You've got the right idea.........but why does she talk so, well......(for lack of a better term) rough? Maybe it's the culture. Whew, that mouth alone will run any man off!
lol...i was talking 2 ma frnd earlier n i said "bcos i'm in a relationship does not classify as being married" as far as i'm concerned i'm still "single" however, committed 2 my relationship minus cooking or washing or looking for food 4 "YOU" << i mean d dude ;) Yagez.. #Word!!
You think your looks will help u keep a Nigerian man? Your type will cause a change in Nigerian men also,making them use you to make babies only. Your mom should better teach you the secrets of keeping (not getting) a man. You keep up this your attitude and I guarantee you, your royal Eze Nwanyiness is gonna be single till you are 50. Better study and learn from even more professional career Nigerian women like Diezani Maduekwe, Okonjo Iweala Dora Akunyili and Oby Ekwesili.
@ndu1gaza number1 you miss what she said number 2 you are exactly what she is talking about number 3 you do not have to be a slave to a man to keep him number 4 listen to the whole video before you comment so that you can back up your reply with facts. She is right, Its women like you that inables a man to be a man. WE ARE NOT THE HELP! We are empresses and should be treated like one.
@starshema99 You want facts? I'll give you two key facts other than number one. 1. I am a pure Nigerian Igbo man. 2. Statistics show that 70% of Black women of marriage age in the USA are single. 3. Black women are losing a lot of their men to women of other races. The ideology in this video highlights why black women today are losing their core abilities to compete. Listening to her priorities makes me laugh. Sex before taking care of her man. Typical of a juvenile lady with an attitude.
@ndu1gaza You have missed what she is saying. So u believe that our women are losing our black men to other races because we dont want to cook and clean and cater every hour and day to u guys! Our black men going to other races stems from history, not from not cooking and clean and whooing u guy 24/7. is this what u think of ur black african race. I dont believe in statistics, the government runs statistics.
@starshema99 A lot of these men don't know what they want but I know what a lot of men clearly don't want. A woman like this. But I had some good laughs from listening to her Igbotic accent.
i had a friend who's fridge was empty all the time because she always took all her groceries to the guy's house to cook..cleaned for him and did his laundry..this was one of those boujie-boujie..oh am fly kinda girls...I was shocked she was that kind of person when it came to dating. Too bad the relationship didnt work. He never recognized her effort and didnt think they were dating.lol to him they were just chillin.
Wow, I just love your accent! It sounds really nice but different. You seem to have a great personality as well. And keep speaking the truth! Love it! :)
We Nigerian men really loves their women, But we also loooooooooooov to eat. We don't really like western food, trust me on this. Due to the environment we have grown up or our ancestors have grown up in, our genetic has become too used used to our food. I hope you understand without me going too indept.
lool dis is funny, well i agree girlfriends shouldnt cook for their boyfriends only if they really want to, but if you are married i think the wife should cook for her family THATS WHAT MAKES HER A WOMAN and we respect all those women that do that, but those women who try to avoid they responsibility as a woman with career please... havng a career doesnt make you a strong woman just a successful PERSON thats all. A strong woman does both, dats my kinda woman, also we men have our role to play
I need a woman who likes my cooking. I really love to cook. Besides, I don't know many people who cook better than me, and most of those do it for a living. I do appreciate some help with the preparations though. Besides, cooking together is more fun.
I beg no crucify Yagazie o! She's only catching her fun but there's some element of truth in her words.This is just youtube not a reality show now real-life, I'm sure she knows who she is best!
yagazie you are a disgrace to african women, culture and igbo world.......it is ignorance that makes you talk so arrogant the way you did in this video. my people perish for lack of ignorance.
Vvv whoa there buddy cool ur tits she is obviously a woman a gorgeous woman who has a mind and opinions and a NIGERIAN woman at tht so cool ur tits im nigerian too and i totally agree with her and also shes not being dead serious sooo cal the f down spanks!!!! @ yemezi your gorgeous and i saw you on urbanbushbabes i love ur style do u girl!!:)
I love cooking n trying new dishes from different places and getting people to try etc etc that said i will not religiously show up at his door to do laundry, sweep, mop, iron etc to get in his good graces if i do it is out of the goodness of my heart once in a while or if he is sick but he better not stand there like a sculpture just waiting and expecting.
"He should be the one chasing u up and down in his car until u find a restraining order and then u realise that u like him so u have to remove the restraining order because then he stopped pursuing and u realise that u really like him when he stopped pursuing u........STOP CHASING MEN!"
OMG I love you, this was too funny, especially the refrigerator scene at the beginning. I was laughing so hard I had to watch it 3 times. I'm Liberian and love to cook, I cook all the time especially African food (my American husband is addicted to my cooking) but if it was DEMANDED that I cook- yea, homeboy would probably starve lol. I did it b4 we were married but not all the time, if I didn't feel like it it wasn't happening ESPECIALLY if he's acting up. Altogether this is a Great video.
i feel like i can relate to most of your views,am just glad that somone especially coming from a female is aware of the wrong notion and actions women subject themselves to when it comes to varying relationships with thier significant other,especially when its outside of marriage
My hubby cooks for us, in fact most of the times coz he is so talented...he has worked in a hotel and was so interested in recipes....I cook for him too, its about love, unity and commitment...my mother always cooked for my dad and he still went after other women. I guess I feel you Yemezi. You are beautiful too.
@MrObiorah man, you're contradicting yourself! you say "you will never eat any food which is prepared by ANOTHER WOMAN" in your house, and yet, if the woman stops cooking you say you will "GET ANOTHER WOMAN (OR TWO WOMEN)". I feel love is more important than being able to cook. You can have love and express that with cooking too, but cooking should NOT be a conditional thing for love. There's no love here in what you are saying, it's all conditional. ei!
