@raincheck777 If he has gone down that path I am afraid he will not change. Even almighty allah will not be able to bring him back. My husband was still at it. Its called addiction. These men actually are not fit to be married you will only suffer.
It is true webcam sex, porn and facebook in UNited States is ending marriages. For one year I was married to my husband who is a muslim convert,my husband would always sit with his laptop everyday in a way I could not see.After one year I saw his cell there are so many women hes talking to,texting , emailing, with videos of different women.I am in Nikah and I found this link hoping Inshahallah Allah it will shows him light.Please pray for us and him that Allah purifies his heart and mind.
@ParkourCairo No. Zina is when you have sex without being married. Kissing or making out is still sinful, as shaitan will use it to eventually lead to zina.
Dont follow the steps leading to zina. Keep a fast if you have a desire.
i was about to commit zina. But the girl refused so i stopped and zina did not occur. This happened when I was 18. Now I am 24 years and I repent it a lot. Do I hold the crime of Zina even though it did not occur. I ask this because my intention was to do Zina and all deeds are based on intention.
@ritscse Im not sure but i do know that if you have the intention to do a bad deed and you do not commit it, your angel records it as a good deed. If you would have acted upon your intention it would have been recorded as a bad deed, and zina is surely of the major sins.
@ritscse Isn't there a Hadith that says that the Prophet SAW said, Allah Tala says that if a person wants to commit a sin (has the intension of committing a sin), Allah Tala does not count it as a sin unless he actually goes ahead and does it. But if a person has the intension of doing a good deed, Allah Tala gives him a good deed and when the person actually does the good thing, Allah Tala gives him as many good deeds as He likes.
@ritscse Be glad that Allah Tala saved you from actually doing it, InshAllah He'll forgive you if you truly repent and never go back on your repentance. The one who repents is forgiven his sins because Allah Tala's Mercy is bigger than all our sins and He is Raheem and Kareem, InshAllah He will forgive us everything if we are honest and sincere. Never put yourself in such a situation again that you feel tempted and ask Allah Tala for forgiveness in the middle of the night, He's Allforgiving.
@Kharia33 well i had the same question before i started watching this and i know the answer after completion of the video. He said that zina is performed by the eyes, the tongue, the hands and your private part. i guess porn fits in the eyes. furthermore if you would like to think of it logically, take everything sheikh shady says and apply it to porn. would you accept for the woman in the vid to be your daughter, mother, aunt or sister... allah yi7fad. of course not.
also i figured that porn is triggered through movies, video clips, advertisements, or just on the street when you perv on a girl that is improperly dressed (ALL MEN PERV IF THEY DON'T RESTRICT THEMSELVES FROM IT) and women these days are ALWAYS improperly dressed. so after you see even the slightest hint of anything sexual you go back fly to porn because believe it or not, porn sickens you to do so and that's why it exists in the first place. The devils power is SEX and EVIL. so don't be fooled!
@Kharia33 Watching porn is DEFINITLEY HARAM (forbidden) and a sin. Don't know if it is like zina but if we go by what the Shaykh said in the video, you'll be watching zina with your eyes ina way if you're watching it. But if it actually zina in the narrow way, I don't know.
@shehed11 So is playing lottery and gambling haram but many still do it. Porn drives a man to want to act out his fantasies and copy what he sees. Men usually end up watching porn and then want to act it out on women they are not married to.
As a wife and mother I really think adultery is the main cause of marriage break ups and family being ripped apart. It is so important that Muslims realise if we follow the western way of life we will destroy our faith and future. No amount of temptation or lust should ever come between him and his god. God protects those who is loyal and obedient towards him.
@ThaiSamuraiK1. Salaam, in Islam we dont go through the "dating" phase as people do in other religions We are supposed to get to know the person while we are married to them, not before. It is not permissable for an unrelated man and women to be alone together as this leads to other haram things. WaSalaam
This wonderful sheikh has made a wonderful point. The day of judgement is coming when zina and ignorance is a with spread. And just look around. Especially in Holland and probably some other contries. Zina is the normalst thing any one can do. hardly everyone is thinking that This is not haram any more its socalled Love between two person.
