Sexuality is determined by something...not yet fully defined, however with that being said, the chances of any particular person in any particular group being gay is relatively random. The probability of a father and son being gay, is ruled by the law of probability which not only makes it a possibility but a probability as well. Congratulations on beating the odds. Overcome your childhood affliction and with your dad embrace your commonality. You and your dad have something to celebrate.
@SlimShaney08 You are so very welcome. I wish my dad was around so that the four us could celebrate together. I miss him so much. A boy needs his dad, or at least a dad figure. Don't let time get away form you.
@SlimShaney08 My life has been and continues to be good. Thanks, best wishes to you too. (Oh dear, this sounds like a high school annual signature...lol.)
You are so articulate in answering any questions you know may be raised. I do wonder why your father still couldn't be in your life, why wasn't there more of a try for visitation? I bet you coming out to your dad was a little bit like my twin sis coming out to me! I said "and you think this is news?" I knew she was gay since we were kids. I am not, our case is probably hormone fluxuations in the womb, but there could be a gay gene. Human sexuality is so complex, and beautiful! Love ya babe!
@meganritz Aww thank you, sorry I did not answer sooner yeah it was not crazy news haha and IDK... just no initial click. I def believe in the gay gene haha
So, what do you think? Do I have to be affraid of the future or just wait and see? Of course, I won't be mad if either of my kids is gay or lesbian, but I know that their mother won't take it. Does it happens often? My son always loves me more then is mother, do you think it will get angry one day and that will change? Do you suggest me to do something special with them? They are both with my boyfriend at least twice a week and everything is fine from now, but who knows the future?
@ballourdyul DO not fear the future, your being honest with yourself and your wife now ex wife. Your kids are around you and all I say is make sure that what they are exposed to is appropriate, I at a young age was not always but im fine. Gay kids from a gay parent is possible, my dad is but Majority of gay people have straight parents. It just happens it seems. I think you should be the best father you can, you being bisexual does not alter your parenting ability. Be responsible and love them
Your video means a lot to me and after watching it, I'm scared. Why? Because I've been married for the last five years now, I have two kids and I turned out to meet a guy last December (I always knew I was bi, well maybe more gay but...) and we will be living together in just two weeks now. My kids are young and I'm very affraid for the next years to come. But I must say that I'll never give up with my kids. My ex-wife and I will do equal share time so they will grown with both of us.
Hey dude , i randomly happened to see your vid , and after hearing what you said about you an your dad . . . I just wanted to say that you are a bit lucky! Because i and my dad are gay as well but for me it was much much harder! Of course i understand your situation and what you must have went through but i would like us to talk in order to explain to you why is it that i think you are lucky!
I really do relate to you. I sincerely commend you for this video...I grew up without a "Father" figure, he was never around, Mother and Father divorced when I was 1. When He visited, (when I was very young) I was afraid of him, did not know who this man was...My Grandmother sheltered me immensely, my Mother worked full time, and so did my Grandmother @home. I always craved that father Image which was never there. You are very mature for your age. I am 57, came out @18, can def. understand.
Re: twins -- one was a hippie type living out in P-Town i think and the other (who I worked with) was a hard-drinking "city" type. Also, they were both poets. The hippie-ish guy was successful as a poet and also taught, but he was pretentious and not that talented, whereas the city twin was very talented, kinda like a little bit nicer Truman Capote, but he wasn't successful. The former had lived in luxury with his remarried dad, while my friend had lived in poverty with his suicidal mother.
Ive known two sets of gay male twins. Also, a gay friend of mine has FIVE younger brothers that are ALL gay! I believe one is a drag queen. And he told me he doesnt get along with any of these younger brothers at all! Very interesting, but Im not drawing any conclusions from it..... One other thing..... I am adopted and found out one of my biological half sisters is bisexual, as I am. I also have a gay friend whose dad is gay too! Hope this all interests u!
@FILTHYFAGZ you are a sad sad little creature, i resist human because im not so sure you are. Your first statement shows how little education you have.....
Thank you for a most interesting video and I'm glad your family accepts you. If you've not done so already you might check out "Fun Home", Alison Bechdel's autobiographical graphic novel.
Thanks for sharing your story. I can relate with you on the whole dad not being there during childhood thing, but unlike your dad, mine is well..you know. How about a trade? You can have mine if I can have yours :)
I am gay. My cousin is gay. I have a second cousin who is gay AND I have a nephew who is gay. I also mentored a University of California student through a scholarship program that was a lesbian and her brother was also gay.
I am a gay dad. You hit it right on the head. I was trying to lead a "normal" life due to family and social influance. I was married and had 2 children. It was good for awhile,, but eventually stopped working for me. My ex-wife knows and accepts me. We get along terrifically now. My 2 kids dont know. They are young. I dont they would understand yet.
