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  • about time theres a girl that agrees with the ladder theory. fml.

  • If love exists, how come a good looking girl never falls in love with a fat guy who has an awesome personality but only with the tall handsome guy?

    good thing i'm ripped

  • All of them produce the same rubbish

  • Lets face it, the only reason we clicked this thumbnail on the right is because of the face.

  • I WOULD SUCK ON THOSE NICE ASIAN TITTTTTIES

  • this bitches advice is useless she just states the obvious there is a way out of the friend zone and its not game over until a girl gets married useless bitch your advice sucks balls you dont help anyone out

  • dumbass women has no clue wat shes talking about

  • Women should seriously stop expecting endless list of qualities and whatnot from a guy. Stop making this life fucking complicated.

  • ppl cheat if they can. Done Deal

  • Friend Zone = loser desperate for female companionship

  • Thanks and I'm right I don't want my girl to be a hypnosed slave

  • good advice

    

  • Billthetrainer that hippnoses she loves for what you said not for you like I said hipnosses

  • i dont know what did you talk here...

    But

    Are u still single..??

    i think we should meet at bar and would be having a grt night together...!!!

    what do you think...??

    You look so hot and off course you have grt boobies..!!

    S*******...:))))

  • Ok so theres this girl I really like, but I just found out that she only thinks of me as a good friend. But I asked her on a date and she said yes before I found out what she thinks of me. What should I do?

  • @Legola120 Go with it. You never know, you may impress her on the date.

  • god the bodonga music sucks!

  • This was some good advice. Thanks Vanae! You earned my subscription.

  • ..........

  • I'll take the electric fence if I could just be with the girl

  • gorgeous...

  • i don't wanna be loved i just want a quickie no bite marks no scratches or hickeys lmfao

  • you need friends ops

  • I'm looking for the part that shows how to get out of the friend zone!

  • you are one good lookin women

  • No crappy music ma`m...

  • Girls who have boyfirneds are not off limits,sorry,cause al girls have boyfriends on some level whether they are dating, or flirting with a guy & making her way to dating him, or simply has a crush on a guy that she will remain single until she dates him. Point is,almost all girls are connected with someone when you meet them. Hit on them anyway cause if she likes you, she will indeed leave her boyfriend. Usually she will not cheat, which is good, she will leave him intelligently to be with you.

  • @DarthYuYevon Um don't sleep on thos jedi skills so fast... She isn't going to be with you simply because she likes you. If she has any morals (and stubborness)she will stick by her bf no matter how pathetic he is until the time is right. Just because a female sees a guy she could fall for, doesn't mean she is going to fall that easily :P

  • i love my best GUY ffriend and i like him to much but i do not want to do the first mov e wtf sould i do?!?!?!

  • @sofiesoup234 make the 1st move!!!!!! don't be a girl, be a WOMAN if you like him let him know. who cares if it doesn't work out. Stop torturing yourself.

  • @sofiesoup234 Most girls feel this way, you aren't alone. Typically guys need to make that move or the 'relationship' is not going to start out the right way. But only you know what is right for you. Instinctively, your heart will tell you what tod o, and I'm quite certain it won't steer you in the wrong direction. Well maybe it will :), but love is beautiful in being innocent, uncertain, anxious, nervous, all that!

  • Man, people are so full of hate here. Its just advice, doesn't mean you have to accept or believe it. You shouldn't ever just take what someone says and believe it. Think about it and process it. Then form your own opinion. And for the people that think she is "clueless", I think you've got some personal issues. Because on the hole, she's got good points.

  • @TheForgottenFeed Actually they are stealing my lines. It is the 99% of idiot male son here that are clueless. They wouldn't show any respect, gratitude, or appreciation for anything a female does for them if they were paid to do it. Just not in their makeup to ditch the egocentric, selfish, arrogant trappings.

  • cunt

  • @nipplewort <<< Please delete it.

  • Getting relationship advice from a woman is like getting mining advice from a Flight attendant.

  • @wingnight87 what if the flight attendant moonlights as a miner?

  • @wingnight87 r u stupid or gay? if u want a WOMAN, then listen to a WOMAN.........jk LOL they always say be urself then they dont like who u r

  • Wow....the girl in this video is gorgeous..I love Asian chicks! Especially when they are intelligent and well-read.

  • Pretty much just move on ?

  • /watch?v=bl-8mK76mig

  • 240p........we meet again.

  • Only one stupid thing, your too loudly music makes english difficult to understand u ;)

    Think about nonenglish ppl

  • sorry but your are pretty fucking clueless...

