Most prostitutes choose prostitution as a coping technique for sexual abuse in their childhood. It wont help them with their problems and even makes them worse: It will cause drug abuse e.g., because prostitution is just another abuse they torture their bodys with in order to get control over an abuse- situation, they force themselves into a simular situation lagain and again.
In this case, i've really got to disagree with you for the 'poverty' reason. Yes it's true that there are hundreds of other jobs that people get into because of poverty, but for me it's still just fucked up. We're talking about people being able to use their body in anyway that they want, so long as it's consensual- i'm all for that. But I don't see how making it easier for people to, violate themselves, due to drug addiction is, is a good thing. That's why i'm against prostitution.
Not so long ago, homosexuality was illegal. It was considered an evil, unaccepted practice. It is now legal and accepted within the society. The same thing is now happening with prostitution. Women, such as those in this video, are trying to make this evil practice accepted. And I don't doubt that this is exactly what will happen.
Give it a few years folks, and child pornography, which is an evil, illegal and unaccepted practice, will also become legal and accepted. Mark ma words!
I have a lot of respect for your vids about atheism, but your various analogies keep totally missing the point when it comes to the sex-industry. I've made about 20 vids on this subject. Feel free to check them out, and comment...
@mickGPN I'm always suspicious of people who only want to discuss a topic only on their own forums. It leads me to believe that they probably just want to dominate the conversation and block anyone who questions their ignorant portrayal of an industry they themselves have no experience with. Thanks for once again proving that to be the case, Mick. It's sad to be reminded that people like yourself aren't really interested in talking to sex workers, but very revealing.
@MissTemperence - I answered about 30 of your comments, but you just kept talking nonsense. I mean, there is a limit. Plus, no-one reads these comment sections anyway... so why should I spend hours talking to someone who's only interested in twisting reality so she can act as an apologist for the sex-industry? (And I do talk to "sex-workers", btw. In fact, some of them say that they really like my videos. But then that's a typical PSP distortion... to claim you somehow represent ALL sex-workers)
@mickGPN Nonsenense? Like that it benefits sex workers to be able to go to the police? Or that people can easily continue working into their 30's? That "nonsense" is based on 10 years working in an industry you have no personal experience with. But oh yes, you're the expert, sir. Third, your choices are not continue talking or block someone. If you wish to stop responding, you can just do that. It seems you declare anything you disagree with as "nonsense" that must be silenced. (cont)
@mickGPN (cont 2) Yes, I'm sure you do talk to sex workers, but only when it benefits you. You listen when we have something to say that supports your agenda, and dismiss anything we have to say that contradicts it. That's why you have such a limited, confused idea of what the industry is like. And that's exactly how you like it. I have NEVER claimed to represent all sex workers. I have always said that our experiences vary greatly. So who's distorting the truth here?
@MissTemperence - Now, even in those comments, you've distorted what I said. And that's something people could confirm for themselves if they wanted to follow-up and read what we've both said on my channel. But of course, no one will, cos this is YT - so, even if anyone does read this, they won't have the attention-span to get to the bottom of what's being said. So it's pointless for me to even try to try to prove that you're distorting of reality. And, that's why I've stopped trying.
@mickGPN How could I have distorted what you said? Where have I even referenced anything you've said? You said I was speaking nonsense and I took a guess as to what you might be referring to, since you did not specify. And I asked you if that's what you were referring to. You, however, did distort what I said when you said I claimed to represent all sex workers, when I've always said that no sex worker represents all sex workers. You don't specify because you can't, not because it's "pointless"
@mickGPN So basically, what you've come here with is an exaggeration, a false choice, and a straw man. That's a lot of fallacies to cram into such a small space. Better be more careful Hon, your lack of intellectual integrity is showing.
@andthebearwentrahh She's not implying that child pornography is ok, because that person is not a consenting adult and therefore, is illequiped to make an informed decision. It is psychologically damaging and can have negative affects physically and mentally. Basically, it would be wrong for the exact same reasons that all pedophillia is wrong and consequently, is not worth mentioning in the video. She's not mentioned changing laws about pedophillia.
I don't dislike prostitutes, no more that I dislike porn actesses.
If a client go to a prostitute and makes sure she's got free will, that's fine for me.
BUT, many men go to street and take the youngest prostitute they can found, not regarding whether she seems exploited. That's a big problem and I really hate those men ! And therefore, some laws has to be put on, which necessarily mean legalisation of prostitution in order to make a regulatory.
The only difference between porn and prostitution is that porn has regulations and laws to make it a safer environment. I think the wiser course of action would be to legalize prostitution and put similar regulations and laws in place that make it safer for all involved. If that is done then the government gets to collect tax from it and politicians can use it as a tax write off lol. Win-Win all the way around.
honestly, if you dont wanna do something, and there is someone out there who would do it for money, then its a deal. i dont believe anyone else should come n talk about how ur enslaving that person or whatever. at the end of the day you are not forcing anyone to do anything, they are willing to do it, and you are willing to pay them, as simple as that.
Also criminalizing buying prevents buyers from reporting any kind of related crime to authorities because buyers are under pressure of getting penalized themselves. This applies not only to sex, but drugs too.
I generally adore the incredible "whole package" of this chic and admire her thought provoking and courageously insightful views. I know that evolution has spawned many branches of human idividual personalities but any civilized mentally sane human being would puke at the thought of their children being involved in "sex work"... Obviously sex work is not a practicle or morally forward motion for the overall good of humanity.
Let other half ass countries make prostitution legal. I don't think it's productive to give a woman a pay check for laying on her back and taking penis. It's a spit in the face to hard working Americans. If you want to say oh it's the oldest profession so what. In this day and age I think to move forward as a society prostitution doesn't help
@boycisco5788 oh please. Someone can sit on their ass all day and push a button in a fast food joint and you'd still consider it work. Lots of people make a living doing things that are not strictly productive, or even working for corporations that make the world a much worse place. That's capitalism, and there are worse things one can sell than an orgasm. And no, the work is not easy. Of course, you've never done it, and you're just talking out of your ass. So your opinion is useless.
Some people need prostitutes. What about a guy who is in a wheelchair or partially disabled. It might be much harder for him or her to find a mate. He may not have come to terms with his condition yet and be unwilling to be with someone else in a similar situation as him?
@MissLeanaFaith A lot of things aren't necessary. Is it necessary to have over 3 pairs of shoes? Is it necessary to go out to a restaurant to eat? Is it necessary to have a flashy, expensive car when a simple one will do the job just fine? No, but those things are nice to have, just like sex is. And saying that "it should only be between a husband and wife" is your personal opinion, which is fine, but there's not reason to legislate your personal opinion.
@endthedisease Just having a girl to fuck and pay her, then away she goes is different to a more MEANINGFUL relationship. I see your point though, but prostitution is flawed.
@endthedisease wtf! so your suggesting sleeping with a hooker is the best thing for him because he isn't good enough to be with someone..or someone who is able to walk normally!
In Victoria, Australia, prostitution is decriminalised in licenced brothels. Neither workers or clients are breaking the law as long as they participate in consenting safe sex. The workers are given health checks on a regular basis, the rooms have alarm systems and no alcohol is allowed on the premises. The sex workers can choose not to have sex with a client and can kick a client out at any time if they are insulted, abused or feel distressed.
@caseyfaye1 "I think you being paranoid about the carcinogens but that has noting to do with my point." You're right, I just find it irksome when someone blindly insists on something when they obviously haven't done any research into the issue. From the FDA's own website: “FDA's legal authority over cosmetics is different from other products regulated by the agency .... Cosmetic products and ingredients are not subject to FDA premarket approval authority, with the exception of color additives.”
@caseyfaye1 :think you need to come to the 21st century, this was back when people didn't understand carcinogens.." No Hon, there are many known carcinogens that it's perfectly legal to use in perfumes (and other beauty products) sold in the US, today. Not even the FDA denies that. There is actually very little regulation in the beauty products industry.
@caseyfaye1 No, you didn't say that. But you're not arguing that the positive impact of a job should be a basis for whether any career should be legal. You're only selectively applying that to this particular job.
@caseyfaye1 Paris Hilton does not own the hotel chain. She stands to inherit the hotel chain. Sure, her perfume may employ people. It also may be giving a lot of people cancer at the same time ( since there's a lot of known carcinogens used in perfumes these days). So it's a bit of an oversimplification to say that all other jobs necessarily have a positive outcome on the world.
@caseyfaye1 "its a perfect reason not to validate is a valid mean to make money..." I have no idea what this is supposed to mean. "But at least pairs Hilton makes money off a business that benefits many other people..." How so? How do her stupid reality show and her toxic perfume help the world?
@caseyfaye1 "Thats not fair, its a cowardly way to make money" That's not a good reason to criminalize an entire industry. You're basically mad over the concept of supply and demand. I also don't think it's fair that Paris Hilton makes so much money when she's only famous for being rich in the first place. But that doesn't mean I should legally be able to prevent her from doing what she does. That's the reality of capitalism, it's not often fair.
