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  • I have a gaydar I can spot a gay/bisexual dude in a second but the 3 second rule is critical because if they look at u for more than 3 seconds n y'all lock eyes then it's a done deal but I'll never react on it tho I just find it funny.

  • i love prince music angel

  • im puerto rican and we can be friends look me a hola at facebook angel pabon

  • He several times ran into me through out the store and asked me if I was sure I didn't want to come take a look at these photo packages and I just smiled and kept walking not thinking anything about it. I don't know... my mind was some where else that day! DAMN ME! >.< lol

  • Oh Xem, you had the look until you did the "duck lips", replace them duck lips with a sweet half smile like I do at the end of your own thing you got goin' on. That will have him goin' next time. If he don't bite the bait then he is definitly straight for sure. lol Anyway, I wanted to tell you about the time this happen to me just this pass summer. I was returning something to Kmart and the guy workin' for the photo place was sittin' on a stool next to a table (continued in the next message) lol

  • @kitkatxo He tried to get me to come over to him by askin' if I'd come over just to take a look at the photo packages and maybe I'd want to take some for my boyfriend. I was like nah, he asked why and said you have a boyfriend don't you? I told him no. You would think my dumb ass would realize he was hittin on me but damn... I didn't! I wasn't payin' attention and I messed that opportunity up so bad. Anyways he kept tryin to get my attention by talking loudly with another employee...(continued)

  • Seriously, I agree with your ex. More of a Down-Syndrome look...

  • @CaptPoco Lol @ down syndrome look!!

  • Web u bit ur lip.. Thts MADD hot !! I thought tht was sexy:)

  • I'm an intellectual, so I have more of a straightforward, serious glance where I pierce into the eyes of my potential interest. That seems to put most gay or bisexual guys in a trance. Even straight guys sometimes.

    It's weird that he didn't give you the three seconds. Your look is so cute and flirtatious. Most straight men would have either laughed or stared out of curiosity at least. Of course the gay or bisexual guys would have fell to mush, like me :)

  • i dont do jack..i just look good lol

  • LMAO I'm dying :)

    you're delicious 

  • boooom !! headshot !!! diee gay niggga die how the hell i get here ?

  • Damn, I wish I could have seen him!!

  • Glad to know im not the only one that goes to that target every sunday

  • Those 3 second looks definitely work!

  • You Have A NEW Subscriber ! MEEEE ! ;)

  • that place is ur site lol

  • "Waw waww fashion baby!!"...lmaoooo

  • This is my first time looking at your video's and DAMN i love ya! Lol work!

  • and if he start licking his lips while you in his presence that shows he wants to lick something else of yours, lol

  • and the sexy puerto rican boy at target probably was a ho to his coworkers at Target, lol

  • them 3 seconds woulda mos def worked on me breh

  • I saw this dude in the train and he was staring at me so, usually I don't give a fuck I'm stared at all the time but I was in the mood so I looked back and we made eye contact,then he ended up just leaving the damn train Lol.

  • What song plays at the end of the vid?

  • Well... I can see how that would work...

  • haha what Target would this be? Columbia, MO? I'm the security guard at Target lol, let me know man

  • Your "look" looks kind of contrived and moronic at the same time. Reminds me of Whoopi Goldberg.

  • be careful tho, becuase he might feel uncomfortable towards your advances and the reaction may get this time around might be physical..and i don't mean that in a good way...the brother ain't obviously gay.

  • lol im the cousin of the sexy puerto rican dude at Target....lol YOUR the one he said gave him " i wanna get atchu look. " he thought it was funny. Small world.

  • THIER IS A DUDE AT TJMAX THAT I THINK LIKES ME . BUT HE IS TO YOUNG AND i KNOW WHAT IT WOULD TURN INTO. 10 YEARS AGO I WOULD HAVE HOLLAD AT HIM

  • i dont have a look  ijust stare till he feels uncomfprtable

  • this is so bullin

  • YOU'RE GAY??.. WOULDA NEVA KNOWN

  • i love you too

  • i've given that look before...it's my trump card when i'm hunting potential mates! lol

  • This is so me. I go to the CVS downtown PGH just because this guy works there. Even if i dont have any money i still go just to see him. He is so phiiiiiiine, I've gone so far as to getting to know his name so that he could ask me mine so that we could address each other by name and not just the normal "how are you doing". But this video had me laughing cause it's all the way me. Love u Xemmy keep up the outstanding, innovating, entertaining work.

