Single? Why Not?

[yomama24734]

MILF

[slapmyfunkybass]

why do you have to be married to have a kid?

[oldfart387]

Old slut.

[ame6603]

But, if you don't have a great paying job, don't set out to become a single mom (meaning don't screw the ghetto guy or white trash boy). You'll end up on govt. assistance, and I'll have to support your rug rat.

[tommy622222]

i don't know it just kind of seems a bit shallow to say that the only reason to get married is financial security and to have kids y'know? Just my opinion

[guyNbluejeans]

Why are so many hating on this lady?

[hexfp]

Thats the wrong way to give a child the himlick.

[gtr362]

Once again, I can imagine what that face looks like in the morning without the makeup, tits looking like pancakes on your belly when they're not supported with a bra. Hair color out of a bottle, skid marks in your panties. You are not fooling me, neither are any of you women. Women are very nasty creatures. Bleeding, stinking, lying, and they think men are fooled. Some are, I've had enough pussy in my life and been with enough women to know how you really are.

[MissSmudge78]

Coolmomdotcom ... I love your philosophies, it's so me!! Nice to hear another gal with normal opinions  :)

[Xextreem]

i don`t see the problem with cheating. Why not? its only sexs if you jurk your life down or go to a hooker pay some cash get lade and go back at home. offcourse save doing.

[spinemelter2000]

The third reason to get married is that it's the only relationship status where sex isn't a sin.

[nightman117]

you are a terrible person. that's all i can say. in front of your daughter you say this? and then post it? WTF?!

[NewEffort]

@nightman117 "you are a terrible person. that's all i can say. in front of your daughter you say this? and then post it? WTF?!"

I hope the daughter hears the same speech when she gets to be 17 or 18. It's pretty solid advice. If you're single, don't stress about it (or worse, hook up with the first loser who wants to express-lane you down the aisle). Single or married, make the best of your time and experience what both have to offer.

[ItchyGuy87]

I feel really bad for the husband you're so blatantly emasculating. Unless he's into that kind of thing.

[DirtyTrick]

whore

[maureen1002]

i think you rock!

[greencannoe]

"This woman is the bad apple that contaminates the rest of the barrel  ( Populous ) which an answer thus is required..."Which is worst, a fool or one who follows the advice of the fool"

[jtkirkfan2002]

What a bitch! How desparate was that poor shlub of a husband when he met you? Maybe in your warped world the only reason to get married is to "have kids or for financial security", but some of us out here actually love each other.

[ItchyGuy87]

@jtkirkfan2002 BRAVO!

[realitychckr]

WTF? This is advice?

[meghetto]

omg where are ur morals woman? u think the only reason to get married is for kids and money????!?!?! what about love? does that not count? i have a kid to my boyfriend but ill marry him for love not for money or to have more kids .... stupid .... its woman like u that make guys think all girls are gold diggers ....

[NotJustSuperfly]

"The only reason women get married is we're gonna have a kid or to have some financial security" So... The whole getting married because you're in love is out of style now, or what? Jesus...

[oweidlewid]

This is why there's a bunch of depressed grandma aged single women out there. I can't thank you enough for stopping those bloodlines.

[IROCwarriorAMC88]

This is probably one of the most ridiculous looking females I've ever heard from on video or in person and that's saying alot. She's an airhead.

[acoustickid124]

what a terrible, shallow human being

[blunderbus21]

Yea..she sucked a lot of cock before she snagged the chump on his second marriage who works all day so she can play the role. I hope she still sucks his cock..he deserves it.

[jspin1103]

You are a selfish, disgusting piece of shit. I feel sorry for your kid. You obviously just had her out of vanity. You're the reason why we need Tom Leykis back on the air nation wide.

[alf2424]

you've gotta be shit in me

[QuinnBoucher]

what?

[MichelleM416]

why would you say that?

[ktwn22]

so much air in your head,quick read a book and replace it with brain

[12valvepower1]

hurry up and get pregnant.

america struggles when girls go wild.

[gorillaads]

on target again

[Roq999]

Financial stability?

[thejerkey]

Did she stutter?

[12valvepower1]

you still can live with kids. its just different

[Rata4You]

I like pizza but to eat pizza everyday of my life for the rest of my day's is not something I can do. Marriage is a vow to eat pizza and only pizza forever...it explains why almost everybody gets caught stealing a scoop of ice cream on the side - CHEATING if you don't understand me. Vows are promises that can NEVER be kept and if you believe you're immortal you'll claim you won't cheat - EVER. But if you're honest with yourself you'll say you'll try to deny your urges and hope for the best.

[maxwest333]

depends on what you mean by cheating. I find it quite easy not to cheat, and I've been married a long time with plenty of chances. If you take vows when you are actually ready, you'll stick to them. Your point is so good though 'cause the divorce rate is probably up to 70% by now.

[Rata4You]

You find it easy to not cheat? I don't know where you live but it must be an unstimulating place. I live in Vancouver and if you are under this illusion that you can't cheat then this city will change your mind if you mingle with the wrong crowd. And THAT is the key to cheating...move to a town where homely type women reside mostly, where fashion is non-existant. Vancouver has the most attractive women anywhere - most of Playboy's cover girls are from here. You would fail here.