@caseyfaye1 First of all, working in the sex industry isn't as easy as you seem to think. Secondly, in response to this: "And since prostitution does pay well, most people that enter the sex industry won't leave." Most people do end up leaving the sex industry eventually, and most jobs in the industry do not pay as well once you reach a certain age.
You want to talk about a dangerous job. I'm in the US military. Not only are me and my fellow service men stripped of some of our right and given more stringent laws, for example our freedom of speech has limitations and adultery is punishable legally, but then theres the obvious fact that we are ASKED to put are LIVES in danger. FUCKING ASKED TO. Now I can already hear the chatter of "well you chose to do that" ok fine, why cant a woman or man choose a job that is statically safer than mine?
@Renegade1835 It's you're brainless choice to be a mindless "pawn" of the military.Can't say "more power to ya" cause you're braindead...The miliatry isnt what it used to be thats for sure! Openlly gays,soilders killing fellow soiders...my grandfather who pasted away years ago that was in the 82nd airbourne in WW2 would blow a gasket if he was still alive and knew what the military has become...in the now,if you love your country,join your state militia,NOT the military!
@Renegade1835 You have nothing but my utmost respect good sir. Both my parents were E.O.D. in the airforce my dad did it for 26 years 13 of the people I knew when I was 6 were other E.O.D. peope of wich 7 were killed in action before I even hit 8. I am glad you chose to do that job and I thank you for protecting your country and it's ideals. For laying your life on the line every day at work I hope that no one gives you any grief over it.
We don't need men for anything. Not for pleaser not for love not for anything. A woman can satisfy another woman sexually better than a man can. More and more women are giving up on men.
Good luck to people who want to reclaim the word prostitute to make it positive but why not Include prostutes in a branch of sexology they must know heaps about sex! any skill that ends in ologist is respected, sociologist, psychologist.
Good point about legal sex work being much cheaper to police leaving money spare to fight slavery.
If you had clients you like, for some being a protitute or sexycologist :) could could be a really nice career.
I agree 100% that it should be legalized. how can the government tell someone that they can't sell their own body? its theirs! and porn is the same thing, therefore the same law should apply. maybe this would stop young girls from being forced into it and controlled by some pimp.
I feel like a whore at my job, selling myself, giving up my personal expression to do what others want of me & some of it makes me sick. But this is the world we live in & I make the choice to submit to this in order to make a pittance compared to what a prostitute makes. I'd rather sell my body in a sexual way, but I don't have that luxury. Freedom isn't always free. We all have little choice but to submit to one thing or another & I think it should be our choice what that is.
Criss - when you have time, I would really like to encourage you to seek out a buddy of mine out on Facebook. Here name is Annie Lobert, and she will give you the real low-down on all of this. Blessings to you!
Interesting, I saw a show on Cuba before Fidal Castro, It said Gambling and prostitution was wide open. Fidal put a stop to it. I have never been to a prostitute or a "dancer", I have known some. Everyone..on drugs bigtime. Crack Addicts. All you people that want to live in a World where you do what ever you want should pool all your money together and buy an island or state somewhere. To Zomgitscriss ? Do you have a happy side ? Ever thought about becoming a politician? Do you enjoy a debate?
@sacredgroovetube I've worked in the sex industry for 8-9 years now. I don't doubt I've met a lot more sex workers than you, and we're not all crack addicts. There are a lot of intelligent, even college educated people in this field. Your post doesn't contain one valid argument.
The swedish model failed! Sweden now have more and worse kinds of underground brothels where traficing and even worse things since the prostitutes now are pushed into the hands of ruthless pimps and trafficers.
q1. prostitution is not like other jobs. in other jobs, typically an agreeable service is provided by the employee. a prostitute not only provides services but all provides her body, where the user of the prostitute does so 'for her body'.
do not confuse this will modelling as this is slightly different, in that it is still a service, and the body itself is not directly for sale. it is however 'objectification' of the individual for sake of 'beauty or sex' that the sale is made in modelling.
In my country, the Netherlands, the gov has some measure of control over the areas where prostitution is practiced. However, it hardly has any control over the organized crime from the eastern European countries the industry attracts. The gov tries to come down hard on organized crime, but it’s very hard to control. The only pro is that the barbarism of prostitution takes place in designated areas where civilized society isn't bothered with the practice. The keyword is 'pragmatism'
lol, the stigma is not there because prostitution is illegal, prostitution is illegal because of the stigma attached to it.
Step one seems to be to make it legal, step two seems to be forcing people to "like" it and praise people for doing things they might not agree with. When people choose a career path, they choose all that goes with it.
Making it legal would reduce it IMO, taxes will cut into the pay and it will have to compete with other, less risky, jobs.
Prostitution prohibition is wrong because of a simple axiom: "No victim, no crime".
Anyone who thinks legalizing it "normalizes it" is silly. There always has and always will be a very unhealthy aspect to sex work, its still going to have its ugly side just like a lot of things that are legal. It's just not the government's place to force people to live a certain way, even if its for their own good.
Another issue (slightly related) is the issue of lesbian rape, that is under reported and victims disbelieved, and wether sex workers have an impact on lesbian rape stats as with male decreases in rape, its often assumed a penis is required for rape, but lesbians report suffering rape either from abusive relationships or encounters, with agressive women who sometimes bound and gag victims, who are disbelieved usually - interesting topic - about gender and behaviour -lesbian rape - check it out
what would be awesome is everyone arguing over this stopped arguing and went out to do something about... well... anything that they have argued for/against
then again i rarely ever see anyone do something logical...
its interesting, i liv in switzerlan d where its legal and i know at least one girl by chance of whom i know she did it because shew liked expensive clothing like louis viton bags... idk but i thhink selling sex is ok as long as both participants get treated well. also in switzerland there arent many prostitutes... so much to,everyone would take up the job. imho prostitutes are greeat, i mean they are the reason why so many marrages still work....
some men need to pay for it .....some women need the money....hey but what about gigalos too ....are they abused prostitutes or cool suave gents just making a buck from their skills, if you got it and its worth it ...you must pay
@PriscillaRelentless probably there might be gender dynamics of sexual motive perceptions like that prosecutes male pedophile sex offenders less leniently than female sex offenders because the pubescent boys were granted a treat but the girls were forced and chaste and that sort of stuff.Evolutionary psychology book - thats the title, by steven gaulin and donald mcburney, have fascinating sexual selection chapters, about men and women their sexual strategies psychology and difference of biology
The sexual appetite of men has always been swept under the rug. To protect human beings safety it should be legalized. Men do not see sex as love, the thriving porn industry proves this. Legalizing porn only shows the brutal lack of attachment men have towards women, I for one would like a real number on this hidden sexual appetite of Men. It is made by men for men. Feminist are against porn because it reduces the woman to an object, a toy. Proven in the inhumane human trafficking.
@AmbitiousVisionary All that the existence of porn "proves" is that lust can exist without love, not that the two are never connected for men. And why does the sex industry only reduce women to objects, if there are men and women working in the sex industry?
Prostitution is the oldest business in the world because it is a fact a man has a penis that requires nearly daily attention. It's nature. A woman on the other hand has no penis. Women work in the industry because of supply and demand. It would be ignorant to say men (apples) are oranges (women). Might I suggest this video - 4 in the series to explain the WAY we view the world by Gender. Search: WAYS OF SEEING (episode two - female nude) 1/4 John Berger on the female Nude.
and Yet men and women are not treated equal - 8% of women polled world wide believe they are treated equal. The demand for porn/hookers is predominately sought by males, the numbers are certainly not equal to women. The porn now being produced for women is different than the porn produced for men. lol there is no such thing as a monogamous male. Female hookers GREATLY out number male hookers. Why? A penis is not a vagina : ) I want it legal because the abuse to women is horrifying as it is now!
@AmbitiousVisionary "lol there is no such thing as a monogamousmale" i hope you were being facetious because that is another cliche that doesnt bear up in the real data, Studies in western societies show that in the past men had more opportunities to cheat because women were at home but now women given more opportunity to flirt and cheat have and independant have caught up with men.The statistics show that there is slightly less monogamous men than women but still its closer than people think.
Studies of men show they think about sex every 7 minutes, that is the male anatomy were all told. Women do NOT have a penis! Anatomically the penis thinks about sex constantly, while the vagina does not. That is what I meant by no such thing as a monogamous male, he can't help it, he is a slave to his penis and science has reported it.
@AmbitiousVisionary yes the strategies are that men produce semen always and so are fertile always, women are fertile less often and so developed different psychology, women select and males compete for them (generalising)...the women seek quality and status because they have greater investment commitment involved eg offspring, but that has nothing to do with monogamy a different dynamic from sexual fertility capacity, men think about sex because they always fertile.