    

  • We should go back to the caveman days.......Thump the bitch on the head and drag her into your cave,

  • @CainmosniMirrored they had no internet tho. couldnt imagine what they would do in their basements the whole time. no wonder they did this back then

  • @CainmosniMirrored You shouldn't listen to everything Abe Simpson says :)

  • Wow your extremely friendly, can't believe you put up your number! Great video too!

  • How? Just use ruffies

  • /watch?v=2Fz3zFqLc3E :P

  • If you guys think you have trouble with women, imagine having aspergers. Feels bad, man. :(

  • For men who are dating just be verbally sexually direct with women. If she said yes continue if not fuck her. The worst thing is to have is indecisive women. Friend zone happen only if you do not verbally sexually direct state your intention. I promise you unless you will never be friend zone if agree to it. Men should agree to friendzone for 2 reasons which is only see the women as sister and/or she helps you get more women to fuck. I would disagree about being nice does not work.

  • i love asians that think they are americans

  • Treat the whores like queens, and the queens like whores. Im a bartender and have women flirt with me just because i have the power of free drinks and im tall....i know what im talking about. Last night a "regular "asked me if she could come over to talk...i told her if shes in my house im snatchin her panties off i dont play that cuddle bunny shit, we were in my house 5 mins and it was on till morning. STOP BEING THE NICE GUY!!!

  • Friend zone= being respectful to women

    love zone = treat them like shit.

  • Omg why is there not one video about how a girl can get out of the friend zone? I'm the one who has to hear my friend bitch about how he's in the friend zone with some other girl, meanwhile my ass has been stuck there with him forever (and i'm not even ugly or anything so wtf).

  • @strtthshw It's because these guys ar eopathetic and need an outlet to express that inability just like all their other inadequacies. They think they are th eonly ones who have problems or exist i their eogcentric worlds. and if your guy friend doesn't appreciate you, why get hung up on him anyway. He isn't worth your time in that way if he doesn't see what you see in him. You have to move on and find someone who indeed does appreciate all those amazing things that make you so special :)

  • @strtthshw Another thing, I'm detecting a little uncertainy there. I'm sure you are more than just 'not even ugly'. You are much more than your looks anyway. And maybe it's that self esteem part that is making him not embrace any feelings towards you. Whatever the case you should know you don't need his approval or his love. There are much better things for you to experience and others to show you that you can be every bit as desirable in all facets as you come across to be..:).

  • @Sean021122 Omg thank you :) I only mentioned the not ugly part because a lot of the time when I explain my situation (and people can't see me) people automatically say, "You're probably just fat and ugly then." Which isn't true and shouldn't matter anyway. I do have a terribly low self-esteem so you're probably right about that.You're right about everything, actually. I just wish I was better at getting over it. I've been in this situation for a ridiculously long time :/

  • @strtthshw Well that's them, not me. I don't judge like that. And I also value inner beauty a hell ofalot more than most guys in this world do... But that's me :) And it is what draws me and compells me most about females period. Looks are just extra and like icing on the cake. But without what is truly meaningful and special about her, looks lose their effect ;) Oh I didn[t put your self esteem out there like such a bad thing, I just get feelings about things ;) check your pm's :P

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    and she will slowly think, ya.. why didnt he take me out..? maybe i deserve better.. then everything he does will add to that thought that she feels she deserves better etc. so ya theres no electric fence. this bitch doesnt know what she's talking about

  • LOL Electric fence? Men, this chick doesnt know what the fuck she's talking about. If youve ever been to a party and theres this one hot chick that everyone wants to tap, guess what she has a boyfriend, all the best girls do. but relationships dont last forever unless ur like 25 yrs+ and ready to get married. if it's not that, then she is Free game. You just have to Show her that you are more cool/entertaining then her current bf, and plant mind doubts, like o ur bf didnt take u out?.. o well

  • What if she said she doesnt like me, but she said I was attractive? Oh, amd she texts me constantly...

  • @XeNoNV66 Bitch wants attention. Cut n run

  • Women are fucking stupid. They should become property instead.

  • @BSagitarius they were until they grew a brain and wanted rights... so yea

  • @coolmangroup100 <<< another sexist idiot that needs to tear women down to build himself up.

  • @Sean021122 whoa i am not a sexist, or an idiot. its just women have more ways then men and can get away with almost anything thats it 

  • @BSagitarius Property!? Wtf is wrong with men like you these days? You're still living in the past. Quit living in the past. We have equal rights now. If you don't like it then too bad. It is what it is. If you want property then go buy a house. That's your property.

