I have the same problems,I'm 20, but I don't seem to be any getting better. The people I want to talk to the most are the ones I can't talk to at all. So I just continue to build up regret when I end up never seeing these people again, without ever taking the risk of talking to them. The only time I ever feel like I can talk to them is when they are sitting all alone, but then I wonder what I should say, and by the time I figure something out they're already gone.
This made me really sad.. If thats not weird? Im 13 and still a lot like you.. I wont go to any social events if I dont have a close friend to tag along with..I miss out on a lot of fun stuff because I cant talk to anyone.. Except with my friends Im very different.
You are soo adorable and sweet! I am a lot like you, I have problems talking to people, even when I want to, because I'm shy and awkward. I'm a lot better than I used to be, but in some situations I'm still pretty shy. Ahh the curse.
omg you are soo cute! i know how you feel! but dude youre doing fiiiine! if rory invited you that means youve given enough of yourself to him! people are gonna love ya if you just tell the damn truth
Shyness is a sign of high intelligence. One reason for this: weariness of other creatures, and the refusal to find out the hard way like most people do (most people are of average intelligence).
im shy too. i hate it. no one really likes shy people. cause people think "oh shes shy, shes not interesting..shes boring". i absolutely hate when people make fun of me cuz im quiet. not exactly make fun of me but joke/talk about it. it makes me feel really bad bout myself, like im not good enough. my classmate keeps telling me to talk more, i feel embarassed,mad and sad. i hate being shy..
I have the same problem! I can never think of anything to talk about and there are all these awkward silences.......it makes me feel like everyone thinks of me as a really boring person.
Wish I could just say, "Fuck it. I don't give a damn what you think, you're a moron, and your opinion of me is just plain wrong." BUT, of course, my lack of a spine prevents me from ever sticking up for myself to an asshole, or even just saying "hi" to a person as I walk down the hallway.
@pimpsonparade Lol, that was some funny ass post. Made me lol, because i feel the exact same way. This beautiful girl liked me, me. I didnt even know because i liked her loaaads, she kept saying hi and stuff and kept trying to make conversation. But i coudlnt utter the words to her, even on the bus, i see her and we would be standing within reach of each other and i dont say shit to her. Now shes got the wrong impression...fuck...shes so hot aswell, every guy is on to her. I had my chance...
@pimpsonparade Lol, that was some funny ass post. Made me lol, because i feel the exact same way. This beautiful girl liked me, me. I didnt even know because i liked her loaaads, she kept saying hi and stuff and kept trying to make conversation. But i coudlnt utter the words to her, even on the bus, i see her and we would be standing within reach of each other and i dont say shit to her. Now shes got the wrong impression...fuck...shes so hot aswell, every guy is on to her. I had my chance...
ur beautiful an im shy to its much harder for guys then girls ive only had two or three girlfreinds in my 21 years of living im startin to get better tho
I had the same problem last summer with my history prof. I found out he liked a lot of the same things I did, like music and ideologies. He is probably about 4 or 5 years older than me but I could never talk to him. He tried to talk to me but I would just look down to my paper and shut down. He always complimented my shirts, and I had a feeling he was pretty nervous around me as well. He at least tried to talk to me. He just is a really cool and nice guy. I wish we could at least be friends.
At least you can still get laid cause your a hot chick, try being a shy guy, it don't matter how good looking you are, girls can see right through you, I cant hide the shit, People probably mistake your shyness for being stuck up, that happens with a lot of shy girls Im sure
i never know what to say when i talk either i always somehow end the conversation in like 2 seconds and then its silent for 5 seconds and the person walks away and talks to someone else and im like dammit lol
Don't worry! It will take time to converse with others..even with people you know! You just have to believe that you will get better! Its good thing that your realizing that you werent ready to go to the party or to talk to someone you know but realizing there is a next time. You'll be ok! Wish you the best of luck!
By the way I wonder if you saw my video about shy people. Type up sparkit75
@sparkit75 Thank you! This is a pretty old video, so I've gotten a lot better at having conversations, but still working on it. I will definitely check out your video :)
GET 500 MORE PIERCINGS THAT COVER YOUR ENTIRE FACE, THIS WILL INTIMIDATE EVERYONE THAT YOU MEET THUS YOU WILL NOT BE SHY ANYMORE BECAUSE EVERYONE WILL BE SCARED OF YOU. THIS IS OBVIOUSLY THE BEST ADVICE YOU COULD EVER GET AND YOU SHOULD TOTALLY GO THROUGH WITH IT.
i dont know why you are shy...you are cute and i think guys would love to talk to you...is it just me or does a bit of shyness make cute chicks even cuter?
Shy? Sorry, but I'm not shy but I have no piercings, not to mention I would never consider having a piercing as prominent as that. Then you do You Tube videos.
I think you're far more outgoing than you give yourself credit.
u have a skype lol and i am really shy to its jus that iv always been the shy quite one and idk jus has not been the best for me and i used to get picked on but i moved ended up being stuck as the "new kid" and yea......
