Relationship Advice : How to Get Over Being Cheated On

[LucyInTheTree]

I was cheated on online, my bf got a pic of another girl in undies and tried to get more, the girl had a bf too and was the one to say no we shouldn't be doing this. I discovered the msn convo by genuine accident on his laptop, he was at work when I found out and I get panic attacks so I rang his work and said it was an emergency. his upset and guilt and worry over the phone seemed to calm me down enough so I could fall asleep on the sofa for when he got home. he was absolutely the most upset I

[xkingkittyx]

My girl cheated on me :/ atleast i got her virginity

[BeautifulBloodStone]

* I don't want to blindly keep on dating him when he loves someone else.......Sorry about the mistakes

[BeautifulBloodStone]

* I don't want to c

[BeautifulBloodStone]

I've just been cheated on......I was cheated online on a social avatar website thing.....it was extremely hurtful like all break ups are but we had so much in common and he was so nice and sweet I loved him a lot.....but I don't anymore and I'm glad that I knew that he cheated on me coz I don't want to be

[TheXxangelwingxX]

im sorry but if someone cheats on you (mainly men are cheaters) you dont sit down and work it out you DUMP them and move on they lost their chance with you they dont deserve another once a cheater always a cheater

[dragonslayerED30]

oh yeah...Ive been cheated on...it is the worst...and I LOVED HER....it drove me mad...I actually attempted suicide...yep....jumped RIGHT in front of a speeding car right on a highway....Im lucky Im here...women are HORRIBLE...or can be...they really statistictly are emotionally wildly abusive to men..when angered or vengeful....

[Esterztarz]

@R0Y1LL yep those people shud never get a 2nd chance ...so true

[arizona1105]

advice never get a chick thats being cheated by an ex boyfriend they get scared forever so they will always gonna think your'e cheating on them, so they would feel good they will cheat on you too

[bodyboardrep]

i need to ask a question! someone who actually is mature and isnt a stupid retard please message me i really need help about a cheating girlfriend would meen alot if someone helped... thanks

[123bignut]

people save yourself some time, money,rent,heart ache,pain,suffering,time,dease­,if you fallout of love with your mate just say you want out,have heart.cause there are women who will cheat lie and it to the grave and put it all on you make you feel like you doing something wrong knowing their the guilty ones.i think i you are caught cheating you should confess so you both can start over talk it through re-root new grounds so you both can start recover.

[123bignut]

when my gf after four years hurt me by cheating left me took the kids i grew to love so much took them in if they were my own.i wonder sometimes what go,s through there minds when they do it?we use to be so close.we lived on the phone we knew every move we both made.when i knew she was steppin out i notice a sudden way about her that didnt fit our daily activities.people note:when you move in with someone you tend to expose who you really are they learn everything about you so why cheat .

[123bignut]

i found my gf cheating online on rude.com live web cams i found out she was a stripper i found out she sales her body for money.listen this mentally traumatized me its got me down and has been down for six months it truly hurt me just knowing i have a chance to share this with the world it makes me feel better.85% of deaths in the world nation wide comes from cheating mates just moving on with my life is enough to kill her spirit i have never been hurt this way in my life.

[jonjaye360]

well i just got cheated on... and i found out through my friends.. i dont know what to do. i mean my realationship with her affects my everyday life. i always see her at school.. and maybe its me but i think that im taking it too seriously... idk but please help me with my situation

[darkoni12398]

my girlfriend of 5 years let another guy court her for the last couple months. She felt a little neglected by me and I could understand but she eventually kissed him and never told me or gave me a chance to fix what was wrong or get closure. I feel bad because I have to sit here without her while shes running off with the guy at this very minute. The more I pushed fo her to give us a chance the more she closed off and used me. I need to just forget about a girl who respects me so little

[thedudeiscj]

Just a psycological question: why do humans value monogamy so much? (not protesting monogamy, just questioning it.)

[macoytart]

a CHEATER is always a CHEATER..

[BlateroStulidum]

I was sure I was being cheated on, so I asked him. He denied it, and it turned out to be true. He hadn't been cheating on me! He'd been cheating WITH me. Which is basically the same if you, like me, had no friggin' idea there's someone else. So don't be mad at people your spouse cheated you with. Many don't realise which one came first. We are just as furious, angry, sad and hurt. Let's take the cheaters down together by ditching them and saving our love for someone who deserves us!!!!

[erifica]

This isn't helpful. I want to know how to get over it when you don't stay with the cheater.

[proevo4driver]

ive just been cheated on again its for the 4th time and am only 24 all the lies and betrayal eats you alive but you do get thru it but omg what a journey time heals and noone can make the hurt go away but stay busy no matter how hard it is even if you want to curl up in a ball and cry and cry and i know everything reminds you of them but stay busy and stay around friends and family but you need to learn to love your self again and find confidence in your self again

[VRJensen1]

@proevo4driver Self Confidence can be nigh impossible after being cheated onbut realize that no matter what mistakes you've made, unless you are a spouse beater, nobody deserves to be cheated on. and let your spouse know that if it happens again you're gone before they can hickup! Lay Down the Law and Put them in the Dog House! no Friends No going out without you etc. etc. and they need to rebuild your trust.

[nickmayer152]

fuck trying to get together with your partner after being cheated on, I cant even believe there are people in this world who actually forgive and continue on with their relationship. Cheating is one of the most disrespectful things someone can do to you. Ive been cheated on once and ended it immediately. Its one of the hardest things to deal with and i know other people whove gone through it. I dont wish it upon most. You just have to let go and move on, time will heal you.

[AudieOz101]

We all have something in common...

we were all cheated on..

I know the feeling...

I have been crying myself to sleep..

and this stupid psyciatrist is talking about how to BRING BACK those feelings..

but I'm sorry, I just need to GET OVER him.

[ANDREW26101]

my girlfriend has her phone off she does not pick up and being distant i have no idea if she is cheating or not i confornt her and she saying no am not but she is not playing her role i dont want realtionship any more because i can do it any more my heart cant take being emtional disable and not eating and working right

[larrythestoner415]

@ANDREW26101 yo bro, I know how ur feeling I know EXACTLY how ur feeling, know that your not the only one we're all sharing the same pain and I know ur probly thinking like, no theres no one else like her and u dont want another to have her, with the girl I was with I felt like that and still do im trying my hardest to get over her, I know I will, we all will, stay focused man its all good, peace

[Djinnlover]

ive been cheated on my boy. he was with 5 diff girls the whole time we dated, any idea why he would do a thing like that?

[BovineRoadBlock]

Some people are afraid of commitment. Don't blame it on yourself though - usually, the reason they havent told you is because its a problem with them - like they cant keep a single focus - and they are to ashamed to tell anyone. None the less, have a nice day.

[abcabcabcS]

coz he's a stupid cock, and you deserve better.

[colly2222]

I just found I was cheated on

:(

I feel so hurt

[ivanyoulube]

i dont think i can get over it..im 16 i gave her another chance and it happend today.... i dont think i can get over it cuz i was broken the first time and to be so stupid to let it happen again...

[jessymayrocksx]

omg thts awful!! i cudnt cheat on someone id feel awful...try get ur mind of it and let her see that you dont care about her even if u do cause tht will relii annoy her