@lasheron- With all due respect, you need to go back to read Adam & Eve again. She gave some to her husband WHO WAS WITH HER. Adam was standing there the entire time. Don't take my word for it. Look it up.
The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
im done with this dumb ass subject. and fuck the bible thats for shrink brain cant think for they self ppl. and as 4 this subject have fun entertaining ea other i rather watch jerry springer.
...and some words to edumacated brothas u finally help me understand the adam blame eve story. but one thing u men missed in this symbology is god gave adam the laws not us you was supposed to lead us right because he gave u the resposibilty.adam shouldve said naw baby we cant do this or ran to god and ask him to deal with it but knoooow he ate the damn thang too and ran pointing the finger at eve.god punished us all. so stop tasting the fruit running scared blaming us.you responsible too
@cherysenixon go read your bible...he told both of them together not to eat the apple...and now play it in your head isnt it soooo messed up that she knew her error then went shaking her behind to adam to get him to fall into the doom with her.
you know bw do need to stop having babies from these fake ass IM A MAN PERSONA. i made bad choices in a man i have kids from..anyway i can tell some of these men either on child support with felonies and uneducated of knowledge of self and other things.black men refuse to point the finger at themselves. in the same sentence they put us dwn ANDrevealing the fact that they are fucked up by telling us to stop having babies from dead beat black men. HATE YOUR DAMN SELF.GIRLS JUST WANA HAVE FUN. F IT
@MultiSouthernBell we r all on welfare! all citizens, corporate execs,business owners,entertainers,satanist..etc who owns&run your slaughterhouses?every paycheck that's inked by anyone's boss designates their welfare bracket,try expanding your dormant logic to see this? hiv destroying the blkcomm will never reach the proliferation of unstable black households,murders,marriages,unplanned families..etc there is no BM in the WH except the WHITE HOUSE! White
@MultiSouthernBell alot of black men suffer(materialistic syndrone) from having to trick out their vehicles with rims,flashy garments & jewelry for a bw to even give them time of day & trust me
its exhausting and they NEVER forget it! After being passed up for the butha who has no
"atm" problems it increases the desire to ethnicly abandon bw.As so a rolex depicts
economic status,white arm candy comparitively establishes.Men date penniless women
@MultiSouthernBell I disagree & as much as women have supported division practices from family to paternity support courts you won't cut a waiver there.Part of the dilemma is tossing an old vain coin where females always attach themselves as tails seeking a head,& tails don't quite function on the level of a head its a cry in the dark if you don't aspire to not be under someone's authority(man) more or less power to you falling back will buy you more subjugation no more traditional thinking
@MultiSouthernBell and why women are seen not capable or competent of being strong leaders themselves which is explicit within itself that they are adult babies/children? sure we do the
blame game and leadership is a state of mind its not something someone can
just label you as or expect a role to be carried out this is the problem i know heads
will be in disagreement but learn a compass north - south direction but learn.Lead by man
seems to equate do all the work if I fish you fish too!
Once again i see women commenting tryin to blame everything on men and not take any responsibility for the things they do, i mean should black women take any responsibility
@MultiSouthernBell from my experience alot of it comes down to how these men were raised, i grew up in a "lower income environment" but i had two parents, my dad would beat my ass if i didnt handle my responsibilities while alot of my friends grew up in single parent households, their mothers babied them an werent as hard on them. Subsequently in adulthood they're not able to handle leadership and responsibility.
Black love, marriage, and family where did it go? Is there any hope for our community? These women today only care about the $. They're satisfied being someones baby mama. We have a community full of money hungry hoes.
You go find all the black males that fathered children and refuse to take responsibility for caring for their children. That's the legitimate question.
You act as if these black women make the choice to be single mothers. It's not usually a choice it's pretty much like taking care of your mistakes. They made a mistake in their youth, had a child, maybe stupidly made more mistakes, had more children. The black YOUNG man, he bolts (understandbly) b/ca he's too immature to deal with being a father, a provider. It's a cycle of enabling that needs to stop. Black women need to be conscientious and stop allowing this monopolization. Break the chain.
@bezzly I'm black. lol. Children ARE a blessing but when I say mistake I mean an incorrect, unwise, or unfortunate act or decision caused by bad judgment or a lack of information or care. When a child is born to a teenage mother who can not care for the child on her own, then that is a mistake. No sugar coating. Notice how I said YOUNG black men/women. Too young to be parents, is what I meant.
Most of these broads KNEW what they were getting into & what kinda guys they CHOSE 4! So Fuck Black American Women in America, that's in this generation! Why sleep with sumone, who THEY barely know & KNOWINGLY they AINT gonna be around?! ya rite, there's sum shiezty dudez & all. Im tired of hearin these bitches perpective on this shit. Time 2 hear the Men's story, that's Mandatory... Who's says, Im perfect tho? I got my disabled dad & my departed mom. they're great souls
i agree with what he is saying. It's different if the female was married then had the kids but my thing is what ever happened to getting married first THEN having kids? some women sadly use their kids for welfare benefits and foodstamps so they can buy their "gucci bag" and what not then act like they have money. Some women also use the kid to "trap" the man. ATTENTION WHORES A CHILD IS NOT GOING TO MAKE A MAN WANT TO BE WITH YOU.
Excellent commentary, my man. I am fed up with silly women dictating the lives of men and children and calling it "family". Family in the best sense of the term refers to a man finding a wife, settling into a home, and adding children to the home.
Today, corrupted women have taken over with gov't cheese and food stamps and are duped to believe they are "heroes" who save the black family because the men are too cowardly to lead and provide. Crap. The black family is ruined because women lead it.
female on parent family is not an experiment brother, i'm sure you know that, it is the perfection of all ideals to destroy masculine rulership at any and all levels and automatically turn over all children born into that vacuum unto satan and his demons. that's what both married and single women do except a vigilant man is around, they release the children to satan, how do you suppose all the boys and girls become fagots an lesbians in general!! keep on raising awareness brother. shalom
@HowlingBenjamin Remember years ago when fathers lead and the current trend of single mothers raising scum and gangbangers was not accepted?. No matter how tragic the outcome, stubborn, proud, foolish women continue to raise children "independently" while depending on the gov't and the "village" [system] for assistance.
@karlsmith00 Finally Karl, You last comment was flawed. You try to insult me by saying that I will end up like my mom and I need help because of it. Yet, your defending my mom/women who make these stupid decisions with stupid MEN. Also, if he was run off, he still CHOOSE to stay away. Still blaming him. Your being a bit hypocritical are you not? MEN need to grow up and WOMEN need to have HIGHER standards. Plain and simple. Make better decisions and our communities will thrive. Have fun trolling.
@karlsmith00 Wow you really are narrow-minded. I blamed both in all of my comments. So your argument is flawed in saying I don't blame my father/the man. Secondly, If I was gonna end up like my mother I would have kids right now, Again read my first post. Zero kids. Picking a good partner is the problem, and that is on BOTH ends. Again if you can't read, BOTH includes My MOTHER and FATHER. That is Both the MAN and the WOMAN.
@karlsmith00 Finally, years ago she came to called me to apologize for everything she had done in her past. She apologized for all the pain I had of watching my younger sibling get their father's love and I didn't. She told me that she in a way ran my father off and is the reason for me missing out added on to the fact that he wasn't ready emotionally, mentally, or financially. Don't get it twisted, I'll always love my mom. But, even she knows that she messed up and so did HE.
@karlsmith00 If you read my first comment I said its Partially my mothers fault. that is blaming Both of them. So please learn how to read. Secondly, they both screwed around. She was not raped. So it is on BOTH of them. This isn't a matter of innocence. Its a matter of handling you business on both ends. You can't just blame the Man if they both agreed to do the deed. Its her fault that she used NO birth control and picked a immature guy to have sex with, and It's his for refusing to be around.
@karlsmith00 why are you guys arguing with that angry white woman.. K.S.00? Tell that bi**h to get loss all white people talk about is the tax payers and they are paying to much taxes
Yet you look at the welfare rolls and its swollen with poor white trash. You want people off welfare go to Utah were 1man is married to 16 wives has 66 children and there all on welfare @ $24,000 month cash and 40,000 in food stamps then come back to this board and bitch. In other words clean you own house first
What every 1 seems to forget is the blk woman is the guardian of her gate(Virgina) no 1 raped her no 1 forced her she either was trying to get away from home or trap some poor sucker into father hood. Then turn around and blame the man, if she does have a child and the man don't measure up she gets rid of him and moves on to the next guy....It ain't so much the man fault in most cases it's the woman's fault she is busy chasing the dollar and looking for fun. the child is just a by-product,
@maann36 thats bull shit its both of there fault i have a friend and he is 32 yrs old and he refuse to go in raw dog he have no kids and dont plane on having none till he gets married the point im making if he or she dont want know kids then they both should take the measures to not have one men know when they go inside a woman naked head he know its a good chance he can get her pregnant so without saying he need to take measures to use a condom even if the female dnt suggest he do
@2hottric woman have (sixteen way) to not get pregnant, men have only one or not have sex at all. People have sex.... Most woman /girls try to get pregnant to trap the man it's as simple as that!! Woman /girls are liers and conniver.
@maann36 first of all u sound like my 8yr old when she does something wrong she blames it on someone else and says but she let me and other words my child say she know what she was doing was wrong but because the other person did not stop her she continue to do it so i guess my child expect for me to say oh yeah thats right she should have stop u for getting into someting u know u have no business doing even tho she knows better the point im making if u dont want kids a woman can not
@2hottric You are just upset because I am telling the truth !!!... You woman are always looking to blame someone else for the messes you create. The firs thing you want to do is blame it on some thug or any and all black men and say all the black men are in jail or there are no good black men or some nonsense like that. Like I said no one raped you you were a willing participant. You know I speak the truth you just hate to admit it!!
