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  • I wish I you were my friend. You'd e a freakin auswome friend.

  • Subscribe bitches lol xD

  • Your mire likely to die from aids than him so fuck u homophobes xxx

  • you fags have taken over youtube die from aids and go away

  • @rondord U mad bro?

  • that sort of thing happened to me at my elementary, i had no friends until we moved to a different school system for high school. because of the crap i put up with i dont see myself coming out any time soon, that and some friends i have now are really against homosexuality. life sucks when you live in the middle of nowhere where everyone is extremely religious...

  • @XsenHellion that has to change in America, you know MLK made a speech to the black about MOVING BACK to the places in America they came from to help make those places more tolerant.

    of course if you move to any major city area, being gay is nothing spectacular , and really, its not, its not like you've invented it or something. its always important to make people realize that being gay is only  ONE component to your life.

  • I don't worry about what people think if I tell them. I don't go around wearing my sexuality like a fucking badge, but I'll tell someone if they ask.  I don't care who knows.

    I don't get people who care about someone's sexuality... Really fucking immature...

    You ain't alone, Matt. I hate my mom, too. For unrelated reasons, but I still hate her. :V

  • I came out 1/12/2011 the day before my bday. After all of this time my mom still can't accept me. I don't even talk to her any more. She has a problem with everything I do, I just bought a book about eastern culture and she was pissed. That bitch doesn't mean a thing to me, I am who I am. Religion nor medicine can change me. Fire nor wind, water nor earth, life nor death, I will always be who I am.

  • @makemegood5two you dont need to change but it sounds like ur mom does,

    that said

    dont get ur tits in a knot because shes being an attention whore. let it go, make new friends with GOOD People who will guide you thru LIFE not just the weekend or the party)

    give ur mom enough time to sort out her drama and keep an ultimatum point of view on your side.

    she needs to take a chill pill. but i think thats too much drama for such an unimportant thing, the book thing kills me. sounds a lepraco sit

  • parents like that... thats just such a horrible environment. congratz for making it through alright. Youre awesome.

  • I wish i could come out :(

    but i my mom would immediatley kick me out.

    -sigh-

  • @MageDagger Wait until the point where that wont matter , dont make a big deal of it and let her have her theater, she will come around lateron, i always have tell people to give it 3-6 months let them simmer in their juices and then ask them if they are normal yet or not.

    stay strong and realize life is a blast, youre going to love it !

  • @poosaypirate

    Thank you :)

  • you are soo hott....

  • Where does the gay accent come from, I've always wondered what the deal is that that... Maybe gay guys have more female hormones, that would heighten the tone of the voice, and it explains the effeminate movements you make as you're speaking

  • @Stillwater900 *cough*ignorant

  • @TheDanielMaloneyShow I just looked it up. There are tons of mainstream articles citing studies that have found elevated levels of estrogen in homosexual men and elevated levels of testosterone and androsterone in homosexual women. So what on earth would make you say I'm ignorant? I think thats a valid scientific question, and it appears that I was correct. Your response?

  • @Stillwater900 WAIT - never heard of that before ive heard tho that BEING gay CAN be caused by a certain chemical the mother produces during pregnancy, the more male births a woman gives the greater the propensity that he is gay - theres a vid here on it some where. its got little cartoons if u find it

  • @poosaypirate First off, I don't see anywhere in my comment anything about prenatal hormones. (Though there are studies showing that things like nicotine and BPA affect the sexuality of offspring) Second, estrogen and testosterone are present in BOTH males and females, just the levels are different. My theory was that gay men had elevated levels of female hormone. I did a little research, and I turned out to be correct. What did you mean about more males births means more gay males?

  • @Stillwater900 read it again i didnt say anything about YOU saying that im simply presenting further information i think it is antigens? which the mother produces during pregnancy, the idea of what i read was that as a woman has more male births the female body is trying to reject the presence of the foreign body in her body, so produces antigens. basically at the end of the day homosexuality is natures way of introducing birth-control. ( over population )-

    i also heard from a biological

  • @respiratory point of view, that there are several different ways to BE gay related to physiological characteristics brain chemistry etc

  • @poosaypirate I think tens of thousands of years of evolution has taken care of any problems with male pregnancies. The fetus is not a foreign body, by definition even. It is a PART of the mothers own body. I can't think of how the mother would "reject" hormones. Its not as simplistic as that.