@ShdwKpr619 :) only thing id say just be careful how you break it to them, one of the issues as i grew up is somethings we were exposed too was probably a bit too early but im all for educating children on GLBTG
So check this out! Me and my double first-cousin are both gay. His dad & my mom are bro & sis, and his dad & my mom are bro & sis. No inbreeding. Anyway, we KNOW it's genetic, but we still can't figure out which side of the family it came from! LMAO ^_^
@MrChinesecrested Love how you're calling youtself a "Mr" yet you're calling another boy "Hun".... I smell a gay ;D Don't worry.. just because you hate yourself, don't take it out on us <3
@SlimShaney08 Dude, don't listen to him! You're a really nice boy with a brilliant personality and with good looks as a plus! He obviously envies you because you're hotter and have a better personality ;D
@SlimShaney08 Hey! I think it's coincidence, the gay gene thing on dads side I mean. But please google youngest brother and gay, and gay gene on X chromosome. Basically being gay is most likely down to your mother (her hormones in the womb and her genes) very interesting stuff, you can also find videos on here explaining the correlations too!
think it's in the genes... one reason is a (logo?) tv show i saw about a woman who had 5 gay kids. ironically she was a religious freak, was kinda cold to her kids, didnt approve of their lifestyle, until she almost lost one of them to bad health.
@SlimShaney08 I agree, currently arguing that on another channel. Obviously, the leading cause of the spread of HIV is ignorance, because 35 years later and people still think it's a gay disease. Love what Qweneth said on GLEE, "Remember, every time you sleep with someone you're sleeping with everyone they've ever slept with, and everybody has a random." But still I can see I'm beating my head against a wall, our penises are my favorite toys, so let's protect them! Always use a condom.
Ahh it was just a guess to the mom show thing. I meant the look for you as a compliment.Being a nerd isa very good thing.More so now than in the 90s and 80s. My cousin is bisexual,but dead. Drugs.
I'm surprised you didn't say to that of your mom saying it to you. " How do you not know if you like girls if you never tryed them out". And nice you pointed the other 2 statement issues. Molestation and gay gene. But the gene has been tested already.
@SlimShaney08 I would look at that again. Since most women don't ejaculate it is harder to catch HIV from them, during sex. So if the largest group of infection at the moment, were African American women, the cause of the infection would most likely be African American men. Of the 33 million known cases of HIV in the world today, only 1.2 million are in the US. 22.9 in Africa. So African AMERICAN Women wouldn't be the largest infected group. Don't believe me? google "Avert HIV/AIDS"
@phoenix3370 like i said i researched it and it said that, and you can get HIV through needle sharing as well idk all im saying is my point is gay people arent the only ones who get it
Your story is largely similar to mine with the exception of the gay father. Mine was just a bum that loafed about and let my family be. I am bisexual now... and part of me has always wondered if it has/had anything to do with the lack of a male figure. I do not know. Maybe I never will. Maybe there is a gene. Maybe not. Either way, we are what we are. Embrace it.
Your story is largely similar to mine with the exception of the gay father. Mine was just a bum that loafed about and let my family be. I am bisexual now... and part of me has always wondered if it has/had anything to do with the lack of a male figure. I do not know. Maybe I never will. Either way, we are what we are. Embrace it.
I grew up without a father too. i understand psychologically where you are coming from with wanting a daddy when you where a little kid. i didn't have one. now im 18 and my boyfriend is 30. I'm also bisexual. no one else is in my family. some know and are wierd about it. but it's who i am. it's who you are. it's ok. i support you.
BURN IN HELL!!! KARMA ALREADY MAKES SURE THAT GAYS ARE THE DOMINANT GROUP INFESTED WITH AIDS-AND RIGHTLY SO!!! YOUR ANUS IS ONLY A PASSAGE FOR SHIT YOU MENTALLY ILL SCARY AND DANGEROUS CREATURES!!! GET A GRIP ON THE LOGICAL!!!
stupid, narrow minded, mindless, hurtful, careless, idiot. how's that for hurtful words. god doesnt love pursecuters or people who judge. keep your mean words to yourself.
@LYYSL you are an idiot... african american women are the leading cause for HIV/AIDS, and although anal sex is very easy it is for anyone who does it because it can tear easy... your a moron
@SlimShaney08 I think you didn't mean cause there. The current dominant groups infected with HIV right now are women 18-25 and 39 and up, also black men 18-25. I assume that's what you meant. Also ignore buttheads like this guy. Their ignorance speaks for itself.
I'm a medical student and I really pay attention for gay researches. There is a hungarian geneticist(Dr. Czeizel Endre) whose son is gay. He's been doing researches for years and he's found a lot of things. He found several genes, which play role in the formation of someone's sexuality, but there is one gene, which mainly effects (70%) someone's oriantation. (The research aimed at gay men)This gene is on the long arm of the X chromosome.
@SlimShaney08 Well, it actually proofs the opposite of what you think. Boys have X and Y chromosome. X chromosome comes from the mother and Y from the father. And as i said the "gay" gene is on the X chromosome, which comes from the mother, we "inherit" homosexuality from the mother. :) sounds weird and it's much more complicated, but it's true:)
@IIIIlllllll See you there! If god hates his children for loving someone then he is never the god I was thought to believe, take your hatred elsewhere
@SlimShaney08 Leviticus 20:13. "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."
@IIIIlllllll man wrote the bible and this can be taken many ways a man cant lie with a man as woman because no vagina, also could be taken as no 3somes... it does not say "being gay means you will go to hell" suck on that biggot
@IIIIlllllll Hey it's you again! Good to see you buddy. I'm still waiting for an answer to my question from before (you went all quiet when I pushed you on it, remember?). 'Why are you trawling the internet watching gay themed vids?' And, 'Why do you admit that you post comments on gay videos but not on straight ones featuring fornication between unmarried straight couples?' If you remember, you said that you think all those straight people will be destroyed by God.