Man this is saaaad and hard to watch! the world is going to end!
whats the point man i dont get it, islam might seem peaceful its all about nice to one another, and helping out orphans and giving to charity. theres some verses in the quran i can relate to but its like i read a hadith where a guy bore witness 4 times against himself that he committed adultery, and this guy is so honest to approach such a noble guy who is supposed to be as forgiving as god is apparently since he's appointed by him,and he just stones him, give the sinner a chance man fuck
I thought allah is powerfull but why he has to command people to punish those sinner? why not by himself?..... Jesus Christ is the only way . he gives you life... not death .... he gives you unconditional forgiveness.... even the last minutre of the life of a sinner can be forgiven... because Jesus Christ wants all his sheeps to be found not to be punished..
@aparach a person committed 99 murders and he asked for help to set himself on the right path. on his way before he could reach the mosque he kills 1 more person, he still keeps on walking towards the mosque.
ON HIS WAY HE DIED.
BEFORE HIS SOUL COULD REACH HELLFIRE, THE HEAVEN ANGLES ARE INSTRUCTED TO CARRY HIS SOUL TO HEAVEN HELPED BY THE HELL ANGLES.
this happened because before he died he made the decision to walk towards the right path to become a good man. THIS IS HOW MERCIFUL ALLAH IS.
O you who believe! do not take Jews and Christians for friends: they are friends of each other: and whoever amongst you takes them for a friend, then surely he is one of them:surely Allah does not guide the unjust people.
@HamedTD thats old testament you moron.. you have that in quran also... heres the new testament.. a guy can devorse his wife.. but if he wants to marry another woman thats adultery.... as you can see here marrying another woman after your wife is adultery(unless your wife is dead).. what more when your prophet mohammed marrying more wives? thats adultery but since it was your holy man you take it as valid...
@aparach ha got you- thats exaclty what i wanted you to say- why has the bible been changed- was it due to not being exceptable or viable for the new generations to read so they invented a new testoment- i'vee been doing a lot of research on christianity to get the level of innocence from it and man never mind peodofile 90 year old joseph vs 12 year old mary- i also found perverts and king solomon taking about his wifes vagina tasting of wine.
@HamedTD islam exist 300 years after Jesus Christ death.. you can see here, whos trying to steal and change the context of the holy book.. and you want all jews to be wipe out because they are dogs and pigs? Jews are the real hebrew in this world not you muslims... we christian follows the God's word from Jesus Christ teachings... so look whos trying to change the context....
@aparach who said all jews need to be wiped out- i have many jewish friends you asshole- the only jews i hate is the zionists or the illuminati- the same people that control 80% of american today yes they were resposible for MJs death- if you hate muslims so much then what the hell are you doing here critisizing another religion when you should be practicing your own.
@HamedTD If you want to put to death those who commit adultery heres for you.. you can throw stones if your free from sin... but dont be so arrogant that muslims are not sinners?
@aparach thats the thing mate a lot of muslims are not following islam at all and getting the rest of us fucked for it. but what your doing isn't right either- your critising another religion and acting acting as if christian are innocent when they are responsible a 100 time more deaths than any oither religion.hitler was a christian- the slave trade- total slaughter of millions of native americans, south america australia newzealand, crusades horroshima nagasaki kosovo and many more.
@aparach, the story your alluding to (John 8:1-11) has been agreed upon by NT scholars as a fabrication as the majoirty of manuscripts & minuscules do not have this story. Even it was true, Jesus went against the law by letting the adulterer free when she should've been stoned (Leviticus 20:10). Just 1 of many proofs your not following Jesus' original teachings. Moreover, it's not the word of God & this is confirmed if you open up 1 Corinthians 7:25, 7:12 & 2 Corinthians 11:17.
@HamedTD if that is so! why islam punished those who commit adultery to death? sometime islam is confusing. i thouth murderer must be put to death?even adultery. then you said allah is merciful? come on muslims dont try to cover up the real islam.
ok, i'll tell you something- read the quran in english text and get your own idea- find out about it yourself- there's a lot to read but you can always rea the first page or 2.
