THE DATING GAME Part 1 [watch in HD]

[faisclan]

Ryans hair always be SITTING!!!

[JamaisFAUX]

Omg.... Am I that cutie pie on FL.....

[vintagedudenyc]

i love ryan!!!!!

[Brozufil]

masturbation makes you cranky and that's a fact.

[EyeWearMySunglasses]

omg i luhhhh Ryan!

[purexpression]

classssssic

[omegatopva]

Dating multiple people doesn't teaches you to be monogamous. You learn to deal with different people for their positives aspects and to avoid them when their negative nature appears. You'll never have a permanent relationship, if you can't deal with someone's bad traits.

[EternalRoller]

@omegatopva men think monogamy is some kind of wood

[omegatopva]

@EternalRoller Unless they are the ones being cheated on.

[YelloYunga]

@EternalRoller .. hAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Lol

[calstate]

faggots

[cherryz88]

"he's not having sex for a year.....that's dumb" lol

ryan u so damn funny!

[TonyFresh001]

I love yall, but beyonce made 80 plus million dollars 2 years in a row, so guess what, she it very smart. As far as you having 3 to 4 guys at the same time, there is something called the law of attraction. What you are, you attract.

[mandingo782]

I know its tough when you have your own personal flare and you don't know if it comes off the right way to these ultra hip hop masculine negras.

[mrkyon]

I so hate dating too.  I mean I totally do. But come on now!

[Hornesmith]

im with Ryan on this one, it just a damn shame we gatta play dis game yo, im sooooo over it, Graduate School here i come cause this "dating game" aint worth it

[ariesbaby89]

Umm okay 2 tha last part but I juzt learned a couple things watchin this video...!

[desertflow3r]

Well it is called the "love game". We as gay folk need to understand that dating and sex don't necessarily go hand in hand. And life can be short so I say date a few guys and use the process of elimination to weed thru 'em. Who has time to date one loser at a time. I see it as increasing one's odds of finding mr. right. But hey what do I know....I can't even get a date. lol.

[greentrees6789]

I have been sticking with the positive. Even the ones who were "positive." Too funny!!

[Lucas000000001]

God! I love you guys you're hilarious

[brianpollard2510]

I want to thank you guys for putting out these videos. It is nice and refreshing to see truthful dialogue about matters that really matter in the community. Keep is real, keep it fresh, and keep it lively...Very entertaining.

Thanks Guys

[SEFYH]

I know one thing! That food sounds delicious, what ever it is! lol

[my30johnny]

Bravo! Ryan and Derrick! I'm checkin' you out from Indonesia. I'm an american from NY and now I'm living in Jakarta because I'm working with the embassy here. Anyway, your work is great! I've looked at just about all your videos. Please continue and keep up the good work! PS. Sorry to miss your birthday, you're both great, hot and sexy. Here's to keepin' it REAL!

[blustormskeetr]

I love when people reference Paris Is Burning! It's a classic

[JTrey06]

oh lord, i'm over it

[youngsirgt]

derrick you gonna find someone in due time....and ryan....honey i can get into you cause you r too funny and wise @ tha same time!

[MrDetails1987]

Insecurites?

[AquarianExpress]

Ryan... you got him right together.

[kickback4me]

ryans so funny

[damon8707]

Derrick i will date you if you would like that but it is all cool if you dont.

[jarugley]

Derrick, I really feel you on this one. It just seems that men don't know what they want. I am almost to the point that I feel there is no one for me. Why must this all be a game?

[RucuzUnrestricted]

I really love this video. Ryan you are the truth hair and all and I really admire you for being yourself. Derrick I totally understand where you are coming from about dating and whether you date 1 person at a time or 3, you gotta go through the bullshit in order to find what you're looking for... I could go on but I won't. I really enjoyed this video, I love watching you guys! Stay up!!!

[watchinU2]

Fellas I could listen to you two stand in the kitchen and talk all day!...lol...Keep up the good work!

[PHILLYCATZ]

Great Job Guys!.."Shade comes from reading, and reading did came first..LMAO

[pjynr]

Just wanted to say like all the others .. LOVE YOU GUYS ... yal are awesome and I wish i could come to NY and just kick it wit yal ... It's sooo cool to have friends to sound off with ya know ... Much LOVE

[remoney]

Derrick, dude let it go about the ex. It just makes you look bitter and desperate (Bette Davis). Plus you just expanding his ego talking about him on camera all the time. LOL. Anyways Ryan is talking the truth about relationships.