@maann36 u are about as dumb as u can get i never did not denide saying the woman should not take blame but when men produce kids and dont take care of them thats makes black men look bad he should have thought about that before he nutt in her pussy i am mad at both women and the man im not bias like u and only one to put it on the female and give the black man a free pass when a man know he have a child in this world and choose not to take care of him he is what u called a pitiful
@maann36 trap a man into doing nothing my friend tells me all the time whenever he has sex he always bring his own condom because under no circumstance he will never have unprottected sex he said if he have to run to the store 3 in the morning then he will do what he have to do no female on the face of this earth will tell me different so no one can mouth piece u deer into have unprottected sex unless u are stupid or jus dnt give a shit if men had his attitude then they would not have
@maann36 so many single mothers because either way it goes both parties need to be responsible she need to tell herself dam he ant hitting on shit so i need to make sure this nigga wear a condom and he need to tell his self man im not tring to have no baby for this no good chick so im going to wear a condom if h she is not being the wise one did he need to step up and if she see he is not being the wise one then she need to step up bottom line so both is at fault 50%50
I am a Fatherless child. I agree, single mothers who have deadbeat babies are killing our community. I cry over the fact that I never saw my dad and that he never wanted anything to do with me and know it partially my mother's fault screwing at 17 some at her school. I know so many who feel worthless and wont amount to anything because of it. I am 27, I have no kids, and am in school. I have been with the same man for 6 years. Don't have kids unless you can provide everything they need!
there is no advantage that a single mom can offer a child or children compared to a household where 2 parents are. it should be husband and wife and not just 2 parents in the household. i grew up in a household of 3 children to a single parent mom and i look back and now hate my childhood. it surely showed me what not to do in life and when i have kids. thank God the United States Marine Corps showed me what becoming a man is all about.
i JUST WANT TO KNOW IF ANY WOMAN IN YOUR FAMILY HAS A CHILD AND IS NOT MARRIED? OR IF YOU HAVE A KID AND AINT MARRIED BECAUSE YOU S.O.B WOULD BE THE MAJOR PROBLEM YOU'RE NOTHING MORE THAN A FUCKING CUNT AND WEAPON OF WILLIE LYNCH!!!! NIGGER!!!!
im so tired of these black men letting these dead beat men get the go ahead free card and les address the issue with them it is sad that a lot of these black men jus want to have sex and thats it and when they get a girl pregnant they hurry up and go by there business so sad black men nedd to be ashamed of themselfs im not really crazy about mexican i kno i have to work on that but one thing i can say they take care of their kids and they look out for each other they have family values
@karlsmith00 sigh you are beyond hope at this point, you don't invent statistics? you are the idiot that said that there are no single father homes at all, her father encouraged her to go to school and was very strict,you assume that he was not present in her life prior to her moving in as if you were there,typical misandrist,my stats are very much real you need links? let us see a link that shows no single father homes exist...don't bother me with your nonsense you psycho.
@karlsmith00 It does not matter whether or not the father was biological,the man made a better parent in the end because while she was living with the mother she was getting nowhere,please stop arguing you make your self sound stupider with every message and i got better things to do than arguing with an idiot on the internet...u say i am insulated from reality? you said there no single father homes when i just showed that there are,oh denial...i feel sorry for u.
@karlsmith00 16% of custodial parents are fathers,90% of which are gainfully employed and require no government assistance,compared to single mothers men raised in single father homes are more likely to finish college and actually earn more money,Oprah came from a single father home. Hardly inexistent as you can see,the stats are available for u to see for yourself,lmao owned. It must feel good to be so insulated from reality uh? don't quit your day job.
@karlsmith00 and do not bother replying to me if you can't have a normal discussion,obviously your little feelings are hurt if you have to resort to cheap name calling and insults and honestly i can't help you if you are little miss sensitive but i have no time to deal with an immature and foul mouthed retard who rants without actually looking at the numbers and resorts to red herrings as a means to fuel debate. Take sometime to grow up lest your feelings will be hurt lol
@karlsmith00 You are pathetic and quite desperate, you resort to juvenile name calling and misandrist attacks in order to feel like you are making a point,none of what i said is a "lie" the stats speak for themselves,yhey may not be producing "geniuses' but at least single father homes don't produce thugs and future criminals,you speak about taking responsibilty? start with your own gender before pointing fingers.
@karlsmith00 and of course you will neglect the fact that there are many women who are abusive to their kids as well,in those cases who is the child better off without? and what do you have to say about the fact that single mother families consistently produce criminals and future inmates yet single father homes produce better results? this is not a debate about single fathers or mothers but your silly man blaming makes u look just as biased as the next person.
@karlsmith00 i am sorry but your comment was idiotic, u say most kids are better of without them yet single father homes and two parent homes constantly produce better children and more successful men and women than wsingle mother homes even with all the govt support that women get, please get real.
@Rooseveltdunn i kno u are replying to her but let me point this out to u thats why it is so important that a male be present in the home lets jus face it kids are more intimidated by their father then their mother i remember when i was a teen i rebel so much against my mother it wasnt funny but when my daddy step in he got my mind rite ltes jus put it like this if it wasnt for my dad be in the house hold to help my mom raise us no telling where me and my bothers will be my mother jus
@Rooseveltdunn couldnt handle me like my father he was on our ass he did not play that so dont think for one minute cause a kid turn out bad is because the mother raise them wrong some kids jus rebel more when they are being raise by there mother remember on good times when micheal wanted to join the gang and james got his ass straight before he can even say boo thats why it is so important that men need to be in these young boys lives caus they jus dnt relize how it affects them
white women:cook, clean, oral sex, better looking, easier to live with, less drama, no thug baby daddys on the side, less cheating, not that much thug loving,no babies at all except with there MAN(which would be you good bm), excersize, no out of wedlock children, not fat stanky, real natural hair, less attitude, treat you as a MAN
@MegaWhitemaster and im happy for u one less good for nothing black man we need let the white woman be bother what ur angry azz get over it and move on let us be spam my ass
The welfare, child support and family court systems create a financial incentive for mothers to drive fathers out. The Mothers make money and the State and those systems make money off of creating fatherless families. If there was a presumption of custody to fathers, the #1 domestic epidemic (fatherlessness) would disappear and so would the waste of billions and billions of $.
Hypocritical men talking smack as usual. First of all the women didn't make these babies by themselves. Men slept with these women so the men are at fault too. Typical misogynistic B.S. from men who whore around and hypocritically judge the women!
@BlackPoisonxX Whatever sexist hypocrite. Like usual you didn't read anything I wrote. I wrote men and women are both at fault! I find it hypocritical to lay the blame exclusively on the women when men play a role too.
@Quoranation Women are the one who choose Single motherhood if women whud just not have sex before marriage out of wedlock birth rates would be non existent...
@Quoranation....men are at fault for creating a child in an un-ideal situation (out of wedlock)....from there, it's all up to the woman whether she uses/abuses the welfare system, the child support system, and/or the egregiously corrupt family courts and restraining order system to drive a father out of child's life. Don't get carried away by creating equality in conception with equality in everything that happens after that.
@karlsmith00 You have very low expectations in life. You don't talk about marriage or a family at all. All you talk about is child support. Well thousands of women opted for child support instead of a man and now they're paying for it. Single mothers are raising daughters who never had the benefit of having her dad and is now running wild; making bitches like you a Grandma at age 27. Your son's anger is turning him into a thug.
Blackwomen have been reproducing soley for Gov assistance for4 decades now. Of course they didn't want or care for the dad to be in a child's life. That's one of the requirements of Welfare(no dads around).
@karlsmith00 unmarried women should not be having children. Look what women, having multile illigitimate children has done to Black communities nationwide. Look at DC, NY, New Orleans, Louisiana. They inherit this baby mama mentality because it PAYS to not have a man around
your imature you obvisouly dont have a man make a point to the subject god damn what do I personally have to do w/ this video?? stupid address the issue instead of a grey box lmao
my dad down stairs on the phone actually wheres yours lmao oh thats right your mama is the typical thug lover how kids are better w/o fathers when the kids who have fathers are SUCESSFUL and kids w/o fathers are in jail your a lesbo feminist and its not real men take care of his kids b/c you cant call him a man if he dips from children there thugs NOT MEN which bw love to make babies with OBVISOULY if real men take care of kids then bw arent good @ picking real men OBVISOULY lets hear the excuse
well most bw really only care about child support money welfare checks and section 8 so they can spend the money on themselves to get there gucci bags and weaves did it's not hard to keep a man in a childs life at all loose the attitude mouth the "oh fuck you nigga you aint never seeing your son again" everytime she gets mad and dont lie a woman can prevent a father from seeing child OBVISOULY we keep saying whats a real man well whats a real woman a real woman is MARRIED to baby daddy
it doesn't make sense, if the women can't afford the child. Give it to the father. Why should he have to make an income transfer, enlarge her income, while your child will never realize the "real" benefit of that income. - but 97% they don't give it to the father, because then the state won't get their cut.
women will always be able to afford children b/c they get so many benefits by the government the white man encourages black women to only worry about that child support welfare section 8 and food stamps rather then that black men in the childs life so the child can grow up in college or what not instead of in jail as a result of mama loving that money instead of loving that father in childs life
These nasty , mamma africa, queen, goddess SLUTS are the ONLY ONLY destroyer of the black community. I don't give a fuck about a single moms accomplishment . Your still a worthless piece of shit . In the eyes of clear thinking blackmen.
I will say that i'm a single mom and alot of what the brother is saying is true.. but i'm not a single mother by choice.. i am divorced and my ex-husband is in my childrens lives.. i receive NO WELFARE OR STATE ASSISTANCE.. I'M AN GAINFULLY EMPLOYED AS A PARALEGAL AND I BLAME NO ONE FOR MY SITUATION.... So please ladies, do not be to offended if you do not fall under the umbrella the brother is referring to..
@justsocool2 Ya see, Women who have children through marriage is kinda different. Women should wait until marriage to have children. The father is MORE LIKELY to be a father and maintain the bond with the children. If the couple is not married nor living together there is often a disconnect
black married couples have a 9 percent poverty rate. Now Aint that something. Single black babymomma poverty= 40 percent. Now is there any other reason why I shouldn't despise a single mother? Blaming the man when they get all the state benefits and 100% control of the child (known as Miss independant women) -having never been married of course-. Why wouldn't women pass up a more lucrative racket couple with the fact it's a one step up from their poverty. Are we all fools?