Bravo sir now were getting some real facts on this issue. Truly understanding our anatomy can only lead to problems being solved. in the 1920's my aunt charged her husband for sex, this was so he would go to a hooker and pay, she had other things to do with her time, like solve problems. Why the penis rules the world I have no clue, they seem the inferior species to me. Men portray women the way they want to see them, and then judge her in society with labels like whore, it's LAME!
@AmbitiousVisionary What! is this true your aunt, smart lady..she got a strange husband but thats not healthy relations...deep friendship should be basis. Ambitousvisionary about this world its true there is evil inequality. Ambitious you would love 'evolutionary psychology' the book because actually women denigrate other womens' monogamy eg slut whore to defame them and make them less desirable in sexual jealousy.You will love this documentary (i believe) called zeitgeist addendum - this world
@AmbitiousVisionary on you tube type zeitgeist addendum and its long documentary but it shows how our world is not improving equality and a beautiful future its so good documentary (imo)
@AmbitiousVisionary That is a myth. The most reliable study on the topic is from the Kinsey Institute: "54% of men think about sex everyday or several times a day, 43% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 4% less than once a month (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994)." Personally, I think about sex about six times a day at most. Every seven seconds would make things like driving impossible, and plot difficult to understand.
Perhaps you missed the point. My grandmother died at 101 not thinking about sex her last 50 years, my mom has been without sex 20 years, never even thinks about it, and Me well it's been 5 years. Women do not have a penis, were not a slave to the physical anatomy of the body as men are is my point. Sure women might have peaks where sex is great but without a partner to feed that appetite she is NOT a SLAVE to her Anatomy.Therefore she can think clearer and resolve problems faster, hence MOTHER!
@AmbitiousVisionary So you are arguing that a man is incapable of not having sexual thoughts and is a slave to his physiology? I will admit, that for the most part, that seems true. However, I find that very sexist. My friend, Prawee Deedechar, has been a Buddhist Monk for 58 years. He is now 75, and is the least sexual person I know. The thought never crosses his mind. Ever.
Surely he masturbated as a teen, became a slave to his body. Pulling out the few, does not speak for the whole. Let's examine St Olga of Russia, who single handedly lead 5000 men to their death with the "promise" of SEX. Were those 5000 men serving their penis? Yes! A refutable example of the males ignorance. Furthermore, historically 99% of histories wars were caused by penis serving males. However, it is a good point you show, that one man over came the enslavement to his penis Ha ha.
@AmbitiousVisionary My point is, your narrow view does not cover everyone. Who's to say that Olga didn't get a sexual thrill from her actions? There are plenty of sociopaths who do. Personally, I couldn't have sex with someone that I don't know or didn't care about. The thought is just physically disgusting to me. I am certainly not a "slave" of anything but society's preconception of me. Men had the power, and they chose to fight. The few woman led societies were no less war-driven. Amazons?
Perhaps you missed the point - the point is why does society IGNORE how our brain functions? why do we judge it? Why are men studs and women whores when they are equally using nature? This video is about making the sex industry SAFER for HUMAN BEINGS engaging in it. It is clearly a human function all humans seek and enjoy. Some say education is to expensive, but who can calculate the cost of ignorance?
@AmbitiousVisionary Since you put it that way, you and I can agree. It seemed to me that you were trying to feed societies sex war by bashing the one that I belong to. Monogamists and sluts of both sexes should be free to be as sexual as they want. Social stygma is unneeded. Double standards need to stop. When a man has sex with a minor, 15 years in prison. If a woman does it, 2 weeks of therapy & 6 months probation. Rediculous. One of my heroes is Susan B. Anthony. I'm all for making it safer.
Heyheyhey! The Swedish model is taking one hell of a beating here! We are lots of people from two of the parties in the government coalition who're executing the arguments from the defenders of the sex law on a As-they-turn-up basis.
Sweden will abolish this "Swedish model" and replace it with legalization and regulation. It may take time, but we're fed up. That shit is a goner.
lol, yes criss now we know what you are offering to "sell" in exchange for money to your paypal account. I suspect if you have a daughter, she will be in grave danger from such teaching; "you need money go work the corner" would be your advice to her. I guess it is easier for idiots like you to spread your legs, get stds, get beaten/raped then get an education and real job; after all, you have no self respect/brains.Keep it low, ho
I agree with everything in this vid. I work as a bouncer on weekends at a stripclub. And I know the stories of the girls there and I totaly support them.
These anti prostitution fanatics are not looking out for the girls that work in this business. They look after their own morals and interests and opinions, usualy based on the bible. Ironicaly the bible sais prostitution is ok. Lol 5/5
It is wrong for women to work as prostitutes when there are perfectly good jobs available in coal mining, slauterhouses and general sweatshop industry. But seriously our prohibition on sex only creates people who are sexually immanture. Those are the people i pity and am frightened of. The first part was a joke in case you didn't get it.
Yes, normalizing sex work MAY encourage it ,just like alcohol and porn are currently consumed at a high rate, it's far from perfect, but it's better than people being forced into these positions and having victims FROM the lack of choices.
as for stigmatizing, i think it's fair enough to stigmatize buyers, as they're generally poor communicators who can't have free sex. Prostitutes at least can say they have something people pay for.
I like alot of your ideas but you speak too fast and you don't apparently do much work on reducing your accent, so I find your talk too hard to follow, probably other people have the same difficulty. I've put alot of effort into watching your vids I'm just giving (+) criticism.
And the blood from the mouth, is that ultimately neccessary?
I am a Swede that definitely NOT support "the Swedish model".
I would prefer it if prostitution was legalized so the Police would have more resources to go after the the slave-traders instead, as trafficking IS a real crime.
You, my lady, are very bright indeed. Keep up the good work.
This really does rely on the other stuff, that is prostitution not being ok. If prostitution is ok, why would it be a problem that more people got into that business?
@gratex Where's the logic in that? Why not allow children to become miners or roofers or bus drivers? Because those jobs are dangerous for children and it takes an adult to be able to reason enough to make safe choices in those fields. Same with the sex industry. Just because something's not appropriate for children doesn't mean we should prevent adults from making their own choices about it.
Well apply your argument that legalising prostitution would end sex trafficking to children as well as adults and see what you're left with. Perhaps poor little maddy would not have been kidnapped by a paedophile if the paedo could have went to a willing child prostitute. What I'm doing with this is saying that, although you appear to make absolutist statements that your actualy position is more nuanced than that. You are for prostitution and against it simultaneously...
As for the drama, I really don't give a crap about "winning" this argument. Don't know how aware you are about prostitution in eastern europe and romania especially but its beyond horrid and things HAVE to change. On the other hand look at new zealand which adopted the most liberal model for decriminalization worldwide. The sex workers now have police protection, collectives, advocacy groups, funded medical care and social assistance and you can hear it from them. If you care to ...
I'd rather a society invested in itself rather than investing in police and legislation to protect prostitutes from clients. Prostitution is legal in my country, there are still problems with it, but yes it is an improvement on how things were for prostitutes. Overall I feel that freedom to not be a prostitute is more valuable than freedom to be a prostitute and I think this is the crux of the matter on this issue - it can be seen in all the videos i've watched on this.
"Overall I feel that freedom to not be a prostitute is more valuable than freedom to be a prostitute"
I agree with that but I know it won't happen by keeping prostitution illegal and pretending it ain't there. And until we manage to create a stabile economy and provide more options for those people I am against taking one of their few options away. Not because "I like it", but because I know prohibition only results in a more dangerous environment and working conditions for them.
Instead of being a free person in the natural world, only stupid people sign marriage contracts and submit to the authority of others for control of their property and behavior.
Marriage is a religious fetish. Monogamy is a religious fetish. The whole idea of marriage is a trick used by the churches to control you. (This is why there are laws on prostitution.)
Infidelity? Since when is it required that you only fuck just one person and not fuck whoever you please in nature?
Instead of being a free person in the natural world, only stupid people sign marriage contracts and submit to the authority of others for control of their property and behavior.
Marriage is a religious fetish. Monogamy is a religious fetish. The whole idea of marriage is a trick used by the churches to control you.
Infidelity? Since when is it required that you only fuck just one person and not fuck what ever you please in nature? (Yes, even if it is a prostitute.)
I am not "for prostitution" as you put it. I never said I like it or that it's the ideal job. What I am saying is that keeping it illegal only promotes the black market and furthers the exploitation of the workers. They are abused by their pimps, by the police, by the society, they have no rights, they can't get no help. And my point was that by decriminalizing and taxing it, the money can be used to better combat the illegal sex trafficking AND regulate the industry.
Mostly married men use prostitutes... you don't get it, my dear... it is not that prostitution is legal or illegal...
It is all about the artificial constructs imposed by religion... Instead of being a free person in the natural world, only stupid people sign marriage contracts and submit to the authority of others for control of their property and behavior.
Religion requires that you only fuck just one person and not fuck whoever you please in nature without consequences...
@ZOMGitsCriss i dont think children shuld eat something as cheap as fish sticks. i mean there is more fresh and healthy options out there. do i want to make fish sticks iligal? no, that whuld be stypid.
