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  • i'll cryng, when i remember a i keep peoples in the my life , the more importants! , i over , but and my history is basicllaly that , this music is best explain !

  • thumbs up if your one of the few girls who actually like the nice guys! Im proud to say im with a man who treats me right and i love it! I be damned if ima put up with a heartbreaker! Im never gna let my nice guy go! <3

  • @19trixy Good for you! I'm still waiting for a nice guy to come my way ;) I can't stand guys who don't know how to treat a woman right. It pisses me off. Glad to know you're one a few who actually has a great guy ;)

  • @kimsthaname your nice guy will come along(: mine was right under my nose and i didnt even know it haha. all things happen for a reason. What ever is meant to be will find its way(: Im a FIRM believer in that now lol.

  • @19trixy Oh yes. I'm paitently waiting. No matter how long it takes ;)

  • in 2012 this song is still Amazing .

  • This isn't completely true. I'm going for my best guy friend, who happens to be EXTREMELY nice.

  • idk even knoe if this one huy likes me. it breaks my heart not knowing. im to scared to ask him though T-T i really care about him and want to get to know him better.

  • It's kinda sad that a reality is sung here... We rather keep with the guy that doesn't even look at us with respect instead the angel waiting for a nice word.

  • this song is so wrong the good guys in reaility get the girl and the bad guy doesnt even care about her so why even try again with the guy that left your heart sour and not find a guy that treats you right thats what i want in a guy i dont care if they are bad ass if they are sweet as pie i will go for them then

  • I love this Song!

  • yes true but reverse it girls break his heart damn it all makes sences know

  • so the only way 2 keep a gurl is 2 be a player? MESSAGE RECEIVED! aha :P

  • This song is against girls but ii love it :D

  • :D

  • nice guys try 2 b morons 2 get girls, saaaad

  • sad thing is, the song is basically true

  • Hahahahaha what girls hav they dated? or been around?

  • These lyrics are so true..

  • any1 else notice that most of Good Charlotte's songs has to do with girls and love? and problems going on with the world?

  • I feel kind of aughful now.. Is this what he thinks about me?

    I'm a little confused what the message is..

    I just saw my ex post this his FB now. We broke up for about a week ago. We dated 2 years ago. We've been on and off a couple of times since then. He's always told me that he misses me no matter how many girls he's been with after me. He said he loved me.

    I love him with all my heart. I'm so sad that I didn't get a second chance to prove myself.

    I'm so messed up..

  • @ThisIsLove94 Well that's life are you still friends?

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  • Nice song:)

    However, if any boy breaks my heart I'd punch him out then move out.

    Nice guys <3

  • @Starryxo haha Love it! =)

  • Guys, this song doesn't apply to every woman. A woman worth keeping is one that loves & appreciates you and your kindness. Not one that needs her heart broken in order to love you & stick around.

    I admit that I tend to be drawn to men who don't treat me well or who don't care. But, I'm also VERY messed up. Haha. Deep down tho I've always desired to be truly happy with a man who loves me unconditionally. Thankfully I found a sweet man who loves me, puts up with my craziness, and makes me happy.

  • i hate to admit it but this is true when i met my girl i was going throw a state of depression but unlike most people instead of sadness i got angry and didnt give a damn about anythin so sadly i didnt treat her well(i never hit her i just ignore her some times and didn't show her how much she meant to me* and she cried but she still was all lovey dovey with me then after a year i got better and then i treat her like she was the whole world to me and after a while she became distant and dump me

  • @darklordcidthefrist Sadly, some girls are only interested in a project or challenge.. And when they 'win' or get 'bored' they just move on. Not all girls are like that tho. I'm really sorry you had to go thru that. =(

  • @lebenimteufel yeah now that you say something about it she did like to say hehe i win all ways thought it was cute but now it makes since lol thanks but im still young they say true love doesn't come in your life till your 30s the younger years should be spent making a life for your self

  • It's not ALWAYS true.

  • This is absolutley true. Don't even try to deny it girls.

  • I have to admit that I've been guilty of doing this to a guy before. I don't recommend it to anyone- chose the nice guy that actually cares about you.