I used to try and pray the gay away.. maybe he's secretly gay and hates himself for it. would explain him looking at gay confession videos.. i hated myself for a while when i was a strict christian. i have that theory on people who hate gays...
@KristyBaby18 that saddens me, i dont think anyone should have to feel they need to pray it away, love yourself for who you are :) idk who made it so that christian meant you had to spread hate...
@IIIIlllllll Since god's giant hand did not come down from the heavens with a big quill pen to wite the bible and it was written by ancient man and his values and or lies that he wanted to impose on the world, you are living by and following words that are from flawed humans and not from the divine almighty.himself. Anyone with half a brain should be able to figure out your bible is pretty much a story book that man used to control humanity to us live as THEY see fit. Just a pack of lies. Enjoy!
@SlimShaney08 Hey Shane, hi. I'm really sorry about all the difficulties you had to go through. Having a rough childhood is the heaviest burden. I noticed you're happy and confident about who you are, and I'm glad for it. I've come to think my father is gay too, but he's never come out. My brother is gay too, so... I also believe there's genetic determination of the sexual preferences. I hope you're doing alright, happy holidays!
@sunsensations Thank yOU! so nice to read something like this, and same to you! hope all is well and happy holidays! I ask you to check out 7DailyGays which is a collab im on, glad to see you believe in the gene :)
Have you also heard about the younger brother hypothesis? That supports the idea that sexual orientation is predetermined and that the more sons a mother has, the higher the chances of the youngest son being gay. It's hypothesized that its the mothers body treating the XY gene of the male fetus as a foreign pathogen so the male fetus has to compensate and cause the mothers body to retain the fetus via hormone balancing or equilibrium.
trolls...gotta love em right :P and it is strange...well strange is the wrong word,but i had an uncle who was gay...the whole idea of a "gay gene" is interesting it sounds like
If my father told me he was gay, I'd go to court and renounce him as my dad. I'd also change my name to something else to express my disapproval of him and hope he lived the rest of his pathetic life in shame.
@ebonics4everyone well that is you I was a child did not really know but around 14 I discovered I am also gay. I love who I am and I love my dad as well.
Your dad is a wuss that gave up on trying to meet women, after he got your fat mother drunk and pregnant on their first date. He's filled your mind with his own inadequacies and self-loathing and convinced you that women will never want to be with you. You aren't gay. You're a victim of mental cruelty and child abuse.
@ebonics4everyone First of all if you saw what my mother looked like you would feel like an even bigger idiot then your showing, i mean look at your username. I am gay, im victim of nothing. You sir need to get a happy life and leave that sad hateful one.
Regarding to the theory that the more older brothers you have the more likely you are to be gay, I heard that when a male Is in the embryo the mothers body doesn't recognize it so it tries to make it more feminine and after a couple of more male children the women's body gets better at feminizing the baby resulting in the child being gay. I do not believe this is true because I am gay but I don't have any brothers just two older sisters.
@lolipooer Yeah i've heard about this theory somewhere as well... I have 3 older sister and no brothers and im the youngest one. maybe the theory is right, but we are the exception, for exemple, my boyfriend has 4 brothers and 2 sisters, in his case science was right... But human being is much more complex than we can imagine, So it's impossible to write down a theory without exceptions. =)
@SlimShaney08 I read the same article, but I think it's too do with the hormones in the uterus which explains the phenomenon in identical twins where one is gay and the other straight.
U shared a true story , but is not your Dad's sexuality a personal matter of his and sharing it online does not present a good picture .
I am gay too but the last discovery I want on the planet is gay being a genetic thing , the day it will be proved people will consider it some kind of a disorder
1] If you go back through the language interpretation, the meaning to not lay with a man as another woman was directed toward rape and prostitution.
2] A gay gene is still being sought. So far the discoveries indicate that there is a very high percentage of the youngest boy in the family being gay. They believe that there is a chemical process taking place in the mothers womb in the early development of the male embryo. Its believe there is some type of chemical rejection if I have it right.
@ShyWildBoy It's actually a lack of testosterone getting to the brain during the first half of the pregnancy. Without the influence of testosterone the brain will develop female complete with female thought processes, mannerisms and female attraction to the male. Even if testosterone does reach the brain after the halfway point, the female brain will remain. How homosexual a male will be depends on how much and how early male hormone reaches the brain. Continued. . .
It sounds like you were molested by your father... Please go get help at an asylum where people believe that homosexuality is a mental illness.
umokwhateverlol 5 days ago
@umokwhateverlol I was not molested but it is proven you are very un-educated on homosexuality please go open a book or meet someone who is gay....
