how did i used to focus on school and do everything but now i cant focus at all and i never do homework. and im not diagnosed with any disorder by doctor
Have you actually been diagnosed with Asperger's? You describe many typical traits of Asperger's, but your speech and body language doesn't. I'd never guess that you have it. I've never been diagnosed, but I can identify with many Aspergic traits, specifically when it comes to social skills, small talk, eye contact, body language and varying the tone and volume of my voice. These things take a conscious effort on my part. I have no doubt that you excel in these areas more than me.
Not to tell people my problems but I've been diagnosed as an Aspie for a year now. I have yet to see anything positive about being that. I'm lonely, depressed, and I'm always being bullied. I'm feel hopeless about my life right now.
When I first saw your video, it really made my day! It helps me a lot to think positively about Asperger syndrome :)
I have a question for you: can I post this video on my own AS blog? I already translated it into my native language, I'm sure it would be a great help to everyone, including those who don't understand English.
also cant fit in anywhere, risk of being bullied ( i was bullied when i was a kid because i was different) extremely low self esteem, high demands on yourself, etc etc. so IMO there are waaaaay more cons than pros having aspergers, but there are a few.
and ,not trying to sound cheesy but the desire of love..
HOLY CRAP YOU LOOK LIKE UMA THURMAN!!!!!!!!! HOT!!!!!!! sorry for the caps but Uma is my favourite actress, and shes also the hottest woman on earth, and you look so much like her!
On another note, the pros of aspiness are= always above average intelligence,think more outside the box, can get extremely good at 1 thing.
Cons: risk for alcoholism, depressions,anxiety, risk for drug abuse,suicide thoughts (this is my personal experience) not being able to talk with people, lonliness,etc.
I also have AS, most of the time I also find myself thinking about the negative aspects because there are alot less positive things, I dont know about others but with AS im more friendly, focussed, and quieter than everyone i know
For the first time, I nearly feel as if I have superpowers. As a fellow Aspie who is creative in many ways... I find it hard to believe the state of our minds is bad or a bit of baggage. Quite frankly, there are some major trade offs... Thank you for being so brave & making such an eloquent statement. ~m rudvs[dot]com
Anyone knows how to tell if you have Asperger's or schizophrenia? Can you have both at the same time.....? What about dramatic mood swings....? Could it be bipolar? Is that even possible....? Any advice, please.....?
I have sort of what i like to call "selective photographic memory" when im really focus or when is a subject that i really enjoy, I can remember absolutely everything about it. I can also understand it in ways other people cant. Of course when is a subject that i dont like, or im not focused for some reason, then i cant understand or remember any of it.
About sensory type stuff,if I'm concentrated on something else,and there's people talking behind me.some of the words that they are saying come out differently.like they said something but I heard it different.but usually it's just a word,not a whole sentence.is this something about being an aspie the anmish?I need answers please!!!
@shadyonedeath Not at all. If I gave you the impression, then I am sorry. I can be reached at savagelightstudios at gmail dot com. I will gladly share the information I have.
@shadyonedeath It does matter. The next steps vary drastically based on which it is... Honestly. In an attempt to give guidance, especially with autism spectrum disorders, many times additional questions are required.
Not sure how I stumbled on your vid but I've got aspergers too. Can't say I've ever been a fan of the term 'aspi', I hear people use it but it grates with me. Thats probably just me though, I do wonder if other people with aspergers feel the same.
I agree with all your possitives :) I'm a game programmer and it's amazing for me. I happily work all night and day, as for me its just the same as play. haha, that ryhmed ;)
michiyoyoshiku had a point about not looking for attention and solutions for problems that don't exist, but that ain't the case with a lot of AS, and anyway I was just countermanding his argument for anyone watching who might have believed it. Everyone's different, though, just be open-minded and tolerant, people. Except to people who you've given not just a second chance but a fourth or fifth chance, and then f*** 'em!
@michiyoyoshiku You've gone far beyond reasonable behavior in the comment section on this video, I suspect you're also a troll. I have no reason to think that a decent conversation could be had with you, after seeing your posts..
@TheAnMish Thank you... and I am sorry that I engaged... It has been one of those weeks... I probably should have turned off the computer... but you know how that is
Need more Proof Aspergers Doesn't Exist Look up Non Verbal Developmental disorder. It's outside the autistic spectrum and is almost identical to Aspergers. Also makes more sense than Assburgers
I did look up Non Verbal Developmental disorder, and while there are similarities, I can tell you it does not describe me.
For instance, I don't find mathematics and spatial awareness difficult, and in fact do quite well in these areas.
I have a good understanding of the English language, but I don't rely on verbal communication to learn. I am good at learning from text, mathematics, spatial and by copying others, as long as it's logical.
* responding to people, especially with very open-ended comments or questions
* switching focus, and multitasking - I work well when I can focus on one thing
* time management, and being rushed to do anything - probably partially a result of being so focused on one thing that I don't pay attention to time. Also, in my IQ test, I scored highly in working memory, mathematical and spatial areas, but average in processing speed.
@michiyoyoshiku As opposed to being a complete ass about it. How about you educate about misdiagnosis and other possibilities?
Then you must be aware of the human tendency to believe those who are touted as "experts," and thus the acceptance of what a psych professional tells us.
That being said, attacking people that have non-neurotypical issues for believing what a doctor told them is a little... heavy handed.
@michiyoyoshiku Yeah? So why the hell have I been abused all my life, confused all my life - and the AS diagnosis at age 30 answered my life-long questions, and I NEVER asked for any of this hassle in life! The confusion is that Aspies often get abused then develop other psyche issues.
So tell me when Aspergers is eliminated from the DSM V what will you do? Cry because you have no identity based on false flags or start protesting to get a disorder
@michiyoyoshiku duh, dumbass, what part of "I never asked for this shit" don't you understand? The questions forced themselves into my existence, for many reasons, not because I was looking for an excuse. Reasonable people have reasons, idiots have excuses, get it?
@michiyoyoshiku your lack of logic in assuming that I didn't (and other assumptions you make, for some reason, maybe pathological) is the biggest bullshit on this comments page. Go look in the mirror of your soul: what are you trying to achieve from all this negativity? I don't give a fuck what you think, I'm just curious to learn another example of human behaviour, really, that's why I keep feeding the troll. Perhaps you have some revelatory information for us? Where is it then?
@TVismyopiate Please ignore michiyoyoshiku... He's just trying (and succeeding) to get a rise out of you. His knowledge bast is limited to video games... and he feels that MvsC is the same game, only prettier... his opinion, therefore, is invalid.
@michiyoyoshiku You make the mistake of using the same user name all over the net... and link from one your videos to your blog. Which is under the same name... A little research goes a long way...