Lol!! I feel your pain;| I'm a guy that can't spark up a conversation or look at girl and hold eye contact!! It sucks ass!! But I became a hair designer after my mom, and in the hair dressing world!! I have no problem
Because I dam good a cutting hair and people at work see that!! But outside of work I'm still that scared little boy!! So really it's ok to be shy because it keep's you out of trouble!!! And some times into amazing relationships!!
u should have gone to the party lol, he was proberly thinking "where is she??" i bet he was counting on you coming along and his friends had to console him on your whereabouts lol
Yeah, I can relate to this. It's so easy for me to talk to people who I don't particularly care for, but I can never talk to the people I want to talk to without inadvertently making an ass out of myself.
that was adorable, and I know exactly how you feel, don't sweat it too much, I've come to realize that the best relationships don't come from a huge amount of effort trying to talk to them or get their attention. when it seems right, they're right their with you, and it's something you feel more so than say. so lucky you shy girl = ) lol
I had pretty much the exact same thing happen to me, except instead of being a neighbour it was a girl I met online. She was going out with her friends and invited me along, but I didn't go because I didn't know any of her friends and... well, I don't need to repeat what you said - the reasons were exactly the same. So I feel for ya!
Oh wait, 2007... are things any different three years later?
I am with you. I struggle you can't imagine. I always have been shy but I moved from Europe to USA and met bad bad people, went through hell and now I am scared of every and anything.
U look fantastic, hard to believe that u don't like attention..with the piercing in ur lips, making videos..67 I mean look at u. It's not that bad. I keep my fingers crossed for u. And how u actually work on ur shyness? Thanks and good luck.
In middle school I was thinking "a lot of pepole are out going so some one will talk to me soon." but trough out those hellish 3 years no one did (ok fine some did but none of them became my freinds.) so this year in high school I'm going to have to make the first move and talk cos the few pepole I did talk to in middle school told me I should talk more.
Im very shy too and and i get judged from my friends and family but when they ask me why am so shy i dont know what to say. But im not shy around my family they know im shy around new people but just dont know to say
what i fucken hate is loud people fucknig telling me .."are you hygh?" " do you smoke?" "why are you so sad?" like seriously i gets on my nerves! my eyes are naturally droopy so it looks like i'm sad all time but really im hiding my creativity in side! fuck stupid loud assholes always making fun of shy people just to make them look cool!
Just wiish other ppl would understand...esp the really outgoing types. Oh and everyones said this - you are really Pretty and im also not liking that ring thing on your lip. Good luck with everything!! (incl Rory)
Why do you call your shyness a problem? It's a part of who you are-- why would you want to change it? Well, if you do want to change it then I'd hope you'd be doing it for you, not for anyone else. I like shy people. They're more interesting to talk to. You shy people have the gift of being able to say something worthwhile when you speak; and that's a great thing.
What are you guys crazy? Her lip-ring looks amazing. One of her best facial features is her lips and the way she gestures with them and the ring just makes that stand out more and looks really cute.
You sound so much like me. I was so shy I was not able to go into a post office to buy a stamp. That sounds stupid, and guess it is really, but that is the way it was.
I was shy from a child and am just coming out of my shell.
I am not asking for you to reply, though it would be nice! But do not worry about what others think. Shy people tend to be more intelligent and caring, and that is because of their shyness. They have perhaps more time to think about things around them and make sense of it.
One thing I would say is think carefully before going out with someone on the web. You have no idea who they really are, OK, this is meant sincerely.
You shouldn't be shy to talk to that guy, i bet he would be more than happy to talk to you, you're so pretty, he's probably thinking. "Damn, I wish I had the guts to talk to that cute girl who lives downstairs!! What the hell should I do??"
I was always shy. Even at 31, I still have a hard time meeting and talking to ppl. I can sing in front of ppl (cause I've been doing it forever), but sometimes it's really hard.
My girl, I used to be just like you. One day I just realized my sole problem was that I worried too much and used to overthink things.
I remember reading a very good book, something like "How to stop worrying and start living" and it had quite a possitive impact on the way I saw things.
Anyway I hope you're making progress. Lots of love!
im super shy and thats one of my problems and along time ago i was never shy i would make and meet new people but now im soo different and quite and i dont like it i wish i still had that cofidenece i once had
your super cute btw, im a pretty quiet guy myself also but I'm more comfortable that way and don't think there's anything wrong with it and if people find it a turn off, I couldn't care less, and I also find shy girls like you a turn on, anyways good luck with it all, I hope it all goes well for you:)
you are cute, would love to 'hang out' and i'm sure rory would too. You're fine the way you are, and next time say you will just go for a little while, then you can leave if you don't feel comfortable
I am quiet, shy, soft-spoken, gentle, and introverted. It's hard for us to talk about ourselves, so you did a good job doing that! I 100% understand everything you are saying in this video. I have grown so much over the past couple of years too. As wierd as it sounds, it has helped to tell the people I have liked that I am quiet. I find it is usually very hard for me to express how I am feeling to others. Best wishes with the guy you like! :)
look you dont need to worry one day it'll work out and you'll lose your shyness and never be happyer :)... besides if we had ever knowen each other we could be friends aha and trust me so many guys would and after this video probably do dig ya ..... good luck with him wow i sound like a fag?