SlimShaney08 4 days ago
@SlimShaney08 wow, just go to the psychiatric hospital. talk to me when you're straight again.
umokwhateverlol 4 days ago
@umokwhateverlol Well looks like I wont be talking to you ever :) looks like god smiled on me again
SlimShaney08 4 days ago
Sexuality is determined by something...not yet fully defined, however with that being said, the chances of any particular person in any particular group being gay is relatively random. The probability of a father and son being gay, is ruled by the law of probability which not only makes it a possibility but a probability as well. Congratulations on beating the odds. Overcome your childhood affliction and with your dad embrace your commonality. You and your dad have something to celebrate.
cstevenson 1 week ago
@cstevenson thank you very much :) thanks for writing
SlimShaney08 6 days ago
@SlimShaney08 You are so very welcome. I wish my dad was around so that the four us could celebrate together. I miss him so much. A boy needs his dad, or at least a dad figure. Don't let time get away form you.
cstevenson 6 days ago
@cstevenson thanks :) and i hope good things come ur way
SlimShaney08 5 days ago
@SlimShaney08 My life has been and continues to be good. Thanks, best wishes to you too. (Oh dear, this sounds like a high school annual signature...lol.)
cstevenson 5 days ago
there is no gay gene, tis unfortunate what happened to you but you are gay precisely because you lacked a true male father figure
witterly 1 week ago
@witterly Yes you are so right! that is why majority of gay men were raised by a heterosexual couple... think about what you say
SlimShaney08 1 week ago
Which one of ur dads?
9musicman7 1 week ago
@9musicman7 huh
SlimShaney08 1 week ago
If you want a daddy then go out and get one yourself! lol...I'm joking :)
MDkid1 1 week ago
You are so articulate in answering any questions you know may be raised. I do wonder why your father still couldn't be in your life, why wasn't there more of a try for visitation? I bet you coming out to your dad was a little bit like my twin sis coming out to me! I said "and you think this is news?" I knew she was gay since we were kids. I am not, our case is probably hormone fluxuations in the womb, but there could be a gay gene. Human sexuality is so complex, and beautiful! Love ya babe!
meganritz 1 week ago
@meganritz Aww thank you, sorry I did not answer sooner yeah it was not crazy news haha and IDK... just no initial click. I def believe in the gay gene haha
SlimShaney08 5 days ago
If there's a gay gene, where's the "straight gene"? that's so stupid to say.
SCAVULLO 1 week ago
@SCAVULLO .. the straight gene is the gay gene but the more common occurence. I dont know if its fact but i believe it can be possible
SlimShaney08 1 week ago
coming out to your gay dad must be the most undramatic boring conversation ever.
Atemporal 1 week ago
@Atemporal HA! yeah it was like this "dad im gay" "ok" LOL
SlimShaney08 1 week ago
That is totally cool man. I am gay and so is my nephew So yes, it does happen in families! : )
CigarSmokeAddict 2 weeks ago
@CigarSmokeAddict heck yeah it does :) we are family was written for a reason haha
SlimShaney08 2 weeks ago
@SlimShaney08 Indeed brother!
CigarSmokeAddict 2 weeks ago
Gay pepole don't have kids cause they can't make out with a women Da!!
houssamnintendofan 2 weeks ago
@houssamnintendofan I really hope you are 5 years old spouting such uneducated dribble
SlimShaney08 2 weeks ago 2
@SlimShaney08 Excuse me!!!! Stupid gay!
houssamnintendofan 2 weeks ago
@houssamnintendofan yeah you are like 5
SlimShaney08 2 weeks ago
OHH EMM GG!!! that's ace!!!
TheCharlesWinston 2 weeks ago
@TheCharlesWinston is that a good thing? lol
SlimShaney08 2 weeks ago
@TheCharlesWinston is that a good thing? lol
SlimShaney08 2 weeks ago
@SlimShaney08 yes it is, I actually said "that is so cool"
TheCharlesWinston 1 week ago
@TheCharlesWinston oh awesome! haha
SlimShaney08 1 week ago
"I love my dad to"
....break...
"pays for my college"
lol i though that was funny but this is such a unique story and I am happy everything is smooth between your family
X2hBl1tzX 2 weeks ago
@X2hBl1tzX HAHA that was not intentional LOL and thank you!
SlimShaney08 2 weeks ago
So, what do you think? Do I have to be affraid of the future or just wait and see? Of course, I won't be mad if either of my kids is gay or lesbian, but I know that their mother won't take it. Does it happens often? My son always loves me more then is mother, do you think it will get angry one day and that will change? Do you suggest me to do something special with them? They are both with my boyfriend at least twice a week and everything is fine from now, but who knows the future?
ballourdyul 3 weeks ago
@ballourdyul DO not fear the future, your being honest with yourself and your wife now ex wife. Your kids are around you and all I say is make sure that what they are exposed to is appropriate, I at a young age was not always but im fine. Gay kids from a gay parent is possible, my dad is but Majority of gay people have straight parents. It just happens it seems. I think you should be the best father you can, you being bisexual does not alter your parenting ability. Be responsible and love them
SlimShaney08 3 weeks ago
Your video means a lot to me and after watching it, I'm scared. Why? Because I've been married for the last five years now, I have two kids and I turned out to meet a guy last December (I always knew I was bi, well maybe more gay but...) and we will be living together in just two weeks now. My kids are young and I'm very affraid for the next years to come. But I must say that I'll never give up with my kids. My ex-wife and I will do equal share time so they will grown with both of us.
ballourdyul 3 weeks ago
Hey dude , i randomly happened to see your vid , and after hearing what you said about you an your dad . . . I just wanted to say that you are a bit lucky! Because i and my dad are gay as well but for me it was much much harder! Of course i understand your situation and what you must have went through but i would like us to talk in order to explain to you why is it that i think you are lucky!