  • @Stillwater900 FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I DIDNT REALIZE I WAS INTERACTING WITH A FULLL FUNCTIONAL RETARD LOOK IT THE FUCK UP!

  • @poosaypirate

    FRATERNAL BIRTH ORDER AND MALE SEXUAL ORIENTATION - WIKIPEDIA

    THAT SAID TENS OF THOUSAND OF YEARS OF EVOLUTION = NATURE STILL SEEKS TO CONTROL ITS OWN POPULATION Otherwise nature wouldnt work and we would all be immortal- sheesh

  • @TheDanielMaloneyShow No response? I just showed you how elevated levels of estrogen and progesterone are found in the bodies of homosexual males. You called me ignorant. Your response?

  • @Stillwater900 I just looked it up. There are tons of mainstream articles citing studies that have found elevated levels of estrogen in homosexual men and elevated levels of testosterone and androsterone in homosexual women. So what on earth would make you say I'm ignorant? I think thats a valid scientific question, and it appears that I was correct. Your response?

  • *Cyber-Hug*

  • omg love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • thx for being so open & honest!

  • Lol my names Jake and I'm gay, and I really hope I end up with an awesome(and hot:) guy like you! You are such an inspiration and I'm sorry you had to go thru that, my sisters girl friend is the same way(very christian parents) but I guess I'm really lucky because my parents don't care what I am, as long as I'm happy, Love you!

  • epidemiological studies from Vancouver tabulated between 1987 & 1992 reveals that male homosexual & bisexual lost up to 20 years of life expectancy. The study concluded that if 3 percent of the population studied were gay or bisexual, the probability of a 20-year-old gay or bisexual man living to 65 years was only 32 percent, compared to 78 percent for men in general. The damaging effects of cigarette smoking pale in comparison.."Leading Causes of Death," CDC News Release, Oct 10, 2001

  • @killchinesekids lol straight up? how does that work?!!?!?

  • @killchinesekids see what  abuse can do to people?

    one in three teen suicides is gay related.

    DONT DO THAT kids!

  • @jpiroden Christianity has become a terrorist organization that needs to be stopped altogether. churches are tax free, which means SOCIETY ( gays included) fund them no matter how directly or not, RELIGION is a CHOICE and a PRIVILEGE not a a RIGHT

  • awh im sorry sweetie that happen to you. i know how it feels to be used. it sucks balls!!!

  • Great honest video, Brave words. I hope a lot of younger people can see this and benefit from it. Thank you for doing this video!

  • YOU ARE FUCKING HOT!!!!!

  • I'm so sorry you had to go through all that, and I'm so glad you're happier now.

  • That bastard is going to regret using you.

  • I get your gay and thats great for you but it dosen't mean you don't have to wear a shirt...

  • @CitrineVlogging LIES!!.......:p

  • @CitrineVlogging I didn't give it a second thought... interesting that out of the whole video that's the one thing you feel like mentioning.

  • why are all the hot guys gay? äsch, I don't mind.. ^^

  • (*Couch* "Eight years" *Cough*)

    Thank you for making me lolz

  • Great video and an inspiration!! Your right its not easy for everyone and that is sad

  • Stay strong, you are so amazing, and hot :) I actually cried watching this video. Amazing :)

  • people make excuses for everyhing...anxiety? depression? trust issues? please ur a drama fag

  • @MsPooPooUndies Hey no one wants to hear you talk about yourself that way.

  • really sorry! hang in there! It is YOUR life!

  • stay strong it does get better i am 27 gay and out

  • Stay strong my friend:)

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  • @rawritesmateo

    Ciao Bello!

    Matteo (Matthew/Matt) "Amico Mio" though your wonderful upload here is "Getting On" , and I believe that I might have already commented, and I would never likely forget a "Faccia Bella" (Beautiful Face) like yours, it bares repeating! That Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here is enormously proud of you "Ragazzo Bello", and your fantastic upload!