Prostitution is unfortunate but necessary, and should be legal. Pornography is necessary and legal. Hopefully in a society with more opportunities and social interest, the sex industry would function in a more egalitarian and equitable fashion.
I think the majority of the people that have jobs for major corporations, Fortune 500 companies, retail sales or even fast food have at some point in time felt that they were exploited or taken advantage of by their employers. Legalizing the sex industry make it much safer for everyone involved both by selling although people may still feel exploited it would be more the type of exploiting mentioned at the start of this post, rather than by a pimp, or sex slave.
being a prostitute / in the porn industry can lead to death / suicide for many people. If you are in this industry get out while you can . Do not be afraid to leave. Pray for God's help . God loves you so, so much.
Excellent points, Cristina! Prostitution is a great example of what I call "circular morality". Most of the bad consequences of prostitution are directly the result of the fact that it is considered taboo, and the participants are socially condemned. "It has bad consequences, therefore it should be immoral." It only has bad consequences because most of society already considers it "immoral". If we would all just change our minds, see it as a respected profession, then the problems go away.
.If you solicit the services of a prostitute it is likely that they have a drug habit of some sort and by giving them money for sex you are keeping them and their drug dealer in business. It's a very unsavory and vicious cycle. As for the rest. You know what makes YOU tick. And it's rather obvious you're using the sex sell bit. You do it everytime you post a video because you're an attractive woman with an accent to boot.
And if youy really want to learn something, check out a movie called Kinsey, or read Sex, Kiss and Money by Gene Simmonds. I find them to be pretty accurate as I would Hitch the movie.....for me that is.
I don't think there's any accurate stats that reveal how many prostitutes are addicted to drugs. we often imagine streetwalkers, but they are a minority among prostitutes.
what about other people in other professions who may have drug habits? Should we stop patronizing them and leave them without income? How exactly would that help them or anyone else? Should we deny people the right to make an income if we don't like how they spend their money?
@ReliableInsider And why should sex be different? Basically your whole point is "sex is something special and sacred to me and therefore it should be sacred and special for everyone else".
"But if someone is poor and is forced to have sex . . ."By "forced" I gues you mean "cant make a living other way" . Well one more reason to legalize it, cause he would do it anyway (or starve to death). If he can find other job that means he wasnt "forced" and that it was his own choice ; )
It's cool when one can see sex as sacred and treat your lover's body as sacred, but that doesn't relate to this.
I don't want anyone to force me to have sex. You're saying that "the poor" are fundamentally different from me. I don't think they are. I'm pretty poor myself.
I don't think anyone wants to be forced to have sex. Even the poor.
If the wealthy FAIL to nurture a healthy, vibrant economy that creates decent jobs . . .
their punishment is that they have to pay taxes. And then government should use that money to provide higher education or job training or jobs to those people who would otherwise starve.
Forcing people to have sex is not some "brilliant" "ingenious" "solution" to a failed economy. It's just a symptom of a failed economy.
@ReliableInsider hmm i see your line of thought, you are afraid that if prostitution was legalized, government would drop its efforts in helping "poor" people with the excuse "you can always sell your body".
Well this isnt the economical issue, it is issue of personal freedom. You are restricting individual's basic rights in an attemt to make government do its job. Government should provide education and job training for the "poor" even prostitution was legal.
What if someone simply thinks it's preferable to work in prostitution rather than work an entry level minimum wage job? Maybe they're not thrilled with being a prostitute but still prefer it to the alternatives? Shouldn't they have the right to make that decision for themselves?
I agree no one should be FORCED into a job. I do think people should have the right to weigh the pros and cons and decide for themselves.
i think the pros outweigh the cons
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Most prostitutes choose prostitution as a coping technique for sexual abuse in their childhood. It wont help them with their problems and even makes them worse: It will cause drug abuse e.g., because prostitution is just another abuse they torture their bodys with in order to get control over an abuse- situation, they force themselves into a simular situation lagain and again.
N18297 1 week ago
In this case, i've really got to disagree with you for the 'poverty' reason. Yes it's true that there are hundreds of other jobs that people get into because of poverty, but for me it's still just fucked up. We're talking about people being able to use their body in anyway that they want, so long as it's consensual- i'm all for that. But I don't see how making it easier for people to, violate themselves, due to drug addiction is, is a good thing. That's why i'm against prostitution.
0MrRib0 2 weeks ago
You Devils fucking going Down!
Jacobrise7 2 weeks ago
You white people( Edomites ) are the Devil and you are All going into Slavery!
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@Jacobrise7 Looks like we got ourselves a fucktard.
eggertstwart 2 weeks ago
Not so long ago, homosexuality was illegal. It was considered an evil, unaccepted practice. It is now legal and accepted within the society. The same thing is now happening with prostitution. Women, such as those in this video, are trying to make this evil practice accepted. And I don't doubt that this is exactly what will happen.
Give it a few years folks, and child pornography, which is an evil, illegal and unaccepted practice, will also become legal and accepted. Mark ma words!
SayAllahIsOne 1 month ago
I'm happy that prostitution is legal in my country, but the social stigma of the "whore" still remains. This needs to be fought.
DistressedxDamsel 1 month ago
i agree fully!!!!!
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I LOVE YOU!!
hyperstone6 2 months ago
Does she use a teleprompter?
telebob 4 months ago
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WHY DID YOU EVEN MAKE THIS VIDEO, HERE'S A TIP, GET A FUCKING DIARY.
RoboticusMusic 4 months ago
real pros don't go on youtube
i can't imagine a society where it's illegal
yea those anti prostitution anti porn freaks there's something weird going on there they've taken up the wrong cause
human453 5 months ago
very good points
hil0o0o0 5 months ago
@jungsbodyguard i agree, it's not ok. they can't make thier own decisions and it is pedophillia. I just wanted to see some opinions.
andthebearwentrahh 5 months ago
I have a lot of respect for your vids about atheism, but your various analogies keep totally missing the point when it comes to the sex-industry. I've made about 20 vids on this subject. Feel free to check them out, and comment...
mickGPN 5 months ago
@mickGPN I'm always suspicious of people who only want to discuss a topic only on their own forums. It leads me to believe that they probably just want to dominate the conversation and block anyone who questions their ignorant portrayal of an industry they themselves have no experience with. Thanks for once again proving that to be the case, Mick. It's sad to be reminded that people like yourself aren't really interested in talking to sex workers, but very revealing.
MissTemperence 5 months ago
@MissTemperence - I answered about 30 of your comments, but you just kept talking nonsense. I mean, there is a limit. Plus, no-one reads these comment sections anyway... so why should I spend hours talking to someone who's only interested in twisting reality so she can act as an apologist for the sex-industry? (And I do talk to "sex-workers", btw. In fact, some of them say that they really like my videos. But then that's a typical PSP distortion... to claim you somehow represent ALL sex-workers)
mickGPN 5 months ago
@mickGPN Nonsenense? Like that it benefits sex workers to be able to go to the police? Or that people can easily continue working into their 30's? That "nonsense" is based on 10 years working in an industry you have no personal experience with. But oh yes, you're the expert, sir. Third, your choices are not continue talking or block someone. If you wish to stop responding, you can just do that. It seems you declare anything you disagree with as "nonsense" that must be silenced. (cont)
MissTemperence 5 months ago
@mickGPN (cont 2) Yes, I'm sure you do talk to sex workers, but only when it benefits you. You listen when we have something to say that supports your agenda, and dismiss anything we have to say that contradicts it. That's why you have such a limited, confused idea of what the industry is like. And that's exactly how you like it. I have NEVER claimed to represent all sex workers. I have always said that our experiences vary greatly. So who's distorting the truth here?
MissTemperence 5 months ago
@MissTemperence - Now, even in those comments, you've distorted what I said. And that's something people could confirm for themselves if they wanted to follow-up and read what we've both said on my channel. But of course, no one will, cos this is YT - so, even if anyone does read this, they won't have the attention-span to get to the bottom of what's being said. So it's pointless for me to even try to try to prove that you're distorting of reality. And, that's why I've stopped trying.
mickGPN 5 months ago
@mickGPN How could I have distorted what you said? Where have I even referenced anything you've said? You said I was speaking nonsense and I took a guess as to what you might be referring to, since you did not specify. And I asked you if that's what you were referring to. You, however, did distort what I said when you said I claimed to represent all sex workers, when I've always said that no sex worker represents all sex workers. You don't specify because you can't, not because it's "pointless"
MissTemperence 5 months ago
@mickGPN So basically, what you've come here with is an exaggeration, a false choice, and a straw man. That's a lot of fallacies to cram into such a small space. Better be more careful Hon, your lack of intellectual integrity is showing.