  • @BlackWolf4Anime6

    You must be the dumbest bitch alive. Obviously no guy has ever loved you to the point he would blow his brains out if he had to live without you. Women always bitch about what they think they want, but they really have no fucking clue, because when you give it to them, they just turn around and start dating some asshole because they think they want him too. Have you ever heard the song Nice Guys Finish Last? That's a total crock of shit, because nice guys end up hanging limp i

  • A girl always has that guy she knows she can get everything from the guy that truely loves her. She takes his love for granted and treats him like crap when she has another guy. But when the guy turns the other cheek, she'll do anything to get him back. Wanna get the girl? Break apart her heart.

  • Dear Good Charlotte: I personally respect you as a band. But today, my Girlfriend broke up with me because of this.

    With all due respect:

    The single asshole

  • Im a girl. This is very a true, my ex, since last night, gave me everything and DID tell me he needed me to live. I feel like an awful bitch. But I wanted to have some fun with other guys in my hometown, since he lived 2 hours away. I ruined him and I can't live with myself.

  • @ImageOfOriginality97 Im in the same boat in a way.. it really sucks but dont beat ur self up ur human and wanting to have experiences and live life n have fun dont make u a bitch and idk if im tellin u or myself.. but it always gets better so head up girl..

  • @ImageOfOriginality97 Everything has a consenquence did you apologize? I think people should at least say their sorry for their mistakes. At least try to say sorry maybe that will work I don't know what will happen but it's a good start.

  • Sad thing is... It's all true

  • im a girl....but this song is EPIC!

    :D

  • @fatima105 ALL good charlotte songs are epic. =)

  • well i'm not that kind of girl and i'm sure that more girls out there aren't like that, we are loyal and just want to be with our man, and then they are the ones doing that...

    I just want to say that: guys (the ones that don't observe before acting) just see what kind of girl is before you do that

  • this is a really good song and most of it is true because for us girls if you break our heart we will try harder but if you keep giving us what we want its just the same old stuff

  • seeing them 7th August in London!!!! Totally excited.

  • im sure teh reasonable explanation is dump the bitch shes cheating on you dont come up with all these dickhead theorys think of what you would do -.-

  • the reason why us chicks go for the jack asses is because we grew up thinking that if they treat you badly that it means they like you. Example: "Oh honey the reason he's picking on you is because he likes you."

    Bull shit.

    If I have a daughter and she gets picked on my a boy I'm gonna tell her "You turn your ass around and beat the shit out of that kid!"

    I HATE HATE HATE watching all my best friends fall apart over some guy who isn't even interested.

    So I'm through with it

    Period

  • @silly1202 Someones watched "He's Just Not That Into You" it seems. ;)

    Different guys do different things. Some of them actually DO act like douchbags when they like a girl. Not necessarily intentional though.

  • @silly1202 i do agree when i was in 8th grade there was this really pervy kid that would pull up my skirt he was a real dick and before my dad died he told me to be as strong as i could so one day when he was going to pull up my skirt i punched him in his face and he fell down the steps i thought for sure he'd leave me alone but it made him angry nd he chased after me when i got to a certain hall i screamed nd my best friend came i never saw the kid again. i miss my dad he taught me so much

  • @silly1202

    omg you just read my mind

  • @silly1202 That's what they all say. I guarantee you your next boyfriend is going to be a douchebag. Your nice guy friend will warn you that he is a douchebag. You will say: "no, he's different." Then cry to said friend when douchebag turns out to be a douchebag. And cut to next boyfriend: same story, never listening or going for nice guy friend.

  • @silly1202

    amen sister

  • This song is so true!

  • it's simple psychology. if you've grown up in a loving, two parents family home that's what you've come to understand 'love' to be. however, some people that have been brought up in either abusive or unsteady single parent families where they've watched their parents struggle in relationships come to see that as 'love' and they sometimes crave relationships like this because their partners remind them of past traumas and they want to make it right so they seek out bad relationships unknowingly.

  • @IshxLozzah Holy shit that makes sense

  • I like this song, still it's sad. I wouldn't stay with a guy if he broke my heart!

  • Sadly part of this is true. there's this guy and he sometimes ignores me and sometimes smiles at me and just keeps me running back and forth. He's a challenge, but a cute one. But there's also this other guy he's really nice and funny, but not that cute, but he doesn't worship the ground i walk on or anything. I like both, both completly different.

  • I love nice, good guys...always have, always will. Never get bored of them, I mean c'mon, that is not true affection! :/ I hate guys who hurt girls so much out of spite or to prove a point. Thier views on handling relationships are shit. lol

  • @TabbyAngie THANK YOU. finally someone who has some since.

