"It's a whole lot easier to emotionally manipulate someone who has been conditioned by our society to accept it. We continue to burden women because they don't refuse our burdens as easily. It's the ultimate cowardice." ~Yashar Ali
For more info google a article by him called: A Message To Women From A Man: You Are Not "Crazy"
It's great that she acknowledged that he is the way he is and she got stuck and she can't change him, only herself. Forgive herself for making that mistake and vow to know her worth and choose a good guy next time. I would be nice to see her respect herself enough to not take responsibility for it. I'd like to see her be good to herself now. Self-love and self-care is so essential to choosing a good mate.
(cont) the same way you give back, otherwise you may find someone that dumps it all on you like that. She had a right to be upset and feel that way. It's ok to forgive him for what happened but don't dump it all on you and be a doormat.
I see here that she shifted the blame from him to herself. It takes the anger away, but it doesn't change that he is not showing up as a father and doing his part. He dumped it all on her with no remorse or empathy for her. No one owes you anything, but if you have kids, you want to show up for them and take care of them. She did all the work while he got the fun life. He showed up for the easy fun stuff while she suffered and sacrificed. You want a man that will show up for you and the kids th
I am so moved by the truth I experience each time I listen to or watch the Work. Thank you, Katie for being the one who was ready to receive this so that we might all now receive it...if we are ready and open. It is so beautiful. It is all my story.
This is so pro-heterosexual-father male that it seems unreal... given today's climate of anti-heterosexual father. It's great to hear the other side... and from the heterosexual-mother... I assume.
Love the purple socks, Katie! :D
nagdeolife 2 weeks ago 3
Beautiful to see this woman connecting with her own deep Truth <3
KateTrafford 2 weeks ago
"It's a whole lot easier to emotionally manipulate someone who has been conditioned by our society to accept it. We continue to burden women because they don't refuse our burdens as easily. It's the ultimate cowardice." ~Yashar Ali
For more info google a article by him called: A Message To Women From A Man: You Are Not "Crazy"
msubscriptions 4 weeks ago
It's great that she acknowledged that he is the way he is and she got stuck and she can't change him, only herself. Forgive herself for making that mistake and vow to know her worth and choose a good guy next time. I would be nice to see her respect herself enough to not take responsibility for it. I'd like to see her be good to herself now. Self-love and self-care is so essential to choosing a good mate.
msubscriptions 4 weeks ago 3
(cont) the same way you give back, otherwise you may find someone that dumps it all on you like that. She had a right to be upset and feel that way. It's ok to forgive him for what happened but don't dump it all on you and be a doormat.
msubscriptions 4 weeks ago
I see here that she shifted the blame from him to herself. It takes the anger away, but it doesn't change that he is not showing up as a father and doing his part. He dumped it all on her with no remorse or empathy for her. No one owes you anything, but if you have kids, you want to show up for them and take care of them. She did all the work while he got the fun life. He showed up for the easy fun stuff while she suffered and sacrificed. You want a man that will show up for you and the kids th
msubscriptions 4 weeks ago
@msubscriptions yes we do want a man that is going to be different. and that wanting and not getting is causing the suffering.
desmondsusu 2 days ago
I am so moved by the truth I experience each time I listen to or watch the Work. Thank you, Katie for being the one who was ready to receive this so that we might all now receive it...if we are ready and open. It is so beautiful. It is all my story.
favoritebabygirl 1 month ago
This is so pro-heterosexual-father male that it seems unreal... given today's climate of anti-heterosexual father. It's great to hear the other side... and from the heterosexual-mother... I assume.
plaren 1 month ago 2
@plaren all i see here is a woman realizing that her unexamined judgments have been ruining her life. :o)
TadRapidly 3 weeks ago 4
Thank you once again, Work of Bk, for your video. I'm always amazed at the timeliness of your videos. Byron Katie, you inspire me. I am here.
PeterTysdal 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Phenomenal. Thank you.
willyicious 1 month ago 2
Very powerful thank you!
ILOVE2FeelGOOD 1 month ago 2