MissTemperence 5 months ago
what about child pornography?
andthebearwentrahh 5 months ago
@andthebearwentrahh She's not implying that child pornography is ok, because that person is not a consenting adult and therefore, is illequiped to make an informed decision. It is psychologically damaging and can have negative affects physically and mentally. Basically, it would be wrong for the exact same reasons that all pedophillia is wrong and consequently, is not worth mentioning in the video. She's not mentioned changing laws about pedophillia.
jungsbodyguard 5 months ago
How do you feel if I ask you: Is your P*ssy for sale? Is it normal to you? just like asking you is your watch for sale?
assaad33 5 months ago
I just want to say the following :
I don't dislike prostitutes, no more that I dislike porn actesses.
If a client go to a prostitute and makes sure she's got free will, that's fine for me.
BUT, many men go to street and take the youngest prostitute they can found, not regarding whether she seems exploited. That's a big problem and I really hate those men ! And therefore, some laws has to be put on, which necessarily mean legalisation of prostitution in order to make a regulatory.
I'm with you
michaeljackfan 7 months ago
The only difference between porn and prostitution is that porn has regulations and laws to make it a safer environment. I think the wiser course of action would be to legalize prostitution and put similar regulations and laws in place that make it safer for all involved. If that is done then the government gets to collect tax from it and politicians can use it as a tax write off lol. Win-Win all the way around.
jalbador 9 months ago 4
honestly, if you dont wanna do something, and there is someone out there who would do it for money, then its a deal. i dont believe anyone else should come n talk about how ur enslaving that person or whatever. at the end of the day you are not forcing anyone to do anything, they are willing to do it, and you are willing to pay them, as simple as that.
GlamourAngel321 9 months ago
Also criminalizing buying prevents buyers from reporting any kind of related crime to authorities because buyers are under pressure of getting penalized themselves. This applies not only to sex, but drugs too.
Mornys 9 months ago
I love porn,nothing like watching porn with my girlfriend while we fuck!
ReaperWithFangs 10 months ago
I generally adore the incredible "whole package" of this chic and admire her thought provoking and courageously insightful views. I know that evolution has spawned many branches of human idividual personalities but any civilized mentally sane human being would puke at the thought of their children being involved in "sex work"... Obviously sex work is not a practicle or morally forward motion for the overall good of humanity.
kick08ful 10 months ago
Let other half ass countries make prostitution legal. I don't think it's productive to give a woman a pay check for laying on her back and taking penis. It's a spit in the face to hard working Americans. If you want to say oh it's the oldest profession so what. In this day and age I think to move forward as a society prostitution doesn't help
boycisco5788 11 months ago
@boycisco5788 oh please. Someone can sit on their ass all day and push a button in a fast food joint and you'd still consider it work. Lots of people make a living doing things that are not strictly productive, or even working for corporations that make the world a much worse place. That's capitalism, and there are worse things one can sell than an orgasm. And no, the work is not easy. Of course, you've never done it, and you're just talking out of your ass. So your opinion is useless.
MissTemperence 9 months ago
Some people need prostitutes. What about a guy who is in a wheelchair or partially disabled. It might be much harder for him or her to find a mate. He may not have come to terms with his condition yet and be unwilling to be with someone else in a similar situation as him?
endthedisease 11 months ago 24
@endthedisease Sex isn't necessary. And it should only be between a husband and a wife.
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@MissLeanaFaith A lot of things aren't necessary. Is it necessary to have over 3 pairs of shoes? Is it necessary to go out to a restaurant to eat? Is it necessary to have a flashy, expensive car when a simple one will do the job just fine? No, but those things are nice to have, just like sex is. And saying that "it should only be between a husband and wife" is your personal opinion, which is fine, but there's not reason to legislate your personal opinion.
TheMarissaDanielle 3 months ago 4
@endthedisease Just having a girl to fuck and pay her, then away she goes is different to a more MEANINGFUL relationship. I see your point though, but prostitution is flawed.
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@endthedisease wtf! so your suggesting sleeping with a hooker is the best thing for him because he isn't good enough to be with someone..or someone who is able to walk normally!
crumpetsrcool 1 month ago
In Victoria, Australia, prostitution is decriminalised in licenced brothels. Neither workers or clients are breaking the law as long as they participate in consenting safe sex. The workers are given health checks on a regular basis, the rooms have alarm systems and no alcohol is allowed on the premises. The sex workers can choose not to have sex with a client and can kick a client out at any time if they are insulted, abused or feel distressed.
geniusrepairman1 11 months ago
This video brought me to this conclusion: Why is porn legal but prostitution isn't? I'm ok with both :)
ikutsu2001 1 year ago
@caseyfaye1 "I think you being paranoid about the carcinogens but that has noting to do with my point." You're right, I just find it irksome when someone blindly insists on something when they obviously haven't done any research into the issue. From the FDA's own website: “FDA's legal authority over cosmetics is different from other products regulated by the agency .... Cosmetic products and ingredients are not subject to FDA premarket approval authority, with the exception of color additives.”
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@caseyfaye1 :think you need to come to the 21st century, this was back when people didn't understand carcinogens.." No Hon, there are many known carcinogens that it's perfectly legal to use in perfumes (and other beauty products) sold in the US, today. Not even the FDA denies that. There is actually very little regulation in the beauty products industry.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@caseyfaye1 No, you didn't say that. But you're not arguing that the positive impact of a job should be a basis for whether any career should be legal. You're only selectively applying that to this particular job.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@caseyfaye1 Paris Hilton does not own the hotel chain. She stands to inherit the hotel chain. Sure, her perfume may employ people. It also may be giving a lot of people cancer at the same time ( since there's a lot of known carcinogens used in perfumes these days). So it's a bit of an oversimplification to say that all other jobs necessarily have a positive outcome on the world.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@caseyfaye1 "its a perfect reason not to validate is a valid mean to make money..." I have no idea what this is supposed to mean. "But at least pairs Hilton makes money off a business that benefits many other people..." How so? How do her stupid reality show and her toxic perfume help the world?
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@caseyfaye1 "Thats not fair, its a cowardly way to make money" That's not a good reason to criminalize an entire industry. You're basically mad over the concept of supply and demand. I also don't think it's fair that Paris Hilton makes so much money when she's only famous for being rich in the first place. But that doesn't mean I should legally be able to prevent her from doing what she does. That's the reality of capitalism, it's not often fair.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@caseyfaye1 First of all, working in the sex industry isn't as easy as you seem to think. Secondly, in response to this: "And since prostitution does pay well, most people that enter the sex industry won't leave." Most people do end up leaving the sex industry eventually, and most jobs in the industry do not pay as well once you reach a certain age.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
I like the part where you fuck peoples penisis
MrPappy729 1 year ago
devchelle2's seems to be faking in his video. Is their anything to backup his claims of being a gay prostitute?
sabot96 1 year ago
hurray for making your own DAMN coffee!
Thayer79 1 year ago
Maybe cos 70% of the time its to dam cold to get ur bits out in swededn :-)
phcoh 1 year ago
You want to talk about a dangerous job. I'm in the US military. Not only are me and my fellow service men stripped of some of our right and given more stringent laws, for example our freedom of speech has limitations and adultery is punishable legally, but then theres the obvious fact that we are ASKED to put are LIVES in danger. FUCKING ASKED TO. Now I can already hear the chatter of "well you chose to do that" ok fine, why cant a woman or man choose a job that is statically safer than mine?
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carlosewm 11 months ago
@Renegade1835 It's you're brainless choice to be a mindless "pawn" of the military.Can't say "more power to ya" cause you're braindead...The miliatry isnt what it used to be thats for sure! Openlly gays,soilders killing fellow soiders...my grandfather who pasted away years ago that was in the 82nd airbourne in WW2 would blow a gasket if he was still alive and knew what the military has become...in the now,if you love your country,join your state militia,NOT the military!
ReaperWithFangs 10 months ago
@Renegade1835 You have nothing but my utmost respect good sir. Both my parents were E.O.D. in the airforce my dad did it for 26 years 13 of the people I knew when I was 6 were other E.O.D. peope of wich 7 were killed in action before I even hit 8. I am glad you chose to do that job and I thank you for protecting your country and it's ideals. For laying your life on the line every day at work I hope that no one gives you any grief over it.
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You are so pretty
burgercris 1 year ago
Men are by nature insensitive which is why them make such shitty sexual pratners.
missblowjob777 1 year ago
We don't need men for anything. Not for pleaser not for love not for anything. A woman can satisfy another woman sexually better than a man can. More and more women are giving up on men.
missblowjob777 1 year ago
@missblowjob777 LOL your comments are funny cause they're true! Unfortunately for hetero women you can't choose your sexuality.
onlockinggeisha 1 year ago
@missblowjob777 awww she thinks she has a rational idea. but seriously are you kidding
mizakzee 1 year ago
@missblowjob777 thet become lesbian porn stars ;-)
Kenshiroit 1 year ago
Good luck to people who want to reclaim the word prostitute to make it positive but why not Include prostutes in a branch of sexology they must know heaps about sex! any skill that ends in ologist is respected, sociologist, psychologist.
Good point about legal sex work being much cheaper to police leaving money spare to fight slavery.