Ahhh, I heart you. I thought I was crazy looking at so many women cooking an d cleaning for men that are not even husbands. It is getting worse, because I notice that some women do this for just their male FRIENDS!!! You read that right FRIENDS!!! Some of these women are just trying out to be a girlfriend. *shakes head, drops mic and walks away*
You are a funny BUT true sista.. Sistas slaving cooking for a guy who in the end will not marry them, then what. Also think about it, if one does all this things for a guy who is not their husband, how is their husband suppose to feel special than any other man she's been with(the only difference is she's carrying his last name).
Cook for me? I'd be cooking for you! lol But you make good points if your not my wife I wouldn't expect you to cook anyway. You crazy though....in a good way!
My dear...I have replied to all the negative comments to the point I may be a troll...hehehehe...I totally agree. My man and I sat in his place one day, our stomachs singing praises, both of us looking at each other. You know women can withstand any battles. He looked at me, as if begging. His hunger carried him to the kitchen straight. I was surprised that he could cook, not boil rice O...correct fried rice and chicken..CHEI...MAKA GINI...he has been deceiving me O...
@MrObiorah Why cant YOU teach your children how to cook? A lion goes out to hunt for food so does the tiger. I do not see any female animals cooking for their male companions. It is not an obligation for a woman to cook, she cooks because she desires to. But you are welcome to marry 30 women to LOVINGLY cook for you. But remember you have to provide for them, so that they will not go out to COOK LOVINGLY for other men.
you guys on here dissing this girl really have some nerve! as african women, i am so proud of us for being able to deal with this kind of b.s you men expect from us. what i agree with the most is the good in bed part...the virgin paradox. you expect women to be good in bed and experienced but at the same time, you run your mouths about how you want a good virgin girl who is full of innocence...mmtccchhheeewww!!
Hahahahaha reason to why I'll never marry. I would rather stay at ma mama's house and she cooks for me other than fight silly battles. If I want sex, there are lots of pick ups who can take on the "to-do list" Everyone stays happy. Marriage ain't on my bucket-list and this further, reinforces why.
@KingKongPumpin That is sad. You marry someone because their duty on earth is to cook for you. Wow. As long as your mother does not mind...to each his own
@evadburns I don't marry someone because they can cook for me. But chances are, if our cultures define who we are, I am waiting to see any mother in-law or father in-law from my African heritage, applaud his/her daughter for making his husband go cook. (Yes, we still believe in culture). Lets not be swayed by this "independent woman" crap coz it is a fallacy if you are talking about a successful marriage. Ask why the divorce rate is 50% in the States!
@KingKongPumpin Love ain't on your list either. there'd be no need for silly battles if the two meet each other half-way and unconditionally. It's not about sex and cooking, it's about real love, loving the woman for who she is, not the things she can do for you.
Sometimes I feel like cooking and I go all-out...Doesn't matter who's around boy-fi, friend, family or whatever, I really just feel like cooking period...Now if people imagine I'm cooking to get on their good side or sumthin...sigh! think again, it's really all about me...believe it or not, I've cooked and distributed to our mallam at home and beggars on the street...;-)
Your obnoxious and preposterous attitude,as well as your acrimonious attack against men in this video is an indication of the fact that you can't get a decent,educated,and strong Nigerian man to date or marry you. Hey! You are getting old :) You better look for a gold digging man who you can control in time before it is too late :)
@MrObiorah You're truly an idiot. Just because a woman expect equal rights in a marriage doesn't mean she wants to control a man. Having a marriage where the woman needs to cook and clean for a man means the man is controlling the woman. It's clear that that's what stupid, UNEDUCATED people, like yourself, expect.
Wow...you are incredibly cantankerous...wow! I am totally flabbergasted at your acrimonious,belligerent,and preposterous comment/attack. Why display such a blatant ignorance and tantrum in a democratic medium like Youtube???...lol
I suggest you check your ''run on'' sentence as well as you poor SYNTAX before daring to label me as ''UNEDUCATED.'' ...lol
@MrObiorah Congrats on owning a dictionary. Last time I checked, I wasn't writing a paper. Education doesn't always come in the form of correct grammar. You can know the dictionary back and front, which you seem proud of, and still be uneducated. For example, you're clearly ignorant of what it means to be a man and a woman, and what it means to be in an egalitarian relationship. Sweety, I'm currently studying for a very important final and planning my graduation dinner, so back to work...bye!
It strikes me as odd that you did not even ''Google'' my name before unleashing such a barbaric and malignant attack against me.I frankly do not understand the rationale behind your childish comment.From your comments,it is evident that you don't like to think before spitting out unwarranted fury and vitriol like an untrained parrot.
OJ Obiorah (Film Historian )
BA (Hons) Cinema and Media Studies,York University Toronto,Canada.
@whatever327@whatever327 Oh cut the crap! You do not have a picture in your page,and you do not also have your real name there. You are the biggest faker and lier on Youtube...lol
You do not want me to tell you the name of the institution,which is a member of the prestigious ''Russell Group'' in England,where I have been admitted to do my Masters in Film Aesthetics (Mst) next year...trust me...lol
@MrObiorah It doesn't take a rocket science to figure out that my profile was created simple for subscription purposes. My username is whatever327, it's clear that no thought went into that, so why would I fill out all that other crap? I see you lack commonsense as well.
This "faker" and "liar" seems to be getting to you. Please read your last sentence out loud......sounds childish doesn't it? Btw, I'm shaking in my boots-terrified that you might tell me about some crap that I don't care about.
Oh shut up! You are not only a lier and faker,you are also a shameless ''wanna be.'' Tell us your name,so that we can ''Google you'' or ''Facebook you'' in order to confirm your identity and ''Phd'' ...lol.
PS:
You are such an ignoramus imbecile and a looser! ...Damn!