Take away Government Assistance & all that Independence goes out the fucking window...
I'm tired of these Arrogant bitches talking that shit. It's not that hard to lay on ya back, get fucked and collect a paycheck fuckin silly ass bitches...
But they knew the men fucked around when they laid with them. They were attracted by that dumb shit. It's a double edged sword and women love it, black women especially. But now that she's pregnant all of a sudden she expects him to become responsible. Why, he never was before? C'mon son!
wow, is it such a big deal to you to know what I think? So I threw a bone at you, and know you're so happy? lol
Listen, I think its weird to have men as breeders. I have never heard of that, but I imagine men would be pissed off and since when can women defend themselves and keep order without men? Except for the imaginary Amazons
P.S. In the mean time, you can be my personal breeder. I think you'll like it. oink oink
@karlsmith00 You're still a cunt, there is satisfaction in that. And mark my words, we will dismantle your witches movement. Yup, you're a witch and a bitch. Ha ha ha. Go roll in the hay karl.
@karlsmith00 Well oink oink baby, that shit will be going away. I don't know why men stupidly have children without taking care of them, but with over 16 contraception including abortion, women know who they want to have their babies. And if they're unwilling to use proper judgment in measuring up these men, its their fault for having kids out of wedlock. I still don't think people should pay for their fuck ups. You make a mess, you clean it up. DON'T EVER TELL ME TO SHUT THE FUCK UP CUNTZILLA!
@200MillionAngels Right. Let's dismantle child support, alimony, and welfare. Let's choke the life out of govt support to these feminazis which are un Constitutional.
@karlsmith00 and why would the baby mama open her legs with no assurance that the man will take care of her and the kids? That's on baby mama. They give no incentive for men to be fathers and husbands. Not to mention they "don't need no man" mentality.
for god's sake, most black men are NOT in prison. i get tired of people saying that. blacks account for 12-15% of the population. that is about 30 million african americans. about 14 million of which are black men. you're telling me there are over 7 million black men in prison? there are only about 1 million and some change americans locked up. crunch the numbers yourself if you don't believe. the majority of black men are not in prison.
I am now convinced that their is something wrong with black people, a cursed race if you want to uplift the image of black women. You can open your own television station and show positive images. That brings pride, hope and comfort to people. This isnt doing any good but brings out hate from other races towards black people. People like ANYANSOLAR make black people look like ANIMALS with no self control or pride to protect their own kind.
freetowqn80, do u like or hate black people? u wanna give ur suggestions for possible uplift then turn around and make blanket statements(?) its as if ur coin just never stops flipping........
If you feel that strongly do something to help people, travel to Africa do some volunteering work. You are not helping anyone no one cares. This is the reason why other races hate black people and think this whole race should be exterminated, the ability to distroy is INATE within Black people. You as a black man dont know anything about millions of black people to make videos after videos degrading black women. why would anyone want to be BLACK!
What is up with everyone giving this dude praise? Are you people stupid? He is simply perpetuating everything negative we have going on in the black community right now. Some of the videos make a tiny bit of sense, while others are just geared to further bring down the image of black women. Seriously, this is some bs.
SIngle motherhood does not and will not work at All PERIOD! God made it so that a man and woman must join together in an sexual nature to have children. Likewise, the man and woman are supposed to raise the children together, period!
If men of any other race were abandoning their children on the woman, (like they do in the african american race) you'd get the same results--The woman and their children would live in POVERTY, PERIOD!!!
So what you gonna get you a white girl or a girl from another brother? Bro look here what I am saying is you have a right to be dissapointed but do not align yourself with bitch nigger like this hurt so-called man. This is not doing anything but fueling the fire Woman do not get pregnantby themselves. What we need to do is stop these niggas our here from destorying the sisters with their lies and deception. How many noggas do you tell they are wrong for what they do to the Bwoman?
I already told u I don't like white girls. I'm just not into black American women in regards to relationships. It worked for u cool, I'm happy for u and all brothers who have achieved success with theme, but I haven't. and I will not continue to beat a dead horse.
Bro I married an African, not because I perferred them are because I was tried of Americans, maybe I was curious anyway it did not work just because of the (Jet Blackness) fine as hell but we just did not have that connection we did not have that same familiarity you can try it if you like but it will not be the same.You are still a youth no doubt you were a big help to your mom and family that was not your burden it was your fathers, that just our point pain undirected burden not yours
Who birthed this generation of lying men not raised by fathers of integrity? Who kicked all the James Evanses out of the home? Who gave our sons the bitch mentality that they are afflicted with?
NIgga! or NIgger! did you not comprehend that I know where the problem lied? Black woman are the victims too! fool. We are all victims. The blackman has not had his day in centuries and until the Blackman can do his duty toward blackwomen until then blackwomen are going to do a fucked up job but they are the only ones doing it the best they can!.The James Evanses have to find away to stay home to help balance the next generation or wear hoods! you get my meaning!Man up BItch ass NIgga or Nigger!
You ignorant brainwashed little cunt boy! Black women ARE the "Oppressors", do you understand that pussy boy? Get your mothers titty from between your dick sucking lips and grow a pair! Black men have performed their duties, remember the Black Panthers cuntwad? Remember our Brothers dying and bleeding for the cause only for the Black Panther women to turn on the movement and join the Feminist Movement? Or are you just too fucking ignorant to understand history pussified sissy boy?
What's wrong your mother didn't love you did not hug you enough? You asshole all blackwoman did not join the women's movement. Just like all blackmen are not innocent of the bullshit we do and don't do when it comes to these children WE leave behind, and therefore cause blackwoman to do whatever by any means necessary. Keep a hood on it and you/they would not have to worry about the big bad wolf CHILD SUPPORT. KIDS GOT TO EAT. Black Panthers were fools and got caught up!Thats the pass ASSHOLE
Bro! you say spare you of the history lessons but are you not leaning on the pass? No the woman of today are not like the women of yesterday, We are the children of the women in pain that is why we keep running into the problems. Its generational our fathers were children of pain. we saw our mothers in pain Blackmen and Blackwoman. This shits been going on since 1955, Turning on our women is not the solution you can not produce you without them so it is best to work with them. You gave up!
man fuck that sympathy for black American women stuff. I'm speaking about MY life experiences. I cannot continue to try to build a relationship with those who want none with me. I'm not giving up on black women. I am weary of black (American) women and I refuse to have an ounce of sympathy for theme until they prove otherwise. I haven't gave up, I provide resources to theme. and I didn't turn on theme, they turned on me. like I said, this ain't 1955, they don't support through trials no more.
Man you sound like a sucker,I said this shit has been going on since 1955meaning that it took time for it to get this out of order and it WILL! take time to get back in order.Your contribution is to know self and be confident with some understanding of your own pain and then realizing their pain. If you are interested in some solutions good if you just want to be angry then be so and see how much real satisfaction that will give you. There are some good sisters maybe you are not reflecting them
"Man you sound like a sucker" EXACTLY! I was raised by my mama to be a provider to black women because she never had one. now I grow up and black American women see me as a "sucker" every time I help theme. fuck that! I have solutions. I am a landlord, I provide single black mothers with housing. I own a non profit which provides food to single black mamas. I am not the problem, they are.
Well said & you are making a difference however that will never matter in their eyes as a whole. You see you are trying to use logic & reason & I do appreciate the video this brother is making & KOBEWEST still it will not change we have to take action for ourselves they will never give up the power. BM are like me are turning away from them which is what we should do. After all that "black struggle" They are now part of the system we have been betrayed. Run.
Men need to start listening to the Black woman in America It was the blackwoman( x-slave) and until this day that has build up the whites civilization Can not the blackwoman be helpful in building a cilvilization for us? If a blackman has self awareness and assurance in himself he can have a good relationship with a blackwoman,the womb of the woman should be reverenced not be a pleasure box for entertainment.A man should be measured by his self worth not by the views of women,that's the problem
start listening to theme? I been doing that shit my whole life and it got me no where with black American women. they only want to help the community when it is money or church involved. yes the black women can be helpful but the black (American) women has to be forced to do the right thing. there are not enough good ones to build right now. I don't want to use theme, I wanted to elevate theme and they didn't respect it. fuck that man they gone either roll wit it or get rolled over.
"A man should be measured by his self worth not by the views of women,that's the problem" exactly, but that's what thugtician enlightened me too. FUCK WHAT BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN THINK! BLACK MEN HAVE TO DOMINATE POSITIVELY. the black American women thats wit it? cool. those that are not? fuck em. I done did enough for theme in my 24 years. those days is over!
Bro, I listen to alittle of the nigger shit he is not one of us, you should not listen to his verbal hatred of women. Our women are of a different breed so it is hard but listen hear You are right they need to have boundaries around them and need to be reformed. But look at who is using them for sports and play? The rappers and artist and so called confused niggas with some science Think brother I know sisteres that are willing to uplift brothers and have no problem with submitting to brothers.
ok brother when I meet those uplifting and submitting black American sistas I will have a different story. but so far I haven't. I'm not living a fantasy I'm just talking about reality. the black women of my generation do more damage than good. it shouldn't be our responsibility to clean up their shit. and they CHOOSE TO FOLLOW AND HAVE CHILDREN BY BLACK DEVILS AND MANIPULATORS. THEY CHOOSE THAT.
You can look at the responses to this video and calculate the mentality of men when it comes to pre-marrital sex and the baby that may be the result of,The woman can not impreganat herself.The momma's boys are the blackmen who can not commit because of the pain of seeing their own mothers' go through the mamma baby drama.Our mothers were in pain therefore they really could not teach or raise us successfully. Look around you see the results. It starts in the home form birth, its generational!.
thugtician is very deep. his overall analysis on why baby mamas are a problem I totally agree with. but from a personal standpoint my view is this. the reason why we don't give these baby mamas OF TODAY a second chance is because most of us were overlooked by these same baby mamas before they got pregnant who now want to be with us. u see? we weren't good enough for theme. it's a blatant slap in the face.
they didn't choose us for procreation because they didn't like strong positive business minded brothers. they gave themselves to other men. those other men will support theme through child support "hopefully." so, basically it forms a stigma with brothers. even if the sista couldn't control the situation, a brother who has been rejected by black women will feel spited by sm's. if we had that respect from bw in the beginning? we wouldn't care if she had a child or not.