    Con L'Amore de Molti Baci! (With Love And Many Kisses)

    Blaine

  • that's nice that you come out even if just here uhmm not all parents are supportive of their children because they were raised differently stay strong friend =)

  • @cerise333 another thing i forgot I had a friend whom his parents took away his bed computer and ...basically everything also sent a priest to the school so yeah it's normal for religious parents or just very close minded it's hard to break that barrier though

  • @OddGolfWang wow cunt much??? Freak. Great vid thanks 4 sharing :D

  • Oh, shut the hell up. More people have it worse than you do moron.

  • You're one sturdy young guy. You've gotten through a very hard time, and I think a lot of people will be glad you failed to kill yourself. Even today, with a lot better than it was twenty, forty years ago, it was a brave thing for you to make this video. Now, go out there and thrive.

    

  • I HOPE SHE STABS YOU N THE THROAT WHILE YOU ARE SLEEP ONE DAY!

  • @OddGolfWang: STFU u little ignorant bitch! go fall in ditch and die! Even though im straight i still support gays and homos! go away no one gives a shit about ur thoughts! 

  • Thank you for sharing a difficult situation. I'm glad you feel your family is okay with you. This was very moving, I felt sad because of how tough it was & it sounded like you were on your own. That was the toughest feeling to deal with in my teen years. I moved to go to college and life changed a lot for the better. My friends supported me. There were still a few homophobes but studies show they display their fear & hatred because they are repressing their own sexual feelings. We will survive.

  • I really like your video :)

  • Lmfao

  • you're so cute and deserve better :\

  • sigh-its always the hot one's , anyway congrats ,the more people that come out the less homophobic the world will be :)

  • A little dirt and a little out of hand....i was cracking up a lil and ur aunt was spying o.o

  • you're gorgeous :)

  • I can watch this, your voice is like daggers in my ears.

  • this is great.

  • Yep, Cause no one would EVER think that your gay...

  • "he was a little bit older then me by about *cough* eight years"

    xD I loved that part.

  • Thumbs up if you've been through that same shit.

  • Everyone that takes the pee out of gays/lesbians are just people that need to go grow up and get a life. The only thing that is different about them is the fact that they like the same sex as themselves, is that so bad? They are still people just like me and you, and if you don't like seeing or talking to gay people then why watch the video? It must take guts to be able to face everybody and tell them the truth! I give everybody that has 'come out' credit because it mustn't be easy! Thank you f

  • You're so gay :P

  • I didn't want to come out to my school, but some friends i told just told them. I am getting asked 'Are you gay?' and it's just so annoying.

  • are you eating the poo-poo ?

  • @StaraZagoraBulgaria NO THE POO POO IS EATING ME.

  • @rawritsmateo llmmmaaaoooooooooo

  • Your cute!

  • all poofs should be put down.sick perverts

  • @stublue44

    And what's a poof exactly?

  • @codeythesilent oh its really bad hair days of course duhhhh ;) i agree so much we should put down poofs theyre such a fashion disaster.

  • I never got to come out to my parents they died

  • There's been a bunch of replies to my comment that I posted 2 months ago. You all seem to be giving me a bunch of studies conducted by people who sound legitimate. Here are some problems with what you've been sending me: 1. Just because they have a Ph.D in front of their names, that doesn't mean it's a legitimate source. 2. You never present to me how many people were conducted in the studies. 3. You never mention subject qualifications. As you can see, my point about diversity still stands :)

  • man... thats a sad story

  • Another beautiful gay love story:

    Chrolli love story

    You Tube clip with the title:

    Christian & Oliver 04.04.08 English Subtitles Part 45

  • gay is soooo gay

  • @sk8terkid795 I'm straight, but if you really are homophobic, don't post it on a video like this. Twat.

  • thnk you soooo much ur really helping me through this and btw ur really hot

  • listen ur really cute for a guy and me being a girl with a boy friend i should have no say in this , but i think what ur doing is right, everyone who says other wise is wrong. if someone tells you wrong then there just running your life.

    when people do act like this try to act as calm as u can i know its hard but they get worse if u get upset. just talk to someone ^-^ theres many nice people out there who would be willing to listen ,if u want u could message me ill be ur bud :D lol stay awesome

  • i think im about to puke.

  • Thanks for sharing, rock on dude.

  • Ah Ur too dam hott!

