I have said pretty much ALL of these things! Hahaha, especially "I really think everybody is bisexual" and "Everybody just assumes because I'm bisexual I've had a threesome".
I've said only two of these. For years I identified myself as bisexual. After some interesting experiences it was "pansexual", I now prefer polysexual. "Pansexual" means all genders, but "polysexual" means many genders. That's a significant difference.
As for threesomes, well... more than I can remember. I've gone higher than three, too. But I'm not polyamorous. Just because I'm having sex doesn't mean I'm in love.
As for "No, I'm bisexual, you're confused", I've said it & had the t-shirt!
"No, I've never had a threesome. Everyone just assumes, because I'm bisexual, that I've had a threesome." I love that one. People assume all sorts of things. If you really want to know, just ask.
I actually HATE the ''Everyone is bisexual'' trope. It's like ''Hey, I'm a part of a minority who always has my sexuality questioned and denied, so you know what would be fun? To erase everyone else's sexual identities too! They might SAY they're not bi, but I know EVERYONE's bi, right?''
@alissewonder Though I don't agree with it, I don't think that's exactly their argument. It's more of the idea that hey, deep inside we're all individuals that love. We are all capable of love, yes? And the way our society is constructed, only the heterosexual expression of it is allowed. What about the Greeks? Eh, I think it's interesting.
@PurelyUnpure Yeah, but there are diferent types of love. Some ppl just don't respond sexually to a certain gender or genders. And the Greeks actually had a pretty narrow view of sexuality, where an older citizen would play the "active" role in a sexual relationship with a younger man or a slave. It was a source of shame to be the "bottom" in a relationship if you were a citizen, cause you would be "putting yourself in the place of a woman". Not as "open to love" as ppl seem to think.
@alissewonder I've said that and i'm straight. but really, everyone's ~looked~ at the same sex before...Doesn't mean they're actually bi, though, so i get you.
@alissewonder Dude, you're operating under the assumption that bisexuals, and homosexuals, make up a minority as "anomalies" while everyone else is born under the default of hetero. That's not how it works. People arent born either straight bi or gay, even Sigmund Freud concluded that were are all born bisexual until through experiences we revert to Monosexism by suppressing the "other side" of our own sexuality. We're all bi, just t varying degrees. You dont know it until you experience it.
@PsycheDelectic Sigmund theory is considerate false nowadays, try to read some more actual like Simon LeVay works about sexually... the sexual orientation is something biological and you can be gay, hetero or bi.
@isnotaoriginalname You're dead wrong. FIrst of all sigmund's theory is not considered false it is still extremely useful for psycho-analysis. Second, sexual orientation is NOT biological! There is no gay gene. There is no hormone that makes someone like men or women. Orientation can change over time through experiences. If you never even experimented or dared to even look at gay porn then you don't know if you don't like it or not. Everyone is biologically bisexual.
@PsycheDelectic So you're tyring to tell me that someone who's NEVER found a person of their same sex atractive, never had a crush on a person of the same sex, never had the slightest desire or curiosity to be with someone of the same sex, can one day try it and go "Huh...it seems I rather like this thing that was never actractive to me at all"? I doubt it.
@isnotaoriginalname Look in the animal world, and tell me if animals are born gay, bi, or hetero. They aren't. They don't put things it categories. There isn't an animal who exclusively has sex with the same sex in nature. Males help other males get off when they are horny, and when they see a female they still try to have sex. sex is sex. If anything, some people have a PREFERENCE to women or men, but if they tried sex with the other gender they would still find ways to like it.
@PsycheDelectic Actually, there are. There are male sheep who prefer other males to females, in to the point of not mating with females at all. While your point might be correct for many species, there seems to be homosexual animals.
@isnotaoriginalname I will say that sexuality is biological, that is, we are sexual organisms, we have hormones and organs that makes us sexual animals, we like to have sex. Biology stops at there. After that, it is cultural and psychological. You are attracted to who you train yourself to be attracted to through experiences. If the first person you ha sex with was a man, you will probably repeat that behavior again because you realized it wasnt so weird. same with a female. understand?
@PsycheDelectic Not, look too many women are raped when they are virgins and even they have a bad first experiences, they don't leave to be hetero sexual lalety... the same in the other way, there is gay people who have heterosexual experiences and don't enjoy it at first time. and so on! but my English is not so good to explain it, i recommend you LeVay work, he give the best argument, and he research are very strong and impartial, just give it a check, would be interesting!
