Break Up Confusion - Does she really want to break up?

[ellern13]

I think she is scared!!! but great question I say go for it but thats me!

[adt27623]

I don't think these guys are serious.. u r jokes are not funny... you sicko.. guess this guy is only interested in the pizza...

[sweetpelon]

She just wants him to do the dirty work.

[pucketf]

Might have been decent but seriously, get to the point! To much blab! And if the pizza comes within the first two minutes, just do it over, geez.

[TheShadyPenguin]

grow some hair and get to the point faggot

[BlumberBerry]

get to the goddam point. why did you actually start discussing about what the hell the video was about 2 min into the video.

thanks a lot, i could have been watching the simpsons during that time

douchebag

[jinsherpa]

fag gay and dough bag

[nitro64876]

I'm in a situation similar to this right now. I've recently started dating someone who was previously in another strange relationship that didn't go anywhere. The guy never committed to her. Then we started dating and things were good... until the other guy got uber jealous and tried to pull her back. Now she just wants to be alone for bit. As hard as it is to be away from her, I respect her needs and will be patiently waiting for her. I know it's a risk, but I have faith.

[quark1010]

great ur doing good

[suzzannesey]

too boring.......get to the point and stop your dry jokes...not funny

[TH3CHANN3L]

u guys suck u guys laugh to much get to the fucking point

[ursaucie]

Didn't have time to watch the video but just wanted to respond to the question. She is definately needing reassurance from you. She needs to know that you want her and that you don't want anyone else or you wouldn't be there. But, you should simply just ask her but more important keep reassuring her. Good Luck!!

[mohamadalikazi]

Hey Dan, why do you take soooo long to read something simple? Gf, girlfriend, grammer, spelling dont matter man!!! Just get straight to the point and talk about the question.

With due respect, I dont watch your videos to listen to your never ending unhumorous jokes and unrelated comments.... I watch it cuz I want to know more about the damn question.

Either get straight to the point or learn to be actually funny, not a clown.

I hope you take this comment constructively.

[jihanskate]

they took almost 3 minutes to get to the point

yeah i think so too

they should get to the point

[Walican132]

You picked out the mod odd does she w ant to break up story, and one that i personally couldnt relate to but thank you for the advise any way.

[HugeousErectus]

I love the way Jennifer holds onto her patience while Dan reads, chuckles and clowns his way through the topic.

Jenn reminds me of my fiance and I RESPECT the both of them !

[squashballer]

There is a thing or two to consider

she could be saying that to get him to maybe step up and do something to prove her or something

Or she is trying to brush him off because she wants him to just walk away because she may have a connection with the ex

[TBVnBIX]

here is a coment for you: FUCK OFF

[me100200300]

I imagine the girl is just fishing for more compliments. Or shes feeling down cuz of the divorce and everything and just needs some reassurance.

[deLaughing1]

Seems like this dude is even more confused that the "GF"...perhaps it would be better for all parties just to cool it until the divorce situation concludes itself. There's a child involved, so be sure to reflect on that as well.

[askmisscris]

I'm not sure that I agree with you all.... but on some aspects I do. It sounds like she has a lowered self esteem (not from her childhood, from a bad marriage!) and a lowered confidence in keeping a relationship together.

No, that behavior harms the relationship because it causes a negative vibe. He will eventually get tired of her droning on and will not want to be around her which only solidifies her statements.

One hyphenated word: self-handicapping. Social Psychology ftw.

[EuroInvicta]

I agree with the expert back there, it's his call, really. He should decide what kind of a ride he's up for, how much he really cares for her, his decision will determine the relationship's fate. Maybe he really is too good for her? He should think long and hard about it, and come up with a time table and escape route just in case...

[blossomingrosesophie]

I don't agree, I think yous should talk to her and ask her and I reckon she doesn't actually want to break up, and she will have to say that. I think she may be fishing for compliment and reassurance that you really do like her, because like they say in this video she may have low self esteem and needs to know that she can count on you.

[edmondov]

Nice tits Jen.

[mrdarkknight]

lol thats what i thought, they're looking good in that vid.

sorry dan

[assanater601]

Real mature. She seems to me like a very educated woman and in a very happy marriage. These two help couples out there everyday. Hell, I'm not scared to admit it. They helped me out a couple times, relationship wise and sexually. So keep those immature comments to ourselves, ok?

[edmondov]

I'm sure she is more open minded than you and actually takes it as a complement. The desire for fine boobs is masculine. It is just that most men are not honest enough to admit their true feelings towards fine boobs.

[assanater601]

I didn't say that I don't, but you just bluntly go up and say that to a woman, even if it is online or not. Would you do it in person? I think not.

[edmondov]

Someone has difficulty distinguishing real life and the internet.

[SexMan856]

would you plz make a video about my threads on YouTube. the one about the dick nibbling and sum other thing. i still hav the same account nme as my YouTube one, its sexman856

[NabilRU]

Would you please make sense.

[MrTlTO]

I would say move on. Besides she already has a child.

(its not yours)

[ImmortalBlondSpirit]

I think you should just get right with her ... tell her that's annoying and that she totaly desrves you... show her your self-doubths and that you're not perfect too so you could just be happy and stop with the blah-blah talk ... Sometimes things are just in front of our eyes but we just wouldn't pay attention ... ;) Be honest and direct ... show her your love... but tell her your problem ...

[Onwa06]

She has a very low self-esteem.

And with the situation she is going throw, it is more likely that it's making it worse for her. She doesn't feel sexy, beautiful, or pretty.

He needs to be very patient with her, and say nice things to her. Maybe randomly give her flowers?

Just a thought. :)

[zeusbark]

The same thing happened with my ex-fiance. It´s not that she wanted to break up with me, but she had low self-esteem and was afraid that I would abandon her. She ended up pushing me away and we broke up ;(

[angelatheartmari]

I am kind of going through the same thing, my fiancee of almost 4 years now says the same thing; in one breath he will say "you are too good for me," and then in the next breath he will say "but we do fit together and I do want to be with you forever." First of all (not to be consided just self confident) but I am too good for him, but if I didn't want to be with him why have we been together for almost 5 years? Sometimes it is just low self-esteem of which I can tell he has very little.

[neskid26]

she has low-self esteem and "you don't deserve me" is bullcrap, if she does wanna break she should just tell you and not hide it. she sounds like a coward.

[Synbios459]

From my experience when a girl says things like that it means she cheated and feels guilty.

[BerkleyJL]

I want some pizza! Next time order enough to share...

[Ji99i3]

i only wish u guys were a little more professional - but i guess its just how u guys are, and i cant disagree with that

[itsacatch22]

I guess it's their style, though it can be a little annoying, it doesn't stop me watching their videos.

[killerb144]

It seems like she could be fishing for compliments, honestly.

[GoreCartoons]

Another good video as always, but felt it took a little too long to get into the question :)

[jerah197]

yeah completely agree with that

[DanAndJenn]

thanks for the great feedback! We're actually seriously working on that with our next batch of videos - stay tuned, I think you'll really appreciate the direction we're going in. -- Dan

[hermesshifagof]

Its much better to have dan and jenn as people who can give advises on relationships. This is one of the most complicated things in our lifes.

[AbbieJolie]

There's nothing like Divorce to enhance and encourage low self esteem. That may be all this is. Perhaps this man can be good for her self esteem. I recommend a Fisher Divorce Recovery Seminar for her.