  • Excellent video - Thanx for making it for the entire world to see.

  • Homophobics D:

  • Being gay is normal. Just be true to yourself. Love you for you. No one can live your life for you, your beautiful, intelligent and have everything going for you. Be kind to others, always show respect and treat people the way you would want to be treated. Someday you could be the first gay President of the United States.

  • omg 25 girlfriends, you slut! lol jk your hot i'm bi

  • Dude. Put on a shirt. You're making me horny. lol j/k

    Thanx for sharing your great story. I'm really confused about my sexuality right now, seeing how I think neither like a straight or gay guy.. I'm gonna say I'm bi. Anyway. Did your friends actually cry when you came out to them?

  • Dude! i Love you. Youre AMAZING

  • fucking pieces of useless gayshit

    spread all over this world

  • wow k to all the fucking people commenting on this telling this guy to kill himself... shut the fuck up your just jealous cuz of the shit this guys gone through but look and how great he is, he's super cute and super sweet and nice. I'm so sorry for what you went through:( I'm a girl and not gay but I honestly wish I was just to come out to my parents cuz it's a way of gaining self confidence and self esteem. your amazing and jakes a very lucky guy:)

  • k i know im not a boy, but, your really cute and Jake is like EXTREMLY lucky to have you cuz you look so sweet and funy too!! :D for some reason i love your voice... o.O

  • do gay ppl really like dick in their bum?? ow and gross

  • @JrdnSn Lol yes, they do. I am bi so I like boobs, vaginas and dicks. Yeah just to clear that up. There just born that way.

  • @JrdnSn hahahahaha

  • To the comments regarding suicide! I am GAY and I worship GOD, God made us ALL responsible for eachother when he said:YOU MUST LOVE ONE ANOTHER, AS I HAVE LOVED YOU.The families who you are saying that these socalled as you put it SELFISH COWARD GAY suicide victims are hurting,what did those families do to support they're gay offsprings?did they counsel OR support them? NO. Many of them instead BULLIED these young people. GOD IS NOT BLIND AND HE WILL NEVER FORGET. The WICKED WILL BE? punished.

  • Weldone rawritsmateo! I know how you felt mate because I've been through it, for me it was HELL for sure due to the ignorance and the arrogance of the HOMOPHOBES around me. But I had so much FIRE in my belly for them that they were SHOCKED at my strength whilst challenging their oppressive and bullying behaviour towards my sexuality. Many of my family turned against me and spread lies to Neighbours about me.But even If I could change the past, I WOULD NOT.Because their HATE made me STRONG.YES

  • sick person it is

    uncontrolable

    so mentaly ill like hell

  • hey this fag has an beard lol

    almost comic

    but its to sick to be realy funny

  • damn you to every fag on this fucking planet

  • damn piece of shit

    burn in hell

  • the guy in this vid is useless

  • @ snoopobbo

    Ur pathetic, get a life and... Well... Thts it really

  • why would u want to be gay??? thats really disgusting

  • @thefunniestt Dude. Vagina. Enough sad.

    If you didnt get the point, Vagina is REALLY disgusting. IF you dont liek my opinions? Fuck off :)

  • You're very hot!

  • useful video A sad story

  • well...natures normal.natures rules are.there are 2 defferent kinda ppl... men n women.so thats not normal.all living kinds are males n females.now..u cant change..u were born like this.so i dont blame u.i just dont like ppl like this..thats not pure man or woman...pf...a bit confused.but i still think basicly i m sure ppl like u are more clever than some normal ppl..cuz u always have bad n hard times..so u need to think more to get pass throught them.enjoy life..lifes short.cya

  • dontmakememad1990 = a registered violent hater on you tube, pls don't react on any of his comments, For more info contact thestopgayhatelist's channel.

  • @thestopgayhatelist hello there

    o and i like to spam this page

  • @thestopgayhatelist grievous

  • @thestopgayhatelist did you know the imi galil is powerful ?

  • Something tells me his mom could tell before he told her... there's just something about him

  • How can you fail to kill yourself twice? No offence. I'm just wondering.