So you are relating the thug whom the woman wanted vs the good blackman that they rejected? What?Look manin America most men wouild not even deal with a woman whom had a child after the sex revolution marriage wasn't even desired by most liberal minded blacks, So those children whom we are already were stained from the start. As a good Blackman with a little thug in me I have found that you must be in controll and self assured in yourself to be able to deal with a Bwoman with children or not!
I didn't say nothing about a thug, I'm just talking about the womens previous choices. and please spare me the history lesson, the black American women of today ARE NOT THE WOMEN OF YESTERDAY. as far as being sure of myself? I am sure of myself, I just have not been successful with black American women. I'm just being honest. and I'm not cleaning up no black Americans womens mess. I deal with theme everyday I know how they dump babies on the so-called good brotha, you can save em if u want...
"So you are relating the thug whom the woman wanted vs the good blackman that they rejected? What?"
hell fuckin yeah! if black American women want respect? they must honor themselves. until then? black American women are responsible for their own problems. I'm done tryna help theme. u say be sure of yourself? black American women reject brothers who are leaders and providers such as myself. what world do u live in?
This is what the thugniggas HAVE CREATED! THIS IS ALL-SO WHAT THE GOODBLACKMAN HAS CREATED THAT IS HOW BABIESMAMMAS R CREATED. thUGS DO NOT GET MARRIED, AND SO-CALLED GOOD MEN R MAMMA'S BOY, AND THE NICE GUY THINKS HE IS SO INDEMAND THAT HE IS BEING NICE TO EVERYONE...Ttherein is develop mammababy drama....more later...
I don't understand you statement about so-called good black men. what do u mean "so called?" do u not agree that there are good black men out here? and what is with the mamas boy comment? what does that mean? "being nice to everyone?" how does that correlate to good black men being noneffective as u seem to imply? please explain....
I really wanted this guy from the UK to respond but I see he 's not, Nevertheless, my point is that the thugs and the good blackman has created the baby mamma drama because they are not standing up to their responsibility,The nice guy is the so called brother that believes he can be with any woman from any race.Showing women from other races and their children more respect than his own blackwoman and her children.Because we do not have respect for the blackwoman in America, We all are not good!
not all good black men try to be with other races. many black women have just flat out rejected us. it's not that complicating. if a man keeps getting rejected from black American women? he's survival instinct is gonna force him to marry/date out so that he can procreate. I don't like white women so I wanna see how other black Women from other places are.
AMEN! Feminism gave women socalled birth-control, yet births have gone OUT OF CONTROL!!!!! Instead of births coming under-control, women now have: 1) more babies (crack babies) 2) by different men (baby daddies) 3) at younger ages (teen moms) 4) without ever being married (Jezebel) 5) with the worse type of men (sagging pants) 6) Sometimes don't know who the daddy is THIS IS WHAT FEMINISTS HAVE DONE IN FORTY YEARS, INSTEAD OF MOLDING BETTER MEN TO BREED WITH!!! ONLY MEN CAN MOLD MEN! AMEN!
Mines is present but he refuses to commit. I don't like that u put all the burden on single mothers like they r the only ones messing up the community. I swear men act like they don't have minds of their own! what is stopping men from not sleepin wit multiple women and knocking all of them up. Even though they know they don't have the money for kids they do it any way. Their r 2 sides to a story.! Though I believe men are treated unfairly at times. Men still need realize their part in this too.
However I do agree with marriage before kids. The problem with this is that men don't want to. They know that they can get the pussy wit out the ring. so even if I were savin it he would problably find a way to get it from some esles. That is just how fickle men are. So even if I do the right thing men will do what they do regardless.
Absolutely, the disintegration of the Black family has destroyed the black community since the community is fragmented with no links or pride. Look at east asian families or east indian ones which have a strong family unit and do well. Bring back the family.
The distruction of the family unit is IMO at the root of so many social problems.
Women have been sold a lie, ie That having a job, putting their children into childcare and raising a family alone is somehow the ultimate "feminist" acheivment. I am a women and long for Male and female energy to reunite instead of working against each other.
AGGghhhh!!! My cousin is a bastard baby maker.
Superseadragon 1 week ago
@lasheron- With all due respect, you need to go back to read Adam & Eve again. She gave some to her husband WHO WAS WITH HER. Adam was standing there the entire time. Don't take my word for it. Look it up.
FlixChick 1 week ago
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The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
pc0p1mp 3 weeks ago
im done with this dumb ass subject. and fuck the bible thats for shrink brain cant think for they self ppl. and as 4 this subject have fun entertaining ea other i rather watch jerry springer.
cherysenixon 1 month ago
...and some words to edumacated brothas u finally help me understand the adam blame eve story. but one thing u men missed in this symbology is god gave adam the laws not us you was supposed to lead us right because he gave u the resposibilty.adam shouldve said naw baby we cant do this or ran to god and ask him to deal with it but knoooow he ate the damn thang too and ran pointing the finger at eve.god punished us all. so stop tasting the fruit running scared blaming us.you responsible too
cherysenixon 4 months ago
@cherysenixon go read your bible...he told both of them together not to eat the apple...and now play it in your head isnt it soooo messed up that she knew her error then went shaking her behind to adam to get him to fall into the doom with her.
lasheron 1 month ago 2
you know bw do need to stop having babies from these fake ass IM A MAN PERSONA. i made bad choices in a man i have kids from..anyway i can tell some of these men either on child support with felonies and uneducated of knowledge of self and other things.black men refuse to point the finger at themselves. in the same sentence they put us dwn ANDrevealing the fact that they are fucked up by telling us to stop having babies from dead beat black men. HATE YOUR DAMN SELF.GIRLS JUST WANA HAVE FUN. F IT
cherysenixon 4 months ago
@TheGodisnone So you're making excuses for being a single mother? Or should I say bastard baby maker?
Superseadragon 4 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell we r all on welfare! all citizens, corporate execs,business owners,entertainers,satanist..etc who owns&run your slaughterhouses?every paycheck that's inked by anyone's boss designates their welfare bracket,try expanding your dormant logic to see this? hiv destroying the blkcomm will never reach the proliferation of unstable black households,murders,marriages,unplanned families..etc there is no BM in the WH except the WHITE HOUSE! White
house does the hiring & write checks!
jay1pizza 8 months ago
Respond to this video...bw broke status remains even after she select a man
& he runs off to some other broad? main reason why the cycle is never eliminated
she refuses to escape the breeding traps forced on her.if she is never trained
to bring something to put on an existing table,other than her physical attributes,
her side of the table will never have any chairs.if her mind is seated to b honest,
rather than on survival,she will not have to endure many relationships or hardships.
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell alot of black men suffer(materialistic syndrone) from having to trick out their vehicles with rims,flashy garments & jewelry for a bw to even give them time of day & trust me
its exhausting and they NEVER forget it! After being passed up for the butha who has no
"atm" problems it increases the desire to ethnicly abandon bw.As so a rolex depicts
economic status,white arm candy comparitively establishes.Men date penniless women
all day everyday BW standards r pathetic.
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell no not "really" become a programmer.BM & BW have low
"mental income" when we make poor decisions we've already justified filing a chapter 7.
money was never "the ruler of all evil" (our attitudes) it was propped! BW do suffer immensely
I won't ever deny that but they must not choose man on the basis of providing but
for love & complete partnership-vice versa.BM emotional intellect changes&
so does BW which resonates with them, they won't go spouse shopping in the hood
you?
jay1pizza 8 months ago
Respond to this video... "All that's left to mate with is thugs" well, don't procreate where u live
or s**T where you eat but i know that is not applicable.Its not entirely young black
stock of men r thugs,what we have is morality issues almost as if its been bred out
of existence from our genes.The gov't succeeds at that from the time that plantation bus pick
our kids up & raise them from 7-3 in the evening & then video games,internet porn,american idol
suffocates them.
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell gotta educate ouryoung precious sisters tochoose a lifestyle beyond
makingbabies & becoming paternitysuers.Also to keepbasketballs & footballs outta
youthhands & give thedevil back his community destroyer "playpens" basketball courts
footballfields.Time toinvest in the mentals as theydo which arethe bachelor/master degrees
(agreeing with you) so they will be positively influenced to work & create businesses
that DO US! Our minds won't be unhealthy 4ever we'll clean mess up.
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell realize that black is a "mental state & condition" withno association with
pigment.The real incarceration whichis only precursor to criminal&thug lifestyles
is the "baby mama".The babymama "is a baby" sherarely reaches childrearing maturity!
You can brick&mortar the environment as thecause,single parent,education disadvantages
and you will produce same backdrop & she will choose a social worker AS the best choice.
BM whowon't work factor in under the table or CS arrears
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell & if you don't take for face value this truthful observation of mating,go have a
child by a computer programmer(geek) & see that offspring emulations of
life go in the direction of a professional field and not guns gangs & drugs.Same goes
for the upper or middle classes of society with few exceptions.Dum breed the dum,violet -violent,
smart - smart,civilized - civilized as simple as that.The gov't come to
confiscate your kids away coz u failed to guide them.
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell things that destroy & decay our urban communities is only
the by-product of the lack of parental intelligence & authority most black women
have? calling people out or sexual slandering still won't evade the truths that
r spoken about (some)black women the facts remain relevant gay or straight dear!
welfare kids=welfare mentality=welfare concious which account for 40% of black
communal demise,the other 60% is illegitimate character mating with thugs,pimps,
preachers...feel me
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell we don't need another copy of malcolm or martin clearly
neither of their recipes facilitated any change.we stirred the pot of m & k
and they're both X's now.don't window wash with all the hype bw/bm have to
tear down the old rebuild new but with better material,emotional & physical.
the existence slop we've been fed is no longer a staple in our bellies that
is why its imperative to point out our faults.men slaughter ur food U use
our electricity we built that roof,plz!