@isnotaoriginalname I looked him up and found that his studies were limited to exclusively 100% homosexuals, which is a minority of the male population as a whole, and his whole theory is that people are gay because an area of their brain didn't develop right in the womb, which I think is total bs. So to him either your brain is functioning properly or it isn't. In reality, 100% homos are just as rare as 100% heteros, the majority of males sit somewhere in the middle ground, not brain damaged.
@PsycheDelectic He never talked "a brain damaged", he talked about different construction... anyway that has to be one of his first works, His last work is very complete, and it has too many reference and different experiments with men/women homo/hetero.. (not bi pitifully =/) And keeping in mind childhood, prenatal situation, gene and even talking about others theorys like the Sigmund one.. well we are tiring anyone.. good bye!
@PsycheDelectic You do realize ppl have crushes and fall in love and have sexual fantasies and desires before they have sex for the first time, right? And that the person they have sex for the first time with is smn whom they probably chose based on the gender or genders that they already know they're actracted to?
@alissewonder@alissewonder Yes, I am trying to tell you that, and no, I don't realize that. You develop a taste for things. Before the first time someone has sex they don't know wtf they want, they only know what they're "supposed" to want. Someone trains their sexual orientation and fetishes through porn. If they never even try watching gay porn or experimented with another man they don't know if they like it or not. after they try it they might even start to be turned on by the idea afterward
@PsycheDelectic Okay then, you seemed to have grown up around ppl who didn't have sexual and romantic feelings and desires before they had sex for the first time. I don't remember ever having met this kind of people in my life, but whatever, there's no point in keep this conversation going if we're operating from such diferent POVs.
@PsycheDelectic The idea that someone's sexuality is programmed by other(s) during their formative years is not only almost entirely wrong, it's dangerous. Logically, it leads to repressive cultures trying to program heterosexuality into children, so you get "pray away the gay" & other methods of torture (yes, that is torture) intended to reprogram, or - if the "patient" is young enough - program them. Such methods often lead to suicide.
@FilthyPazuzu It's true, it would lead to repressive cultures trying to program heterosexuality into children, and that's what IS happening! and to a very large extent working! However, there have been studies that say that programs to change sexual orientation are not proven to be psychologically damaging. So even if it doesnt fit into your little schema of what is politically correct, this is reality, sexuality is malleable and shaped by cultural institutions, and that everyone is born bi.
@PsycheDelectic No, I'm operating under the assumption that there are many diferent sexual orientations in the world, and I have no right to invalidate what a person has to say abt THEIR feelings, desires and self-identification. And I'm pretty sure smn who's never felt sexual desire or romantic love for a person of the same sex it's not going to suddenly "discover" that they actually like it if they do it.
@alissewonder Someone cannot say they aren't bi until they have experienced sex with both genders. That's the truth. Before the word gay came around in western civilization, men would have sex with other men universally, men were not divided into two distinct categories, but sexual play between men was seen as a natural part of manhood. Only recently has same-sex play been associated with feminine behavior and thus makes men want to distance themselves from it and claim they are straight.
@alissewonder Yeah, I'm bisexual and I fucking hate that. No, not everybody is bisexual. You do not get to define other people's sexual identities for them.
I have said pretty much ALL of these things! Hahaha, especially "I really think everybody is bisexual" and "Everybody just assumes because I'm bisexual I've had a threesome".
YeruV 5 days ago
I've said only two of these. For years I identified myself as bisexual. After some interesting experiences it was "pansexual", I now prefer polysexual. "Pansexual" means all genders, but "polysexual" means many genders. That's a significant difference.
As for threesomes, well... more than I can remember. I've gone higher than three, too. But I'm not polyamorous. Just because I'm having sex doesn't mean I'm in love.
As for "No, I'm bisexual, you're confused", I've said it & had the t-shirt!
FilthyPazuzu 5 days ago
everytime i watch this video i keep saying"God RichAndFamous is soooooo freakin cute"
ventusaccent6 1 week ago
@ventusaccent6 i like that about you ;)
RitchandFamous 1 week ago
HOLY CRAP, I've said a lot of these...lol
JAThames 2 weeks ago
This is so true! It's good to be able to laugh about yourself every once in a while, :)
Alika613 4 weeks ago
So funny love the last part lol the best reply in the world lmfao
t1234odd5 4 weeks ago
I'm actually a Kinsey 5, when people hear that they back off. I've said way too many of these.