  • I really like this story. I'm straight, but not narrow. Homosexuals promote diversity, which America definitely needs. I challenge homophobes to give me ONE reason (that isn't religious) on why homosexuality is immoral. Exactly... THERE ISN'T ONE!!! My parents are ultra conservative and they are against me advocating for gay rights. I have gay friends that I would do anything for. My girlfriend is also for gay rights and we have a wonderful relationship. YAY DIVERSITY!!! :D

  • @TheRealJHanson here is one reason .."Although almost all child molesters are male less than 3 percent of men are homosexual yet about a third of all child sex abuse cases involve homosexual men molesting boys -- and in one study, 86% of molesters were homosexual or bisexual," CNSNews.com October 03, 2006

  • @TheRealJHanson heres 2 Abused [male] adolescents, particularly those victimized by males, were up to 7 times more likely to self-identify as gay or bisexual than peers who had not been abused. W.C. Holmes and G.B. Slap, "Sexual Abuse of Boys," JAMA, Dec. 2, 1998, p. 1859.

  • @TheRealJHanson 3rd research finds a direct correlation between child abuse and homosexuality (Macmillan, 1997; Tomeo et al, 2001; Holmes et al, 1998; Doll et al, 1992; Soukup, 1995; Shrier et al, 1988; Dickson; Finkelhor, 1984),

  • @TheRealJHanson 4 • the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy (Spring, 1992), showed that homosexuals are 15 to 35 times more likely to become pedophiles than heterosexuals. It reported that homosexuals abuse an average of 7.5 times more victims (150 victims vs. 20) than do heterosexual pedophiles. No wonder the Boy Scouts disallow gay leaders or scouts. They've dealt with well over 1000 cases of boys being abused by gay scout leaders.

  • @TheRealJHanson First I would like to say you are one of the large swarms of indoctrinated lemmings ruining this once great country.

    Second, as far as you non-religious reasons against homo-sex go:

    1) It's normative sexual praxis spreads disease much more readily than that of heterosexuals (according to the CDC), causes pain and injury to "receiving" partners, and has shown a greater affinity for promiscuity in the form of random sexual encounters virtually unheard of among non-homos.

  • @TheRealJHanson 2) Homosexuality is unnatural.  Consider that the function of teeth is to masticate food. The function of the penis is copulation inside a vagina. What would we say about a person that, instead of using their teeth to chew food, yanked them all out and wore them around his neck on a string? We would say that person was abnormal. And to the extent that something abnormal proves deleterious to one's nature and function, it is immoral. Thus, a fortiori, homosexuality is immoral

  • @djs259 Unnatural? Are you fucking kidding me? Saying that homosexuality is unnatural is definitely a religious argument. You Christians seem to think you know everything about human neurology and thought when really, you're a bible-beating, ignorant asshole. 90% of homosexuals are born that way, but nice try.

  • @TheRealJHanson I want you as a best friend <3

  • @TheRealJHanson There is an argument that being in a homosexual relationship will confuse a child that they are raising....But I think is total bull.

  • All that a kid cares about is parents that love them, all the child will know is, this is the type of relationship their parents have, but they are attracted to their opposite sex if they are strait, or their same sex if they are gay, or both sexes if they are bi. The child might also identify as a different gender than their biological gender, which is transgendered. Furthermore, a certain percentage of folks are born with ambiguous genitalia. So its complex & dynamic.

  • Cough 8 years! Cough faggot! Lol

  • Wow being gay really sucks ass! Lol get it? Seriously tho glad yr mom came around otherwise it would be that much worse

  • omg i feel realy sorry for you my mum didnt mind she didnt say anything mean or bitchy she was just like oh ok how do you know that? x good youtube vid <3 x

  • U have no right to say tht

    In a way, your aloud to express your opinon, I can't force another person to accept something. But u have no right to use ur narrow minded remarks against others as an insult.

    I'm gay and I don't give 2 shiiits what people think of me

    Btw guy who made this, you helped me come out and I'd like to say thankyou

  • if you dont reproduce,

    you have no use

    gay is not the way

    go back t o the fucking closets where you belong

    we dont want gays in our suroudnings, we dont want to know of youre existance

    somme people will kill you for that

    noboddy, exept the fools folowing evolution of the society without an thought love you

    true thinking human beings will never love you for what you have become

  • @dontmakemeMAD1990 Hey asshole go to a site where you're welcomed & stay the fuck out of here. I don't think you want a lot of hatefull comments in your inbox, not only that but we & I mean WE can make you look realy bad on youtube.