[maxwest333]

you make a really strong point there. I could never gaurantee anything in this eutopia type town for beautiful women, but I've done well so far to stay with my particular vows

[Rata4You]

Good for you, dude. I'm married and my wife knows I've "cheated" on my last two gf's. She knows too that my biggest strength to stay straight & narrow is to not over-estimate myself. The action is not to be alone at any party or go out with my single friends....that's the only way to control myself. That's my stength - to know my weaknesses. Most men don't know or haven't met all their weaknesses...maybe it's not Pam Anderson but SHE is out their. It's all a matter of fate and timing. Be careful

[g4d4j5]

I know enough people that have been married 20, 30, 50+ years and never cheated. To say that it's 'impossible' no be faithful to someone is selfish, pure and simple. And not tempting yourself (by putting yourself in compromising situations) plays a large part of staying true to your vows. Really, if you don't care about the other person, their thoughts, and feelings, enough to hold up your promise, why get married in the first place?

But yeah, being single until you're ready is the best choice.

[thejerkey]

Well why anyone would even be with a cheater is beyond me. If your wife knows then she's basically asking for it. And I'm not being sexist by any means - women need to stand up for themselves. Once a cheater always a cheater. I guarantee you've already cheated on her.

[Rata4You]

My wife had been cheated on by men who claim they'd never do such a thing. You can be a televanglist crying your eye's out or a senator or president claiming you'd never cheat with any woman and I guarantee you would. My wife is impressed with my honest fears of cheating & thats the one other reason why she married me - because I don't tell her things she only wants to hear. She expects & receives honest answers. She trusts me more than any man who claims to be immune to temptations.

[Rata4You]

...but try telling her that'd you'd never cheat and she'd roll her eye's and laugh. There's a private investigation company that used decoy's of some of the most gorgeous women you'd die for - they were set loose on married men - 100% failure rate. That's the truth. You can not deny your humanity but can control your enviornment to avoid situations. I haven't cheated because I control all my enviornment but who knows what awaits us over the horizon. Lucky so far.

[adorelesoir]

I disagree heavily with that statement for many reasons. While the majority of "cheaters" will never rid themselves of their impulses, there are those that find the right person and become absolutely unwaveringly faithful to them.

[dagoyle]

haha "you ok hunny"...

[ssjsteele]

That's Right!

[MoonchildMindaugasRo]

Erm... what about loving someone and thus wanting to marry him :? ?

[maxwest333]

you can live with someone without carrying them over the threshold. I must admit though, I felt pretty darn good after marrying my wife. Still does. Marriage is more spiritual, even if you don't belong to a specific religion. Logic is also a religion for some, and logic would say no to marriage these days with the rate of divorce.

[Rata4You]

Ummm....wanting to marry someone is one thing, but trying to adhere to the vows of monogomy is an olympic sport...few can achieve that dream. When people reject marriage, it's mostly about being true to themselves; can I be monogomase with this one person forever? If not, why am I getting married? Do I want to be counted among the majority of men & women who were caught cheating? "Cheating" is a horrible word - you're cheating yourself of being human and wanting more?? WTF??

[C9pherD9v9ne]

monogamy is bullshit.

ive already proven that.

check my page.

[909pleasantville]

they just want to ****? can i have their number? i want to have a great ol time too. they give good ****?

[GringaEnMexico]

Thank you so much! I don't want kids and when people find out, everyone gets so offended! It doesn't mean I don't like kids! I love kids! I just don't want to spend twenty years of my life raising my own.

[MiinniieMouse]

Marriage is a great day you connect with the one person that makes you whole. You obviousley dont have to get married when youre like 16 like they use to in the old days. But seriousley, marriage is a really big part of anyones life. Besides, who WOULDNT want to walk down the isle with a white wedding dress, saying how lovely you are, (Unless youre a guy)and walking towards the guy (Unless youre a guy) that youre going to spend the rest of your life with.

[hahayouarefunny]

This is true for many but not all. Also, you are not talking about marriage. Marriage is intended to last for a lifetime. You are talking about a wedding - merely a ceremony.

PS - Guys should be able to walk toward the guys that they are going to spend the rest of their lives with, too.

[MrTrailerTrash]

Marriage isn't RIGHT for everyone.....

Not everyone should get married,and/or have kids.

[MrTrailerTrash]

There ARE a hell of alot of people in jail or dead 'because' they got married or had kids.

[VanillaSkyler]

Needs better sound, or more engaging camera work. I had to read the info to know what this was about.

The images just backed it up.

Essentially, if the woman speaking was saying anything pertinent, I didn't follow.

[wetweasel56]

That's a very good point. I believe people are completely self absorbed nowadays.

[Chggy317]

Must be a sentiment that is obtained when you hit your 40's, i find that i feel the same way. Glad i discovered your post! Take care! By the way, you look fantastic!

[rhettrongun]

looks like the kid is throwing up

[WarbossT]

On a more serious note she says "The only reason to even get married is to have a kid or for financial security." Reinforces my belief that true love and romance are a dead rotting corpse

[Snowboardbuny]

I've been married for thirteen years and my marriage is alive and thriving and romantic as heaven! weve had five kids together and are still in love.

This world is so corrupt and hates God's laws so after a while of being married they get tired of God's ordained ways of one man one woman for life...so they run off for a little fun and excitment. But let me tell you...every apple has it's worms. We all reap what we sew.

[TimeCodeMechanics]

This is the new belief. That marriage isn't needed. And since we are selfish people who love pleasure more than God how can marriage be seen as anything else but another form of prostitution. But in the end there will come a day of reckoning.

[luvaddictx3]

wow....

[WoWbob396]

yout a Mom

[hhscheer05]

I have to agree with you. Being a single mom is awesome.