  • @Left4DeadMaker It works for some guys not all.

  • This song is so true! I'm a girl. I like a challenge if a guy was to give me the things I wanted I would get bored to easy. If u really like the guy work for it! Makes things more interesting! A girl will go for that total ass whole. So girls yes some guys r total dicks. Others do it so they can keep you! Their will be red flags if the guy is actually a total dick head! :)

  • my boyfriends a dick -_- duno if hes doing this to keep me or too piss me off and get rid of me =/

  • This song speaks the truth. You give a girl everything, and she'll get bored. It's EXACTLY what happened to me. I'm a totally nice guy, really cool and funny, but my ex left me 'cuz I was too nice, or too boring, gave her too much. Now I treat all girls like shit (to an extent) 'cuz that's the only way to get a girl and to keep her.

  • you know, it's kinda sad..this song is the plain old truth! us girls seem to stick with the guys who treat us like mud! we never really see the nice guys because we wanna be with the rebel, even if we know it's bad for us....GC has made an excellent point :)

  • Not old enough to have experienced a broken heart, but I swear to God, if a guy does this to me, I'd leave him in a heartbeat. Personally, I hate girls who act like whores to their guys and they probably DO deserve this, though. But, if a guy does this just to keep you when you're being faithful, then its ridiculous.

    On an unrelated note, this song kicks ass.

  • Damn... sounds like something that would happen to me

  • I love this song.. I'm a girl

  • i dont know how to break a heart i cant im not that type but they break my heart </3 :(

  • so THIS is why guys are dicks....

  • @Synister016 Some.. lol

  • Waoo! Ironically, right? Excellent meaning! 

  • im kinda confused....breaking my heart will make me never forget you.....but that doesnt mean i will love u anymore....well idk....im just rlly confused

  • THIS WAS THE FIRST SONG I EVER DRUMMED!!!

  • @vamsterr wow this song would be epic if it was drummed!

    :D

  • SEE WE LEARN SOMETHING NEW EVERYDAY

  • @aaron11091992

    Ha ha ha!

    of course not true for all

    but definately applies to most

  • wow i better go tell my friend axel he needs 2 get kendra back

  • I agree that guys shouldn't give everything, like 'You're my life', 'We will never part' These things are too fast and make girls feel it's too serious, but we also don't want a dickhead who won't try to understand .

    Just be yourself, some girls appreciate a good guy, don't let the girl that broke you heart change that.

  • @mary1244 i agree bt the last girl i was with cheated on me and i told her tht im nvr gonna tlk to her again bt she keeps txting me lol

  • I love the pic at .14!!!!

  • Thats just how to be a dick. girls agree?

  • @iknowwhoyoure True

  • @iknowwhoyoure I wished more girls agreed with you

  • NO! Girls act like that, because some guys wanna act stupid, so they lose interest. And if a guy breaks her heart, then FUCK THEM! Simple as that...we stay around because we know they "Supposably" love us. It's confusing though & I know i really don't make sense but still.

  • This is kinda the same beat as like its her birthday ? whatcha think ?

  • 31 januari i'm going to see good charlotte in "de melkweg" who will be there? peace

  • this seems partly true, I mean, would you go for what you can have, or would you go for something you cant have just for a challenge? But treating someone like crap isnt good.

  • @MysticShattaz ... psh... i couldnt have said it any better myself ... why is it like that?!

  • if a guy treated me like this i would eventually get tired of his games and leave him! >= J Its not good to treat people like they are worethless!

  • its true i think, but it feels wrong to treat someone u like like shit, i dont and it failed so i think ts true, good song to.

  • @TwilightxTeamxJasper thats just cruel, just get him back, who cares about anyone else, i had a crush on a girl, but got rejected :( but u cant let these things get to u, if u really like him ull get him back :)

  • we always ignore the ones that care about us, and adore the ones who doesn't give a shit about us :o

    story of every guy/girl life sooner or later O.o

    

  • @nobodysgirl987

    lmao i so wish you were right.... but your not.

    i lost the girl of my dreams just like this.

  • hurts so much. my first heartbreak. ive been in love with her for three years. everytime i mentioned him she used to be like ew, now she's going out with him. just teaches me to treat girls like fucking shit and you'll get them.

  • well, sometimes you desire what you can't have. what can i say?...