Thank you for your trolling and lies, but we're over you... go play your video games, hatemonger
@michiyoyoshiku *snicker* rigggghhhht... We're both contributing to a youtube comment fight... you're as much a loser as I am... but at least I'm honest...
@michiyoyoshiku After a little bit of research, I can state, with confidence that you are stunningly full of shit and are considered a troll in several online communities and been perma banned from others. STFU John
It's such a life changing experience because I thought I was the only one with this condition. It's so weird I talk exactly like you lol. But then I always use to wonder about people and their problems and how they can't seem to figure it out or make their lives better. It was always in the back of my mind like maybe they can't seem the solution or maybe I'm just different. I don't know its just such a relief to know their are people like me.
@Informative Video - I have watched this video and the one of you interviewing Tony Atwood. You give some good information here which helps neuro-typical people understand and gives some good advice for other Aspies. :-)
Asperger Syndrome is a neurobiological disorder on the higher-functioning end of the autism spectrum. An individual's symptoms can range from mild to severe.
Their IQ's are typically in the normal to very superior range. They are usually educated in the mainstream, but most require special education services.
Because of their naivete, those with AS are often viewed by their peers as "odd" and are frequently a target for bullying and teasing.
Thank you for helping me to better understand my Aspie friend. You are absolutely right about loyalty. She sends me lots of light and positive energy, and I have learned to respond in like. Her sensitivities can be frustrating at times, but she is very good at explaining exactly what is going on in her body and how sounds,fluorescent lights and city life can be very grating to her senses. I love and appreciate her more and more as i come to understand her. Thank you for this video, vy helpful
@TheAnMish but you mentioned concentration. i was thinking do you ever loose it, roll over and just start reading a book or something? i didnt mean physically . i guess thats a bit personal though. you dont have to aswer this.
@88bottlesoflove You don't have to have all symptoms to have the syndrome. No two aspies are the same.
I have sensory issues with sight and sound, but not touch, others may have issues with touch but not with anything else.
It's a very complex syndrome, and you can't boil it down to any one symptom, no matter which it is - not even special interests, which is otherwise a very central and obvious symptom in most aspies.
@TheAnMish Maybe you're right....maybe....only time will tell, as psychology experts push forward, and the possibility of aspergers syndrome diverging into separate more specific types or remaining the one singular type crystallizes. P.s. You are right about going out of our way to make nice and kind people feel appreciated...but sometimes this leads us to being used - I learned this the hard way at work.
@TheAnMish correct. I find ambulances in the street really hard to listen to. Touch, I like, but not at the wrong time, or wrong person. The right person, I find it much easier to express myself through touch (massage & sexual touch), that cuts through any communication barriers quite well. It's just getting to that stage!
@PennyDreadful1 I also like a good turning near the warm glow of the fire light...but still yet, something remains of an aversion to nylon and fuzzy peaches...
@TheDive99 I suspect I have a mild case of Asperger's, and I have never had a girlfriend in my life. Apart from my high anxiety to initiate sex, I just don't like touching people. I'm also disgusted with bodily fluids and odors. I've tried to have sex with prostitutes, but it gets worse every time I try it. Now, I don't bother trying it at all. Needless to say I frequently lose my erection, and I've never ejaculated with anyone.
@ejdf870 Hmm, I have a diagnosed Aspie friend, who has also never had a girlfriend and appears to have anxieties about sex and touching people too. But, you might want to check out the personality disorders, especially avoidant personality disorder and schizoid personality disorder. I suspect I have SPD, and I'm pretty sure I am bipolar to some extent. If you have issues with speech or sensitivity of hearing or sight (as my friend does), AS may be likelier.
@SkullOfYorick I think I have a medley of overlapping conditions. I WAS diagnosed as bipolar, but that doesn't rule out Asperger's, Avoidant Personality Disorder, performance anxiety, and several others in addition.
@TheDive99 Very hard for a guy if he's shy, not much difference for a girl, due to typical courting dynamics being guy->girl directed, I believe. Very hard for me. I have major issues with working out how to present myself, due to not only Aspergers but the abuse suffered from my peers confusing me as to reality and what to go with. So when my GF tells me I'm an 'amazing lover' and meaning it (as far as I can tell by all counts!) it's good! If true, maybe it's because I'm not spoilt?
M, I was diagnosed with PDD (Pervasive Developmental disorder) and i like video games and technology. Every time a new console, device, anything that has a logic board comes out; I have to know what it is and how it works. I also can think of ways to fix almost ANYTHING.
tru tru tur tru my a aspergers and pdd realy tis the same but we keep to our selves cuz we dont wont to get hurt cus i i know i got hrt so i dont trust people emotion we keep closed away from others and i dont like hang out with broken people like its dis testfull lols tur
I'm shocked actually- how can I know for shure if I'm an aspie? The stuff you mention sounds very familiar to me and I'm not happy about it...actually it would make me sad to be an aspie since I thought the problems I have were fixable. :/
Well, I've taken an online test but I'd like to not go to a therapist to get this confirmed. So is there a do-it-yourself way of diagnosing Asperger's? Thanks, nodean
PS: I think you're a lovely person, you've got a very warm aura. :)
@noddwan It's hard to know for sure, but the best thing to do is to contact your doctor and ask to be tested - you'll be tested by a psychiatrist, but it can be a good idea to speak with a psychologist specialized in ASD first.
If you really can't/won't do that, I suggest reading a few books, starting with "The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome" by Tony Attwood.
Mind, self-diagnosing is generally not recommended. If it's because you don't want it on paper, I'm sure you can tell them so.
@TheAnMish I would add it's not self diagnosis to seek but more taking consciousness from my experience with help of specialists... from my experience, but still its only mine but I have a long difficult struggle as experience behind me
@TheAnMish Thanks a lot for your answer, so there's no sufficient way around a professional in order to be sure..I'll look up the book as well, thanks for the tip. :)
That's awesome that you're into the subject of harmonics! I am also heavily influenced by any kind of harmonies, but especially players in the field of jazz such as John Coltrane, Jerry Bergonzi, and Pat Metheny. I have a friend who has aspergers syndrome, I'm not sure if I have it because the only thing I relate to is having intense interests for periods of time in certain subjects.
I'm a very high-functioning 'aspie', which means that I have the social skills that many others lack. This is great, but it has come at the expense of a lot of the things mentioned in this video. I think it's just focus and memory that I have. So there you are, the two sides of the asperger's coin.
@TheAnMish I just discovered you today and subscribed to you before the video was even over. I have to say, you and several others have opened my eyes to the Aspberger community. I never thought of my Aspbergers very much in life and now that I'm seeying more and more others with this gift, I'm learning that more and more of them see it as a curse because of how ridiculed they are. I want to change this. Thanks to you I am now going to develope a web site devoted to the art of being an aspie.
