Here's the thing: When my girlfriend feels bad, i take care of her. When she's sick, i take care of her. When she's stressed out, i take care of her. Whenever my friends need someone there for them, i stand up and take it all in so that they can go on with a lighter weight on their shoulders. But you know what the problem is?
Nobody ever takes care of ME. Often us guys don'\t have anyone to listen to us, or take care of us when we feel like shit. So we just want to be taken care of for once.
I'm sure you're right in a lot of cases. It seems like for a lot of guys it's taboo to be vulnerable and need other people's help. Maybe being sick is one of the only times its "OK" so some guys might tend to go a little overboard.
I hope your girlfriend takes better care of you!! One thing I noticed with my hubby at least, is that you guys need to let us know more when you need a shoulder to lean on, and not feel bad if we try to simpathize or feel for you when things are rough.
No kidding = you are sick and you still have the house and the kids and the meals and the laundry and the bills and the trash to deal with. They are sick and the world comes to an end. I don't get it. My ex husband claimed that his tummy hurt more than mine did when I delivered our children. Without anesthetic. Yeah. Right.
Get well soon - mom's don't have time to be sick. Oh - love the titles on the screen - it's fun!
Because they are big babies! They need to be babied when they are sick. All of 'em. Except MY man...he wants to be left alone, mostly, when he's sick. I'M the baby who wants to be taken care of. LOL!! You did great with the editing. I knew you would love it. ;)
:o)... yes that addict you were talking about is slowly emerging! LOL!
its good to know I'm not alone with this man cold thing. I posted in my favorites a really funny video I found about taking care of your man when he has a cold... it is sooo funny!
you're talking about a BBC show called man stroke woman, the skit is 'man cold'. search it.
benlingben 2 years ago
Women have colds, Men have flu
Women get a headache, Men get a Migraine
Women have a cough, Men have pneumonia
!apparently!
:-)
twish1999 3 years ago
you are SO right!
and they completely don't get it either! LOL!
:o)
myblueart 3 years ago
Here's the thing: When my girlfriend feels bad, i take care of her. When she's sick, i take care of her. When she's stressed out, i take care of her. Whenever my friends need someone there for them, i stand up and take it all in so that they can go on with a lighter weight on their shoulders. But you know what the problem is?
Nobody ever takes care of ME. Often us guys don'\t have anyone to listen to us, or take care of us when we feel like shit. So we just want to be taken care of for once.
philllllllll 3 years ago
I'm sure you're right in a lot of cases. It seems like for a lot of guys it's taboo to be vulnerable and need other people's help. Maybe being sick is one of the only times its "OK" so some guys might tend to go a little overboard.
I hope your girlfriend takes better care of you!! One thing I noticed with my hubby at least, is that you guys need to let us know more when you need a shoulder to lean on, and not feel bad if we try to simpathize or feel for you when things are rough.
myblueart 3 years ago
No kidding = you are sick and you still have the house and the kids and the meals and the laundry and the bills and the trash to deal with. They are sick and the world comes to an end. I don't get it. My ex husband claimed that his tummy hurt more than mine did when I delivered our children. Without anesthetic. Yeah. Right.
Get well soon - mom's don't have time to be sick. Oh - love the titles on the screen - it's fun!
thizizliz 3 years ago
I can't believe he thought that his stomach hurt worse... that is CRAZY! LOL!!!
We are all finally starting to turn the corner, I think.
I put as one of my favorites the funniest video I saw afterwards about how to deal with a man who has the flu... it really cracked me up!
myblueart 3 years ago
From here it looks like you're a quick study. : )
My man really doesn't like being sick. Sometimes he'll let me help him when he's sick, but I think he much prefers taking care of himself.
ButterRivaLs 3 years ago
you are doin great gurl!
I sho hope yall get well soon, lemme know if i needs to send yall some chicken stew.
you have a wonderful personailty and are gonna make lots of friends here on da tubes.
MsOpheliaPayne 3 years ago
why thank you Ms Ophelia!
myblueart 3 years ago
you're very welcome, and get well soon !!! it's no fun being stuck in the house.
Dianasme 3 years ago
you're welcome! and be well! xox
LOVE!
SomebodyIusedtoknow 3 years ago
thank you!
We are all starting to get better finally!
:o)
myblueart 3 years ago
Because they are big babies! They need to be babied when they are sick. All of 'em. Except MY man...he wants to be left alone, mostly, when he's sick. I'M the baby who wants to be taken care of. LOL!! You did great with the editing. I knew you would love it. ;)
Illuminatta 3 years ago
:o)... yes that addict you were talking about is slowly emerging! LOL!
its good to know I'm not alone with this man cold thing. I posted in my favorites a really funny video I found about taking care of your man when he has a cold... it is sooo funny!
myblueart 3 years ago