YANLI673 4 weeks ago
@YANLI673 hey thanks!!!! and yeah i am lucky it was hard growing up but in the long run i guess it helped haha.
SlimShaney08 4 weeks ago
I really do relate to you. I sincerely commend you for this video...I grew up without a "Father" figure, he was never around, Mother and Father divorced when I was 1. When He visited, (when I was very young) I was afraid of him, did not know who this man was...My Grandmother sheltered me immensely, my Mother worked full time, and so did my Grandmother @home. I always craved that father Image which was never there. You are very mature for your age. I am 57, came out @18, can def. understand.
log05mus 1 month ago
@log05mus thank you so much for commenting! i hope things are easier for you now too :)
SlimShaney08 4 weeks ago
OMG i live in baltimore maryland too!!!
CMDeiTos 1 month ago
@CMDeiTos WOOO!
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@FILTHYFAGZ God knows more than you do.
Audiofreund2 1 month ago
@Audiofreund2 yeah he does, and you are not god, and I feel sorry he has to watch you do what you do.
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 why the hell are you going on gay videos if you dont like them ?? probably your gay yourself. welcome :) god loves me :)
Audiofreund2 3 weeks ago
@Audiofreund2 im confused
SlimShaney08 3 weeks ago
Re: twins -- one was a hippie type living out in P-Town i think and the other (who I worked with) was a hard-drinking "city" type. Also, they were both poets. The hippie-ish guy was successful as a poet and also taught, but he was pretentious and not that talented, whereas the city twin was very talented, kinda like a little bit nicer Truman Capote, but he wasn't successful. The former had lived in luxury with his remarried dad, while my friend had lived in poverty with his suicidal mother.
MissDroplette 1 month ago
@MissDroplette thats like a lifetime movie
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
Oh god the incest jokes.
SuperStitchesTim 1 month ago
@SuperStitchesTim well nothing has ever happened so they would all be a lie
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 Fast response. Never said it did happen, just saying the internet can be like that sometimes.
SuperStitchesTim 1 month ago
@SuperStitchesTim HAHA i was checking comments, i reply to everyone i see haha and oh i know, for sure internet got lots of trolls
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
Ive known two sets of gay male twins. Also, a gay friend of mine has FIVE younger brothers that are ALL gay! I believe one is a drag queen. And he told me he doesnt get along with any of these younger brothers at all! Very interesting, but Im not drawing any conclusions from it..... One other thing..... I am adopted and found out one of my biological half sisters is bisexual, as I am. I also have a gay friend whose dad is gay too! Hope this all interests u!
MissDroplette 1 month ago
@MissDroplette Gay twins are always fascinating and usually hot HAHA! and that is quite a story! thanks for commenting :)
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@FILTHYFAGZ you are a sad sad little creature, i resist human because im not so sure you are. Your first statement shows how little education you have.....
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
Thank you for a most interesting video and I'm glad your family accepts you. If you've not done so already you might check out "Fun Home", Alison Bechdel's autobiographical graphic novel.
Passing4human 1 month ago
Thanks for sharing your story. I can relate with you on the whole dad not being there during childhood thing, but unlike your dad, mine is well..you know. How about a trade? You can have mine if I can have yours :)
LadWhite 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 How r u
Derpy431 1 month ago
@Derpy431 I am doing very well thank you! and you?
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
you look straight in the thumbnail
Verification11 1 month ago
@Verification11 HAHA! is this whY I got so many views? LMAO
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 Hi
Derpy431 1 month ago
@Derpy431 hello
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
How did I get here?
MrTrevenJohn 1 month ago
@MrTrevenJohn IDk but welcome :)
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
I am gay. My cousin is gay. I have a second cousin who is gay AND I have a nephew who is gay. I also mentored a University of California student through a scholarship program that was a lesbian and her brother was also gay.
lcowles 1 month ago
@lcowles wow so you definately have a gay ol time, haha couldn't help it lol
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 My mom, Sister, 4 Cousins, and I are all gay :3
StormBringerWindom 1 month ago
I am a gay dad. You hit it right on the head. I was trying to lead a "normal" life due to family and social influance. I was married and had 2 children. It was good for awhile,, but eventually stopped working for me. My ex-wife knows and accepts me. We get along terrifically now. My 2 kids dont know. They are young. I dont they would understand yet.
ShdwKpr619 1 month ago
@ShdwKpr619 :) only thing id say just be careful how you break it to them, one of the issues as i grew up is somethings we were exposed too was probably a bit too early but im all for educating children on GLBTG
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
I don't think you need a father figure you were looking for a male influence
macu10011 1 month ago
@macu10011 what do you mean
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
This is very much interesting.
I enjoyed watching it.
spaceman6194 1 month ago
@spaceman6194 thank you so much! I hope you continue to check out some of my other videos
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
Sorry, I mean his mom & my dad are also bro & sis.