If you had clients you like, for some being a protitute or sexycologist :) could could be a really nice career.
ohgreatwiseone 1 year ago
how much?
AntiVenomFangX 1 year ago
I agree 100% that it should be legalized. how can the government tell someone that they can't sell their own body? its theirs! and porn is the same thing, therefore the same law should apply. maybe this would stop young girls from being forced into it and controlled by some pimp.
videoQueenable 1 year ago
ur awesome;)
elle1010 1 year ago
Well spoken.
I feel like a whore at my job, selling myself, giving up my personal expression to do what others want of me & some of it makes me sick. But this is the world we live in & I make the choice to submit to this in order to make a pittance compared to what a prostitute makes. I'd rather sell my body in a sexual way, but I don't have that luxury. Freedom isn't always free. We all have little choice but to submit to one thing or another & I think it should be our choice what that is.
CrossTheGrigori 1 year ago
People really learn to masturbate. It's cheaper and you don't need to bother with all this bullshit. You're horny, whack off. Welcome to simplicity.
JRCrowley 1 year ago
@JRCrowley Clearly, human sexuality is about more than achieving orgasm.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
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@PriscillaRelentless Clearly human sexuality is about more than just hiring a prostitute. Dumbass.
JRCrowley 1 year ago
Criss - when you have time, I would really like to encourage you to seek out a buddy of mine out on Facebook. Here name is Annie Lobert, and she will give you the real low-down on all of this. Blessings to you!
sly2kusa 1 year ago
Interesting, I saw a show on Cuba before Fidal Castro, It said Gambling and prostitution was wide open. Fidal put a stop to it. I have never been to a prostitute or a "dancer", I have known some. Everyone..on drugs bigtime. Crack Addicts. All you people that want to live in a World where you do what ever you want should pool all your money together and buy an island or state somewhere. To Zomgitscriss ? Do you have a happy side ? Ever thought about becoming a politician? Do you enjoy a debate?
sacredgroovetube 1 year ago
@sacredgroovetube I've worked in the sex industry for 8-9 years now. I don't doubt I've met a lot more sex workers than you, and we're not all crack addicts. There are a lot of intelligent, even college educated people in this field. Your post doesn't contain one valid argument.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
I like your Ankh
Zsinthor 1 year ago
ALYSON MICHALKA!!! thats who you look like. couldnt think of her name.
jsamari 1 year ago
ZOMGits caught the cooties from shaking the hand of the dog jacker lol.
HybridD91 1 year ago
in Spain Prostitution is legal. They are no problems at all.
assym2006 1 year ago
The swedish model failed! Sweden now have more and worse kinds of underground brothels where traficing and even worse things since the prostitutes now are pushed into the hands of ruthless pimps and trafficers.
StantheGunman 1 year ago
q1. prostitution is not like other jobs. in other jobs, typically an agreeable service is provided by the employee. a prostitute not only provides services but all provides her body, where the user of the prostitute does so 'for her body'.
do not confuse this will modelling as this is slightly different, in that it is still a service, and the body itself is not directly for sale. it is however 'objectification' of the individual for sake of 'beauty or sex' that the sale is made in modelling.
daenumen 1 year ago
In my country, the Netherlands, the gov has some measure of control over the areas where prostitution is practiced. However, it hardly has any control over the organized crime from the eastern European countries the industry attracts. The gov tries to come down hard on organized crime, but it’s very hard to control. The only pro is that the barbarism of prostitution takes place in designated areas where civilized society isn't bothered with the practice. The keyword is 'pragmatism'
Krifko 1 year ago
lol, the stigma is not there because prostitution is illegal, prostitution is illegal because of the stigma attached to it.
Step one seems to be to make it legal, step two seems to be forcing people to "like" it and praise people for doing things they might not agree with. When people choose a career path, they choose all that goes with it.
Making it legal would reduce it IMO, taxes will cut into the pay and it will have to compete with other, less risky, jobs.
l337pwnage 1 year ago
Prostitution prohibition is wrong because of a simple axiom: "No victim, no crime".
Anyone who thinks legalizing it "normalizes it" is silly. There always has and always will be a very unhealthy aspect to sex work, its still going to have its ugly side just like a lot of things that are legal. It's just not the government's place to force people to live a certain way, even if its for their own good.
MoneyIsSilver 1 year ago
@MoneyIsSilver "Prostitution prohibition is wrong because of a simple axiom: "No victim, no crime"."
peter pan
amet1980 1 year ago
I agree, I don't think married people should sleep around. But that's just me.
I totally agree, the ability to make a choice is important. And if a prostitute is payed well I have no problem with it.
mzcyberbat 1 year ago
Another issue (slightly related) is the issue of lesbian rape, that is under reported and victims disbelieved, and wether sex workers have an impact on lesbian rape stats as with male decreases in rape, its often assumed a penis is required for rape, but lesbians report suffering rape either from abusive relationships or encounters, with agressive women who sometimes bound and gag victims, who are disbelieved usually - interesting topic - about gender and behaviour -lesbian rape - check it out
dreamtime182 1 year ago
You are one smart girl. Love this just like all of the videos you take!
hellobeautifulgirl 1 year ago
what would be awesome is everyone arguing over this stopped arguing and went out to do something about... well... anything that they have argued for/against
then again i rarely ever see anyone do something logical...
Kevin3826 1 year ago
its interesting, i liv in switzerlan d where its legal and i know at least one girl by chance of whom i know she did it because shew liked expensive clothing like louis viton bags... idk but i thhink selling sex is ok as long as both participants get treated well. also in switzerland there arent many prostitutes... so much to,everyone would take up the job. imho prostitutes are greeat, i mean they are the reason why so many marrages still work....
FurballRZ 1 year ago
some men need to pay for it .....some women need the money....hey but what about gigalos too ....are they abused prostitutes or cool suave gents just making a buck from their skills, if you got it and its worth it ...you must pay
dreamtime182 1 year ago
@dreamtime182 And yet I have NEVER heard an anti-sex industry poster on youtube discuss men in the business. Why is that?
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@PriscillaRelentless probably there might be gender dynamics of sexual motive perceptions like that prosecutes male pedophile sex offenders less leniently than female sex offenders because the pubescent boys were granted a treat but the girls were forced and chaste and that sort of stuff.Evolutionary psychology book - thats the title, by steven gaulin and donald mcburney, have fascinating sexual selection chapters, about men and women their sexual strategies psychology and difference of biology
dreamtime182 1 year ago
Thank you for being pro-freedom, Criss. Keep up the AWESOME work!
Neilsama 1 year ago
The sexual appetite of men has always been swept under the rug. To protect human beings safety it should be legalized. Men do not see sex as love, the thriving porn industry proves this. Legalizing porn only shows the brutal lack of attachment men have towards women, I for one would like a real number on this hidden sexual appetite of Men. It is made by men for men. Feminist are against porn because it reduces the woman to an object, a toy. Proven in the inhumane human trafficking.
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary All that the existence of porn "proves" is that lust can exist without love, not that the two are never connected for men. And why does the sex industry only reduce women to objects, if there are men and women working in the sex industry?
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
Prostitution is the oldest business in the world because it is a fact a man has a penis that requires nearly daily attention. It's nature. A woman on the other hand has no penis. Women work in the industry because of supply and demand. It would be ignorant to say men (apples) are oranges (women). Might I suggest this video - 4 in the series to explain the WAY we view the world by Gender. Search: WAYS OF SEEING (episode two - female nude) 1/4 John Berger on the female Nude.
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary Men work in the industry for the same reasons women work in the industry.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
and Yet men and women are not treated equal - 8% of women polled world wide believe they are treated equal. The demand for porn/hookers is predominately sought by males, the numbers are certainly not equal to women. The porn now being produced for women is different than the porn produced for men. lol there is no such thing as a monogamous male. Female hookers GREATLY out number male hookers. Why? A penis is not a vagina : ) I want it legal because the abuse to women is horrifying as it is now!
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary "lol there is no such thing as a monogamousmale" i hope you were being facetious because that is another cliche that doesnt bear up in the real data, Studies in western societies show that in the past men had more opportunities to cheat because women were at home but now women given more opportunity to flirt and cheat have and independant have caught up with men.The statistics show that there is slightly less monogamous men than women but still its closer than people think.
dreamtime182 1 year ago
Studies of men show they think about sex every 7 minutes, that is the male anatomy were all told. Women do NOT have a penis! Anatomically the penis thinks about sex constantly, while the vagina does not. That is what I meant by no such thing as a monogamous male, he can't help it, he is a slave to his penis and science has reported it.
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary yes the strategies are that men produce semen always and so are fertile always, women are fertile less often and so developed different psychology, women select and males compete for them (generalising)...the women seek quality and status because they have greater investment commitment involved eg offspring, but that has nothing to do with monogamy a different dynamic from sexual fertility capacity, men think about sex because they always fertile.
dreamtime182 1 year ago
Bravo sir now were getting some real facts on this issue. Truly understanding our anatomy can only lead to problems being solved. in the 1920's my aunt charged her husband for sex, this was so he would go to a hooker and pay, she had other things to do with her time, like solve problems. Why the penis rules the world I have no clue, they seem the inferior species to me. Men portray women the way they want to see them, and then judge her in society with labels like whore, it's LAME!