@MrObiorah Hahahaha. It's sad that you can't even keep your cool from behind a computer. Sweety, give it up, I win, clearly you lose. Your head is about to explode because someone called you a loser. Poor baby. I haven't gotten my masters in psychology yet, but check back in 4 days after graduation, I should be able to do a full assessment of you. Clearly you've got a couple of screws loose. TTYL ;-)
Btw, I said I was starting school in the fall for my PhD, I never claimed to have one.
It strikes me as odd that you did not even ''Google'' my name before unleashing such a barbaric and malignant attack against me.I frankly do not understand the rationale behind your childish comment.From your comments,it is evident that you don't like to think before spitting out unwarranted fury and vitriol like an untrained parrot.
OJ Obiorah (Film Historian )
BA (Hons) Cinema and Media Studies,York University Toronto,Canada.
Wow...you are incredibly cantankerous...wow! I am totally flabbergasted at your acrimonious,belligerent,and preposterous comment/attack. Why display such a blatant ignorance and tantrum in a democratic medium like Youtube???...lol
I suggest you check your ''run on'' sentence as well as you poor SYNTAX before daring to label me as ''UNEDUCATED.'' ...lol
Wow...you are incredibly cantankerous...wow! I am totally flabbergasted at your acrimonious,belligerent,and preposterous comment/attack. Why display such a blatant ignorance and tantrum in a democratic medium like Youtube???...lol
I suggest you check your ''run on'' sentence as well as you poor SYNTAX before daring to label me as ''UNEDUCATED.'' ...lol
@MrObiorah she's gonna find a good, respectable man who loves her for who she is! Men like you are just intimidated by the fact that she knows what she wants and she's able to speak her mind!!!
I luv, luv, luv let me stress it again l-o-v-e dis video, saw it on my friends link and I think I am hooked lol!!! this is so hilarious and so true lol!!! thumbs up, gurl!!
If you are a male, you are a fuckin' mangina enabler.
If you are a woman, then you a neo-feminist POS.
This yemezi westernized bitch is a waste of life. The sc-wrong, in-duh-pendent feral Black American whoa'man (in lieu of "woman") sisterhood infiltrated yemezi's camp.
This comment has received too many negative votesshow
See this why I wouldn't visit Lagos, Nigeria because they are on America's dick and want to emulate America's puritanical neo-feminist man-hating ideologies.
A lot of Nigerians come to USA with a pompous attitude anyway.
Yemezi's ex was a spineless mangina that was engaged in the imaginary figment of love.
And then Yemezi has the audacity to complain about putting in work in the bedroom. She probably don't douche when sexually active anyway..just like most Nigerian women don't.
all the haters here are traditionalist african men refusing to acknowledge that we african women are moving forward and u guys need to stop expecting us to be your cooking and baby-making machines. this is not just to african men but men in general...get over it!! its a new century and its about high time u realized that a woman is far more than her cooking.
@ejikeojo Who are you referring to? Yourself or yourself that refuses to cook for yourself. How is she full of pig shit because she is expressing her opinion. That is exactly why no one should cook for you, because you can not express your feelings in a diplomatic manner.
Your ex so called boyfriend is nothing but a half testackled faggart...lol....he is definitely not a real man.
You never jam rude boy...na dat time your head go cool down.Come to me,and you will cool down...trust me.If you don't give me sex,I will get it from your closest friend,or from your younger sister...am serious :)
The most important thing for me in my frelationship with a lady is 24 hrs sex.
Looool I loved this! I said this to my bf one time an he didn't believe me. I told him I would never cook for a man who isn't my bf already, and not even at the start of the rshp. When I like you enough to go thru that stress, then I will, until then, you better take me out to some fancy ass place with cloth napkins and classical music when we're hungry. Can't be slaving away for no man biko
@nightstrokes My father courted my mother. When they got married, she cooked for him and he provided for the family. Out a marriage, a woman has no obligations to a man who is not her husband. Get it straight.
@yemezi tell him yagazie. these men better stop waiting on somebody and learn to cook for THEMSELVES. Wives and women in general are not meant to be slaves to men, they are meant to be their PARTNERS, so dude at the top need to get it right.
@nightstrokes This right here is why men marry wives who are extremely depressed but refuse to say so. This right here is why African women die younger because of the extreme stress they face. This right here is why African men are dieing from EXTREME laziness. This right here is why men marry slaves and not partners for a wife. This right here is why men are confused and hopeless when their wives leave them. Cooking is not a prerequisite for a good marriage.
@nightstrokes you should be fine ooo! is it written on our foreheads that we must cook? well then if we are going to cook for you, get ready to give us anything we want. you think u re in the 20th century, newsflash! we are not going to cook for you if you are not going to cook for us!
Girl, u got it all right! I'm so proud of u. I used to think i was the only one stuck in the 60's lol. My friends say i'm "old school", tho that really doesn't bother me. Keep enlightening them abeg, they need to get it in their heads that it's not their duty to cook for their boyfriends and fiance sef...lol. I will only cook for my HUSBAND!
@yemezi i think ur right. wen girls cook for guys bcos they want him to like them, its due to low self esteem. i believe if u enjoy doing it, y not. i love cooking so cooking for my boyfriend isnt a problem. but really women are not SLAVES. and to those posting horrible comments, its her opinion. she chose to share it not force you to accept it. if ur so burnt, make your own videos.
@TheEbonika, yemezi nd the rest ov the ladies , i disagree , not to an extent , u can at least make the cheese and i'l do the rest , i mean it all makes sense wen wer both productive, what do u think?
@musajojuan Exactly! We can do it TOGETHER! I don't expect the man to do ALLL of the work and I def don't think it's fair to let the woman do all of it too.