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@multisouthernbell no one is more qualified to fix black people than us not some
gov't validated chosen sellout who pushes an undersurface nwo agenda
in disguisement.Farrakhan footstepped you to washington so more of the
head in the sand buckdancing could continue btw our people.That is why
the emphasis is on women to stop seeing themselves as unequivocal
to man.provide for yourself stand on your own and stop begging that
man is the rescuer its a different ballgame sister WE ALL GOTTA SWING!
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell exactly the point we need more volume of women & men & I commend you sista
its all love & struggles..LYLAS!
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell I disagree & as much as women have supported division practices from family to paternity support courts you won't cut a waiver there.Part of the dilemma is tossing an old vain coin where females always attach themselves as tails seeking a head,& tails don't quite function on the level of a head its a cry in the dark if you don't aspire to not be under someone's authority(man) more or less power to you falling back will buy you more subjugation no more traditional thinking
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell While bm r behind this ldshp wheel what will
you teach ybw? To trail behind man? It appear to me there's not much of a substantial tradeoff unless
(all) learn to be leaders without any gender biases.You readily admit a woman's
inadequacy which is nothing proudful & speaking of progress why are men rightfully statused as leaders
historically,& women can never surpass their current or past history margin of submissiveness?
Be a leader & you will stop demanding supervision.
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell yes & no its need to be understood that a woman can can also
lead beyond the house chains there is no reason to concentrate life on just
domestic qualities.Women need to lead together with men and without men to close the
gap of co-dependency disparities.As long as society keep promoting this ideology
on fixed set domestic value between the sexes what will we ever accomplish?
jay1pizza 9 months ago
@jay1pizza Spoken like a true Man wanabee feminist LOL! Go bump pussies and talk about which color to polish your nails with your girlfriends...
wuspopNmane 8 months ago
@wuspopNmane Trymorepolished response next timepotna hurl
that weak cap'n save'em to ur azzhole buddies/bitch ass trick while sucking belly
buttons you fucktard.BW have become the forefront degenerates & the social constructs
and order between BW/ BM as a whole has exceeded deterioration.Until you're able to
hear with eyes & see with ears you dipshit Know that the very vessel
your ass came out of have you in chains by the balls,so i'm feminist if I refuse
to support women who are parasiTIC,prick
jay1pizza 8 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell and why women are seen not capable or competent of being strong leaders themselves which is explicit within itself that they are adult babies/children? sure we do the
blame game and leadership is a state of mind its not something someone can
just label you as or expect a role to be carried out this is the problem i know heads
will be in disagreement but learn a compass north - south direction but learn.Lead by man
seems to equate do all the work if I fish you fish too!
jay1pizza 9 months ago
black people are so stupid..its sad...
caramelandkinky 9 months ago
Once again i see women commenting tryin to blame everything on men and not take any responsibility for the things they do, i mean should black women take any responsibility
teflontahj 9 months ago
@MultiSouthernBell from my experience alot of it comes down to how these men were raised, i grew up in a "lower income environment" but i had two parents, my dad would beat my ass if i didnt handle my responsibilities while alot of my friends grew up in single parent households, their mothers babied them an werent as hard on them. Subsequently in adulthood they're not able to handle leadership and responsibility.
khayesjr85 9 months ago
Black love, marriage, and family where did it go? Is there any hope for our community? These women today only care about the $. They're satisfied being someones baby mama. We have a community full of money hungry hoes.
ILuvMusic4real 9 months ago
@ILuvMusic4real that's right tell it how it is BW don't buy sex they sell it or
exchange it for something which is always higher in value than that between
their legs.Little girls whether you percieve it or not develop a prostitute
frame of mind which goes almost unnoticed by the fathers maybe its genetic.If she picks
out tight clothes at the age of 4 or 5 you should discipline her and her
dam mother teach the correct way to dress without sexual insinuations.
jay1pizza 9 months ago
lol as if women get pregnant without the aid of a man...
rainbowbrainhead 9 months ago
You go find all the black males that fathered children and refuse to take responsibility for caring for their children. That's the legitimate question.
dancer95849 10 months ago 2
@dancer95849 no its not what about the female not making a smart to decision to get
a career or something going for herself instead of being a government surrogate
machine.we know women have been brainwashed to think the urges of motherhood
is natural,but why have 1 then 2 then 2 more,1 in stroller dragging 3 behind
you.If women stop dressing so whorish maybe so many men would'nt be tempted
and or to find a better potenial financial support load get what i'm saying.
jay1pizza 9 months ago
"I really don't think that they (Black single mothers) can answer that question."
MrWINNSLAW 11 months ago
You act as if these black women make the choice to be single mothers. It's not usually a choice it's pretty much like taking care of your mistakes. They made a mistake in their youth, had a child, maybe stupidly made more mistakes, had more children. The black YOUNG man, he bolts (understandbly) b/ca he's too immature to deal with being a father, a provider. It's a cycle of enabling that needs to stop. Black women need to be conscientious and stop allowing this monopolization. Break the chain.
MAKKITOTOSIM20 11 months ago
@MAKKITOTOSIM20 bolts cuz hes too immature? having a child is not a mistake. caucasians.....
bezzly 11 months ago
@bezzly I'm black. lol. Children ARE a blessing but when I say mistake I mean an incorrect, unwise, or unfortunate act or decision caused by bad judgment or a lack of information or care. When a child is born to a teenage mother who can not care for the child on her own, then that is a mistake. No sugar coating. Notice how I said YOUNG black men/women. Too young to be parents, is what I meant.
MAKKITOTOSIM20 11 months ago
@MAKKITOTOSIM20 there are condoms why not use them how about
knowing all the statistical variations of typical relationships baby dad
moving on whateva,The mother is taught beforehand to accept full responsibility
of taking care of the child and herself without the father's help and if she can't apply
herself then don't bother having one.You won't have all this father to blame
or deadbeat dad crap hence i'm not condoning father abandoning his
obligation he'll be punished anyway with CS!
jay1pizza 9 months ago
@makkitotosim20 no one is looking at this from a different angle why are women so
dam dependent on man for everything? women don't want them kids unless they
are getting help with them whether public aid or alimony that should tell you something
she bring you here but really don't wanna fool with you unless the situation
is beneficial to her.Where is the nearest trashcan?
jay1pizza 9 months ago
why do people assume that the father of every black baby mother is a drug dealing thug
to say that you might as well ay 70 percent of black men are drug dealing thugs
tony666ism 1 year ago
Most of these broads KNEW what they were getting into & what kinda guys they CHOSE 4! So Fuck Black American Women in America, that's in this generation! Why sleep with sumone, who THEY barely know & KNOWINGLY they AINT gonna be around?! ya rite, there's sum shiezty dudez & all. Im tired of hearin these bitches perpective on this shit. Time 2 hear the Men's story, that's Mandatory... Who's says, Im perfect tho? I got my disabled dad & my departed mom. they're great souls
UltraDOG17 1 year ago
i agree with what he is saying. It's different if the female was married then had the kids but my thing is what ever happened to getting married first THEN having kids? some women sadly use their kids for welfare benefits and foodstamps so they can buy their "gucci bag" and what not then act like they have money. Some women also use the kid to "trap" the man. ATTENTION WHORES A CHILD IS NOT GOING TO MAKE A MAN WANT TO BE WITH YOU.
NaijaPrincess1989 1 year ago
@NaijaPrincess1989 Well said!
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
Excellent commentary, my man. I am fed up with silly women dictating the lives of men and children and calling it "family". Family in the best sense of the term refers to a man finding a wife, settling into a home, and adding children to the home.
Today, corrupted women have taken over with gov't cheese and food stamps and are duped to believe they are "heroes" who save the black family because the men are too cowardly to lead and provide. Crap. The black family is ruined because women lead it.
mantleofvalor 1 year ago
female on parent family is not an experiment brother, i'm sure you know that, it is the perfection of all ideals to destroy masculine rulership at any and all levels and automatically turn over all children born into that vacuum unto satan and his demons. that's what both married and single women do except a vigilant man is around, they release the children to satan, how do you suppose all the boys and girls become fagots an lesbians in general!! keep on raising awareness brother. shalom
HowlingBenjamin 1 year ago
@HowlingBenjamin Remember years ago when fathers lead and the current trend of single mothers raising scum and gangbangers was not accepted?. No matter how tragic the outcome, stubborn, proud, foolish women continue to raise children "independently" while depending on the gov't and the "village" [system] for assistance.
Question:
How many does it take to replace a good man?
Answer:
It takes a "village".
mantleofvalor 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 Finally Karl, You last comment was flawed. You try to insult me by saying that I will end up like my mom and I need help because of it. Yet, your defending my mom/women who make these stupid decisions with stupid MEN. Also, if he was run off, he still CHOOSE to stay away. Still blaming him. Your being a bit hypocritical are you not? MEN need to grow up and WOMEN need to have HIGHER standards. Plain and simple. Make better decisions and our communities will thrive. Have fun trolling.
LadyOfMyth 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 Wow you really are narrow-minded. I blamed both in all of my comments. So your argument is flawed in saying I don't blame my father/the man. Secondly, If I was gonna end up like my mother I would have kids right now, Again read my first post. Zero kids. Picking a good partner is the problem, and that is on BOTH ends. Again if you can't read, BOTH includes My MOTHER and FATHER. That is Both the MAN and the WOMAN.
LadyOfMyth 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 Finally, years ago she came to called me to apologize for everything she had done in her past. She apologized for all the pain I had of watching my younger sibling get their father's love and I didn't. She told me that she in a way ran my father off and is the reason for me missing out added on to the fact that he wasn't ready emotionally, mentally, or financially. Don't get it twisted, I'll always love my mom. But, even she knows that she messed up and so did HE.
LadyOfMyth 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 If you read my first comment I said its Partially my mothers fault. that is blaming Both of them. So please learn how to read. Secondly, they both screwed around. She was not raped. So it is on BOTH of them. This isn't a matter of innocence. Its a matter of handling you business on both ends. You can't just blame the Man if they both agreed to do the deed. Its her fault that she used NO birth control and picked a immature guy to have sex with, and It's his for refusing to be around.