Wildfyre31 2 months ago
@Wildfyre31 lol no worries
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
So check this out! Me and my double first-cousin are both gay. His dad & my mom are bro & sis, and his dad & my mom are bro & sis. No inbreeding. Anyway, we KNOW it's genetic, but we still can't figure out which side of the family it came from! LMAO ^_^
Wildfyre31 2 months ago
@Wildfyre31 that is definately interesting!!
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@MrChinesecrested Love how you're calling youtself a "Mr" yet you're calling another boy "Hun".... I smell a gay ;D Don't worry.. just because you hate yourself, don't take it out on us <3
bardsleyboy123 2 months ago
@bardsleyboy123 LOL i wondered that as well
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Dude, don't listen to him! You're a really nice boy with a brilliant personality and with good looks as a plus! He obviously envies you because you're hotter and have a better personality ;D
bardsleyboy123 1 month ago
@bardsleyboy123 aww thanks so much! ur very kind
SlimShaney08 1 month ago
@SlimShaney08 Hey! I think it's coincidence, the gay gene thing on dads side I mean. But please google youngest brother and gay, and gay gene on X chromosome. Basically being gay is most likely down to your mother (her hormones in the womb and her genes) very interesting stuff, you can also find videos on here explaining the correlations too!
tool2342 2 months ago
@tool2342 oh i know I did a project on it in my college speech class :)
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@slimshaney08 stay strong don't let idiot cunts and their hate hold you down
STRUCK37 2 months ago
@STRUCK37 course not! :) thanks for your support :)
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
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but...on a more serious note. this also scares me. if there is a gay gene it could very well spell the genocide of the gay population.
TOTALCONTROL871 2 months ago
@TOTALCONTROL871 explain this?
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
HOLY BORN THAT WAY BATMAN!! dude, u need to get your father on the tube & get his story out! this is a gay indi film waiting to happen
TOTALCONTROL871 2 months ago
@TOTALCONTROL871 haha well i have some clips of him i been meaning to piece together
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@MrChinesecrested Really? Why are you even looking at this stuff in the first place. You're going out of your own way to be a total douche. Gtfo.
DanielStratford666 2 months ago
@DanielStratford666 it is pretty rediculous
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@MrChinesecrested wow.... ur hatred is really ugly
SlimShaney08 2 months ago 8
think it's in the genes... one reason is a (logo?) tv show i saw about a woman who had 5 gay kids. ironically she was a religious freak, was kinda cold to her kids, didnt approve of their lifestyle, until she almost lost one of them to bad health.
1 LIFE
sleekcartim 2 months ago
@sleekcartim thanks so much for telling me bout that :) im always glad when the gay gene is more and more believed :)
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@SlimShaney08 I agree, currently arguing that on another channel. Obviously, the leading cause of the spread of HIV is ignorance, because 35 years later and people still think it's a gay disease. Love what Qweneth said on GLEE, "Remember, every time you sleep with someone you're sleeping with everyone they've ever slept with, and everybody has a random." But still I can see I'm beating my head against a wall, our penises are my favorite toys, so let's protect them! Always use a condom.
phoenix3370 2 months ago
@phoenix3370 haha very nice! lol and yes if ur not gonna wrap it make sure ur being monogamous and so r they and that ur tested!
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
Ahh it was just a guess to the mom show thing. I meant the look for you as a compliment.Being a nerd isa very good thing.More so now than in the 90s and 80s. My cousin is bisexual,but dead. Drugs.
AllenTax 2 months ago
@AllenTax oh well i dont think nerd is complimenting haha but thanks and im sorry to hear bout ur cuz
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
I'm surprised you didn't say to that of your mom saying it to you. " How do you not know if you like girls if you never tryed them out". And nice you pointed the other 2 statement issues. Molestation and gay gene. But the gene has been tested already.
AllenTax 2 months ago
@AllenTax huh? my mom never said how do you know, and theres still theory to the gay genes
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
All sexualities are in all people.
karezza6 2 months ago
@karezza6 there ya go :)
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@SlimShaney08
Everyone is gay. No-one is gay.
karezza6 2 months ago
aaw...You are cute :3
NachitoVnzla 2 months ago
@NachitoVnzla thanks lol
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
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NachitoVnzla 2 months ago
@SlimShaney08 haha you're welcome
NachitoVnzla 2 months ago
@SlimShaney08 I would look at that again. Since most women don't ejaculate it is harder to catch HIV from them, during sex. So if the largest group of infection at the moment, were African American women, the cause of the infection would most likely be African American men. Of the 33 million known cases of HIV in the world today, only 1.2 million are in the US. 22.9 in Africa. So African AMERICAN Women wouldn't be the largest infected group. Don't believe me? google "Avert HIV/AIDS"
phoenix3370 2 months ago
@phoenix3370 like i said i researched it and it said that, and you can get HIV through needle sharing as well idk all im saying is my point is gay people arent the only ones who get it
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
Your story is largely similar to mine with the exception of the gay father. Mine was just a bum that loafed about and let my family be. I am bisexual now... and part of me has always wondered if it has/had anything to do with the lack of a male figure. I do not know. Maybe I never will. Maybe there is a gene. Maybe not. Either way, we are what we are. Embrace it.
MisterLyricist 2 months ago
@MisterLyricist very true :)
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
Your story is largely similar to mine with the exception of the gay father. Mine was just a bum that loafed about and let my family be. I am bisexual now... and part of me has always wondered if it has/had anything to do with the lack of a male figure. I do not know. Maybe I never will. Either way, we are what we are. Embrace it.