@TheEbonika, yemezi nd the rest ov the ladies , i disagree , not to an extent , u can at least make the cheese and i'l do the rest , i mean it all makes sense wen wer both productive, what do u think?
You've got the right idea.........but why does she talk so, well......(for lack of a better term) rough? Maybe it's the culture. Whew, that mouth alone will run any man off!
4Susieqtpie 8 hours ago
@4Susieqtpie Yawn. Assumptions assumptions.
yemezi 2 hours ago
You're very pimpin'!
lokiuish 2 days ago
Lmao! U are soooo Stuuuuupid!!!! I Freakin LOVE You Dude! tooo funny!
MsChoriz0 2 days ago
Hahaha you are so fun to watch. And beautiful to boot!
raglanjames 3 days ago
Ok got it
Babalesha 6 days ago
hey
Babalesha 6 days ago
lol...i was talking 2 ma frnd earlier n i said "bcos i'm in a relationship does not classify as being married" as far as i'm concerned i'm still "single" however, committed 2 my relationship minus cooking or washing or looking for food 4 "YOU" << i mean d dude ;) Yagez.. #Word!!
nickclumsy 6 days ago
4:12 you dropped "iha" in the sentence. Made my day.
- From another Igbo girl.
syrgirl 1 week ago
PREACHHH!!!
callmemshawk 1 week ago
I thought you meant, when you get married, you'll always eat out.....
olumideawofeso 2 weeks ago
tell them my sister !!!
JennaGyal 2 weeks ago
I like this video and alot of our young women need to here this! Stay strong empress!
starshema99 2 weeks ago
LMAO! I love your accent .. Igbo works :)
MzJazzy123100 3 weeks ago
THANK YOU!! Omg if one more lady gives me a recipe I will walk away!!
yaya1011000 3 weeks ago
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I dont mind the lack of cooking skills ( I am a good cook) but i draw the line at goodsex. :)
czogg99 1 month ago
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czogg99 1 month ago
igbo girls to d max!!!!
tiffany09871 1 month ago
You think your looks will help u keep a Nigerian man? Your type will cause a change in Nigerian men also,making them use you to make babies only. Your mom should better teach you the secrets of keeping (not getting) a man. You keep up this your attitude and I guarantee you, your royal Eze Nwanyiness is gonna be single till you are 50. Better study and learn from even more professional career Nigerian women like Diezani Maduekwe, Okonjo Iweala Dora Akunyili and Oby Ekwesili.
ndu1gaza 1 month ago
@ndu1gaza number1 you miss what she said number 2 you are exactly what she is talking about number 3 you do not have to be a slave to a man to keep him number 4 listen to the whole video before you comment so that you can back up your reply with facts. She is right, Its women like you that inables a man to be a man. WE ARE NOT THE HELP! We are empresses and should be treated like one.
starshema99 2 weeks ago
@starshema99 You want facts? I'll give you two key facts other than number one. 1. I am a pure Nigerian Igbo man. 2. Statistics show that 70% of Black women of marriage age in the USA are single. 3. Black women are losing a lot of their men to women of other races. The ideology in this video highlights why black women today are losing their core abilities to compete. Listening to her priorities makes me laugh. Sex before taking care of her man. Typical of a juvenile lady with an attitude.
ndu1gaza 2 weeks ago
@ndu1gaza You have missed what she is saying. So u believe that our women are losing our black men to other races because we dont want to cook and clean and cater every hour and day to u guys! Our black men going to other races stems from history, not from not cooking and clean and whooing u guy 24/7. is this what u think of ur black african race. I dont believe in statistics, the government runs statistics.
starshema99 5 days ago
@starshema99 A lot of these men don't know what they want but I know what a lot of men clearly don't want. A woman like this. But I had some good laughs from listening to her Igbotic accent.
ndu1gaza 2 weeks ago
I share ur perspective on issues.... love u!!
kossykelly1 1 month ago
Lol "it was loooooove
oajibola80 1 month ago
Lmao!.... (kick's leg) ... Happy BAD-day...
AfrikBabe 1 month ago
LOVE <3 subbed.
VitaminMePlease 1 month ago
lmaoooo! you just spoke my mind in this video! hilarious!
Petite1ne 1 month ago
i had a friend who's fridge was empty all the time because she always took all her groceries to the guy's house to cook..cleaned for him and did his laundry..this was one of those boujie-boujie..oh am fly kinda girls...I was shocked she was that kind of person when it came to dating. Too bad the relationship didnt work. He never recognized her effort and didnt think they were dating.lol to him they were just chillin.
msakereth 2 months ago
enyi mu kuze!!!!!lol....tell them, lol!!! are you on facebook
nkechi85 2 months ago
Wow, I just love your accent! It sounds really nice but different. You seem to have a great personality as well. And keep speaking the truth! Love it! :)
shanellemurray 2 months ago
Yagazie seriously, isi adiro gi nma! LOL!!!! You are speaking my language nne.
TheNwunye 2 months ago
lmaooooooo! lol
Tollybabygrl 2 months ago
We Nigerian men really loves their women, But we also loooooooooooov to eat. We don't really like western food, trust me on this. Due to the environment we have grown up or our ancestors have grown up in, our genetic has become too used used to our food. I hope you understand without me going too indept.
damajoyi8 2 months ago
what is she i like her accent
swaggablood 2 months ago
@swaggablood She nigerian
stellebelle8706 2 months ago
*in sexy low voice* hello my husband, i know this has been a long time coming is this what you want? kick's leg..#DEAD and subbing
TheAngelChidi 2 months ago 13
I love how you slipped that Ibo in, "..ehhm, ihe'a" haha.
VincentVanHugo 2 months ago
!!lol!!! rofl!!! lmbo!!! lmao!!! kml!!! you took half the words out of my mind!