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  • i am the perfect man ^_^ im single for a reason this reason :X

  • This is so untrue..us girls(most of us)are not like this..If the guy would break my heart i would leave him becuz that only mean that he doesnt care at all.

  • @MsAngelOfDeath69 I think it's just that many girls (mainly in school) enjoy attention and if there's drama in a relationship that's why she'll stay with him; for attention. :L

  • @funnyface345  Yea,i agree.

    They are such a stupid hoes,i hate girls like that.And most of them dont even love their boyfriend they have one just so they can say that they had a boyfriend..so stupid and dissgusting :P

  • @MsAngelOfDeath69 I take great offense to tht, i stay w/ a guy who's not at all nice becuz ik its just the drugs ally ect. and i do love him for a great # of reasons!, matter of fact noboady @ my skool knows becuz i dont trapse around saying i got one.

  • @nobodysgirl987 ?wat do u mean?

  • Damn. They're on to us.

  • i am a girl if a boy broke my haert i would leave it is called confidece but i'm not much of a tryer

  • i love this song is good :)

  • does anybody know what band is on the shirt of the guy who has a hat on?

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  • Wish I wasn't going through this. wish i could forget her !

  • im not a big fan of good charlotte,but i love this song, i guess im one of those nice guys who lived it lol

  • Girls always seem to go for the bad boy type, but I think its more of a desire of having something you can't have (and a bit of lust too) than anything called "love". And I'm ashamed to admit it but I'm kind of like that too and I'm getting sick of it...

    Like the saying goes nice guys finish last.

  • I Really Really Love This Song, 1 Of The Best On GRM, :))

  • Wow, I could speak the lyrics of this song right now and it would all be true, at least in my opinion.

  • Did he write this for Hilary Duff?

  • True :( .

    But don't think that being like that is actually something easy..

    Iwe're not bitch ... It's really hard to know that you need to be hurt before you gget in a relationship..

    :'( ..

    cause that person is hurting me so bad , by coming in my life and then get out of it ALL THE TIME ... but somehow .. i love this person even more .. each time </3

    We're not all like that though...

  • This song is so true! If someone breaks your heart, you're always gonna remember him & you forget the guy who was nice to you...

  • You guys are good in thinking about this song! I've read every comment and every comment is a bit true! Thank you all for your nice comments! <3

    8th of Juli i'm going to see Good Charlotte! ;D

  • @Cynthiiiaaaa It is being a dick, but girls always fall for the dicks not a nice kid who gives then anything they want, that will never last.

  • I'd rather have a nice guy than a mean guy... If a guy was a jerk to me, it would probably make me really sad inside. So not all girls like jerks. Just saying.

  • @reallyboredist thats what my ex said before she left me for the very guy that put her through it all... I guess we never know until it happens

  • its the same with guys though they want girls they cant have so its not just us girls doing it

  • @venomousgirl11 It's true. Guys are the exact same way.

  • Idk....this song is pretty true for me, treat me bad and Ill love you treat me good and ill find somebody else.

  • ha this might b true but i rather have a nice guy than a mean guy that treats me like shit.....there trippin if they try 2 do somethin like dat 2 me

  • beautiful diaster there is also very little nice guys out there and thats the one i want all though he doesnt want me XP lol

  • @missinglovingu Don't give up on him, Show him how you feel. And if he doesn't except you for you he's not worth it believe me.

  • i learned the hard way i showed too much love. Thats the way you want it thats how you will get it. Then they ask y their is no nice guys.

  • well this is the truth my boyfriend used to ALWAYS do this to me of coarse me and him r over now but he had me going thru that crap for 3 FREKIN YEARS so if u wanna keep; the grl play the games

  • Thats evil... and true. :(

  • it just boils down to the man being a challenge for his woman he cant give her everything she wants and has to keep that challenge up the WHOLE TIME which fuckin sucks but thats the way it is. nice guys really do finish last im one of those nice guys and trying to be more of a challenge but its difficult when you're basically trained to be a pussy your whole life because your father and his fathers father didnt know better. Girls want a man not a friend, kinda like a father figure to send them..

  • @envisionstar to their room when they did something bad and not give in when they're right and just be difficult. it sucks but thats how it is. im goin through something with my girl and she has all these reasons and excuses why theres problems but it just boils down to her not liking me as much anymore and me not being enough of a challenge regardless of the reasons, girls find it difficult to just tell a man "i just dont like you anymore" they feel like they're hurt him or his ego.

