Are You Choosing Partners Who Mirror Your Parents?

[mickster1965]

i wish you were working in holland i think you are a ferry good therapist and a lovely person ,thanks for al the good info! you helpt me,

[johnlovesbridge]

Is it possible that selecting a partner based on family schema has a biological/genetic/psychosocia­l origin rather than a type of unconcious choice?

[BRONXPEPE]

my problem is i close out every man cuz i feel noone can ever break my wall n all the things that have effected me as a child with family,friends, etc n than i am closed out for so long than i go in search for someone to be find a friend not a lover but they end up a lover n they become the view of my parents n i kind of expect it cuz i never give any relasionship high expectations cuz i feel like negative things happen to me often so i just close up in a shell again

[WeThePeopleRleaders]

you're so right bc my last relationship i felt like i should help him and i gave him so many chances to make a future, just like i did the same for my parents where i always wanted to help them and their own relationships. and i realized that he was ignoring me all the time just like my parents did and didnt want to help himself. i had to help myself by dropping him like a rock ad ended a 2 year relationship. it was hard but worth it. thanx this was a wonderful video! keep them coming!

[MrUnderstanding9]

Great info I see this in my past relationship and with with other people around me. Now that I'm waking up I see things for what they really are. It's like a vail being removed from you face.. Very interesting. I feel that most of my life I have been sleep walking or maybe mentally dead to the truth . Peace