LyfeGozOn 3 months ago
Presentation is everything babe...
abbatiy 3 months ago
Fyne gal cool down, cook for your guy , lol. Nice series though
Isiejeme0829 3 months ago
lol! you are awesome !
Sandy123475 4 months ago
This Girls a JOKER!!! LMAO!
Mercy830 4 months ago
lool dis is funny, well i agree girlfriends shouldnt cook for their boyfriends only if they really want to, but if you are married i think the wife should cook for her family THATS WHAT MAKES HER A WOMAN and we respect all those women that do that, but those women who try to avoid they responsibility as a woman with career please... havng a career doesnt make you a strong woman just a successful PERSON thats all. A strong woman does both, dats my kinda woman, also we men have our role to play
lilwayneisabeast100 4 months ago
I need a woman who likes my cooking. I really love to cook. Besides, I don't know many people who cook better than me, and most of those do it for a living. I do appreciate some help with the preparations though. Besides, cooking together is more fun.
elfboi523 4 months ago
you won't cook eh? me too, i won't get down low (no mouth job).lol
thebossforlifeishere 4 months ago
'dont go rushing around doing his ihe a' lmao,ur an ibo babe for reall! ;D
hollafaith234 5 months ago
I beg no crucify Yagazie o! She's only catching her fun but there's some element of truth in her words.This is just youtube not a reality show now real-life, I'm sure she knows who she is best!
owoyalefemi1 5 months ago
yagazie you are a disgrace to african women, culture and igbo world.......it is ignorance that makes you talk so arrogant the way you did in this video. my people perish for lack of ignorance.
fuckin115 5 months ago
@fuckin115 your people perish because some women don't want to be a man's servant? Try again.
Danaetp 5 months ago 4
Yemezi ...~i-Go Purse U Then...But You Must Not Be Needyyyyyyyyy! :) ~i-Dont' Like Needy Girls...lol!
FraCtalGENius 6 months ago
lol! U Want 2-Go RESTAURANT...Pharmaceutical-Restaurant!!!
Funny Queen!
~i-Like This Queen! lol!
NUMBERS!
FraCtalGENius 6 months ago
LMFAO OMO! you don scatta many heads with this video O...which part of the states you day where women day chase men like so
badagryboy 6 months ago
lmao. Fuh-nee!
Yaa13 6 months ago
I LOVE when a woman knows how to cook :D cause I'm bored of my cooking.
SoGood2BeBad 6 months ago
Vvv whoa there buddy cool ur tits she is obviously a woman a gorgeous woman who has a mind and opinions and a NIGERIAN woman at tht so cool ur tits im nigerian too and i totally agree with her and also shes not being dead serious sooo cal the f down spanks!!!! @ yemezi your gorgeous and i saw you on urbanbushbabes i love ur style do u girl!!:)
facookie13 6 months ago
looooooool im crying ;)
misskaybaybay1 6 months ago
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh sooooooo true. LMFAO. God u just make my days worth while.
MsNotBASIC 6 months ago
I love cooking n trying new dishes from different places and getting people to try etc etc that said i will not religiously show up at his door to do laundry, sweep, mop, iron etc to get in his good graces if i do it is out of the goodness of my heart once in a while or if he is sick but he better not stand there like a sculpture just waiting and expecting.
penzitele2 6 months ago
hahaha...funny girl
Selly247 7 months ago
I agree with everything you said! I'm a man too! lol
KyleeChristopher 7 months ago
i love it when you say you are "stupid" hahaha, love this vid, saw it on NM Facebook, take care!
EszyesZ 7 months ago
"I will cook for you beybe" LMAO
"Is this what you want (leg out)" LMAO
I'm a domestic type though. I love to cook for myself, heck I love to eat. But my man cooks for me too. And he's a great cook.
TheBestMusicChannel8 7 months ago
Girl, you are my best friend in my head....I agree with this...especially the last statement...you are my girl...lol
KihSkl9 7 months ago
LOL..
"He should be the one chasing u up and down in his car until u find a restraining order and then u realise that u like him so u have to remove the restraining order because then he stopped pursuing and u realise that u really like him when he stopped pursuing u........STOP CHASING MEN!"
#True talk
14divaa 7 months ago 26
This video is so funny!!! Hahaha
abht01 7 months ago
omg the restraining order bit had me rolling with laughter. about to subscribe! lol!
krazididdi 7 months ago
Yemezi, Brilliant channel - ur old umuahia comment helped me find my lovely relative on youtube, shout out to MissNaija.
Keep up the good work, more videos please!!!
Peace x
dillinger4875 8 months ago
Well, this is clearly the best video on youtube.
Kandgoods 8 months ago
Ammmmmmeeennnnnnnnnn!!!!!
Laurnea 8 months ago
OMG I love you, this was too funny, especially the refrigerator scene at the beginning. I was laughing so hard I had to watch it 3 times. I'm Liberian and love to cook, I cook all the time especially African food (my American husband is addicted to my cooking) but if it was DEMANDED that I cook- yea, homeboy would probably starve lol. I did it b4 we were married but not all the time, if I didn't feel like it it wasn't happening ESPECIALLY if he's acting up. Altogether this is a Great video.
MJsKCBabyMa 8 months ago 2
Love it!
Keyshaw30 8 months ago
u are SOOOOOO funny! hey, i hear u sista! joker!
wootytooty1 8 months ago
lol, i loved this - besides i hate cooking too actually. love the little scenes in between!! all in all - 2 thumbs up
zaardeenaah 8 months ago
loooool.. love it
slimmiss13 8 months ago
we are definatly on the same page speak the truth girl preach on !!
missjoannie89 8 months ago
I love youuu!
I completely agress with everything you said!