  • This song is so true! Imma girl and I promise this really is the way to keep a girl!

  • fuckin why ? i mean i love my gf so much that i wouldn't let dust touch her why should i be almost careless??

  • love dis song

    :P

  • This song fits in with my outlook on life. "Take all you can, give nothing back." and "be nice to someone and they are bound to stab you in the back someday soon."

  • woww what a terrible outlook on life LOL Wouldn't you prefer having some friends and have some of them betray you every once in a while, but have them cover your back most of the time? You've gotta trust other people because if you go in not trusting them then anything they do will seem like they're betraying you it really all depends on your attitude towards them.

  • My outlook on life has proven it to me hundreds of times.

  • I LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS SONG!! <33

  • my ex bf ignores me soo much but i still luv him nt caz he ignores me n is rude to me ...bt he made me feel alive once ... caz he was v kind n sweet wid me!! soz for me love matters more than stupid thn (like ignoring)Q.Q

  • Same thing happens to me, but suppositely he still loves me.

  • The raw truth.

  • if u wanna have the controll of the relation u must become a bastard...if u give love and comprehension...u will be betrayed....

    This is the right way...and dont be gelous with your girlfriend...just "take everything and give nothing"

  • Part of it is true but I really think that a girl who do it don't want to be with him 'rest of her life' but just want to have 'fun' with him but guys who care and are really nice and fun to be aroun these are these guys whom girls want to be with 'the rest of their lives'

    But thats only my opinion.

  • it's fucking true:(

  • @ilovemybrotherpiotr indeed way to true.. sigh

  • iLeviathan yeah I know... I'll say things I won't say in person but being called a liar isn't really horrible... It's the sad truth and you have to live with it. I wonder if I'll have to too.

  • ChadA23 that's not true! I hate guys that treat me like crap. They should get out of my way, nice guys are waay better!

  • @Blizzykit

    All girls like jerks, wheter you admit it or not. You like hot, jerks. You like guys who won't do anything for you. If you don't admit it, you're just a liar.

  • iLeviathan i'll admit I like some of them, but in the end their just boy toys we like to look at. They're nothing when you come right down to it... but maybe girls just like them because that's all you can find now-a-days

  • @Blizzykit

    Hey, i'm a real nice guy. Too bad im not hot. Cause, no girls even like me. I try my hardest to be nice, and always ask them why they don't like me, and they tell me im an asshole or a jerk, yet i try to be nice, and they wont tell me what I do wrong, yet they tell me about all these hot guys who treat them like shit and like they're dolls just to touch everywhere.

  • iLeviathan it's a sad truth. I don't really know why they don't like you. I'm not too fond of you cause you called me a liar.. at my school all the cute guys are jerks that think they're funny. My sister's asshole of a boyfriend lives in our house and I don't like him. I feel sorry for him, the way he grew up and can understand why he's the way he is, but it doesn't really matter. Now that I think of it I used to have a crush on a really nice guy and he wasn't the hottest guy. But I was too shy.

  • @Blizzykit

    Im alot less nice on the internet, most people are. And girls don't like me because there's hot guys. Aslong as there is guys who look good, the girls will want them.

  • @iLeviathan how would uno that ur arent hot? but iagree with those girls sum times most of the guys in my skl r hot and im like in gr7 and im dating a guy in gr10 who isnt a jerk we've been dating 4 like a yr now ull always find the girls ujust hav 2 wait like idid until he finally realised he like me!

  • This is so true. I LOVE their music it's all so good old and new! And they seem to always have a message

  • so does it mean that he's trying to say that girls only want guys that hurt them? that dont actually want them? Thats so not true. I'm a girl and dont want that!

  • It's true girls just wont admit it. Why do you think nice guys arnt around anymore? Bc no one wants them. I would know.. Girls ALWAYS go for the guys that treat them like crap, and dont respect them. Nice guys just are not appreciated anymore.

  • im a girl and its kinda true il admit if a guy is hot but treats me like shit i wouldnt care i would be crazy about him but if theres a guy nice as hell to me i wouldnt realy give him my full attention

  • @ChadA23 now thats speaking the truth

  • @xoflissyhunxo

    No, he's saying girls like guys who're jerks, and won't give their life for the girl.

  • u should make my so called gf thing the same..

  • i like their stuff that has a bit more of a beat lol

    gud work