Not doing so is stupid. If my boyfriend hit me, whether or not I love him, I'd call the goddamn cops. If I fought back, yeah, I'd probably get hit again. That doesn't mean I want it to happen. Quite the opposite, it never should.
@MelancholyRose Yeah well you've not been through it so you so you don't actually know how you would react. Don't pass judgement on others until you have actually been though a situation yourself. No one 'asks for it'!!
@shoegalsho2 No, what you're doing is combining the words "Asking for it" with "deserved it." Let's say a teenaged girl dresses in half a skirt and tiny shirt and then strolls through the ghetto. She's ASKING to get raped. That doesn't mean she DESERVES to get raped. They are NOT the same thing.
@MelancholyRose I know what you mean and that is what ticks me off, she should have taken her kid went to her parents and her sister, file for a divorce and that would have been the end of it.
@orlandobabe you think so huh? Have u ever EVER lived that kind of life? Ken would have found her and murdered her anyway. Men like him DO NOT GIVE UP.
@Digitalfairy Unless you have been in that situation DO NOT JUDGE what you don't understand. Often the women are so beaten down they have no self esteem, and think that any attention is better than no attention or being alone. This does NOT make them fools, they are victims who need help, and hopefully have someone who is strong enough TO help them and take them to a place of safety. To call them fools is just as cruel as slapping them.
I'm sorry, but I understand a rape victim not wanting to do anything but being beaten!
Unfortunately for you lady, I'm the kind of person who violentely retaliates if beaten or bullied. We women SHOULD stand up for ourselves and if we don't those creeps will just keep guffawing behind everyone's back about how dumb we are for not speaking up!
Yes, she should have gone to the police. I think a part of her was truly stunned to realize that her own husband had lied and beat her that severely. She married this man and trusted him, and he violated that when they went on their honeymoon. Maybe in someway she wanted to let him know that she did indeed know what he did, and maybe she wanted him to admit it instead of continuing the lie. I guess in that situation we wouldn't know what to do either in that exact moment.
Well, of course he's the REAL crazy one. But when she realized he was dangerous, she should have left and reported him as soon as she could.... Not let him know that she knew...which hot her killed!!
@mslizzygirl1 I agree....unfortunately as a devout catholic she didnt believe in divorce. She thought she could work it out. i doubt she ever thought he would kill her.
@mslizzygirl1 I agree totally...she knew he was abusive and a drug addict. When she found out he'd actually beaten her on the Honeymoon, she should not have played into his hands by showing him those earrings. That was really dumb.
a narcissisist AND a sociopath. just one of them alone is dangerus. the combination of both is lethal. this is sociopathy- i know what i id was wrong but i didnt care. this is narcissism especially in regards to what they want- i want it i deserve it. if you dont give it to me ill take it even if i have to kill you to get it.
u2joshuadesireu 3 weeks ago
LMAO no you were the start of her problems. So right!
MiCHAELJLYSSAPAC 4 weeks ago
Smh. That poor baby... he should be about my age now. Life without his mother, hopefully he knows why she's not in his life now.
hburk02 1 month ago
This idiot's first mistake was messing with a girl who has a family that all care about each other and would do anything for each other.......
MsPrincess49 1 month ago
I don't think she realized just how dangerous he really was. When she put the earrings on I think she thought he stole them. That the police had recovered them and sent them to them otherwise she wouldn't have asked him about it. She knew about the 976 numbers and the drugs. But I don't think when she put those earrings on she knew what kind of danger she was putting herself in.
thegritch42 1 month ago in playlist 1.In A Child's Name Part
Did he kill her????
devashree100 2 months ago
@devashree100 yes
tmwalkerm 2 months ago
Why hasn't she divorced him already?!!! I'd have left him already when i got back from the hospital!
chicainger 2 months ago 5
The guy was a major sociopath...how I hate those!
nitagirl614 3 months ago
Not a wise desicision to let your hubby know about the truth.