Barbiesoflyy 8 months ago
Are you from Ibadun , Nigeria ? (:
mochabeelovee 8 months ago
i feel like i can relate to most of your views,am just glad that somone especially coming from a female is aware of the wrong notion and actions women subject themselves to when it comes to varying relationships with thier significant other,especially when its outside of marriage
TheChikezily 9 months ago
My hubby cooks for us, in fact most of the times coz he is so talented...he has worked in a hotel and was so interested in recipes....I cook for him too, its about love, unity and commitment...my mother always cooked for my dad and he still went after other women. I guess I feel you Yemezi. You are beautiful too.
mamatesh 9 months ago
@mamatesh awesome comment!
abht01 7 months ago
2:14 helloo my husband
loooool
schmiigle 9 months ago
That heel and trench coat wearing rubbish is once in a blue moon my friend......LMFAO!
poppy1815 9 months ago 2
LOL..dont go around rushing to do his emmm.. ihe a..rofl..
O boy..i love this girl already..Haa!! but i sense some back story events..
when u get married..u gotta cook..ok atleast for ur kids..
subscribe..lol
nofuchu 9 months ago
are you from sudbury?
fagerbag 9 months ago
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
crit1227 9 months ago
love this vid, your points had me rollin.
kthename08 9 months ago
@yemezi, you are a modern, AMAZING, intelligent woman!! :D
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@MrObiorah man, you're contradicting yourself! you say "you will never eat any food which is prepared by ANOTHER WOMAN" in your house, and yet, if the woman stops cooking you say you will "GET ANOTHER WOMAN (OR TWO WOMEN)". I feel love is more important than being able to cook. You can have love and express that with cooking too, but cooking should NOT be a conditional thing for love. There's no love here in what you are saying, it's all conditional. ei!
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vixenvixen2000 9 months ago
... i will cook for you baby, wait for me eh? lolz! classic!!!
Floraiton 9 months ago
very blunt and true gal! luv u!
teefax247 9 months ago
omg i love your accent !
heyyitsnaomi 9 months ago 5
Ahhh, I heart you. I thought I was crazy looking at so many women cooking an d cleaning for men that are not even husbands. It is getting worse, because I notice that some women do this for just their male FRIENDS!!! You read that right FRIENDS!!! Some of these women are just trying out to be a girlfriend. *shakes head, drops mic and walks away*
MarcustheWu 9 months ago
"warm cooked meal sitting on the dinnning table"..smh. Chef Ramsey will do that..
balogundaniel 9 months ago
You are a funny BUT true sista.. Sistas slaving cooking for a guy who in the end will not marry them, then what. Also think about it, if one does all this things for a guy who is not their husband, how is their husband suppose to feel special than any other man she's been with(the only difference is she's carrying his last name).
sudukohustler 9 months ago
i feel u on this one...
lookinghot1 9 months ago
Cook for me? I'd be cooking for you! lol But you make good points if your not my wife I wouldn't expect you to cook anyway. You crazy though....in a good way!
kingru77 9 months ago
I love this girl oh!!! so on point nwam....
cinnoruka 9 months ago
My dear...I have replied to all the negative comments to the point I may be a troll...hehehehe...I totally agree. My man and I sat in his place one day, our stomachs singing praises, both of us looking at each other. You know women can withstand any battles. He looked at me, as if begging. His hunger carried him to the kitchen straight. I was surprised that he could cook, not boil rice O...correct fried rice and chicken..CHEI...MAKA GINI...he has been deceiving me O...
evadburns 9 months ago 18
@MrObiorah Why cant YOU teach your children how to cook? A lion goes out to hunt for food so does the tiger. I do not see any female animals cooking for their male companions. It is not an obligation for a woman to cook, she cooks because she desires to. But you are welcome to marry 30 women to LOVINGLY cook for you. But remember you have to provide for them, so that they will not go out to COOK LOVINGLY for other men.
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MrObiorah 9 months ago
@evadburns Hahahahahaaaaaa...yeah right! Hmmm you got me right there...lol
MrObiorah 9 months ago
ROTFALMBO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
chrisosuafor 9 months ago
you guys on here dissing this girl really have some nerve! as african women, i am so proud of us for being able to deal with this kind of b.s you men expect from us. what i agree with the most is the good in bed part...the virgin paradox. you expect women to be good in bed and experienced but at the same time, you run your mouths about how you want a good virgin girl who is full of innocence...mmtccchhheeewww!!
patamola69 9 months ago 3
THIS GIRL ROCKS!!!!!!.SHE'S A 21ST CENTURY WISE WOMAN!!!!
mhoreneekei 9 months ago 2
Hahahahaha reason to why I'll never marry. I would rather stay at ma mama's house and she cooks for me other than fight silly battles. If I want sex, there are lots of pick ups who can take on the "to-do list" Everyone stays happy. Marriage ain't on my bucket-list and this further, reinforces why.
KingKongPumpin 9 months ago
@KingKongPumpin That is sad. You marry someone because their duty on earth is to cook for you. Wow. As long as your mother does not mind...to each his own
evadburns 9 months ago
@evadburns I don't marry someone because they can cook for me. But chances are, if our cultures define who we are, I am waiting to see any mother in-law or father in-law from my African heritage, applaud his/her daughter for making his husband go cook. (Yes, we still believe in culture). Lets not be swayed by this "independent woman" crap coz it is a fallacy if you are talking about a successful marriage. Ask why the divorce rate is 50% in the States!
KingKongPumpin 9 months ago
By the way, the sister in the video has to know that poor sex will lead to a failed marriage (either way).