TheMaineShout 1 month ago
Hey now, don't forget that B's love T's!
selenite1 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
"Captain Jack is, like, who I want to be when I grow up." <-- hahaha So great.
Clayford27 1 month ago
YES!!! WINNING!
because it's all about being bisexual and getting pissy when people confuse you for being a slut. So glad you made this :D
OneJumpFromEden 1 month ago
Sexy bi man.
MargaretHJ 1 month ago
I love how you yourself proposed the bisexual tri-hawk in your "No, I'm bisexual, you're confused"-T-shirt-wearing video.
LokcedUot 1 month ago
I'm pretty sure I've said most of these. XD
SuperNovaSpark 1 month ago
i am bisexually laughing so hard
themirrorbird 1 month ago
yep, definitely said a good amount of these.
and i can't look at my dashboard in class.
SilasCilice 1 month ago 2
@SilasCilice filthy!
RitchandFamous 1 month ago
This is so great. I definitely say over half these things.
OHAITHEREITSME 1 month ago
loooooool omg
I want a t-shirt that says that.
NotQuiteLucid 1 month ago
"yeah, I can't look at my Tumblr dashboard at work" OH.MY.GOD.
SammyKeyes11 1 month ago 2
Yup. This is pretty much accurate, especially the Kinsey scale bit
neffersions 1 month ago
"No, I'm bisexual; you're confused"
Win.
TyroKinkyKitty 1 month ago
Yep, I've definitely said at least three fourths of these. Awesome funny vid!
MariPoncho12 1 month ago
this describes me right down to the tumblr. except the pansexual thing. everything else was perfect
MrMarleywashere 1 month ago
This video = FUCK YES!
Tatsuyoujo 1 month ago
LOL! This is hilarious. XD
NimbusDX 1 month ago
"No, I've never had a threesome. Everyone just assumes, because I'm bisexual, that I've had a threesome." I love that one. People assume all sorts of things. If you really want to know, just ask.
jevist69 1 month ago 3
Yay for the Captain Jack reference!
Abena20 1 month ago 14
"Bisexual until proven otherwise" is my motto!
yuugiho 1 month ago 18
Not sure if this is accurate, but your delivery is very profession/funny!
UhtheMusic 1 month ago
hahahaha this is perfect
HeyJeremyC 1 month ago
i've said like 75% of these
hilsongirl 1 month ago
I say all of these things approximately 15,000 times a day.
alegna688 1 month ago 2
This is great!!!
swim4scofield 1 month ago
I love this!! :D
blendedchaitea 1 month ago
whee that was great
Giasideways 1 month ago
THANK YOU FOR BEING BI AND THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!!!!!
MetalAnimeSword 1 month ago 11
@MetalAnimeSword Both are so much work, you're welcome
RitchandFamous 1 month ago 2
I actually HATE the ''Everyone is bisexual'' trope. It's like ''Hey, I'm a part of a minority who always has my sexuality questioned and denied, so you know what would be fun? To erase everyone else's sexual identities too! They might SAY they're not bi, but I know EVERYONE's bi, right?''
alissewonder 1 month ago 6
@alissewonder Though I don't agree with it, I don't think that's exactly their argument. It's more of the idea that hey, deep inside we're all individuals that love. We are all capable of love, yes? And the way our society is constructed, only the heterosexual expression of it is allowed. What about the Greeks? Eh, I think it's interesting.
PurelyUnpure 1 month ago 7
@PurelyUnpure Yeah, but there are diferent types of love. Some ppl just don't respond sexually to a certain gender or genders. And the Greeks actually had a pretty narrow view of sexuality, where an older citizen would play the "active" role in a sexual relationship with a younger man or a slave. It was a source of shame to be the "bottom" in a relationship if you were a citizen, cause you would be "putting yourself in the place of a woman". Not as "open to love" as ppl seem to think.
alissewonder 3 weeks ago
@alissewonder sweet irony
RitchandFamous 1 month ago
@alissewonder I've said that and i'm straight. but really, everyone's ~looked~ at the same sex before...Doesn't mean they're actually bi, though, so i get you.