  • i go in the halls to see this one guy i like

  • lol im a part time life guard so you get alot of hot guys coming in and out of their were i get paid to watch lol,best way to have it.but ya there some really nice guys there,im way too shy to give a sotra look,i might look at him in the eyes look to the floor and look up again wit a smile on my face (and blushing if he really hot)

  • Xem, I laughed out loud on this topic of "the look". Mmm, I normally look, admire, then look away, if I feel eyes on me I look again, if not, I let it go. I loved your Xemybear look and voice. Take care and have a great day. Sam. P.S. The "I Dont Remember" suggestion brings back some bad memories - Woo! Okay, take care,

  • doesn anybody know the name of the song @ the end of this video?

  • omg I am hooked on you just off this blog I am a new follower but ooooo my goodness i had one of these guys too except he was the cart guy at walmart the sexiest light bright hazel eyed half mexican half black man i had ever seen and still to this day almost 4 years later Im hooked but i never approached him we met when he approached me after he stopped working there and looked so much different and yet i was still hooked. we arent together now but he still my goofy and i love him so lol. SKITTZ

  • CHILD YES .. YOUR MY BIZZNAS LOL

  • LMAO I cant comment on where I frequent but I will say I just smile and glance a special long eyelash slow blink, lol

  • the security guards are hot at EVERY target i been to..

  • u r gay ??? wott ??? shame oh well u cool hihi lol

  • What is it about the Target security guards? LOL. I had one give me the look before and he did the "wassup" thing.

  • I like this!!!!!!!!!!!

  • i like this

  • the head nodd and wats sup and about 3-5sec look lol

  • lol that look is hilarious

  • Geminis have this innocent lil look people have always told me that I give them and it just makes them wanna talk to me, but I don't know...it just happens when I'm feelin the moment. When you're in a committed relationship it works double time(Geminis y'all betta use it)

  • OMG I have been through this before!!

  • walgreens on crenshaw , security

  • i walk up 2 them and tell them hey your hot

  • it's all about the lips baby if you can get a eye full from a fool you got it .. loved when you gave your look omg too fine

  • I tried the look with you and couldnt do it, felt kinda stewpid trying it at random. Bet I could get it if it were spur of the moment though... No place to go but home to see a sexy man that drives me wild. Wish he were here now, this nigga drives me nuts i tell ya, NUTS!

  • There is this Football player looking dude that wors at Jamba Juice in the Palisades mall in Nyack...and the mans body is OUT OF THIS WORLD and his swaggers is very simplistic...yet he has so much sex appeal to me!!! (I purchase juice from there often to watch him work....)

  • OMG!see there was a reason i watched this video! i just started a job about 1 month ago. One day i was pulling some merchandise to the store floor. While i was pulling the merchandise there was this guy in the back. He was stacking the pallets. I had never seen him until that night. He CAUGHT my eye. I mean he is georgous.that THUG georgous. He was looking at me everytime i came back there.. he reminded me on a finner Snoop Dogg... we kept locking eyez.. could not catch his name... nd im too shy

  • Thugs standing outside my house afterschool at 4 P.M lmaoooo

    Oh and the guy on the bus in the morning which is the only reason I wake up 10 minutes earlier!!! LOL

  • DUTTY lol

  • If I see a sexy female and I'm unsure if she's lesbian... i put my sexy face on, lick my lips, and then flicker my tongue as if im getting something from the corner of my mouth... (reading it back.. it sounds like it look nasty, but i promise it dont... this has got me MANY MANY females).. if i had a cam i would show you lol

  • I don't have the guts to do anything..just too shy I guess. I go to a clothing store called simons where I live...there is a guy that works there...plus, even the guys that shop there are pretty sexy..lol

  • You SO Fxxckn cuute Xem..I LOVE that look you give...