  • Your my favorite type of women who most likely life will go like this

    Your 20s: I date bad boys and believe i can change one of these bad boys. You have a bunch of plationic male friends but know if give them chance they will hit on you.

    Your 30s: After realizing that bad boys that you date and you actually realizing that you can not change him you go to the nice guy with money and great father figure and tells you to fuck off. Then complain were has all good men has gone.

  • Your 40s: Now your desperate, still blame men and your biological clock is clicking and still no man. You actually also believe that men actually give a shit about about confidence and finically wealthy.

  • @Sallyallie89 Their egos can't handle it. They are so small inside and so lonely, bitter, pathetic, hateful, all those great things. they can't ever treat others that share a different existencee then them the right way. No empathy= they wouldn't even know empathy if they drwowned in it :P I wouldn't take it all that seriously, they are just coming here to blame women for their shortcomings and makescape their defeated worlds sally :D

  • @Sean021122 Indeed they are. It's quite sad though haha =p

  • @BSagitarius <<< another sexist idiot that needs to tear women down to build himself up.

  • I think that if she has a bf go for it anyway thats what i did and she realy liked me but was always scared to tell me so she whent out with some one else and then oneday i told her i liked her and she was shocked a week later she broke up with her bf for me and now we are still dateing and have a vary strog relashonship so i say go for it

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  • @mrsolofeo LOL Amen, fuck nice bullshit.

  • @mrsolofeo if you are in the "friend zone" its because she doesnt find you attractive, plain and simple. theres no magic formula for getting out unless you can find a genie who can change your face from ugly to gorgeous.

  • @digigen There's a lot of good-looking guys who have found themselves in the friend zone. So it's not just a matter of looks. If you're good-looking, you might have a chance of getting out of the friend zone if you can get the woman turned on; otherwise, you're screwed. Part of the problem is that women have some really weird criteria for judging guys and it tends to be intuitive rather than logical. If a woman "feels" there's something not right about you you'll never convince her she's wrong.

  • @mrsolofeo correction, there is a lot of guys YOU find good looking who are in the friend zone. quite frankly what guys find attractive is far different than what girls find attractive. and men are just as guilty of being too "intuitive bullshitty" as girls are.

  • @digigen So what do women find attractive--that's the question? If a guy's good-looking women expect him to be hitting on them. If he's not, they assume that he's gay or not interested. Maybe he's just low-key in his approach to life.

    Women seem to like loud, pushy guys. There are guys who are just not into that.

    And let me reiterate--once you are labeled a certain way by a woman, you will carry that label to your grave. As for me, whenever I rely on intuition, I end up looking like a dipshit.

  • @mrsolofeo women find a beautiful face attractive.

    Women do NOT like loud pushy guys. they SETTLE for loud pushy guys because its the loud pushy guys who are the only ones who have the balls to approach women. A lot of women are too shy to go up to the guys who are ACTUALLY appealing and those men dont NEED to go up to women, much less be "loud or pushy" because they are in such high demand they are probably already taken. so women settle for what they can get- obnoxious douches

  • @mrsolofeo shy guys are IDEAL but women are brainwashed to think its taboo to approach guys and so they MISS OUT on amazing shy guys and settle for the loud pushy guys who are the only ones who approach them. Trust me if i only dated the guys who approached me id be dating losers. instead i ignore loud pushy guys and ACTIVELY seek guys out on my own. I dont wait around for someone gorgeous to hit on me, its just NOT GONNA HAPPEN.

  • @digigen I respect what you have to say and your honesty. I am one those attractive males who just doesn't feel comfortable with all of that peacock--getting in a woman's face bullshit. And, so, I've been called a faggot by some women--and it hurts.

    If you're shy like me, you wait for some attractive female to approach you and break the ice--but it never happens. And so you think there's something wrong with yourself--why you're not like the pushy guys who seem to get what they want.

  • If i was you be still the nice guy. There are two type of nice guys those manipulative nice guy who pretends to be a girl "friend" believing he is going to one day date her but the women is more manipulative and is actually winning here. For you still be nice but have rules that you will not break. Here some for you here some for you that will help

  • 1. When you approach the women be verbally direct with your sexual intention in the first five minutes that meet her. If she recjects, move on or she hesitate give your number and let her call you.

    2. Have a 3 date rule if do not get laid leave.

    3. When you approach a women have a 3 second rule for you not over think which sometimes happens to me.

    4. Never expect her friendzone unless for these 2 rules if only see her as a sister and/or she activally she hooks you up with other women.