And keep on pushing ADTV. It'll break through for you guys because you finally found a groove. You two are the perfect personalities for TV.

[10000grams]

Ryan love the hair...Great job for going back to School and Derrick keep doing you and stop messing with these clowns....I swear y'all twist y'all stories to protect the innocent. I luv it.

[kev121]

If you are dating, which is basically just trying to get to know somebody, I think it's cool to date more than one person at a time. Once you get serious and see a person as being a potential mate, you need to focus. And trust me, just let a person run off at the mouth. They always tell on themselves. Stop focusing on their fat booty and listen to their fat lies...LOL.

[DiondreRockstar]

Okay This Is One Of My Fav Vids... I Love Where ADTV Is Right Now And I Know ou All Have Big Plans For The Future.

[nygndanyc]

LOL RYAN LOVE THE CLIP N THE HAIR!!!!!

[sexytaurean]

WOW...yall are too much. I think Derrick is right about people abusing "insecurity" and trying to use that to cover up when they are being slick. That why I call it like I see it. If you moving like serpent....then bitch I'ma call you SNAKE!!! It is what it is and you can't let someone trick you into thinking its not. LMAO at the soap on the shoulder too!

[Chasson0318]

You two are sooo funny!!!Ryan has wisdom of the ages, and I love to listen to his logic, because it's true. Derrick tells too much and probably needs to be by himself to learn himself a bit more, before trying to deal with a relationship.

As a more mature person, you guys are totally on the ball...and I can't believe the kids are still "Reading" lol

[reeseyboy69]

ok i hate to say this but yes sometimes if you tell a hoe you got another hoe it makes some of us feel like we gotta compete and we stay in the game just to win without addressing the fact the mo'fo' has a bitch or two or three not even on the side but right beside your ass! i swear sometimes we need to think!

[1Altruist]

This is so good, I swear you and Ryan have the best talks.

[calipapi]

"shade does come from reading and reading did come first!!" lol.. i luv it!!

[tigger500]

D - you are too talented and beautiful for this mess. Ryan is right, it's a damn game and you need to knock that shit off. You generally find what you need when you stop looking so hard.

[JSpearman4]

I will say this, starting out a relationship with multiple partners is not the way I would do it. Let me clarify, If I am telling these people they are the only one and we are supposed to be monogomous, then I cant have those multiple partners. Itrs manipulation and yes as Ryan said its playing games. I dont know about yall, but I am too old for that shit. Leave the games at the ball park. Start the relationship in honesty so that you can actually build on something.

[IconListening]

And im a straight man and the women out here are JUST AS LOOSE AND HORNY AS THE GUYS FOR REAL. I think it has to do with peoples up bringing and the culture of today SEX, SEX, SEX, is all we here and be SEXY is all we here we dont here LOVE JUST SEX, SEX, SEX; SAD.

[IconListening]

In the sexual scene out there in the world today if your not a person that just want sex and just wants to cum your really going to be unhappy. If you want relationship and love your going to find that people dont want that anymore all they want women and men is just sex orgasm thats it and so many people weather straight or gay everybody just wants sex people have really become like animals in heat .

[brooklynman2008]

Hey Derrick, I've run into you a few times in the neighborhood and other places. You'd know me if you saw me, but that's not important. Dating, especially in NYC is hard man! I know your pain. I find it's even harder if you're a succesful, educated black gay man with standards. Why are black men so itimidated? I think it's important not to throw sex into the mix and I have a rule of not dating more than 3 guys at a time. I don't fuck any dude I date and I don't date any dude I fuck. It works.

[IconListening]

First of all im not gay but this is a excellent video and a great point was made. Why do we as human being have to play all of these games just to be loved this is so true and im tired of that shit; for real. I dont know why we as human beings create all of this bullshit that we have to go through just to find love or be loved. Its really sad what we human beings do to ourselves some times. Its truly crazy and im a man and women and men relationships are the same why, games and bullshit.

[1969314]

i'm a new sub..;-)But, Derrick why don't you date your friend?(Ryan)...

[WhatsDaTeaTv]

Please POST My Response.. It's SOOOOOOO Good Ep. 7... On My Page

[tinythaze]

yall are some damn fools..but the no sex for a yr..thas me..goin strong and derrick i get you on the mast..uhh grumpy all im goin to say..and ryan man do your muthafuckinme thing go to school and get. im doin tha same in the military but these bitches bout to get tha 3rd fuck with edumacation..like that new word hellsyea..but anyway do yall and derrick you need a southern brutha who can show how good a nigga can be..we home trained down hinuh..i holla and muc love to ya both..one

[urstruly83]

RYAN u read me about the nit picking ill take that

[onlyoneofme7]

wait are you talking about me? because iam in florida, and I havent had sex in a year lol...