LadyOfMyth 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 Actually my GRANDMOTHER raised me. So it's BOTH their faults. Next time don't just assume it makes you look like a idiot.
LadyOfMyth 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 why are you guys arguing with that angry white woman.. K.S.00? Tell that bi**h to get loss all white people talk about is the tax payers and they are paying to much taxes
Yet you look at the welfare rolls and its swollen with poor white trash. You want people off welfare go to Utah were 1man is married to 16 wives has 66 children and there all on welfare @ $24,000 month cash and 40,000 in food stamps then come back to this board and bitch. In other words clean you own house first
maann36 1 year ago
What every 1 seems to forget is the blk woman is the guardian of her gate(Virgina) no 1 raped her no 1 forced her she either was trying to get away from home or trap some poor sucker into father hood. Then turn around and blame the man, if she does have a child and the man don't measure up she gets rid of him and moves on to the next guy....It ain't so much the man fault in most cases it's the woman's fault she is busy chasing the dollar and looking for fun. the child is just a by-product,
maann36 1 year ago
@maann36 thats bull shit its both of there fault i have a friend and he is 32 yrs old and he refuse to go in raw dog he have no kids and dont plane on having none till he gets married the point im making if he or she dont want know kids then they both should take the measures to not have one men know when they go inside a woman naked head he know its a good chance he can get her pregnant so without saying he need to take measures to use a condom even if the female dnt suggest he do
2hottric 1 year ago
@2hottric woman have (sixteen way) to not get pregnant, men have only one or not have sex at all. People have sex.... Most woman /girls try to get pregnant to trap the man it's as simple as that!! Woman /girls are liers and conniver.
maann36 1 year ago
@maann36 first of all u sound like my 8yr old when she does something wrong she blames it on someone else and says but she let me and other words my child say she know what she was doing was wrong but because the other person did not stop her she continue to do it so i guess my child expect for me to say oh yeah thats right she should have stop u for getting into someting u know u have no business doing even tho she knows better the point im making if u dont want kids a woman can not
2hottric 1 year ago
@2hottric You are just upset because I am telling the truth !!!... You woman are always looking to blame someone else for the messes you create. The firs thing you want to do is blame it on some thug or any and all black men and say all the black men are in jail or there are no good black men or some nonsense like that. Like I said no one raped you you were a willing participant. You know I speak the truth you just hate to admit it!!
maann36 1 year ago
@maann36 u are about as dumb as u can get i never did not denide saying the woman should not take blame but when men produce kids and dont take care of them thats makes black men look bad he should have thought about that before he nutt in her pussy i am mad at both women and the man im not bias like u and only one to put it on the female and give the black man a free pass when a man know he have a child in this world and choose not to take care of him he is what u called a pitiful
2hottric 1 year ago
@maann36 trap a man into doing nothing my friend tells me all the time whenever he has sex he always bring his own condom because under no circumstance he will never have unprottected sex he said if he have to run to the store 3 in the morning then he will do what he have to do no female on the face of this earth will tell me different so no one can mouth piece u deer into have unprottected sex unless u are stupid or jus dnt give a shit if men had his attitude then they would not have
2hottric 1 year ago
@maann36 so many single mothers because either way it goes both parties need to be responsible she need to tell herself dam he ant hitting on shit so i need to make sure this nigga wear a condom and he need to tell his self man im not tring to have no baby for this no good chick so im going to wear a condom if h she is not being the wise one did he need to step up and if she see he is not being the wise one then she need to step up bottom line so both is at fault 50%50
2hottric 1 year ago
I am a Fatherless child. I agree, single mothers who have deadbeat babies are killing our community. I cry over the fact that I never saw my dad and that he never wanted anything to do with me and know it partially my mother's fault screwing at 17 some at her school. I know so many who feel worthless and wont amount to anything because of it. I am 27, I have no kids, and am in school. I have been with the same man for 6 years. Don't have kids unless you can provide everything they need!
LadyOfMyth 1 year ago
there is no advantage that a single mom can offer a child or children compared to a household where 2 parents are. it should be husband and wife and not just 2 parents in the household. i grew up in a household of 3 children to a single parent mom and i look back and now hate my childhood. it surely showed me what not to do in life and when i have kids. thank God the United States Marine Corps showed me what becoming a man is all about.
tot7tot 1 year ago
i JUST WANT TO KNOW IF ANY WOMAN IN YOUR FAMILY HAS A CHILD AND IS NOT MARRIED? OR IF YOU HAVE A KID AND AINT MARRIED BECAUSE YOU S.O.B WOULD BE THE MAJOR PROBLEM YOU'RE NOTHING MORE THAN A FUCKING CUNT AND WEAPON OF WILLIE LYNCH!!!! NIGGER!!!!
babyfods18 1 year ago
im so tired of these black men letting these dead beat men get the go ahead free card and les address the issue with them it is sad that a lot of these black men jus want to have sex and thats it and when they get a girl pregnant they hurry up and go by there business so sad black men nedd to be ashamed of themselfs im not really crazy about mexican i kno i have to work on that but one thing i can say they take care of their kids and they look out for each other they have family values
2hottric 1 year ago
This guy has a creepy voice.
He made a couple of good points, though.
Lonsoleil 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 sigh you are beyond hope at this point, you don't invent statistics? you are the idiot that said that there are no single father homes at all, her father encouraged her to go to school and was very strict,you assume that he was not present in her life prior to her moving in as if you were there,typical misandrist,my stats are very much real you need links? let us see a link that shows no single father homes exist...don't bother me with your nonsense you psycho.
Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 It does not matter whether or not the father was biological,the man made a better parent in the end because while she was living with the mother she was getting nowhere,please stop arguing you make your self sound stupider with every message and i got better things to do than arguing with an idiot on the internet...u say i am insulated from reality? you said there no single father homes when i just showed that there are,oh denial...i feel sorry for u.
Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 16% of custodial parents are fathers,90% of which are gainfully employed and require no government assistance,compared to single mothers men raised in single father homes are more likely to finish college and actually earn more money,Oprah came from a single father home. Hardly inexistent as you can see,the stats are available for u to see for yourself,lmao owned. It must feel good to be so insulated from reality uh? don't quit your day job.
Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 and do not bother replying to me if you can't have a normal discussion,obviously your little feelings are hurt if you have to resort to cheap name calling and insults and honestly i can't help you if you are little miss sensitive but i have no time to deal with an immature and foul mouthed retard who rants without actually looking at the numbers and resorts to red herrings as a means to fuel debate. Take sometime to grow up lest your feelings will be hurt lol
Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 You are pathetic and quite desperate, you resort to juvenile name calling and misandrist attacks in order to feel like you are making a point,none of what i said is a "lie" the stats speak for themselves,yhey may not be producing "geniuses' but at least single father homes don't produce thugs and future criminals,you speak about taking responsibilty? start with your own gender before pointing fingers.
Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 and of course you will neglect the fact that there are many women who are abusive to their kids as well,in those cases who is the child better off without? and what do you have to say about the fact that single mother families consistently produce criminals and future inmates yet single father homes produce better results? this is not a debate about single fathers or mothers but your silly man blaming makes u look just as biased as the next person.
Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 i am sorry but your comment was idiotic, u say most kids are better of without them yet single father homes and two parent homes constantly produce better children and more successful men and women than wsingle mother homes even with all the govt support that women get, please get real.
Rooseveltdunn 1 year ago
@Rooseveltdunn i kno u are replying to her but let me point this out to u thats why it is so important that a male be present in the home lets jus face it kids are more intimidated by their father then their mother i remember when i was a teen i rebel so much against my mother it wasnt funny but when my daddy step in he got my mind rite ltes jus put it like this if it wasnt for my dad be in the house hold to help my mom raise us no telling where me and my bothers will be my mother jus
2hottric 1 year ago
@Rooseveltdunn couldnt handle me like my father he was on our ass he did not play that so dont think for one minute cause a kid turn out bad is because the mother raise them wrong some kids jus rebel more when they are being raise by there mother remember on good times when micheal wanted to join the gang and james got his ass straight before he can even say boo thats why it is so important that men need to be in these young boys lives caus they jus dnt relize how it affects them
2hottric 1 year ago
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MegaWhitemaster 1 year ago
@MegaWhitemaster and im happy for u one less good for nothing black man we need let the white woman be bother what ur angry azz get over it and move on let us be spam my ass
2hottric 1 year ago
The welfare, child support and family court systems create a financial incentive for mothers to drive fathers out. The Mothers make money and the State and those systems make money off of creating fatherless families. If there was a presumption of custody to fathers, the #1 domestic epidemic (fatherlessness) would disappear and so would the waste of billions and billions of $.
chillincochillin 1 year ago
Hypocritical men talking smack as usual. First of all the women didn't make these babies by themselves. Men slept with these women so the men are at fault too. Typical misogynistic B.S. from men who whore around and hypocritically judge the women!
Quoranation 1 year ago
@Quoranation The woman is the goalkeeper of her uterus though she decides whos penis and at what time whos penis gets in..
BlackPoisonxX 1 year ago
@BlackPoisonxX Whatever sexist hypocrite. Like usual you didn't read anything I wrote. I wrote men and women are both at fault! I find it hypocritical to lay the blame exclusively on the women when men play a role too.
Quoranation 1 year ago
@Quoranation Women are the one who choose Single motherhood if women whud just not have sex before marriage out of wedlock birth rates would be non existent...
The woman also decides to keep the baby or not.
