Porn Addiction

[IsCumaFut2]

meditating is the best way i feel to total fulfilment but i think its not physically possible to totally stop The M as the animal kingdom do it all the time.. to ease off it would be a help..

[IsCumaFut2]

if you have no sex life and if you wait a whole month without anything you can get frustrated. so a reliefe here and there like dying for a crap or something but all the time and too much masturbating is bad for a mans heart anyway as all teh blood flow goes into the penis to create an erection

[klevo]

@IsCumaFut2 Your desire/thoughts/immagination for "sex life" creates the build up of energy which you need to release trough masturbation. Meditation is what you use as a means to satisfy the emptiness you experience in your "life". A suggestion is to looks into releasing ALL these patterns and mind constructs - and see what and who you are without it all.

[klevo]

@IsCumaFut2 Meditation is mental masturbation. You always go to energetic low after a while and then you have to replenish (more meditation/masturbation). No different to a robot recharging batteries.

Stopping this requires real self-commitement and discipline. It's not fun, it's not easy. Without it you'll see who you really are - you don't want to see that. Fear.

[IsCumaFut2]

i have been mediatating since iam 5 nditsno way a near to The M word.. masturbtingi isa selfish act meditation is not. you are not meditating right bro.. do not debatewithmeabout meditating.... i hate self righteous people

[klevo]

@IsCumaFut2 "Do not debate with me about meditating" - Isn't that a definition of self-righteousness? Of course you hate "self-righteous" because you're full of it - what you see and react to in others is what is in you.

[klevo]

@WalkerEdelstein Do it so it is only "between your dick and your hand". It's just touch - and yes, you don't have all the excitement as from watching a porn. It's much harder to satisfy yourself, you have you learn and explore just like if you're starting with it for the first time.

[WalkerEdelstein]

@klevo so you mean touch without any imagination?

[klevo]

@WalkerEdelstein exactly

[WalkerEdelstein]

@klevo okay ty

[WalkerEdelstein]

lets say you jerk from time to time now, in a well will chosen distance. but which stimulus you take than when you dont allow a stimulus to come up?

[klevo]

@WalkerEdelstein A robot or a computer programm works on the basis of stimulus - response. You have the ability to go over it/transcend that point and be the directive principle of yourself in any moment. Then you don't react to stimuli - you live and express who you are.

[WalkerEdelstein]

@klevo transcend the beauty of women?

[klevo]

@WalkerEdelstein It depends on what exactly you mean by that. I am working on not reacting with energy rush/excitement inside my body when meeting a "good looking" woman and on not judging and comparing woman based on their looks. However I won't engage/go into agreement with a woman I don't find attractive and I don't see that changing.

[WalkerEdelstein]

does it still work?

[klevo]

@WalkerEdelstein Can you be more specific?

[WalkerEdelstein]

@klevo sure, i mean stopping to jerk is easy for a few days, gets hard after one week, really hard and if you dont look around for a girl than one probably falls back to jerk. this video is now long ago, did it work for u to nomore jerk?

[klevo]

@WalkerEdelstein The point is not to stop masturbating forever. This is about stopping utilizing fantasies, pictures in your mind and porn while masturbating.

[WalkerEdelstein]

@klevo häh? how do you masturbate without having any pictures/thoughts in your mind? i mean onto WHAT do you jerk than when you jerk???

[rubenmoutinho]

I like the end so much

[deliciousonionsoup]

Klevo, how did the 21 day trial work out? And how has life been since?

[klevo]

I am still in the trial, I've restarted it a couple of times for an obvious reason. I'll do this no matter what.

How has life been since? Regarding fantasies and stuff - much less of it - however it's still tempting to go into it. Overall very little progress since this video. Actually the past few days - total fall. Maybe I'll explain in a vlog.

[deliciousonionsoup]

Well, keep trying and don't give up. I might try this 21 days you are embarking on. For so long now I've been trying to achieve a whole calendar month and failing.

[ellnino]

i am addicted to porn and masturbation too, trying to quit for 2 months, but my work is internet related and i mostly the time do it in my bed, so it was mission imposible till now. now i realized that i have to change my life habits to overcome this addiction. i know that it sounds really stupid but this really is an addiction and it is horrible. my girlfriend is not happy, not happy at all :) good luck mate!

[KellyPosey]

Cool, thanks for sharing

[DeedraChavez]

really cool thanks for sharing the experiences. Interesting about the webs and the nose bleed gonna look up about nose bleeds on desteni forum

[potentcokaine]

after this im never jerking my shit again

[funkatraz]

porn addiction? it took you so bloody long to get to the point i wonder how the hell you could have got addicted in th first place - how long does it take u to jack off, a 100 years?

[ezmereldagreen]

lololololol

[grenadezeroone]

lololol

[AndreaRossouw1]

Thanks for sharing Robert

[MarlenVargasDelRazo]

cool, thanks for sharing your experience and for standing up

[NiklasNydahl]

thanks alot for sharing Robert!

[LindaDillinger]

Cool

[DarrylWThomas]

Cool realizations.

[SpamAnn]

thx for sharing! 4:34 lol :D