All the great minds had asperger, Einstein, Mozart, Beethoven, Bill Gates, Isaac Newton, Michalangelo, Van Gogh, Thomas Jefferson and the list goes on and on. And that seems very true, i am pretty intelligent "that's what i've heard from others" and i'm very creative i compose my own music and can improvise when i hear something good. I see it as a gift not a disorder
if Asperger people can focus, then why are we misleaded in society? we should be able to have a normal life and not a screwed up one. it's stupid how all of us cannot get jobs. we are god's future to this problem. here:normal people:mental, mental people:normal. that is all.
haha you like sounds, music/harmonic sound?? Get tinnitus lol, it's great! Never a silent day.
@idragosani Just think for a second, and try to ask that question to a professional statistician. He would tell you there is No way to gather enough data to make a trustworthy judgement of that.
Seems to be the problem with aspies aswell. The behavior is just normal statistically speaking. But now you 'act' as aspie and you reinforce it. Drop the label girl, seriously! Act yourself and not a disease
You get it, you've very eloquently explained here exactly how these "disorders" we have are anything but a "disorder". I do not believe being an "aspie" or being "autistic" is a disorder, it is in fact a gift and a very wonderful one!
People are taught about the word "disorder" before learning about mental configurations, it makes them false.
You get it though, you explain right here that this is in FACT....A gift...and a wonderful one.
This is a great video, and im sorry about all the idiots who think they're psychologist's "i dont think you have aspergers because your not rocking on the floor yelling about trains." i mean for FCKS SAKE. Anyways, you're awesome, keep makin videos :)
@cdnml I haven't had trouble with balance, but I don't think I'd be good at driving, due to having to watch traffic all around me.. I think it'd be very stressful.
But I think I could easily learn to control the car.. that's not what keeps me from getting a license. :)
I think I've talked about sleep in an earlier video.
@TheAnMish Hey, I'm 17 and have Asperger's....Do you think you could talk to me, give me some advice on how to cope with it...? You seem to have so much insight into the syndrome....? I hope it's not a problem for you... Please?
corr.: "along with his meltdowns (instead of "blackmails")" The autist played piano from childhood (says he did it with great defiance)-but later bought the 1.piano: did not play! One year later bought the 2nd piano (did not play), one year later he buys the 3rd piano on his own; "What about your piano?" - "Mhm, I should play (more)" - It turns out that he is STILL not playing!So he cannot foresee such topics, plans...he always changes mood+never cares about view of others+doesn't learn
What he does, read, says, concludes himself - everything remains absolutely meaningless! No matter what he said and concluded yesterday - the next day it's GONE! And even for the same day one has to ask: "what's the meaning. what do you mean, what is the meaning for you?"-It normally does not make sense, either you ask once or ten times. The next day the whole theme has gone.He buys a piano today and sells it the next day! "I don't like to play" - 1-2years later he buys 2others-not playing
What he does, read, says, concludes himself - everything remains absolutely meaningless! No matter what he said and concluded yesterday - the next day it's GONE! And even for the same day one has to ask: "what's the meaning. what do you mean, what is the meaning for you?"-It normally does not make sense, either you ask once or ten times. The next day the whole theme has gone.He buys a piano today and sells it the next day! "I don't like to play" - 1-2years later he buys 2others-not playing
Actually you seem to be a totally different type/kind. For the autist I know homopathy works quite good, changes some thought-paths. I know about another autist who was also treated with homopathy (diff. remedy than the first mentioned). In the second case the asylum calles the mother and said "what has happened? Your son is totally normal"!!! BUT: the Autist refused to take the homopathic rem.! The autist I know has a lot of interests - but everything remains THAT senseless!
I learned by n autist who is my neighbour (even same school) that he in the end does not want to change, though is requirng that much help from all sources. From childhood on he was learning to do only what he wants. Along with his blackmails he learned to successfully blackmail his parents. Any advice ends at the point where he should change and learn (only very small steps are suggested, modular method). He always refuses though constantly restarts to ask for help.
i got aspie 2 i find it hard 2 talk 2 people i got 1 friend at my school and i talk 2 him every day because i gues im used 2 him now idk how 2 explain it i need 2 warm my self up 2 sum1 b4 i can talk 2 him/her wen i want 2 talk 2 sum1 i plan out what im gonna say but then i never say it this 1 time i cought this girl staring at me and i think she didnt hav a bf so i was planing on talkin 2 her but i never did and now she got a bf plz help me im 14 btw
Awesome video. A lot of what you said was completely relatable. I'm also an Aspie and have been through tons of social abuse because of it. Loved listening to what you had to say.
I don't have Aspergers, at least not to my knowledge. But I was a sick child and didn't get to play sports growing up so I can definetly relate to not fitting in.
I think it's great that people like you are going public, Innocent kids shouldn't be exposed to the emotional trama that severe lonliness brings just because they're a little different.
i have aspergers syndrome myself and i think its a fascinating way of thinking and im only 16 but i have friends that are adults because i feel that people at my own age is "too young" for me
@cocardeux Aspies don't look any different from "normal" people. It's our brains that are different, not our bodies or faces.
And whether you think I look spoiled or not, has no bearing on the diagnoses I have. But at least now, I've given you a little information. So the next time you tell someone "You don't look like an aspie", you'll know it's irrelevant.
@cocardeux You're an idiot if you think people with Asperger's Syndrome all look the same, cocardeux. I'm someone with Asperger's Syndrome, yes, I've been diagnosed, and the only trait that physical trait that people notice in me is the strange gait I have when I walk.
@catastrophucked I m also an aspirator lol... I m serious! I don't like her way to talk, it's like she was playing with us... I m also quite suspicious about what she's looking for by posting this kind of thing on youtube. All aspies know what she says, and the others only care about her angelic face... If she learnt the face' expressions of others, she should know that she smiles often when she shouldn't... Shit english lol I know. :)
You read to deep, facial expressions or no, these words are still true. Even if this video was a hoax the words are not incorrect. Being an "aspie" or being "autistic" is only and will only ever be a gift, it is not a disorder nor will it ever be.
We are a world of individuals, it means no two are alike completely.
I could just as easily conclude here that you are a troll trying to start a fight, but I can also give you the benefit of the doubt for potential misunderstanding.
@mythril4 haha my point of view disturbs you a lot. Use your brain : why is she doing this? To be helpful? => lol you said yourself we were in a world of individuals. To make an add of her stupid album, to attract the attention? => mamma mia! I don't blame her for this, I don't know the answer, but I m suspicious. So your deep discussion about life seems useless in this case, you d better talk about money lol... you re in love too <3 :) charming.
@cocardeux Honestly, I don't see why you would be "suspicious".
It's not like I make a dime off of this channel.
(Also, about my "stupid" album, I'd be a fool not to mention it when I have a channel with this number of subscribers. No one is forced to buy it, and no one does if they don't like it.)