I have the same problem for example yesterday I was at my college talking to a prof about a course and I saw this very pretty girl she obviously liked me and she was trying to talk to me and I said nothing I am such an idiot
Ya know, I don't know why, but I can actually watch your videos without losing interest--even though, let's face it, you're not talking about the most interesting content on the face of the planet. -ha- Obviously you're pretty, but I I think I just find something very soothing about your voice . . . maybe that's why I enjoyed your singing in that other video.
i am exactly like you, starting to break of out it now, but i have a excuse, im not the most attractive guy out there. but, you are insanely beautiful, idk why those canadian guys hav'nt manned up asked you out, cuz trust me in america, every guy would be hittn on you
I'm shy and stubborn, not a good combo at all. And the thing is I get more shy the more I know someone. I don't think there is anyone out there like me..so you guys have it good.
I've been going through the same thing since 7th grade (in 9th now and im a girl lol) I hate being shy having anxiety or whatever i struggle with it so much it has ruined my life i have a few friends but i cant talk to people im known as the quiet girl in some of my classes. I feel you though. Oh, this vid is from 07, how are you dealing with it now?
seriously, those beautiful eyes, and all i can see is a couple of nodules flapping around..fucking youth...and the conformity of that 'rebellious body art' is so packaged and marketed. i'm removing my tatoos with a straight razor and bernz-o-matic.
Sometimes I hate it. It's so hard to talk to boys at school and let them know I like them or find out if they like me. I would kill to have tons of friends like a lot of girls do and be more known.
I mean, I have friends, and some I'm goofy around, but I'm shy to most people at school.
Interesting posts. Yes, you are quite beautiful and your personality is very endearing. How is it that you are so shy? You weren't so shy when you got a lip piercing. Actually, to be honest, the lip piercing takes away from your beauty. I think that it was smart of you not to go upstairs and get drunk in a guys place. Trust should never be given out quickly to guys; they need to ean it...aways.
i am noticing an interesting pattern with people who suffer from s.a.d. many of them are very goodlooking. this girl is extreamly pretty and so was the last woman in the video i saw, i have s.a.d and in all modesty im a pretty damn fine looking guy myself.
I used to be PAINFULLY shy during HIgh school and my inadequacies led me an anti social lifestyle that to this day I regret. I used to tell myself that the world didn't understand me, but turned out I didn't understand the world. Nothing wrong with being shy it's just about finding your limits and being shy is not a limit.
i hope you get over your problem. i have the same problem, i don't know where to begin getting over my anxiety. you're very pretty and charming, I'm sure that'll sink in and you'll be confident soon.
so im a guy n i had the same damn problem but i kinda learned just to just relax n chill (feel confident) wen tryin to talk to sumone who i didnt rely talk to before..n by the way ur a beauty.really cute.
whats that stupid thing on your lip
BlueLeopard200 22 hours ago
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guhimura 3 days ago
O my gosh u are so beautiful and i bet so many guyss wuld want u. U seem realy awesome nd interesttng to chill with. This coming from a gurl :)
whuteverME 1 week ago
@PipeManChuck Your just looking for some easy pussy. Lol
SuperBspb 2 months ago
I have the same problems,I'm 20, but I don't seem to be any getting better. The people I want to talk to the most are the ones I can't talk to at all. So I just continue to build up regret when I end up never seeing these people again, without ever taking the risk of talking to them. The only time I ever feel like I can talk to them is when they are sitting all alone, but then I wonder what I should say, and by the time I figure something out they're already gone.
Hope your doing well,
Alfredo
Crimsonrazac 3 months ago
We think girls have it bad. Imagine being a teenage boy whos is shy :S I feel your pain though.
Phenomenon58 3 months ago
@Phenomenon58 I feel you bro.
SuperBspb 2 months ago
Check videos on social anxiety and on selective mutism. I suffered for many years.
sunshine3191000 3 months ago
This made me really sad.. If thats not weird? Im 13 and still a lot like you.. I wont go to any social events if I dont have a close friend to tag along with..I miss out on a lot of fun stuff because I cant talk to anyone.. Except with my friends Im very different.
13lebeau 4 months ago
its harder for guys stop whining u pansy
thaBoomDocta 5 months ago
Go say hi to him without a top on, things will get friendly very fast
NPACT1 5 months ago
You are soo adorable and sweet! I am a lot like you, I have problems talking to people, even when I want to, because I'm shy and awkward. I'm a lot better than I used to be, but in some situations I'm still pretty shy. Ahh the curse.
Genesis2091 5 months ago
What are you talking about, that piercing makes it look like she gives blowjobs.
