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From: IgnoranceIsNotCute
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  • wise words towards the end. thank you for being open and sharing.

  • I will watch this more than once. Jesus. I needed to see this!

  • oooh your so lovely. l'm sorry you had to go through so much to discover who you really are. I hope you're in a happy place now.

  • Omg, i saw that documentary as well! I'm 20, a final year student at university. Also a uk black lesbian/ bi sexual girl. Thanks for this, its really helpful in so many ways hard to write on a youtube comment :') please do more x

  • I love the way u talk ...n also u r talking real things

  • This was amazingly relevant. Your truths are important. Continue to impart your wisdom and travels with us sista!

  • do you think someone could make themselves gay?

  • That was beautiful babe.

    Your girlfriend is a lucky woman! I have to say that I'm a bit jealous :P

  • That was beautiful babe.

    Your girlfriend is a lucky woman!

    I'm a bit jealous :P

  • Absolutely beautiful!!

  • Watching this video is my epiphany. I can definitely relate to this video.

  • thank you for this video. it really helped me think about things.

  • Thankyou so much ,, youve made me think and relise what my seualitly is without confussion xx

  • Lovin the story bout ya 1st... can relate to yo vids... i jus broke off an engagement a couple weeks ago & still going through the guilty phase specially coz I have already met a girl i like! Apart from guilt, i'm feeling positive bout the future... something i havent felt in a while. Keep the good work up! x x x

  • how does.... did it feel to talk about this finally?

  • what you are saying is so true. i actually convinced myself that if i found the right man...he would turn me straight. So i dated numerous men in the hope that i could fit in with the "normal people" in the society. I even gave up on love, but then i met my current partner and she put me back on track. Thanks so much for doing this video!! Bless.

  • You are awesomely beautiful and sexy! LOL

    I love your UK accent, your intelligence to go along with it and your elaboration!

    Keep doing your thing girl!

  • thank you so much for sharing ur story and the story of the woman who wrote the letter. seriously.

  • i feel u 110% on this whole thing...even tho i realized my sexuality i still question if i should sick wit it or if i should get married(2 a man) bc thats wat i should do according 2 society(nd my family who dont know)...but this was a wonderful blog nd on a lighter note wat were those last 2 songs that played at around 6:00 nd 9:00

    much love...

  • Your a amazing person. Brillant documentary!

  • this was my first time checking this video and i find it very well put together...we need more of this for our young gays and lesbians.keep it up...

  • you have already made a difference in my life, in a way i cant describe, so thank you.

  • cool story

    what was this documantary called?

  • Ignoranceisnotcute: Hi I'm in L.A. and I would love to meet you. I've never been to London. I imagine seeing it with you. You make me laugh and think. There is something so comforting about listening to you. It's very empowering too. I've been out for years and I love the progress I see in the world for gay people. You are a manifestation of that progress in the sense that you express yourself with such confidence and pride. You are helping alot of people to live a better life. God Bless You.

  • Gob bless you 2.

  • lovely story...thank you for sharing and being honest.

  • thank you so much joana0531 for watching and commenting peace x

  • yes gal, mi naah lie, mi rate yuh

  • Thank you very much katciasaint, bless x

  • Hello again. IgnoranceIsNotCute, I feel with the break up between you and your ex-fiance, it should not have ended like that. You were honest from the start of the relationship so I do not understand why your ex-fiance was very upset. He knew your how you felt from the start also I understand, both of your hearts and feelings were strong for each other. Possibly there's more details to your relationship than what was explained so I am just going by what you stated. Thanks for the video. :)

  • I hear you but after 3 years I think maybe he felt I could "change" but when he realised that wasn't likely he rebelled...yes he and I did have an extreme emotional attachment.

    Thank you for watching peace x

  • I think this is a message that so many need to hear, it is very real and honest. This is the 2nd of your videos I've seen, you are definetly being added as a favorite, please know that you are appreciated. We need more people out there communicating about their experiences, thanks girlie.

  • Thank you so much Jequiche! Your words have really struck a positive cord with me! Peace x

  • Hello Ms. IgnoranceIsNotCute. From your video you seem alot like what I imagine my wife to be like. I am a lesbian and im starting to understand how blessed I was to have a family that believes I am always right and who love me so dearly that no matter what I was loved. I actually never bothered coming out because being who I was never something to be discussed. My family knew it and when we finally talked about it, it was like, "Ok. We know, whats for dessert?" Anyway, thats my spill. God Bless

  • You're a very lucky person! Stay blessed, peace x

  • Awesome video... I think you're the first black uk lesbian I've seen on here. All the others are american - and no-one else has given such a good retelling of how they came out / what they felt. "Gay, not blind" - ha, I agree 100%

  • Thank you sincerely for the kind words and the support! Stay blessed, peace

  • whoo girlll yu dont know it but yu just hit the nail i think yur the best thing eva yur real i can feel yu ova here in africa anyways kudos 2 yu ima have to email yu bout my bullshit life

  • I am glad you were able to relate to my vids hun, you and I will talk soon, peace and love to you!

  • This is a great video, you are so real! I am totally subcribing!

  • Thank you! Peace x

  • I always wondered how long it would take before someone started their foolish advertising on one of my vids...LMAO

  • lol

  • ture

  • Sorry did you mean, pure or true, I can't tell lol

  • I think it's just that less women speak out.

  • Real talk, pt 1 and 2 love it. Fresh perspective at it's best.

  • Thank you love, ya support is very much appreciated

  • Oh man! This was a good video, I want to know what ever happened to your first girlfriend? Did you regret breaking up with her? Do you have a girlfriend now? This was a very informative video, I hope you help others.

  • Thanks hun, for watching I hope my video does help anyone who needs this advice, peace

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