You seem to read too much into things, but if that's what you want to do, then whatever :)
I just think it's worth noting that actually, some people do want to help.
Your a ways off... " I am in love" you say, nice assumption, I guess you think I am interested in relationships with girls based of nothing.
I actually genuinely love people, obviously your perception of love is different than my own. I don't really care how genuine the video is, it's nice to hear someone talk positively about the problem fake or not, there is already a surplus of negative videos. I will make an assumption here, I assume your trolling.
@mythril4 bla bla bla, I like the truth, even if it's ugly, not the hypocritical speeches. Why always talk about things we already know concerning asperger? Asperger is an everyday fight, and I wish all aspergers ll find their way like I found mine. But it took me years and many hours thinking about my relation with others, to find where I am in my conscience compared to others, this is interesting. Listing the shit symptomes of asperger is useless.
how did i used to focus on school and do everything but now i cant focus at all and i never do homework. and im not diagnosed with any disorder by doctor
JMort95 5 hours ago
thanks for sharing :) music is really beautiful!
melissajoel1 13 hours ago
Have you actually been diagnosed with Asperger's? You describe many typical traits of Asperger's, but your speech and body language doesn't. I'd never guess that you have it. I've never been diagnosed, but I can identify with many Aspergic traits, specifically when it comes to social skills, small talk, eye contact, body language and varying the tone and volume of my voice. These things take a conscious effort on my part. I have no doubt that you excel in these areas more than me.
Conway79 16 hours ago
the idea that einstien had as is bullshit
loveandlove231 1 day ago
@loveandlove231 ...how?
goonsauce 1 day ago
Not to tell people my problems but I've been diagnosed as an Aspie for a year now. I have yet to see anything positive about being that. I'm lonely, depressed, and I'm always being bullied. I'm feel hopeless about my life right now.
mastwrt 2 days ago
Viva girl. From one Aspie to another... I can actually see spelling mistakes in books by just scanning the pages at about 3 seconds per page!
I can create 3 dimensional images in my head and construct and deconstruct them!
I am a Mechanical Engineer and I just wish that I was diagnosed earlier. Maybe I could have achieved more sooner!
ahomeser 2 days ago
nicely done~
dracd235 3 days ago
You are a very beautiful Aspie.
xyzimagenes 3 days ago 3
When I first saw your video, it really made my day! It helps me a lot to think positively about Asperger syndrome :)
I have a question for you: can I post this video on my own AS blog? I already translated it into my native language, I'm sure it would be a great help to everyone, including those who don't understand English.
angrycube09 4 days ago
@angrycube09 Sure, you can post it :)
TheAnMish 4 days ago
@TheAnMish Thank you :)
angrycube09 1 day ago
@angrycube09 Where is that blog?
Myrtone 2 days ago
@Myrtone I haven't finished building it yet, but as soon as it's ready, I'll post the link here, possibly in a couple of days.
angrycube09 1 day ago
also cant fit in anywhere, risk of being bullied ( i was bullied when i was a kid because i was different) extremely low self esteem, high demands on yourself, etc etc. so IMO there are waaaaay more cons than pros having aspergers, but there are a few.
and ,not trying to sound cheesy but the desire of love..
Davebg2 5 days ago
HOLY CRAP YOU LOOK LIKE UMA THURMAN!!!!!!!!! HOT!!!!!!! sorry for the caps but Uma is my favourite actress, and shes also the hottest woman on earth, and you look so much like her!
On another note, the pros of aspiness are= always above average intelligence,think more outside the box, can get extremely good at 1 thing.
Cons: risk for alcoholism, depressions,anxiety, risk for drug abuse,suicide thoughts (this is my personal experience) not being able to talk with people, lonliness,etc.
Davebg2 5 days ago
I also have AS, most of the time I also find myself thinking about the negative aspects because there are alot less positive things, I dont know about others but with AS im more friendly, focussed, and quieter than everyone i know
Disneyfan5150 5 days ago
i believe this real.. and even myself am a lot like this. I function high on my passion. no matter the cost too.
TheFoxandTheRabbit 6 days ago
I don't know what ass burger sin drums would be used for, but I think they would taste or sound bad.
AGgirldoll 6 days ago
You are my female counterpart. please marry me ? :v
pipodebeuker 6 days ago
marry me?
headbanger1781 1 week ago
For the first time, I nearly feel as if I have superpowers. As a fellow Aspie who is creative in many ways... I find it hard to believe the state of our minds is bad or a bit of baggage. Quite frankly, there are some major trade offs... Thank you for being so brave & making such an eloquent statement. ~m rudvs[dot]com
levisum22 1 week ago
Well said!
levisum22 1 week ago
@INDLIS More than happy to oblige! It might take a few years though. If I'm going to do this, then I want it to be big.
stupido1100 1 week ago
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Anyone knows how to tell if you have Asperger's or schizophrenia? Can you have both at the same time.....? What about dramatic mood swings....? Could it be bipolar? Is that even possible....? Any advice, please.....?
erewrwify 1 week ago
I have sort of what i like to call "selective photographic memory" when im really focus or when is a subject that i really enjoy, I can remember absolutely everything about it. I can also understand it in ways other people cant. Of course when is a subject that i dont like, or im not focused for some reason, then i cant understand or remember any of it.
blackwolfsquadron 1 week ago
About sensory type stuff,if I'm concentrated on something else,and there's people talking behind me.some of the words that they are saying come out differently.like they said something but I heard it different.but usually it's just a word,not a whole sentence.is this something about being an aspie the anmish?I need answers please!!!
hunt29826 1 week ago
@TheAnMish Can you give me some examples of problems where aspies can see the solutions better due to the way you think, and maybe some explanation?
Your vid was very interesting and you are lovely, thanks.
gorgolyt 1 week ago
Sorry. I just felt you were another skeptical fanatic trying to disprove another "am I a aspie?" case.
I haven't talked to my psych yet (only 4 visits) but i've caught cues from them that somethings up. I can't disclose here, got skype/aim?
If you're genuinely trying to help, thanks.
shadyonedeath 1 week ago
@shadyonedeath Not at all. If I gave you the impression, then I am sorry. I can be reached at savagelightstudios at gmail dot com. I will gladly share the information I have.
feralucce 1 week ago
I need some guidance/direction. I feel very lost knowing this. Too much time wasted.
shadyonedeath 1 week ago
I just realized im an Aspie....At 23 years old. What have I missed? What age did you realize?
shadyonedeath 1 week ago
@shadyonedeath realized, or diagnosed?
feralucce 1 week ago
@feralucce Doesn't matter. I asked for guidance, not a 2nd opinion.
shadyonedeath 1 week ago
@shadyonedeath It does matter. The next steps vary drastically based on which it is... Honestly. In an attempt to give guidance, especially with autism spectrum disorders, many times additional questions are required.