TevinxD 5 months ago in playlist Df
omg you are soo cute! i know how you feel! but dude youre doing fiiiine! if rory invited you that means youve given enough of yourself to him! people are gonna love ya if you just tell the damn truth
lyraxbelanquaxx 5 months ago
Shyness is a sign of high intelligence. One reason for this: weariness of other creatures, and the refusal to find out the hard way like most people do (most people are of average intelligence).
beneathdatrees0 7 months ago
you look confident, not shy :)
titogcubangonzalez 7 months ago
im shy too. i hate it. no one really likes shy people. cause people think "oh shes shy, shes not interesting..shes boring". i absolutely hate when people make fun of me cuz im quiet. not exactly make fun of me but joke/talk about it. it makes me feel really bad bout myself, like im not good enough. my classmate keeps telling me to talk more, i feel embarassed,mad and sad. i hate being shy..
iloveasians00 7 months ago
@iloveasians00 exactly thats how i feel .
3moejoe 6 months ago
@3moejoe sucks right? :/
iloveasians00 6 months ago
I have the same problem! I can never think of anything to talk about and there are all these awkward silences.......it makes me feel like everyone thinks of me as a really boring person.
prettygirlscantdie 7 months ago
Bloooday hell
TevinxD 7 months ago
Uhg, I'm the same way... I hate it.
BRIGHTeyesCLOWN 7 months ago
r u Canadian
carsonrulz101 8 months ago
dude, why is this on the internet haha
wagooairlines 8 months ago
well I'm also shy but not a loner.. I'm shy when meeting new people..
frontiervilla 9 months ago
I actually think the lip-ring is really cute on you.
Zeroimplosive 9 months ago
Dawww
I'm shy too. Although not at all as shy as I used to be.
VolcanicPenguin 10 months ago
man youd look really pretty without the pierce on your lip
MtEdeNLov3R 10 months ago
ill watch this later..i think i can relate lol
BlackCaviar101 10 months ago
Wish I could just say, "Fuck it. I don't give a damn what you think, you're a moron, and your opinion of me is just plain wrong." BUT, of course, my lack of a spine prevents me from ever sticking up for myself to an asshole, or even just saying "hi" to a person as I walk down the hallway.
pimpsonparade 10 months ago
@pimpsonparade Lol, that was some funny ass post. Made me lol, because i feel the exact same way. This beautiful girl liked me, me. I didnt even know because i liked her loaaads, she kept saying hi and stuff and kept trying to make conversation. But i coudlnt utter the words to her, even on the bus, i see her and we would be standing within reach of each other and i dont say shit to her. Now shes got the wrong impression...fuck...shes so hot aswell, every guy is on to her. I had my chance...
Phenomenon58 10 months ago
@pimpsonparade Lol, that was some funny ass post. Made me lol, because i feel the exact same way. This beautiful girl liked me, me. I didnt even know because i liked her loaaads, she kept saying hi and stuff and kept trying to make conversation. But i coudlnt utter the words to her, even on the bus, i see her and we would be standing within reach of each other and i dont say shit to her. Now shes got the wrong impression...fuck...shes so hot aswell, every guy is on to her. I had my chance...
Phenomenon58 10 months ago
shes sooooooo pretty. marrry me? i hope ur not older than me
IMakeBoringVideos 10 months ago
peopel shouldnt see being shy as a negative thing but as it just being a part of who you are
xxxusernameherexxx 11 months ago
u are a beautiful girl an yahh im shy to tryin to get a girlfriend but its kinda hard for me
IRideBmx97 11 months ago
ur beautiful an im shy to its much harder for guys then girls ive only had two or three girlfreinds in my 21 years of living im startin to get better tho
jaybrick8920 11 months ago
I had the same problem last summer with my history prof. I found out he liked a lot of the same things I did, like music and ideologies. He is probably about 4 or 5 years older than me but I could never talk to him. He tried to talk to me but I would just look down to my paper and shut down. He always complimented my shirts, and I had a feeling he was pretty nervous around me as well. He at least tried to talk to me. He just is a really cool and nice guy. I wish we could at least be friends.
Darksunshinerain87 11 months ago
Damn you remind me of myself!
So, cut the chase and next time just go
archetype001 1 year ago
At least you can still get laid cause your a hot chick, try being a shy guy, it don't matter how good looking you are, girls can see right through you, I cant hide the shit, People probably mistake your shyness for being stuck up, that happens with a lot of shy girls Im sure
shthd84 1 year ago
i never know what to say when i talk either i always somehow end the conversation in like 2 seconds and then its silent for 5 seconds and the person walks away and talks to someone else and im like dammit lol
curtisnz 1 year ago
I have the same problem...
so I am not the only one after all :)
painoXXcow 1 year ago
at least you can look people in the eye
killerkid123100 1 year ago
Don't worry! It will take time to converse with others..even with people you know! You just have to believe that you will get better! Its good thing that your realizing that you werent ready to go to the party or to talk to someone you know but realizing there is a next time. You'll be ok! Wish you the best of luck!