MisterLyricist 2 months ago
@MisterLyricist very true :)
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
I grew up without a father too. i understand psychologically where you are coming from with wanting a daddy when you where a little kid. i didn't have one. now im 18 and my boyfriend is 30. I'm also bisexual. no one else is in my family. some know and are wierd about it. but it's who i am. it's who you are. it's ok. i support you.
KristyBaby18 2 months ago
@KristyBaby18 glad ur able to live ur life... that is def an age gap but if ur happy thats what matters
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
BURN IN HELL!!! KARMA ALREADY MAKES SURE THAT GAYS ARE THE DOMINANT GROUP INFESTED WITH AIDS-AND RIGHTLY SO!!! YOUR ANUS IS ONLY A PASSAGE FOR SHIT YOU MENTALLY ILL SCARY AND DANGEROUS CREATURES!!! GET A GRIP ON THE LOGICAL!!!
LYYSL 2 months ago
stupid, narrow minded, mindless, hurtful, careless, idiot. how's that for hurtful words. god doesnt love pursecuters or people who judge. keep your mean words to yourself.
KristyBaby18 2 months ago
@KristyBaby18 u rock
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@LYYSL you are an idiot... african american women are the leading cause for HIV/AIDS, and although anal sex is very easy it is for anyone who does it because it can tear easy... your a moron
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@SlimShaney08 I think you didn't mean cause there. The current dominant groups infected with HIV right now are women 18-25 and 39 and up, also black men 18-25. I assume that's what you meant. Also ignore buttheads like this guy. Their ignorance speaks for itself.
phoenix3370 2 months ago
@phoenix3370 last i checked it was african american women leading cause
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
Man you can be a hero to gay people
1rayraymindless 2 months ago
@1rayraymindless Wow thank you so much! what makes you so that though?
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
TOUCHING REALLY:) UMMM JUST ASKIN RANDOM CHILD PIC LOL YOUR SO KOOL:)
dreamer9816 2 months ago
@dreamer9816 HAHA! i do have a picture of me as a kid... haha where should I put it
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
Hi! :)
I'm a medical student and I really pay attention for gay researches. There is a hungarian geneticist(Dr. Czeizel Endre) whose son is gay. He's been doing researches for years and he's found a lot of things. He found several genes, which play role in the formation of someone's sexuality, but there is one gene, which mainly effects (70%) someone's oriantation. (The research aimed at gay men)This gene is on the long arm of the X chromosome.
:)...of course I'm gay:):)
badguy1596 2 months ago
@badguy1596 love it when proof is starting to pop up haha
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Well, it actually proofs the opposite of what you think. Boys have X and Y chromosome. X chromosome comes from the mother and Y from the father. And as i said the "gay" gene is on the X chromosome, which comes from the mother, we "inherit" homosexuality from the mother. :) sounds weird and it's much more complicated, but it's true:)
badguy1596 2 months ago
@badguy1596 HAHA hey if the gay gene is there idc how haha
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
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SATAN HAS A SPECIAL PLACE FOR EACH ONE OF YOU HOMOSEXUALS AS YOU WILL FIND OUT THE SECOND YOU TAKE YOUR LAST BREATH, HES WAITING FOR YOU.
IIIIlllllll 3 months ago
@IIIIlllllll See you there! If god hates his children for loving someone then he is never the god I was thought to believe, take your hatred elsewhere
SlimShaney08 3 months ago 3
@SlimShaney08 Leviticus 20:13. "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."
IIIIlllllll 2 months ago
@IIIIlllllll man wrote the bible and this can be taken many ways a man cant lie with a man as woman because no vagina, also could be taken as no 3somes... it does not say "being gay means you will go to hell" suck on that biggot
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@IIIIlllllll Hey it's you again! Good to see you buddy. I'm still waiting for an answer to my question from before (you went all quiet when I pushed you on it, remember?). 'Why are you trawling the internet watching gay themed vids?' And, 'Why do you admit that you post comments on gay videos but not on straight ones featuring fornication between unmarried straight couples?' If you remember, you said that you think all those straight people will be destroyed by God.
HojooFlimpson 2 months ago
I used to try and pray the gay away.. maybe he's secretly gay and hates himself for it. would explain him looking at gay confession videos.. i hated myself for a while when i was a strict christian. i have that theory on people who hate gays...
KristyBaby18 2 months ago
@KristyBaby18 that saddens me, i dont think anyone should have to feel they need to pray it away, love yourself for who you are :) idk who made it so that christian meant you had to spread hate...
SlimShaney08 2 months ago
@IIIIlllllll Since god's giant hand did not come down from the heavens with a big quill pen to wite the bible and it was written by ancient man and his values and or lies that he wanted to impose on the world, you are living by and following words that are from flawed humans and not from the divine almighty.himself. Anyone with half a brain should be able to figure out your bible is pretty much a story book that man used to control humanity to us live as THEY see fit. Just a pack of lies. Enjoy!