[urstruly83]

I AGREE about the INSECURE thing!!!

[onlyoneofme7]

interesting... its soo great to see different type of views... I love when people talk together lol.... about certain issues... a lot of other doors open...

[windcu]

this is hilarious, the duded in the cap is just justifying why he a HOOOO!

[MakeLoveNoBabiez]

ryan u deserve a fiercy award with ur hair on point and clipped up n all. WAHT HONEY? YES Baby DO U. Love U :):)

[jgreen1914]

Masturbation is a way of life . . .LMFAO!!!

[masterdoa]

Ryan looked like god sister for moment, lord.lol. i agree with derrick and his uncle,lol. and masturbation do take too damn long. but that depends if your watching porn or not, i think. it depends on you

[CreativeLyrics]

LMAO @ working mom

[WhatsDaTeaTv]

gotta make a response video to this.. Please post it.. Yall better preach.

[tennislover08]

that pony tail is great

[ShawnQt]

GREAT VIDEO GUYS, I LIKE THIS FORMAT.

[L302009]

that insecure thing is true lol...so quick to say that. But love yall yall funny as hell

[YoBoiNewnue]

lol @ working mom... good points yall

[whymustwe712]

Btw... Great camera angle.. this is probably the realist episode so far. Very genuine conversation. Makes for a better show than staged questions and stock answers...

[whymustwe712]

Well some people would advise us to date at least three men at once in order to prevent you from latching on to the wrong relationship out of NEEDINESS. Because its like.. if you're out with #2 it will help you deal with when runner up #1 doesn't call. But then the issue comes in when you have to pick ONE & let the others go. Do the text messages just cease? Do you tell them that you've simply found someone else but you cherished the time the both of you have spent? Are 2 & 3 u now just friends?

[sexybj89]

@whymustwe712 Yes by all means tell them that you've found someone else. But here's the tricky part, dont expect a friendship out of 2 or 3 because it always doesnt work that way. Especially if you havent told them youre talking to other ppl as well, to them it would feel like you've wasted their time for it to come to nothing.. If you told them then thats cool at least they KNEW before hand so it wouldnt look like you were the triflin one. Good Luck!

[chadwah]

the way of life thats right

[IHEARTHIPHOPDOTCOM]

Derrick I love your new era cap. It matches my dunks perfectly. I need one!

[SiberianWolfClaws]

I agree with the dating a few guys at the same time. I think of it as a three step program. First step: We're TALKING meaning we are conversing via phone, instant messanger, texting, etc.. I personally believe that you can TALK to as many people as you please. Step Two: We're DATING meaning we are going out on casual dates. You can date several guys I try to keep it at three at one time. I feel that DATING encompass that We are going out to eat, movies, park, working out, things to that nature.

[SiberianWolfClaws]

I feel like kissing and hugging is as far as it goes with DATING. the final step is Step Three: We're IN A RELATIONSHIP here and that means im COMMITED to you and your COMMITED to me! It means we have decided to completely commit to each other. All the other DATES should, will, and must have been elimited by this time.The RELATIONSHIP is the only time where sex comes in! TALKING and DATING sex is NOT an option ( for me at least).

[SiberianWolfClaws]

Now this is stickly MY OPTION and I do consider dating several people is a certain backup plan or fail safety device! I sometimes believe dating two people at one time can be an involuntary means of protecting your heart and being an African American gay male your PRIDE because we do have mad loads of PRIDE!!

[SiberianWolfClaws]

Option should be OPINION lol my bad hehe

[elm1230]

Yeah I agree with this.

[vdjdtx]

yall are tooooo much ... this vid was soooo funny. .....crazy cunt!....lmfao..... but on the sex thing... I went 13 months w/o sex, its all in determination and yeah this lifestyle IS all about game, a lot of people say they the realest this or realest that.... its all game.

[Backatwon]

That was some real talk ...interesting ......I agree with Ryan we need to have our own thing together good luck on the school thing Ryan............ just because a guy is attractive doesn't mean he is about shit ????..............just my thoughts ....stay blessed

[LovvaBoi]

a working mom!! lmao i died a few times watching this video. But the gay community is just alot of games.