Good luck, sorry for trying to help you out.
feralucce 1 week ago
p.s. I liked how you handled the sex comment ;)
The guy was just being pervy haha
JonnyCasey 1 week ago
Not sure how I stumbled on your vid but I've got aspergers too. Can't say I've ever been a fan of the term 'aspi', I hear people use it but it grates with me. Thats probably just me though, I do wonder if other people with aspergers feel the same.
I agree with all your possitives :) I'm a game programmer and it's amazing for me. I happily work all night and day, as for me its just the same as play. haha, that ryhmed ;)
JonnyCasey 1 week ago
michiyoyoshiku had a point about not looking for attention and solutions for problems that don't exist, but that ain't the case with a lot of AS, and anyway I was just countermanding his argument for anyone watching who might have believed it. Everyone's different, though, just be open-minded and tolerant, people. Except to people who you've given not just a second chance but a fourth or fifth chance, and then f*** 'em!
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
Most N.T's are mean to people like us.
INDLIS 1 week ago
I got music on my list.
INDLIS 1 week ago
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God all these comments make me want to vomit. and to any logical person would more than prove Assbergers is a sham
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku You've gone far beyond reasonable behavior in the comment section on this video, I suspect you're also a troll. I have no reason to think that a decent conversation could be had with you, after seeing your posts..
You're blocked.
Have a nice day.
TheAnMish 1 week ago 9
@TheAnMish Thank you... and I am sorry that I engaged... It has been one of those weeks... I probably should have turned off the computer... but you know how that is
feralucce 1 week ago
Need more Proof Aspergers Doesn't Exist Look up Non Verbal Developmental disorder. It's outside the autistic spectrum and is almost identical to Aspergers. Also makes more sense than Assburgers
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku
There are times I wish it didn't exist.
I did look up Non Verbal Developmental disorder, and while there are similarities, I can tell you it does not describe me.
For instance, I don't find mathematics and spatial awareness difficult, and in fact do quite well in these areas.
I have a good understanding of the English language, but I don't rely on verbal communication to learn. I am good at learning from text, mathematics, spatial and by copying others, as long as it's logical.
aaaaaFuck 1 week ago
What I'm not very good at:
* responding to people, especially with very open-ended comments or questions
* switching focus, and multitasking - I work well when I can focus on one thing
* time management, and being rushed to do anything - probably partially a result of being so focused on one thing that I don't pay attention to time. Also, in my IQ test, I scored highly in working memory, mathematical and spatial areas, but average in processing speed.
aaaaaFuck 1 week ago
you're really hot......
aditdragon 1 week ago
you're hot --......
aditdragon 1 week ago
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michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku As opposed to being a complete ass about it. How about you educate about misdiagnosis and other possibilities?
Then you must be aware of the human tendency to believe those who are touted as "experts," and thus the acceptance of what a psych professional tells us.
That being said, attacking people that have non-neurotypical issues for believing what a doctor told them is a little... heavy handed.
feralucce 1 week ago
There are no positives to having a disorder that doesn't exist.
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku Yeah? So why the hell have I been abused all my life, confused all my life - and the AS diagnosis at age 30 answered my life-long questions, and I NEVER asked for any of this hassle in life! The confusion is that Aspies often get abused then develop other psyche issues.
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
@TVismyopiate
Save it for somebody that doesn't know you're full of shit.
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku oh sorry, I thought you were a non-troll, that's what I get for taking things literally...
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
@TVismyopiate
So tell me when Aspergers is eliminated from the DSM V what will you do? Cry because you have no identity based on false flags or start protesting to get a disorder
made up by a nazi researcher put back in?
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku duh, dumbass, what part of "I never asked for this shit" don't you understand? The questions forced themselves into my existence, for many reasons, not because I was looking for an excuse. Reasonable people have reasons, idiots have excuses, get it?
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
@TVismyopiate
BULLSHIT I've heard alot of bullshit answers in my day but that is the biggest pile of shit yet.
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@TVismyopiate
If you never asked for it why didn't you do what any sensible and logical person would do and challenge the Diagnosis?
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku your lack of logic in assuming that I didn't (and other assumptions you make, for some reason, maybe pathological) is the biggest bullshit on this comments page. Go look in the mirror of your soul: what are you trying to achieve from all this negativity? I don't give a fuck what you think, I'm just curious to learn another example of human behaviour, really, that's why I keep feeding the troll. Perhaps you have some revelatory information for us? Where is it then?
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
@TVismyopiate
I'm a psychologist you dumb bitch.
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku So am I, you vocal dog!
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
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michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@TVismyopiate Please ignore michiyoyoshiku... He's just trying (and succeeding) to get a rise out of you. His knowledge bast is limited to video games... and he feels that MvsC is the same game, only prettier... his opinion, therefore, is invalid.
feralucce 1 week ago
@feralucce
Shows how much you know
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
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feralucce 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku You make the mistake of using the same user name all over the net... and link from one your videos to your blog. Which is under the same name... A little research goes a long way...
Thank you for your trolling and lies, but we're over you... go play your video games, hatemonger
feralucce 1 week ago
@feralucce
You're an idiot.
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku Ironically enough, I'm not. But, for the sake of argument, let's say I am. You're still a liar.
feralucce 1 week ago
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michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@feralucce
I'm still better at life than you
michiyoyoshiku 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku *snicker* rigggghhhht... We're both contributing to a youtube comment fight... you're as much a loser as I am... but at least I'm honest...
What ever helps you sleep at night, Doctor.
feralucce 1 week ago
@michiyoyoshiku After a little bit of research, I can state, with confidence that you are stunningly full of shit and are considered a troll in several online communities and been perma banned from others. STFU John
feralucce 1 week ago
wow you look alot like my ex how wierdd
Ripcurl4Life1 1 week ago
You remind me of Tori Amos during her Scarlet Walk time period, hehe. She's one of my favorite musicians.... Music is one of my big obsessions....
infoandexpression 1 week ago
You are delightfully pleasant, beautiful, and positive. Thank you for sharing!
AutismVevo 1 week ago
It's such a life changing experience because I thought I was the only one with this condition. It's so weird I talk exactly like you lol. But then I always use to wonder about people and their problems and how they can't seem to figure it out or make their lives better. It was always in the back of my mind like maybe they can't seem the solution or maybe I'm just different. I don't know its just such a relief to know their are people like me.
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I wonder what life would be like if I didn't have ADHD, Tics and OCD.