Xcorgi 2 months ago
@IIIIlllllll What a threat... Not everybody shares your religion. And about your "fact", where did you read that? I'd like to read about it too.
sunsensations 3 months ago
@IIIIlllllll ....you serious? lol
spafrocorporation 2 months ago
FACT...90 PERCENT OF ALL CHILD MOLESTERS ARE HOMOS.
IIIIlllllll 3 months ago
@IIIIlllllll and your fact comes from complete and total bullshit
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
@SlimShaney08 Hey Shane, hi. I'm really sorry about all the difficulties you had to go through. Having a rough childhood is the heaviest burden. I noticed you're happy and confident about who you are, and I'm glad for it. I've come to think my father is gay too, but he's never come out. My brother is gay too, so... I also believe there's genetic determination of the sexual preferences. I hope you're doing alright, happy holidays!
sunsensations 3 months ago
@sunsensations Thank yOU! so nice to read something like this, and same to you! hope all is well and happy holidays! I ask you to check out 7DailyGays which is a collab im on, glad to see you believe in the gene :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
its sin, everyone was born with it. justify it any way you want, its still sin.
IIIIlllllll 3 months ago
@IIIIlllllll kk thanks for the bull
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
Have you also heard about the younger brother hypothesis? That supports the idea that sexual orientation is predetermined and that the more sons a mother has, the higher the chances of the youngest son being gay. It's hypothesized that its the mothers body treating the XY gene of the male fetus as a foreign pathogen so the male fetus has to compensate and cause the mothers body to retain the fetus via hormone balancing or equilibrium.
lagrinoucd 3 months ago
@lagrinoucd I have I did a project on it! I totally believe that
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
I have three gay uncles Ive never met and Im gay so Its not because I was raised around them, I think its inherited
jarredmccleese 3 months ago
@jarredmccleese thank you :) adds to the gay gene :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
trolls...gotta love em right :P and it is strange...well strange is the wrong word,but i had an uncle who was gay...the whole idea of a "gay gene" is interesting it sounds like
rlchill 3 months ago
@rlchill people suck haha and i def think it could be :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
If my father told me he was gay, I'd go to court and renounce him as my dad. I'd also change my name to something else to express my disapproval of him and hope he lived the rest of his pathetic life in shame.
ebonics4everyone 3 months ago
@ebonics4everyone well that is you I was a child did not really know but around 14 I discovered I am also gay. I love who I am and I love my dad as well.
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
@ebonics4everyone I hope not, I can't think of many worse things than a child not able to forgive their parent.
korisx 3 months ago
Your dad is a wuss that gave up on trying to meet women, after he got your fat mother drunk and pregnant on their first date. He's filled your mind with his own inadequacies and self-loathing and convinced you that women will never want to be with you. You aren't gay. You're a victim of mental cruelty and child abuse.
ebonics4everyone 3 months ago
@ebonics4everyone First of all if you saw what my mother looked like you would feel like an even bigger idiot then your showing, i mean look at your username. I am gay, im victim of nothing. You sir need to get a happy life and leave that sad hateful one.
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
Regarding to the theory that the more older brothers you have the more likely you are to be gay, I heard that when a male Is in the embryo the mothers body doesn't recognize it so it tries to make it more feminine and after a couple of more male children the women's body gets better at feminizing the baby resulting in the child being gay. I do not believe this is true because I am gay but I don't have any brothers just two older sisters.
lolipooer 3 months ago 2
@lolipooer well i do have two older brothers im the youngest and no sisters so that science does make sense for my life
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
@lolipooer Yeah i've heard about this theory somewhere as well... I have 3 older sister and no brothers and im the youngest one. maybe the theory is right, but we are the exception, for exemple, my boyfriend has 4 brothers and 2 sisters, in his case science was right... But human being is much more complex than we can imagine, So it's impossible to write down a theory without exceptions. =)
Insigniat 3 months ago
@lolipooer right there are many ways for the same instance to occur :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
@SlimShaney08 I read the same article, but I think it's too do with the hormones in the uterus which explains the phenomenon in identical twins where one is gay and the other straight.
korisx 3 months ago
..........FAG!...lol jk :P
TheCasjerem 3 months ago
@TheCasjerem ur hilarious....
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
@slimshaney
U shared a true story , but is not your Dad's sexuality a personal matter of his and sharing it online does not present a good picture .
I am gay too but the last discovery I want on the planet is gay being a genetic thing , the day it will be proved people will consider it some kind of a disorder
yehkyahorahahai22 3 months ago
@yehkyahorahahai22 i dont see how... its just how you are
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
1] If you go back through the language interpretation, the meaning to not lay with a man as another woman was directed toward rape and prostitution.
2] A gay gene is still being sought. So far the discoveries indicate that there is a very high percentage of the youngest boy in the family being gay. They believe that there is a chemical process taking place in the mothers womb in the early development of the male embryo. Its believe there is some type of chemical rejection if I have it right.
ShyWildBoy 3 months ago
@ShyWildBoy take that haters haha :)
SlimShaney08 3 months ago
@ShyWildBoy It's actually a lack of testosterone getting to the brain during the first half of the pregnancy. Without the influence of testosterone the brain will develop female complete with female thought processes, mannerisms and female attraction to the male. Even if testosterone does reach the brain after the halfway point, the female brain will remain. How homosexual a male will be depends on how much and how early male hormone reaches the brain. Continued. . .