BlackPoisonxX 1 year ago
@Quoranation....men are at fault for creating a child in an un-ideal situation (out of wedlock)....from there, it's all up to the woman whether she uses/abuses the welfare system, the child support system, and/or the egregiously corrupt family courts and restraining order system to drive a father out of child's life. Don't get carried away by creating equality in conception with equality in everything that happens after that.
chillincochillin 1 year ago
@Quoranation can he force her to get an abortion or use BC? NO, Hence she alone controls he birthing process. He only involved in the conception
dantej32 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 You have very low expectations in life. You don't talk about marriage or a family at all. All you talk about is child support. Well thousands of women opted for child support instead of a man and now they're paying for it. Single mothers are raising daughters who never had the benefit of having her dad and is now running wild; making bitches like you a Grandma at age 27. Your son's anger is turning him into a thug.
lemmieatit 1 year ago
Blackwomen have been reproducing soley for Gov assistance for4 decades now. Of course they didn't want or care for the dad to be in a child's life. That's one of the requirements of Welfare(no dads around).
lemmieatit 1 year ago
@lemmieatit Exactly......well spotted
BlackPoisonxX 1 year ago
@karlsmith00 unmarried women should not be having children. Look what women, having multile illigitimate children has done to Black communities nationwide. Look at DC, NY, New Orleans, Louisiana. They inherit this baby mama mentality because it PAYS to not have a man around
lemmieatit 1 year ago
@lemmieatit They truly disgust me..........
BlackPoisonxX 1 year ago
@lemmieatit and don't forget Detroit... smh...
autismpete 1 year ago
your imature you obvisouly dont have a man make a point to the subject god damn what do I personally have to do w/ this video?? stupid address the issue instead of a grey box lmao
Washanen07 1 year ago
my dad down stairs on the phone actually wheres yours lmao oh thats right your mama is the typical thug lover how kids are better w/o fathers when the kids who have fathers are SUCESSFUL and kids w/o fathers are in jail your a lesbo feminist and its not real men take care of his kids b/c you cant call him a man if he dips from children there thugs NOT MEN which bw love to make babies with OBVISOULY if real men take care of kids then bw arent good @ picking real men OBVISOULY lets hear the excuse
Washanen07 1 year ago
well most bw really only care about child support money welfare checks and section 8 so they can spend the money on themselves to get there gucci bags and weaves did it's not hard to keep a man in a childs life at all loose the attitude mouth the "oh fuck you nigga you aint never seeing your son again" everytime she gets mad and dont lie a woman can prevent a father from seeing child OBVISOULY we keep saying whats a real man well whats a real woman a real woman is MARRIED to baby daddy
Washanen07 1 year ago
@Washanen07
it doesn't make sense, if the women can't afford the child. Give it to the father. Why should he have to make an income transfer, enlarge her income, while your child will never realize the "real" benefit of that income. - but 97% they don't give it to the father, because then the state won't get their cut.
k16jones 1 year ago
women will always be able to afford children b/c they get so many benefits by the government the white man encourages black women to only worry about that child support welfare section 8 and food stamps rather then that black men in the childs life so the child can grow up in college or what not instead of in jail as a result of mama loving that money instead of loving that father in childs life
Washanen07 1 year ago
These nasty , mamma africa, queen, goddess SLUTS are the ONLY ONLY destroyer of the black community. I don't give a fuck about a single moms accomplishment . Your still a worthless piece of shit . In the eyes of clear thinking blackmen.
tttkil 2 years ago
Amen!
filmtress 2 years ago
You sound sooooo stupid!
filmtress 2 years ago
I will say that i'm a single mom and alot of what the brother is saying is true.. but i'm not a single mother by choice.. i am divorced and my ex-husband is in my childrens lives.. i receive NO WELFARE OR STATE ASSISTANCE.. I'M AN GAINFULLY EMPLOYED AS A PARALEGAL AND I BLAME NO ONE FOR MY SITUATION.... So please ladies, do not be to offended if you do not fall under the umbrella the brother is referring to..
justsocool2 2 years ago
@justsocool2 Ya see, Women who have children through marriage is kinda different. Women should wait until marriage to have children. The father is MORE LIKELY to be a father and maintain the bond with the children. If the couple is not married nor living together there is often a disconnect
dantej32 2 years ago
@dantej32
black married couples have a 9 percent poverty rate. Now Aint that something. Single black babymomma poverty= 40 percent. Now is there any other reason why I shouldn't despise a single mother? Blaming the man when they get all the state benefits and 100% control of the child (known as Miss independant women) -having never been married of course-. Why wouldn't women pass up a more lucrative racket couple with the fact it's a one step up from their poverty. Are we all fools?
k16jones 1 year ago
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Take away Government Assistance & all that Independence goes out the fucking window...
I'm tired of these Arrogant bitches talking that shit. It's not that hard to lay on ya back, get fucked and collect a paycheck fuckin silly ass bitches...
4real I'm tired of this shit...
SPIRITWORLD00 2 years ago
So then women don't have to be responsible for their choices? Is that what you're saying?
producer4real 2 years ago
INDEPENDENT black women need to get they heads CHOPPED off!
SuperbadIsraelite 2 years ago
But they knew the men fucked around when they laid with them. They were attracted by that dumb shit. It's a double edged sword and women love it, black women especially. But now that she's pregnant all of a sudden she expects him to become responsible. Why, he never was before? C'mon son!
producer4real 2 years ago
wow, is it such a big deal to you to know what I think? So I threw a bone at you, and know you're so happy? lol
Listen, I think its weird to have men as breeders. I have never heard of that, but I imagine men would be pissed off and since when can women defend themselves and keep order without men? Except for the imaginary Amazons
P.S. In the mean time, you can be my personal breeder. I think you'll like it. oink oink
Superseadragon 2 years ago
@karlsmith00 You're still a cunt, there is satisfaction in that. And mark my words, we will dismantle your witches movement. Yup, you're a witch and a bitch. Ha ha ha. Go roll in the hay karl.
Superseadragon 2 years ago
@karlsmith00 Well oink oink baby, that shit will be going away. I don't know why men stupidly have children without taking care of them, but with over 16 contraception including abortion, women know who they want to have their babies. And if they're unwilling to use proper judgment in measuring up these men, its their fault for having kids out of wedlock. I still don't think people should pay for their fuck ups. You make a mess, you clean it up. DON'T EVER TELL ME TO SHUT THE FUCK UP CUNTZILLA!
Superseadragon 2 years ago
@200MillionAngels Right. Let's dismantle child support, alimony, and welfare. Let's choke the life out of govt support to these feminazis which are un Constitutional.
Superseadragon 2 years ago
@karlsmith00 and why would the baby mama open her legs with no assurance that the man will take care of her and the kids? That's on baby mama. They give no incentive for men to be fathers and husbands. Not to mention they "don't need no man" mentality.
Superseadragon 2 years ago
for god's sake, most black men are NOT in prison. i get tired of people saying that. blacks account for 12-15% of the population. that is about 30 million african americans. about 14 million of which are black men. you're telling me there are over 7 million black men in prison? there are only about 1 million and some change americans locked up. crunch the numbers yourself if you don't believe. the majority of black men are not in prison.
ikanipo 2 years ago
HEAVENLYTRUTH1
I am now convinced that their is something wrong with black people, a cursed race if you want to uplift the image of black women. You can open your own television station and show positive images. That brings pride, hope and comfort to people. This isnt doing any good but brings out hate from other races towards black people. People like ANYANSOLAR make black people look like ANIMALS with no self control or pride to protect their own kind.
Freetowqn80 2 years ago
freetowqn80, do u like or hate black people? u wanna give ur suggestions for possible uplift then turn around and make blanket statements(?) its as if ur coin just never stops flipping........
creeball 2 years ago
If you feel that strongly do something to help people, travel to Africa do some volunteering work. You are not helping anyone no one cares. This is the reason why other races hate black people and think this whole race should be exterminated, the ability to distroy is INATE within Black people. You as a black man dont know anything about millions of black people to make videos after videos degrading black women. why would anyone want to be BLACK!
Freetowqn80 2 years ago
You are totally clueless!
damiecol85 2 years ago
@Freetowqn80 I agree the asshole who made this video is a racist and sexist loser!
Quoranation 1 year ago
What is up with everyone giving this dude praise? Are you people stupid? He is simply perpetuating everything negative we have going on in the black community right now. Some of the videos make a tiny bit of sense, while others are just geared to further bring down the image of black women. Seriously, this is some bs.
lilmisscau 2 years ago
SIngle motherhood does not and will not work at All PERIOD! God made it so that a man and woman must join together in an sexual nature to have children. Likewise, the man and woman are supposed to raise the children together, period!
If men of any other race were abandoning their children on the woman, (like they do in the african american race) you'd get the same results--The woman and their children would live in POVERTY, PERIOD!!!
shakibibi 2 years ago
i wanna marry this guy!!! real truth my brother!
PANTY2TITE 2 years ago
you make a lot of sense plus your voice is sooooo esxy lol you should check out black indigo too. She is a very enlightened woman.
NerdQueen89 2 years ago
So what you gonna get you a white girl or a girl from another brother? Bro look here what I am saying is you have a right to be dissapointed but do not align yourself with bitch nigger like this hurt so-called man. This is not doing anything but fueling the fire Woman do not get pregnantby themselves. What we need to do is stop these niggas our here from destorying the sisters with their lies and deception. How many noggas do you tell they are wrong for what they do to the Bwoman?
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
I already told u I don't like white girls. I'm just not into black American women in regards to relationships. It worked for u cool, I'm happy for u and all brothers who have achieved success with theme, but I haven't. and I will not continue to beat a dead horse.
obogalooga 2 years ago
Bro I married an African, not because I perferred them are because I was tried of Americans, maybe I was curious anyway it did not work just because of the (Jet Blackness) fine as hell but we just did not have that connection we did not have that same familiarity you can try it if you like but it will not be the same.You are still a youth no doubt you were a big help to your mom and family that was not your burden it was your fathers, that just our point pain undirected burden not yours
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
damn it's not even working with the African sistas? damn thats discouraging. I still gotta try it at least.
obogalooga 2 years ago
Who birthed this generation of lying men not raised by fathers of integrity? Who kicked all the James Evanses out of the home? Who gave our sons the bitch mentality that they are afflicted with?