  • @catheymatt you can indeed

    but on the other hand, this is just youtube

    an new account is easeley made

  • @catheymatt on the other hand, looking bad, you coud give me an reputation and you coud think i coud care about it, but then.....

    yea, what then....

  • Great story. I'm very conservative, against gay marriage but for different reasons than most. That said I am first and foremost a libertarian, and I'm proud to live in a country were individuals like yourself (in what could in other cultures be a compromising situation) are free to express and be themselves. bravo.

  • @plumaglob.  You're a closet case.

  • YOUR LONGEST RELATIONSHIP IS 9 INCHES

  • @plumaglob ROFL

  • @plumaglob "9, omg

  • @plumaglob K, you definitly an in the closet freak. NOBODY who is secure in their sexuality does what your doing...NOBODY !! Either that or your fat, ugly & have no life Dude, you REALLY need to go swimming or sumthn...GET A HOBBY WEIRDO !

  • @plumaglob faggot

  • your love is 8==============D~~

  • im a girl and i fell in love at 15 also. he used me too. i know exactly how it feels. <3

  • I freakin' love you. ha dont think thats all wierd. its just cause you are so honest and you remind me so so much of my BF Aiden ha just the way he talks and the personality i guess. Anywho im 15 and i have a somewhat similar story of falling for someone. but in my case he passed away. :( but now i got a BF and life is somewhat good. And also what you said about coming out being difficult is really is and i can relate with your story so much it isnt even funny.

  • why do american men they act like this?

  • I'm not sure if you read these comments, but I just want to say that I admire your courage to tell your story. Some in your situation tend to get scared and take their own lives because of the persecution they suffer from family & friends. There's been a lot of that going on lately, homosexuals taking their lives & it makes me so sad inside. Just wanted to tell you to keep your head up and you are amazing.

  • @CChelle21 The reason they commit suicide is because they are cowards. Suicide is a selfish and heartless act. It is like murder, but of oneself(One of maker's creations, you). Real men stand up to criticism, like Martin Luther King HE was a man. He was brave, and even though he was cruelly murdered, remains an idol to all. Anyone who commits suicide deserves no peace or forgiveness. By killing themselves, they effect their family and friends, should that be forgiven? Not at all. God have mercy.

  • @CommissarKozlov My brother committed suicide {he wasn't gay}...and you're right...it does affect the family and friends...I couldn't bring myself to forgive him. You're also right about it being a cowardly way of escaping things...but I don't know. I just get really emotional about these kinds of things.

  • @Snooprobbo Yeah, because straight parents only raise straight kids, right? Fuck you.

  • @TheRealJHanson No, I dont remember saying that. But at least most straight parents teach their kids the right thing. That faggots and their faggot ways are wrong. How in Gods name it is legal in some parts of the world for two faggots to buy/adopt an innocent child, and then teach that innocent child that homosexuality is ok, is beyond me. Its fucking sick.

  • @Snooprobbo

    What the hell does it matter who the kid goes to? There's so many children that need homes, and going to two gay guys is better than going to no one at all. You are born with an orientation, it cannot be influenced.

    If two straight people can raise a gay child, then two gay people can raise a straight child. Simple as that.

  • @Zannyface If you think it is ok to give two faggots an innocent baby, and let them faggots teach that baby that fucking other men in the ass is ok, then you are part of the problem. You are as fucking sick as the queers. Its not fucking right and you know it. Every child needs a mother, and faggots should understand that, and say "No, this child needs a mother and father, that way they will have a better quality of life". No just act selfishly to fulfill their own desires.

  • @Snooprobbo Your corrupted and conservative mind is the cancer that is killing this world. You fail to realize that almost all gay people are raised by straight parents. Also, according to Juan Cole from the Global Americana Institute in 2010, 89% of children who are raised by gay parents turn out to be straight.

  • @TheRealJHanson which would mean theres no difference in statistics.

    what about statistics on single parent children..

    JUST BAN RELIGION WORLD WIDE

    CASE CLOSED

  • I just have to say, I love you and I wish you happiness in your life.