By the way I wonder if you saw my video about shy people. Type up sparkit75
sparkit75 1 year ago
@sparkit75 Thank you! This is a pretty old video, so I've gotten a lot better at having conversations, but still working on it. I will definitely check out your video :)
ColourMeAmy 1 year ago
you have piece of metal stuck in your face.
taariqtaariq 1 year ago
@taariqtaariq lol!
Psypherion 1 year ago
You're right to be shy. Most people are worthless.
ConalCochran 1 year ago
GET 500 MORE PIERCINGS THAT COVER YOUR ENTIRE FACE, THIS WILL INTIMIDATE EVERYONE THAT YOU MEET THUS YOU WILL NOT BE SHY ANYMORE BECAUSE EVERYONE WILL BE SCARED OF YOU. THIS IS OBVIOUSLY THE BEST ADVICE YOU COULD EVER GET AND YOU SHOULD TOTALLY GO THROUGH WITH IT.
XordHacker 1 year ago
get rid of the piercing!!!
Casarzino 1 year ago
i dont know why you are shy...you are cute and i think guys would love to talk to you...is it just me or does a bit of shyness make cute chicks even cuter?
effu68 1 year ago
i notice people who don't have a large extensive family like 200 cousins like latin americans blacks or asians, mainly have the shyness problem.
It's cuz u need to be forced into social situations...
Bak3dB3an 1 year ago
omg..i am the exact same way!! im happy im not the only one..i like your videos btw.
I subscribed too.
Im going to start vlogging,to maybe help me get out of the shyness thing.lol
good luck and i hope you keep making videos i like them.^_^
SammiCakesAdventures 1 year ago
If I was walkin down the street and saw you I would be so inlove. But wouldn't say anything and continue on..... Fuck my life
Birdonrose 1 year ago
whats up with the piercing? you just ruined your pretty face.
supertrex2 1 year ago
Shy? Sorry, but I'm not shy but I have no piercings, not to mention I would never consider having a piercing as prominent as that. Then you do You Tube videos.
I think you're far more outgoing than you give yourself credit.
sol3a1 1 year ago
Just picture people in their underwear! Also, Don't Overthink things! Just Relax.
gefroren20 1 year ago
u have a skype lol and i am really shy to its jus that iv always been the shy quite one and idk jus has not been the best for me and i used to get picked on but i moved ended up being stuck as the "new kid" and yea......
beastbaust 1 year ago
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beastbaust 1 year ago
I would marry you
factsoutofbirds 1 year ago 2
you're cute but shame about the lip piercing.. sorry but that's just the way i feel about that sh!t
Casarzino 1 year ago
If your lying, than I "curse" you.
NutsDeez 1 year ago
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Your fat and ugly.
NutsDeez 1 year ago
Doesn't seem like someone that tells everyone she mastubates can be too shy!
flydude1063 1 year ago
YEAP. I KNOW SOMETHING ABOUT IT. BUT IT IS WORSE FOR ME: IT IS MUCH WORSE SOCIALLY FOR MALES THAN FEMALES.
BESIDES: YOU ARE REALLY CUTE.
pawel86able 1 year ago
your so beautiful
doralman6661 1 year ago
/swoon
l337pwnage 1 year ago
Lol!! I feel your pain;| I'm a guy that can't spark up a conversation or look at girl and hold eye contact!! It sucks ass!! But I became a hair designer after my mom, and in the hair dressing world!! I have no problem
Because I dam good a cutting hair and people at work see that!! But outside of work I'm still that scared little boy!! So really it's ok to be shy because it keep's you out of trouble!!! And some times into amazing relationships!!
Brock2117 1 year ago
@Brock2117 soo true shyness keeps you out of trouble.But i always feel like im missing out.
thethrill18 1 year ago
u should have gone to the party lol, he was proberly thinking "where is she??" i bet he was counting on you coming along and his friends had to console him on your whereabouts lol
Daveflex 1 year ago
Yeah, I can relate to this. It's so easy for me to talk to people who I don't particularly care for, but I can never talk to the people I want to talk to without inadvertently making an ass out of myself.
vaiority 1 year ago
I have the same problem and wish every day I could talk to people and even tell myself I'm going to but never do :(
WSPSNIPER2 1 year ago
I know how you feel, I go through the same thing everyday. It's nice to know I'm not alone!
TheEmiloohoo 1 year ago
Cute
johnnyqt25 1 year ago
that was adorable, and I know exactly how you feel, don't sweat it too much, I've come to realize that the best relationships don't come from a huge amount of effort trying to talk to them or get their attention. when it seems right, they're right their with you, and it's something you feel more so than say. so lucky you shy girl = ) lol
VPlenzo 1 year ago
I had pretty much the exact same thing happen to me, except instead of being a neighbour it was a girl I met online. She was going out with her friends and invited me along, but I didn't go because I didn't know any of her friends and... well, I don't need to repeat what you said - the reasons were exactly the same. So I feel for ya!
Oh wait, 2007... are things any different three years later?