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary What! is this true your aunt, smart lady..she got a strange husband but thats not healthy relations...deep friendship should be basis. Ambitousvisionary about this world its true there is evil inequality. Ambitious you would love 'evolutionary psychology' the book because actually women denigrate other womens' monogamy eg slut whore to defame them and make them less desirable in sexual jealousy.You will love this documentary (i believe) called zeitgeist addendum - this world
dreamtime182 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary on you tube type zeitgeist addendum and its long documentary but it shows how our world is not improving equality and a beautiful future its so good documentary (imo)
dreamtime182 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary That is a myth. The most reliable study on the topic is from the Kinsey Institute: "54% of men think about sex everyday or several times a day, 43% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 4% less than once a month (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994)." Personally, I think about sex about six times a day at most. Every seven seconds would make things like driving impossible, and plot difficult to understand.
ElPayasoMalo 1 year ago
Perhaps you missed the point. My grandmother died at 101 not thinking about sex her last 50 years, my mom has been without sex 20 years, never even thinks about it, and Me well it's been 5 years. Women do not have a penis, were not a slave to the physical anatomy of the body as men are is my point. Sure women might have peaks where sex is great but without a partner to feed that appetite she is NOT a SLAVE to her Anatomy.Therefore she can think clearer and resolve problems faster, hence MOTHER!
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary So you are arguing that a man is incapable of not having sexual thoughts and is a slave to his physiology? I will admit, that for the most part, that seems true. However, I find that very sexist. My friend, Prawee Deedechar, has been a Buddhist Monk for 58 years. He is now 75, and is the least sexual person I know. The thought never crosses his mind. Ever.
ElPayasoMalo 1 year ago
Surely he masturbated as a teen, became a slave to his body. Pulling out the few, does not speak for the whole. Let's examine St Olga of Russia, who single handedly lead 5000 men to their death with the "promise" of SEX. Were those 5000 men serving their penis? Yes! A refutable example of the males ignorance. Furthermore, historically 99% of histories wars were caused by penis serving males. However, it is a good point you show, that one man over came the enslavement to his penis Ha ha.
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary My point is, your narrow view does not cover everyone. Who's to say that Olga didn't get a sexual thrill from her actions? There are plenty of sociopaths who do. Personally, I couldn't have sex with someone that I don't know or didn't care about. The thought is just physically disgusting to me. I am certainly not a "slave" of anything but society's preconception of me. Men had the power, and they chose to fight. The few woman led societies were no less war-driven. Amazons?
ElPayasoMalo 1 year ago
Perhaps you missed the point - the point is why does society IGNORE how our brain functions? why do we judge it? Why are men studs and women whores when they are equally using nature? This video is about making the sex industry SAFER for HUMAN BEINGS engaging in it. It is clearly a human function all humans seek and enjoy. Some say education is to expensive, but who can calculate the cost of ignorance?
AmbitiousVisionary 1 year ago
@AmbitiousVisionary Since you put it that way, you and I can agree. It seemed to me that you were trying to feed societies sex war by bashing the one that I belong to. Monogamists and sluts of both sexes should be free to be as sexual as they want. Social stygma is unneeded. Double standards need to stop. When a man has sex with a minor, 15 years in prison. If a woman does it, 2 weeks of therapy & 6 months probation. Rediculous. One of my heroes is Susan B. Anthony. I'm all for making it safer.
ElPayasoMalo 1 year ago
Heyheyhey! The Swedish model is taking one hell of a beating here! We are lots of people from two of the parties in the government coalition who're executing the arguments from the defenders of the sex law on a As-they-turn-up basis.
Sweden will abolish this "Swedish model" and replace it with legalization and regulation. It may take time, but we're fed up. That shit is a goner.
Scurmicurv 1 year ago
happy late bday. just saw this vid, the point was great, but i wouldn't complain if yuh danced more in some of your videos. no disrespect promise.
sexcercise101 1 year ago
lol, yes criss now we know what you are offering to "sell" in exchange for money to your paypal account. I suspect if you have a daughter, she will be in grave danger from such teaching; "you need money go work the corner" would be your advice to her. I guess it is easier for idiots like you to spread your legs, get stds, get beaten/raped then get an education and real job; after all, you have no self respect/brains.Keep it low, ho
Creasock 1 year ago
@Creasock Wow. I guess what you lack in any sort of valid argument you make up for in unreasonable anger.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
I agree with everything in this vid. I work as a bouncer on weekends at a stripclub. And I know the stories of the girls there and I totaly support them.
These anti prostitution fanatics are not looking out for the girls that work in this business. They look after their own morals and interests and opinions, usualy based on the bible. Ironicaly the bible sais prostitution is ok. Lol 5/5
DurexDurpaneu2 1 year ago
It is wrong for women to work as prostitutes when there are perfectly good jobs available in coal mining, slauterhouses and general sweatshop industry. But seriously our prohibition on sex only creates people who are sexually immanture. Those are the people i pity and am frightened of. The first part was a joke in case you didn't get it.
01bdbark 1 year ago
I think I agree with your completely.
Yes, normalizing sex work MAY encourage it ,just like alcohol and porn are currently consumed at a high rate, it's far from perfect, but it's better than people being forced into these positions and having victims FROM the lack of choices.
as for stigmatizing, i think it's fair enough to stigmatize buyers, as they're generally poor communicators who can't have free sex. Prostitutes at least can say they have something people pay for.
funwjoshnjenn 1 year ago
I'd get bored with it, but maybe an internship jerking dogs off might be interesting.
shoppingaccount415 1 year ago
I like alot of your ideas but you speak too fast and you don't apparently do much work on reducing your accent, so I find your talk too hard to follow, probably other people have the same difficulty. I've put alot of effort into watching your vids I'm just giving (+) criticism.
And the blood from the mouth, is that ultimately neccessary?
Elricck 1 year ago
I am a Swede that definitely NOT support "the Swedish model".
I would prefer it if prostitution was legalized so the Police would have more resources to go after the the slave-traders instead, as trafficking IS a real crime.
You, my lady, are very bright indeed. Keep up the good work.
BlackWaltz5 1 year ago
I am enjoying this debatish thing going on. Well, it is more of a screaming 'you're annoying' debate but hey.
FlyingSpahghettiMan 1 year ago
Concerning Question ten:
This really does rely on the other stuff, that is prostitution not being ok. If prostitution is ok, why would it be a problem that more people got into that business?
psilorder86 1 year ago
are you ok with:
a) children choosing to deliver newspapers?
b) children choosing to work in the sex industry?
gratex 1 year ago
@gratex i chose c) children shuting the f*%# up and go to sleep
HITMAN0300 1 year ago
@gratex am just joking abouth c) so please dodnt get mad for the bad joke
HITMAN0300 1 year ago
@gratex What does this have to do with anything? I don't think anyone is advocating children working in the sex industry.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@PriscillaRelentless
why not?
if sex work is just work, then why not allow children who want to work in the sex industry to work in it?
gratex 1 year ago
@gratex Where's the logic in that? Why not allow children to become miners or roofers or bus drivers? Because those jobs are dangerous for children and it takes an adult to be able to reason enough to make safe choices in those fields. Same with the sex industry. Just because something's not appropriate for children doesn't mean we should prevent adults from making their own choices about it.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@gratex
I made it clear that I am ok with people having any kind of sex, be it for commercial exchange or not, as long as they are consenting adults.
This is like asking me if I'm ok with :
a) children choosing to eat fish sticks
b) children choosing to drink alcohol
And if I say "no" to to the seconds option it wold somehow demonstrate that no adults should drink alcohol either.
Btw ...apply the "do yo think children should.." argument to all jobs and see what you're left with.
ZOMGitsCriss 1 year ago 11
@ZOMGitsCriss Well said, Criss. As usual. :)
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss
Well apply your argument that legalising prostitution would end sex trafficking to children as well as adults and see what you're left with. Perhaps poor little maddy would not have been kidnapped by a paedophile if the paedo could have went to a willing child prostitute. What I'm doing with this is saying that, although you appear to make absolutist statements that your actualy position is more nuanced than that. You are for prostitution and against it simultaneously...
gratex 1 year ago
@gratex
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which isn't a problem since that's the way most people are, particularly those involved in this little drama on youtube.
gratex 1 year ago
@gratex
As for the drama, I really don't give a crap about "winning" this argument. Don't know how aware you are about prostitution in eastern europe and romania especially but its beyond horrid and things HAVE to change. On the other hand look at new zealand which adopted the most liberal model for decriminalization worldwide. The sex workers now have police protection, collectives, advocacy groups, funded medical care and social assistance and you can hear it from them. If you care to ...