  • @istraight1 A lot of this is stuff you read on a lot of those PUA sites. Sounds all cut-n-dry and formulaic.But In the real world, things don't always follow a nice neat plan and guys still get fucked over through no fault of their own. Some guys are just dumb-fucks and never learn, I guess. And other guys just don't have the temperament to approach 50 or 60 women.

    I read that women are just addicted to sleeping with high-status guys. Maybe it just comes down to that.

  • The nice ingorant nice guy does not change completely. The only nice guy has to change is three things, willing to recjected a lot but return a lot more options for this he can leave the women who acting like an asshole. The second is willing to say no to women, a lot guys believe you have to please her which is wrong. It ok to tell women you don't want go shopping. Actually when become the "me to" nice guy your actually becoming manipulative because your trying please her.

  • @istraight1 There's more than enough manipulation to go around. The bag of pick-up routines are pretty much manipulative. Not a lot of honesty going on here.other than conveying sexual interest. It just seems to me that women want to be manipulated if done the right way. And I honestly believe that a woman would prefer sleeping with a drug lord than a guy that she considers lower than her in status.

    School, church, parents: We've pretty much been lied to regarding relationships..

  • The only pick up artist i listern to is alan roger currie and david x which pretty some up this if want sex that women saw down the street tell her something like this "I am little nervous to talk to because i see you very sexy but i just want to have casual ONS with you" The women who perfers to sleep with drug lord, let her, you do not be with her. Fuck what school, chruch (left wing atheist i am) and parents say, you live the way you believe you were meant to live.

  • I still learning to be direct with women with my intentions becaus pua crap but still gave courage to at least start talking to women. Like said the nice has only have those 3 things that posted before. It could be more but more in line like if he does not take showers he should start do it more often.

  • @istraight1 Wish you success. At least you have not been brainwashed by all the bullshit told to you by church, school and parents.

  • You can to be successful with women just state your verbally sexual intention with the women no more than 5 minutes and be willing to walk away she said no and move to next one. I somethimes do not approach but i return i get feeling that become a aprroach machine. Sidenote: Clubs are overrated (for what i heard not old enough) i rather approach in the malls, streets, gorcery store etc. Take small steps and be honest with the women if just want a short term and if she wants long term

  • walk away.

  • @mrsolofeo What I have said forever. if you care so much about sex, go pay for it or watch porn. You obviously don't appreciate women for all their many amazing facets. Nor do you realize how powerful and all encompassing love can be. If someone wants to have sex and brag about it, let them die a lonely existence... There is much more...

  • @Sean021122 I have male acquaintances who pay for sex. Women do not think any less of them. Sex means nothing if there is no emotional connection. I know of women who have been spoken to in the crudest, most sexist way--and they seem to relish it.

    What women loath more than anything is the guy who doesn't attempt to come on to them

  • The third one is be honest with the women. That means you tell the women that your sexually interest in her to force a decesion which will be yes or no. If she said no good you just say next, if she calls great if not who cares. What sometimes you can do is the one who said no is give out your number and let her call you. Never expect friend unless you specify tell her that she help you and courage you get other women. That is really women that is your friend.

  • @istraight1 I think you are too concerned with forcing someone's feelings. Doesn't work that way. The more you give ultimatums and pressure a woman the more she going to run the opposite way. Give her space, and build that chemistry together at a slow romantic pace. Stop trying to control and manipulate them because it isn't getting you anywhere.

  • this has to be oyxmoron i am honest women how can be manipulative.

  • Sidenote: It easy spot manipulative women you will know them whenshe gives you vague answers which means leave, you do not want spend time with her period.

  • @mrsolofeo p.u.a. is useless anyway. they are preoccupied with sex and satisfying their other head. They don't care about love nor what is truly beautiful or compelling about owmen. So why even dignify it with a response. You aren't going to change a p.u.a.'s convictions and they aren't changing ours. I happen to have higher aspirations an dmotivations and value love over everything else.

    Also don't worry about what you think women want to sleep with. Just elicit the right feelings in them...

  • @Sean021122 Women aren't looking for love, either--in bars, clubs? Just a quick-fix sex fix.

    Woman want sex, but don't want to make it happen for themselves. Want someone to remove the responsibility from their shoulders so they won't see themselves as sluts.

    They want the "right" guy to take control of them--fuck them the right way, so they can chalk it all up to "I was just caught up in the moment" eschew responsibility and return to being their pristine selves again.