NoeLPZC 1 year ago
Hi, I am super shy too..
btw, this video was uploaded on my birthday :D
JustNeleex3 1 year ago
I hope you speak up nowa days.
sabaths1fan 1 year ago
Hi,
I am with you. I struggle you can't imagine. I always have been shy but I moved from Europe to USA and met bad bad people, went through hell and now I am scared of every and anything.
U look fantastic, hard to believe that u don't like attention..with the piercing in ur lips, making videos..67 I mean look at u. It's not that bad. I keep my fingers crossed for u. And how u actually work on ur shyness? Thanks and good luck.
damouse8it 1 year ago
awhh dont let anything hold you back girl just jump out there and take a risk its the best way to beat this evil thing of shyness :)
TokaKitty 1 year ago
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ukhio 1 year ago
Don't worry I'm extremely shy too.
edpeterson1 1 year ago
In middle school I was thinking "a lot of pepole are out going so some one will talk to me soon." but trough out those hellish 3 years no one did (ok fine some did but none of them became my freinds.) so this year in high school I'm going to have to make the first move and talk cos the few pepole I did talk to in middle school told me I should talk more.
zeroxlulu 1 year ago
I know EXACTLY how you feel
koRnrebel29 1 year ago
i used to be CONFIDENCE but today im weird im all quiet?? hmmm,
I HATE BEING SHY!!!!!!!!!
melanyswanson22 1 year ago
Dudee i'm the same way
17juicycouture 1 year ago
Im very shy too and and i get judged from my friends and family but when they ask me why am so shy i dont know what to say. But im not shy around my family they know im shy around new people but just dont know to say
;( i hate being shy
demiselenagomezfan 1 year ago
i am still the way u used to be .. :( but ur lip ring looks great! just sayin lol
nukanukanuka 1 year ago
what i fucken hate is loud people fucknig telling me .."are you hygh?" " do you smoke?" "why are you so sad?" like seriously i gets on my nerves! my eyes are naturally droopy so it looks like i'm sad all time but really im hiding my creativity in side! fuck stupid loud assholes always making fun of shy people just to make them look cool!
thecouturedivagirl 1 year ago
i love your piercing! its awesome! and yeah i've got the same problem as well : /
TheScarletleilani 1 year ago
Just wiish other ppl would understand...esp the really outgoing types. Oh and everyones said this - you are really Pretty and im also not liking that ring thing on your lip. Good luck with everything!! (incl Rory)
lifeternal88 1 year ago
you wanna go out sometime?
OhBama21 1 year ago
Oh your so pretty! stay quiet and reserved don't become attention hungry, and maybe take that nail out of your lip.
FXThug 1 year ago
your extreamly pretty <3333
456grg 1 year ago 2
Take that nail out of your lip and you'd be beautiful
Roboprez3 1 year ago
Why do you call your shyness a problem? It's a part of who you are-- why would you want to change it? Well, if you do want to change it then I'd hope you'd be doing it for you, not for anyone else. I like shy people. They're more interesting to talk to. You shy people have the gift of being able to say something worthwhile when you speak; and that's a great thing.
katyc130890 1 year ago
Try zeolite powder, it helps with shyness and anxiety.
CodexAlimentarius1 1 year ago
What are you guys crazy? Her lip-ring looks amazing. One of her best facial features is her lips and the way she gestures with them and the ring just makes that stand out more and looks really cute.
zerotwilight 1 year ago 2
Get rid of that lip ring
ip916a4bb 2 years ago
I do not mean to scare in any way, but you have said you live in Alberta or Edmonton and in a basement flat.
Please be extra careful when talking off the top of your head.
Never mention "I was on such and such corner", because some weirdo will find out where you and your family are.
I wish you well and hope you do be brave and talk to your 'friend' upstairs!
Be safe.
mrbluenun 2 years ago 11
Hi shy girl! Hope you are well.
You sound so much like me. I was so shy I was not able to go into a post office to buy a stamp. That sounds stupid, and guess it is really, but that is the way it was.
Be safe,.................
mrbluenun 2 years ago
Hi again,
I was shy from a child and am just coming out of my shell.
I am not asking for you to reply, though it would be nice! But do not worry about what others think. Shy people tend to be more intelligent and caring, and that is because of their shyness. They have perhaps more time to think about things around them and make sense of it.
One thing I would say is think carefully before going out with someone on the web. You have no idea who they really are, OK, this is meant sincerely.
mrbluenun 2 years ago
I think you want rawry to fuck ya!
Izakokomarixyz 2 years ago
uuh my sympathies... but i doubt ur lip ring helps.. its not attractive
sromoff 2 years ago
You shouldn't be shy to talk to that guy, i bet he would be more than happy to talk to you, you're so pretty, he's probably thinking. "Damn, I wish I had the guts to talk to that cute girl who lives downstairs!! What the hell should I do??"
john42dud 2 years ago
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what a shy little fucking loser
slaterruels 2 years ago
I was always shy. Even at 31, I still have a hard time meeting and talking to ppl. I can sing in front of ppl (cause I've been doing it forever), but sometimes it's really hard.