InfurnusChaotix 1 week ago
@Informative Video - I have watched this video and the one of you interviewing Tony Atwood. You give some good information here which helps neuro-typical people understand and gives some good advice for other Aspies. :-)
sidewinder040 1 week ago
my roomate has aspergers and constantly poops himself... he says its cuz of nerves but im scared for him. coes aspergers cause diarreah?
yarfness69 2 weeks ago
Thank you very much. This video makes me happy :)
lobbywww 2 weeks ago
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ASPERGERFRIENDS COM
Asperger Syndrome is a neurobiological disorder on the higher-functioning end of the autism spectrum. An individual's symptoms can range from mild to severe.
Their IQ's are typically in the normal to very superior range. They are usually educated in the mainstream, but most require special education services.
Because of their naivete, those with AS are often viewed by their peers as "odd" and are frequently a target for bullying and teasing.
gayandpeace 2 weeks ago
Asperger's is a completely made-up syndrome.
SeminarioMAE 2 weeks ago
@SeminarioMAE Were do you get that from?
C0BO 1 week ago
Thank you for helping me to better understand my Aspie friend. You are absolutely right about loyalty. She sends me lots of light and positive energy, and I have learned to respond in like. Her sensitivities can be frustrating at times, but she is very good at explaining exactly what is going on in her body and how sounds,fluorescent lights and city life can be very grating to her senses. I love and appreciate her more and more as i come to understand her. Thank you for this video, vy helpful
Victrola39 2 weeks ago
whats sex like for aspies? seriously.
TheDive99 2 weeks ago
@TheDive99 No different, unless you have sensory issues with touch. I don't, so I couldn't tell you the difference, though.
TheAnMish 2 weeks ago 6
@TheAnMish but you mentioned concentration. i was thinking do you ever loose it, roll over and just start reading a book or something? i didnt mean physically . i guess thats a bit personal though. you dont have to aswer this.
TheDive99 2 weeks ago
@TheAnMish then you might not h ave aspergers.
88bottlesoflove 2 weeks ago
@88bottlesoflove You don't have to have all symptoms to have the syndrome. No two aspies are the same.
I have sensory issues with sight and sound, but not touch, others may have issues with touch but not with anything else.
It's a very complex syndrome, and you can't boil it down to any one symptom, no matter which it is - not even special interests, which is otherwise a very central and obvious symptom in most aspies.
TheAnMish 2 weeks ago 3
@TheAnMish Maybe you're right....maybe....only time will tell, as psychology experts push forward, and the possibility of aspergers syndrome diverging into separate more specific types or remaining the one singular type crystallizes. P.s. You are right about going out of our way to make nice and kind people feel appreciated...but sometimes this leads us to being used - I learned this the hard way at work.
88bottlesoflove 2 weeks ago
@TheAnMish correct. I find ambulances in the street really hard to listen to. Touch, I like, but not at the wrong time, or wrong person. The right person, I find it much easier to express myself through touch (massage & sexual touch), that cuts through any communication barriers quite well. It's just getting to that stage!
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
@88bottlesoflove Some aspies like myself are more on the other side of things. I like to be touched and massaged. Maybe unusually much I dont know...
PennyDreadful1 1 week ago
@PennyDreadful1 I also like a good turning near the warm glow of the fire light...but still yet, something remains of an aversion to nylon and fuzzy peaches...
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INDLIS 1 week ago
@TheDive99 watch Motzart and the Whale XP
Rembrandta 2 weeks ago
@TheDive99 I suspect I have a mild case of Asperger's, and I have never had a girlfriend in my life. Apart from my high anxiety to initiate sex, I just don't like touching people. I'm also disgusted with bodily fluids and odors. I've tried to have sex with prostitutes, but it gets worse every time I try it. Now, I don't bother trying it at all. Needless to say I frequently lose my erection, and I've never ejaculated with anyone.
ejdf870 2 weeks ago
@ejdf870 Hmm, I have a diagnosed Aspie friend, who has also never had a girlfriend and appears to have anxieties about sex and touching people too. But, you might want to check out the personality disorders, especially avoidant personality disorder and schizoid personality disorder. I suspect I have SPD, and I'm pretty sure I am bipolar to some extent. If you have issues with speech or sensitivity of hearing or sight (as my friend does), AS may be likelier.
SkullOfYorick 1 week ago
@SkullOfYorick I think I have a medley of overlapping conditions. I WAS diagnosed as bipolar, but that doesn't rule out Asperger's, Avoidant Personality Disorder, performance anxiety, and several others in addition.
ejdf870 1 week ago
@TheDive99 Very hard for a guy if he's shy, not much difference for a girl, due to typical courting dynamics being guy->girl directed, I believe. Very hard for me. I have major issues with working out how to present myself, due to not only Aspergers but the abuse suffered from my peers confusing me as to reality and what to go with. So when my GF tells me I'm an 'amazing lover' and meaning it (as far as I can tell by all counts!) it's good! If true, maybe it's because I'm not spoilt?
TVismyopiate 1 week ago
I'm an aspie and i think i'm in love with your personality and appearance. You're a really bright young woman. Keep it up
darthgabriel97 2 weeks ago
Does everyone with Aspergers have difficulty visualising?
karezza6 2 weeks ago
You talk like Blake Lively :P (Same voice)
MegaOrangePenguin 2 weeks ago
M, I was diagnosed with PDD (Pervasive Developmental disorder) and i like video games and technology. Every time a new console, device, anything that has a logic board comes out; I have to know what it is and how it works. I also can think of ways to fix almost ANYTHING.
leadbullet1990 2 weeks ago
U kno everything there is to kno about being an aspie. That's what I like about u.and u are very brave.. :)
hunt29826 2 weeks ago
tru tru tur tru my a aspergers and pdd realy tis the same but we keep to our selves cuz we dont wont to get hurt cus i i know i got hrt so i dont trust people emotion we keep closed away from others and i dont like hang out with broken people like its dis testfull lols tur
ashtonriggers1111 2 weeks ago
I'm shocked actually- how can I know for shure if I'm an aspie? The stuff you mention sounds very familiar to me and I'm not happy about it...actually it would make me sad to be an aspie since I thought the problems I have were fixable. :/
Well, I've taken an online test but I'd like to not go to a therapist to get this confirmed. So is there a do-it-yourself way of diagnosing Asperger's? Thanks, nodean
PS: I think you're a lovely person, you've got a very warm aura. :)
noddwan 3 weeks ago
@noddwan It's hard to know for sure, but the best thing to do is to contact your doctor and ask to be tested - you'll be tested by a psychiatrist, but it can be a good idea to speak with a psychologist specialized in ASD first.
If you really can't/won't do that, I suggest reading a few books, starting with "The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome" by Tony Attwood.
Mind, self-diagnosing is generally not recommended. If it's because you don't want it on paper, I'm sure you can tell them so.