PublicEnemyNo0001 2 years ago
NIgga! or NIgger! did you not comprehend that I know where the problem lied? Black woman are the victims too! fool. We are all victims. The blackman has not had his day in centuries and until the Blackman can do his duty toward blackwomen until then blackwomen are going to do a fucked up job but they are the only ones doing it the best they can!.The James Evanses have to find away to stay home to help balance the next generation or wear hoods! you get my meaning!Man up BItch ass NIgga or Nigger!
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
You ignorant brainwashed little cunt boy! Black women ARE the "Oppressors", do you understand that pussy boy? Get your mothers titty from between your dick sucking lips and grow a pair! Black men have performed their duties, remember the Black Panthers cuntwad? Remember our Brothers dying and bleeding for the cause only for the Black Panther women to turn on the movement and join the Feminist Movement? Or are you just too fucking ignorant to understand history pussified sissy boy?
PublicEnemyNo0001 2 years ago 2
What's wrong your mother didn't love you did not hug you enough? You asshole all blackwoman did not join the women's movement. Just like all blackmen are not innocent of the bullshit we do and don't do when it comes to these children WE leave behind, and therefore cause blackwoman to do whatever by any means necessary. Keep a hood on it and you/they would not have to worry about the big bad wolf CHILD SUPPORT. KIDS GOT TO EAT. Black Panthers were fools and got caught up!Thats the pass ASSHOLE
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
Bro! you say spare you of the history lessons but are you not leaning on the pass? No the woman of today are not like the women of yesterday, We are the children of the women in pain that is why we keep running into the problems. Its generational our fathers were children of pain. we saw our mothers in pain Blackmen and Blackwoman. This shits been going on since 1955, Turning on our women is not the solution you can not produce you without them so it is best to work with them. You gave up!
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
man fuck that sympathy for black American women stuff. I'm speaking about MY life experiences. I cannot continue to try to build a relationship with those who want none with me. I'm not giving up on black women. I am weary of black (American) women and I refuse to have an ounce of sympathy for theme until they prove otherwise. I haven't gave up, I provide resources to theme. and I didn't turn on theme, they turned on me. like I said, this ain't 1955, they don't support through trials no more.
obogalooga 2 years ago
Man you sound like a sucker,I said this shit has been going on since 1955meaning that it took time for it to get this out of order and it WILL! take time to get back in order.Your contribution is to know self and be confident with some understanding of your own pain and then realizing their pain. If you are interested in some solutions good if you just want to be angry then be so and see how much real satisfaction that will give you. There are some good sisters maybe you are not reflecting them
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
"Man you sound like a sucker" EXACTLY! I was raised by my mama to be a provider to black women because she never had one. now I grow up and black American women see me as a "sucker" every time I help theme. fuck that! I have solutions. I am a landlord, I provide single black mothers with housing. I own a non profit which provides food to single black mamas. I am not the problem, they are.
obogalooga 2 years ago
Well said & you are making a difference however that will never matter in their eyes as a whole. You see you are trying to use logic & reason & I do appreciate the video this brother is making & KOBEWEST still it will not change we have to take action for ourselves they will never give up the power. BM are like me are turning away from them which is what we should do. After all that "black struggle" They are now part of the system we have been betrayed. Run.
coptic777 2 years ago
Men need to start listening to the Black woman in America It was the blackwoman( x-slave) and until this day that has build up the whites civilization Can not the blackwoman be helpful in building a cilvilization for us? If a blackman has self awareness and assurance in himself he can have a good relationship with a blackwoman,the womb of the woman should be reverenced not be a pleasure box for entertainment.A man should be measured by his self worth not by the views of women,that's the problem
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
start listening to theme? I been doing that shit my whole life and it got me no where with black American women. they only want to help the community when it is money or church involved. yes the black women can be helpful but the black (American) women has to be forced to do the right thing. there are not enough good ones to build right now. I don't want to use theme, I wanted to elevate theme and they didn't respect it. fuck that man they gone either roll wit it or get rolled over.
obogalooga 2 years ago
"A man should be measured by his self worth not by the views of women,that's the problem" exactly, but that's what thugtician enlightened me too. FUCK WHAT BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN THINK! BLACK MEN HAVE TO DOMINATE POSITIVELY. the black American women thats wit it? cool. those that are not? fuck em. I done did enough for theme in my 24 years. those days is over!
obogalooga 2 years ago
Bro, I listen to alittle of the nigger shit he is not one of us, you should not listen to his verbal hatred of women. Our women are of a different breed so it is hard but listen hear You are right they need to have boundaries around them and need to be reformed. But look at who is using them for sports and play? The rappers and artist and so called confused niggas with some science Think brother I know sisteres that are willing to uplift brothers and have no problem with submitting to brothers.
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
ok brother when I meet those uplifting and submitting black American sistas I will have a different story. but so far I haven't. I'm not living a fantasy I'm just talking about reality. the black women of my generation do more damage than good. it shouldn't be our responsibility to clean up their shit. and they CHOOSE TO FOLLOW AND HAVE CHILDREN BY BLACK DEVILS AND MANIPULATORS. THEY CHOOSE THAT.
obogalooga 2 years ago
You can look at the responses to this video and calculate the mentality of men when it comes to pre-marrital sex and the baby that may be the result of,The woman can not impreganat herself.The momma's boys are the blackmen who can not commit because of the pain of seeing their own mothers' go through the mamma baby drama.Our mothers were in pain therefore they really could not teach or raise us successfully. Look around you see the results. It starts in the home form birth, its generational!.
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
thugtician is very deep. his overall analysis on why baby mamas are a problem I totally agree with. but from a personal standpoint my view is this. the reason why we don't give these baby mamas OF TODAY a second chance is because most of us were overlooked by these same baby mamas before they got pregnant who now want to be with us. u see? we weren't good enough for theme. it's a blatant slap in the face.
obogalooga 2 years ago
they didn't choose us for procreation because they didn't like strong positive business minded brothers. they gave themselves to other men. those other men will support theme through child support "hopefully." so, basically it forms a stigma with brothers. even if the sista couldn't control the situation, a brother who has been rejected by black women will feel spited by sm's. if we had that respect from bw in the beginning? we wouldn't care if she had a child or not.
obogalooga 2 years ago
So you are relating the thug whom the woman wanted vs the good blackman that they rejected? What?Look manin America most men wouild not even deal with a woman whom had a child after the sex revolution marriage wasn't even desired by most liberal minded blacks, So those children whom we are already were stained from the start. As a good Blackman with a little thug in me I have found that you must be in controll and self assured in yourself to be able to deal with a Bwoman with children or not!
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
I didn't say nothing about a thug, I'm just talking about the womens previous choices. and please spare me the history lesson, the black American women of today ARE NOT THE WOMEN OF YESTERDAY. as far as being sure of myself? I am sure of myself, I just have not been successful with black American women. I'm just being honest. and I'm not cleaning up no black Americans womens mess. I deal with theme everyday I know how they dump babies on the so-called good brotha, you can save em if u want...
obogalooga 2 years ago
"So you are relating the thug whom the woman wanted vs the good blackman that they rejected? What?"
hell fuckin yeah! if black American women want respect? they must honor themselves. until then? black American women are responsible for their own problems. I'm done tryna help theme. u say be sure of yourself? black American women reject brothers who are leaders and providers such as myself. what world do u live in?
obogalooga 2 years ago
This is what the thugniggas HAVE CREATED! THIS IS ALL-SO WHAT THE GOODBLACKMAN HAS CREATED THAT IS HOW BABIESMAMMAS R CREATED. thUGS DO NOT GET MARRIED, AND SO-CALLED GOOD MEN R MAMMA'S BOY, AND THE NICE GUY THINKS HE IS SO INDEMAND THAT HE IS BEING NICE TO EVERYONE...Ttherein is develop mammababy drama....more later...
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
@CanUhandledatruth
I don't understand you statement about so-called good black men. what do u mean "so called?" do u not agree that there are good black men out here? and what is with the mamas boy comment? what does that mean? "being nice to everyone?" how does that correlate to good black men being noneffective as u seem to imply? please explain....
obogalooga 2 years ago
I really wanted this guy from the UK to respond but I see he 's not, Nevertheless, my point is that the thugs and the good blackman has created the baby mamma drama because they are not standing up to their responsibility,The nice guy is the so called brother that believes he can be with any woman from any race.Showing women from other races and their children more respect than his own blackwoman and her children.Because we do not have respect for the blackwoman in America, We all are not good!
CanUhandledatruth 2 years ago
not all good black men try to be with other races. many black women have just flat out rejected us. it's not that complicating. if a man keeps getting rejected from black American women? he's survival instinct is gonna force him to marry/date out so that he can procreate. I don't like white women so I wanna see how other black Women from other places are.
obogalooga 2 years ago
mensmovement 2 years ago 2
Mines is present but he refuses to commit. I don't like that u put all the burden on single mothers like they r the only ones messing up the community. I swear men act like they don't have minds of their own! what is stopping men from not sleepin wit multiple women and knocking all of them up. Even though they know they don't have the money for kids they do it any way. Their r 2 sides to a story.! Though I believe men are treated unfairly at times. Men still need realize their part in this too.
Shimmy2009 2 years ago 2
However I do agree with marriage before kids. The problem with this is that men don't want to. They know that they can get the pussy wit out the ring. so even if I were savin it he would problably find a way to get it from some esles. That is just how fickle men are. So even if I do the right thing men will do what they do regardless.
Shimmy2009 2 years ago
Absolutely, the disintegration of the Black family has destroyed the black community since the community is fragmented with no links or pride. Look at east asian families or east indian ones which have a strong family unit and do well. Bring back the family.
PaxBrittanica 2 years ago 3
@PaxBrittanica
Yes but no one tried to destroy their family unit and took them from their home to a foreign land
maann36 1 year ago
Hellp there, you raise some really good points.
The distruction of the family unit is IMO at the root of so many social problems.
Women have been sold a lie, ie That having a job, putting their children into childcare and raising a family alone is somehow the ultimate "feminist" acheivment. I am a women and long for Male and female energy to reunite instead of working against each other.
caproost 2 years ago
Yes Sir, Brilliance is right.
damiecol85 2 years ago
Brilliance.
Suitsnappy 2 years ago