mcog2006 4 months ago
im real sick of people passing judgment. while i agree she should have just left the house when she saw he knew about the earrings. she felt she was tough enough to defend herself unfortunately but that does NOT give anyone the right MELANCHOLYROSE...and people like you.....to immediately pass judgement when you have NEVER lived a life like this. When you have walked in the shoes of a woman being beaten or threatened then you can talk. To us it is easy to walk away, to those like her it is not
xhidingbhindmysmilex 5 months ago 3
The saddest thing to me is that he didn't even want that child
VIOLARI 6 months ago
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walkingmiracle 7 months ago
he made me nervous with them weights
TheMissrebecca101 7 months ago
After showing him the earrings, I thought she was an idiot. I'm sorry, but that was just stupid. I found it hard to sympathize. I don't care if she has this feeling of "I can't continue the lie he needs to know that I know!" That's dumb. When the fucking police show up, THEN he'll know that she knows. She should have taken the baby and left a long time ago. Or not get with him at all... she asked for trouble when she did this. She doesn't "deserve" it but, yes, she asked for it. Stupid.
MelancholyRose 7 months ago in playlist In a Child's Name
@MelancholyRose Are you SERIOUS!!!?? 'Yes asked for it' Are you crazy!!? That's the defense for every rapist, murderer, child abuser and spouse beater in the world!! You are basically saying that if you stole something from your partner and they confronted you about it that that would be grounds for you to hit or murder them! Domestic abuse has NO excuse!! You do NOT hit your partner in ANY circumstances!
shoegalsho2 7 months ago
@shoegalsho2 My defense isn't that. It's more like, if a rapist or murderer stole something from you, and you confronted them instead of called the cops. I'm saying IDIOCY asks for it, not women in general. It's stupid to confront someone you know is violent. You wouldn't face a murderer who is holding a gun and say "yeah I found this thing you stole from me, what you gonna do? Oh. You're going to shoot me in the face."
MelancholyRose 7 months ago
@MelancholyRose She didn't know he was violent did she? He convinced her that he hadn't hit her thanks to the head injuries he gave her. She had no idea he was going to murder her. The fact is he didn't have a gun.
shoegalsho2 7 months ago
@shoegalsho2 The reason why she showed him the earrings was because she knew it meant "he was the one who beat me." She was trying to show him that she knew he was the one who did it. And, yeah, I know he doesn't have a gun. He has a huge weight in his hands. That can easily be considered a weapon.
MelancholyRose 7 months ago
@MelancholyRose My ex-husband hit me week after we were married. He promised he wouldn't do it again. I stayed and four months later he kicked my dog. I shouted at him and he battered me for the last time (I left). I knew he had hit me before and I reacted in anger. Did I 'ask for a beating'. Was I not entitled to shout at him. Or should I just have walked on egg shells. I gave him a second chance because he had just come back from Iraq and I thought it was the war that caused his anger.
shoegalsho2 7 months ago
@shoegalsho2 Look, it's like you're telling me that I want spouses to beat each other. I'm not saying that it should happen. It's a BAD THING. I'm sure you know what I'm going to say, but, what you should have done was call the cops. That's what she should have done. Not doing so is stupid. If my boyfriend hit me, whether or not I love him, I'd call the goddamn cops. If I fought back, yeah, I'd probably get hit again. That doesn't mean I want it to happen. Quite the opposite, it never should.
MelancholyRose 7 months ago
@MelancholyRose Yeah well you've not been through it so you so you don't actually know how you would react. Don't pass judgement on others until you have actually been though a situation yourself. No one 'asks for it'!!
shoegalsho2 7 months ago
@shoegalsho2 No, what you're doing is combining the words "Asking for it" with "deserved it." Let's say a teenaged girl dresses in half a skirt and tiny shirt and then strolls through the ghetto. She's ASKING to get raped. That doesn't mean she DESERVES to get raped. They are NOT the same thing.