  • @digigen Ahh most guys have no sense of intuition or emotions whatsoever. They think with their other head, overanalyze, and are victims of their overencompassing logical pull. That doesn't work in love or anything important. It only works when they want to have a career or study at school. You need to understand that th eonly things that really matter in how a girl sees/is drawn to you are emotions/feelings and chemistry. Evertyhing else is just male denial of reality.

  • @mrsolofeo Of course it's intutive duh! Everryhing about how they operate is that way. And I better than any male here know it because I am that way myself. You either innately get these things and can read her and elicit the right feelings or you can't. Might as well just get into things like psychology, astrology, things involving the human condition. You will get better at it. Practice what you don't find natural to you. Stop being logicalmechanical, and boring. It is all emotions/feelings.

  • @Sean021122 Then their intuitive process is flawed. I have never hit a women, yet so many women I am acquainted with are drawn to abusers. Is there an emotional high to being beaten? Why doesn't their intuition tell them to avoid the drunk, the drug addict? Women for all of their intuitiveness end up as road kill--abused and discarded, cheated on after their looks are gone. Nobody wants them. The only thing they end up with is a divorce settlement after their mate has found a replacement.

  • Sean021122 is an idiot and got pissed at comment i wrote 2 weeks ago. I am not sure about men who beat them because some women lie because they do not like guys they can not control. If those one are true they always have option to leave but they do not especially the young ones. The good women usually not found in bars and clubs who said no to drug addict and bad boy because even intuitiveness said yes histroy tells her no and will with no. There are good women but have know earily

  • @digigen It's a mixture of the attrcativeness of him and also his inability to make his needs known to her from the start. To lead the ocnversation and to make sure she doesn't talk about htings that will render him a friend in the process. Such as past byfriends. Once he's in there, he really isn't going to come out unless he truly appeals to he ron emotional level and can elicit the feelings in her he didn't before.

  • @mrsolofeo wow, that's pretty harsh, but i have to agree with you to a certain extent haha

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  • boobies

  • thanks, coach. My eyes are opened now

  • Ok this is similar how do u get out of the friend zone but she broke up with my friend yet she still likes him and shes asking me to help her get back together with him O_O

  • "Tao of Badass". Answers everything. Perfect psychology.

  • Avoid the games, don't waste your money and time on american or americanized girls. So much better dating a woman than a rival.

  • This is all bullshit. All dating advice is! Chemistry is what it's about. Nothing more!

  • thats funny because usually if something chases me I run to it lol.

  • Geez, all she's saying is "you can't get out of the friend-zone, or date her if she has a bf."

    BULLSHIT!

    ALL girls have some guy they're "with," but the status of that relationship depends on "what else comes along--" i.e. if she likes you more, then he'll be "just a friend" etc.

    So if she thinks of you as 'just a friend," you can used that to ice her out and undercut her self-esteem by talking about her flaws, but say how you "like that in a woman, even if every other guy doesn't."

  • This stupid background beat makes it impossible to hear a word she's saying... and it's annoying as fuck-- but not as much as she is, so it's a lose-lose.

    Taking dating advice from a woman is like taking an anthropology-class from a monkey, i.e. just because they're the subject of study doesn't mean they have a clue about its behavior.

    The way to get out of the friend zone is to NEVER GET IN IT, i.e. always behave like SHE'S NOT YOUR FRIEND. Friend means "equal," and women are hypocrites.

  • i only watched it cuz of chuck norris

  • try telling this to Severus Snape~ :P

  • how to get out of the friend zone?

    pull out your cock

    works for me

  • @Utubesuxmycock

    Yep, it forces her "fuck or flee" response LOL

    Whip it out!

  • she has her cloths on, im out

  • your area code is similar to mine.

    cool beanz

    oh and nice vid

  • what if she has a boyfriend? Used goods...moving on!

  • screw this I'm pissed off at her so I just moved on and now I have a gf

  • I can say also give the same advice as her. nothing special here

  • Women only want guy friends so they can bitch to him about how her boyfriend was an asshole when she is the one who likes him treating her like utter shit.

    Here are the steps.

    1) Call her out on her emotional drain on you.

    2) Tell her she loves her boyfriend to treat her like shit, because she keeps on going back to him.

    3) Tell her she can go to someone else to emotionally drain.

    4) If she tells you you are a jerk, tell her she is a bitch for just using you for emotional support.

  • youtube: broadcast yourself! even if everything you know is worthless!

  • how do i get in ur zone :)

  • I like my bffs bf

    What the hell am I going to do