KingKongPumpin 9 months ago
@KingKongPumpin Love ain't on your list either. there'd be no need for silly battles if the two meet each other half-way and unconditionally. It's not about sex and cooking, it's about real love, loving the woman for who she is, not the things she can do for you.
vixenvixen2000 9 months ago
Sometimes I feel like cooking and I go all-out...Doesn't matter who's around boy-fi, friend, family or whatever, I really just feel like cooking period...Now if people imagine I'm cooking to get on their good side or sumthin...sigh! think again, it's really all about me...believe it or not, I've cooked and distributed to our mallam at home and beggars on the street...;-)
rjustr 9 months ago
I agree. Outside of marriage, all those things are privilege not a right.
ghanagirl 9 months ago
As in Correct Girl! She is speaking my language.
9naijagal 9 months ago
Man... fuck that. Gimme your number. Don't cook for me, let's just hit the sack.. Oh and btw, I love your sexy accent
kellizle 9 months ago 2
@yemezi :
Your obnoxious and preposterous attitude,as well as your acrimonious attack against men in this video is an indication of the fact that you can't get a decent,educated,and strong Nigerian man to date or marry you. Hey! You are getting old :) You better look for a gold digging man who you can control in time before it is too late :)
MrObiorah 9 months ago
@MrObiorah You're truly an idiot. Just because a woman expect equal rights in a marriage doesn't mean she wants to control a man. Having a marriage where the woman needs to cook and clean for a man means the man is controlling the woman. It's clear that that's what stupid, UNEDUCATED people, like yourself, expect.
whatever327 9 months ago
@whatever327 :
Wow...you are incredibly cantankerous...wow! I am totally flabbergasted at your acrimonious,belligerent,and preposterous comment/attack. Why display such a blatant ignorance and tantrum in a democratic medium like Youtube???...lol
I suggest you check your ''run on'' sentence as well as you poor SYNTAX before daring to label me as ''UNEDUCATED.'' ...lol
MrObiorah 9 months ago
@MrObiorah Congrats on owning a dictionary. Last time I checked, I wasn't writing a paper. Education doesn't always come in the form of correct grammar. You can know the dictionary back and front, which you seem proud of, and still be uneducated. For example, you're clearly ignorant of what it means to be a man and a woman, and what it means to be in an egalitarian relationship. Sweety, I'm currently studying for a very important final and planning my graduation dinner, so back to work...bye!
whatever327 9 months ago
@whatever327 :
It strikes me as odd that you did not even ''Google'' my name before unleashing such a barbaric and malignant attack against me.I frankly do not understand the rationale behind your childish comment.From your comments,it is evident that you don't like to think before spitting out unwarranted fury and vitriol like an untrained parrot.
OJ Obiorah (Film Historian )
BA (Hons) Cinema and Media Studies,York University Toronto,Canada.
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MrObiorah 9 months ago
@whatever327 @whatever327 Oh cut the crap! You do not have a picture in your page,and you do not also have your real name there. You are the biggest faker and lier on Youtube...lol
You do not want me to tell you the name of the institution,which is a member of the prestigious ''Russell Group'' in England,where I have been admitted to do my Masters in Film Aesthetics (Mst) next year...trust me...lol
MrObiorah 9 months ago
@MrObiorah It doesn't take a rocket science to figure out that my profile was created simple for subscription purposes. My username is whatever327, it's clear that no thought went into that, so why would I fill out all that other crap? I see you lack commonsense as well.
This "faker" and "liar" seems to be getting to you. Please read your last sentence out loud......sounds childish doesn't it? Btw, I'm shaking in my boots-terrified that you might tell me about some crap that I don't care about.
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@whatever327
Oh shut up! You are not only a lier and faker,you are also a shameless ''wanna be.'' Tell us your name,so that we can ''Google you'' or ''Facebook you'' in order to confirm your identity and ''Phd'' ...lol.
PS:
You are such an ignoramus imbecile and a looser! ...Damn!
MrObiorah 9 months ago
@MrObiorah Hahahaha. It's sad that you can't even keep your cool from behind a computer. Sweety, give it up, I win, clearly you lose. Your head is about to explode because someone called you a loser. Poor baby. I haven't gotten my masters in psychology yet, but check back in 4 days after graduation, I should be able to do a full assessment of you. Clearly you've got a couple of screws loose. TTYL ;-)
Btw, I said I was starting school in the fall for my PhD, I never claimed to have one.
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@whatever327
It strikes me as odd that you did not even ''Google'' my name before unleashing such a barbaric and malignant attack against me.I frankly do not understand the rationale behind your childish comment.From your comments,it is evident that you don't like to think before spitting out unwarranted fury and vitriol like an untrained parrot.
OJ Obiorah (Film Historian )
BA (Hons) Cinema and Media Studies,York University Toronto,Canada.
MrObiorah 9 months ago
@whatever327 :
@whatever327 :
Wow...you are incredibly cantankerous...wow! I am totally flabbergasted at your acrimonious,belligerent,and preposterous comment/attack. Why display such a blatant ignorance and tantrum in a democratic medium like Youtube???...lol
I suggest you check your ''run on'' sentence as well as you poor SYNTAX before daring to label me as ''UNEDUCATED.'' ...lol
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@whatever327
Wow...you are incredibly cantankerous...wow! I am totally flabbergasted at your acrimonious,belligerent,and preposterous comment/attack. Why display such a blatant ignorance and tantrum in a democratic medium like Youtube???...lol
I suggest you check your ''run on'' sentence as well as you poor SYNTAX before daring to label me as ''UNEDUCATED.'' ...lol
MrObiorah 9 months ago
@MrObiorah she's gonna find a good, respectable man who loves her for who she is! Men like you are just intimidated by the fact that she knows what she wants and she's able to speak her mind!!!
vixenvixen2000 9 months ago
I luv, luv, luv let me stress it again l-o-v-e dis video, saw it on my friends link and I think I am hooked lol!!! this is so hilarious and so true lol!!! thumbs up, gurl!!
tokki71 9 months ago
why all the boys angry/??the girl is speaking the truth,TOO HARD TO SWALLOW?
chichibey 9 months ago 41
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@chichibey ,
If you are a male, you are a fuckin' mangina enabler.