MelancholyRose 7 months ago
@MelancholyRose No one ever 'asks' to get beaten or raped!!!
shoegalsho2 7 months ago 2
@shoegalsho2 You deliberately ignore what I'm saying to you. Whatever, I'm sorry you got beat up.
MelancholyRose 7 months ago
@MelancholyRose No you clearly how either a poor grasp of the english language or you have no empathy. I'm done. Feel free to have the last word!
shoegalsho2 7 months ago
@MelancholyRose I know what you mean, why the Hell did she need to show him that she knows his lies?
orlandobabe 7 months ago
@orlandobabe She didn't need to. She'd be alive if she hadn't done that.
MelancholyRose 7 months ago
@MelancholyRose I know what you mean and that is what ticks me off, she should have taken her kid went to her parents and her sister, file for a divorce and that would have been the end of it.
orlandobabe 7 months ago
@orlandobabe you think so huh? Have u ever EVER lived that kind of life? Ken would have found her and murdered her anyway. Men like him DO NOT GIVE UP.
xhidingbhindmysmilex 5 months ago
My mum told me once, when confronting a man in anger, make sure you ARE'NT ALONE with him
missyadams 8 months ago 2
one hit would be enough for me to leave for good! I wouldn't need anymore excuses.
mycharades85 8 months ago
@mycharades85
Well said! Women that don't leave their husbands after being beaten aren't scared they're fools!
Digitalfairy 7 months ago
@Digitalfairy Unless you have been in that situation DO NOT JUDGE what you don't understand. Often the women are so beaten down they have no self esteem, and think that any attention is better than no attention or being alone. This does NOT make them fools, they are victims who need help, and hopefully have someone who is strong enough TO help them and take them to a place of safety. To call them fools is just as cruel as slapping them.
LadyDragonsblood 7 months ago in playlist In A Child's Name Part 2
@LadyDragonsblood
I'm sorry, but I understand a rape victim not wanting to do anything but being beaten!
Unfortunately for you lady, I'm the kind of person who violentely retaliates if beaten or bullied. We women SHOULD stand up for ourselves and if we don't those creeps will just keep guffawing behind everyone's back about how dumb we are for not speaking up!
Digitalfairy 7 months ago
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HE'S SUCH A FUCKED UP BASTARD
heightsdelpaso 8 months ago
THIS IS A RESULT OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP IT'S HER FAULT SHE SHOULDNT OF STAYED WITH HIM
heightsdelpaso 8 months ago
Yes, she should have gone to the police. I think a part of her was truly stunned to realize that her own husband had lied and beat her that severely. She married this man and trusted him, and he violated that when they went on their honeymoon. Maybe in someway she wanted to let him know that she did indeed know what he did, and maybe she wanted him to admit it instead of continuing the lie. I guess in that situation we wouldn't know what to do either in that exact moment.
dookie4life04 9 months ago
Well, of course he's the REAL crazy one. But when she realized he was dangerous, she should have left and reported him as soon as she could.... Not let him know that she knew...which hot her killed!!
mslizzygirl1 9 months ago 10
@mslizzygirl1 I agree....unfortunately as a devout catholic she didnt believe in divorce. She thought she could work it out. i doubt she ever thought he would kill her.
xhidingbhindmysmilex 5 months ago
She's crazy. She should have went to the police, not wear the earnings to show him!~
mslizzygirl1 10 months ago 22
@mslizzygirl1 yea seriously... what was she thinking?!!!!
MalissaRose 10 months ago
@mslizzygirl1 He butchured her and called a sex line right after and SHE'S crazy?
allenshepard 9 months ago
@mslizzygirl1 I agree totally...she knew he was abusive and a drug addict. When she found out he'd actually beaten her on the Honeymoon, she should not have played into his hands by showing him those earrings. That was really dumb.
Duchezz1 8 months ago