Weepingsteel 2 years ago
I feel the same way
I wish I even had the courage to make a video about it
Especially the last few lines you said. Iwish I could say that to people.
Also, I never thought pretty girls would have social anxiety.
littlemandude 2 years ago
Hi,
I'm singer and songwriter too. But I think I'm shyer than you.
You don't even seem to know the sweetness you spread around or evoke in people. They're glued to that kind of archetype.
jollyfellow25 2 years ago
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You make me horny I wouldnt worry about being shy
but maybe you should become a prostitute and wear some fishnet thigh stockings and plastic bra cups and get your own pimp
TheLobsterOfFate 2 years ago
My girl, I used to be just like you. One day I just realized my sole problem was that I worried too much and used to overthink things.
I remember reading a very good book, something like "How to stop worrying and start living" and it had quite a possitive impact on the way I saw things.
Anyway I hope you're making progress. Lots of love!
michetox 2 years ago
Awe; I'm pretty shy, too. It really sucks =[ I get use to people after a while I'm just shy at first before I get use to them. =/
QuixoticXmischief 2 years ago
have you been diagnosed with S.A.D?
oysterboy59 2 years ago
The problem is you need others approval. You should tell yourself you don't need it and don't care what others think.
weepaul666 2 years ago 2
Thousands of MY potential children, died on your face last night.
lookkool90 2 years ago
id giv her a facial ne day
D0RM0B 2 years ago
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you talk so quit
adamrain12346 2 years ago
im super shy and thats one of my problems and along time ago i was never shy i would make and meet new people but now im soo different and quite and i dont like it i wish i still had that cofidenece i once had
wwefuture01 2 years ago 32
your super cute btw, im a pretty quiet guy myself also but I'm more comfortable that way and don't think there's anything wrong with it and if people find it a turn off, I couldn't care less, and I also find shy girls like you a turn on, anyways good luck with it all, I hope it all goes well for you:)
Daveyolous 2 years ago 4
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Are you seriously retarded...? You're too shy to accept an invited to get boned so you post it on youtube and expect to get hits?
sexysimpy 2 years ago
hehehehehehehee simpy u got -6 thumbs lool... I AM WINNAR
Freddie94Woods 2 years ago
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
i laughed so hard
gomine123 2 years ago
OMG he invited you? I guess that'd be the best sign that he wants to get to know you... Pity.
I hope you have eventually found someone by now. And it better be someone really really nice, 'cause you deserve no less!
itekisan 2 years ago 4
you are cute, would love to 'hang out' and i'm sure rory would too. You're fine the way you are, and next time say you will just go for a little while, then you can leave if you don't feel comfortable
rblackbelt1 2 years ago 18
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maikjeep92 2 years ago
u are ok girl u are cute its enough for me or any dude. unless that dude is gay
lordavernal 2 years ago 2
I am quiet, shy, soft-spoken, gentle, and introverted. It's hard for us to talk about ourselves, so you did a good job doing that! I 100% understand everything you are saying in this video. I have grown so much over the past couple of years too. As wierd as it sounds, it has helped to tell the people I have liked that I am quiet. I find it is usually very hard for me to express how I am feeling to others. Best wishes with the guy you like! :)
Thequietgirl86 2 years ago
im the same way and i hate it to be honest
SensualAddiction 2 years ago
In the centre of the entire vid is that lip ring. Is it suppose to have a weird shine like that?
Smartboy7 2 years ago
nice. lip. ring.
GhettoDoughBoy 2 years ago
It's good that you're gradually getting over it ^^
I only have this problem around guys I like, common problem i know, but it's a b!tch to get rid of xD
DirectlyHere 2 years ago
Maybe its a geek thing i dunno
andrewdraper3 2 years ago
when i was like 11 i wasn't shy and now im 13 and im still shy
lexmark99099 2 years ago 2
look you dont need to worry one day it'll work out and you'll lose your shyness and never be happyer :)... besides if we had ever knowen each other we could be friends aha and trust me so many guys would and after this video probably do dig ya ..... good luck with him wow i sound like a fag?
EveryoneLovesBacon1 2 years ago 2
im the exact same way :((
ItsMyBread 2 years ago
I have the same problem for example yesterday I was at my college talking to a prof about a course and I saw this very pretty girl she obviously liked me and she was trying to talk to me and I said nothing I am such an idiot
andrewdraper3 2 years ago
its funny how u can talk to a prof yet when a pretty girl comes by u crnt think of anything to say
lbj200457 2 years ago
Ya know, I don't know why, but I can actually watch your videos without losing interest--even though, let's face it, you're not talking about the most interesting content on the face of the planet. -ha- Obviously you're pretty, but I I think I just find something very soothing about your voice . . . maybe that's why I enjoyed your singing in that other video.
Keep up thegoodwork!