1 or 2 pages can't tell you a lot but at least you can make real interpretation and in your mind that piece of information will be a 100% percent the truth. read it with an open mind, don't have a biased heart when reading- it'll take you 5-10 minutes to read 2 pages.
@HamedTD if you really think of that way.. keep it for your own faith.. tell it to your muslim brothers... but dont let me drink of that poisonous wine...
@aparach wow, you really do hate us- ive just realised, i don't blame you because it shows how much people have messed our religion up by doing stupid things- but at least the quran hasn't changed- i can count on that if ever i want guidance.
@raincheck777 If he has gone down that path I am afraid he will not change. Even almighty allah will not be able to bring him back. My husband was still at it. Its called addiction. These men actually are not fit to be married you will only suffer.
HelloKitty281202 3 months ago
It is true webcam sex, porn and facebook in UNited States is ending marriages. For one year I was married to my husband who is a muslim convert,my husband would always sit with his laptop everyday in a way I could not see.After one year I saw his cell there are so many women hes talking to,texting , emailing, with videos of different women.I am in Nikah and I found this link hoping Inshahallah Allah it will shows him light.Please pray for us and him that Allah purifies his heart and mind.
raincheck777 4 months ago
is kissing or making out considered as zina(adultery)
ParkourCairo 5 months ago
@ParkourCairo I would imagine so.. if you are instructed to lower gaze how does this allow 'making out' lol?
youheard03 5 months ago
@ParkourCairo yes i think so ,but not sure
dragon261100 3 months ago
@ParkourCairo No. Zina is when you have sex without being married. Kissing or making out is still sinful, as shaitan will use it to eventually lead to zina.
Dont follow the steps leading to zina. Keep a fast if you have a desire.
nabeelmerchant 1 month ago
i was about to commit zina. But the girl refused so i stopped and zina did not occur. This happened when I was 18. Now I am 24 years and I repent it a lot. Do I hold the crime of Zina even though it did not occur. I ask this because my intention was to do Zina and all deeds are based on intention.
ritscse 8 months ago
@ritscse Im not sure but i do know that if you have the intention to do a bad deed and you do not commit it, your angel records it as a good deed. If you would have acted upon your intention it would have been recorded as a bad deed, and zina is surely of the major sins.
Thatclutchkid 7 months ago
@ritscse Isn't there a Hadith that says that the Prophet SAW said, Allah Tala says that if a person wants to commit a sin (has the intension of committing a sin), Allah Tala does not count it as a sin unless he actually goes ahead and does it. But if a person has the intension of doing a good deed, Allah Tala gives him a good deed and when the person actually does the good thing, Allah Tala gives him as many good deeds as He likes.
shehed11 5 months ago
@ritscse Be glad that Allah Tala saved you from actually doing it, InshAllah He'll forgive you if you truly repent and never go back on your repentance. The one who repents is forgiven his sins because Allah Tala's Mercy is bigger than all our sins and He is Raheem and Kareem, InshAllah He will forgive us everything if we are honest and sincere. Never put yourself in such a situation again that you feel tempted and ask Allah Tala for forgiveness in the middle of the night, He's Allforgiving.
shehed11 5 months ago
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TheOmidzadran 8 months ago
is it haram to watch porn ?
is it like zina ??
Kharia33 11 months ago
@Kharia33 I think porn is awesome
LittleQueenTudor 11 months ago
@Kharia33 well i had the same question before i started watching this and i know the answer after completion of the video. He said that zina is performed by the eyes, the tongue, the hands and your private part. i guess porn fits in the eyes. furthermore if you would like to think of it logically, take everything sheikh shady says and apply it to porn. would you accept for the woman in the vid to be your daughter, mother, aunt or sister... allah yi7fad. of course not.
hussamGURU 11 months ago 4
@hussamGURU you contradicts everything this imam says , please get knowledege before suggesting absurd theories
bads482 2 months ago
also i figured that porn is triggered through movies, video clips, advertisements, or just on the street when you perv on a girl that is improperly dressed (ALL MEN PERV IF THEY DON'T RESTRICT THEMSELVES FROM IT) and women these days are ALWAYS improperly dressed. so after you see even the slightest hint of anything sexual you go back fly to porn because believe it or not, porn sickens you to do so and that's why it exists in the first place. The devils power is SEX and EVIL. so don't be fooled!