  • yes lawd! A young man where i work he is lickably sexy!! He is so sexy until when he speaks to me i wanna melt! I just had to get to know him as a friend or what ever ! i could not stand the fact of me not being able to joke with him or talk with him! But he's married!!! But guess what i don't care! my soul requires him to be in my life either as a friend or whatever!

  • in my case its more like a stare...u know u catch eyes w/ da person yall STARE and den some1 breaks the connection and the shit happens again and again...then theres the walkin in each others direction and the stareing each otha up n down, then ya walk past each otha...and both look back to see if the other is lookin. AND MOST TIMES IF WE DO STARE EACH OTHER UP AND DOWN DURING THE WALKIN, WE EXCHANGING NUMBER AFTER THE PASSING! IMMA BEAST I KNOW! LMAO...BUT I DNT HAVE A LOOK ITS A LIP LICK! LOL

  • I didn't realize you were so into pop culture. I thought you were about something else entirely before I subscribed.

  • lol...right off of 175

  • Lol! I knew from the title of this video that the content would be hilarious. But it's good to see you like this and not so frustrated Xem! Keep it up.

  • Ha the walmart down the street lol

  • you are HYSTERICAL and I loved this viideo. but please be careful out there man. God bless.

  • What a handsome fun kinda guy:)

  • yes there is. it is this guy that i work wit he constantly plays wit me like he'll play around wit me and i play back like we flirt but i asked him like a few weeks had went buy and i asked him do u have a gurlfriend he said no so then i was like so wat about a boyfriend he smiled and looked away and den he was like i dnt experiment that way but i have a feeling that he does because last week he followed me in the walk in and held me up against the wall so its kinda hard he's sendin mixed signal

  • damn I am in the same situation! Except my man is married! (yea what does that mean no a days!!! )LOL LOL I was down yesterday and he held my face in his hands and kissed me! Hey lawd it was great and even though he's married!! my soul shall have him!!!! LOL LOL

  • I like that look, that was so cute!!! Lol

  • LOL I like that look!!!

  • i cant even imagine how u did that without getting threatened or something...u gotta be more careful these days.

  • DAYUM XVA a stalker!? Never would have thought that! There is a night mgr at a local gas station that gets me 8 ways-o-wet! His name is Julian and he is about 6'2, athletically built, smiles like a grand piano, pecan tan complexion and got it goin OWAN!!! He is always cordial but never really speaks other than to make change. I think there are many people who have a crush on him but he's married...or at least he wears a wedding ring.

  • Got that one from my gyrl Happyfeet3592! Get into her!!!

  • you are a str8 up nutt, which is what u almost did describing him ;~)

  • Xemmy baby, I was having the f*ggin' day from hell, and then I seen your video... Lawd have mercy!! I laughed so hard, becuz as gay men, only a few of posses that mutant power of "the snare stare" as my friends call it, LOL! What's funny, that 3 seconds sometimes has to stretch out to four (or even five?). Maybe you outta give that guard an extra second or two... Just in case.. Thanks for turning my day around and keep your vids coming boo!

  • Hey Baby, glad to see you doing a new video, I was missing you, and didn't I get a notification of this new video yet, Im a subscriber, you look soooo gorgeous in this video!!

  • That look was sumthin ELSE! LOL

    I certainly have a look but its much more toned down that yours. LOL

  • MAN!!! You are too much!!! I LOVE IT!!! I know what u mean tho.

  • walk walk fashion baby!

    lmfao

    lovee this videooo hahahaha

    i dont have a specific look and i dont have a place to go to pick up some

    cuz..lets face it i go to highschool lol

    and it just hit me that i do not have a look..but.. i taught my gf to have one..? lol is that weird lol

    i might try dis new lady gaga bad romance tho lmfao

    it's like a perfume babyyy

  • I don't really have a look but I might have to get one now. XD

  • yeah i do that! i make it my mission to come back just to see them lol and i do hav a look i dont use it tho lol

  • very nice video man... very nice lol

  • damn g u almost creamed ur pants decribing dude i kno that feeling when i talk abt my gf

  • You are so goofy but i hear you

  • I thought I was the only one who did that LMAO. I go to a 24hour gym. I usually go in the morning but one night I decided to go at 12 at night. I'm working out my chest, and to my surprise I see a light skin Omarion looking dude walk in and get on the leg press hook up. I didn't even plain on doing legs that day but what ever he worked out so did I. Long story short I go to the gym at midnight now. I got to get me a Lady Gaga look LMAO. Love you Xem.