RichardStevensXIV 2 years ago
marry. me. now
knockoutbeatz 2 years ago
i am exactly like you, starting to break of out it now, but i have a excuse, im not the most attractive guy out there. but, you are insanely beautiful, idk why those canadian guys hav'nt manned up asked you out, cuz trust me in america, every guy would be hittn on you
TheJoeFlaccoShow 2 years ago
you should do an update video on your shyness
890phil890 2 years ago
how old are you now?
enmity666 2 years ago
I'm shy and stubborn, not a good combo at all. And the thing is I get more shy the more I know someone. I don't think there is anyone out there like me..so you guys have it good.
nimbiot 2 years ago
I've been going through the same thing since 7th grade (in 9th now and im a girl lol) I hate being shy having anxiety or whatever i struggle with it so much it has ruined my life i have a few friends but i cant talk to people im known as the quiet girl in some of my classes. I feel you though. Oh, this vid is from 07, how are you dealing with it now?
mygameis2cool4u 3 years ago
So. Damn. Pretty.
Ostnizdasht206 3 years ago 4
seriously, those beautiful eyes, and all i can see is a couple of nodules flapping around..fucking youth...and the conformity of that 'rebellious body art' is so packaged and marketed. i'm removing my tatoos with a straight razor and bernz-o-matic.
normanplombe 3 years ago
you're kind of a pretty girl...you should take that ridiculous hardware out of your face...
normanplombe 3 years ago 3
I hear ya:]
I am super shy.. but once i get to know the person i am more open and talk ALOT.. lol
JessicaLeigh16 3 years ago
I'm shy, too
Sometimes I hate it. It's so hard to talk to boys at school and let them know I like them or find out if they like me. I would kill to have tons of friends like a lot of girls do and be more known.
I mean, I have friends, and some I'm goofy around, but I'm shy to most people at school.
xoxAngelFirexox 3 years ago 3
how do u kisss with that lol i have two lip piercings lol but i dont have that one in the middle does it bother u??? i might wanna get it
Juan2009NewTime 3 years ago
You are very cute! lovely. I can talk to you untill sunrise if you wish! Hot!
kindbluey 3 years ago 2
You are quite beautiful! I am probably shyer than you are.
seniorjohnl 3 years ago
Talking to the internet wont help you a bit. Its just making it worse. You should really have realised this, its common sense.
LizzyAston 3 years ago
Bullshit. If you were shy, you wouldn't have a 'look at me' iron bar stuck in your face.
ehsfb2001 3 years ago
dont be ashamed of being shy :)
p3yo1 3 years ago 2
your vulnerability is actually really attractive
lgarvey 3 years ago 7
keep working on it ull be fine, i think im a lot worse than you, i worry people think im rude because i dont talk to them!
kottonkandyx 3 years ago 3
Interesting posts. Yes, you are quite beautiful and your personality is very endearing. How is it that you are so shy? You weren't so shy when you got a lip piercing. Actually, to be honest, the lip piercing takes away from your beauty. I think that it was smart of you not to go upstairs and get drunk in a guys place. Trust should never be given out quickly to guys; they need to ean it...aways.
koreanyoon 3 years ago 6
Fuck people calm down...
SouthParkmasta18 3 years ago
i am noticing an interesting pattern with people who suffer from s.a.d. many of them are very goodlooking. this girl is extreamly pretty and so was the last woman in the video i saw, i have s.a.d and in all modesty im a pretty damn fine looking guy myself.
hjbit 3 years ago
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i'm canadian and i'm shy and i want to make love to you
dunphish 3 years ago
just get blind drunk and practice unsafe sex, it's what all the other shy people do
rottenzeidler 3 years ago
The more you want to meet someone, the more risk there is which raises anxiety making words more difficult to find, si?
Ricottas37 3 years ago
pfff not another lonelygirl15, its like she's obviously hot and must be really bitchy irl.
leonardo369 3 years ago
I used to be PAINFULLY shy during HIgh school and my inadequacies led me an anti social lifestyle that to this day I regret. I used to tell myself that the world didn't understand me, but turned out I didn't understand the world. Nothing wrong with being shy it's just about finding your limits and being shy is not a limit.
JBthree24 3 years ago 4
you are supper cute! I love the fact that you are a geek and shy but you are definitely a looker. So have confidence and get out there!
DrAdrenalineee 3 years ago 4
im not being an A hole ..but
i find im more talkable when im drunk!!
so get wasted and go upstairs
gimmebanana 3 years ago
OMG i totally feel ya.
i been working on the whole idea of shyness for a while now, but just have to talk it out. It wont go away on its own.
dbline23 3 years ago 2
i hope you get over your problem. i have the same problem, i don't know where to begin getting over my anxiety. you're very pretty and charming, I'm sure that'll sink in and you'll be confident soon.
mattbergbass 3 years ago 2
so im a guy n i had the same damn problem but i kinda learned just to just relax n chill (feel confident) wen tryin to talk to sumone who i didnt rely talk to before..n by the way ur a beauty.really cute.
latinop01 3 years ago
Pretty pretty thing you are - and that goes for the outside too! x
Welloiledcog 3 years ago
lol.. ur cute
infinites 3 years ago