hussamGURU 11 months ago 7
@Kharia33 Watching porn is DEFINITLEY HARAM (forbidden) and a sin. Don't know if it is like zina but if we go by what the Shaykh said in the video, you'll be watching zina with your eyes ina way if you're watching it. But if it actually zina in the narrow way, I don't know.
shehed11 5 months ago
@shehed11 So is playing lottery and gambling haram but many still do it. Porn drives a man to want to act out his fantasies and copy what he sees. Men usually end up watching porn and then want to act it out on women they are not married to.
HelloKitty281202 3 months ago
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As a wife and mother I really think adultery is the main cause of marriage break ups and family being ripped apart. It is so important that Muslims realise if we follow the western way of life we will destroy our faith and future. No amount of temptation or lust should ever come between him and his god. God protects those who is loyal and obedient towards him.
786junaki 1 year ago 3
@ThaiSamuraiK1. Salaam, in Islam we dont go through the "dating" phase as people do in other religions We are supposed to get to know the person while we are married to them, not before. It is not permissable for an unrelated man and women to be alone together as this leads to other haram things. WaSalaam
aleemah0salaam 1 year ago
we christian/jews busy civilizing the world while you muslim busy terrorizing the world...
aparach 1 year ago
This wonderful sheikh has made a wonderful point. The day of judgement is coming when zina and ignorance is a with spread. And just look around. Especially in Holland and probably some other contries. Zina is the normalst thing any one can do. hardly everyone is thinking that This is not haram any more its socalled Love between two person.
Man this is saaaad and hard to watch! the world is going to end!
May allah please help us
Allahoe akbar
ikhehe 1 year ago
Subhan-Allah,Very important reminder for us.
Please please watch it from 15:20 min.
May Allah protect us all,Ameen.
turn2truth 1 year ago 2
whats the point man i dont get it, islam might seem peaceful its all about nice to one another, and helping out orphans and giving to charity. theres some verses in the quran i can relate to but its like i read a hadith where a guy bore witness 4 times against himself that he committed adultery, and this guy is so honest to approach such a noble guy who is supposed to be as forgiving as god is apparently since he's appointed by him,and he just stones him, give the sinner a chance man fuck
sheptropremix 1 year ago
I thought allah is powerfull but why he has to command people to punish those sinner? why not by himself?..... Jesus Christ is the only way . he gives you life... not death .... he gives you unconditional forgiveness.... even the last minutre of the life of a sinner can be forgiven... because Jesus Christ wants all his sheeps to be found not to be punished..
aparach 1 year ago
@aparach a person committed 99 murders and he asked for help to set himself on the right path. on his way before he could reach the mosque he kills 1 more person, he still keeps on walking towards the mosque.
ON HIS WAY HE DIED.
BEFORE HIS SOUL COULD REACH HELLFIRE, THE HEAVEN ANGLES ARE INSTRUCTED TO CARRY HIS SOUL TO HEAVEN HELPED BY THE HELL ANGLES.
this happened because before he died he made the decision to walk towards the right path to become a good man. THIS IS HOW MERCIFUL ALLAH IS.
HamedTD 1 year ago
@HamedTD howd you know his on heaven?
aparach 1 year ago
islam is not a friend of any religious because of your teachings...
Quran Sakit 5:51
O you who believe! do not take Jews and Christians for friends: they are friends of each other: and whoever amongst you takes them for a friend, then surely he is one of them:surely Allah does not guide the unjust people.
aparach 1 year ago
@aparach In Exodus 21:10, a man can marry an infinite amount of women without any limits to how many he can marry.
In 2 Samuel 5:13; 1 Chronicles 3:1-9, 14:3, King David had six wives and numerous concubines.
In 1 Kings 11:3, King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.