  • Booooooooooooy! YOu crazy, I love you. Homeboy misses out, but you had fun!

  • Lol ...Hilarious!!

  • TOOO FUNNN!!!! Thanks!!! And yes..... Walmart is my favorite place to shop for.... whatever...not because of the product on the shelf.. but for that sexy chocolate ass supervisor they have at the front..... ahhhh just what needed..LOL...

  • funny as hell! you were feeling it, huh? you seemed happy, content and playful! i smiled inside. I don't have a look I start a convo. So, like this phine ass brotha works at walmart had a fresh cut so I commented on it. So I'm like, Nice fade bro that's tight, and he goes thanks homey with this great smile. But xem it works! A week later i'm back looking for a new for a new toothbrush when I hear behind me, Sup bro what's goody! It was him! he member me..lol..he str8..but whatever it felt good!

  • Xem you are so awesome! The Lady Gaga Bad Romance look hahaha

  • xem i too am guilty of visiting the starbucks in my area just to flirt with a certain sexy cashier that made me weak and he has eyes just like yours, chile...haha

  • WOW! Yes, I have a sexy Asian Security guy @ my Target so I feel you in this! Im gonna try "the look" next time

  • you are just too cute!!

  • lmfao.... :)

  • That look is very, VERY sexy Mr. Van Adams. You got me with it!

  • haha i love this video!

  • OMG Xem you are too much...thats almost stalking you know

  • Your making me laugh out loud. Im stealing that look trick!

  • I give a goofy grin & a nod...cool, confident, but never too much to say "I'm flirting"...LOL

  • Yeah, what I give is a look into their eyes (establish contact/attention), hold it for 2 secs (confirms you're checking them) and a lil' smile (says you're non-threatening). It usually works with a certain type of dude! But gonna try your style [wink]

  • lmao.....

  • I got a look too!! I do the tyra smizing thing with my eyes and i give a hint of a smile... sometimes it work... sometimes it dont!

  • Lmbo!! I love that look u had me going ,lol. I have a look that I do also. and my spot is also target, lol

  • Xem u are too much if u get around too seeing this wish me a happy birthday babes....it is on the 16th which at this time is like 35 mins away lol love u keep doin you one word at a time !!!

  • OMG why you got me at home during that look to myself now lmao.

  • LMAO!!!! I love this one!!!! 5 stars all the way & faved :-D

  • That 3 second look could be anything. He could be trying to figure out if he knows you. He could be trying to see if you're a gay guy checking him out. LOL But I usually give a deep sensual stare and I usually say something really cool but in a really suggestive and seductive tone.

  • lol xem i love u

    that look is halarious

    and yess mam i do

    well there's this boy i go to school with

    he's so damn fine

    and i saw him take his shirt off in the quad once and i almost jizzed mah pants lol jk

    but i always walk around my 3rd period juss so i can see him

  • man i don't know what it is about some security guards omg!!!! idk....i guess the barbershop-eye candy 4 days....

  • LMAAAAAAAAAAAAO! YESSSSSS!

    Do I have a look? No. But if a young man is attractive and I'm trying to flirt I play aloof. Give him an occasional glance, but I'm always really cool.

  • I know this is...uhm....weird, but I play with my pinky nail with my tongue when I KNOW that I'm being looked at byy a cutie

  • UGH my god, i havent seen ur videos in so long i feel so ashamed!! I so unsecured that i cant do no look without looking stupid myself lol

  • its holiday season and stores are hiring all kinds of SEXY! Theres this new brazilian GUY that works @ Mcdonalds that wakes up every nerve in my body! HE IS DA BUSINESS yall!! JESUS! I dunt do mickey d's...but this boy is an excuse for me to go there to get a sweet tea!