TheAnMish 3 weeks ago
@TheAnMish I would add it's not self diagnosis to seek but more taking consciousness from my experience with help of specialists... from my experience, but still its only mine but I have a long difficult struggle as experience behind me
TheWooboy77 2 weeks ago
@TheAnMish Thanks a lot for your answer, so there's no sufficient way around a professional in order to be sure..I'll look up the book as well, thanks for the tip. :)
noddwan 2 weeks ago
Einstein did NOT have Asperger's, he had delayed severe delayed speech which would point to something else. Also as a fellow Aspie nice vid
Okesoke 3 weeks ago
@Okesoke another hint Einstein didn't have AS: he had quite some success with women ^^
TheWooboy77 2 weeks ago
That's awesome that you're into the subject of harmonics! I am also heavily influenced by any kind of harmonies, but especially players in the field of jazz such as John Coltrane, Jerry Bergonzi, and Pat Metheny. I have a friend who has aspergers syndrome, I'm not sure if I have it because the only thing I relate to is having intense interests for periods of time in certain subjects.
xololt1 3 weeks ago
I'm a very high-functioning 'aspie', which means that I have the social skills that many others lack. This is great, but it has come at the expense of a lot of the things mentioned in this video. I think it's just focus and memory that I have. So there you are, the two sides of the asperger's coin.
englishfrenchgerman 3 weeks ago
@TheAnMish I just discovered you today and subscribed to you before the video was even over. I have to say, you and several others have opened my eyes to the Aspberger community. I never thought of my Aspbergers very much in life and now that I'm seeying more and more others with this gift, I'm learning that more and more of them see it as a curse because of how ridiculed they are. I want to change this. Thanks to you I am now going to develope a web site devoted to the art of being an aspie.
stupido1100 3 weeks ago 5
@stupido1100:I'd be interested to seeing it and I'm one myself.
INDLIS 1 week ago
@darthgabriel97 Trying to like your comment a thousand times, my computer won't let me...Go make the world a better place my fellow Aspie!!!
stupido1100 3 weeks ago
u r sooo sexy
gummynumberone 3 weeks ago
I have aspergers and I am popular with a lot of friends. Yet people tell me i'm very smart.
avalanchesuperstar 3 weeks ago 8
Some people with asperger's are asexual and misanthropes.
southport97 3 weeks ago
This may make Aspies angry with me, but Richard Nixon is a perfect case of someone who had Aspergers.
KONEV532 3 weeks ago
All the great minds had asperger, Einstein, Mozart, Beethoven, Bill Gates, Isaac Newton, Michalangelo, Van Gogh, Thomas Jefferson and the list goes on and on. And that seems very true, i am pretty intelligent "that's what i've heard from others" and i'm very creative i compose my own music and can improvise when i hear something good. I see it as a gift not a disorder
darthgabriel97 3 weeks ago 3
@darthgabriel97 No, I don't think so. Posthumous diagnoses, especially of such intricate conditions as AS, are pure conjecture.
diffnature 3 weeks ago
if Asperger people can focus, then why are we misleaded in society? we should be able to have a normal life and not a screwed up one. it's stupid how all of us cannot get jobs. we are god's future to this problem. here:normal people:mental, mental people:normal. that is all.
MrSkynetAdmin 3 weeks ago
hi!! im an aspie i love u :)
frehleyukito 3 weeks ago
haha you like sounds, music/harmonic sound?? Get tinnitus lol, it's great! Never a silent day.
@idragosani Just think for a second, and try to ask that question to a professional statistician. He would tell you there is No way to gather enough data to make a trustworthy judgement of that.
Seems to be the problem with aspies aswell. The behavior is just normal statistically speaking. But now you 'act' as aspie and you reinforce it. Drop the label girl, seriously! Act yourself and not a disease
FFMSmit 3 weeks ago
GREAT VIDEO!! I mean this sincerely.
You get it, you've very eloquently explained here exactly how these "disorders" we have are anything but a "disorder". I do not believe being an "aspie" or being "autistic" is a disorder, it is in fact a gift and a very wonderful one!
People are taught about the word "disorder" before learning about mental configurations, it makes them false.
You get it though, you explain right here that this is in FACT....A gift...and a wonderful one.
mythril4 3 weeks ago
I'm not an Aspie, but i wonder about this everyday.
I do my best to be open to people who are different, why cant we just do that more?
No wait, lets just fear everything and assume we have to suffer breaking a social context...that makes no sense!
paindoll 3 weeks ago
This is a great video, and im sorry about all the idiots who think they're psychologist's "i dont think you have aspergers because your not rocking on the floor yelling about trains." i mean for FCKS SAKE. Anyways, you're awesome, keep makin videos :)
101Caylaw 3 weeks ago
The whole time you were describing characteristics of Aspies, I was thinking, Gryffindor!
KoopaTank 4 weeks ago
Just some questions .......
Do u find it difficult to balance or drive vehicles ?
How about sleep ? i am an aspie and find little difficult getting sleep but once i get sleep , everything is ok..
cdnml 4 weeks ago
@cdnml I haven't had trouble with balance, but I don't think I'd be good at driving, due to having to watch traffic all around me.. I think it'd be very stressful.
But I think I could easily learn to control the car.. that's not what keeps me from getting a license. :)
I think I've talked about sleep in an earlier video.
TheAnMish 3 weeks ago
@TheAnMish
Thnx
cdnml 3 weeks ago
Can you post some of your music please? :)
AliPentland 4 weeks ago
:) Sorry…I looked a bit more and you have lots of fantastic songs up.
AliPentland 4 weeks ago
@AliPentland if you seach for Maja Toudal bandcamp on google, you should find my whole album - you can stream it from there.
TheAnMish 3 weeks ago
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@TheAnMish Hey, I'm 17 and have Asperger's....Do you think you could talk to me, give me some advice on how to cope with it...? You seem to have so much insight into the syndrome....? I hope it's not a problem for you... Please?
erewrwify 3 weeks ago
@TheAnMish Thank you, I'm enjoying your music…you have a great voice.
AliPentland 3 weeks ago
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AliPentland 3 weeks ago
corr.: "along with his meltdowns (instead of "blackmails")" The autist played piano from childhood (says he did it with great defiance)-but later bought the 1.piano: did not play! One year later bought the 2nd piano (did not play), one year later he buys the 3rd piano on his own; "What about your piano?" - "Mhm, I should play (more)" - It turns out that he is STILL not playing!So he cannot foresee such topics, plans...he always changes mood+never cares about view of others+doesn't learn
Pianda 4 weeks ago
corr.: "along with his meltdowns (instead of "blackmails")"
Pianda 4 weeks ago
What he does, read, says, concludes himself - everything remains absolutely meaningless! No matter what he said and concluded yesterday - the next day it's GONE! And even for the same day one has to ask: "what's the meaning. what do you mean, what is the meaning for you?"-It normally does not make sense, either you ask once or ten times. The next day the whole theme has gone.He buys a piano today and sells it the next day! "I don't like to play" - 1-2years later he buys 2others-not playing
Pianda 4 weeks ago
What he does, read, says, concludes himself - everything remains absolutely meaningless! No matter what he said and concluded yesterday - the next day it's GONE! And even for the same day one has to ask: "what's the meaning. what do you mean, what is the meaning for you?"-It normally does not make sense, either you ask once or ten times. The next day the whole theme has gone.He buys a piano today and sells it the next day! "I don't like to play" - 1-2years later he buys 2others-not playing
Pianda 4 weeks ago
Actually you seem to be a totally different type/kind. For the autist I know homopathy works quite good, changes some thought-paths. I know about another autist who was also treated with homopathy (diff. remedy than the first mentioned). In the second case the asylum calles the mother and said "what has happened? Your son is totally normal"!!! BUT: the Autist refused to take the homopathic rem.! The autist I know has a lot of interests - but everything remains THAT senseless!