In 2 Chronicles 11:21, King Solomon's son Rehoboam had 18 wives and 60 concubines.
adultery with another man's wife--both the adulterer and the adulteress must be put to death. (From the NIV Bible, Leviticus 20:10)
HamedTD 1 year ago
@HamedTD thats old testament you moron.. you have that in quran also... heres the new testament.. a guy can devorse his wife.. but if he wants to marry another woman thats adultery.... as you can see here marrying another woman after your wife is adultery(unless your wife is dead).. what more when your prophet mohammed marrying more wives? thats adultery but since it was your holy man you take it as valid...
aparach 1 year ago
@aparach ha got you- thats exaclty what i wanted you to say- why has the bible been changed- was it due to not being exceptable or viable for the new generations to read so they invented a new testoment- i'vee been doing a lot of research on christianity to get the level of innocence from it and man never mind peodofile 90 year old joseph vs 12 year old mary- i also found perverts and king solomon taking about his wifes vagina tasting of wine.
HamedTD 1 year ago
@HamedTD islam exist 300 years after Jesus Christ death.. you can see here, whos trying to steal and change the context of the holy book.. and you want all jews to be wipe out because they are dogs and pigs? Jews are the real hebrew in this world not you muslims... we christian follows the God's word from Jesus Christ teachings... so look whos trying to change the context....
aparach 1 year ago
@aparach who said all jews need to be wiped out- i have many jewish friends you asshole- the only jews i hate is the zionists or the illuminati- the same people that control 80% of american today yes they were resposible for MJs death- if you hate muslims so much then what the hell are you doing here critisizing another religion when you should be practicing your own.
HamedTD 1 year ago 3
@HamedTD If you want to put to death those who commit adultery heres for you.. you can throw stones if your free from sin... but dont be so arrogant that muslims are not sinners?
aparach 1 year ago
@aparach thats the thing mate a lot of muslims are not following islam at all and getting the rest of us fucked for it. but what your doing isn't right either- your critising another religion and acting acting as if christian are innocent when they are responsible a 100 time more deaths than any oither religion.hitler was a christian- the slave trade- total slaughter of millions of native americans, south america australia newzealand, crusades horroshima nagasaki kosovo and many more.
HamedTD 1 year ago
@aparach, the story your alluding to (John 8:1-11) has been agreed upon by NT scholars as a fabrication as the majoirty of manuscripts & minuscules do not have this story. Even it was true, Jesus went against the law by letting the adulterer free when she should've been stoned (Leviticus 20:10). Just 1 of many proofs your not following Jesus' original teachings. Moreover, it's not the word of God & this is confirmed if you open up 1 Corinthians 7:25, 7:12 & 2 Corinthians 11:17.
itcrowdfan92 1 year ago
@aparach thats how the story goes
HamedTD 1 year ago
@HamedTD if that is so! why islam punished those who commit adultery to death? sometime islam is confusing. i thouth murderer must be put to death?even adultery. then you said allah is merciful? come on muslims dont try to cover up the real islam.
aparach 1 year ago
@aparach thats culture not religion-
ok, i'll tell you something- read the quran in english text and get your own idea- find out about it yourself- there's a lot to read but you can always rea the first page or 2.
1 or 2 pages can't tell you a lot but at least you can make real interpretation and in your mind that piece of information will be a 100% percent the truth. read it with an open mind, don't have a biased heart when reading- it'll take you 5-10 minutes to read 2 pages.
peace.
HamedTD 1 year ago
@HamedTD if you really think of that way.. keep it for your own faith.. tell it to your muslim brothers... but dont let me drink of that poisonous wine...
aparach 1 year ago
@aparach wow, you really do hate us- ive just realised, i don't blame you because it shows how much people have messed our religion up by doing stupid things- but at least the quran hasn't changed- i can count on that if ever i want guidance.
HamedTD 1 year ago
May Allah(swt) protect us all from this most disgusting act. Ameen
fbeg84 1 year ago
@fbeg84
Ameeen!!
SIKM4N 1 year ago
@SIKM4N Jazakallah for watching,brother.
turn2truth 1 year ago
jazkallah 4 sharing dis knowlege!
ilovemaself17 1 year ago 3
Zazakullah for uploading this video
ahmedas786 1 year ago
Zazakullah for uploading this video
ahmedas786 1 year ago
thanks brothers for the knowledge
yahyaalsaidi 1 year ago