Vanessa66Hey99 1 month ago
@alissewonder Dude, you're operating under the assumption that bisexuals, and homosexuals, make up a minority as "anomalies" while everyone else is born under the default of hetero. That's not how it works. People arent born either straight bi or gay, even Sigmund Freud concluded that were are all born bisexual until through experiences we revert to Monosexism by suppressing the "other side" of our own sexuality. We're all bi, just t varying degrees. You dont know it until you experience it.
PsycheDelectic 1 month ago
@PsycheDelectic Sigmund theory is considerate false nowadays, try to read some more actual like Simon LeVay works about sexually... the sexual orientation is something biological and you can be gay, hetero or bi.
isnotaoriginalname 1 month ago
@isnotaoriginalname You're dead wrong. FIrst of all sigmund's theory is not considered false it is still extremely useful for psycho-analysis. Second, sexual orientation is NOT biological! There is no gay gene. There is no hormone that makes someone like men or women. Orientation can change over time through experiences. If you never even experimented or dared to even look at gay porn then you don't know if you don't like it or not. Everyone is biologically bisexual.
PsycheDelectic 1 month ago
@PsycheDelectic So you're tyring to tell me that someone who's NEVER found a person of their same sex atractive, never had a crush on a person of the same sex, never had the slightest desire or curiosity to be with someone of the same sex, can one day try it and go "Huh...it seems I rather like this thing that was never actractive to me at all"? I doubt it.
alissewonder 3 weeks ago
@isnotaoriginalname Look in the animal world, and tell me if animals are born gay, bi, or hetero. They aren't. They don't put things it categories. There isn't an animal who exclusively has sex with the same sex in nature. Males help other males get off when they are horny, and when they see a female they still try to have sex. sex is sex. If anything, some people have a PREFERENCE to women or men, but if they tried sex with the other gender they would still find ways to like it.
PsycheDelectic 1 month ago
@PsycheDelectic Actually, there are. There are male sheep who prefer other males to females, in to the point of not mating with females at all. While your point might be correct for many species, there seems to be homosexual animals.
LaninaGilhi 1 month ago
@isnotaoriginalname I will say that sexuality is biological, that is, we are sexual organisms, we have hormones and organs that makes us sexual animals, we like to have sex. Biology stops at there. After that, it is cultural and psychological. You are attracted to who you train yourself to be attracted to through experiences. If the first person you ha sex with was a man, you will probably repeat that behavior again because you realized it wasnt so weird. same with a female. understand?
PsycheDelectic 1 month ago
@PsycheDelectic Not, look too many women are raped when they are virgins and even they have a bad first experiences, they don't leave to be hetero sexual lalety... the same in the other way, there is gay people who have heterosexual experiences and don't enjoy it at first time. and so on! but my English is not so good to explain it, i recommend you LeVay work, he give the best argument, and he research are very strong and impartial, just give it a check, would be interesting!
isnotaoriginalname 1 month ago
@isnotaoriginalname I looked him up and found that his studies were limited to exclusively 100% homosexuals, which is a minority of the male population as a whole, and his whole theory is that people are gay because an area of their brain didn't develop right in the womb, which I think is total bs. So to him either your brain is functioning properly or it isn't. In reality, 100% homos are just as rare as 100% heteros, the majority of males sit somewhere in the middle ground, not brain damaged.
PsycheDelectic 1 month ago
@PsycheDelectic He never talked "a brain damaged", he talked about different construction... anyway that has to be one of his first works, His last work is very complete, and it has too many reference and different experiments with men/women homo/hetero.. (not bi pitifully =/) And keeping in mind childhood, prenatal situation, gene and even talking about others theorys like the Sigmund one.. well we are tiring anyone.. good bye!
isnotaoriginalname 1 month ago
@PsycheDelectic You do realize ppl have crushes and fall in love and have sexual fantasies and desires before they have sex for the first time, right? And that the person they have sex for the first time with is smn whom they probably chose based on the gender or genders that they already know they're actracted to?
alissewonder 3 weeks ago
@alissewonder @alissewonder Yes, I am trying to tell you that, and no, I don't realize that. You develop a taste for things. Before the first time someone has sex they don't know wtf they want, they only know what they're "supposed" to want. Someone trains their sexual orientation and fetishes through porn. If they never even try watching gay porn or experimented with another man they don't know if they like it or not. after they try it they might even start to be turned on by the idea afterward
PsycheDelectic 2 weeks ago
@PsycheDelectic Okay then, you seemed to have grown up around ppl who didn't have sexual and romantic feelings and desires before they had sex for the first time. I don't remember ever having met this kind of people in my life, but whatever, there's no point in keep this conversation going if we're operating from such diferent POVs.