Pianda 4 weeks ago
I learned by n autist who is my neighbour (even same school) that he in the end does not want to change, though is requirng that much help from all sources. From childhood on he was learning to do only what he wants. Along with his blackmails he learned to successfully blackmail his parents. Any advice ends at the point where he should change and learn (only very small steps are suggested, modular method). He always refuses though constantly restarts to ask for help.
Pianda 4 weeks ago
@mumenschantz lol dont be jelly of us........
nerdymom2 4 weeks ago
damn, I need an aspie friend
Xavier7564 4 weeks ago
i got aspie 2 i find it hard 2 talk 2 people i got 1 friend at my school and i talk 2 him every day because i gues im used 2 him now idk how 2 explain it i need 2 warm my self up 2 sum1 b4 i can talk 2 him/her wen i want 2 talk 2 sum1 i plan out what im gonna say but then i never say it this 1 time i cought this girl staring at me and i think she didnt hav a bf so i was planing on talkin 2 her but i never did and now she got a bf plz help me im 14 btw
cavasseaa 1 month ago
Awesome video. A lot of what you said was completely relatable. I'm also an Aspie and have been through tons of social abuse because of it. Loved listening to what you had to say.
SurvivorYo 1 month ago
Wow, one of the most beautiful girls i've ever seen!
JoelQuinnPhotography 1 month ago
I don't have Aspergers, at least not to my knowledge. But I was a sick child and didn't get to play sports growing up so I can definetly relate to not fitting in.
I think it's great that people like you are going public, Innocent kids shouldn't be exposed to the emotional trama that severe lonliness brings just because they're a little different.
KaeruthePaladin 1 month ago
Very well done! From another Aspie, me
sasto65 1 month ago
My oldest son (age 5) could possibly be an Aspie.. If so, it seems like he could be in some good company :)
CammNLoShow 1 month ago
i have aspergers syndrome myself and i think its a fascinating way of thinking and im only 16 but i have friends that are adults because i feel that people at my own age is "too young" for me
kallemick 1 month ago
@TheAnMish
Ok the picture is changed. <3
Bloodydigger 1 month ago
@TheAnMish o_O i assumed it was something that you said sarcastically; as a display of your good humour.
Bloodydigger 1 month ago
@Bloodydigger It's possible that I said something like that in a highly sarcastic way, but I'd say it's improbable.
I don't like to joke about stuff like that..
But thanks for changing the picture, then :)
TheAnMish 1 month ago
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You don't look like an aspirator. You just look like another spoiled girl, to be badly honest.
cocardeux 1 month ago
@cocardeux Aspies don't look any different from "normal" people. It's our brains that are different, not our bodies or faces.
And whether you think I look spoiled or not, has no bearing on the diagnoses I have. But at least now, I've given you a little information. So the next time you tell someone "You don't look like an aspie", you'll know it's irrelevant.
Have a nice day.
TheAnMish 1 month ago 15
@cocardeux You're an idiot if you think people with Asperger's Syndrome all look the same, cocardeux. I'm someone with Asperger's Syndrome, yes, I've been diagnosed, and the only trait that physical trait that people notice in me is the strange gait I have when I walk.
catastrophucked 4 weeks ago
@catastrophucked I m also an aspirator lol... I m serious! I don't like her way to talk, it's like she was playing with us... I m also quite suspicious about what she's looking for by posting this kind of thing on youtube. All aspies know what she says, and the others only care about her angelic face... If she learnt the face' expressions of others, she should know that she smiles often when she shouldn't... Shit english lol I know. :)
cocardeux 4 weeks ago
@cocardeux
You read to deep, facial expressions or no, these words are still true. Even if this video was a hoax the words are not incorrect. Being an "aspie" or being "autistic" is only and will only ever be a gift, it is not a disorder nor will it ever be.
We are a world of individuals, it means no two are alike completely.
I could just as easily conclude here that you are a troll trying to start a fight, but I can also give you the benefit of the doubt for potential misunderstanding.
mythril4 3 weeks ago
@mythril4 haha my point of view disturbs you a lot. Use your brain : why is she doing this? To be helpful? => lol you said yourself we were in a world of individuals. To make an add of her stupid album, to attract the attention? => mamma mia! I don't blame her for this, I don't know the answer, but I m suspicious. So your deep discussion about life seems useless in this case, you d better talk about money lol... you re in love too <3 :) charming.
cocardeux 3 weeks ago
@cocardeux Honestly, I don't see why you would be "suspicious".
It's not like I make a dime off of this channel.
(Also, about my "stupid" album, I'd be a fool not to mention it when I have a channel with this number of subscribers. No one is forced to buy it, and no one does if they don't like it.)
You seem to read too much into things, but if that's what you want to do, then whatever :)
I just think it's worth noting that actually, some people do want to help.
TheAnMish 3 weeks ago
@TheAnMish So why don't you bring solutions, if you really want to help?!
cocardeux 3 weeks ago
@TheAnMish
He's trolling, don't feed the troll, you will always be wrong no matter what you say, it's not worth your time to fight with him about it.
mythril4 3 weeks ago
@cocardeux
Right.....
Your a ways off... " I am in love" you say, nice assumption, I guess you think I am interested in relationships with girls based of nothing.
I actually genuinely love people, obviously your perception of love is different than my own. I don't really care how genuine the video is, it's nice to hear someone talk positively about the problem fake or not, there is already a surplus of negative videos. I will make an assumption here, I assume your trolling.
mythril4 3 weeks ago
@mythril4 bla bla bla, I like the truth, even if it's ugly, not the hypocritical speeches. Why always talk about things we already know concerning asperger? Asperger is an everyday fight, and I wish all aspergers ll find their way like I found mine. But it took me years and many hours thinking about my relation with others, to find where I am in my conscience compared to others, this is interesting. Listing the shit symptomes of asperger is useless.
cocardeux 3 weeks ago