  • I gotta Love xemmybear Yes I do love him LOL ...

    4rm Ceddi4Life

  • Oh my fuckin GOD.....i have that same ZOOYORK t-shirt.....I got mine from PACsun!........but yea! its holiday season and these store are hiring some HOT guys. I Swear. THere's this guy at Mcdonalds

  • wow.. exact same thing happend to me with a security guard at a football game at ted gormley stadium in New Orleans.. but i never spoke r anything....but he was really attractive blatino or rican also and the rare thing is he had beautiful deep hazel eyes..ahhhh..lol..

  • Oh yes, theres this really cute guy i like(hes my friends brother, i used to like himi too lol) and i go to the classroom hes at in lunch everyday just too loook at him lol

  • really liked this video... (i dont usually comment) but i could so relate to this story and it made me go offff....thanx

  • amazing,boy,wat i do i just lick my lips and act sexy,lol

  • Love the look, very sexy!

  • my look is kinda like that i kinda squint my eyes though and i keep my mouth strong and all my friends laugh but it dows work...ps the lady gaga video is sick

  • My barber is hot; how's that for "too close for comfort?" I usually don't give any indication of interest though my underlying emotion may be one of INCREDIBLE LUST! Maybe I'm too demure. Hmmmm.

  • @desertflow3r OMG I have a crush on my barber 2! :D

    lol

  • Ooooo , u are honryyyyyyyy!!! It doesnt matter if hes gay or str8 what matters most is if they pay u anymind. Cuz everytime u go there and hes payin u no mind... U DEF SOON WILL BE OVER ITTTTT!

  • Yes ....I work overtime in the mornings to see Terrick at my job. This man is so fine that when he get near me I get heated. Everything he does is sexy....his walk, his talk, his ass, everything. He dark slim and dresses well....omg. TL is beautiful.

  • This video made me like you alot more it was like you opened up lol but i wasnt expecting that look it just looked comical lol

  • Blue Steel!!!!

  • that look is so corny

    that would just make me laugh

  • the cashier at old navy OMG!!

  • Justin is TIRED....Love the look effect...

    I wonder about the brother I see almost every morning in the park jogging....We always speak and SMILE ((*_^))

  • oh, but 2 answer ur question, lol wenever Im interested in a guy, my whole demeanor changes... lmao instead of walking normally, I walk with a confident stride(like I know i'm ALL THAT LOL) and I start smiling with my eyes.(anyone who watches Top Model should know what im talkin about)

  • You mean SMIZING or SMOZING ? hahahah

  • yasssssss!! walk walk fashion baby!!

    i love my big bro xemmybear!

  • How do you know he is puerto rican

  • You see even Xem stereotypes. I guess that proves he's human. lol

  • Hmmm, im puerto rican! Maybe u were talking about me? :D

    lol

  • imma go practice my bad romance look. maybe im single cause i don't have one. omg. did not just admit that.

  • i think i would trying do your look lol but you look hella cute doing it but yeah theres a few places but my favortie guy works at abercombie i go about every saturday just to see his sexy ass and let him help me find something i dont even need

  • i ment to say i would look crazy trying to do your look

  • Aiight Xem lets not turn into a STALKER papa!! LOL!

  • Ugh... he sounds fine! LADY GAGA IS THE TEA!! But i always wait for the 3 second look, definite sign of if hes interested. Well i live in the A-Town ssoo.. boys are pretty much all over so if you wanna see a cuite.. just walk down the street. lol

  • I might have to roll up there and check him out. I'm over by Columbia Mall

  • I'll look to see if a guy looks back and if he seems interested I'll smile.

    As far as the other question. At my job when the FedEx driver comes in the afternoon for pickup I sit right back there like I'm hangin out. lol

  • lol the look is cute i just might try it

  • Can I say 2 the pple that you was planning to steal an deodorant for him to arrest U ? How crazy and naughty is that Xem ! Shame ! LOL hahahahahah

  • You are too too CUTE Xemmy bear!!! I just want to pinch your cheeks and kiss your face red. LOL!

  • ooh i know how u feel lol everytime i go out i see a sexy dude....and u cant tell some times if they str8 or not lol

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