alissewonder 1 week ago
@PsycheDelectic The idea that someone's sexuality is programmed by other(s) during their formative years is not only almost entirely wrong, it's dangerous. Logically, it leads to repressive cultures trying to program heterosexuality into children, so you get "pray away the gay" & other methods of torture (yes, that is torture) intended to reprogram, or - if the "patient" is young enough - program them. Such methods often lead to suicide.
FilthyPazuzu 5 days ago
@FilthyPazuzu It's true, it would lead to repressive cultures trying to program heterosexuality into children, and that's what IS happening! and to a very large extent working! However, there have been studies that say that programs to change sexual orientation are not proven to be psychologically damaging. So even if it doesnt fit into your little schema of what is politically correct, this is reality, sexuality is malleable and shaped by cultural institutions, and that everyone is born bi.
PsycheDelectic 5 days ago
@PsycheDelectic No, I'm operating under the assumption that there are many diferent sexual orientations in the world, and I have no right to invalidate what a person has to say abt THEIR feelings, desires and self-identification. And I'm pretty sure smn who's never felt sexual desire or romantic love for a person of the same sex it's not going to suddenly "discover" that they actually like it if they do it.
alissewonder 3 weeks ago
@alissewonder Someone cannot say they aren't bi until they have experienced sex with both genders. That's the truth. Before the word gay came around in western civilization, men would have sex with other men universally, men were not divided into two distinct categories, but sexual play between men was seen as a natural part of manhood. Only recently has same-sex play been associated with feminine behavior and thus makes men want to distance themselves from it and claim they are straight.
PsycheDelectic 1 month ago
@alissewonder Yeah, I'm bisexual and I fucking hate that. No, not everybody is bisexual. You do not get to define other people's sexual identities for them.
sprmrktpnkrcktvcmdy 3 weeks ago
I think I've said all of these...
junipermama1 1 month ago
I loved this. Good job.
Marcharig 1 month ago
I ADORE EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS!
Yeah, I've either either and/or thought almost everything on here. Especially the part about hitting on people. I flirt with almost everyone. XD
thisiamdenied 1 month ago
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jevist69 1 month ago 13
@jevist69 interestingly you can look up SOPA ;)
ruolbu 1 month ago
@ruolbu I took my comment down, as it was a one day exception to my rule of not stealing threads. Thanks for taking part.
jevist69 1 month ago
<3 <3 <3
pandoraxsage 1 month ago
no the American Torchwood sucked arse!
bisocialnetwork 1 month ago
LOL I've heard everyday word of what you said! sharing the love on this one!
bisocialnetwork 1 month ago
wow ive said most of these ... yay for being bi lol.
8peregrint8 1 month ago
If I said one of those phrases before... am I bisexual?
carmenvegal 1 month ago
Awesome!
OldManLochinvar 1 month ago
lololol hilarious!!! XD
MissLucyBoomer 1 month ago
I've actually said most of these, esp. the F Dan Savage one.
OtherGonzo 1 month ago 2
Fuck, I've actually said some of those. XD
SymbioteGangsta 1 month ago
YES all of this!
purplefrog42 1 month ago
OMG. DYINGGGGGGGGGGGGG. SO TRUE.
japigrrrl 1 month ago
My phone closed this twice before it let me watch. I think my phone wants to be gay w/ Dan Savage. YOU DON'T CONTROL MY INTERNETING, PHONE!
tessie957 1 month ago
I used to think I was bisexual until I realised I'm just 60% gay man, 40% lesbian and 100% homosexual... at least some days.
brianbubblegun 1 month ago
ACCURATE.
cosmosanddemos 1 month ago
Apparently the bisexuals you have encountered are very different from the ones I have...
SephieRothe 1 month ago
You're making all kinds of sense
LadyLolitaJenny 1 month ago
@LadyLolitaJenny theres a first for everything
RitchandFamous 1 month ago
0:30 No F' Dan Savage. Can I second that one?
fuzzynippleman 1 month ago
@fuzzynippleman
yes please!
dropsoffaith 1 month ago