If you are a woman, then you a neo-feminist POS.
This yemezi westernized bitch is a waste of life. The sc-wrong, in-duh-pendent feral Black American whoa'man (in lieu of "woman") sisterhood infiltrated yemezi's camp.
SuavecitoBro2 9 months ago
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See this why I wouldn't visit Lagos, Nigeria because they are on America's dick and want to emulate America's puritanical neo-feminist man-hating ideologies.
A lot of Nigerians come to USA with a pompous attitude anyway.
Yemezi's ex was a spineless mangina that was engaged in the imaginary figment of love.
And then Yemezi has the audacity to complain about putting in work in the bedroom. She probably don't douche when sexually active anyway..just like most Nigerian women don't.
SuavecitoBro2 9 months ago
all the haters here are traditionalist african men refusing to acknowledge that we african women are moving forward and u guys need to stop expecting us to be your cooking and baby-making machines. this is not just to african men but men in general...get over it!! its a new century and its about high time u realized that a woman is far more than her cooking.
patamola69 9 months ago 10
Ur full of pig shit!!!!!
ejikeojo 9 months ago
@ejikeojo Who are you referring to? Yourself or yourself that refuses to cook for yourself. How is she full of pig shit because she is expressing her opinion. That is exactly why no one should cook for you, because you can not express your feelings in a diplomatic manner.
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Your ex so called boyfriend is nothing but a half testackled faggart...lol....he is definitely not a real man.
You never jam rude boy...na dat time your head go cool down.Come to me,and you will cool down...trust me.If you don't give me sex,I will get it from your closest friend,or from your younger sister...am serious :)
The most important thing for me in my frelationship with a lady is 24 hrs sex.
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MrObiorah 10 months ago
love your videos. youre awesome just subcribed!
NaijaTion 10 months ago
nne!
beautifulgooal 10 months ago
Looool I loved this! I said this to my bf one time an he didn't believe me. I told him I would never cook for a man who isn't my bf already, and not even at the start of the rshp. When I like you enough to go thru that stress, then I will, until then, you better take me out to some fancy ass place with cloth napkins and classical music when we're hungry. Can't be slaving away for no man biko
plushpea 10 months ago
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And this right here is why women won't find good husbands... Ask your parents how it was done...
nightstrokes 10 months ago
@nightstrokes My father courted my mother. When they got married, she cooked for him and he provided for the family. Out a marriage, a woman has no obligations to a man who is not her husband. Get it straight.
yemezi 10 months ago 66
@yemezi tell him yagazie. these men better stop waiting on somebody and learn to cook for THEMSELVES. Wives and women in general are not meant to be slaves to men, they are meant to be their PARTNERS, so dude at the top need to get it right.
mzmusicluv3r 8 months ago
@yemezi this is why I would never marry a NIGERIAN. PERIOD! THEY SCARE THE SCRAP OUT OF ME! OLD FASHIONED CHEATING IDIOTS!
MultiSense1 8 months ago
@nightstrokes This right here is why men marry wives who are extremely depressed but refuse to say so. This right here is why African women die younger because of the extreme stress they face. This right here is why African men are dieing from EXTREME laziness. This right here is why men marry slaves and not partners for a wife. This right here is why men are confused and hopeless when their wives leave them. Cooking is not a prerequisite for a good marriage.
evadburns 9 months ago 4
@nightstrokes you should be fine ooo! is it written on our foreheads that we must cook? well then if we are going to cook for you, get ready to give us anything we want. you think u re in the 20th century, newsflash! we are not going to cook for you if you are not going to cook for us!
tuna519 8 months ago
greattttt....thanks for this message
tinuola04 10 months ago
LOL @ come home to a well cooked meal. This girl. You go wait tire oo!
bruin03 10 months ago
Naija Girl you too funny! You what kill Pekkin???
hitchetto 10 months ago
lol.... that high heeled leg came out of nowhere...lol
7CitesChic757 10 months ago
hahaahahhaha!! i love this chick!!! we share the same opinion
MegaKhanti 10 months ago
Girl, u got it all right! I'm so proud of u. I used to think i was the only one stuck in the 60's lol. My friends say i'm "old school", tho that really doesn't bother me. Keep enlightening them abeg, they need to get it in their heads that it's not their duty to cook for their boyfriends and fiance sef...lol. I will only cook for my HUSBAND!
Tostie1 10 months ago
12 nigerian men want a wife as a chef!lol
dipillu65 10 months ago
10 people who clicked dislike did not get cooked for
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Let me reserve my comment. But if what you re saying is from your own thinking and understanding, is means that you re a stupid girl.
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KngLarry1 10 months ago
@yemezi i think ur right. wen girls cook for guys bcos they want him to like them, its due to low self esteem. i believe if u enjoy doing it, y not. i love cooking so cooking for my boyfriend isnt a problem. but really women are not SLAVES. and to those posting horrible comments, its her opinion. she chose to share it not force you to accept it. if ur so burnt, make your own videos.
TheEbonika 10 months ago 7
@TheEbonika, yemezi nd the rest ov the ladies , i disagree , not to an extent , u can at least make the cheese and i'l do the rest , i mean it all makes sense wen wer both productive, what do u think?
musajojuan 10 months ago
@musajojuan Exactly! We can do it TOGETHER! I don't expect the man to do ALLL of the work and I def don't think it's fair to let the woman do all of it too.
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@TheEbonika, yemezi nd the rest ov the ladies , i disagree , not to an extent , u can at least make the cheese and i'l do the rest , i mean it all makes sense wen wer both productive, what do u think?
musajojuan 10 months ago
@TheEbonika Thanks dear!
yemezi 10 months ago