ZOMGitsCriss 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss
I'd rather a society invested in itself rather than investing in police and legislation to protect prostitutes from clients. Prostitution is legal in my country, there are still problems with it, but yes it is an improvement on how things were for prostitutes. Overall I feel that freedom to not be a prostitute is more valuable than freedom to be a prostitute and I think this is the crux of the matter on this issue - it can be seen in all the videos i've watched on this.
gratex 1 year ago
@gratex
"Overall I feel that freedom to not be a prostitute is more valuable than freedom to be a prostitute"
I agree with that but I know it won't happen by keeping prostitution illegal and pretending it ain't there. And until we manage to create a stabile economy and provide more options for those people I am against taking one of their few options away. Not because "I like it", but because I know prohibition only results in a more dangerous environment and working conditions for them.
ZOMGitsCriss 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss
then let's talk about creating stable economies :).
gratex 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss
Instead of being a free person in the natural world, only stupid people sign marriage contracts and submit to the authority of others for control of their property and behavior.
Marriage is a religious fetish. Monogamy is a religious fetish. The whole idea of marriage is a trick used by the churches to control you. (This is why there are laws on prostitution.)
Infidelity? Since when is it required that you only fuck just one person and not fuck whoever you please in nature?
SirWinstonChurchill 1 year ago
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@gratex
Instead of being a free person in the natural world, only stupid people sign marriage contracts and submit to the authority of others for control of their property and behavior.
Marriage is a religious fetish. Monogamy is a religious fetish. The whole idea of marriage is a trick used by the churches to control you.
Infidelity? Since when is it required that you only fuck just one person and not fuck what ever you please in nature? (Yes, even if it is a prostitute.)
SirWinstonChurchill 1 year ago
@gratex
I am not "for prostitution" as you put it. I never said I like it or that it's the ideal job. What I am saying is that keeping it illegal only promotes the black market and furthers the exploitation of the workers. They are abused by their pimps, by the police, by the society, they have no rights, they can't get no help. And my point was that by decriminalizing and taxing it, the money can be used to better combat the illegal sex trafficking AND regulate the industry.
ZOMGitsCriss 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss
Mostly married men use prostitutes... you don't get it, my dear... it is not that prostitution is legal or illegal...
It is all about the artificial constructs imposed by religion... Instead of being a free person in the natural world, only stupid people sign marriage contracts and submit to the authority of others for control of their property and behavior.
Religion requires that you only fuck just one person and not fuck whoever you please in nature without consequences...
SirWinstonChurchill 1 year ago
@ZOMGitsCriss i dont think children shuld eat something as cheap as fish sticks. i mean there is more fresh and healthy options out there. do i want to make fish sticks iligal? no, that whuld be stypid.
gooddarkjedi 1 year ago
Prostitution is unfortunate but necessary, and should be legal. Pornography is necessary and legal. Hopefully in a society with more opportunities and social interest, the sex industry would function in a more egalitarian and equitable fashion.
youngbuck189 1 year ago
Whether you reply to this or not is one thing, but I'd like to know why the fuck you care so much about everything?
Zephaxxx 1 year ago
@Zephaxxx if you don't care about anything stop writing comments
dumbnetworks 1 year ago
@dumbnetworks Who said I don't? Please don't be so presumptious, I asked a question, and I certainly didn't ask you. :)
Zephaxxx 1 year ago
I think the majority of the people that have jobs for major corporations, Fortune 500 companies, retail sales or even fast food have at some point in time felt that they were exploited or taken advantage of by their employers. Legalizing the sex industry make it much safer for everyone involved both by selling although people may still feel exploited it would be more the type of exploiting mentioned at the start of this post, rather than by a pimp, or sex slave.
dbciii 1 year ago
she seems to have a bee in her bonnet about everything doesn't she
spinonthis666 1 year ago
I'm a man and I want prostitution legalized.
Guess how what I said makes me look? It makes me look desperate as if I would pay for a prostitute the moment it was legalized.
If a girl says she wants prostitution legalized, people may think she's a slut.
People are silent on this issue because there are so many negative connotations with you stating you want it legalized.
When presented in this format on youtube as a discussion, it doesn't give that appearance. Well done.
Kahalasama 1 year ago
hey dare
ExNihiloJimmy 1 year ago
I love your videos, I agree with a lot of your views =) Keep it up!
respirimusica 1 year ago
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WhatSayestThou 1 year ago
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being a prostitute / in the porn industry can lead to death / suicide for many people. If you are in this industry get out while you can . Do not be afraid to leave. Pray for God's help . God loves you so, so much.
JesusOurSalvation 1 year ago
Very nice. Excellent video, again.
Prelude610 1 year ago
Wow...Great topic, and you have really fantastic counterpoints to the "questions" and comments as well.
I am, once again, extremely impressed with your presentation of this topic.
Please keep up the great work!
wilgar 1 year ago
Excellent points, Cristina! Prostitution is a great example of what I call "circular morality". Most of the bad consequences of prostitution are directly the result of the fact that it is considered taboo, and the participants are socially condemned. "It has bad consequences, therefore it should be immoral." It only has bad consequences because most of society already considers it "immoral". If we would all just change our minds, see it as a respected profession, then the problems go away.
phizzer 1 year ago
You are so spot on my thoughts its scary, iam from sweden and the swedish model is not an answer but merely a step in the right way.
As many ppl say in amsterdam Legalize!!!
Ateistkanalen 1 year ago
.If you solicit the services of a prostitute it is likely that they have a drug habit of some sort and by giving them money for sex you are keeping them and their drug dealer in business. It's a very unsavory and vicious cycle. As for the rest. You know what makes YOU tick. And it's rather obvious you're using the sex sell bit. You do it everytime you post a video because you're an attractive woman with an accent to boot.
WhatSayestThou 1 year ago
And if youy really want to learn something, check out a movie called Kinsey, or read Sex, Kiss and Money by Gene Simmonds. I find them to be pretty accurate as I would Hitch the movie.....for me that is.
Thank you.
WhatSayestThou 1 year ago
@WhatSayestThou
I don't think there's any accurate stats that reveal how many prostitutes are addicted to drugs. we often imagine streetwalkers, but they are a minority among prostitutes.
what about other people in other professions who may have drug habits? Should we stop patronizing them and leave them without income? How exactly would that help them or anyone else? Should we deny people the right to make an income if we don't like how they spend their money?
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago
i was watching this video while my cousin was watching porn a few feet away
MikaelDryden 1 year ago
@MikaelDryden creepy
CamronJLB 1 year ago
@CamronJLB creepy: no,unless you consider hearing loud sex moans while she speaks about sex.....huh, i quess it is kinda creepy?
MikaelDryden 1 year ago
The point of the poverty argument is that sex is different.
If a law school grad is poor and has to become an attorney to pay off his debts, then boo hoo for him. What a hard life.
If a high school graduate is poor and is forced to become an electrician, then he works on wiring all week.
But if someone is poor and is forced to have sex . . .
they are being forced to have SEX against their will. That's fundamentally different.
No one should be forced to have SEX against his or her will.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider And why should sex be different? Basically your whole point is "sex is something special and sacred to me and therefore it should be sacred and special for everyone else".
"But if someone is poor and is forced to have sex . . ."By "forced" I gues you mean "cant make a living other way" . Well one more reason to legalize it, cause he would do it anyway (or starve to death). If he can find other job that means he wasnt "forced" and that it was his own choice ; )
DKzgd 1 year ago
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DKzgd 1 year ago
@DKzgd
It's cool when one can see sex as sacred and treat your lover's body as sacred, but that doesn't relate to this.
I don't want anyone to force me to have sex. You're saying that "the poor" are fundamentally different from me. I don't think they are. I'm pretty poor myself.
I don't think anyone wants to be forced to have sex. Even the poor.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@DKzgd
If the wealthy FAIL to nurture a healthy, vibrant economy that creates decent jobs . . .
their punishment is that they have to pay taxes. And then government should use that money to provide higher education or job training or jobs to those people who would otherwise starve.
Forcing people to have sex is not some "brilliant" "ingenious" "solution" to a failed economy. It's just a symptom of a failed economy.
We can do better.
Create real jobs that pay.
ReliableInsider 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider hmm i see your line of thought, you are afraid that if prostitution was legalized, government would drop its efforts in helping "poor" people with the excuse "you can always sell your body".
Well this isnt the economical issue, it is issue of personal freedom. You are restricting individual's basic rights in an attemt to make government do its job. Government should provide education and job training for the "poor" even prostitution was legal.
DKzgd 1 year ago
@ReliableInsider
What if someone simply thinks it's preferable to work in prostitution rather than work an entry level minimum wage job? Maybe they're not thrilled with being a prostitute but still prefer it to the alternatives? Shouldn't they have the right to make that decision for themselves?
I agree no one should be FORCED into a job. I do think people should have the right to weigh the pros and cons and decide for themselves.
PriscillaRelentless 1 year ago